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Open Question: do you think i'm pregnant?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 03:06:51 GMT)
I last had my period Jan 18th, i missed my feb period but was not sexually active. my boyfriend came down on feb 24 and we were sexually active for a week ( till march 2nd) unprotected. its now march 14th. everyday for about two weeks or so i've been felling nausea throughout the days. i took a pregnancy test two days ago, but it was negative, before i go to the doctor im going to wait until March 18th to see if i have my period and to take another test. have anyone else ever experienced this happen to them?
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Open Question: I am bipolar and I'm worried I'm pregnant?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:46:56 GMT)
March 5th was the date I had sex and the condom broke and I need to know if I'm pregnant so the dr. took a blood test last week and I haven't gotten results yet. But lately because of stress I think I have been having horrible mood swings and I'm tired all the time and hurting. My boyfriend has dealt with me having lots of crying spells. I keep trying to tell myself that it's just me and I'm not pregnant. My period isn't due until the 18th or longer. Maybe it's PMS from being bipolar it seems to get worse. My nipples are itchy and I don't think that's a sign of pregnancy though. We started rolling cigarettes and the smell and taste made me feel nauseous.
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Open Question: Brown discharge 18 days late?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:28:22 GMT)
I hate to sound ignorant but I do have a question here. I am officially 19 days late for my period. Now, dont get me wrong. I know this is odd and the first assumption would be that I am pregnant BUT I have to say that for the past 4 months it is not unusual for me to be 15+ days late. I knwo this not right and I am working on getting my insurance coverage at work to see the doctor but until then I need some help. just 4 days ago i started experiencing brown discharge when I wipe. I am beginning to think that I am pregnant because of this but then again... iw orry its something terrible and that something is wrong with me. I did take a pregnancy test about 7 days ago and it was negative so I told myself I was not going to test till another week. I will be buying a test before work tomorrow. I just would like some kind of opinions if anyone has had this happen. for 4 days this light brown discharge happened and today it is DARK brown discharge but only when I wipe never on my pantiliner or undies. Its quite strange and the only time I have ever had this happen is after my period is done...
Any advice/opinons would be greatly appreciated!
please help
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Open Question: Baby name game!!! (long but hope you like it!)?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 22:20:39 GMT)
Hey everyone this is another baby name game! Beware its long!!
On your 18th birthday you find you are pregnant! For almost 3 and a half months you hide this fact from your parents but your boyfriend,Carter John Matthews, already knows! One day you and Carter sit both of your parents down and tell them. Carters dad is horrified and your mom almost passes out. Later that evening you all have dinner together. Ya'll decide to keep the baby and Carter is moving in with you and your parents. 6 months later a beautiful red-headed baby girl is welcomed by her loving family and friends!!!!! You name her something that means gift! Her middle name is what ever you like! (this is you and carter) http://www.istockphoto.com/stock-photo-6552847-teenage-couple-embracing-one-another-at-a-park.php
1.Whats your name?
2.Whats her name? http://www.istockphoto.com/stock-photo-1917404-happy-redhead-on-tile-floor.php
When your little girl is 3. You and Carter get married! On your honeymoon you get pregnant again. When you get the ultrasound it says TWINS!!!!! But 9 months later you must have a c-section and there is not 2 but 3 babies!!!!! All boys!!!!!! the first boy is named after his daddy, the seconds first name starts with k and the middle name must be related to fire or wind, the third is anything you wish!
3.What is triplet 1's name?
4.What is triplet 2's name?
5.What is triplet 3's name?
When your first is 6 and the triplets are 3 you suprise everyone, including you, your pregnant again!!!!! This time its identical twin girls! You have them a couple weeks early but they are fine and dandy! Twin1 is named after a flower her middle name is a boy-ish name and Twin2 must have a 2 syllable first name her middle name is your moms!
6.What is twin 1s name?
7.How about twin 2?
Your first baby is now 10, the triplets are 7 and the twins are 4! Everyone is now in school or preschool and you miss having a baby! One morning your walking down the street and see a new orphan house! A light bulb goes on over your head and 1 year later the paper work is done and you adopt a new little girl! She is 2 years old and a little bundle of energy!!! You name her something SUPER unique! Her middle name is whatever you want!
8.What her name????
Your kids are now 16, 13, 10, and 8! You and your husband send all the children to a 8 week summer camp and you two set off on a Second honeymoon!!! 3 weeks later-badabing badaboom- your pregnant again! At first you decide not to find the sex then you notice you are abnormally large!!! You go to the hospital and find your not having twins not even tripelts but SEXTUPLETS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! In your stomach you are housing 3boys and 3girls!!!!! They are born almost a month early but all pull through okay!!! Name them all with super cute and classy names!!!!! with middle names that are NOT the same letter!!!!!
9.Sextuplet 1? (girl)
10." "2? (girl)
11." "3?(girl)
12." "4?(boy)
13." "5?(boy)
14." "6?(boy)
Finally your done! You move to tennesse and finsh raising your family!!!! One morning your 19 year old daughter(the first one/oldest) is in the bath! You realize that there is no towels and walk into bathroom with a slight knock. What you see almost make you want to cry and pass-out! There is just a little bump on your daughters skinny little stomach! Later she and her 3 year boyfriend,Anthony-John Walker, tell you that she is almost 2 months pregnant! You let her keep the baby! And in return she gives her little blonde haired ice blue eyed baby girl your name as her middle name!!! (your daughter and Anthony)
15.What does she name her?
(your grandbaby) http://www.istockphoto.com/stock-photo-9438509-portrait-of-little-baby-girl-wearing-pink-on-white-background.php
Now name your children and your grand daughter!!!!!
The End!!!!
Was it funn? Do i need to make more???? Star??
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Open Question: our cohabitation is getting harder?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 21:31:36 GMT)
now i'm 34 weeks and 1 day preg and my mom is idk, 15 weeks preg(???) and my mother's boyfriend is living at our's. my stepbrother's 18 so he decided to leave (we hate that man) and i'm gonna b alone against my mom and Keith. problem is, keith is leaving his under wear all over the floor and he doesn't pick them up! and my mother's with him! so, they want me to clean up everything... GAwSH! i'm pregnant!!!!! he's a bitch and he hates me and my stepbro. have i to leave with my brother? i'm only 16!
