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Open Question: I HAD A SONOGRAM AT 5 WEEKS 4 DAYS PREGNANT AND WAS TOLD BY THE DOCTOR THAT THERE WAS TWO SACS OBSERVED BUT?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:25:54 GMT)
NOTHING INSIDE THE SAC. HOWEVER SHE DIAGNOSED ME AS HAVING TWINS. SHOULD I BE WORRIED THAT NOTHING WAS INSIDE OF THE SAC.
DO YOU THINK HER DIAGNOSIS IS ACCURATE REGARDING ME HAVING TWINS.
I AM SCHEDULED TO HAVE A SECOND SONOGRAM ON THE 13 OF THIS MONTH WHICH WILL MAKE ME 8 WEEKS. SHOULD I BE WORRIED RIGHT NOW IN REGARDS TO NOT SEEING ANYTHING INSIDE THE SAC.
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Open Question: period like cramping, 13 weeks pregnant?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:01:23 GMT)
I'm 13 weeks pregnant and i'm having period like pains (cramping) theres no pain in my lower back, just in my lower abdomen, they come and go and they slowly intensify (just like contractions) this is my 3rd pregnancy. My first was carried to full term and my 2nd was a miscarriage at 4 weeks (in August 2008).
I haven't had any cramping until now.
I'm curious to know if uterine stretching pain is similar to period pain?
Also, my fundal height is measuring at 17 weeks. I had an ultrasound at 5 weeks to confirm dates etc but i have another ultrasound (for down symdrome and neural tube defects) in 2 days time and they are also going to check my dates again because my uterus is so large for 13 weeks.
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Open Question: i'm begining to think that i made a mistakee PLEASE READ!?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 03:05:45 GMT)
I'm pregnant and i've began setting up the babys room, well it's in my room part my room part the babyss. i have a hugeee room.. I COULDA let the baby have her own room, but i just felt more comfertable knowing i was right there. + i didn't want my Mom going in the babys room every 5 mins waking her upp.. it's my mother's 1st grandchild and she's worried i'm gonna do somthing wrong cause i'm 17. although i've been taking child saftly classes and birthing classes sence i was 13 weeks!
But anyways, i began setting up the babies room and now i'm beging to think that i choose the wrong color.
i did it a light green and yellow.
like pastel..
is that ugly?
&& also, her name is Payton-Lynn Hunter.
i kinda regret the name payton.. but i already had my baby shower and her names on everything..
do you think that paytons a dumb namee?
it was either Payton, Charline,Shaylee, Riley,or Westly.
Which one would you have choose and what colors?
Yeahh, understandable. i can understand where your comming from. but i'd prob. move the baby into her own room when she's about 6 or so months.
sence i painted my room i'll prob. just move into the extra room.
but i'm just worrried you know. i'm a teen mother.. it's my 1st child.. & i have to be the one that gets up every couple of hours.. occationally my Mom or sister might, but it's my responsability, & i feel like by taking 2 rooms.. that's selfish sence this babys minee. i SHOULD have my own house before i have kids, but that didn't work outt..
i feel bad cause my Mom wouldn't have an office anymore.. that had alot to do with it too..
Thanks great answers guys!
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Open Question: BABY NAME GAME!!! 20 characters?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:16:12 GMT)
1. Your 17 and you have a baby with your boyfriend. Your baby comes in april, it's a beutiful baby boy. With brown hair, fair skin, and hazel eyes. You wanted his name to have something to do with your boyfriend <James Christopher> but not exactly.
2. You continue to the same college in Boston as your boyfriend. Post graduating you get married and shortly after realize your pregnant. On a buisness trip in paris, your children are born. 2 twin girl and boy, one with honey blonde hair, medium skin and indigo eyes, the other identical.
3. Your husband graduates med school and gets a job as a doctor, you now have a house <your kids are 11, 5, and 5) You decide to have another child, you get fertillity and have quadruplets. You want them all to have the same initials. 3 boys and 1 girl. The first 2 boys have blonde hair and blue eyes, the second has curly brown hair and brown eyes. The girl has black hair and topaz eyes.
4. Your husband gets promoted, so you quit work to stay home with your growing family. then your 14 year-old daughter comes to you with news that she's PREGNANT. Coincidentlly, your pregnant at the same time. After, talking it through with your daughter, the baby daddy, and his parents, you decide, that you will keep the baby because both families are doctors and financially able, under the impression that the two will raise the kids together. <btw, your daughters boyfriend is your neighbor>. Your daughter has a boy with blonde hair and blue eyes. You have a girl with beautiful purple eyes, fair skin, and jet black hair. Names?
5. Your children are now 16, 10, 10 and 2. Your grandson dies, with extreme sadness your daughter says she wants to marry the baby daddy, you agree, if the wedding is when they are both 17 or 18 and they promise to both go to college. Overjoyed with that information, your daughter gets pregnant again but with a girl. The two get married and you and your husband adopt twin girls from Australia. Your daughter wants the name of her son to have the same initials as her first. Your twins mother wanted the babies to be named after your family.
