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Open Question: Cramping but no period...could i be pregnant?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 04:14:43 GMT)
Me and my boyfriend are ttc. My last period started around the end of january and ended around february 24th because my obgyn gave me a generic provera to stop my bleeding. When I had my period it was on and off. when I was done taking the medicine my period was supposed to start back, and it has been about two weeks and I have not started it yet.
About two and half weeks ago I had some spotting when I wiped and a spot of blood when I had intercourse(tmi sorry). that only lasted about a day though.
I have had unprotected sex a lot since around february 14th and a little before.
Anyway, for about a week and half to two weeks I have been frequently urinating and have had on and off stomach aches and my temperature has been higher than normal.
Sunday night (the 7th) I took a first response test and it looked negative but in the light i noticed there was a tiny very faint line, my boyfriend saw it too. I noticed a pink color to it but my boyfriend did not notice much color to it. The next morning I took another test and it was negative.
Sunday night I noticed my breasts were a little sore, the next day they were very sore.
Yesterday I went to a pregnancy care center and took a test and it was negative, but she said I definitely do have some signs of pregnancy so she said if I still don't get my period I can come back next week.
Last night me and my boyfriend noticed that the lumps in my beasts have gotten bigger, much bigger. They are also very sore when you touch them (mine and his sister said that was one of the first signs when they were pregnant). And my boyfriend said it looked like the skin around my nipples have gotten a little bigger and darker, but not a big difference.
And today it has felt like I am on my period but there is no blood. I woke up like that and it is still like it. I have cramps like I would the first day I start my period and it feels kinda moist done there (tmi again) but there is no blood at all.
I have never been pregnant before so I don't know exactly how it feels but I feel like something is different. I have been kinda excited too but I do not want to get my hopes up just in case.
Do you think I could be pregnant or what?
I know that yahoo answers is not going to tell me if I am pregnant or not, I just wanted more input right now on the situation from people who have had somewhat the same experiences.
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Open Question: okay moms or pregnant girls?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 03:40:51 GMT)
so my 17 year old sister is 21 weeks pregnant and she lives at home. and i am 14 and i have to ride to and from school with her. what are somethings i can do to make sure we don't fight because of her moods? what can i do?
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Open Question: Moving and lifting...14 weeks pregnant?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 03:32:00 GMT)
My question is what happens if you move or lift too much stuff while pregnant? I had to deep clean my house today because it was filthy (thank you dogs) and had to shampoo the carpets. I had to carry multiple buckets of water back and forth for the steam cleaner then move around a dog cage my boyfriends weights and a glass computer desk plus some other misc. work and now I'm having a lot more pains in my stomach than usual, they feel like regular stretching and round ligament pains just more of them and a little stronger....but now I'm worried I hurt myself or my baby by working too hard since I've been working for hours (with sitting breaks).....your thoughts?
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Open Question: Why is this happening to me?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 02:13:18 GMT)
im 14 weeks pregnant. Ive had 2 miscarriages before but this had being my longest pregnancy. For the last two weeks ive kinda was constipated with a little rectal bleeding. Today i had a little too much rectal bleeding and i wanted to know if this could be a bad sign. Can someone please give me some information about this? Is this even normal when pregnant?
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Open Question: Do i need to see my doctor?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 02:08:27 GMT)
Well I started my period late-ish (at 14) so i figred it would take sometime before i get on a balanced schedule. Over the next 10 years it would be regular for like four months then skip two months then come back. Last year (2009) it skipped for three and half months then came back with a vengeance (miserable miserable time) and new symptoms came that i haven't had before. (Depression a week before, hot flashes)
Now the start of 2010 I saw it for three days skipped Feb and it showed up now but its ridiculously light I hardly need any products for it.
I know i've not been pregnant during the skipped times unless the ghosts around these parts are talented (i have been single long term now)
I was on the pill for a year (2 years ago) but haven't been since and kinda don't want to be if i don't have to be.. .so.. Doctor visit? Yay or nay?
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Resolved Question: How prevelant is it for men and women to cheat in basic training?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 23:32:52 GMT)
How prevelant is it for men and women to cheat in basic training when away for 14 weeks? I understand they are emotionally, physically and mentally tested and strained, but to be away from their families (spouses and children) would be difficult. I am just curious how often people have an affair there just because of these reasons. My husband is there now and is becoming drawn on the phone. Normally we get about 15 minutes once or twice a day where he can talk to us and usually the kids (3 and 1) take up one or half of the calls. I noticed he doesn't want to talk as long, doesn't say I love you as he did and I miss you as he did. I'm looking for opinions and experiences with this. It's just a feeling I have. I don't ask him or approach it because I try to keep things light because I know he's stressed being there with everything, but I can't help but think that when he mentions they hand out condoms and that he wouldn't touch anything there because he doesn't know what he's going to get. It kind of scares me because if he did, our relationship is over, period. I'm also 30 weeks pregnant and am due to have the baby by myself. He just never seems to want to be on the phone with us or hurries to go. He's a great father and good husband and has never given me worry before and we've been together for 10 years. Under normal circumstances I wouldn't have any fears, but when you're there 24/7 with little to no companionship and you get lonely that way..... See where my mind wanders? Thanks for any and all opinions.
