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Open Question: cramps, bloating... negative test, need advice asap?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 00:53:27 GMT)
I last had my period on 19th feb, due again 19th march as my cycle is regular.
my partner and I are trying to conceive.
For around 1-2 weeks I have been always tired, had nausea( not always vomitting) but feeling queasy and certain smells making me sick.
My breasts aren't extremely tender but are a little sore
I've been having awful headaches that last hours sometimes everyday
and increased back pain ( already have bad back)
I haven't found that I have a large amount of vaginal discharge, it seems about normal.
For approx 7-8 days I've had abdominal cramping, not really bad but it's on and off again, like small twinges or slight pulling.
I never usually have abdominal cramps before my period???
I don't want to get my hopes up or take a test to early only to be dissapointed.
What do you think are the chances of me being pregnant?
And what do you think of my symptoms?
Any stories or advice welcome
thanks :)
also I'm feeling extremely bloated!!!!
Ok so I took an early response test and it was negative
what are your thoughts
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Open Question: Im scared I am the father...?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 23:20:10 GMT)
I dated this girl for 7 years. She cheated, lied and broke up with me many many times. I was too nieve to stick up for myself. We finally broke up last year and we both started dating new people.
Coincidentally we each split up with our newer partners around the same time. She was always asking to hang out, but i was done with her. But I did fall for her one night. Nov 28 2009. I know it doesn't always matter but I pulled out when we slept together this time..
She came to my house before Christmas and said she was pregnant and that I am the father. Then, she admitted having sex with at least 2 others within a week of her and I. One of the guys she slept with was her recent break up. He admitted to me that he was sleeping with her well through the week Nov 13-19. Each time unprotected and he finished in her each time. She said she got her period after him, but that was found out to be untrue.
Now she has always lied and I dont believe a word she is saying. She said she was going to have an abortion which she didn't, Then she said she had a miscarriage while on vacation in Florida. All lies. I told her 3 months ago that I want nothing to do with her or this trashy situation. Havent spoken to her since.
Her due date is apparently August 16, 2010 and she is exactly18 weeks along today I heard. Or at least that is what she said to a friend of mine. Now I have done due date and conception date calculators and the date of conception keeps coming up Nov 16. But she tells everyone that the doctor said date of conception was on the night of Nov 28 (our night).
I don't get this and I really need some discriptive advice. Mentally I am a mess. I cannot sleep or eat and I have really awful thoughts because to have any relation or tie down with this girl is the worst thing I could ever imagine. She humiliated me and cheated for 7 years and I dont think i can live knowing I might have to have her in my life any longer. She took everything from me and I just want to know the truth. I do not want a kid, I cannot even afford health insurance for myself let alone child support.
Are the dates I have mathamatically possible?
Please help!
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Open Question: When ur baby kicks...what do u say it feels like?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 21:40:55 GMT)
Im 19 weeks pregnant and I am in love with pregnancy and i am just know feeling real baby kicks. Would love to know how you describe the feeling...and later on in pregnancy how do those kicks feel and do they ever get annoying?
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Open Question: Please help me. I don't know if I am the father...?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 20:57:03 GMT)
I dated this girl for 7 years. She cheated, lied and broke up with me many many times. I was too nieve to stick up for myself. We finally broke up last year and we both started dating new people.
Coincidentally we each split up with our newer partners around the same time. She was always asking to hang out, but i was done with her. But I did fall for her one night. Nov 28 2009. I know it doesn't always matter but I pulled out when we slept together this time..
She came to my house before Christmas and said she was pregnant and that I am the father. Then, she admitted having sex with at least 2 others within a week of her and I. One of the guys she slept with was her recent break up. He admitted to me that he was sleeping with her well through the week Nov 13-19. Each time unprotected and he finished in her each time. She said she got her period after him, but that was found out to be untrue.
Now she has always lied and I dont believe a word she is saying. She said she was going to have an abortion which she didn't, Then she said she had a miscarriage while on vacation in Florida. All lies. I told her 3 months ago that I want nothing to do with her or this trashy situation. Havent spoken to her since.
Her due date is apparently August 16, 2010 and she is 17weeks and 8 days along. Or at least that is what she said. Now I have done due date and conception date calculators and the date of conception keeps coming up Nov 16. But she tells everyone that the doctor said date of conception was on the night of Nov 28.
I dont get this and I really need some discriptive advice. Mentally I am a mess. i cannot sleep or eat and I have really awful thoughts because to have any relation or tie down with this girl is the worst thing I could ever imagine. She humiliated me and cheated for 7 years and I dont think i can live knowing I might have to have her in my life any longer. She took everything from me and I just want to know the truth.
Please help me!!!
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Open Question: can someone help me find out when i conceived exactly?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 19:21:14 GMT)
ok im trying to find out when did i get pregnant ...
my last period was jan 17
me and my bf bed on ...feb 1-2-16-19
doctor did an ultrasound 2 days ago said im 6 weeks ...
so could i have gotten pregnant on feb 1st or 2nd??
because i follow by my last period which would make me 8 weeks along
but doc said im only 6 weeks .. does it add up?
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Open Question: Extremely weird period...HELP PLEASE!?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 19:05:09 GMT)
I'm 19 years old and a virgin, so I know I'm not pregnant, having a miscarriage or anything like that. I am also not on birth control of any sort. I started my period when I was 13 and it was pretty irregular up until I was about 16 or 17, but its been regular mostly since then.
