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Open Question: 15 year old daughter in messed up relationship?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:06:46 GMT)
Our daughter started a new school this year, made friends with a 16yr old boy who was dating someone else. After a few weeks decided he wanted to date our daughter, so he broke up with his girlfriend. His mother wanted him to take a break between relationships so after two months of talking on the phone and at school, they started "dating" November 1st. Our daughter and the other girl are not friends of course, and the other girl is constantly harassing our daughter. Well we just found out this last week that she has gotten pregnant by this boy, as far as we know, while he was in the "off" time of dating our daughter and her! We've talked to our daughter til we were/are blue in the face, she says she still "loves" him and won't break up with him. We've tried telling her she's too young to deal with this and that she needs to break it off with him, of course to no avail.
we really don't want the same to happen to our daughter and we're afraid she's going to get hurt big time. But she wants to make her own decisions, we just think she's too young to make a decision like this.
what should we do? Let her continue to make the decision to date him and screw up her life, or make them break up and lose the open relationship we have with our daughter??
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Open Question: Down Syndrom ?!?!?!??!?!??!?!?!?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:43:06 GMT)
Ok so my sister in law is prego 27 weeks , she didnt find out she was pregnant until she was 15 weeks or atleast that is what she says.... Anyways I know she drank during the time she was pregnant because i was with her but she denies she ever drank anything, she is 23 so I dunno why she would deny it and we all know she didnt know she was pregnant at the time. Anyway she got assistance to cover her but because of hurricane ike she had to wait for another month before being able to see a doctor THEN after that happened she had problems with the Insurance Company so now she is 27 weeks and FINALLY seeing a doctor , she was smart enough to start prenatal when she found out . Anyway she had her blood drawn when she was 17 weeks and the test came back positive that the baby could have down syndrom or spinal bifida but she is in denial , she keeps telling me NO the baby doesnt have that , the doctor started seeing her every 2 weeks , I went to the same doctor and he didnt start seeing me every 2 weeks until I was like 31 or 32 weeks so I found this odd. Anyone have any info about this test and what it could mean ?
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Open Question: BABY NAME GAME!!! 20 characters?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:16:12 GMT)
1. Your 17 and you have a baby with your boyfriend. Your baby comes in april, it's a beutiful baby boy. With brown hair, fair skin, and hazel eyes. You wanted his name to have something to do with your boyfriend <James Christopher> but not exactly.
2. You continue to the same college in Boston as your boyfriend. Post graduating you get married and shortly after realize your pregnant. On a buisness trip in paris, your children are born. 2 twin girl and boy, one with honey blonde hair, medium skin and indigo eyes, the other identical.
3. Your husband graduates med school and gets a job as a doctor, you now have a house <your kids are 11, 5, and 5) You decide to have another child, you get fertillity and have quadruplets. You want them all to have the same initials. 3 boys and 1 girl. The first 2 boys have blonde hair and blue eyes, the second has curly brown hair and brown eyes. The girl has black hair and topaz eyes.
4. Your husband gets promoted, so you quit work to stay home with your growing family. then your 14 year-old daughter comes to you with news that she's PREGNANT. Coincidentlly, your pregnant at the same time. After, talking it through with your daughter, the baby daddy, and his parents, you decide, that you will keep the baby because both families are doctors and financially able, under the impression that the two will raise the kids together. <btw, your daughters boyfriend is your neighbor>. Your daughter has a boy with blonde hair and blue eyes. You have a girl with beautiful purple eyes, fair skin, and jet black hair. Names?
5. Your children are now 16, 10, 10 and 2. Your grandson dies, with extreme sadness your daughter says she wants to marry the baby daddy, you agree, if the wedding is when they are both 17 or 18 and they promise to both go to college. Overjoyed with that information, your daughter gets pregnant again but with a girl. The two get married and you and your husband adopt twin girls from Australia. Your daughter wants the name of her son to have the same initials as her first. Your twins mother wanted the babies to be named after your family.
6. Now your children are 21<the 21 year old is happily married and just graduated from and going to lawschool>, 15, 15, 4, 2 and 2. Your son tells you he is going to be a father <15 year old son> upset <like the 1st 2 times> and the girl was kicked out, you feel obligated to let her in to the house. After meeting her more thoroughly she feels more like family. The baby is born when they are 16, you keep it. After they live together for 2 years they get married. They both go to a 4 year college near by and live in the house.
7. now that your children are 30, 24, 24, 13, 11, and 11, your youngest dies of cancer. and your oldest has a child and names it a similar name. The baby is born on the day of your child's funeral, so it was an uneasy day. Your 24 year-olds are both married with children.
8. After stressing to your daughter not to have sex, at the age of 19, while in an ivy-league college she gets pregnant, the baby is born 7 weeks premature and okay. It was a girl on march 3, at 6:17 AM. She wanted a hawaiian name. You and your husband retired very rich, shortly after which he died, so you move near your daughter and her new-arrival. She did not get married to the baby daddy <or possible baby daddies> she finished her degee and got a good paying jobs, and later writes a book called "the house of youth" a fictinal book based on her and her siblings teen parenting experiences, the book was a huge hit, and turned in to a TV show.