6. Now your children are 21<the 21 year old is happily married and just graduated from and going to lawschool>, 15, 15, 4, 2 and 2. Your son tells you he is going to be a father <15 year old son> upset <like the 1st 2 times> and the girl was kicked out, you feel obligated to let her in to the house. After meeting her more thoroughly she feels more like family. The baby is born when they are 16, you keep it. After they live together for 2 years they get married. They both go to a 4 year college near by and live in the house.
7. now that your children are 30, 24, 24, 13, 11, and 11, your youngest dies of cancer. and your oldest has a child and names it a similar name. The baby is born on the day of your child's funeral, so it was an uneasy day. Your 24 year-olds are both married with children.
8. After stressing to your daughter not to have sex, at the age of 19, while in an ivy-league college she gets pregnant, the baby is born 7 weeks premature and okay. It was a girl on march 3, at 6:17 AM. She wanted a hawaiian name. You and your husband retired very rich, shortly after which he died, so you move near your daughter and her new-arrival. She did not get married to the baby daddy <or possible baby daddies> she finished her degee and got a good paying jobs, and later writes a book called "the house of youth" a fictinal book based on her and her siblings teen parenting experiences, the book was a huge hit, and turned in to a TV show.
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Open Question: Does my height make a diffrence?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 00:57:14 GMT)
Hit there
I am now 13 weeks and 6 days pregnant and since week 11 i have had a bump and i could feel the top of my womb just under my belly button, i was not slim before getting pregnant and for my height was slightly over my recommended weight, i am only 5 ft so was wondering if my height had anything to do with the fact i showed earlier?
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Open Question: i been having the pregnancy symptoms i missed my period for a week now i got my period and is really light?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 00:36:10 GMT)
i had sex with my bf on November29 and i got my period on the 5th of December we had sex on Dec.13,20,23 and it was unprotected now i been having early pregnancy symptoms i been vomiting,dizzy,craving food more than ever and my stomach got blooded a bit from my lower stomach and i missed my period for a week now but i got my period is lighter then ever i regularly get it really heavy can you help me do you think i'm pregnant i'm scared cause i'm 16 and i'm scared 2 tell my parents wat should i do can u respond ASAP!!!!! TANK U
i just want 2 let u guys knw dat u guys been a really big help i talk about it with my mom she said she would help me and my bf ot and she is a big person now if I'm i dnt want 2 lose it cuss my mom was not able 2 have baby's when she was young but she got some treatment so I'm scared i want a baby i wanted 2 wait but i never want 2 lose it if i'm so tank u guys so much i really appreciate it i hope i dnt lose it if i'm well keep leaving your answers i really tank u guys
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Open Question: I was diagnosed w/Bacteria Vaginosis?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:21:53 GMT)
Okay so, i just got home from the doctors office. I am 13 weeks pregnant today and i went to the doctors because i was having some discomfort. I was than diganosed.
I had sex during the week that i had the infection before i got the diagnosis. I was wondering if my husband would be infected as well? and if he would need to be treated.
i dont want to keep getting this. Ive never had it before and it is not fun at all!
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Open Question: Can this be real labor? I'm 37 weeks Pregnant.?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:16:32 GMT)
I'm 37 weeks and my dr is taking the baby at 38 weeks i have 10 days to go...I have already dilated 2 cm and i am having contractions in my lower back every 13 mins. I did the same thing when i had my son.What do u think?
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Open Question: Should I take a pregnancy test?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:27:13 GMT)
So I have been using the Nuvaring for over a year now, and I sometimes skip a period every now and then by leaving it in for a full 28 days before replacing it, with no "out" week. Anyway, this fall my life was insanely busy and stressful, and while I replaced the ring after my period in early November, I apparently forgot to remove or replace the ring after that. As a result, I got my period with the ring in, and it would have had to have been in for moer than 28 days for that to happen. I'm not certain of the exact date of my last period, but I have it narrowed down to 12/10-12/13. I then left town for the holidays while on my period, and only realized when I returned on 12/26 that I had forgotten to put in a new ring, which I did just before bed.
Anyway, long story short, I had unprotected sex the night of the 27th, and just a couple days later I started feeling weird, just a host of random things like hot flashes, waves of nausea or dizziness, constipation, and odd cramping and persistent feeling of bloating in my lower belly and I can't determine if it's gas or something else. Is it possible for me to "feel" pregnant already? Is it too early to take a test?
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Open Question: When did i get pregnant?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:01:38 GMT)
On September 24th i had sex, on October 19, and on October 25.. The doctor said im 13 weeks and 3 days, but i don't get is my period did come, but it stopped to days early, my period is always regular 7 days, long every month... My period was on October 6th so when did i get pregnant, September 24 or October 19?