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Open Question: Please help me I feel so damaged, and completely out of it.?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 20:52:13 GMT)
OK so a lil bit more than a year i was with the guy i tough was gonna be my last to ever break my heart. anyways we broke up like 3 times mainly cuz he was a pot head, and i didn't like that not only that, but he had a 14 year old pregnant and he's 18. Anyways. I'm 17 1/2 so... i meet his family he meant mine. everything was going well, i personalty didn't mind he was going to have a baby because its not the baby's fault. so, the fist time i broke up with him was because i found him he was getting blown., i got really mad and oh i felt so hurt cuz he knows i don't like that. So, anyways we got back together and he cheated on me with his ex, i felt so betrayed and damaged. To get me back he begged me and even got on his knees i at the time still loved him..i took him back and i forgot what he did and he promised he wasn't going to do it again he looked at me straight in the eyes and told me how guilty he felt for hurting me. Finally, he did me wrong again by the same person, and i felt offended because come one twice and with the same person. i was really angry at him not cuz he didn't like me anymore but because he didn't tell me the truth and this was when his baby was finally born. Any was like a week ago after 3 months without seeing each other or talking to each other he called me and i just couldn't take it and i insulted him but it felt good telling him what i need to tell him?, even tough that was going to give him an idea that i still liked him the truth is i can't go back with someone like that. I've lost all respect for him, and there's no way i can see him the way i use to just the thoughts that he slept with someone else simply hurt me and disgust me. An now I'm currently trying to move on with this wonderful guy who is the complete opposite of him. The problem is that my ex stalks me, and i need him to stop because it was his own fault that he lost me in the first place. Please give me some advice ;/
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Open Question: Can i get married at 15 to my 18 year old boyfreind without my parents consent?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 20:47:01 GMT)
i am 14 going to turn 15 on June 11, my boyfreind is 17 and turns 18 on june 10. We found out i was pregnant a month ago. A week after we found out i was pregnant my parents wouldnt let me go to school and told me that i wasnt allowed to talk to my boyfreind. Then after that week, they unenrolled me out of my school and sent me to another town where my dad lives. They said that me and my boyfriend are not allowed to see each other and if we talk or have any communication they will press charges on him and put a restraining order on him. My boyfreind and I both want to keep the baby and raise it TOGETHER, but my parents are standing in the way of that...i havent talked to him in a month and its been really hard because we have been together for 7 months. He is the best guy i know. He wants to be with me forever and he wants to raise this baby with me. My parents think we are too young to be parents and that is why they dont want us to contact each other? It doesnt make any sense? i dont want to have to go through all the court and laywers so we can fight for custody. My boyfreind and I do not want to have to deal with custody and who pays child support and etc. We want to be together, raise the baby together and give it the life it deserves. My boyfreinds parents and family approve of us getting married and think it would be best for Me the baby and my boyfreind. My boyfreind will be graduating and has a job, he and his parents can support me and the baby, but my parents wont let us be together, is there any way that I can get married to him? I want to marry him and i know this isnt some irrational choice because im young, i know that he is always going to be here for me and im always going to be here for him. Me and my boyfreind know what its like to have divorced parents and we do not want our child to have to go through that, we want the child to have its birth parents together, raising it together and be a happy family. My parents and the law are the only thing that is stopping us from getting married. Is there anyway that the court can order me and him to get married without my parents consent? Please give me a very educated answer this is really hard for me and him and im going through a great deal of depression.
how are we supposed to raise the baby together if we cannot be together or see each other?
I dont need any smart remarks about my situation. All i need is a yes or no answer. My boyfreind isnt a bad guy we just happen to be a young age in this situation. We are trying to find a way to be together and raise the baby together.
what do you mean i can move out?
We do not want to have an abortion neither my boyfreind or I beilive in abortion. We do not want adoption because we want to raise OUR child.
we know the situation with the age. My parents do not wish that charges of rape are pressed on him because they know that the approved of this relationship and they know that he didnt force me to have sex with him. The know that we both love each other and our feelings just got the best of us.
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Open Question: Any pregnant women start to feel insecure about gaining weight?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 20:43:58 GMT)
I'm 18 weeks pregnant and having a hard time accepting that I'm going to gain all this weight. I used to be a lot bigger and worked hard to lose a lot of weight. Now I feel as if I'm gaining it all back. I know I'm pregnant and its normal etc. But I don't look pregnant, just look bigger. So people that don't know me, or don't know I'm pregnant are just going to think I'm getting fat again. I'm starting to feel insecure around my bf, he didn't know me when I was bigger, so I feel as if he might not like me as much (he knows that I have to get bigger cause I'm pregnant and tells me it fine and all that) and I'm having a really hard time accepting it all. I'm just wondering if there are any other women that went through this? If so, how did you get over it?
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Open Question: Sweet Revenge, Or Just Mean?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 20:39:49 GMT)
Sooo...Ill try to make it quick & to the point...
I met a guy back in 2001...We liked each other a lot and started going out...After about a few months we lost cocntact cause he ended up moving about 2 hours away...I was 18 at the time...
I heard about him again in January 2007...But he was in jail...Since we had clicked so well the first time, I said to myself, why not give it another shot...So again, we started talking even with him being in jail...I did everything for him..,Never missed a visit...Always accepted his phone calls...EVERYTHING...We fell completely in love (or so I thought) and ended up getting married in April 2008...Everything was like a fairytale...Even with him being in there...I ended up selling my car about a month before his release to be able 2 get him an attorney that could help with his release...Well, it worked...He was released in May of 2009...
1 month after his release, he started saying he needed space...I told him ok cause regardless of anything, i knew he was going to leave...He ended up going to his moms house...Which is only 10mins from my house...Like a week later, I found out he's seeing some girl he's known since he was like 13 years old...Which is also the same girl that left him when he was first sent to jail...As soon as he went in, she ended up leaving him, changing her phone number and getting pregnant by another guy!!! He never spoke to her again...So now, to hear he was with her, I went crazy...
But Im not the type to form a show and get crazy...I sit back and watch things happen from the back seat...So I never confronted her or anything...If thats what he wanted, so be it...In my eyes, soon he'll see who she really is...BTW, Children & Families took her 2 kids away from her because she went & left them with her dying grandfather in NC while she was down here in FL with her 'man'!
So this is the purpose for this posting.....
His address is still my address...So he still recieves mail at my house...Yesterday he recieved a letter from the IRS...It stated that he owes over $16,000 in child support!!!!!!! He has a 8 year old daughter that he never sees...The letter says he has 10 days to respond or they will pursue action towards him....
I hate being mean...That might just be my problem...I may me wayyyy too nice & people tend to take advantage of that...
BUT...could this be the best form of REVENGE!!?!?!?!? LOL...I cant figure this one out on my own...
I need your help....
Ever since the break up, which was back in Aug 2009, Ive had serious anxiety...Something I never had my entire life...It scares me to death...I always have really bad ugly thoughts...Like im gonna die 1 day...Im gonna start therapy in like 2weeks...I ended up in the hospital on Jan1st for shortness of breath but the Dr. said it was just anxiety...Ive lost weight and my self esteem is on the floor!!!!
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Should I act like i never got the letter & let him get what he deserves?!?!? I would really love to just so he can see and feel everything he's done to me...I was too good to him :(
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Open Question: Pregnant and lonely. Am I being unreasonable?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 20:39:22 GMT)
Ok, this might be a bit long winded but please bear with me!
I have a 7 year old son, I work part-time Mon-Sat during the day. I'm also 18 weeks pregnant now.
My OH works as a full time manager in the bar trade and works pretty unsociable hours, lots of long shifts, weekends and late nights. Not the problem so much as I knew this when I met him.