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Open Question: I am only 6 weeks prego and my belly is huge!?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:45:42 GMT)
This is my second pregnancy. My daughter is now 9 and I had her at 15. I also had an ectopic 5 months ago and am going in for an ultrasound on friday to meke sure this is in the right place. I am sure it is because my stomach is way too big for 6 weeks and i had no stomach with my ectopic! Also when I was pregnant with my daughter I didnt start showing until about 5-6 months and that is about how big my stomach is now. Is there something wrong? And I know its not gas.
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Open Question: am im pregnant at only 15 years old?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:36:43 GMT)
i missed my period this month and ive been feeling sick for a week or so. i did have sex with my boyfriend who is also 15. he is the starting quarterback at my school. my dad is not to thrilled about me dating him since he told me to never date a football player cuz he thinks that the are only dating me just to have sex with me and he hates him anyway. what makes me mad is that my daddy played football in the NFL. he played Quarterback in high school and college. when he got to the the nfl his coaches thought he was better built for outside linebacker so he switched positions. what makes it worse is that when we had sex, we were both on drugs. my daddy told me never to use drugs or anything like that. so if i'm pregnant, im afraid he will gat very mad. i took 3 tests. two were false but the second was positive. i afraid it will hurt our realonship since we our close and he loves me very much. he evens helps my friends with stuff and they all like him....what do i do if im pregnant???? help please....
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Open Question: im 16, i JUST found out im pregnant, please help me with some questions?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:36:26 GMT)
please don't judge, im sincere and im just looking for some help and support. im sorry its long,but if your willing to help please read..
this morning i took a pregnancy test because i was 3 days late and i was worrying. to my complete shock it was postive. so i called my bestfriend and told her. she was pregnant at 15 and had an abortion =[ i however do not believe in that at all.i had to go to school today, it was horrible. i know in cannot have an abortion, and i dont want to give the baby up for adoption..after school i had to go tell my boyfriend.he was suprisingly calm, eventually we both broke down. he told me he wanted me to have an abortion, but i told him no. then he said he will support me and be there in whatever my decision is. but i have tonss of questions now..according to something online im due around sep. 12th..im only 4weeks 3 days.
i dont want to tell my mom until im at least around 8 weeks..incase i have a misscarraige i dont want to upset her for nothing..when do you think i should tell her??
should i call planned parent hood and make an appointment??? what will they do there the first visit???
do i need to take prenatal vitamins now, or wait until i see planned parenthood, which probably wouldnt be able to get in until at atleast 3 weeks.???
how should i tell my mom??i cant imagine telling her to her face..
my boyfriend is arabic, his dad is VERY strict. he will probably kick him out..for a little while anyway..thats why he wants me to get an abortion bc he is scared of his dad..
please just help me with these questions and anyother information you can give me..
dont judge please, my boyfriend has a job i will get one soon. my parents will come around eventually i hope so i think i can do this..
thanks
also im pretty skinny, im almost 5'6 im 114 lbs. when do you think ill start showing?? i know everyones different but ill still be in school when im 6 months, do you think ill be huge at that time??
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Open Question: Morning after pill worries?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:09:23 GMT)
Okay so heres the situation, On Sept 11 2008, i had unprotected sex but for about 2-3 minutes, not that long because i stopped to think. after this I had my girlfriend take the Plan B pill about 15 hours later. She took it and then called me the next morning saying she took the 2nd pill. Everything seems to be fine SHE SAYS shes on her period 2 weeks later. We never had intercourse again. In the middle of October she cheated on me and had unprotected intercourse and got pregnant by early November. What are the chances this is mine?
edit: about a week later she told me she was bleeding.
about a week later she told me she was bleeding and it was prob from the pill
I saw her take the first pill, she called me the next morning sayin she took the other one
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Open Question: I'm so confused, please help, Possible Pregnancy?!?!?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 21:19:06 GMT)
Okay so heres my story...
I was on birth control and I was missing pills and taking antibiotics. So at the end of December I ditched the pills cuz they weren't working out. So then about a week ago I started noticing things were going on with my body. My breasts are really tender, and I would wake up with nausea, I would have dizzy spells, and I was going to the bathroom every little while (I still am) so I thought that I could be pregnant. Then 2 days ago I started spotting, and I thought that my period was coming (its due on the 10th) and it was really light and then then it went away. It came back for a little bit yesterday and then today its gone again. I don't know what it going on. I think it still to early to test because I am not due for my period for another 4 days, but is a pregnancy possible? Please keep the rude comments to your self,... thank you!
Oh and before you judge me, I should add that I'm not like an irresponsible 15 year old. I'm 23 married and have a daughter...