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Open Question: Pregnant....negative test?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:01:10 GMT)
I know I already asked this question but i didnt get many answers, so here we go
Okay I have to make a long story short....Last period was Sept 17 2008. My cycle is 32 days, and it has been 32 since I had a miscarriage in Jan 07. (I have been keeping track)...Anyhow I was due to start Oct 19th well that has definitely come and gone. I had extremely light spotting the first week of Novenber...reminded me of implantation bleeding that I had with my first pregnancy 1 month before my miscarriage. Well then almost 10 days after I spotted on Nov 13 i started spotting/bleeding and it lasted a little over two weeks. (I didn't even bleed enough to fill a pad...sorry tmi...my normal periods fill 3-4 pads a day)...Well during all this I have had multiple negative tests. I have multiple signs of pregnancy: sore breasts( which have doubled in sze in the last few months), consistent headaches, fatigue, frequent urination, nauseous but no vomiting.....etc. I am going to a free clinic at the end of this week for an ultrasound. Has anyone else gone through what I have....I have had an actual period of over three months...Please give me your input thank you
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Open Question: Should this person get an abortion?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:51:41 GMT)
She is 13. She is 5 weeks pregnant and the pregnancy has already been confirmed by a doctor. The baby is from a "friends with benefits" type of relationship. She knows that the father of the baby doesn't want it, and her family will not welcome a child. She comes from a Christian family where abortion is frowned upon. Is having the baby the right choice, or should she quietly abort?
Is it safe to be having a baby this young? Is there a way to minimize the anger that the parents feel? She is already in therapy from a past incident--alcohol, depression, anxiety related.
The intercourse was protected- the condom broke.
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Open Question: someone help please me!!!!!!!!!?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:49:58 GMT)
okay i made a mistake i had sex with 2 boys and i am 28 weeks pregnant and dont know who the daddy...... i had sex with the first boy on june 11 12 13 and i had sex wit the second boy on june28 29 and july 4.. i had a regular period on june 21 it stop on june 27.. .i am due on march 28 till april 10...i took an pregnancy test on junes 18 and it was negative can anyone tell me which boy is my baby daddy the first or second boy..... PLEASE HELP ME OUT
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Open Question: Emotional and feel i have no help...?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:15:15 GMT)
Hi there
I am 13 weeks and 5 days pregnant and very emotional, my husband went to Canada on tour for 3-4 months yesterday we have only been married for just over a month, my job is very physical and as i only work 6 hours a day i am only allowed a 15 min break, i went to the Dr this morning to see if i could get some help or even someone to help me along, but i feel that what was said was completely the opposite, she may as well told me to pull myself together and stop being so emotional (i cried my eyes out) she also stated least he is not in Afghan or something but to me at the moment that is irrelevant its not where he is its the fact my rock has gone,, i spoke to my manager over the phone (have had 4 days off to re-coupe and relax hasn't worked) i told her i was worried about my job and losing it and she said there was nothing she can do about that fact, she commented on how there is another pregnant lady in my workplace who is having a hard time with her pregnancy and she still manages to go into work fair enough but that lady doesn't do anything physical she just sits around talking to the managers etc all day, whereas from the min i get in i am non stop i feel its very unfair for her to compare me to another lady am i wrong to feel low about that? i know my pregnancy does not help, my blood pressure is high i get very dizzy quickly and very exhausted, and as i am only allowed 15min break that does not even give me time to eat a sandwhich and have a warm drink. i feel i have no support from work or the Dr and i am struggling with my emotions and the pregnancy i feel a failure that i cannot even enjoy my baby at this stage because i am so low. I just don't know what to do, My mum says that i should just go back to work and throw myself into it but my state of mind is not letting me do that and to be fair with the way i am feeling i don't want to i want to relax (find that very hard to do) and nobody seems to understand that.
Can anyone help me? Give me some advice what to do
I have already spoken to my manager about needing longer for my breaks but she said as we get paid for it and the hours i do thats all i am entitled to, if i need a 5 min sit down i am allowed but not anymore time than that.
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Open Question: possibly 15 weeks pregnant...negative test?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:03:29 GMT)
Okay I have to make a long story short....Last period was Sept 17 2008. My cycle is 32 days, and it has been 32 since I had a miscarriage in Jan 07. (I have been keeping track)...Anyhow I was due to start Oct 19th well that has definitely come and gone. I had extremely light spotting the first week of Novenber...reminded me of implantation bleeding that I had with my first pregnancy 1 month before my miscarriage. Well then almost 10 days after I spotted on Nov 13 i started spotting/bleeding and it lasted a little over two weeks. (I didn't even bleed enough to fill a pad...sorry tmi...my normal periods fill 3-4 pads a day)...Well during all this I have had multiple negative tests. I have multiple signs of pregnancy: sore breasts( which have doubled in sze in the last few months), consistent headaches, fatigue, frequent urination, nauseous but no vomiting.....etc. I am going to a free clinic at the end of this week for an ultrasound. Has anyone else gone through what I have....I have had an actual period of over three months...Please give me your input thank you
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Resolved Question: Yet another...could this finally be it?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 19:53:46 GMT)
So I am going to list my signs/syptoms. I am currently 12-13 DPO and I am expecting AF on Thursday this week. Here is what I am experiencing:
On this past Friday, which would have been 8 DPO, so implantation could have occured, I got really nauseated about 3pm and I threw up about three times that night ending at 2 am.
I have been really nauseated every afternoon since then.
My nipples are very tender and the areolas are darker than normal with more goosebumps than normal.