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Open Question: around what date did i conceive?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 22:34:02 GMT)
my doctor put me on provera to start my period in December so i don't know if i have 28 day cycles but i had my period December 13th or 14th and i went to the doctor today and she said based on my sonogram and LMP im 12 weeks and 3 days. she said the sonogram was very accurate. so around what date could i have conceived? i had sex on with my ex boyfriend December 20th & 26th and my guy friend on the 29th but i took the morning after pill right after sex with guy friend. Ive done alot of research on the MAP and its 95% effective when takin in the 1st 24 hours and i took it about 9 hours after sex.
Also if the sex from the 26th got me pregnant could the egg implant in 3 days i thought it takes 5-10 days to implant if that's the case then the morning after pill would have prevented implantation.. what are you opinions on when i could have conceived? I'm just really hoping its my Ex's because now were back together
Thanks!
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Open Question: Pregnant what do you think???
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 22:18:37 GMT)
I'm on the pill and last had sex 14 days ago, it was during my pill free week and it was on the 2nd day of my withdrawal bleed.. We used a condom as well don't think it had holes or anything like that as he did check it but didn't say anything. i have bn peeing alot and have a pain on lower sideof my abdomen (left side).. Did a test today and it was negative.. Im assuming that if i was i would only be 2 weeks as sex was on withdrawal bleed week
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Open Question: When did you start to show...?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 20:49:49 GMT)
I am 14 weeks pregnant with my fourth, I am eating healthily. I eat more now then I did when I was pregnant, due to sickness!! I have put on a bit of weight & feel like I may already be showing... is this too early!??
When did you feel you started to "show"... Thanks xx
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Open Question: Is my girl friend pregnant ? new details...?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 20:11:47 GMT)
Alright i love repeating this over and over again but it's very stange situation. So my girlfriend and I dry humped on the 14th of feb it got intense my penis and boxers came out of my pants but my penis was in my boxers i did pre cum before it came out and probably before as well, she had all her clothes on. my penis was rubbing against her clitoris area. We didnt do it for long, also shes on birth control... So on the 17th same month she went to the doctors and said her stomach kind of hurt so she switch birth control pills. Her period was late a couple days because of stress from me thinking she could be pregnant and also shes been running alot lately. But her period was normal and everything no brown colours. Since the beginning of the week before shes been complaining about stomach pains all over and she cant even stand up there so bad. Last piece of information this morning she said she woke up and had a brownish red coloured discharge like really small mabye size of a tear drop and thats all, what is going on with her? is a month to late to do anything to get rid of the sperm?
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Open Question: A pregnant friend of mine keeps getting vertigo?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 18:12:21 GMT)
A friend of mine, who is about 14 weeks pregnant, keeps getting vertigo. Almost every time she stands up she gets dizzy. Shes asked the doctor about it, but they haven't told her anything.
Is there anything she can do to maybe stop getting so dizzy? Shes had a really rough pregnancy, always sick and she lost 13 pounds in about 6 weeks. She can barely hold down a meal.
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Resolved Question: What do you say to how far along you are?!?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 18:09:39 GMT)
Weird question here; I am 14.5 weeks pregnant with my 4th child and I have just recently noticed that when someone asks me how far along I am I will say 4 months. Now I have seen others say 3 1/2 months (technically the same thing because you are 1/2 way though your 4th month). Then at 20 weeks I will see people say either they are 5 months or 4 1/2 months along (still technically the same). What do you say? Have you noticed this too? I think I do it because I look forward to the end so much that being IN the month is better then being 1/2 in! Just something weird I have noticed!
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Open Question: did i miscarried Again?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 17:53:25 GMT)
hello im 20 years old & im a CMA (certified medical assistant) & my fiance is 21 & he is a studied psychologist . me & my fiance been together for around 3yrs already & we have decided to have a baby.i have been pregnant by him before like 2yrs ago. i had a miscarriage at 14 weeks.i was told i had a weak womb & to wait before conceiving again. now we tried conceiving again & tested 2 weeks later came on negative. i was having all the symptoms Delay/Difference in Menstruation, Swollen/Tender Breasts, Fatigue/Tiredness, Frequent Urination,Nausea/Morning Sickness, Headaches, & Dizziness so i waited a few more weeks before testing again & before we had a chance to test i had started having sever pain in the lower abdominal.the pain felt similar to contraction they felt so close apart. & pain in my lower back & suddenly started to bleed constantly. now me & my finace are wondering did i miscarried again..??
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Open Question: Pregnant or another false? been trying for over a year..?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 17:48:18 GMT)
So for the first time in a year, i didnt track the start day of my period in feb (ugh!!) But i know it was early feb. me and hubs went to seaworld for valentines day (and some other stuff) and i remember him asking if id be off my period by valentines day (lol for obvious reason) I said of course, since i believe i started between feb 8-9. Well its march 11th and im late for period, we had intercourse for a week straight after the 14th up until the 23rd. Ive been having period twings and cramps for almost a week or so now. I feel alil dizzy and tired. I've also had sore breast, to the touch for a week or so.
