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Open Question: I want to be ok with it but i don't know if i can?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 05:24:08 GMT)
My boyfriend and i both trust each other very much and love each other. I am 16 and he's 17, yes i'm aware we're young but i dont need any comments on how i dont know what love is thank you. Anyway, he called me today in a panic because he needed to tell me something but the didnt' want e to hate him. He got another girl pregnant, while we were dating. I told him that i was ok with it and that i still loved him. I want to be ok with it, but i know that people are going to find out. I try not to care what people think but it's difficult sometimes. This past week had been very difficult for the both of us and it is testing our realtionship. I had a close friend die, he found out about this,i was also hospitalized early last week. we're trying to deal with one thing at a time but it is hard. He hasn't completey forgiven me for why i was hospitalized ( i was hospitalized for an eating disorder).
Now im afraid that i cant handle everything thats going on and i dont want to lose him. How do i become ok with him getting another girl preganant and cheating on me? How do i try not to let it affect everythig else that is going wrong? I just need to know how to deal, i dont think i can and im getting worse an worse
I havent eaten in days and cant sleep i actually feel like im dying. along with now everyone knowing that i have an eatig disorder, now i have to go talk to someone and go to regular doctor visits for it too. I cant act like im ok anymore. Help! Please any advice?
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Open Question: I'm 16 and pregnant and freaking out. please help! ?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 05:12:26 GMT)
Hey everyone... i'm only 16 and i'm like 89% sure i'm pregnant.. i have all the signs but i haven't had a test but im working on that.
just i need some help and please don't give me shit. im depressed already and im scared to death
so about 4 weeks ago i had sex with my bf hes 17 no its not some 24year old guy
anyways i ALWAYS have sex with a condom and im not on the pill.
but im a VERYYY VERYYYY [trust me ill NEVER forgive myself]
stupid kid i had sex without one for the first time and i guess if you have sex after you period its harder to get pregent well so he told me.
and he pulls out and i think everythings fine.
but around thursday (1st) i start getting signs and i think its fine but now more signs are showing. i looked up alll the signs and pretty much at 4 weeks i have them all. yea i know stress can cause myself to think i do but i think its more than that.
ive read about other girls on here that are going through the same thing i am and you all say tell your parents blah blah.
problem is i cant. my mom hates me you can say thats harsh but its true she tells me. we dont get a long at all and if i came to her she would kick me out and tell me to deal on my own.
i dont have enough money to go get a morning after pill
ive looked into it i guess out here there about 300$ and i dont have that kinda money.
i know it sounds bad but ive been doing drugs a lot to get it out of me.
believe me i would love to have a baby but im too young too stupid.
i'm comming VERY close to killing myself. yea i know sounds bad no im not emo or any of that shit just i cant do it. im 5" and 100lbs im too little....
PLEASE
help me. im so scared
im willing to even call someone if your willing to help me.
i feel like a terrible person..... please dont make me feel worse.
and sorry for all the info
thanks =/<3
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Open Question: Do I believe it and ask her, or just wait and worry for the next few months?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:04:00 GMT)
I don't go to school with my girlfriend so I don't see her that often. Just when we have dates or something. And it's been a while since we have gone out, because of the holiday's and then just getting back to school. But I talk to her every night.
But my friend told me that he heard that she's pregnant. he said she's telling almost everyone at her school, and he heard because his cousin goes there. And told him because he knew I was dating her.
So now I am questioning a lot.
I'm not sure what signs of pregnancy are or not,
and I don't want to buy into something that was heard and it not be true.
And I question her and she get mad because I think she's pregnant or something.
Now that I'm thinking about it.
1.She's always eating a lot more than she use to.
2.She's tired when she's with me, all the time.
3.She told me she didn't feel good about two months ago for about a week or so. And than after she just stopped.
I wasn't looking for any signs of that or anything.
But now I'm remembering all of this and getting scared.
Does she sound pregnant?
How do I talk to her about it, if she is?
Since she hasn't told me anything yet, but supposedly told her entire school.
I am a little confused by that also.
I don't know why she didn't tell me.
And we've been together for 2 years.
And if she is I will stay with her,
I'm just wondering if she sounds like she is.
or am I just thinking it because of what I heard.
And what am I supposed to do now?
Do I ask her about it?
I'm 17 and she's 16.
I already have a job, so if she is I can support it a little.
But I don't even know what to do right now.
Sorry if I just kept repeating myself.
I am so nervous and just typing really fast.
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Open Question: Help I need some advice. 16 weeks pregnant and problems ?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 03:08:39 GMT)
Back information for the last three weeks every time I have a bowl movement it's painful and I bleed a lot. well I had an appointment today and they told me that I'm in-flared inside I was given medication a class C on the pregnancy watch list a steroid called Hydrocortisone AC. I was told that if I don't take the drugs it may cure itself but it may take a while. The pain I usually only bothersome right before during and 10 min. after a bowl movement.
Has anyone taken this drug while pregnant and feel this is the cause of a birth defect or what do you think that i should do I will talk to another doc tomorrow but I'm so confused because they are telling me it's up to me?????