Well I ended up skipping my period for February, but thought it was due to stress. Then I got my period a week early for the month of March (I'm currently on it). The day before I started my period this month I had extreme back pain in my lower back on the left hand side. It felt like I had pulled a muscle, which is what I thought it was because I never have back pain before or during my period. Well, the day after I started my period I was in extreme pain. It was to the point that all I could do was lay in bed and whine and whimper. I finally went to sleep but when I woke up I was still in pain. I took two Ibuprofen and went to take a warm shower. I felt fine IN the shower. But when I got out I felt sick to my stomach, like I was going to throw up, and I was lightheaded and dizzy so I went and laid back down. After that I was fine and didn't have any more cramps or pain. Then earlier today (I should be done with my period by Friday or Saturday) I was barely bleeding it was so light. I just got out of the shower about 30 minutes ago and it was EXTREMELY heavy. To the point that it was running down the side of my leg by the time I had dried off. None of this is normal for me and I don't know what is going on.
My normal period: moderate throughout and very light within the last day or two, cramps on the first day of my period and sometimes the last day, my cramps are normally not extremely painful and go away after taking a warm shower and two Ibuprofen.
Do you think my period is like this because I skipped a month? Should I go on birth control?
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Open Question: Could I Possibly Be Pregnant?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 17:40:53 GMT)
Well I suffered a Miscarriage in November a week before thanksgiving. And I didn't know I was pregnant at the time (What happened was I started to get reall bad cramps where I couldn't move so I went to the er and they told me I was miscarrying) But anyway.
I'm not getting my hopes up anymore I've been trying for 2 years and I have PCOS so it's very hard for me to get pregnant. And I don't want to use drugs or nothing.
But lately I've been having mood swings (Like one minute I would be happy and the next I would be depressed or angry)
I've been bloating (I don't eat alot and I've felt a tightening in my abdomen like I would be working out or something)
I feel a little pressure when I feel my abdomen
My Breasts feel heavier (But not sensitive)
I've been feeling little picks in my abdoemn (Like something was poking it with a needle on the inside. Like they come once in a blue moon but lately)
I'm having lower back pain (It's dull but there)
When I eat I burp up some of what I eat (I know it's gross I'm sorry)
My period's due on the 19th and I'm not stressing or worried or nothing. I'm not hoping anymore becuase I always get crushed by this and so does my Husband. He was checked out and there's nothing wrong with him (It's me =/ )
So Please help me. What do you think it could be. PLEASE NO SMART A$$ REMARKS I'm a grown adult not some 16 yr old sl^t
Well I've never Had these symptoms before my period. (I should have said that before)
But my normal symptoms before my period are
Acne
Cramping
And that's about it I don't get bloated or the back ache. So sometimes it's all over whelming cause I know I want a baby but I'm not really trying anymore
It's been way too long and it does hurt to see that negative and then to lose a baby without me knowing it was there.
It just sucks cause almost everyone around me is having babies and yeah.....
Oh and I've been getting headaches alot too
I haven't taken any tests yet
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Open Question: PLEASE ANSWER ABOUT MY EX BOYFRIEND..?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 17:40:04 GMT)
well we have not been together now for over a year... I finished with him because i had a feeling he was seeing someone else.. i was right he was.. he is still with the girl who he moved in with when i finished with him.. about 3 months ago i started seeing him again behind his 'new' girlfriends back.. and recently ive found out im 8 weeks pregnant by him.. also the other day out his girlfriend is pregnant to. i dont have a clue what to do. no 1 knows, if u was me what would u do? I am 19 hes 23.. Im in full time work, but ive not a clue what to do..... should i tell him? i do not know! pls help
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Open Question: PLEASE, PLEASE ANSWER ABOUT MY EX BOYFRIEND?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 17:36:07 GMT)
Well... I split up from my boyfriend over a year ago now.. I finished with him because i had a feeling he was seeing someone else, which i was right. he quickly moved in with his 'new girlfriend' he is still with her now... about 2 months ago I was meeting up with him and slept with him a few times.. now I am 7 weeks pregnant.. my ex's new girlfriend is pregnant too i found out the other day.. no body knows apart from me.. Ive not a clue what to do.. I am 19 hes 23. if u was me what would you do?
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Resolved Question: How did I get pregnant without having my menstrual cycle?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 15:39:49 GMT)
I just had mt first appt. and was told I was 5 weeks pregnant. I had my last period in Jan. but being that I am only five weeks I would have conceived in feb. 19 which makes sense except for me not having my feb. period. which comes 11th of every month. Can someone explain what could have caused this? Something wrong?
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Resolved Question: Is something wrong? Pregnant?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 14:45:52 GMT)
I have irregular periods from the time i started. I havent had a period since November 7th which lasted till the 11th. My boyfriend and i had sex during this time and the 19 through thanksgiving. I havent had a period since. The last two weeks i experienced spotting. I have taken a pregnancy test and there was a slight plus sign(Jan 1) then earlier this month i took another one and it was neg. I havent been to the doctor because my mom won't set up an appt.(she doesnt knw everything, she just knows my periods are irregular)
please help. No immature answers please!
Not over weight or play any sports.