Thanks for all your input! :)
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Open Question: new fish babies can they be moved?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:47:13 GMT)
i just went to clean my adult tank and saw that I have new babies in the tank about 15 of them, I did not even know I had a pregnant fish, I know you should leave the babies alone for two weeks, but i would like to move them to the baby tank, would it be ok or should i put more duck weed in the adult tank for the babies to hide in?
not sure what they are not sure of the mom, but the adult tank has only fancy tails and one mollie, I am sure they are fancy tails, i have a really good filter for the baby tank and fry food
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Open Question: is it possible for me to get pregnant right after my period?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:46:43 GMT)
im on necon 1/35 and on saturday my period had just stopped and i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend that night so i hadnt taken the pill in a week but i took it the next day, he didnt pulll out cause he knows im on the pill and he usually doesnt. do i have a good chance of getting pregnant cause i really dont want to im only 15...
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Open Question: Emotional and feel i have no help...?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:15:15 GMT)
Hi there
I am 13 weeks and 5 days pregnant and very emotional, my husband went to Canada on tour for 3-4 months yesterday we have only been married for just over a month, my job is very physical and as i only work 6 hours a day i am only allowed a 15 min break, i went to the Dr this morning to see if i could get some help or even someone to help me along, but i feel that what was said was completely the opposite, she may as well told me to pull myself together and stop being so emotional (i cried my eyes out) she also stated least he is not in Afghan or something but to me at the moment that is irrelevant its not where he is its the fact my rock has gone,, i spoke to my manager over the phone (have had 4 days off to re-coupe and relax hasn't worked) i told her i was worried about my job and losing it and she said there was nothing she can do about that fact, she commented on how there is another pregnant lady in my workplace who is having a hard time with her pregnancy and she still manages to go into work fair enough but that lady doesn't do anything physical she just sits around talking to the managers etc all day, whereas from the min i get in i am non stop i feel its very unfair for her to compare me to another lady am i wrong to feel low about that? i know my pregnancy does not help, my blood pressure is high i get very dizzy quickly and very exhausted, and as i am only allowed 15min break that does not even give me time to eat a sandwhich and have a warm drink. i feel i have no support from work or the Dr and i am struggling with my emotions and the pregnancy i feel a failure that i cannot even enjoy my baby at this stage because i am so low. I just don't know what to do, My mum says that i should just go back to work and throw myself into it but my state of mind is not letting me do that and to be fair with the way i am feeling i don't want to i want to relax (find that very hard to do) and nobody seems to understand that.
Can anyone help me? Give me some advice what to do
I have already spoken to my manager about needing longer for my breaks but she said as we get paid for it and the hours i do thats all i am entitled to, if i need a 5 min sit down i am allowed but not anymore time than that.
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Open Question: what questions with the d/a ask me and what do i say and not say?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:11:05 GMT)
i became pregnant at 15 and he was 18. we dated for two years so i could charge him with sexual assault. when i became pregnant he told me he wants nothing to do with the baby and hopes we both die. he wrote me emails saying its best we stay far far away and even got another girlfriend a week later. now i just had my baby girl, and he wrote to me saying he still doesn't want to see her and his life is wonderful without us in it. i am SO angry at him and i feel so used but i do not want to press charges of him sexually assaulting me because it was consensual.. and at the time.. we both were very much in love, or at least i was. he is now 19 and im 16 and his family want nothing to do with the baby also. i got a call and the D/A wants to question me about what happened. what will he ask? should i press charges even though it was 100% consentual ? even though he turned out to be a complete jackass i don't want to cry sexual assault.. but im soo angry!!!!! what will i be asked and what do i say
the d/a called and said it wouldnt be s.rape it would only be "sexual assault" bc we dated for two years and i need to come in for questioning...
a detective came to my house and i wrote a statement saying even though legally i couldnt consent i do not want charges pressed against my ex. now they want to question me?! why and what will they say.. is this a set up.. should i even go
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Open Question: possibly 15 weeks pregnant...negative test?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:03:29 GMT)
Okay I have to make a long story short....Last period was Sept 17 2008. My cycle is 32 days, and it has been 32 since I had a miscarriage in Jan 07. (I have been keeping track)...Anyhow I was due to start Oct 19th well that has definitely come and gone. I had extremely light spotting the first week of Novenber...reminded me of implantation bleeding that I had with my first pregnancy 1 month before my miscarriage. Well then almost 10 days after I spotted on Nov 13 i started spotting/bleeding and it lasted a little over two weeks. (I didn't even bleed enough to fill a pad...sorry tmi...my normal periods fill 3-4 pads a day)...Well during all this I have had multiple negative tests. I have multiple signs of pregnancy: sore breasts( which have doubled in sze in the last few months), consistent headaches, fatigue, frequent urination, nauseous but no vomiting.....etc. I am going to a free clinic at the end of this week for an ultrasound. Has anyone else gone through what I have....I have had an actual period of over three months...Please give me your input thank you
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Open Question: Weight gain by 20 weeks...?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 19:28:16 GMT)
Is a weight gain of 15 lbs normal at 20 weeks pregnant (with one baby)? This is my first baby, so I don't have anything to compare to. I know books say if your BMI is normal (which mine was) then you should gain 25-35 lbs your whole pregnancy. So have I gained too much by this point, or am I ok?