I am hungry, but I can only eat about half of what I normally eat.
I smoke a very small amount, but when I do go to smoke I cannot even smoke a whole cigarette. I get very nauseated.
I am bloated.
I have cramps on and off.
My lower abdomen feels a little tighter, or bigger, or something. Just feels strange.
I am extremely tired. Like since Friday I have am able to go to bed at 10 and sleep til 11 the next morning and then still be tired.
I'm emotional.
So I am wanting to know if this may sound like I could finally be pregnant. This is month number 5 of TTC our first so we have our fingers crossed. As I said, my period hasn't came yet and it is not due til Thursday. What are your thoughts please? Thanks in advance and baby dust to all!!
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Open Question: Zofran and Pregnancy?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 18:29:52 GMT)
I am 10 weeks pregnant and for the past 2 weeks I couldn't even get out of bed without throwing up. Since I haven't been able to keep anything down, I've lost a few pounds and my doctor just prescribed me Ondansetron (the generic of Zofran), I'm currently taking 4 mg of the tablets that dissolve in the mouth 3 times a day. I was wondering if anyone else has taken this drug and how long you had to take it for. I know that most people with severe morning sickness tend to feel better around week 13 so I was just wondering when I should stop taking it.
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Open Question: why dont i feel pregnant anymore?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 18:12:45 GMT)
hello i am 13 weeks pregnant and for 3 weeks i had morning sickness really really bad and heartburn. now i dont feel anything no queasyness no stretching uterus pain what gives? and is it normal? i have a doctors appointment coming up i think i am just being paranoid lol
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Open Question: I am 35 weeks pregnant and have only gained 13 pounds so far.?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 17:20:01 GMT)
I was 150 when I got pregnant and now I am 163. The doctors seem to think the gain is ok, but I just went to an appt and the doc wants me to come in for an ultrasound just to "make sure" the baby is growing properly. She said baby is measuring fine. Should I be worried there is something wrong with my baby?
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Open Question: Implantation bleeding in ultrasound and 9 Weeks and 13 weeks... no spotting. Will I have a miscarriage? ?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 16:56:12 GMT)
So I found out I was pregnant when I went to change my birth control, I thought it was making me sick and I was already 9 weeks pregnant. I had a Sono the same week and they spotted implantation bleeding. However, I have not spotted at all. Today I went for another sono to check for the implantation bleeding. It is still there, I didn't;t get too much info, the pictures still have to be read by the doctor. I have still not spotted. The baby appears to be doing well, moving, heart rate. I am really scared for this did not happen with my daughter. Does this mean I am at an increased risk of miscarriage?
Has anyone experienced this?
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Open Question: Preggo... again?!?!?!?!?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 15:22:07 GMT)
yeah. well my best friend jackie is pregnant. sadly, she's only 13. she cant tell her parents because they spontaneously combusted in a house fire when she was 5. her boyfriend just died in a car crash last week, and he's not the father of the baby. the baby's father lives in canada. it happened about 5 months ago when she went to niagra falls with our friend molly's family. what should she do?
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Open Question: Today I'm going to get my?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 15:02:10 GMT)
second ultra sound done. I'm 12 or 13 weeks pregnant and today they will be looking for signs of down syndrome. I'm so nervous and really scared. I suffer from anxiety and panic attacks and on the verge of having one. It makes it very hard to go out when I have these panic attacks. I was wondering did anyone else go through with any testing while pregnant. Thanks
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Open Question: normal weight gain in pregnancy?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 11:39:46 GMT)
I am 33 weeks pregnant and my doctor gave me my records to keep with me until I deliver. My first appointment at this office was at 13 weeks, so from that first appointment until now I have gained 3 pounds, the nurses nor doctors have said anything about my weight and my baby is growing normally. What is the deal, I was not overweight to begin with so I don't understand what the problem is...I eat like a pig and am by no means a health freak. Any input, or women in the same boat?
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Open Question: Why am I getting stomach cramps?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 05:28:31 GMT)
For the past two days I have been experience period-like cramps but lighter on and off. My period isn't due for for about 12 days. I went off the pill December 13 and had sex once using a condom about 8 days ago. Are the cramps a pregnancy sign? Also I have been dieting for the last week and probably not getting enough fibre and have been slightly constipated, could that be causing the cramps? I'm just hoping I'm not pregnant.
I havnen't had fatigue or nausea or sore breasts.
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Open Question: Anyone stationed at Fort Carson who is pregnant....?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 04:51:00 GMT)
I recently moved here from Michigan October 29th and found out Im 13 weeks pregnant! That's great news but my husband is deploying in three weeks. I was hoping to network with other pregnant spouses and make some friends.
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Open Question: Tips for extreme irritability during pregnancy? Could Zoloft be the answer?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 03:48:02 GMT)
I am 13 1/2 wks. pregnant and have been dealing with EXTREME irritability and moodiness for the last week or so. Actually, probably throughout most of the pregnancy to some degree or another, but it seems to have really come into its own special kind of craziness here recently. (It's actually affecting my behavior with coworkers and customers...not good...) Clearly, this is probably directly related to raging hormones but is a terrible state of (uncontrollable) agitation. Certainly, like nothing I've ever known!