I am 5'5 at abt 135-140
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Open Question: what does this mean? pregnant or what?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 14:05:46 GMT)
the 27th of Feb. me & my boyfriend started having sex when i moved in with him. & that whole week & after that we had sex constantly & that week of the 27th was the week i ovulated & was the best time to get pregnant. & he got off in me quit a few times & i had an orgasm quit a few times too each time we had sex everyday. & then just a week ago i started bleeding. at first it was like brownish light with some pinkish red in it. then it turned more into redish pink. & that lasted about 3 days or so. & i haven't been feeling to well. my stomach has been hurting a lot. like pain not cramps really. & my period should be starting around the 20th of this month. but I'm hoping i don't start it because we're hoping I'm pregnant. & last week when i was bleeding it wasn't normal like a period it didn't seem. so i don't know if my bleeding from last week was my early period or if it was implantation bleeding. because people tell me implantation starts about a week before your suppose to get your expected period. so i hope that bleeding was implantation & that I'm pregnant. we're really hoping I'm pregnant. so can everyone please help me out here & let me know what everyone thinks. if they think I'm pregnant & if my bleeding was implantation. i did the pregnancy calculator for when i ovulated & i typed in my first day of my last period which was Feb. 19th & it showed i was pregnant, that that's the time i conceived.
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Open Question: Pregnant and allergic to Cocoa butter cream?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 12:47:19 GMT)
Hello all,
I'm 19 weeks pregnant and started off really dry skin around my belly. So, I brought this Palmer's Cocoa Butter cream and was using it since Saturday. I started off itchy skin since sunday evening and on Monday morning there were red rashes all over my stomach area. They are so itchy and made me itch all the time. I made sure not to itch however I do scratch a lot during the nights while asleep.
I saw my GP today and she prescribed me allergic tablets and a much milder body lotion for me. However, she asked me to see her again if things dont settle down in 3 days.
Is this redness and rashes on my skin harmful to the baby? The GP said it can get harmful to the baby with the chemicals mixing in the blood stream. I'm a bit worried now.
Has anyone else been through this? How did things progress in few days? How was your baby's health?
Also, my BP was on the higher side today 144/82
Thanks ladies.
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Open Question: Ttc... Bloating, cramps, nausea, tired.. Thoughts?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 10:47:49 GMT)
I last had my period on 19th feb, due again 19th march as my cycle is regular.
my partner and I are trying to conceive.
For around 1-2 weeks I have been always tired, had nausea( not always vomitting) but feeling queasy and certain smells making me sick.
My breasts aren't extremely tender but are a little sore
I've been having awful headaches that last hours sometimes everyday
and increased back pain ( already have bad back)
I haven't found that I have a large amount of vaginal discharge, it seems about normal.
For approx 7-8 days I've had abdominal cramping, not really bad but it's on and off again, like small twinges or slight pulling.
I never usually have abdominal cramps before my period???
I don't want to get my hopes up or take a test to early only to be dissapointed.
What do you think are the chances of me being pregnant?
And what do you think of my symptoms?
Any stories or advice welcome
thanks :)
also I'm feeling extremely bloated!!!!
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Open Question: Bloating, stomach cramps, very tired and nausea!!! Pls answer?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 10:28:15 GMT)
I last had my period on 19th feb, due again 19th march as my cycle is regular.
my partner and I are trying to conceive.
For around 1-2 weeks I have been always tired, had nausea( not always vomitting) but feeling queasy and certain smells making me sick.
My breasts aren't extremely tender but are a little sore
I've been having awful headaches that last hours sometimes everyday
and increased back pain ( already have bad back)
I haven't found that I have a large amount of vaginal discharge, it seems about normal.
For approx 7-8 days I've had abdominal cramping, not really bad but it's on and off again, like small twinges or slight pulling.
I never usually have abdominal cramps before my period???
I don't want to get my hopes up or take a test to early only to be dissapointed.
What do you think are the chances of me being pregnant?
And what do you think of my symptoms?
Any stories or advice welcome
thanks :)
also I'm feeling extremely bloated!!!!
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Open Question: Can somebody give me advice on what having an abortion is like please?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 10:04:07 GMT)
So I found out 2 and a half weeks ago that I am pregnant ... it was unplanned, I am only 19 years old. I have Polysystic Ovaries but I don't have any of the symptom's of the syndrome and I have only been with my boyfriend for 6 months or so and was on the contraceptive pill for the first two months but then it wasn't working out for me so the doctor decided to take me of it, wait until my periods were regular again and then try me on a different pill, so I have fallen pregnant in between treatments within two cycles, so fertility clearly isn't a problem for me, but I have heard that PCOS is something that doesn't get better it only stabilises or gets worse so I am worried that if I have a medical abortion I will not be able to conceive again. Does anybody know what having a termination is like, and if so how did you feel afterwards? In my deepest heart of hearts I do agree with abortion so this is a massive decision for me, but on the other hand my boyfriend to be honest is not being supportive at all, saying that if I keep the baby then we are over but he will help me and come to scans and stuff but the last thing he wants is a family, he says he is not ready and has so much to do in his life before having children, which I do respect but he is not seeming to think of me and how I am feeling in all this. I love him but I did not think he would be like that at all, I'm devastated. My family and friends say that if I keep the baby they will all be there to support me, but I have just been offered a really good job opportunity in my career so If I kept the baby I would not be able to continue with my education. So I was just wondering if anybody who had been through and abortion could tell me how they felt afterwards and what it was like? I am looking into all my options at the moment so I am not saying I am going to get an abortion, I just need advice at this time?