Also on this site I found it says could possibly affect infant's adrenal function what is this and ...
please just help
Thanks
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Open Question: could i be pregnant with a negative test?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:20:17 GMT)
On november 4 of 08 i got my period. my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex twice somewhere between the 14 and 16. In december my period didn't come until the 23. i took a test the first week of december and the test came back negative. Now my period hasn't come yet this month and i have a lot of the pregnancy symptoms, i don't know if i took the test too early, im so confused. What should i do?
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Open Question: BABY NAME GAME!!! 20 characters?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:16:12 GMT)
1. Your 17 and you have a baby with your boyfriend. Your baby comes in april, it's a beutiful baby boy. With brown hair, fair skin, and hazel eyes. You wanted his name to have something to do with your boyfriend <James Christopher> but not exactly.
2. You continue to the same college in Boston as your boyfriend. Post graduating you get married and shortly after realize your pregnant. On a buisness trip in paris, your children are born. 2 twin girl and boy, one with honey blonde hair, medium skin and indigo eyes, the other identical.
3. Your husband graduates med school and gets a job as a doctor, you now have a house <your kids are 11, 5, and 5) You decide to have another child, you get fertillity and have quadruplets. You want them all to have the same initials. 3 boys and 1 girl. The first 2 boys have blonde hair and blue eyes, the second has curly brown hair and brown eyes. The girl has black hair and topaz eyes.
4. Your husband gets promoted, so you quit work to stay home with your growing family. then your 14 year-old daughter comes to you with news that she's PREGNANT. Coincidentlly, your pregnant at the same time. After, talking it through with your daughter, the baby daddy, and his parents, you decide, that you will keep the baby because both families are doctors and financially able, under the impression that the two will raise the kids together. <btw, your daughters boyfriend is your neighbor>. Your daughter has a boy with blonde hair and blue eyes. You have a girl with beautiful purple eyes, fair skin, and jet black hair. Names?
5. Your children are now 16, 10, 10 and 2. Your grandson dies, with extreme sadness your daughter says she wants to marry the baby daddy, you agree, if the wedding is when they are both 17 or 18 and they promise to both go to college. Overjoyed with that information, your daughter gets pregnant again but with a girl. The two get married and you and your husband adopt twin girls from Australia. Your daughter wants the name of her son to have the same initials as her first. Your twins mother wanted the babies to be named after your family.
6. Now your children are 21<the 21 year old is happily married and just graduated from and going to lawschool>, 15, 15, 4, 2 and 2. Your son tells you he is going to be a father <15 year old son> upset <like the 1st 2 times> and the girl was kicked out, you feel obligated to let her in to the house. After meeting her more thoroughly she feels more like family. The baby is born when they are 16, you keep it. After they live together for 2 years they get married. They both go to a 4 year college near by and live in the house.
7. now that your children are 30, 24, 24, 13, 11, and 11, your youngest dies of cancer. and your oldest has a child and names it a similar name. The baby is born on the day of your child's funeral, so it was an uneasy day. Your 24 year-olds are both married with children.
8. After stressing to your daughter not to have sex, at the age of 19, while in an ivy-league college she gets pregnant, the baby is born 7 weeks premature and okay. It was a girl on march 3, at 6:17 AM. She wanted a hawaiian name. You and your husband retired very rich, shortly after which he died, so you move near your daughter and her new-arrival. She did not get married to the baby daddy <or possible baby daddies> she finished her degee and got a good paying jobs, and later writes a book called "the house of youth" a fictinal book based on her and her siblings teen parenting experiences, the book was a huge hit, and turned in to a TV show.
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Open Question: how can i prove im not cheatin?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:09:31 GMT)
hello.
my girlfriend and i have been 2gether for almost a year and a half now.
she is 16 weeks pregnant with our baby!
she thinks i am cheatin on her now and wont believe me when i tell her im not!
i love her 2 death and our baby 2 death and i would never cheat on her with any1!
she knows i love her and would do anything 4 her!
how can i make her believe that im not cheatin on her??
i've heard thats its got 2 do alot with hormones but idk.
im scared shes gunna leave me and then our baby want have all 3 of us 2gether and happy!
so plz help me!!
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Open Question: i am 16 and think i am pregnant..do you?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 00:45:38 GMT)
my boyfriend and i have had sex 25 times...24 1/2 times unprotected...the 1/2 is we started with a condom but decided it didnt feel as good with one..and about 1 week after our 1st time i started having a major pain in my ovarie area and now i am discharging a yellowish whiteish fluid and i know that it is not a yeat infection..am i pregnant??or is it just pre period...my period is due around the 20-24...
and i feel weird all the sudden not hungry kinda sorta nausiated and the fluid is really warm..and i can feel it come out..
yes he has pulled out and it has been a good 3 weeks since our first time..25 times in 2 weeks and 2 days..