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Open Question: When did you first feel your baby move?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 19:13:13 GMT)
I'm sorry, I know this must be a frequent-flyer question on this board but I'm getting close to the time when the first movement might happen and I'm curious what everyone else has experienced. I'm 14 weeks pregnant today with my first, so everything is brand new to me! I've thankfully left behind the nastiness of the first trimester (knock on wood) and, aside from just feeling pudgy, I really don't have much evidence that I really am pregnant. I believe the first stirrings of movement occur around 15-18 weeks but what have you experienced? I'm not showing yet, and I think it'll be awhile before that happens. Thanks for your answers!
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Open Question: i had sex with out a condom but he didnt come? am i pregnant need help!!?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 19:11:19 GMT)
its been about 2 weeks since that happend and im worried that i might be pregnant! my stomach is been making nosies none stop and it kinda hurts im scared to tell my mom and i dont wanna see a doctor what should i do?
just wondering how high is the risk is of getting pregnant because i still have about 12 days for my period to come?
and im only 15 and i am going on the pill
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Resolved Question: should i keep my job or quit it? 7 months pregnant and don't have my own car, please read!?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 17:08:30 GMT)
im 7 mo pregnant, and i work as a nanny. im not 18 yet, i will be next month. i have been a nanny for about 4 mo.
my stomach muscles have separated and it hurts to lift things over 15-20 lbs
i baby sit 3 kids,
a 4 year old a 6 year old and a 5 month old. i only get paid 400$ a month.. that's 2 $ an hour, 50 hours a week, mon-fri 200 hrs a mo.
the let me drive their extra car but i don't get to keep it if i quit.
the thing is that my boyfriend and i live about 25 miles away from where we both work, he works down the street from where i work and we drive together every morning. he doesn't have his own car either. the only reason i have stayed working here so long is for the car. i know they are taking advantage of me but i would feel guilty for quitting because my boyfriend would have to quit his job too. we live at my parents house and he could find a job down there but not one as good as the one he has now.
do you think i should quit my job and make my boyfriend find a new one by where we live? i want to try and find like a barista job, or a job at babys-r-us near my parents house.
ALSO: my parents bought me a car last year but took it back because my step dad needed it, and then my mom promised me 1000$ for a car and then backedout because she needed the money for bills, so thats why i havent saved for a car or got a better paying job so far, because i was counting on what they promised me.
please help any good advice helps!
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Resolved Question: should i quit my job? 7 mo pregnant and some issues... please read!?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 17:07:43 GMT)
im 7 mo pregnant, and i work as a nanny. im not 18 yet, i will be next month. i have been a nanny for about 4 mo.
my stomach muscles have separated and it hurts to lift things over 15-20 lbs
i baby sit 3 kids,
a 4 year old a 6 year old and a 5 month old. i only get paid 400$ a month.. that's 2 $ an hour, 50 hours a week, mon-fri 200 hrs a mo.
the let me drive their extra car but i don't get to keep it if i quit.
the thing is that my boyfriend and i live about 25 miles away from where we both work, he works down the street from where i work and we drive together every morning. he doesn't have his own car either. the only reason i have stayed working here so long is for the car. i know they are taking advantage of me but i would feel guilty for quitting because my boyfriend would have to quit his job too. we live at my parents house and he could find a job down there but not one as good as the one he has now.
do you think i should quit my job and make my boyfriend find a new one by where we live? i want to try and find like a barista job, or a job at babys-r-us near my parents house.
ALSO: my parents bought me a car last year but took it back because my step dad needed it, and then my mom promised me 1000$ for a car and then backedout because she needed the money for bills, so thats why i havent saved for a car or got a better paying job so far, because i was counting on what they promised me.
please help any good advice helps!
if i wasit for my boyfriend to get another job he wont take me seriously and will just screw off till i quit mine.
Paste in your text...okay well obviously i haven't graduated yet i had to quit my senior year because im pregnant and i needed to have a job.
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Open Question: My child's teen pregnancy might tear our relationship a part can it be saved?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 16:39:31 GMT)
My 16 year old son got his 15 year old girlfriend pregnant. We just found yesterday. The girlfriends mom wants her to have an abortion as quickly as possible. My son wants her to have the baby and either place the baby up for adoption or with my support raise the baby himself. The girlfriend is confused and hasn't made a decision yet she is 7 weeks.
I was a teen mother and single most of my sons life. I have been in a relationship for the last two years. My boyfriend told me he and his ex-wife were in the same situation when they were in high school. They opted for the abortion and later after they were married they had two children together. He says he thinks about it till this day and wonders what if and he knows his ex-wife never forgave him for having to do it. Me and my BF live apart but he has been a big part of me and my children's lives for the past two years. We talk about building a home and moving in together in the future. When this came up my thoughts were I didn't want her to have an abortion. I told both her and my son my thoughts but I also told them that no matter what they decide I will love them and be there for them. I told them there are other options to explore such as adoption and teen parenting. Later talking to my bf I told him if they didn't want the abortion maybe I could parent the baby myself. This angered him he said I was enabling my son to be a loser. I don't agree whats done is done if they can not take care of the baby why cant I? I have been a singe mother most of my life my sons mistake does not reflect me as a parent I took all the precautions I could. Basically my bf feels we are just starting our lives together and I will throw it away. I should not tell them I will help them because they will feel like they have no responsibilty. what do you think? BF said he could not make that same sacrafise. He will go his own way if I choose the either parent the baby or assist my son parent the baby.