But im having cramping like AF is going to show up ANY minute, been having these cramps for a few days. also i feel "hotter" than usual, once again this is the first month i havent even tracked temps.. guess you can say i stopped trying. I feel like i have a fever. I have a clear discharge, and i feel like i am starting my period for the last few days, once again nothing each time i go to the bathroom.
my nipples are not darker, and my nips are not erect, my boobs are just sore to the touch, and sensitive nipples. i'm also moody, short fuse if you will, emotional but the odd thing i feel short of breath.. like my heart is beating faster idk..
whats your opinion i dont want to go waste money on a preg test, for my period to start a hour later lol happens to me each month, i really think its going to start today, with cramping and how it feels..
but it is late...and my breast are sore, and i feel hotter..and dizzy..
like title says, we have been trying for over a year..
my period is already 2 days late, im just stubborn because eveyr time ive got the HPT, and i take it, and get a BFN, i start my period same day..lol but i never miss my period..NEVER and its 2 days late.. so im hopeful BABY DUST TO ALL OF YOU AS WELL
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Open Question: After depo provera-- is this still my period?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 17:16:35 GMT)
I was on depo provera for 2 years and my last shot was August 2009 so its been about 7 months since my last shot... Well I had some cramps and heavy bleeding start February 14 and remained heavy for like 3 days and then dropped to not-so-heavy for the next week or so and then got heavy again for 3-4 days..... and for the past few days recently, has gotten much less, no red bleeding, only brown/dark brown/black colored.... is this STILL my "period?" because its not red blood? Im wanting to get pregnant and trying to time my ovulation....... I've had some kind of bleeding for a month now but its no longer red... is this still my period?
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Open Question: UPDATE to previously asked question...?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 16:40:55 GMT)
The first day of my LMP was February 14, 2010 (i also take YAZ) Around February 20th, I started taking antibiotics for a UTI (sulfamethoxazole). According to the ovulation calendar, i was most fertile the 24-28th. I had unprotected sex those days using the "withdraw" method. I have read that sulfamethozazole will cause yaz to not work properly. The past couple days i've had cramps and just a little bit of brown spotting. Now, here I am about 5 days before i'm supposed to start my period with a high, closed, firm feeling cervix. This stuff confuses me. :) I guess i'm just looking for a little help on trying to figure it out. I've taken a pregnancy test but it was negative. If i am pregnant, it's probably too early to tell. My breasts haven't been sore but, today i've been getting dizzy and the past 2 mornings when i've woken up, i've felt nauseous. Let me know what you think!
22 hours ago - 1 week left to answer.
Additional Details
I should also add that during my first pregnancy, i did not have swollen or tender breasts.
UPDATE: Last night I had a very large amount of yellowish (snot-like) discharge. I am supposed to start in about 4 days. Anybody knows what this means?
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Open Question: What could cause bleeding at 14 weeks?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 16:32:21 GMT)
My sister is 14 weeks pregnant and worried because she is having some bleeding (not spotting) and it looks like a light period. No cramps.
They checked the baby's heartbeat and it's strong. No explanation as to why this bleeding should occur, just told her the baby looks fine.
I guess we just need some reassurance that this can happen without there being any real cause for concern. Or does it might mean she has placenta previa? If so.....shouldn't the doc have done an ultrasound?
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Open Question: Does anyone thats pregnant know anything about this?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 10:48:49 GMT)
I am 14 weeks pregnant and i have been getting online looking at things that could signify a boy from a girl like they say if the heartbeat is more than 140 its a girl lower a boy, the hair on your legs grow faster with a girl than a boy, and certain foods you crave could mean a boy or girl has anyone has anything kinda like this or know what might not be true i know nothing will confirm it 100% but i think stuff like that is fun
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Open Question: please help me, i really dont know what to think, im not having my peiod yet.. =(?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 09:23:59 GMT)
ok here is my question.. i had my period last Feb 9, then i had sex on Feb 14.. we did the withdrawal thing, im a little paranoid because i don't wanna be pregnant yet,last week of feb i had this like a menstrual thing but its like color brown, a little red, for about 3 or 4 days, not sure, but its not strong, just a little.. so after 28 days of menstrual cycle, i must have my period on the 9th of march,, yesterday was march 10 still dont have my period yet, so i decided to have my pregnancy test, the urine test, but it says negative, but until now, i still dont have my period yet, some of my friends told me,its just stress coz iv been thinking about it a lot, so it doesnt come out.. i drank beer, but still not hapened,, any advice? what can i take to have my period? thank you.. =(
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Open Question: HORRIBLE MOTHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 08:39:07 GMT)
ok i just want to see if you guys think im overreacting about my mom.