I mentioned this to my ob/gyn and she said she might consider putting me on 25mg. of Zoloft for the remainder of my pregnancy to even me out a little. What are your thoughts on this? Do you know of anyone who has had success with this or any other treatments? I am going to start an exercise program very soon which I am hoping will help.
I definitely feel on the brink of insanity. And like I can only be really nothing but snappy in any given situation. (But don't tell me I'm acting like this or I'll cry.) If I can't stop acting like this I'm going to lose my job!
Any and all thoughts are appreciated. :-)
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Open Question: ANYONE HAVE A PROLASPED CERVIX?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 03:13:41 GMT)
I have just been diagnosed with a prolapsed cervix, i'm 13 weeks pregnant with twins. This is my third pregnancy, the first was a singleton and the second was twins as well. Both were vaginal births. I'm wondering if anyone has went through this, and if so what was the outcome of the pregnancy? Did you deliver vaginally?
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Open Question: I am 13 weeks and still nauseated? Anyone else?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 00:28:36 GMT)
I am pregnant with my fourth and I have had slight nausea, only throwing up maybe two times, same as the other pregnancies. But, with the others it was gone by week 11-12 and I had no problem eating. I am still quite nauseated every night, I can't eat anything, I have no appetite at night, and I have a horrible headache every night. (it makes it hard to cook for the younungs w/o wanting to throw up) Well no appetite all day really, but during the day I can make myself eat. Anyone else out there?
I have three boys, can I ask if this is consistent with a girl pregnancy w/o seeming desperate and silly? ;-P
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Open Question: Pain in early pregnancy?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 22:32:53 GMT)
Hi everyone, im 12-13 weeks pregnant with my second child, i've been getting some horrible pains in my lower stomach like a bubbly feeling but its quite painful, its really hard to describe but its nothing like i felt in my last pregnancy as then it was more like period pains. Thanks ppl
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Open Question: Weird lumps in my breasts....normal?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 21:02:56 GMT)
I'm about 13 weeks pregnant, and the other day during '"foreplay" my husband noticed what feel like lumps in my breasts. It freaked me out so I did a self exam and they are very prominant, in about the center - right above the nipples. More so in the right, but can be felt in both.
Is this something serious, or just a normal pregnancy thing?
I don;t remember feeling this with my son???
My OB's nurse practitioner did a breast exam at my first prenatal appt. but since has not done one. These just appeared recently. I have no pain, just soreness - as with any pregnancy.
Are clogged ducts dangerous?
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Resolved Question: Is it my baby moving?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 20:17:00 GMT)
I am 13 weeks and 4 days pregnant, and for about 4 days now i have been feeling little punches from where the baby would be i know most dr's etc would say i am crazy to think its my baby moving but my hubby and i are convinced, yesterday my hubby poked my belly and he felt this thud go right through his finger and up his arm i also feel a slight fluttering now and then, am i mad to think its the baby? i know for sure its not wind. And if it is the baby is there specific times in the day it would happen more? and does the baby have a wakeing pattern or is that far to early?
It is my 1st baby
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Resolved Question: What does my dream mean?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 19:35:07 GMT)
Hi there all....
Last night i had a dream its a little vague of what i remember but i was walking in water (cloudy dirty green) and it was set at different levels like little steps.
I was with someone i don't know this person (it was as if i was having a tour with them) in the water there were reptiles or something like that things that made me feel uneasy in my dream if i remember rightly. it was a lovely warm sunny day (summertime i think) and the place was a park near my house that has a river in it but it certainly does not look like the water etc in my dream.
I was just wondering if anybody could shed some light into what my dream is about, my husband went off to Canada today for 3-4 months with the army (very emotional) and i am 13 and half weeks pregnant, i am due to find our house and set it up for us and baby before he comes back, my job is very stressful to me at the moment and my emotions are sky high with everything that is going on has any of the factors in my life show in my dream?
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Open Question: Agrpahobia please help !!?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 17:14:18 GMT)
Me and my fiancee have been together 8 months and she has a agraphobia of going out and being around lots of people. she is very close to here family and spends lots of time together, we are hardyly ever together . she is 13 weeks pregnant and am worried that i will never spend time with my son because of this. she has had this agraphobia for 7 years. i am desperate at a loose end , i ve tried so hard xxxxxxx
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Open Question: WILL HE EVER MARRY ME?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 15:42:26 GMT)
I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years on and off, just got back together in May and now i'm 13 weeks pregnant with our second set of twins. About in July we discussed getting married but he said he wasn't ready right now that we needed to wait for a year or so. I want to get married i'm ready to settle down with that forever commitment. Now that i'm pregnant the combination of me being ready to marry and everyone from his parents and cousins to my parents and friends are saying we should get marry, i don't know what to say to them i can't pressure him to marry me, but i want it so bad, after the conversation we had in July i don't want to bring it up. I must also say we've been living together since 12/06 and slit in 01/08 because i felt he should be a little more family oriented. ( i'm ok with being absorb with family 24/7 and he needs to be with his friends ) we got back together in 05/08. He's not too happy with the twins situation and understands they are coming so he will love his kids, but he's a little withdrawn and distant. our relationship is a little off because this is something both of us didn't want at the time, i've gotten over it and i can't wait for my babies, But he is still dealing. I keep hearing about all my friends and family members getting engaged and married. and i can't help it, i get jealous, i'm 30 and he's 32. Am i asking for too much to fast? what do you think? Will he ever marry me?
after adding this post i couldn't stop thinking about it so i went in the room and conforted him, we are on our when to the court house tomorrow morning, Thanks for the less encouraging comments, but i had to take control of my and destiny, and p.s. even if he would've said no i would have no problem getting someone who would.