Most days he starts work in the late morning or afternoon and works through to bar closing time or later, sometimes until 4 or 5 am. On the rare occasion he does an early shift and finishes late evening, 8, 9, 10pm. On these evenings he chooses to go to the pub to have a few drinks to unwind.
Not a problem in itself as such, I don't expect him not to have any social life of his own. But herein lies the problem...
He feels it's perfectly acceptable to do this at EVERY given opportunity. He will never finish work early and come home to spend time with me. Or invite me to meet him in the bar. Or suggest that WE go do something together, cinema, dinner, whatever. Or even suggest that he come straight home from work so that I can go meet up with friends to get out of the house and have some adult company.
Due to his working hours, I very rarely see him during the day as he is sleeping when I get up for work due to his previous late night, or when I'm off he's only up an hour or so before going back into work again.
His days off are my days to work 9-6 so I only see him in the evening for a couple of hours. He'll usually take the opportunity to go out that night as he is off.
I feel like a single parent, I never see him or get time to catch up with him to have a chat about my day or his. We never do anything together as a couple. I VERY rarely get the opportunity to meet up with friends because I'm at home every night alone with my son, so pretty much have no social outlet myself. I've talked to him about this so many times in the past but it has never changed for long, he always reverts in a matter of weeks.
Is it so unreasonable of me to ask that I have some kind of adult company or social life, or even a proper relationship with him??
I'm only 25, we've been together 5 years and I just feel SO god damn old, lonely and sad.
Babeheart- what changes do you suggest making?
Aside from plain out saying to him "you can't go out after work tonight, get your ass home asap" what can I actually do by myself to change this??
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Open Question: What are the chances of a place hiring you when your 18 weeks pregnant and showing?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 19:33:47 GMT)
I have a interview for Blockbuster next Saturday its not really a interview its a pre-interview where a few applicants go sit at this round table with a couple managers and they ask you questions to make sure thats the right job for you, I LOVE movies and ive always wanted to work at a Blockbuster since I was like 7 lol, but im scared they are going to overlook me because of me being pregnant, and should I tell the managers when I go to the pre-interview that im pregnant? I cant hide my stomach anymore so im really worried about this. And have any of you gotten a job while your pregnant? Let me know what you think about this, Thanks...
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Open Question: What are my chances of being pregnant?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 19:09:22 GMT)
Hello.
I just wanted to ask some insight here on the chances if me being pregnant. I got my period in Jan 18. My soldier was then coming to visit on February 19, where I was supposed to be getting my period again. Two weeks before Feb.19 I took birth control pills for two weeks but not always everyday because I would forget them, I did it so I would skip my period. I got my period on Feb 27. My ovulation calculator tells me that I would ovulate on the 12-13 of March and my fertile period is from the 8-14 of March. I had unprotected sex A LOT :) from the 4-8th of March then I said goodbye to my soldier. What are my chances of being pregnant and how soon can I test.Oh and on the 12th it was obvious I was ovulating, I had a lot of cervical mucus. Also I am eating a lot and craving so much. I know it might be mental just thought I would add that. Thanks!!!
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Open Question: Is it possible to have several symptoms before.....?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 18:50:58 GMT)
Implantation. Or does the fertilised egg have to be implanted first before any kind of symptoms start to show?
I'm in the dreaded 2ww and af is due on the 18th. I've taken a couple of the first response epts which came out negative. I feel as though I'm pregnant because usually all that happens 3-4 days before af is that I get gas lol
The past week I've been eating like a horse, yawning even after a full nights sleep, I'm in bed by 8pm usually up at 7am but still spend the entire day exhausted, I've had dizzy spells, a strange 'cold' feeling at the back of my throat like I'm about to be sick, my breasts are slightly tender but only on top and only if I lean on them or knock them by accident, I have gas and my lower back is constantly aching. My pelvic area is also aching every now and then and I have had cramping.
I've not bled and although I feel quite wet down there, when I go to the bathroom and wipe there's only a bit of dc.
I'm just confused because I thought symptoms show once implantations occurred, so if I have implanted why are my tests still negative? With my last pregnancy I took a test 5 days after missed period and it was extremely feint. I didn't get any symptoms until I was 6 weeks along lol
Then again I could just not be pregnant and losing my mind haha
thanks for any advice
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Open Question: I think my sister is going into labour at 35 weeks!?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 17:44:47 GMT)
My sister is 35 weeks pregnant, she has been experiencing braxtons hicks from 27 weeks onwards. Her and her boyfriend are here for mother day with my family and she isn't near the hospital she was planning to give birth in. This morning she thought she was having normal braxton hicks but now they are getting worse and her boyfriend is timing them and they seem to be 25-30 minutes apart each time and sometimes only 18-20 minutes apart. My boyfriend is increasingly worried and her midwife has said go to the nearest general hospital but my sister isn't having none of it. She keeps telling the whole family its too soon and the baby isn't ready yet. We think shes just worried because her baby will be premature but everyone says the pregnant mother knows best. Shall we believe her and leave it or do we need to literally force her to the hospital? Thanks.
P.s you may have seen some of her questions, Evalynn P in the pregnancy and name department :). I'm so proud of her!
They havent gotten closer but she thinks she may have just passed her mucus plug. My to be brother inlaw is taking her to hospital whether she likes it or not, she isnt as reluctant now she has passed her mucus plug so quickly.
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Open Question: is there a chance i could be pregnant?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 17:38:09 GMT)
please bare with me as i will be explaining details. i only want serious answers and serious people.
ok so...on february 17, 2010 i had cervical mucus that was like watery/clear, slippery. didnt know if it was stretchy or not cuz i didnt even think about touching it to see. all i know is i saw it on the toilet paper when i wiped. i thought to myself that maybe this is fertile mucus. i didnt get a chance to BD that night. but i did the next night. (feb. 18, 2010 and also feb. 19, 2010). then on february 24 i remember having this like twinge like pains on my right side of my lower abdomen. i thought that was strange. then it dawned on me that maybe im ovulating. again i didnt get a chance to BD that night. but i did the next two nights (feb. 25, 26, oh yeah and the 28) so anyways. i continued having the watery mucus for like about 4-5 days after that. then it dried right up. and now the mucus looks white like lotion but feels slightly stickyish. not slimy like lotion.
my periods are not regular. what i mean by that is that my cycles are not the "perfect" 28 days. my shortest cycle was 32 days and my longest was 45 days. and those recordings are from the past 6 months. i have been off birth control for a year now.
march 1 was when i took my first HPT. negative. i continued taking them for a whole week and all were negative. march 6 i went in for a blood test. that too was negative with an HCG level of -2. i was guessing i was 10DPO that day. the last time i took a HPT was on march 10. and that too was a negative. again i was guessing that i was 14DPO that day. also i was expecting my period that day as well. today is march 14. guessing im 18DPO. and i still have not got my period yet. and today would make cd45. i keep running to the bathroom thinkin that AF has showed up and no nothing! my cervical mucus is dry. i checked my cervix the other day and it felt like my nose. kinda hard. and then i tried to check my cervical mucus by scooping it and on my finger it was white like hand lotion but easily broke apart and dried up quickly.