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Open Question: i been having the pregnancy symptoms i missed my period for a week now i got my period and is really light?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 00:36:10 GMT)
i had sex with my bf on November29 and i got my period on the 5th of December we had sex on Dec.13,20,23 and it was unprotected now i been having early pregnancy symptoms i been vomiting,dizzy,craving food more than ever and my stomach got blooded a bit from my lower stomach and i missed my period for a week now but i got my period is lighter then ever i regularly get it really heavy can you help me do you think i'm pregnant i'm scared cause i'm 16 and i'm scared 2 tell my parents wat should i do can u respond ASAP!!!!! TANK U
i just want 2 let u guys knw dat u guys been a really big help i talk about it with my mom she said she would help me and my bf ot and she is a big person now if I'm i dnt want 2 lose it cuss my mom was not able 2 have baby's when she was young but she got some treatment so I'm scared i want a baby i wanted 2 wait but i never want 2 lose it if i'm so tank u guys so much i really appreciate it i hope i dnt lose it if i'm well keep leaving your answers i really tank u guys
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Open Question: did u start showing at 16 weeks?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 00:03:47 GMT)
is it normal to not show much at this stage? soemtimes my belly looks really pregnant (after iv eaten) but when i lie down it doesnt feel or look big and it feels squishy rather than firm..anyone else in this same situation?
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Open Question: im 16, i JUST found out im pregnant, please help me with some questions?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:36:26 GMT)
please don't judge, im sincere and im just looking for some help and support. im sorry its long,but if your willing to help please read..
this morning i took a pregnancy test because i was 3 days late and i was worrying. to my complete shock it was postive. so i called my bestfriend and told her. she was pregnant at 15 and had an abortion =[ i however do not believe in that at all.i had to go to school today, it was horrible. i know in cannot have an abortion, and i dont want to give the baby up for adoption..after school i had to go tell my boyfriend.he was suprisingly calm, eventually we both broke down. he told me he wanted me to have an abortion, but i told him no. then he said he will support me and be there in whatever my decision is. but i have tonss of questions now..according to something online im due around sep. 12th..im only 4weeks 3 days.
i dont want to tell my mom until im at least around 8 weeks..incase i have a misscarraige i dont want to upset her for nothing..when do you think i should tell her??
should i call planned parent hood and make an appointment??? what will they do there the first visit???
do i need to take prenatal vitamins now, or wait until i see planned parenthood, which probably wouldnt be able to get in until at atleast 3 weeks.???
how should i tell my mom??i cant imagine telling her to her face..
my boyfriend is arabic, his dad is VERY strict. he will probably kick him out..for a little while anyway..thats why he wants me to get an abortion bc he is scared of his dad..
please just help me with these questions and anyother information you can give me..
dont judge please, my boyfriend has a job i will get one soon. my parents will come around eventually i hope so i think i can do this..
thanks
also im pretty skinny, im almost 5'6 im 114 lbs. when do you think ill start showing?? i know everyones different but ill still be in school when im 6 months, do you think ill be huge at that time??
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Open Question: just found out im pregnant and only 16.. just wondering?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:19:03 GMT)
I found out 2 weeks ago, and im going to the clinic saturday. i'll be 17 on the 25th of this month.
i took 2 tests and they were both posative.. will the doctor do a blood test to confirm it, or an ultrasound .. what else will happen at the first appointment?
im kinda nervous about it
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Open Question: Could I still be pregnant??
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 21:03:30 GMT)
Ok well me and my husband are ttc and and I have a 30 day cycle and I had sex on day 14 16 18 and 19 I started bleeding on day 19 It was bright pink spot when I went to the bathroom when I wiped then when I went later it was nothing then later It was not a lot but enough for a pad it was like that for 3 days then stopped I dont think it was my period cause it normally stays on for 5 days but now at day 43 if thats even a day but I will be 5 weeks and 5 days if pregnant and I sleep more and urinate a lot more my breast are sore and bumps around my nipples they are soft bumps not like pimples my next period is due in 16 days I haven't took a hpt yet Im waiting until I miss this period first
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Open Question: what questions with the d/a ask me and what do i say and not say?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:11:05 GMT)
i became pregnant at 15 and he was 18. we dated for two years so i could charge him with sexual assault. when i became pregnant he told me he wants nothing to do with the baby and hopes we both die. he wrote me emails saying its best we stay far far away and even got another girlfriend a week later. now i just had my baby girl, and he wrote to me saying he still doesn't want to see her and his life is wonderful without us in it. i am SO angry at him and i feel so used but i do not want to press charges of him sexually assaulting me because it was consensual.. and at the time.. we both were very much in love, or at least i was. he is now 19 and im 16 and his family want nothing to do with the baby also. i got a call and the D/A wants to question me about what happened. what will he ask? should i press charges even though it was 100% consentual ? even though he turned out to be a complete jackass i don't want to cry sexual assault.. but im soo angry!!!!! what will i be asked and what do i say
the d/a called and said it wouldnt be s.rape it would only be "sexual assault" bc we dated for two years and i need to come in for questioning...
a detective came to my house and i wrote a statement saying even though legally i couldnt consent i do not want charges pressed against my ex. now they want to question me?! why and what will they say.. is this a set up.. should i even go
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Open Question: ok i need help lol.... 3 weeks 2 days late!! lol.... PLEASE answer?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:03:57 GMT)
ok my last period was november 16, 2008.
my expected period was december 14, 2008.... its now january 6 and im now 3 weeks late.