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Open Question: URGENT!!! PLEASE HELP!!!?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 11:00:13 GMT)
this is some questions from a tale of two cities!
I am in dire need of help, if you know any answers
please answer whatever you know PLEASE
This is from Book Three Chapters 12-15
III (12-15)
1. Where does Madame Defarge plan to end her vengeance? (12)
a. She doesn't plan to end it.
b. With the death of Charles Darnay
c. In Paris
d. With the total extermination of all aristocrats
2. Why does Carton have Darnay write the letter? (13)
a. He wants it in Darnay's own handwriting.
b. He doesn't know what to say.
c. He can't write.
d. He wants it to be in Darnay's own words.
3. How does Cruncher change? (14)
a. He swears never to go fishing again.
b. He swears to join the priesthood.
c. He goes crazy.
d. He becomes sad and quiet.
4. Why is Miss Pross in a "queer condition"? (14)
a. She is pregnant and unmarried.
b. She is in a state of shock from Madame Defarge's abuse.
c. She caught Cruncher "fishing" and became frightened.
d. She killed Madame Defarge and has been deafened by the gun's explosion.
5. Sydney Carton said he would die young because of a dissipated and wasted life. How was
he both right and wrong? (15)
a. A dissipated and wasted life
b. Love and sacrifice
c. Hatred and greed
d. Accidental suicide
6. How is Madame Defarge cheated? (15)
a. She never holds an office in the new government.
b. The register is robbed.
c. Her wish of total extermination will never come true.
d. Lucie and Miss Pross escape.
oh and pleeasee don't be annoying and say "just do your homework" because I have been sick all week and at the doctors and it was horrible. I have been working on this for hours, and I got past the first two and CANNOT UNDERSTAND CHARLES DICKENS!!!
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Open Question: Mommy's and mommy's to be, did you ever move during your pregnancy? How did you handle all this HELP ME PLEASE?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 07:46:29 GMT)
Have any of you pregnant women moved out of state during your pregnancy? Like with no one but your husband/boyfriend/whatever? If so how did you handle not being by your family? How did you emotionally handle everything? Did you end up with postpartum depression?
I ask think because I am 17 and 19 weeks pregnant in March I will be moving to New York with my boyfriend and we will be with his family. I hate change for one. I don’t know how to emotionally handle not having any of my family there for me. I know my family doesn’t treat me right but its just the security of having them there if I did need them. My close family member will be just over 10 hours away. I am scared to death that I will get postpartum depression due to the alone feeling. Don’t get me wrong my boyfriend’s family is great but I just fear so much.
Next I know it may sound stupid but I am going to put my dog to sleep. Mind you she is 13 and her hips are going bad the vet said it is the best thing to do for there. There fore it has nothing to do with the move but I am just SO upset over putting my baby down I cant handle it I cry at just the thought.
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Open Question: 12 weeks late. Last period Oct12th 2008. What do u think? ?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 07:26:41 GMT)
22 yrs old!
I am scared and I really don't like doc. only because when i went to the community health center for the 1st time(Nov.2,2008) and asked for test before she sent me to the lab. she told me to wait in the room until she came back as soon as she step out in the hall i hear her talking to one of her doc. friends telling her "she(which is Me) trying to get pregnant for what the only reason her period wont come on is because she is ova weight" i thought to myself now the doc was bigger than me(i am 213 lbs) i have been bigger than this(245lbs) but the bigger i got i would some times bleed twice a month, but for 2 years i maintain weight and have had 7 day periods every 28 days.i have an appt. coming for obgyn at a differnt place 7th of Jan2009.
Help! i wanna know what do u think?
My Symptoms;
Quicken flutters
No nausea, except during no.2
Yes sore, jiggly water bag breast dark nipples
Yes fatigue
Yes Missed period 12 weeks going on 13 weeks late
i did (1) dollar tree test it was neg,
I had all blood work done from cholestorol to hormone levels even test my finger for diabetes.
The dollar tree test was at week 4. I will take another one in the morning
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Open Question: sharp pains, Please advise?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 04:07:19 GMT)
I have had these pains for about 3 Days now.