she claims shes been pregnant for 2 years 'cause "god told her she is"
all she does is sleep 14 hours a day then get on facebook/farmville, not joking, she doesn't leave the house or even leave her chair except to vaccum(e?) the house ussually 2 or 3 times a day,
she hasn't cooked in weeks,
she has a woman paid to clean the house once a week 'cause she's "too busy/stressed" (wtf)
she makes my 6 year old sis and 10 year old bro sleep 14/16 hours so they "won't bother her"
she took my older brother and i out of public school when i was in 2nd grade (i'm 14 now)
now she "homeschools" us, i know for a fact that my little siblings haven't TOUCHED their school books in over a year,
my little brother is about 4'9 tall and only 50 lbs cause she doesnt make him eat, if he doesnt like it,
both of the little ones sleep in her bed with her every night (i thought 6 was stretching it?)
her parents hate her and wont see us anymore cause every time they talk she SHOVES religion down their throats (as she does to everyone else too)
my 6 year old sis is still in diapers
my little brother nursed untill he was 5
she "spanked" my older brother untill he was 17 yrs old,
i'm worried about my little brother and sister...they have zero friends and will never be able to go to college or do anything with their lives cause she doesnt make them do their school work and they won't get diplomas........
(sorry for the spelling/grammer i'm tired.)
anyway, do you think she's a bad mom? what should i do?
i cry all the time cause i wish i had a life/friends :/
&& i'm not allowed to date, i know that's not a big deal cause alot of kids my age arent either (though they all do :p)
i'm like, not allowed to date EVER, she says im supposed to live with her untill i "find a husband when youre at least 25" (i dont want to get married thank you, she got a complete 1950's mindsetting)
she says dating is of the devil? how the fuck am i supposed to "find a husband" i dont want to what so ever but i dont understand her logic? honestly i've writen i hate mom all over my journals since i was 8 years old :/ so i dout (spelling, sorry) that it's a teenage "i hate my parents" thing
@logan
haha no sadly this is real,
and erm i said she sleeps that much, i dont :p
@mr warrior,
uhm, technicly, my dad pays for the internet, (could you not tell she doesnt have a job if all she does is sleep?)
anddd bahaha NO actually the school taught me how to read k-2nd grade? and i've tought myself to type, e.e thanks
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Resolved Question: I am almost 14 weeks pregnant and only feel and look super bloated any one relate?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 06:16:20 GMT)
I had an ultra sound @ 10.5 and theres only 1 baby and everything looked good, i look super bloated and feel bloated. when i feel around my lower belly i dont feel anything is this normal. I was told i should feel a ball (cervix) but i cant. Anyone relate?
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Open Question: Who is most likely the father?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 05:11:37 GMT)
I had sex with guy A on Jan 15th through 17th, while on my period. My period started the 14th, but my period was very light, and I was spotting. Before that weekend we had sex on Jan. 5th and we always pull out. Guy B is my ex who took advantage of me while drunk at a friends party on Jan. 30. And I took a test feb. 13th and got a positive. My mom said it couldn't be guy B's baby because a woman takes 4 weeks to produce hcg and I could have already been pregnant by guy A. Any help figuring out which guy is the dad?
I had sex with guy A on Jan 15th through 17th, while on my period. My period started the 14th, but my period was very light, and I was spotting, when I usually have a heavy flow. Before that weekend we had sex on Jan. 5th and we always pull out. Guy B is my ex who took advantage of me while drunk at a friends party on Jan. 30. My ex has been doing drugs so he couuld have a Low sperm count, and he could never get me pregnant when we were trying to during our relationship. I took a test feb. 13th and got a positive. My mom said it couldn't be guy B's baby because a woman takes 4 weeks to produce hcg and I could have already been pregnant by guy A. Any help figuring out which guy is the dad?
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Resolved Question: Should I be concerned that my hair is falling out and I'm 14 weeks pregnant?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 05:02:16 GMT)
My last pregnancy I don't think I lost a strand of hair the whole time. This pregnancy I didn't lose any hair the first trimester and now it's coming out. It's not coming out like crazy or anything. It's coming out at the same rate as before I was pregnant.
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Open Question: My wife is pregnant and with a cold, what can she take to feel better?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 04:55:25 GMT)
It's almost midnight and my wife feels so miserable. She started with a cold today, but it got worse, and she can't sleep at all because of the runny nose, headache, and sneezes. She's on the 14th week of pregnancy. Earlier, she tried some hot water with lemon and honey for her sore throat, and it seemed to work. A few minutes ago, I gave her two tylenols for the headache. She's still unable to sleep. What can she take? I have been told that the regular Robitussin is ok for pregnant women, but will that help her rest tonight? Any help will be appreciated.
PS. She's taking lots of fluids, so we are ok in that part.
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Resolved Question: Pregnant,cough and rib pain?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 04:49:30 GMT)
I am 14 weeks pregnant. I have had bronchitis for 2 weeks. My cough is not going away and I am beginning to have a rattle in my chest. Just finished a zpac and taking robitussin at night to sleep. I have been coughing quite hard (enough to urinate on myself). I started to feel pain in my rib cage last night (right under my left breast). The pain continued all day. It is now to the point that it hurts to even take a deep breath. Reading all the things that could be wrong only scares me worse. Could this just be a torn muscle or a sign of pneumonia or whooping cough? The doc said I would have to get an xray to determine. That just scares me because of the pregnancy. Any ideas or suggestions?