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Open Question: im going to the district attorney because i do not want to press charges for sexual assault?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 15:51:36 GMT)
i became pregnant at 15 and he was 18. we dated for two years so i could charge him with sexual assault. when i became pregnant he told me he wants nothing to do with the baby and hopes we both die. he wrote me emails saying its best we stay far far away and even got another girlfriend a week later. now i just had my baby girl, ashlin and he wrote to me saying he still doesn't want to see her and his life is wonderful without us in it. i am SO angry at him and i feel so used but i do not want to press charges of him sexually assaulting me because it was consensual.. and at the time.. we both were very much in love, or at least i was. he is now 19 and im 16 and his family want nothing to do with the baby also. i got a call and the D/A wants to question me about what happened. what will he ask? should i press charges even though it was 100% consentual ?
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Open Question: Its about my girl friend?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 15:44:34 GMT)
at 18 weeks, would she look obviously pregnant? We have a big family re-union in 15 weeks and she is 3 week now. She would not want everyone to know and start asking her silly questions..
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Open Question: Should I ask the doctor?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 15:42:58 GMT)
I am pregnant and when I go to my next doctors visit I will be 17 weeks and like a coupe days???My doctors office normally does not tell you what your having until 20 weeks,,on a website I visit several women already know what there having at 15 weeks....so should I ask ahead of time???
I already have two boys so I have seen ultrasound pics b4 and the ones I have seen have been clear...I just wanted to know if I should really buckle down and ask or just wait..
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Open Question: My sons 15 year old girlfriend is pregnant her family wants her to terminate I don't what do I do?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 15:15:43 GMT)
My 16 year old son and his girlfriend are pregnant 7 weeks. I just found out yesterday when her mom called me. The girls mother told me she wants her daughter to get an abortion as early as Saturday. I asked her what B. (the girlfriend) wanted. She said B. also wanted one and she gave her the phone so I can talk to her. B. sounded real confused she said her mom and the clinic were pressuring her to hurry up and make a decision. I explained their are other options to explore like adoption she said she didn't think she could do it. I told her to think about it and no matter what she decides I will not hate her or leave her side and I am sure my son would be the same. I had a long talk with my son and he also wants her to have the baby. He thinks with our support he can raise his child himself. He also said he would consider adoption because that would be better for the baby. I want them both to finish school and reach their goals. A baby at such a young age can keep them from doing that. I was a teen single mom who did everything on my own. I know its hard but it can be done. Am I being selfish I just don't believe abortion should be used as a form of birth control. Please help me..
Her parents also want me to help pay for the abortion which I understand but dont think I can morraly do any thought? As for they shouldnt have done it comments completely unhelpful at this point whats done is done.
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Open Question: What can i do about my body?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 15:09:15 GMT)
I'm 14 years old... Can anyone help me?...I don't know if this is normal but i have a pod belly...I look like I'm pregnant, but im not so i don't have to worried about that...But i have had a pod belly my whole life and i HATE it, I have tried exercising, and sit-ups but nothing is helping, i have tried doing ab excesses but my older sis said that it wont help....Cos the muscle will build up under my fat(My pod belly)...Im 15 in about 2 weeks and i want to get my Belly Button pierced but im not sure if i should cos whats the point having my belly pierced if im to embarrassed to show it off. but i REALLY want to get it done. dose ANYONE have ANY ideas of how i can get abs REALLY QUICK?!?! thanks heaps xo.
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Resolved Question: Could I have ovarian/cervical cancer?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 15:06:04 GMT)
mkkk. so.
i'm 15 years old and my period was NEVER regular. i would get it one month and then i wouldn't get it for, like, three months. then i would get it regularly for a couple months, then i wouldn't get it for another two or so. it was weird. then, in april 2008, i lost my virginty and my period has been regular ever since but it had a weird pattern. if i got it july 23rd one month, i would get it august 26th the next. then september 29th, etc.
well, i didn't get it for the whole month of october but then i got it on november 3rd. it was about one week late. and i still haven't gotten it - since november. i mean, there's no way i could be pregnant. i haven't had sex since august 25th and i got my period the day after it, anyways. so...i dont know. i'm really scared. i've already looked up the symptoms and they don't really apply. the only one that does is that i have to urinate more. /: i'm terrified.
help?
advice?
i'm TOO scared to ask my mother to take me to the gyno. she would freak the fuck out. but she had ovarian cancer when she was fifteen so...
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Open Question: Pregnant out of work boyfriend question ??? thnx?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 15:04:21 GMT)
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months. I got pregnant & I am 15 weeks along. He is in the army and in texas and I am in new york. He says he's in love with me & was all excited when I got pregnant. So far so good & our relationship has been great until I have been having complications throughout pregnancy & I am out of work for a month. I am short on cash and don't have enough to pay my bills with just getting disability. Should my boyfriend help me out? My mom says he should & other people tell me no its my own finance problems.