I meant do not agree with abortions! Lol
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Open Question: my girlfriend is pregnant and now she acts like she doesn't want to be with me, what do you think I should do?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 08:09:08 GMT)
Ok so I met this girl 4 month ago and every thing was going great we was going out to
See movies, to eat, I was going to her House to see her anywhere from 8:00pm till 1:00-3:00am and she was coming to my House to stay on weekends. Then we took our relationship to the next Level, you know sex. We couldn't use condoms because she is allergic to latex, so I said I would pull it out then she said it felt better if I left it in, it felt like a volcano or something like that so I was like ok. So we have sex like 20 or more then we end up finding out she is 6 Weeks pregnant. now her mom and her are so excited and happy about it and I’m freaking out, so that goes on for like a week and we have sex 2 more times then tell my mom and she gets upset. So after 3 weeks my mom calms down and I think every thing is ok now. but now my girlfriend doesn't want to have sex with me any more, she acts like she doesn't even want to be with me any more and now this guy named Tyler says she has been writing him letters saying she wants to be with him but I don't know if it's true or not because he's been trying to break us up for a while. now I don't know what to do, I really love her and our baby and I don't want to lose them, but if it comes to us having to breakup I don't want to end up paying child support for the rest of my life, I’m only 19 I don't have a job and I want to go to collage. We are still talking and she likes it win I talk to the baby through her stomach she's jest acting weird and dosn't want to have sex with me anymore. I think she used me to get pregnant, what do you think? dos it even fill better to leave it in for the girl and will I have to pay child support? WHAT SOULD I DO?
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Open Question: Symptoms but unsure... Advice plsssss :)?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 07:24:44 GMT)
I last had my period on 19th feb, due again 19th march as my cycle is regular.
my partner and I are trying to conceive.
For around 1-2 weeks I have been always tired, had nausea( not always vomitting) but feeling queasy and certain smells making me sick.
My breasts aren't extremely tender but are a little sore
I've been having awful headaches that last hours sometimes everyday
and increased back pain ( already have bad back)
I haven't found that I have a large amount of vaginal discharge, it seems about normal.
For approx 7-8 days I've had abdominal cramping, not really bad but it's on and off again, like small twinges or slight pulling.
I never usually have abdominal cramps before my period???
I don't want to get my hopes up or take a test to early only to be dissapointed.
What do you think are the chances of me being pregnant?
And what do you think of my symptoms?
Any stories or advice welcome
thanks :)
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Open Question: TTC... Cramping... Bloating, thoughts?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 07:01:00 GMT)
I last had my period on 19th feb, due again 19th march as my cycle is regular.
my partner and I are trying to conceive.
For around 1-2 weeks I have been always tired, had nausea( not always vomitting) but feeling queasy and certain smells making me sick.
My breasts aren't extremely tender but are a little sore
I've been having awful headaches that last hours sometimes everyday
and increased back pain ( already have bad back)
I haven't found that I have a large amount of vaginal discharge, it seems about normal.
For approx 7-8 days I've had abdominal cramping, not really bad but it's on and off again, like small twinges or slight pulling.
I never usually have abdominal cramps before my period???
I don't want to get my hopes up or take a test to early only to be dissapointed.
What do you think are the chances of me being pregnant?
And what do you think of my symptoms?
Any stories or advice welcome
thanks :)
also I'm feeling extremely bloated!!!!
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Open Question: abdominal cramping.... Possible pregnancy??? Advice needed!?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 06:35:44 GMT)
I last had my period on 19th feb, due again 19th march as my cycle is regular.
my partner and I are trying to conceive.
For around 1-2 weeks I have been always tired, had nausea( not always vomitting) but feeling queasy and certain smells making me sick.
My breasts aren't extremely tender but are a little sore
I've been having awful headaches that last hours sometimes everyday
and increased back pain ( already have bad back)
I haven't found that I have a large amount of vaginal discharge, it seems about normal.
For approx 7-8 days I've had abdominal cramping, not really bad but it's on and off again, like small twinges or slight pulling.
I never usually have abdominal cramps before my period???
I don't want to get my hopes up or take a test to early only to be dissapointed.
What do you think are the chances of me being pregnant?
And what do you think of my symptoms?
Any stories or advice welcome
thanks :)
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Open Question: Trying to conceive... Abdominal cramping! Finding hard to sleep!?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 06:27:20 GMT)
I last had my period on 19th feb, due again 19th march as my cycle is regular.
my partner and I are trying to conceive.
For around 1-2 weeks I have been always tired, had nausea( not always vomitting) but feeling queasy and certain smells making me sick.
My breasts aren't extremely tender but are a little sore
I've been having awful headaches that last hours sometimes everyday
and increased back pain ( already have bad back)
I haven't found that I have a large amount of vaginal discharge, it seems about normal.
For approx 7-8 days I've had abdominal cramping, not really bad but it's on and off again, like small twinges or slight pulling.
I never usually have abdominal cramps before my period???
I don't want to get my hopes up or take a test to early only to be dissapointed.
What do you think are the chances of me being pregnant?
And what do you think of my symptoms?