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Open Question: is it normal to see your baby move in your tummy alot at 24 weeks?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 04:37:52 GMT)
a friend of mine is pregnant she's 32 weeks and she said she only saw her stomach move for the first time a few days ago, and i'm 24 weeks and i always see huge movements (have been for 2 or 3 weeks now), and i started feeling him kick when i was around 14-15 weeks (but apparently he's at a perfect normal size for this stage of pregnancy) and i feel him up near my rib cage (and my friend was saying thats not a normal thing) is this normal for some people or should i be worried?
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Open Question: I need opinions on this!?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 02:54:57 GMT)
my doctor put me on provera to start my period in December so i don't know if i have 28 day cycles but i had my period December 13th or 14th and i went to the doctor today and she said based on my sonogram and LMP im 12 weeks and 2 days. she said the sonogram was very accurate. so around what date could i have conceived? i had sex on with my ex boyfriend December 20th & 26th and my guy friend on the 29th but i took the morning after pill right after sex with guy friend. Ive done alot of research on the MAP and its 95% effective when takin in the 1st 24 hours and i took it about 9 hours after sex.
Also if the sex from the 26th got me pregnant could the egg implant in 3 days? i thought you could take the morning after pill up to 5 days after sex so i thought it would take care of the 26th too. what are you opinions on when i could have conceived? I'm just really hoping its my Ex's because now were back together
Thanks!
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Open Question: Do you think i'm pregnant..or not.. ?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 00:52:19 GMT)
My husband and I starting trying for a baby last month (feb 2010) and my cycle is usually a bit irregular like anywhere from 30-45 days in the last six months, but the last two or three months have been around that 42-45 days. and now i haven't had a period since jan 14 2010 which is now 56 days since my last period and I have taken two at home pregnancy tests, one last saturday and one the week before last and both negative.. i haven't really noticed any preg symptoms that i can think of, well maybe sensitive nipples a few times and i was dizzy for about a week but that was like three weeks ago i think, so im just curious on your opinions on whether the test could be wrong, or if its probably just my cycle, should i wait a few weeks and test again or go see a doctor for a blood test or ultra sound.. or let me know if someone had or has the same situation and what was the outcome of it, any thoughts would be helpful and if your going to say something rude then please don't bother. thanks!!
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Open Question: I'm scared to back to school....?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 00:50:01 GMT)
I think I'm pregnant and if I am I would be 6-7 weeks pregnant. I told some of my closest friends and ones that I thought I could trust not to tell anyone. Well one of my friends told a guy named Tevin. I only told 5 of my friends. I guess Tevin told a guy named JJ and JJ came up to me and asked if I was pregnant. I said no why, and he told me that Tevin told him. Tevin and JJ are the type of guys that if they hear drama they have to spread it around the school. So I'm scared to go to school because the baby's daddy doesn't know I'm pregnant, isn't my boyfriend, and denies having sex with me. He is a jackass and he said next time he hears that I have told someone that we had sex he will get some of his girl friends to kick me and my best friend's a*ses. I'm scared of what people will think of me. I know that Tevin and JJ will tell everyone and it will be spread fast, and I'm not even sure I'm pregnant.... What do I do?
By the way every one says I'm a slut and I will be pregnant before I turn 14 so no one will be surprised that I'm pregnant.
Im 13........
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Open Question: Ive missed my period twice (7ish weeks w/out my period), could i be pregnant after 4 negative pregnancy tests?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 00:28:18 GMT)
I had my period january 8th to the 15th. then i had unprotected sex (bad choice) on januray 22nd which is the exact day of ovulation (14 days after first day of period). Its now March 10 and i havent had my period since january 8th. Ive taken 4 pregnancy tests all together, the last one i took was this morning, and they were all negative. Does anybody know what this means or if i could still be pregnant even though the test were (-) ?? I havent been on any type of bbirth control for over a year, i have no current stressors, and my weight hasnt been fluctuating...i just need some answers! please help if you know anything.
Thank you!!!
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Open Question: i am 3 months pregnant and have no appetite and i am so tired.?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 23:01:04 GMT)
Why is this? i am 14 weeks pregnant and i sleep all night all day and still wont be hungry and have no energy.. why?
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Resolved Question: Help, please! What should I do? My friend could seriously be ruining her life!?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 22:23:59 GMT)
Okay, so I have a friend and she's 14. We've been best friends since elementary school and we tell each other everything and really trust each other not to tell anyone else if that person doesn't want anyone to know.
So she's been dating this guy for months now, maybe 6, but he's such a player and he has a reputation for taking advantage of girls, but my friend just won't listen to me when I tell her that he's no good. I mean she's 14, and he's 16! Sometimes she even gets mad at me for talking about him badly.