i usually get it every 30 days give or take 2 days late or early.
coul i be pregnant??
i took a few hpts and they were negative, i took one at a week and 4 days late and the other and a doctors urine test at 2 weeks late.
the doctor told me to go back when my next period was sopposed to come (2 weeks after i saw her) if i still didnt have a period.
i dont have stds and all that stuff lol.
me and my boyfriend arent planning or preventing lol
symptoms ive had and still have:
-3 week late period.. i usually get sore boobs before it comes, they never got sore lol
-lower back pain in the middle closer to the right side
-a pinching kind of dull cramping behind my pubic bone in the middle but more on the right side
-i had random headaches for the first week late
-more sleepy since a few days after period was late
-i get car sick alot easier now
-tiny tiny bit naseous occasionally
-boobs look a little fuller
-boobs a little sore on the top if i push on them
-im bloated
-below my bellybutton is round lol
-greenish-blue veins in my boobs?
-darker nipples
-last night there was alot of white looking bumps on my areolas
-pretty emotional more
-if my belt is to tight its a bit umcomfy now, had to move up a hole lol
im NOT stressed im always happy lol
no exercise im very lasy lol
i eat alot, always have
no diets
i weight like 134, im 5'3"
im 18
boyfriends 20
what do you guys think??anybody had all these symptoms, tested negative on urine tests and ended up pregnant?????!
please be NICE lol
thanks!! =]]
~if i am i have the cutest way to tell my boyfriend.. get baby booties a pair of blue and a pair of pink and put a blue and a pink bootie in a little box and wrap it and give it to him, he will be happy lol~ good idea???
sorry so long!! lol
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Open Question: Do you think I should go to the ER?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 19:12:56 GMT)
Hi ladies,
I am currently 16 weeks pregnant with baby number 3 and all today I have been short of breath and very dizzy. I got so dizzy I almost fainted is this normal? I mean the shortness of breath and dizziness was so bad that i had to sit down and it didn't go away at first it went away after about 10 min of sitting. Do you ladies think I should go to the ER? I have a doctor appt. Jan. 14th thanks!
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Open Question: im 16 weeks pregnant, been really tired?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 19:05:11 GMT)
I know they say every pregnancy is different but i dont remember with my last 3 feeling this exuasted. Everything that i have been reading says i should be feeling more energized now but i am sooo not. I havent been wanting to do anything at all. I know im not low in iron either, any body feel like this at 16 weeks, any tips that might help. I am a very active person so this is really starting to get to me. Any answers will help.
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Open Question: Pregnant teen maybe?? Need help. ?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 17:39:20 GMT)
I'm 16 years old and I am wondering the earliest signs for teenage pregnancy. I was not sexually active voluntarily(don't ask) and the day it happened was the 27th of December. I got my period on the 6th of December. So I'm supposed to be on it now. My periods aren't regular anyways and I usually get it around the same time but not the exact or sometimes even a week after. I also am getting over mono at the time. My breast have been hurting and I always am nauseous. My breast also hurt when I get my period too though. Don't suggest going to parents because that's not an option.I just need to know if it sounds like I am maybe pregnant. When should I buy a pregnancy test? I have some cramping(like periods) but no bleeding or spotting. I really hope I'm not and I just need to know I should calm down. I might be over-stressing about this which could delay my period (stress delays periods). I'm also on the medication Adderall XR if that helps.I have done research on all the symptoms and everything already. What do you think?
The guy pulled out but it landed on the area a bit. I know pulling out doesn't work all the time..no lectures please the situation is complicated.
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Open Question: My child's teen pregnancy might tear our relationship a part can it be saved?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 16:39:31 GMT)
My 16 year old son got his 15 year old girlfriend pregnant. We just found yesterday. The girlfriends mom wants her to have an abortion as quickly as possible. My son wants her to have the baby and either place the baby up for adoption or with my support raise the baby himself. The girlfriend is confused and hasn't made a decision yet she is 7 weeks.
I was a teen mother and single most of my sons life. I have been in a relationship for the last two years. My boyfriend told me he and his ex-wife were in the same situation when they were in high school. They opted for the abortion and later after they were married they had two children together. He says he thinks about it till this day and wonders what if and he knows his ex-wife never forgave him for having to do it. Me and my BF live apart but he has been a big part of me and my children's lives for the past two years. We talk about building a home and moving in together in the future. When this came up my thoughts were I didn't want her to have an abortion. I told both her and my son my thoughts but I also told them that no matter what they decide I will love them and be there for them. I told them there are other options to explore such as adoption and teen parenting. Later talking to my bf I told him if they didn't want the abortion maybe I could parent the baby myself. This angered him he said I was enabling my son to be a loser. I don't agree whats done is done if they can not take care of the baby why cant I? I have been a singe mother most of my life my sons mistake does not reflect me as a parent I took all the precautions I could. Basically my bf feels we are just starting our lives together and I will throw it away. I should not tell them I will help them because they will feel like they have no responsibilty. what do you think? BF said he could not make that same sacrafise. He will go his own way if I choose the either parent the baby or assist my son parent the baby.