Any stories or advice welcome
thanks :)
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Open Question: am i just irregular or am i pregnant or whats going on?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 06:23:48 GMT)
ok so my last period was on december 19th 2009. i started spotting about 2 wks after that but just when i wiped. i made a doctors appointment they did a pregnancy test it came up negative. weeks later january 12th i was in the emergency room because i got a very bad uti. i was on antibiotics and all. i had no period for january febrauary and now we are in march 17th and nothing. this last week however i have been very wet down there ive had alot of watery milky color discharge that lasted about 4 days. i have been having cramps for 4 days as well but they dont feel like my regular period cramps. i dont know what going on any ideas. i am already trying to get an appointment scheduled. but i just wanted people's opinion?
sorry everyone...to make it clear i am married and we dont use protection and have been ttc for almost a yearr n a half
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Open Question: am i late could i be pregnant or whats going on?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 06:22:50 GMT)
ok so my last period was on december 19th 2009. i started spotting about 2 wks after that but just when i wiped. i made a doctors appointment they did a pregnancy test it came up negative. weeks later january 12th i was in the emergency room because i got a very bad uti. i was on antibiotics and all. i had no period for january febrauary and now we are in march 17th and nothing. this last week however i have been very wet down there ive had alot of watery milky color discharge that lasted about 4 days. i have been having cramps for 4 days as well but they dont feel like my regular period cramps. i dont know what going on any ideas. i am already trying to get an appointment scheduled. but i just wanted people's opinion?
sorry everyone...to make it clear i am married and we dont use protection and have been ttc for almost a yearr n a half
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Open Question: got my period a day after having sex, could i be pregnant?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 05:51:50 GMT)
hi, im 19 years old and on march 5th, 6th,and 7th 2010 my boyfriend and I had sex, i hate to say but its my first time and i am getting a little paranoid of getting pregnant. might i add, we used protection the entire time. we used condoms. I had gotten my period on March 8th. a day after having sex with him. though a week has passed and i am gaining a little bit of weight. i dont know ANYTHING about pregnancy and i wanna know...
if i got my period a day after having sex. would that mean im not pregnant?
its been a weekand a half. how long would i have to wait. to try out one of those pregnancy tests?
**might i add. i have been eating alot of bread. and i hear that bread makes you gain weight like crazy. could it just be that i been eating too much bread?**
why do i feel pregnant? i also haven't felt any symtoms. no headaches, no morning sickness. no cravings. please i really need to know. im scared.
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Open Question: im 6 months pregnant and only weight 97lbs is that safe? :(?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 03:15:09 GMT)
OK so i been thin all my life..i'm 5'1''...i try to eat healthy and take my vitamins and it makes me really sad and worried that i'm not gaining a lot of weight...i don't like being skinny but it seems i cant gain the weight..on my 19th week ultrasound the doctor said the baby was doing awesome should i still be worried?
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Open Question: PERIOD THEN POSITIVE PREGNANCY TEST A WEEK LATER?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 02:51:20 GMT)
mY GF is 6 months pregnant.
We slept 2gether on the 5th of OCT.
She had her "period" (she said it was her period) on the 14th of OCT.
She had a positive preg. test of the 19th of OCT.
am i the father or should i ask for a dna test ?
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Open Question: Risk of Miscarriage after healthy pregnancy?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 02:29:50 GMT)
When I was 19 I lost my first son at 11 weeks and about 7 months later I became pregnant again. I had a healthy pregnancy for the most part but I spent the first few months worried about losing another child. My son was born in June of 2009 and is now 9 months old. My husband is deployed and we have started talking about trying to have another baby when he returns at the end of this year. I am still scared to death of having another miscarriage. The first one nearly destroyed us. It caused my husband to to fail a test in AIT and have to get a new job. My husband was a wreck and I didnt get to see him till 6 months after losing the baby which only made matter worse. I want a second baby but the thought of miscarriage is causing me to be unsure if I want to try. Someone once said something to me about that once you have one miscarriage you are at risk to have another. I dont think my husband and I could live thru another loss.
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Open Question: 19 weeks pregnant and sex hurts?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 02:00:46 GMT)
19 weeks pregnant and sex hurts. this didnt happen my first pregnancy and it hurts all day afterwards
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Open Question: 19 weeks pregnant, not feeling hungry anymore?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 01:56:57 GMT)
I don't know if my massive appetite just subsided, but I've noticed that I'm not as hungry as usual.
Is this normal?
I have an appointment with my doctor tomorrow, but I wanted to see if I could get some insight on here.
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Open Question: My mom not there the last 4 years, now all of a sudden she is...?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 01:40:43 GMT)
Okay this is a long story but please bare with me, I just need advice from anyone really. Please no rude comments, I have been through a lot!
Okay first off I am 19 years old and 20 weeks pregnant with my first baby and we found out it's a boy!
I was never close to my mother growing up to begin with and at age 7 I was sexually abused by my mom's husband whom she did end up divorcing later on! Now she's with another man and has moved on, she has a child with him. Anyways I was abused again at age 16 by the guy she is currently with and she didn't and still to this day doesn't wanna believe it happened but, it did. Well she kicked me out of the house and sent me to live with her mom and that was 4 years ago. She kept telling me I am a liar and all but, I am not lieing! Well just recently she has started to talk to me again (she wants to be a part of my little boy's life when he's born) and I would love for her to come back into my life but, she said only under 1 condition will she allow that relationship to work and that is if I apologize to the man (her boyfriend still) that abused me. She thinks still that I lied and I can't get it to her head that I am telling the truth! So do I lie to have a relationship with her (I miss her and love her badly) or do I tell her I can't do it cause I can't lie? I am confused about what to do. I want her but, don't want to lie.
I hope this question wasn't too hard to understand, it's hard to put ur whole life in a short little paragraph.
I will choose best answer and thanks for the answers ahead of time :) Thanks for taking the time to read this, it means a lot for someone to put their advice in here.