Last night she told me that they had both planned for her to go over his house at around midnight when his parents will be in New York for the week, and go into the backyard (which is in the middle of the woods, pretty much) and "do some things"!!! Without any protection either! According to him it "makes for a better experience". I tried to talk her out of it, but she accused me of just being jealous and asked why I just couldn't be happy for her. I also warned her of the consequences like STDs and getting pregnant, but she told me that she loves him, and if she does get pregnant than it would be an absolute plus!
Is she like, on crack or something? She never acted like this before! It's just her boyfriend influencing her, I suppose. I want to tell her mother, to keep her safe and all, but I'm worried it could ruin our friendship of seven years! We've been through thick and thin together, and I don't want to just throw that all away. Talking with her isn't an option. Her boyfriend either. He actually asked ME to come with them! My friend didn't believe me of course.
Please! Just what should I do! It's her first time, and I don't want it to be the worst mistake of her life!
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Open Question: Nauseaus, bloated, tarry poop, lightheaded, headaches? HELP? Stomach pains too?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 21:22:16 GMT)
I've been feeling nauseaus for about a week now.
Symptoms:
Stomach pains. If I press on my ribs they hurt really bad. If pushed deep into my stomach, it hurts alot also. I've had kidney stones before but i would know if it was them because i know what it feels like. i'm only 14. i'm chubby..
Nauseaus. (my spit keeps coming up like i'm actually going to throw up) Lightheaded. Headaches. Back pains. BLOATED. :[
& my poop is pitch black. When i poop at least. i havent been going much lately because i was constipated. but when i go its tarry looking.
Someone please help me.. I'm only 14!
& because of nauseaus and being bloated, don't tell me i'm pregnant. I'm a virgin. kay, thanks.
please help!
Ohh, I heard that too. I thought I had tarry poop because i ate like a million oreos yesterday,. ahaha.
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Open Question: 14 weeks 3 days pregnant and feeling dizzy?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:56:49 GMT)
When I got up this morning, I had some diarheea followed by some cramping. Now this evening I have started to feel very dizzy and light headed as though I am about to fall over even when I am sat down. Is this normal or should I be worried and phone the doctor or go to the hospital?
Thanks in advance for your answers.
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Open Question: Has anyone gotten negative results beyond 6 weeks and found out later they were pregnant?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:35:13 GMT)
I am 2 weeks late for my period and I am not on birth control and I have regular periods. My last lmp was Jan 23 and I am 14 days late. I have sore breasts and light cramping. I took 4 pregnancy test, from digital to first response to ept and they have been negative. My question is.....Has anyone took up to 6 weeks or beyond to get a positive result? Not on b/c or obsessing over having a baby. I am 32 so lets keep it adult ladies. No trolls please.....
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Open Question: Are my pregnancy dates correct?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:34:37 GMT)
i am pregnant. would a doctor be able to tell if i got pregnant june 27th, 2009? i had my lmp on july 9th, 2009 and has a transvaginal ultrasound at 9 weeks sayin my last lmp was july 7th. Only 2 days off and a due date of april 14th, 2010 so would a doctor be able to clearly tell the difference?
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Resolved Question: When did you start to show in your first vs. second pregnancy?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:00:16 GMT)
I am one of those women who just seem to show really early on in pregnancy.
With my daughter, I had a belly at 10 weeks. Strangers could tell I was pregnant by 14 weeks and by 18 weeks I was unmistakeably pregnant.
Well now I am pregnant with baby #2 and I will be 7 weeks tomorrow. I feel like I am already showing. I know this is just bloat since the baby is the size of a seed at this point, but I honestly already have a belly. I love the baby bump but right now I feel like I look like I'm just fat. I know second pregnancies show sooner but this seems crazy.
So when did you ladies show with your first vs. second vs. third, etc?
Thanks!
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Open Question: Anyone found out 6 weeks or later that theywere pregnant?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 18:55:18 GMT)
I am 2 weeks late for my period and I am not on birth control and I have regular periods. My last lmp was Jan 23 and I am 14 days late. I have sore breasts and light cramping. I took 4 pregnancy test, from digital to first response to ept and they have been negative. My question is.....Has anyone took up to 6 weeks or beyond to get a positive result? Not on b/c or obsessing over having a baby.
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Open Question: Can you ovulation then not have a period?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 18:21:43 GMT)
am currently 22 weeks pregnant with triplets girl-girl-boy. But my sister in law is trying to have kids and she is on clomid like I was when I conceived. She said they saw two eggs release and 14 days after ovulation she did not get her period but the blood hcg was negative. The doctor did say it could be to early too. I told her it could be too early because you always get your period 14-16 days after ovulation. the doctor told her she did ovulate because her progesterone went up. I don't know what to tell her. and how is eevery onespregnancies? I am so tired all the time....
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Open Question: Can you ovulate and not have a period?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 18:20:15 GMT)
I am currently 22 weeks pregnant with triplets girl-girl-boy. But my sister in law is trying to have kids and she is on clomid like I was when I conceived. She said they saw two eggs release and 14 days after ovulation she did not get her period but the blood hcg was negative. The doctor did say it could be to early too. I told her it could be too early because you always get your period 14-16 days after ovulation. the doctor told her she did ovulate because her progesterone went up. I don't know what to tell her. and how is eevery onespregnancies? I am so tired all the time....