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Open Question: My sons 15 year old girlfriend is pregnant her family wants her to terminate I don't what do I do?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 15:15:43 GMT)
My 16 year old son and his girlfriend are pregnant 7 weeks. I just found out yesterday when her mom called me. The girls mother told me she wants her daughter to get an abortion as early as Saturday. I asked her what B. (the girlfriend) wanted. She said B. also wanted one and she gave her the phone so I can talk to her. B. sounded real confused she said her mom and the clinic were pressuring her to hurry up and make a decision. I explained their are other options to explore like adoption she said she didn't think she could do it. I told her to think about it and no matter what she decides I will not hate her or leave her side and I am sure my son would be the same. I had a long talk with my son and he also wants her to have the baby. He thinks with our support he can raise his child himself. He also said he would consider adoption because that would be better for the baby. I want them both to finish school and reach their goals. A baby at such a young age can keep them from doing that. I was a teen single mom who did everything on my own. I know its hard but it can be done. Am I being selfish I just don't believe abortion should be used as a form of birth control. Please help me..
Her parents also want me to help pay for the abortion which I understand but dont think I can morraly do any thought? As for they shouldnt have done it comments completely unhelpful at this point whats done is done.
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Open Question: Im 16 weeks pregnant and my face looks like a Dominoes meat feast pizza.?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 15:00:29 GMT)
anyone else having this problem?? I suffer from mild acne normally anyway and i take antibiotics from the docs as well as using a zinc solution for my skin.. but nothings working at the moment and my skin is teerrrrrible!!! i feel like i should just lock myself indoors for the next 5 months. anyone know any natural remidies that could work?
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Open Question: Pregnant and really Sick. Is it normal?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 14:07:53 GMT)
Im 16 weeks pregnant. I haven't had any sickness or anything until now. My throat is sore and my nose is really runny. every since saturday i throw up every time i eat, Even if its just a candy bar. I woke up this morning and im having really rough cramps on the right side of my stomach. I keep gagging like i need to throw up but nothing comes up and it hurts so bad, My doc put me on marcobid for UTI i started taking that friday i thought that was what was making me sick but i quit taking it, cause i thought that was what has been making me throw up but im still throwing up. I have had a sore throat and runny nose for about a week now. I went to a medical doc and he said he was afraid to give me anything because im pregnant. Im waiting on a call back from my ob gyn now. Does anyone have any suggestions has whats wrong or is it just the pregnancy?
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Open Question: Love Geometry Square? Triangle?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 10:49:35 GMT)
Ok here goes nothing... Im a mother of 2 teenagers I have been living with their father (call him H) since I was 16 years old, never married. After six years of “marriage” and a lot of physical and mental abuse, I met this guy (I’ll call him S) that was really sweet to me and treated me very well but until then we were just friends. I found out one day that the man I had given my youth to had another woman. I went to college the day I found out, and I was mopey all day. S was really comforting and spent the day with me we didn't go to any of our classes, we just sat in the students lounge talking all day. A few weeks went by and i started seeing him as more than a friend, he had been with me thru thick and thin before and I felt like I was falling for him and on top of that I felt attracted to him because he was a virgin and I always wanted to know how it felt to make love to a virgin man (he was 20 I was 22).One day while in an English literature class we were passing naughty notes to one another and i asked him how it felt to kiss his first girl. To my surprise he wrote back "Im a virgin, never been kissed" I wrote back "maybe I can help with that last part". The look on his face when he read that was incredibly hilarious, I couldnt help but laugh out loud and the proffesor gave me an angry look. When everyone left the room we were left alone in it. I walked up to him and sat on a desk. He stood before me being or trying to be very casual. I just looked into his eyes and I knew he wanted that kiss, but he wouldnt dare come one inch closer to me. He is taller than me by about 5-6 inches and I rarely wore heels so getting off the desk was out of the question, so I grabbed his shirt and pulled him toward me. He took 2 steps forward and I wrapped my arms around his neck. I looked into his eyes and he said “ I don’t know how to…” I put my finger on his lips and stopped him midsentence. I pulled him closer, closed my eyes and kissed him. I couldn’t believe the feeling I got from doing something “forbidden” . The adrenaline rush was something I had never felt before something that cant be put into words. He wrapped his arms around me and we kissed for what seemed like a lifetime. When we finally pulled away, we just started giggling and left the classroom. From then on the relationship escalated into a passionate love affair. I didn’t feel guilty at all because it was revenge (now I know it wasn’t right). We would take every possible moment we had alone to sneak out of college to make love in the nearest motel. We even at some point tried to get pregnant so I would run off with him (very irresponsible) but it never happened. Two years into the relationship with S he bought a ring and asked me to marry him. I freaked out and told him I couldn’t marry him because I was living with someone to what he replied: “yes, you do. someone who treats you like sh*t, who beats you, and has no worry whatsoever in pleasing you sexually” (H would get off and I had to take a “cold shower”). After that he begged me to keep the ring even if the answer was still no.