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Open Question: how do u deal w/ppl telling u how to raise ur kid?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 01:36:02 GMT)
Your Question
how do u deal w/ppl telling u how to raise ur kid?
so when i found out i was pregnant on my 19th bday it was definately not planned. the dad didnt take any of it seriously. and i wasnt even going to tell my mom since i was in OH and she was in FL, but somehow someone found out and it spread like a rapid fire, so i told her in a txt and avoided her calls for like a month. me and my mom arent really close, im not really close to anyone in my family...so when my daughter was born, her dad still wasnt taking anything seriously, he acted like he had postpartum depression and verbally abused me and my baby every single day until he threatened to physically harm us, and thats when i left and took my daughter to FL the next day... i lived at my moms for awhile then a ''friend'' asked me to move in w/her n all that, so i did, n a month later she kicked me out cuz i ''stole'' her job that she never showed up to and the boss liked me n was really just tryin to help me out, he knew my situation. well another ''friend'' said i could stay w/her until i figured somethin out, she said she'd watch my baby when i was workin n all that...i had to pay $50 a week for rent to her dad and atleast $60/week for babysittin and still had to manage buying diapers n formula n everything w/my 250/wk paycheck...well i didnt kno at the time they were serious druggies and smoking in front of my daughter n they only changed her diaper 3times while i worked my 10-12hr days so she got a HORRIBLE diaper rash...they said it was cuz she was teething, but she had never had a rash ever in her entire life till then n she already had 6 teeth...so i left n the only place i could go was back to my mom's. her dad's in prison doing 5yrs for some messed up stuff...so pretty much i have no support at all...my daughter's 15 months old now and its just getting harder n harder...because of my mom...how do u deal w/ur mom telling u how horrible of a mother u are day after day? she spoils my daughter so much that she doesnt even want me to hold her anymore...she can fall on her butt n be perfectly fine but as soon as she sees grandma she screams bloody murder just so grandma will pick her up n then my mom says to me ''why dont u show her any love'' i do love my baby n she knows it but as soon as gramma's around she doesnt want anything to do w/me...
this is super long, but im just trying to explain my situation alil bit. i cant leave because i have nowhere to go and no money, there's no jobs around here n even if there was, my mom wouldnt let me drive her truck to work... im just so sick of being depressed because i have to do this by myself, and on top of that be hated and criticized every single day... so does anyone have any advice on what to do or how to deal w/it??
my mom thinks she's the greatest mom and i dont know anything, but she had her first kid at 16, never raised him. had her 2nd & 3rd kid w/a different crackhead [my bro chance died when he was 23, and my bro dustin's been in & outta jail since he was a teenager], and she had me with a different crackhead and i didnt graduate highschool, got caught up in the partyin lifestyle n ended up prego at 19...i just dont want my daughter to turn out like me, my mom, my gramma, n so on n so forth...
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Open Question: Im 19 weeks pregnant..?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 00:47:23 GMT)
And just recently within the last few days ive had alot of muscle pulling on my left side, which i know is normal during this time. But the past day or two its been unbearable. At times I cant even stand up or even walk. It brings me to my knees it is so intense. Should I contact my doctor? Should I go to the emergency room?What could they even do for me?
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Open Question: I'm Pregnant and concerned..?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 22:57:29 GMT)
am hopefully going to be a first time mom. I had been sick for a couple weeks prior to finding out I was pregnant. I found out on March 10th I was pregnant and had been having morning sickness that whole previous week up until now, but thought I was just sick. I woke up two days ago and was a little feeling a little sick but did not throw up. First is it common to have just one week of constant throwing up in the morning or will this pass and I might get start getting sick again? I have no idea how far along I am so I really don't know what to expect. Another concern is I felt like I could more so feel the baby or something inside me when I would move around, that has pretty much stopped too, I'm trying to convince my self that it was just my body getting use to there being a baby inside of me. Plus I've been eating a lot more because my diet before was not healthy and I'm really trying to do everything I can to be healthy for this baby. I've actually gained 8 pounds since Febuary 19th which also concerns me. I don't have cramping or bleeding or back pain that are associated with having a misscarriage but the worry is still there. I am going to get on insurance on Friday and then can schedule an ultrasound but as a first time mom at 21, nor having a mom I find I have no one to ask these questions. Thanks to all who can be of some help.. I truly appreciate it.
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Open Question: spotting and 5 weeks pregnant?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 22:49:08 GMT)
im freaking out i just noticed i am spotting it is very light should i go to the hospital or am i ok im 19 and this is my first baby
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Open Question: First time mom, just a few concerns?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 22:08:40 GMT)
I am hopefully going to be a first time mom. I had been sick for a couple weeks prior to finding out I was pregnant. I found out on March 10th I was pregnant and had been having morning sickness that whole previous week up until now, but thought I was just sick. I woke up two days ago and was a little feeling a little sick but did not throw up. First is it common to have just one week of constant throwing up in the morning or will this pass and I might get start getting sick again? I have no idea how far along I am so I really don't know what to expect. Another concern is I felt like I could more so feel the baby or something inside me when I would move around, that has pretty much stopped too, I'm trying to convince my self that it was just my body getting use to there being a baby inside of me. Plus I've been eating a lot more because my diet before was not healthy and I'm really trying to do everything I can to be healthy for this baby. I've actually gained 8 pounds since Febuary 19th which also concerns me. I don't have cramping or bleeding or back pain that are associated with having a misscarriage but the worry is still there. I am going to get on insurance on Friday and then can schedule an ultrasound but as a first time mom at 21, nor having a mom I find I have no one to ask these questions. Thanks to all who can be of some help.. I truly appreciate it.