Basically i feel really crampy in my stomach, all the time. normally about 5 or 6 pm they get really painful though, more like a stabbing pain, its not just in one spot though, it started off at the top of my abdomen just below my ribs slightly on the left hand side. and then i got them in the lower right hand side, only once but not as bad. i have gained a waste, i have never had a stomach at all now it is quite large, i am on the pill and am not due for my period for about 2/1/2 weeks, but i have skipped the sugar pills about the last 2 or 3 times, i normally get bad menstrual pains so they said only take the sugar pills every 3 months or so. i don't think i could be pregnant as i have not ever missed a pill, although i did take one late about the 24-11-2008 it was about 13 hrs after i was suppose to take it. Please give me serious answers, i had similar pains about 10 months ago, lasted about 6 months saw the doc and got ultra sounds and basically he said he couldn't see anything wrong.
Any suggestions please, should i go back to the doc or not?
They are worse then last time, before it was just at about 6pm only lasted about an hour and i had nothing through the day. please advise what you think it could be
Thanks for your help.
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Open Question: has anyone had this and been pregnant?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 02:48:45 GMT)
i am having this milky white discharge. it is odorless and it is slippery. i know its not an infection. i noticed it a couple of days ago like 7 or 8 days after i ovulated. i was also cramping around that time and i usually dont start cramping until exactly a week before my period. my period comes every 28 days. after ovulation i was dry like usual and i usually stay like that until i get my period or like a day or 2 before my period i might have a little discharge but not like ive been having. im not due to start my period until jan 13 so i really dont know whats going on and i was just wondering if anyone has had this during pregnancy.
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Open Question: help! pregnancy question?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 01:19:09 GMT)
So i stop on birthcontrol on September, because i have been on birthcontrol 6 years now
and had menstration about november 14 and ended on November 20.
then i got menstration again after one week on december 6 and it ended on December 11
my boyfriend and i had sex on the December 13 and 14 15 and 17 pullout.
then we had sex again december 28 and 29 and 31 he came inside me.
We know what to do if i got pregnant, my pathner and i have been togethere 8 years and old enough to take responsibility.
and no im not felling any symptoms, just headahce and wanting to throw up and lower back pain, im not even stress.
So my question is what is the chance of getting pregnant? because i know i didnt ovalate.
please answer nice.
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Open Question: question about pregnancy?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 01:01:36 GMT)
So i stop on birthcontrol on September, because i have been on birthcontrol 6 years now
and had menstration about november 14 and ended on November 20.
then i got menstration again after one week on december 6 and it ended on December 11
my boyfriend and i had sex on the December 13 and 14 15 and 17 pullout.
then we had sex again december 28 and 29 and 31 he came inside me.
We know what to do if i got pregnant, my pathner and i have been togethere 8 years and old enough to take responsibility.
and no im not felling any symptoms, just headahce and wanting to throw up and lower back pain, im not even stress.
So my question is what is the chance of getting pregnant? because i know i didnt ovalate.
please answer nice.
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Open Question: How do I catch him in his lies and/or trust him? When do I need to consider breaking-up?
(Sun, 04 Jan 2009 21:38:57 GMT)
Okay. I have an amazing boyfriend, but as much as I love him, I can't trust him. It's a very long story so please bear with me. When he was about 13, he met this girl named brittany, he had a huge crush on her, but she just always kept him guessing and eventually she hooked up with one of his friends, got pregnant, had the kid, and now she lives bout 2.5 hours north. They have continued their "friendship". Just to let you know they did make-out once. But back to the story, I am 18 years old. Never been in trouble, straight A student. Pretty much a goody goody. I have never had a problem with people liking me. Now keep that in mind, because I recently got kicked out fofr reasons I can not say. I am not living with my boyfriend and his family. His family loves me. Everything is good betwen us except this Brittany thing. She is constantly texting him and calling him. He swears up and down that they are just friends, but one night I caught him asking her out, saying he would break up with me in 6 months. THe next morning I told his mom and dad, because I didn't know what to do. They confronted him, eventually he and I talked and he claimed that I saw wrong, and then he cried. He can't cry in front of people. So things were good for a while, but Brittany hates me. She calls me the "wife." saying that I control him. She calls him "love" and "babe", and I'm about to pull myhair out. I am already so stressed because of this thing with my parents, but now this. To add to the confusion, he gave me a beautiful promise ring for christmas. We plan on getting married one day. I am just so confused. He went up north to his aunt's for the week, just got back yesterday, but while he was up there, she got pissed that he would not come see her. He refused because it was new year's and all the drunks were out, and also I told him I don't want him seeing her until she accepts our relationship. He claims she stopped, but I know she hasn't. SHe has been trying to convince him that he doesn't love me, he loves her. That he doesn't want to marry me. They made a pack that when they were 14 that if both of them are not married by 25, they will get married. It all just hurts so much because I can tell he lies about it. When she texts and what they are saying. She stopped talking to him after new years because he wouldn't come over. So supposidly when she tried texting him last night he just delted them and didn't text her back. HIs mom had to intervene between us. He's not supposed to text Brittany in front of me anymore because I will be talking but he's texting her. I jsut want to know what anyone else would do. I do love him. I love him more than anything in the world, but I just wonder if I can trust him. Because when he was in the bathroom today, he got a text from her. It said "Why were you up so late last night?" How would she know that unless he tried texting her. (He didn't go to bed until 6 this morning) No one likes Brittany. Her own family hates her because they all think she is a bitch. No lie. His family has been trying to get rid of her for a while.