One day we had a fight and I told him I wasn’t gonna be with him anymore, and we broke up. That was tearing me apart but I was trying to make things work with H. S called me so many times for us to meet and work things out that after so much persistence I went to see him. We spoke and he finally convinced me to give him another try. Just when we got up and hugged, my mother in law pulled over where we were and hell broke loose. To make the story short “H” found out and made me humiliate myself by walking on my knees begging him for forgiveness, something I did because he threatened to take my children away. I was told that I could never see S again and if I did he would hire someone to kill him or harm him. I was really scared and never called or txted or anything to my loved S.
10 years have gone by and my situation hasn’t changed H is still abusive, now to me and my kids too. 2 years ago I met this guy who is younger than me. (well call him A) and is really sweet and everything I have been living in the same house with H but in separate rooms for almost 3 yrs. I met A on an online game, from there we moved to talking using Nintendo wifi and using a game that allows voice chat we have been talking for the past 2 yrs. we have exchanged pictures over icq and even sent each other packages over mail. But S has come back into my life and my old feelings for him threaten my new relationship. To top it all off H keeps telling me he loves me and has strong desire for my body and my love. I feel bad for H but theres no love there anymore, he killed all of it. When he touches me I feel disgusted. As for A and S…that is where my problem lies. I have fallen in love with the younger A and I love him to bits but he is about 4,000 miles away, although he loves me too and is willing to take my kids in and give me babies (which I have wanted for a loooong itme) and
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Open Question: Help plz........................?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 10:24:24 GMT)
Ok so im on the pill(for 2 yrs) called estelle(or known to some as dianne) ive jus started my sugers on friday but about a week before that i noticed little dark dots on my undies not alot but bout 4 and i fort is that bloood n then thought nothing bout it and a few days late i noticed it again but ive never wiped and there been blood. ive been having a few weird pains in my lower stomach crampy jab sorta things headachs n light headedness maybe a bit queezy. it usualy takes bout 5 days never anymore then 6 to get my period after starting the sugers tomorrow is day 5 but usually i get this feeling that im gettin my period and i dont have it ?? my last period was the 11/ 12/ 2008 and i had unprotected sex on the 16/12/2008,21/12/08, 30/12/08 so what do u think?? i've never had anything like this ?? i'm only 18 and if i am pregnant i will keep the baby i have a full time job so money isnt really an issue
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Open Question: pregnant??????????????????
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 08:22:33 GMT)
Ok so im on the pill(for 2 yrs) called estelle(or known to some as dianne) ive jus started my sugers on friday but about a week before that i noticed little dark dots on my undies not alot but bout 4 and i fort is that bloood n then thought nothing bout it and a few days late i noticed it again but ive never wiped and there been blood. ive been having a few weird pains in my lower stomach crampy jab sorta things headachs n light headedness maybe a bit queezy. it usualy takes bout 5 days never anymore then 6 to get my period after starting the sugers tomorrow is day 5 but usually i get this feeling that im gettin my period and i dont have it ?? my last period was the 11/ 12/ 2008 and i had unprotected sex on the 16/12/2008,21/12/08, 30/12/08 so what do u think?? i've never had anything like this ??
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Open Question: What Should I Do???? HELP PLEASE.....?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 06:27:22 GMT)
Well my cousin who is 16 is dating this 20 yr old and he lives like 10 hours away and he comes down often to see her. Well tonight she tells me that they are having sex. I don't want to break the trust between us but I am worried that something may happen to her. They have only been together for about 2 weeks and they are already telling each other they love each other. And so on. I am confused about what to do. Should I tell her parents whats going on or should I just sit back and do nothing. PLEASE help me we are very close but I am just worried about her. I don't want to see her hurt, or pregnant or anything in that matter.
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Resolved Question: When pregnant, what do you count as a month?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 06:21:56 GMT)
Do you count 4 weeks as a month, or 4 weeks and 2-3 days as a month?
Do you count by weeks or by the day of the month?
If my LMP was on the 12th of Sept., do i count my month up every 12th, or do i continue to count by weeks?
I am 16 weeks pregnant...so am i 4 months pregnant or 3 months and 3 weeks?
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Open Question: I may be pregnant at 16?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 06:05:56 GMT)
So I'm 16 about to turn 17 years old.
And I had sex for the first time on December 15th.
My last period was on November 29th I believe.
And I was waiting for my period to come late December.
But I got a spider bite a couple weeks before Christmas.
And started taking amoxicillin.
That cause me to have a yeast infection.
And now I'm a couple weeks past due of my period.
Could this be because of my yeast infection
or could i be pregnant?
If I get pregnant my mom will kick me out of the house.
I've been with the same guy for 3 years.
If she even knows i'm having sex i will be kicked out of the house.
is there anyway I can get a pregnancy test without her knowing?
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Open Question: 16 weeks pregnant and having milky white discharge come out when i sneeze?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 06:03:10 GMT)
sorry if this is TMI but im kinda worried, every time i sneeze or blow my nose it seems to hurt my uterus and sometimes i get a gush of this really watery milky white discharge, is this normal or should i be worried? at first i thought it was just me peeing a little when i sneezed cause i read that can happen, but when i checked it it was a milky white. yesterday i was having pains but i think its just from my uterus growing. but i dunno.. should i call a doctor or am i just paranoid?