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Open Question: Could I be pregnant? It's been a week.?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 20:19:22 GMT)
About a week ago I had sex & the condom slipped off inside me, my boyfriend and i dont know when it came off & we're worried that it may have spilled or leaked while it was in me. Also I've been nauseous for a few days & i think it may be morning sickness, but i don't know if it's too early for that. Could I be pregnant?
For the record, im not some promiscuous teenager, I'm 19 going to college & have been with my boyfriend for a year, we're always very responsible.
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Open Question: Misdiagnosed Miscarriage?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 18:57:03 GMT)
i found out i was pregnant on Feb 15. on feb 17 my hgc was 143 on the 19 they were 89 . on Feb 20 i went to e.r for side pain. they did an ultrasound and no hgc test but said i had had a miscarriage. i was devastated, obviously. Well, its been 3 1/2 weeks since then and i was still feeling pregnant with all symptoms. I took 2 hpt and both were positive. yesterday, i went to a womens clinic and they did ultrasound and a hgc. ultrasound showed no sac in uterus but one near the right ovary. my hgc came back as 2,568! they said im 5-6 weeks pregnant? i have to go back tomorrow for more info. But my question is could i sue the hospital for misdiagnosis? pain & suffering. and also b.c of the fact that if the baby is in my tubes then it could be dangerous? please helP!
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Resolved Question: How many ultrasounds are performed for a typical pregnancy?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 18:10:34 GMT)
I am a little less than 12 weeks pregnant with my second child and my obstetrician has scheduled an ultrasound for this week. He said that there was nothing wrong, but he just liked to perform them periodically because "they are fun to see". When I was pregnant with my first child I only had one ultrasound, at 19 weeks, to learn the gender. I am just curious to see how many and for what reasons other pregnant women have had ultrasounds. Also, it has been a while since my first child's ultrasound, my doctor didn't give me any advices, but aren't you supposed to drink plenty of liquid in order to get a better picture?
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Resolved Question: chances of being pregnant?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 18:06:35 GMT)
okay so first i wnt to apologize for any too much information, i'm actually embarrassed to ask this question!
so my last period was feb 16th-19th and my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex approx a week later. we had sex more than once that weekend and he didn't go in me but we did have sex shortly after he went. i've heard things like you can still get pregnant even if that happens. i was supposed to get my period last thursday (so thats 4 days ago). last night i had a little bit of spotting but it didn't come to anything. i know that i'm panicking worrying about this and i'm stressed with school so i'm not sure if that's why it's late cause i know stress can cause it to be late. thanks in advance for any help :)
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Open Question: Curious about my late period..?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 16:22:20 GMT)
I was due for my period to begin on approximately the 7th or 8th this month. It has yet to come. I have been regular, like clockwork since I started my period in the 4th friggin grade. I have been very very stressed this past month however, I had to put my 12 yr old Aussie to sleep a couple weeks ago and have had a horrible coughing cold for the last week and a half.
So, my question. I am late because of my sickness and stress, or could I be pregnant?
Oh yeah, the last time I was 'active' was on the 19th of Feb.
Just curious about peoples opinions. It's a bit too early for a pregnancy test and I can't tell if my cramps are from coughing too much or an impending cycle.
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Resolved Question: Question about movement at 19 weeks pregnant?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 16:15:00 GMT)
Hi everyone!
Im currently 19w2d pregnant with my first baby, I know that people feel movement at different stages, but when does it become constant? I think I felt my first movement(s) around 13-14 weeks, and now I sometimes feel the same feelings. Even when I do I can't be 100% sure it was the baby, it just feels like a quick jab, or nudge but it only happens maybe every other day or so, and it's always only 1 or 2 quick movements. When does it become regular, I'm a little worried because most people say by this time they were feeling regular movements, is that true?
Also, I sometime push on my belly a little bit or jiggle it to see if I feel anything afterwards but I don't.
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Open Question: extreme depression during pregnancy....please help?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 16:14:15 GMT)
i am almost 19 and i have a 11 month old. i am 27 weeks pregnant with my second son. i have been feeling very depressed lately. i don't know what i should do. i try to keep myself busy so i don't think about it but then i usually just get overwhelmed and start crying. i always fell so exhausted and can't sleep well at night. i don't have any one to talk to because i live with my boyfriend and our first son but my boyfriend doesn't understand. he also doesn't like talking about feelings. it makes it really difficult for me because i don't have any one to talk to. i don't really have many friends and i can't talk to my family about any of it. i need to know what i should do about the depression and is there something wrong with me? please help
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Open Question: so excited ! could this be it! (kinda long but i need opinions!) =]?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 15:09:47 GMT)
warning- a little tmi <3
okay :
i had a period on january 19th i was lighter than normal and lasted about 4 days. i hadnt started checking my BBT so i just went online to an ovulation calculator (my cycle is regular, 27-29 days) it gave me an estimated ovulation day of saturday january 30th. i noticed on thursday january 28th that i had ALOT of watery cervical mucus (i assume its ovulation time because i never get ewcm). os what the hay -- we BD'd =]. then i got what i thought was a period on february 13th. this time i only had flow after i went to the bathroom, there was hardly any on my lineers everytime i checked. that only lasted 3 days.on the third day i passed to small clots. naturally i thought it was a chemical pregnancy or just a wierd period. (i didnt take a pregnancy test because i hadnt missed a period). about a week after that i got tons and tons (and tons) of ewcm -- which i NEVER get! it came a week before my ovulation should've occured and lasted about three weeks (i've still been getting some, just not as much) on saturday march 6th it was a freakin puddle of it in my underware! 9tmi sorry) i read up on it and learned that the light bleeding/clots could've been from a 'blightend ovum' but i could still be pregnant as it doesn't affect the other developing egg. and the excess of CM could be my mucus plug forming. i was due to get my period between last thursday and saturday ... AF hasnt shown up! i plan on taking a pregnancy test first thing tomorrow morning. i think im scared of seeing a BFN =[ i would just like some opinions on whether or not i have a bun! sorry it was so long ... thanks in advance!