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Open Question: Anybody get negative hpt results andfound out later than 6 weeks that they were pregnant?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 17:49:01 GMT)
I am 2 weeks late for my period and I am not on birth control and I have regular periods. My last lmp was Jan 23 and I am 14 days late. I have sore breasts and light cramping. I took 4 pregnancy test, from digital to first response to ept and they have been negative. Mt question is.....Has anyone took up to 6 weeks or beyond to get a positive result? I am not on b/c or obsessing over having a baby
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Resolved Question: Not sure if i should let my sons father in his life?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 16:08:52 GMT)
Here's the story. My ex-bf and I were together for 1 year and 7 months. His previous gf before me was pregnant, and had his child. she had a protection order from abuse on him for one year so he couldnt go around her nor the baby. throughout our whole relationship he would always tell me and his family and my family he didnt know if he was the father or not. well i got pregnant 1 year and 4 months after dating him. he didnt think i could get pregnant so he told me about a week ago thats why he stayed with me, basically free unprotected sex. well when i got pregnant his ex filed for child support and he had to get a paternity test done. 4 days before having our son, he got the test results back and it came back the other child was his. he didn't tell me, and everytime i would ask he would say he didn't have the results back. when i had my son, i didnt tell the father i went into labor or anything because he acts like a jackass at the hospitals and i didnt need stress or drama whlie i was trying to push out a 5 lb 14 oz baby out of my body. he got upset and yelled and shit at me on the phone. then he got mad when i didnt put his name as our sons last name, and i changed his first name as well because he didnt look like a joshua to me. his family and him both raised hell because i didnt put him on the birth certificate, but he treats me like shit and i know if i was to do that he would come over to my parents house and try to take my son with him. anyway, lately he's been blowing off his visitations with our son to go see his other child and then he will text me and say im not allowing him to come around and shit like that but i have tried multiple times to let him see his son. i also asked him for child support and he cussed me out and called me names. he's not a very good father figure at all, i wouldnt even call him my sons father i would just call him a sperm donor. he hasnt bought our baby anything, never calls or texts because he's always with his ex and their kid. so should i just say fuck it and let him come around our son or just wait till court?
i meant we were together for 1 year 11 months.
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Open Question: oh my god!!!! what the hell is going on?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 16:03:19 GMT)
i'm 16 and 33weeks and 4 days pregnant and i live with my mother and my step-brother.
my mother is dating a man since when i was 14. we are american but we're living in italy and he's australian. he's Keith.
everything was ok but 4 days ego my mother told me and my brother Drake she's 16 weeks pregnant.
oh my god!!! my brother/sister is gonna be as old as my son?
drake and me bursted out laughing. ewe thouht she was kidding. she was not.
so, keith is gonna move with us and we're gonna be 6 people in, IDK, 6 months?
i know i have to be happy but i'm worryed. i never liked keith and now we're gonna live together.
he's just so vain!!! if he'll leave her one day, idk what she's gonna do. i don't want Keith to be the 3rd man who breaks her heart. i love her, she did so much for me and for my baby.
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Open Question: When did your bladder pressure get better?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 15:36:48 GMT)
I am 14 weeks pregnant and have noticed that I no longer have to wake up 2 or 3 times a night to pee, I only have to get up once between 12 and 2 and then I'm good until morning. I am just wondering if this is normal or if I should be concerned about my baby. When did it get better for you?
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Open Question: Missed a birth control pill and now two missed periods?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 15:33:17 GMT)
Ok... I asked this question before but I have a little more detail to add that might hopefully get some more results/answers... Ok so my period was supposed to come around valentines day shortly after so on Feb 15th my period hadn't came yet so I decided to have sex unprotected after I had missed my pill the previous week... I know BAD idea but it happened. So ever since then... no period. My last period was around Jan 14th-17th somewhere around there. I'd like to think it's just my pills messing with my period but I'm unsure. I have been under stress this past month with moving out of my parents house and a huge fight with my mom so could the stress be causing the missed periods? And if so, then why did I miss the first period? Also, could the environmental change be causing this from me moving into a different house with different people? I know no one on here can give me a specific diagnosis but any help would be appreciated. :-) Have a great day!
P.S. My cousin also thought it could be due to my birth control just stopping my periods but I've never had that happen before I'm on a regular birth control called Necon 1/35. Also I feel like my period is coming because I have lower back cramps and I feel something coming out but when I go to the bathroom it's just clear discharge (not smelly). If I am pregnant, how far along would I be if I had sex on Feb 15th? Thanks for all the advice and your time. Have a nice day :)
Also, my cousin says I would be showing now if I am... I notice some bloating but nothing major. But it is still there when I wake up before I even eat anything but it could be bloating from not having a period for 2 months?