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Open Question: Can the gestation age of my baby be wrong?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 05:36:17 GMT)
Ok, Im calculated to be 16 weeks and 3 days pregnant. Which was confirmed by ultrasound at 12 weeks....But I went to my GP obstetrician today. Ive changed doctors as I didn't like the last one. Well I was getting a abdominal exam and the doctor said I had a very high uterus for 16 weeks and I seemed more like I was 18 weeks pregnant. Which Im not surprised at really. Im getting bigger already.
This is my second pregnancy, well 4th, but only my last pregnancy went full term.
Is it possible that they have miscalculated my due date, which is 20th June.
Thanks for your help!
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Open Question: Help!!! PREGNANT AT 14?!?! Any other teenage parents??? ?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 02:39:52 GMT)
So im 14 and i am 3 weeks pregnant with my 17 year old bf. We've been dating for almost 2 months and has had sex over 20 time ; ). The thing is...im not supposed to be dating until im 16 and i dont know how im gonna tell my parents any advise or anything? Also im sure my bf is going to stay with me so no need to comment on that. If ur a teenage parent BOY OR GIRL it would help if u also told me what u did
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Open Question: What are the odds of preeclampsia in a second pregnancy with same father?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 02:28:32 GMT)
I am 16 weeks pregnant with my second child. First child is 4 years old - was diagnosed with PE at 29 weeks and delivered at 35 weeks. I am curious of the odds of this happening again.
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Open Question: what are the chances its not his?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 23:38:04 GMT)
ok...here goes...i had sex with boyfriend on june1 and he used a condom...june16,stupidly attempted to work things out with exhusband.....same nite i took ambien to help me sleep...we had sex...only to find out next day,he told me he didnt use anything(i cant use hormones for bc,due to cloting disorders)...we were married 15 years,and our youngest is 10.....i found out on july6 by ultrasound i was 6 weeks pregnant,and i "should" of gotten pregnant on or around the 22 of june....i only had sex on june 1,protected and june 16.....does sprem live that long after ejaculation?.....my friends wish it was my ex boyfriends,and honestly i do too.but dont see how its possible?....any advice?
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Open Question: It is normal or something wrong?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 23:15:04 GMT)
I am 16 weeks pregnant with twins and i been having brown discharge for the past few days and im not going to be able to see my doctor until next week and it happens after sex too I know its not a std because I have been check for all of those. has this happen to anyone else is is normal or something wrong?
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Resolved Question: How do we let our 7 year old son know we lost a baby?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 23:06:00 GMT)
I'm 16 weeks pregnant and was just told that we lost the baby, had no previous indication of this. It has hit us like a semi-truck. My daughter is 2 so I'm not so worried about her, but my 7 year old son has been so excited about this new addition. At this moment, there are a lot of things going on in my head, but this is bothering me the most. I want to tell him in a few days when I've accepted it but just want some tips on how or what to tell him. Thank you.
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Open Question: What do you think? Could I possibly be pregnant? NEED ANSWERS PLEASE!?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 22:46:43 GMT)
i was bleeding very light for a couple of days. i mean very light.. brownish in color...that never happened to me before.. its been about 2 weeks since my last period. i have had unprotected sex but i am on the pill.. been on it since i was 16 and i am now 21.. i have been messing up on it alot the last couple months and i know alot of people that have gotten pregnant on the pill... could i be pregnant? and when would be the best time to take a pregnancy test?
ive also been feeling extra hungry, having chest pains, stomach pains, etc... please give me your opinion!
thanks :)
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Open Question: Is there something wrong with me? PLZ answer Im only 16?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 22:13:28 GMT)
Im 16 and the past month of December I have been having unprotected sex ALOT..and I was suppose to be most fertile Monday the 15th til Saturday the 20th and I had unprotected sex on Friday the 14th. Before we had sex I went to the bathroom at school to pee and wiped that clear discharge that you can stretch an inch between your fingers and thats suppose to mean your ovulating. Well my period came on the 4th of yesterday which is the exact day its suppose to..Why am I not pregnant? Is it possible I am? What are the chances since Im on my period now? Also I took 4 test and they came back negative BUT it had only been 2 weeks so maybe it was to early...I have been with the boy since we were in 7th grade but we lost contact for 3 years and have recently got back together. He wants a baby but I dont...Im not trying to get pregnant I just hate using condoms cuz they are a pain but I called my doctor today for some birthcontrol.. I was on it like 2 months ago but I quit taking it because I wasnt having sex for like 6 months..Thank you
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Open Question: Will they be able to tell?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 21:58:32 GMT)
I am 16 weeks pregnant with twin and I get a ultrasound tomorrow will they be able to tell the sex of the baby's.
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Open Question: Is there something wrong with me?? Plz help me?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 21:49:53 GMT)
Im 16 and the past month of December I have been having unprotected sex ALOT..and I was suppose to be most fertile Monday the 15th til Saturday the 20th and I had unprotected sex on Friday the 14th. Before we had sex I went to the bathroom at school to pee and wiped that clear discharge that you can stretch an inch between your fingers and thats suppose to mean your ovulating. Well my period came on the 4th of yesterday which is the exact day its suppose to..Why am I not pregnant? Is it possible I am? What are the chances since Im on my period now? Also I took 4 test and they came back negative BUT it had only been 2 weeks so maybe it was to early..PLEASE HELP ME!!