I am confused and feel embarassed to ask him. And when I did sorta ask he kinda changed the subject. Please help.
Yea I am sure it is his. I had not been sleeping with anyone prior to us getting together. We had an instant click and its not like I am some low life scum so please dont give answers that make me out to be. I am 21 makes 38,000 a year and he is also 21 and served our country so have some respect.
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Open Question: Does it sound like something is going on or am I just imagining it?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 14:39:55 GMT)
Ok, so here's the thing. I'm usually right on schedule with my period,no more than a day late!Ever! Back in September I was 15 days late, took two pregnancy test...one was positive, the other negative. I was experiencing really sore breast and was very sensitive to smell all of a sudden, but I started and went on with life. No big deal. Just thought that they were symptoms of pms. Had light period of Oct and and started again on Nov 27th!But had no period for December at all and still nothing. I took another test when I was two days late, but it came out negative. I wish I could just leave it at that and put a rest to all my worries but in the past week or so I've noticed movement in my abdomen. Weird sensations, like fetus movement! I know this because I have been pregnant before and have a three yr old son. But, got a positive pregnancy test right away with him. So, now I'm just going crazy. I've been experiencing really bad headaches, backache and I stay tired all the time. Also, in the past three months, I have went up a size in clothes...So, my question is has this ever happen to anyone else? Does it sound like something is going on, or am I just going absolutely crazy?
No, the test wasn't expired...and took both test from same box.
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Open Question: im either pregnant or have a UTI? help?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 11:56:42 GMT)
i dont know if im pregnant or i have a uti =/
im 15 & i just lost my virginity 3 weeks ago,
the first time we used a condom and the other times we didnt..
which was like 5 days ago...
and i think ive been having pregnancy symptoms
like lower back pain
headaches for the last 3 nights but thier not that bad..
and my nipples are like kindof hard/swolen =(
andd im pretty sure i have a uti..
i think it just started tonight.. i allways feel like i have to go,
but when i try like barley anything comes out. and it burns :[
i am freaking out D:
help meee
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Open Question: How to Sleep at 15 Weeks?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 11:29:45 GMT)
I am 15 weeks pregnant and from about 7 8 weeks I do not like laying on my belly as I always used to.
So I lay on my Back or sometimes on my side.
What way should I sleep?
What positions shouldn't you sleep?
Thanks xx
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Open Question: What Do You Think of this?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 11:21:04 GMT)
What Do you think Of this Diet?
Im 15 Weeks Pregnant
Today when I got up I had A Piece of Toast
Then When I got to Work I had a Breakfast Bar and A Yogurt Drink
Then at about 11am for a snack I had a pack of Crisps
For Lunch I have Cheese and Cracker, Grapes, A Banana and a Choclate Bar.
Then for Tea I have Stu and Dumplings.
Had the Same Kind Of Diet Yesterday
Does this sound Ok - Just try to make sure I don't go Hungry at work but still have a balanced diet.
At the moment I can only manage certain foods and am still having morning sickness so this counts alot towards what I eat.
Thanks
P.S I dont mean Diet in trying to eat less or loose weight I just mean the range of food I am eating.
xxx
By the way Stu contain lots of different veg
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Open Question: Nearly 15 weeks pregnant, what exercise can I start doing?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 11:02:40 GMT)
I need something gentle and need to start off gradually as I have not done any exercise since I found out I was pregnant at 4 weeks, plus my pregnancy is high risk due to it being twins. (Swimming is completely out of the question as I cannot wear my lenses in the pool and cannot see a thing without them lol
I may have to have a caeserean, but I may have to give birth vaginally and I've heard exercise can help with healing times and also with the labour and birth.
I want to start getting some exercise in to tire myself out a little more now as getting to sleep can sometimes be quite difficult now that most of the tiredness of the first trimester has gone.
Thanks for any advice!
I walk around quite a lot on my dinner break and walking to and from the station from work.
I'm not in school and it is hard to find classes that run after 7pm, most start at 6pm and I cannot finish work any earlier than 5.30pm so I'm basically just getting on the train at 6pm :(
I like swimming and have been when I've not been able to see properly, however, I've always gone with other people before.
I will have to go alone now as no-one will come with me and I'd rather not join an aqua-aerobics type thing when I'd have to go alone cos I'd just end up getting stressed out cos I can't see which is not good for my babies.
I used to go to the gym twice a week but then had to stop due to finding out I was pregnant and wanting to do the best so as I didn't know what was safe at the time, I just stopped altogether until I was passed 12 weeks. I also got signed off work for 3 weeks due to bleeding which has stopped now and babies are still fine.