so i was wondering since AF hasnt showed up yet and i dont feel AF cramps (which i normally do) and i never spotted. my nips dont hurt. my boobs dont hurt. although i get tingling sensations every now and then. sometimes it feels like the let down feeling from breastfeeding. i took my temperature for the first time just to see what it was and it read 98.5...which i thought was a tad odd cuz normaly im in the 97 range. i didnt do BBT charting. i only used my cervical fliud as my way of seein when and if im ovulating. and also every now and then i will get sharp like shooting pains in my boobs too. been gassy off and on. backaches, headaches. last night while i was laying in bed i had cervical pain. but it wasnt to the point where i wanted to yell out in pain. i have a hard time stayin asleep!!! i toss and turn. my hips slightly ache. more so when i lay on them.
sorry if this was really long...but i really would benefit from serious opinions and advice!!! please if your serious...i would really like to hear what you think. i would like to give myself one more week to see if AF shows up. but any answers and advice is GREATLY APPRECIATIED. and if u have a lil story of your own to share with me...that would be great too. thank you all soooooo much :)
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Open Question: Why does ultrasound say i'm only 20 weeks when im 25 weeks pregnant?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 16:53:27 GMT)
I am 25 weeks pregnant going by first test and ultrasound. My belly is now measuring 23 weeks but the measurements of baby show i'm only 20 weeks. Could there be something wrong? I had an ultrasound done at 18 weeks and it showed 15 weeks then agian at 24 and it showed 20. It seems that the growth keeps slowing down. Should I be concerned?
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Open Question: I hate being pregnant! Anyone else?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 16:43:42 GMT)
I'm 21 weeks with my second. It's a boy again. I had morning, noon and night sickness for the first four months. Also, I felt like I had the flu with every muscle aching... Then at 18 weeks I started having contractions and had to be put on modified bed rest. Then one week later our family got the swine flu!! Now, I'm still weak and exhausted all the time. Then yesterday I was picking up a toy and I blew out my back and can't walk or stand!!! Good grief! I'm exhausted and can't wait to not be pregnant anymore! I'm regretting getting pregnant at all. Has anyone else felt like this and did it go away when you saw your adorable baby? I'm hoping that's what happens but what if it doesn't? I just need a break!!
This will be my last pregnancy. I can't do it again. I wouldn't even do this one again if I had to. I was so excited with my first that it made all the drama and pain ok. But with this one, all I can think about is a horrible pregnancy followed by a screaming newborn and chasing after an active 4 year old...
I would also like to tell anyone who thinks I'm ungrateful that I had 3 miscarriages before this one. And I know what it's like to want another baby. However, this is the most miserable I have ever been in my life and until you've felt like this for months on end, you don't know what you're talking about. I'm having regrets and it's ok to feel like crap and look for support from others who also feel that way.
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Open Question: lost my baby having a hard time dealing with it ._.?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 12:56:26 GMT)
I was 18 weeks pregnant ,Yesterday I went into labor and had my baby and i lost him ,,, im having a serousily hard time dealing with this , , it was my first baby and i just wanted him so bad i cant eat i cant sleep i cry constantly i finding it really difficult to let it go , I got to see him before i left the hospital and he was perfect and my pregnancy was going perfect i dont understand why this had to happen , I have PCOS and tried for so long to get pregnant and i thought everything was going great i nevr thoguht id lose him so soon, I was suppose to have my second ultrasound tomorrow to see what i was having and i was so excited.......... I'm horribly sad and dunno what i can do to stop thinking about this , just writing this makes me cry horribly , im so sad i have a great hubby who is trying to make me feel better but he feels the same way i do ,........ I wake up crying O.o i dunno what i can do to let it go , i cant concentrate on anything ._. ... i feel horrible and feel like it was my falut >< :(((((((((((((
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Open Question: why wont my husband work or have any drive to do anything?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 11:31:54 GMT)
Hi guys i have a real problem at the moment, My husband of 18 months came to england december 2008 to be with me as we had out first child and wanted to be together permanently. Since then he has not found work or should i say not even tried, he cant claim benefit's because he is not a british national so i don't know why he wont work as we are really struggling and just surviving on the money we do have. Its like he has lost all his ambition and desire to be successful and does nothing but drink,smoke and play online games. I am also pregnant again and he made his promises to do something and get a job but nothing has changed i am due in june and so scared about bills and paying for the new baby. At the moment i am living on a one person benefit and claiming jsa Witch i feel humiliated about walking into the job Centre ever 2 weeks, i hate it but what can i i do? I do not trust my husband to look after my toddler and newborn while i work its not fair and i do not see why i should miss out on mother hood while he slops around all day. Even getting him to pass his driving test has Been task, we cant even get around or go out as a family should because cant be bothered. I just feel like hes giving me such a bum life and its effecting the way i look at him in every way. I am not even sure i see him as a man or respect him anymore because hes not. All the weight of the family is on my shoulders. Because my mum was his sponsor to come to england she helps us out with money Alot but its not good why should my mother help us when i am married i should be helping her. I do all the work around the house and he does nothing at all i even wrote his cv and got him his theory test books,college application.... lots of things anything to get him motivated and nothing.... What should i do? I am seriously considering divorcing him and becoming a single mum of 2 at least i can pick my own life up when there both at school. :(. He also drinks everyday just beer but still 4 pints on average and i just don't have a life i cant afford to because leeches all the money i try and save and if i don't give him any there are arguments i just cant be bothered with. I need some words of wisdom from people who might have good advise, im only 22 am i wasting my life with him?
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Open Question: I am 18 years old and my girlfriend s pregnant?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 08:47:58 GMT)
my name is Jason King this girl name alicia keeps on bugging me and getting on my nerves at times. She was wild and promiscuous and I was attracted to her not because she was wild but beautiful and she didn't take interest in me until my personality started shining and she starting falling for me then one night I helped her study and one thing led to another I was shy and I lost my virginity to her because I wanted her. but the case gets worse I started messing with her more about 2 or 3 times my mom raised me and my brother and she hardly never brought up the issue when it comes to sex and to be honest I am clueless when it comes to sex and stds. and the truth of the matter is 2 weeks ago she called me on the phone and she told me she missed her cycle and I didn't know about that meaning when I came to terms she's pregnant. It hurts me because out of those 3 three weeks I have known her sexually and me coming to high school and meeting her I didn't know I have used a condom or protection because she said that she was on the pill, it felt good, but also its okay it feels better and this turns out she's pregnant I don't know did she plan this because I have a lot going with me regarding my musician career and know I'm going to be a father. I am 18 I haven't told my mom about this or my 5 year old brother matter fact he's clueless he's just a kid. what should i do i am about to graduate from high school in 2 to 3 months and I don't know how to tell my mom she's about to become 40 years old and being a grandma what about my brother whats he gonna be to my child. and the truth of the matter is she keeps on bragging talking about a son. at this point i don't wanna a son or any kids. just having sex with the hottest girl in my classroom and she's pregnant makes everything different. now i have to deal with her the rest of my life and she dumb in the head when it comes to books and all and a little bit of promiscuous when it comes to the other boys what should i do. i am in bind and i need someones help. anyone comment.