Thank you
I wasnt trying to get pregnant its just we never really like to use condoms
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Resolved Question: is prematurity hereditary?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 21:00:49 GMT)
just curious. my grandmother had two of her children at 7 months pregnant, and my mom had me a month early. her due date with me was sept 22 and her water broke and i came august 22. im just curious cuz im just wondering about my baby, i know i have 16 more weeks to look forward to, just wondering if premature babies run in the family? the father was full term i believe, if that helps...
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Open Question: wisdom teeth and pregnancy?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 18:49:08 GMT)
im 16 weeks pregnant and i still have my wisdom teeth... they have recommended i get them pulled for a long time and lately they have been bugging me really bad. my boyfriend doesn't think that they could pull them since im pregnant and they would have to drug me up.. does anyone know anything about it? its weird i know but i just thought it was worth asking.
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Open Question: My sister is 16, and she is 4 months pregnant, and my mom is letting her keep it?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 18:19:07 GMT)
My mom found out about 2 weeks ago that my sister was 4 months pregnant. She had been hiding it from her for the past 3 months, hoping she wouldn't notice. When she found out, she was really upset and appalled. My sister has always been a very irresponsible person. She can barely keep her cell phone charged let alone keep up with doing her own laundry. My mom told me that there was nothing she can do about her having the child, since she will be 17 when it is born. We would all like her to give it up for adoption, but we think she's going to try to keep it. Is there anything my mom can do about her having it? I live in Michigan, is there anything she has to say about it legally?
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Open Question: I'm a little worried about this. PLEASE HELP! I'm 16...?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 18:18:48 GMT)
I don't need you to tell me how I'm "to young for sex". So if your going to preach at me about that, don't even bother because nothing you can say will make me any different.
ok =) so...my period was a week late. I thought I might be pregnant because of the timing of when I had sex. Today will be the 5th day I'm on my period. The first and somewhat the second day of my period was pretty bad but then the 3rd and 4th day of my period was slight spotting and today there was nothing at all until I just went to the rest room and I noticed light red discharge. Does anybody know what could cause this? Usually my periods are really bad the whole way through. I've never had spotting or this type of discharge before.
Thank you! =D
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Open Question: First Ultrasound What To Expect?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 16:43:36 GMT)
What should I expect?
I am 16 weeks pregnant.
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Open Question: help! im pregnant and need to quit smoking..?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 15:45:25 GMT)
I am 16 weeks pregnant and still kind of smoking. i smoke maybe 2 or 3 a day and some days i don't smoke at all. i had my first ultra sound and the doctor said that me and the baby look healthy! im happy about that but i still feel very guilty about smoking, especially since my boyfriend thinks that i have completely stopped because i dont smoke with him around. i smoke mostly in the car so i was wondering if anyone had any tips for me to help me stop! thankk you.
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Open Question: Pains and Pregnancy any Ideas?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 14:34:47 GMT)
Okay I am 16 weeks pregnant and feeling tightness in my sides and lower stomach where the baby is I've tried to take Tylenol but it doesn't seem to help it feels like a tightness like I just got working out any ideas of what it may be and ways to help the pain???? thanks and congrats to all the mommies
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Open Question: Help!!What are my chances of another miscarriage?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 11:40:33 GMT)
Hi there, in November, I suffered a miscarriage, i was 6 weeks into the pregnancy at age 31. This happened to be a 2nd miscarriage, first occured when i was 16. I have had a son in between at the age of 22. I have just found out i am pregnant again...took 3 tests to make sure as i took the tests 6 days b4 period. all tests have come out positive. My LMP was on the 10th December, that was the only period i saw after my miscarriage( was advised to wait 1 month b4 trying again). However I am now so anxious and extremely worried about miscarrying again. Could any1 share similar experiences or know what my chances are of miscarrying again. Thanks so much!
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Open Question: Do you think im.......................?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 09:48:36 GMT)
pregnant? Ok so im on the pill called estelle(or known to some as dianne) ive jus started my sugers on friday but about a week before that i noticed little dark dots on my undies not alot but bout 4 and i fort is that bloood n then thought nothing bout it and a few days late i noticed it again but ive never wiped and there been blood. ive been having a few weird pains in my lower stomach crampy jab sorta things headachs n light headedness maybe a bit queezy. it usualy takes bout 5 days never anymore then 6 to get my period after starting the sugers tomorrow is day 5 but usually i get this feeling that im gettin my period and i dont have it ?? my last period was the 11/ 12/ 2008 and i had unprotected sex on the 16/12/2008,21/12/08, 30/12/08 so what do u think??
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Open Question: What is the birthing process like?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 08:16:00 GMT)
I am 16
24 weeks pregnant
and would just like a little insight of what to expect....
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Open Question: 16 weeks pregnant but dont feel pregnant?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 08:04:34 GMT)
iam 16 weeks pergnant but i dont feel pregnant and my stomach isnt really hard except sometimes after i eat and im not really showing is this normal
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