How do I catch him in a lie? I did,but I was too soft, now I know how to handle it when he caught. I want them to stop talking. She saying that She should come before other girlfriends. To add to this, he claims that if she won't accept our relationship, he will tell her either she does or he will stop talking to her. Cause she refuses to accept that he loves me. But I know he loves me. How do I get rid of Brittany????!?!?
Please help. Any suggestion is apperciated!
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Open Question: My 20 month old daughter is very clingy to me now that I'm pregnant with baby #2. ?
(Sun, 04 Jan 2009 21:06:45 GMT)
My daughter has ALWAYS been a daddy's girl. Now she is very protective of "her" baby, I'm 13 weeks pregnant.
When daddy trys to talk or kiss my tummy she comes running over and says NOOO and pull my shirt down.
Is this normal???
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Resolved Question: What does this mean?!?
(Sun, 04 Jan 2009 19:19:22 GMT)
Last year I (unwillingly) had an abortion at 13 weeks, so i had to give birth to it in a way, it was awful, i saw the foetus in the tray. then i started having dreams that I had to hide the baby in the porch so my boyfriends mum wouldn't see her (it was her who made me have the abrotion) i had this dream for about 4 months after the procedure. however my question is, I am havin dreams now that I am laid on a table in my house and having to feel my stomach to help the baby grow, and I don't even know if i am pregnant or not, I have got all the symptoms like 2 missed periods, sore breasts, increased urinating, etc,etc
Is this dream telling me that I am pregnant again!?!?
what do you think?
thanks in advance
xXxSammiieexXx
I am 19 years old, I live with my boyfriend and his mum, I love my boyfriend, but he is a mummy's boy, so what she says goes, I know it was my decision, and u will all think oh shut up, but in every circumstance, I do what people tell me!! I suffered the consequences of it, if I am pregnant again, there is no chance in hell am i having another abortion, i have been speaking with my boyfriend today, i told him if im pregnant i keep it or we are finished!!!
also the reason why i think i may be pregnant again is, i have missed 2 periods, more discharge, need to urinate more often, brown nipples, i have gone up another bra size, i was an (F) but now a (G) and nausea (but not actually being sick) with my last pregnancy i didn't find out till 3 months and by that time i was pukin all over the place xXx
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Resolved Question: How can I bring up to my husband that I don't want him to have a vasectomy?
(Sun, 04 Jan 2009 18:35:17 GMT)
I guess this is a Part-Two to my last question. I spoke of being jealous of and angered and saddened by pregnant women.
My husband is having a vasectomy on Wednesday morning. I don't want him to. I know it sounds selfish, but I would like to have one more child. We have a 21 month old daughter and 5 week old son together, and I love my children to death, but I don't feel as if our family is complete yet.
I keep trying to tell him that I'm not going to be very happy on Wednesday. I've tried to convince myself that him having this vasectomy is best for our family, I've tried to hide my sadness behind it all, and put on a face, but the closer it gets, the harder it is to hide.
Anytime I try to bring up how I feel about it, he brushes me off and doesn't listen, claims that I hate him, and even jokes saying things like "You can cheat on me and then you can have a third child".
It really upsets me and disappoints me, knowing that in a few days, I will never have another child. We're only 22 and 28, and at 22, I'm not ready to finish my family. I don't feel like it is complete yet.
We did discuss, at the beginning of my pregnancy with our son, having the vasectomy when we were finished having kids. He says he's finished, but I'm not. I didn't think that he would be going for it so soon, I thought he'd put it off for at least a few months, but instead, he scheduled it for 3 weeks after our son's due date (December 13), and our son was born December 1.
How can I gently bring up how I feel to my husband? How do I tell him that I don't want him to have the vasectomy right now, that I'd like to have a third child before we take such a drastic step in birth control?
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Open Question: I am 13 weeks pregnant with twins and i have not started showing yet should i be worried ?
(Sun, 04 Jan 2009 17:30:01 GMT)
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Open Question: I am 13 weeks pregnant. and i have developed what feels like a yeast infection it has been going on for a week?
(Sun, 04 Jan 2009 16:26:42 GMT)
or so now. i havent had time to go to the doctor because of my job. But its very uncomfortable. I tried treating it with the monistat 3 day treatment which usually works. however, it didnt. It is still itchy and after i urinate it is like a slight burning discomfortable feeling. Is there anyone that has had this problem? know any solutions? i have heard about a baking soda bath? will this help?? I drink lots of water ... and eat healthy?
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Open Question: 13 weeks pregnant..advise please?
(Sun, 04 Jan 2009 14:38:37 GMT)
Hello, I am 13wks 2days pregnant...my first two pregnancy's ending in miscarraige at 6 and 8 weeks. i have had 3 scans with this pregnancy all have been fine my most recent was at 12wks 3days heart beat was seen and all seems great...what are the chances of miscarraige after that...i am still finding it quite hard to relax...even tho i feel a lot better than i did before my 12 week scan thanks
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