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Open Question: Chances that i'm pregnant?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 04:58:11 GMT)
2 weeks ago i finished my period. The first pill of the new pack i forgot to take. The next day i forgot to take it again! But woke up in the middle of the night and took both of the pills (That days and the night befores) . My boyfriend and I then had unprotected sex the next day. Stupid, i know. I blame the heat of the moment. But I have been consistent with my pill ever since.
My friends told me I would be fine to not take the day after pill because the pill is in my system still since I have been on it for over a year.
Could i be pregnant? Should i take the test? What are the chances cuz im just 18!
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Open Question: im 2 months pregnant and he wont even look at me...?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 03:52:27 GMT)
Im 18, and found out I was pregnant like 2 months ago. Me and my boyfriend had been arguing for about two weeks when I found out. He broke up with me over face book when I told him. He wont even look at me now. Hes in denial about the whole situation. I even took a pregnancy test in front of 2 of his best friends and he still doesn't believe me. Ive been to the doctor and its been com firmed. About a week ago my mom called his mom and told her, now all of his friends are harassing me. They TP'd my house and left a note in my house door telling me how big of a whore I am. He even called me the day after he made me take a pregnancy test in front of his 2 best friends, while having sex with another girl. The only time he has even been nice to me, is when I said I would consider an abortion. I dont want to have an abortion, I just want him to be there. I tried to get him to go with me to my ultrasound, but he says hes grounded, which I know for a fact is a lie. In all honesty I have no idea what to do. Any advice?
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Open Question: Im 2 months pregnant and he wont even look at me...?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 03:16:27 GMT)
Im 18, and found out I was pregnant like 2 months ago. Me and my boyfriend had been arguing for about two weeks when I found out. He broke up with me over face book when I told him. He wont even look at me now. Hes in denial about the whole situation. I even took a pregnancy test in front of 2 of his best friends and he still doesn't believe me. Ive been to the doctor and its been com firmed. About a week ago my mom called his mom and told her, now all of his friends are harassing me. They TP'd my house and left a note in my house door telling me how big of a whore I am. He even called me the day after he made me take a pregnancy test in front of his 2 best friends, while having sex with another girl. The only time he has even been nice to me, is when I said I would consider an abortion. I dont want to have an abortion, I just want him to be there. I tried to get him to go with me to my ultrasound, but he says hes grounded, which I know for a fact is a lie. In all honesty I have no idea what to do. Any advice?
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Open Question: have a pregnancy question...............?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 02:35:13 GMT)
Tonight my husband and I and a couple of are couple friends are going bowling and I was wondering if I would be able to bowl Im 12 weeks pregnant and I only use bowling balls if they are 18 Pounds or less Is it not good to bowl cause of the weight and the strain of me throwing the bowling ball? please no rude answers I really want to know thank you
Oh Thank You ladys very much and I think yoyr right anything under 15 pounds should be find my OB said I shouldnt lift anything more then 20 pounds but I just wanted to get other peoples answers
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Open Question: could my girlfriend be pregnant?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 01:08:34 GMT)
We had sex about a week ago, the 6th, and I didn't ejaculate inside her, but I understand that she could get pregnant from pre-ejaculate. Her period usually is between the 10th-18th each month. She hasn't started her period yet and there is no real cramping. We are both freaking out, could she be pregnant? I am 18 and she is 17 and we don't want our parents to know so going to the doctors is out of the question. Please help us.
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Open Question: Quick question about me possibly being pregnant? Please and Thank You?
(Sat, 13 Mar 2010 22:34:45 GMT)
Hello.
I just wanted to ask some insight here on the chances if me being pregnant. I got my period in Jan 18. My soldier was then coming to visit on February 19, where I was supposed to be getting my period again. Two weeks before Feb.19 I took birth control pils for two weeks but not always everyday because I would forget them, I did it so I would skip my period. I got my period on Feb 27. My ovulation calculator tells me that I would ovulate on the 12-13 of March and my fertile period is from the 8-14 of March. I had unprotected sex ALOT :) from the 4-8th of March then I said goodbye to my soldier. What are my chances of being pregnant and how soon can I test.Oh and on the 12th it was obvious I was ovulating, I had alot of cervical mucus. Also I am eating alot and craving so much. I know it might be mental just thought I would add that. Thanks!!!
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Open Question: Exercise bike feedback?
(Sat, 13 Mar 2010 21:40:12 GMT)
I am 5'0''. 18 years old. 29 weeks pregnant. It's almost summertime; I want to be confident in my shorts in the hot weather. I have always been between 130 & 135 pounds since I was about 15/16 years old. I am rather gifted in the thighs/butt/breast departments. My stomach has never really eben a problem, just the thighs & butt. I would like to start using my exercise bike to tone my legs & butt up, even though I'm pregnant. My doctor says this is perfectly safe and healthy for me because I have no complications wiht my pregnancy except I have gained maybe 5 lbs too much for how far along I am & my height/weight... I am just wonderin gif anyone else has had success on toning/losing fat inches off their thighs/butt using an exercise bike(pregnant or not)??
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Open Question: Pregnancy & the exercise bike?
(Sat, 13 Mar 2010 21:39:32 GMT)
I am 5'0''. 18 years old. 29 weeks pregnant. It's almost summertime; I want to be confident in my shorts in the hot weather. I have always been between 130 & 135 pounds since I was about 15/16 years old. I am rather gifted in the thighs/butt/breast departments. My stomach has never really eben a problem, just the thighs & butt. I would like to start using my exercise bike to tone my legs & butt up, even though I'm pregnant. My doctor says this is perfectly safe and healthy for me because I have no complications wiht my pregnancy except I have gained maybe 5 lbs too much for how far along I am & my height/weight... I am just wonderin gif anyone else has had success on toning/losing fat inches off their thighs/butt using an exercise bike(pregnant or not)??
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Open Question: Losing weight while pregnant, using an exercise bike...?
(Sat, 13 Mar 2010 21:38:41 GMT)
I am 5'0''. 18 years old. 29 weeks pregnant. It's almost summertime; I want to be confident in my shorts in the hot weather. I have always been between 130 & 135 pounds since I was about 15/16 years old. I am rather gifted in the thighs/butt/breast departments. My stomach has never really eben a problem, just the thighs & butt. I would like to start using my exercise bike to tone my legs & butt up, even though I'm pregnant. My doctor says this is perfectly safe and healthy for me because I have no complications wiht my pregnancy except I have gained maybe 5 lbs too much for how far along I am & my height/weight... I am just wonderin gif anyone else has had success on toning/losing fat inches off their thighs/butt using an exercise bike(pregnant or not)??
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Open Question: 18 weeks pregnant and a question about prenatals?