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Open Question: My doctor, my ultrasound and my mother instincs give my two dates of conception?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 15:23:22 GMT)
My doctor and i believe that i am 14-16 weeks pregnant based on my last period and the size of my uterus, however the ultrasound technision thinks i am only 9 weeks pregnant. I am already feeling the same movement as i did with my son. Any thoughts
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Open Question: please help me....I'm going out of my MIND!!!?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 12:09:19 GMT)
My 11 month old boy is driving me mad. He follows me round just whiiiiining. Its not crying, there are no tears. Its just a self-pity sounding whine and its grating my head!!!
I love my boy so much but OH MY LIFE!!!! I sometimes wonder if this is worse than a newborn screeching in your ear.
I am also 14 weeks pregnant so my temper fuse is slightly shorter than usual thanks to my hormones.
Please advise me what I can do. I read him stories, I cuddle him. He sleeps and eats just fine. Some days he hardly notices I'm there - he just plays with his toys and toddles around.
Then there are days like this..........
Bethany - I feel you girl lol
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Resolved Question: cervix at 14 weeks was 4 and now at 24 weeks 3 is that normal?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 09:20:37 GMT)
Ok so when I was 14 weeks pregnant I went to the er and the mesured my cervix and the said it mesured 4 and 2 day I had an ultrasound at my clinic by my doctor she said it was at 3 now it kinda worried me because its now shorter, I didn't mention it to her because she said it looked good and long but now I think I should have told her that when I got it mesured at an other hospital by an other doctor it was longer so she doesn't know that before it was at4 So what do you think? Normal not normal?
Why are you asking me why I am getting my cervix mesured so early?? Does it really matter why?? I didn't know you had to be a certain amount of weeks to get your cervix mesured...???
And because I have had 5 miscarriages before and have had other problems with my cervix and 24 weeks is not too early to get your cervix mesured... um duh!
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Open Question: Now what? I am screwed!?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 06:39:28 GMT)
I got arrested and charged with felonies 16 years ago. Drug related. I spent time in jail, treatment center & 5 years probation because of my charges. During the start of all that I finally met the right woman and she got pregnant with my son, who I will just call B here. When he was born & the doctor handed him to me I then understood what true love was! I immediately became a much more mature adult who stopped partying and stayed away from drugs and trouble since then. He probably saved my life by just being born. His mother started getting in trouble though and eventually left us to start partying with new friends. Damn, wrong woman! I filed for full custody and got it. We have not seen or heard from her since then (14 years now). When he was a year old I really did meet my soulmate & we got married. She is his real mother..not some girl who had a kid and split. Anyways, he calls her mom & we are still married today, 13 years now. About a year ago, my son, "B" started high school and puberty/adolescence at the same time. He has always been a good kid who loves video games and drawing. Over the past year he changed completely and started hanging out with the wrong crowd at school. I started getting calls from the school all the time and would have to leave work to pick him up or have a meeting. Employers would put up with time off for so long and I got fired. With my felony backgroung it is impossible to find another job & with the economy. But somehow I would, just to lose it because of the same thing. 4 jobs in 6 months and have been unemployed for the past 6 months (1 year total) since his behavior. I disciplined him from small to large during this time. Also had him at counselors, psychiatrists, therapists, youth pastor in church and all other assistance. He has been baker acted to behavior clinics 4 times this year and has been failing 5 of 7 classes. He refuses to do homework and schoolwork. He will even tell me no. I am 6'6" tall 230lbs. & a veteran of the marine corps infantry division/combat decorated(alot of reason for drugs when I got out) I can't believe he tells me no. When he gets punished he runs away and won't listen. Well, last week at school he got upset and set fire to a toilet paper holder in school bathroom & was caught. Nobody got hurt thank goodness andthe was little damage 25$. The police went to the school and charged him with Arson 1st degree. Which is a felony of the first degree. He has been expelled from school for 2 years and is currently in juvenile detention. Court is this Thursday. I am devestated! Have not slept in days! Unemployed! Marriage is in trouble from his behavior! I have no friends..everyone either smokes weed or drinks here in the redneck county we live in. Don't want any of that around me or family. My son is screwed, he may have this follow him when he looks for work as an adult. I know from experience that he will only be able to get sorry jobs that only start you around 8-10 $an hour. I am so stressed and don't know what will happen next in my life! Damn! Damn! All I have been doing since he was born is searching for happiness and makng better decisions. What the hell for? What will happen in my life next? I have many more things that have happened with bad things but was during my military service. I will not mention them now. I gotta go, bad luck is waiting for me...DAMN IT!
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Voting Question: Trying to find out how far along i am?
(Sun, 07 Mar 2010 23:27:40 GMT)
I have NO Idea when my period is...never really keep track...am usually a week or so behind my best friend so my guestamate of the 14th was wrong.so possibly the 22nd..or 29 it was like on a friday ..made love between feb 7th and 9th.... my pregnancy test showed up positive right off the bat.... how far along am i? went to a last menstral cycle website was in jan but plugged in the 14th and its all wrong i know im not 6 weeks .id hvae to be about a month i think? is that about right?
How does the "how you get pregnant work?" period isnt always the same every month which is why havent bothered with keeping up with the dang thing
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