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Open Question: how did you have success loosing weight?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 10:26:12 GMT)
ok.. well..
i weighed 44 kilos from when i was 15 years old untill i was 19 years old, then i started eating heaps (cos i had more money to spend on food) lol =/.. then i gained weight.. got to about 55 kilos, then i got pregnant and at the end of my pregnancy i weighed 72 kilos. now 5 weeks after giving birth i weigh 64 kilos and want to loose my excess eight.
any advice??? (I am now 21 years old)
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Open Question: Untreated Crvical Dsyplasia what are the risk?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 08:17:56 GMT)
I was diagnosed with Cervical dysplasia 15 yrs ago and am now worried I had my cervix frozen but haven't been back to the doctor since then mainly out fear but do have a appointment for a pap in three weeks. Should I be worried, I have skipped my period for two months and also I'll skip it a month or two here and there thats been going on for a year now and there's no way I'm pregnant so with me skipping two periods I'm worried now and made the appointment that I know I should of made sooner
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Open Question: Cervical dysplasia 15 yrs ago and worried?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 08:11:13 GMT)
I had my cervix frozen but haven't been back to the doctor since then mainly out fear but do have a appointment for a pap in three weeks. Should I be worried, I have skipped my period for two months and also I'll skip it a month or two here and there thats been going on for a year now and there's no way I'm pregnant so with me skipping two periods I'm worried now and made the appointment that I know I should of made sooner
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Open Question: do you think i can have kids?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 07:15:38 GMT)
im 18 but i have tried to get pregnant before when i was about 15 or 16. it never worked. i tried again to get pregnant again when i was 17 and i thought i was because my beriod was about 3 weeks late but the hpt were negative. i was under alot of stress and i was crying one day and all of a sudden my period came. im trying to get pregnant now but im not getting my hopes up. do you think that i can have kids or do you think maybe im just one of thes women who cant get pregnant?
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Open Question: is it all in my head or am I pregnant?!?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 06:55:23 GMT)
Ok, so here's the thing. I'm usually right on schedule with my period,no more than a day late!Ever! Back in September I was 15 days late, took two pregnancy test...one was positive, the other negative. I was experiencing really sore breast and was very sensitive to smell all of a sudden, but I started and went on with life. No big deal. Just thought that they were symptoms of pms. Had light period of Oct and and Nov. Was suppose to start again on Dec 29th but still nothing. I took another test when I was two days late, but it came out negative. I wish I could just leave it at that and put a rest to all my worries but in the past week or so I've noticed movement in my abdomen. Weird sensations, like fetus movement! I know this because I have been pregnant before and have a three yr old son. But, got a positive pregnancy test right away with him. So, now I'm just going crazy. I've been experiencing really bad headaches, backache and I stay tired all the time. Also, in the past three months, I have went up a size in clothes...So, my question is has this ever happen to anyone else? Does it sound like something is going on, or am I just going absolutely crazy?
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Open Question: Can an IV make your urine dark?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 06:53:54 GMT)
Im 28 weeks pregnant and i had a stomche virus. I couldn't keep fluid down, so i went to the hospital and the gave me 3 bags of IV to rehydrate me. That was a few days ago. Since then, ive been drinking lots of fliuid but my urine is still very dark. Can it be from the vitamins in the IV? I mean, the way i am drinking, my urine should be NO color! Ive been drinking about 10-15 glasses of water a day since then PLUS gatorade.
How is there anyway i am dehydrated??
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Open Question: What should I do, I am completely scared!?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 05:57:52 GMT)
This is going to be extremely long.
And I am sorry, but I know once I start typing I'll just put every single detail into here.
And I am crying right now, so if there are a lot of spelling errors I'm sorry.
Okay, to start my parents split when I was 9, and it's been 6 years.
My mom got full custody of me, but I have never been close to her.
My dad is like my best friend, but I barely ever get to see him.
He works off shore and when he comes into town my mom is a b**** and always tries her best to keep him away from me as much as possible.
Anyway, my mom got remarried last year, and I hate her husband.
I always have. He treats my mom okay, but when it's just me and him he is a different guy.
He always says things about my dad also.
Things that I know aren't true.
And for the last few months everytime my mom is drunk. 'which is often, and another reason we aren't close'
he comes into my room and for a while it was just him staring at me and I would get scared.
But then it got worst and he started raping me.
He told me not to tell my dad or anyone else or he would hurt my mom.
And I actually told my mom, because he didn't say her.
And she didn't believe me.
She was like 'Oh stop saying things about him just because you like your father'
And for the last few weeks I always feel sick, and my boobs hurt really bad. And I just don't feel well.
I know that those could be signs of pregnancy, but I'm begging it's not.
I'm 15, and I don't want this.
It's not fair to me at all.
My ex step-mom 'Okay my dad never really married her, but they dated for a while and her daughter calls me her sister' has offered to let me live with her more than once. And only now am I actually considering it. I know my mom could care less who I'm with, as long as it isn't my dad. But then again I would hate to put her in the middle of all of this. She is always there for me, and I wouldn't want to make her feel weird or anything.
Anyway, my question is.
What do I do?
I'm so confused and worried.
And I don't want to tell my mom or step-dad.
Because I don't know what he would do if I am pregnant.
And I know I could call protective services.
And I have got the number and everything.
But I can't seem to do it.
She's my mom no matter what and i can't seem to do it.
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Resolved Question: when did you find out the sex of your baby?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 05:06:48 GMT)
just wanting to know when you found out the sex of your baby and if it was a boy or girl? im currently almost 15 weeks pregnant now with my second and im so eager to find out the sex were you? and where do you live in the world?