(Sat, 13 Mar 2010 17:36:23 GMT)
Sorry if this is gross, but I had been taking 2 Prenatal Complete vitamins, that's what the directions said to do, and 2 additional iron supplements for anemia. I was taking 1 of each in the morning and at night. Of course, I had constipation, but I was dealing with it fine. Then, when I had to get more prenatals, I got a different brand which I now just take one prenatal and two iron and ever since my stools are much softer and not as dark. I know both constipation and soft stool are common in pregnancy, but do you think it's the change in pills, or something else. I'm not crampy, or bleeding, and I it;s not constant, just when I pass a bowel. I will contact my doctor about the change but I wanted to get some opinions. Thanks<:
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Open Question: Is My Girlfriend Pregnant? Please help?!?!?
(Sat, 13 Mar 2010 09:38:19 GMT)
Hello Everyone ok well i need some help on this,My girlfriend is 15 and i am 18 My girlfriend is scared she is pregnant. I've used a condom recently but a week ago or so, I haven't. Usually we would just start cuddling and one thing leads to another and leads to another. So in a matter of time we would be having sex and i stop and realize i didn't have one. Now please don't bash on me i know what i did was wrong and i understand my mistake however she was fully aroused and had plenty of lubrication and in a matter of time she did what is called "Female ejaculation " At first she thought it was me, but because this our first time actually engaging in a sexual intercourse i guess you can say she didn't really know much however. i felt a strong urge to "pee" whenever we got very intense like i would slow down and eventually stop and my heart would be beating very fast, it feels as if.. it stings like the tip of the penis now please note is did NOT have a condom when this happened. Once again i am fully aware of the mistake i did. Now after that like 1 week before her period (expected to come) she said that her stomach hurts and she was bloating, and i really didn't know if it was normal for that to happen before a period. yesterday (Friday, March 12) she was expected to get it maybe it comes Today (March 13) or tomorrow. i have to admit we did it several times with without a condom and i know for a fact i didn't not ejaculate but then again i don't know how it feels because i haven't really "done" it on her. top of that we're going through a lot right now her parents might kick her out if she is, and she lost her parents trust because she sneaked out of her house and we got caught and as lo, once again she is 15 and i am 18 so please help we are very scared and may god bless you
im sorry i re posted this but im just freaking out like literally we have so much going on... and im scared for her
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Resolved Question: My roommate is pregnant and getting abortion and I'm soooo against it!?
(Sat, 13 Mar 2010 06:50:48 GMT)
My roommate is about 8 weeks pregnant and decided she's getting an abortion without even telling her boyfriend. She drinks alot and she drank and then drove home last night and did that almost everyday since she found out. Then this morning she had court for a DUI. I'm so against abortion and I can't believe she's acting this way vshe is 25 and had an abortion when she was 18. My question is 2 parts. One, I really feel like I should tell her boyfriend and maybe he would talk sense into her or maybe he would back up her decision but at least he should know who she really is. I know it's nit my place to tell him and that's y I haven't. But in this situation I feel like it could save a baby from getting aborted. I know that drinking is messed up for the baby but I still feel like the baby could be fine if she got it together. I was in her same situation 6 years ago and I was drinking alot then found out I was pregnant but I had my baby and he is fine. (I stopped drinking when I found out) My son was my savior and I have never regretted having him and had 2 more. The second part of the question is if she does get the abortion I feel like I want to kick her out of my house. She is living with me and my boyfriend and our 3 kids, owes us 2 months rent, and obviously wants to keep partying with no regard for her choices. I feel that I don't want to be around her and her decisions cuz they make me sad and angry. Would that mean I'm a good friend or a bad friend? I feel like I am enabling her to do stupid shit by being her friend despite these choices. If I refuse to be around her choices then I would be giving her tough love, right? Idk. I'm very confused. Sorry so long. Any suggestions or insight is appreciated.
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Open Question: has anyone had this before? 9 almost 10 days late?
(Sat, 13 Mar 2010 05:01:14 GMT)
I have taken 6 hpt's and they all have been negative. but my boyfriend and i recently had sex and we didn't notice that it was the week to most likely get pregnant and we didn't use a condom. i have missed my period going on 10 days now. and im sick in the morning but better by 11am...sore boobs, larger boobs, MOODY like crazy, emotional like crazy too. head aches all the time back to back. can't eat what i used to like. wanting chip ahoy cookies all the time as well as cheese pizza and peanut butter.
Can someone help me determine if this sounds like pregnancy to you? because with my first i never got a pos preg test til i was 3 months. and i lost her at 6.5 months...
I really want this child if i am pregnant and I am ready for it. I dont care how much you ppl say I wont be ready. yes i am 19. my bf is 18 but we are ready.
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Resolved Question: Ok...I am going crazy!?!?
(Sat, 13 Mar 2010 03:57:03 GMT)
I am 11 weeks and 2 days pregnant. I KNOW I have been feeling little flutters for almost a week now. I have had 3 other children...this is my 4th and I know how crazy this seems. To me it just seems impossible but I know that is what it is. I have had 3 other children so I know it isn't gas or anything else. I am 100% sure it is the baby I am feeling. I felt my first child at 18 weeks for the first time. My second I felt at 16 weeks, and my 3rd I felt at 15 weeks. I have been feeling them earlier every time but 10 1/2 weeks seems just way too early. I know I am not further along because I had a ultrasound at 8 weeks and 1 day and my due date of September 30 was confirmed. There is no way the ultrasound could be wrong is there? I never heard of an ultrasound being wrong about a due date. I am starting to think I am just crazy!?! Opinions please!!
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Resolved Question: pregnant women how many days/weeks/months you have left?
(Sat, 13 Mar 2010 03:02:12 GMT)
how many days/weeks/months you have left?
I am having a c section on March 18th. Which is 6 days away. Its at 6 a.m. to get prep and then at 7:30 they do the actual surgery.
They told me it was a girl. So i am naming her Aaliyah Brooklyn. But if they was wrong then his name will be Alexzander Zackory.
I am kinda scared. But also very excited !!! Seems like i wanted time to go by really fast now it seems like i dont have enough time to do things before she comes !
Congrats to all the mommy's and mommy's to be !
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Open Question: Where to find cheap but supportive cotton maternity bras?
(Sat, 13 Mar 2010 00:57:40 GMT)
I am 18 weeks pregnant and have outgrown my current bra size. I would like to purchase a few next size bras. But if the bra size is going to drop back to pre-pregnancy size after delivery, I dont want to spend a lot on them. So I am looking for economical bras to wear now. Nothing fancy, cotton would have been great.
Any tips on where to find them?
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Open Question: Can Somebody Please Tell Me If I Can Possibly Be Pregnant?
(Sat, 13 Mar 2010 00:54:34 GMT)
Okay soo I'm 18 && me && my Bf have unprotected sex and on march 1st he released in me..&& these past couple of weeks I've been using the bathroom more often && its large amounts of urine,I'm tired a lot more often,I'm hungry a lot more,and my nipples are sore && tender off && on but my breast doesn't hurt and they didn't get darker..I took a pregnancy but it came back negative my period is supposed to come on march 15th..should I just wait to see if my period is late && then take another pregnancy test??...answers please help...
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Open Question: When Do Babies Develop Their Sleeping Patterns?
(Sat, 13 Mar 2010 00:07:43 GMT)
Hey Everyone Im 18 Weeks Pregnant And Im Just Starting To Feel My Baby Move. I Have Alittle Extra Fat Around My Belly So I Cant Wait To Feel Those Really Good Kicks. Last Week I Got A Sonogram And The Baby Was Fine But Either Was Sleep Or In A Bad Position Because We Couldn't Get A Good Shot. I Was Wondering When During Pregnancy Does The Baby Develop Sleeping Patterns And When Can You Be Able To Tell?
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Open Question: have i got signs of a miscarriage? please help!?
(Sat, 13 Mar 2010 00:02:50 GMT)
I explained on another question recently that im 17 going on 18, and i found out on thursday i was 5-6 weeks pregnant, then ever since 6pm that day ive been constantly bleeding very heavy and i woke up covered in blood.
i went to the bathroom and noticed massive clots of blood, which was really long and dark coloured.
i phoned my doctor and she said if it continues then i have to see her on monday morning for a test to see if its negative because she thinks it sounds like a miscarriage.
What are the massive clots of blood? and do you think its a miscarriage too?
it looks like stringy blood.
the reason she is not seeing my until monday is because i am not having the child
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Resolved Question: I could really use some input before i loose my mind please?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 23:36:19 GMT)
First please let me say if you have a rude opinion or comment please keep it to yourself. Im 18, My ex and i had unprotected sex (stupid i know) on feb. 28 (sun.) which was the morning i finished my period. My cycle is only 25 days long so i figure out that i was due to ovulate that week. A week later i started feeling some cramping in my uterus and i started feeling this heavy tieredness, like i was drained and my daily activitys seem so much more harder than usual. Later my breasts started hurting hear and there so i was curiouse and took a pregnanct test 13 days after the sex and it was negative so i was relieved and went on like normal no stresses just happy. As time went by i still would get the sore breast and still tiered. In 2 days it will have been 3 weeks since the sex and i have recently started feeling like im going to get my period (cramps) even though im not due yet, i have moments here and there when i get dizzy or light headed and i have been having mood swings not to mention my boobs have grown. Any thoughts on if the test was wrong and i could be pregnant? I know some are saying its probably in your head but i dont think it is. Ive been so busy i havent cared much but now my ex is giving me a hard time with this and basically its shaping out to be if i am pregnant ill be alone so today im finally starting to figure out if i am or not. Im waiting for my period but while i wait im hoping someone can give me some good input please :)
No i could never do abortion. Nothing on those who do, just not for me. I would keep it even if it meant doing it alone.
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Open Question: trying to figure something out?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 23:19:23 GMT)
i had sex with a guy september 18th from september 19 and almost 3 times a week every week after that i only had sex with my boyfriend on november 22 2009 i got an ultrasound and measured exactly 7 weeks pregnant so would it more likey be my boyfriends baby all the research i've done points to my boyfriend being the father but i still would like more advice
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Open Question: advice please?.. girlss?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 21:38:45 GMT)
ok me && my bf have been together for 11 months now
i found out i was pregnant && i am now 9 weeks
im 17 soon to be done with school and everything
&& he's 18
i believe i should move in with him because its best for the baby
i want my baby to grow up with both parents around
but, im havin second thoughts.
he honestly hasn't been supportive && still acts immature
if i tell him something is wrong with me he won't be there for me or show me support
idk i feel like it will get worse later on when i move in with him which will be in a month or 2
so idk what to do..
should i try it out && see how it goes.. or not?
im very confused.
ooh && another thing when i try to talkk to him bout what is wrong its like he doesn't listen
&& just ignores me
just tells me what i want to hear
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Open Question: 18 weeks pregnant with twins!!!!!!?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 21:03:38 GMT)
im 18 weeks pregnant with twins! am getting huge already! am tired alot of the time and am struggling in work (am a nurse working 13hour days 3 days a week on a care of the elderly ward)i also have a 2 year old! was wondering if anyone has any advise or tips that could make my life a bit easier!!!!
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Open Question: Pregnant with no hcg in urine? is it possible?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 17:09:43 GMT)
The last two months I have not had a normal period, January 15th, it lasted 3 days, and Fed 18th I was due again for it, I had spotting (very light) before the 18th that last 3 days, and than 24 I had spotting again that lasted 2 days. Never had an actual flow to it.. I had taken 2 tests last month, one 3 days after my spotting, and one a week after that, and I took a test March 1st...Im a bit confused..My periods are usually really heavy and last 5 days, along with cramping which I didnt get...
My friend told me that it is possible for a women to not produce hcg in there urine, it happened to her friend through her entire pregnancy...
Just wondering how common it is.
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Open Question: Do u feel pregnant....also can u tell if its a boy or a girl on a scan without seeing the private regions?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 13:17:09 GMT)
alot of clear discharge.... not sure of smell....(people keep saying check if it smells... but it smells like my normal discharge) 18 weeks pregnant and really don't feel it, apart from stress marks on my boobs... there has been nothing else... can't feel movements...haven't been sick.... nothing abnormal... kinda don't feel pregnant... has anyone else been like this?? also can u tell if its a boy or a girl on a scan without seeing the private regions?? Like could u see ovaeries for a girl and a prostate for a boy? (maybe that sounds stupid... first pregnancey)
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Open Question: Can my boyfriend and I do this? Emancipation questions?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 08:17:49 GMT)
I'm 15 my birthday is december 24, my boyfriend has just turnd 18 not even a month ago.
We have a baby together,she is 11 weeks, when i got pregnant my boyfriend was 2 months over 17 and i was 14 1/2. Don't say hes a pervert because he was a virgin and i wasnt so im the one that provoked it. bob and i have been best friends forever. we know everything about each other. ive always had some trouble with my parents but over the past 2 years its gotten very bad. i cant go into details but we live in kentucky. he works and makes $10 an hour and im looking for a job as well. we have a affordable baby sitter and shes great. the questions are:
Can I be emancipated if my parents don't want me to?
Where do I begin?
Can my boyfriend get in trouble if my parents dont press charges?
How soon can I get started?
What age do I have to be?
What are some good websites to look at?
I have matured very much since I have had kass. please no rude comments.
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Resolved Question: who else would like to share their story of loss?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 07:59:43 GMT)
Well my story starts of as a school girl, like any other teen (Me at the time) 14 years old and full of pride i had my first real boy friend and i loved him sooooo much, Oh and of course i thought i was invincible i wanted to marry him and would do anything for him i even slept with him.
I have to add this bit (my mum if that's what you could call her was okay with anything i done hey she's the first person to offer me marijuana and yes i accepted i had such a great role model, My father was not around)
Anyway getting back to it, I was starting to have a lot of days off school i was real sick my mother asked me "when was your last period" i shrugged it off and said "Last month" My mother said "maybe you should got to the doctors", I didn't know what she meant i was just sick.
I was at a friends I told her about what my mum said her response maybe your pregnant, I was dazed i said "I ain't having no baby".