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Open Question: im 15 weeks pregnant and dont feel pregnant?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 05:06:15 GMT)
im 15 weeks 2 days and feel great. i had a little stomach bug the other sunday and vomitted a few times but made sure i kept my fluids up. Cos i feel fine im worried there is something wrong with bub....though i know its too early to feel any movement yet...any comments ?
thanks :)
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Open Question: i need pregnant advise!!!!!!!!!!?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 03:47:44 GMT)
Hi my names is Sophia last month i had *** with this guy tht was 3 years older then me and he got me pregnant i found out 2 weeks ago but it still dose not show im scared im only 15!! i haven't told my parents i don't know if i should tell them!!! do any of you guys have any advise plz i just don't know what to do?????
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Open Question: Weight question during pregnancy!?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 03:43:22 GMT)
I am 22 weeks pregnant and still never gained no weight . i read at www.babycenter.ca that i should have gained about 12-15 pounds by now. Should i be concerned about not gaining any weight yet?Thanks in advance.
no my doctor dont seen to be concerned and at my ultrasound there was 11 days in the differnce.my first due date was may 11 and now its may 22
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Open Question: what are the symtoms of pregnancy on the 3rd week?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 02:35:21 GMT)
im 15.
and about a month ago i asked a question about being pregnant and i said some symptoms i was feeling and about how my period was 10days late, but i wasn't pregnant. Now im sortaa thinking i mite be. I have different symptoms this time. Which are back pains,going to the bathroom a lot, feeling nauseouss, really tierd, and lower pains where period cramps are that hurt there not the same as period cramps. So should i take the test?? or no?
Yes, we did use protection also he was a first timmer at this (i already wasnt a virgin) o im thinking the condom could of had a hole in it since it was his first time putting a condom on... and i did not take birth control either.
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Open Question: What are the chances of Pregnancy? ?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 02:31:54 GMT)
what are the chances of me being 5 weeks pregnant with every pregnancy symptom but got 2 negative results. I took a pregnancy test exactly 4 weeks pregnant and a pregnancy test today when i woke up at 2.15....
what's going on?
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Open Question: 14, pregnant, PLEASE HELP!!!?!?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 01:19:08 GMT)
Im 14, Im not allowed to date, but i do anyway. My bf is 17 and graduating in may. We have been going out for almost 2 months. After about 2 weeks of dating we had sex and about 10-15 times after that. we were protected but i just found out i was pregnant. But since im not even supposed to have a bf and DEFIANTLY not have sex how am i supposed to tell my parents??? PLEASE HELP!!! I REALLY DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!
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Open Question: HELP! Was it my implantation or weird cycle?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 00:26:37 GMT)
My boyfriend and myself have been trying to concieve for a few months. For the last 3 months my FRIEND has been on time. This month my FRIEND came on time but it the first day was light pink for when I wiped only. (TMI sorry) Than around noon the next day it was dark (heavy-medium) for 2 hours only. (TMI-only needed 1 tampon) Than went away for the rest of the night than around midnight it came back dark (heavy-medium) for 2ish hours. I am not stressed so thats not it. If anyone has had this problem please tell me your outcome or what a doctor said. I am seeing my doctor tomorrow but wanna be perpaired. Usually my FRIEND is 4-5 days long a heavy flow.
I just wanna know if this could be my cycle or implantation bleeding?
Also one more thing...If I have heard so many different amswers and wanna hear if you girls know. If a woman gets her period does that mean she ovulated??? Also I counted back 10-14 days from when I got my FRIEND nad I did have sexual intercourse with my boyfriend/fiancee around and or on those days..
When I was 15 I got pregnant and lost the baby. And since than I have never been on time but NEVER once has it been like this its totally weird. Like peoples bodies are different. Like my breasts were so sore for 1bout a week than stopped. I feel sick after I eat my fav foods. Its just weird on my behalf
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Open Question: severe lower back pain and pregnancy?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 00:23:47 GMT)
hello, i am 37 weeks pregnant and within the past 3 days i have been getting lots of lower back pain about every 15 minutes and the pain hurts so bad it makes me cry literally. i dont know whats goin on, and since this is my first child, i dont know what to expect. i dont have a way of transportation at the moment so if there is any thing i can do while at home please let me know. Oh, and the braxton hicks get worse but i get the lower back pain more often than the contractions.
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Open Question: what are the chances its not his?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 23:38:04 GMT)
ok...here goes...i had sex with boyfriend on june1 and he used a condom...june16,stupidly attempted to work things out with exhusband.....same nite i took ambien to help me sleep...we had sex...only to find out next day,he told me he didnt use anything(i cant use hormones for bc,due to cloting disorders)...we were married 15 years,and our youngest is 10.....i found out on july6 by ultrasound i was 6 weeks pregnant,and i "should" of gotten pregnant on or around the 22 of june....i only had sex on june 1,protected and june 16.....does sprem live that long after ejaculation?.....my friends wish it was my ex boyfriends,and honestly i do too.but dont see how its possible?....any advice?
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Open Question: what does does it mean to be low on iron while pregnant?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 21:13:20 GMT)
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