I did decided to go to the youth clinic and my friend came with me the doctor their confirmed i was indeed pregnant i said the same thing i said to my friend i ain't having no baby i want an abortion, So the doctor wanted a ultrasound, Had a ultrasound that day the tech asked if i wanted to know the sex i was like no i'm having a abortion, she walked out of the room and a doctor came in and talked to me about i was to far to have a abortion and there was other options i discovered i was 23 weeks pregnant and i was having a baby boy .
I was stunned i didn't know what to do, I had to tell my mum As i walked in the front door i walked up to my mums bedroom where she was i sat on the bed and said "I went to the health clinic" my mum said "Oh yeah" I said "I'm pregnant" she took a deep breath in and told me about the option told me not to interrupt after she gave me the options number one been abortion, number two been adoption and three been keep the baby and she would be there for me.
I said to her "I can't have a abortion i'm to far i'm having a boy".
I am surprised that my mother did take the news pretty good.
I had a healthy pregnancy and Morning sickness like no other i also turned 15, and then at 36 weeks and after a 36 hour labour i gave birth to my Beautiful baby boy weight 7 pound 9 oz and 46 cm long, i was amazed he was the best thing that ever happened to me (Oh and the father was to young apparently to be a father).
after spend 8 days in hospital and then i took home my baby, My mum helped out a lot and she was so proud her first grandchild.
Then 4 weeks after i had him i was aroused to discover he was not breathing i'm not going to go in to detail about exactly what happened but the ambos confirmed it.
i got a letter in the mail from the coroner and the findings said nothing and death was pronounced as sudden infant death syndrome it broke my heart into a million bits and part of me died that day.
I now realise it's hard enough to have a baby at 15 but then i had to bury my baby, It's the hardest thing i have ever in my life had to do.
I had another baby at 38 weeks 8 pound 9 oz 55cm long i was 17, a little under a week until i turned 18, She was gorges and i was shit scared. (I started dating her father not long after my 1st baby left me)
I then discovered i was pregnant with my third baby when i was 19, I had some trouble while i was pregnant my 3rd baby the umbilical cord was deformed and they where amazed that i made it to 41 weeks and said that usually the baby would have not survived past 12 weeks in the womb I gave birth to her she was so little and amazing 6 pound 2oz 45 cm long, soon after giving birth i had major hemorrhaging and need and D&C and blood transfusion, when i did get out of hospital i got really sick and had to be re-admitted i had septicemia and could feed my baby until i was better.
(In the mean time me and my girls dad split it was the best choice he badly abused me while i was pregnant with our second baby).
when my youngest daughter was 6 months old i met a man he was an amazing friend (I'm now married to him he is the best man in the world and i'm so happy i found him he brought 3 baby's of his own and we made us a family he has all boys they are great kids and my girls love their step brothers as if they where their own blood and flesh brothers, year of births 1999, 2001, 2003)
When my youngest (at the time was 18 months old i discovered i was pregnant my pregnancy was a Breeze and at 40 weeks i gave birth to a wonderful baby boy 8pound 2oz 49 cm long.
Last year in june i discovered i was pregnant i was amazed (I wanted another boy) but tragedy struck and at 16wks + 5 days i had a miscarriage, The baby i miscarried was perfectly formed it was a little boy, I am heart broken and words can't describe what this has done to me, If i could give my life for both my angels i would do anything, I would spend the rest of eternity in hell just to know my baby's are safe and well.
right now i take every month as it comes in hope i can have anothe
sorry story got lost I
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Open Question: How do I stop loving my married baby daddy?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 07:12:21 GMT)
I don't need any comments on here telling me anything nasty. I've heard it all before and I don't need anyone to call me names or tell me about my lack of morals. TRUST ME I KNOW. I have been in a relationship with a married man for about 6 months. Well I never intended to stay with him and have tried many times to end the relationship. Well anyways he is married to his wife of 10 yrs and we have discussed that he will never leave her. This I know and am ok with. They have a 2 yr old son and she is currently pregnant again. Well recently we found out that I am also expecting. At first he threatened me with suicide and after I lectured him about maturity and responsibility he came the realization that this is OUR problem and not just mine. He jokes about the baby having more of his genes and talks about how he hopes it's a girl and everything. Well we recently ended out "relationship" sexually a couple weeks ago since he wants to try and be faithful. This I respect, I am not the first girl he cheated with but I can be the last. Well anyways we still talk on the phone and he tries to get sexual on the phone which always ends up in us having a sexual encounter. I need to leave him alone and move on and find a better man. He is 10 yrs my senior and married...I want to not love him anymore but it is hard. I'm having his baby and I don't know what that is going to do to his life except ruin it. I need to find a way to stop wanting and needing him. WHAT DO I DO?
I was hanging out with a cute single successful guy that was totally into me, but all I was doing was thinking about my baby daddy and wishing he was there. I even paid someone money to take me to the next state to see him for two days! I have gone on two trips with him, one lasting as long as 18 days! I need help! I have to stop my obsession...what do I do??? Go to therapy? Listing all the things about him that are bad doesn't help...I feel bad because if I feel the way I do about him, I can't imagine how his wife feels and I don't want to take him from her. PLEASE HELP WITH ANY POSITIVE ADVICE!!!
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Open Question: Im 6weeks Pregnant!!!!!!!!!?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 06:28:00 GMT)
Ive never been more excited more happier in my entire life, me and my husband have been trying for a while, and We did it, but I know it sounds stupid cause I know lots of people that dont show even at like 18 weeks, I suspect Im having twins( i took clomid) Just in this last week I have gained weight and I was an average size women before weighing about 145 and being 5'5 Although morning sickness is not a huge problem for me, Tiredness Is, Today I sleep about 20 hrs threw out the day, wich sounds ridiculous, My question is, is there anyway to tell if you are havin twins or not, and my first appt. is on the 1st but they will only check for a heart beat, with they beable to hear two seperate heart beats at 9wks
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Resolved Question: Opinions of people who can tell me if im pregnant please :)?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 05:24:36 GMT)
Im 18. I had unprotected sex on the day i finished my period and later did some research and found that i had sex a 1 day before my set ovulation date (small cycle). About a week after the sex i started feeling some normal light cramps in my uterus area than my breasts started getting sore off and on not to mention ive been VERY tiered and feeling drained even though my routine has not changed. I was curiouse so at 13 i took a test and had a negative. So i was like oh good. It has almost been a week since than and in that time i see my mood swings more, still ore breasts here and there, i get dizzy and light headed at times, i have cramps and my lower back is having sharp pains as if im starting my period even though thats not for ATLEASE a week and a half, lots of headaches, lol i have these sex urges (weird i know), i started feeling stomach sick not long ago but not to where i throw up just to where i feel like i need to, still tiered and im eating alot more than usual and have this obsession with oj. Sound like that test was wrong? Im not stressed, i dont think its in my head on a count of i want to go out but these things are holding me back its real. I do plan on testing again im just looking at other peoples opinions.
BTW I am at 18 days almost 19.
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