p.s. - i will choose a best answer =]
ooh qosh -- thank all of you guys who took the time out to read it and wish mee luck. i wish i could choose all of you as best answer =(
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Resolved Question: I fell on my butt while pregnant could that have caused my placental abruption?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 13:41:23 GMT)
I fell on my butt at 19 weeks pregnant but I never went to the doc since I felt ok, I mean I thought it wasnt that bad. At 20 weeks I felt a gush of blood I rushed to the ER and my doctor said that my placenta was a little low kind of detaching:S And told me to rest...Well unfortunetly I bled from week 20 to week 23 and at 23 weeks my water broke and had to deliver my baby:( Could I have caused it?
thanks
Aww no my baby died during delivery=( He was too small tu survive.
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Resolved Question: Could this be it?? finally?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 10:21:52 GMT)
Ok so It is march 16th, my period was due the 13th/14 and should last through the 19th. But I have yet to get it.
I am experiencing:
+ Random cramps just like a split throb of pain nothing unbearable to say the least.
+ Severe nauseating occurrences.
+ Dizziness
+ Hard time thinking/remembering something and answering a question on the dot.
+ I normally only go go to the restroom once a week but ive been daily or twice daily for a few days now.
+constantly feeling like im going to throw up but never do(im not one to do so unless i have a stomach virus but even still then not likely).
and thats it for now(:
SO...
Do you think i could FINALLY be pregnant?
*fingers crossed and baby dust
Thank you for all of your answers. I know i know i should just take a test and not bug you all but me and my fiance have been TTC for about 8months now and every month we get so excited and then i get my period and we are always so devastated and crushed. And its just its so mind blowing that were so close now its like weve got our feet in the door and now all we have to do is await our destinys and its just so amazing im ever so glad it was such a difficulty to conceive, it made us realize how much we truly do want this,together. And its just wow :-) i cant even begin to explain. Thank you all for your answers i wish all of you the best of luck in life and the best of luck for those trying to concieve, ill keep you guys updated and i hope you do the same :-)
with love,
CuriousQuestioner.
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Open Question: i don't want to be pregnant but, might i be?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 05:03:10 GMT)
well.. i haven't been on birth control for the past three months.. i haven't really had any pregnancy like symptoms.. i feel like i've been MAJOR pmsing for the past week and a hallf.. and i'm a week and a half late for my period.. although ive been depressed, thats normal for me and i haven't missed periods... my boobs were feeling a little tender earlier.. like light growing pains.. that i havent gotten for.. almost a year. could they just be growing more? i'm 18 almost 19... i know i haven't gotten spotting, or morning sickness.. i've always eaten tons of pickles, so thats normal and i always wake up to pee a few times each night... so thats no different either. maybe the thought of being pregnant, is stopping my period???
oh and i do have sex a couple times a week with my long termm relationship boyfriend. no condomss.. he pulls out.. i know theres still a chance tho.
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Open Question: How long does THC stay in the placenta?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 04:23:21 GMT)
I found out i was pregnant at 19 weeks. I wasn't quite sure what to do so i didn't stop smoking right away. I've got PTSD and hints of Bi-polar as well as sleeping problems and instead of taking meds I smoke pot(Its not just for fun). I would like to know how long it stays in the placenta and fetus. I want the best for my baby and I would be hurt so much if I lost him. I weaned my self and stopped all together at 24 weeks. Some say its too late and i'll be loosing my child and others say it everything will be fine. I'm so worried and stressed about it. I'm worried that my baby will be born early, they find THC, and i loose my first child. I know the info on-line isn't always right so i'm asking my fellow people to share their insight with me. I'd talk to my doc but i'm just so paranoied about it. I know that the THC won't hurt my baby because me and all my siblings are proof of that, but if i lost my little one i'd be so upset. Just thinking about it makes me sick...Please share your insight and don't try to bring me down, just be honest.
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Open Question: I want to believe my friend but something tells me she is lying about being pregnant, can you help?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 02:04:01 GMT)
It all happened about a month ago. I got a call from of my friend.. i'll change her name, from Jill, She use to be friends with Kate ( the one who is pregnant) but they aren't friends anymore because Jill didn't like that Kate would lie to her. So Jill called me and asked if Kate was pregnant of every was. And i told her Kate has been, but isn't anymore. (that i knew of ) Well, about a week ago. Kate told me she was pregnant and i couldn't believe my eyes. Because, Kate was pregnant before and had an adoration and the person who was the father committed suicide. Which is horrible. But could be lie. So Jill told that the same night she asked about Kate's pregnant history with me was also the night that the "baby" was conceived, which is bullshit.. if she conceived it then she wouldn't be able to find out if she is pregnant until a week or two went by. Also, She said she got pictures of the baby, which also isn't true. The baby has to be 3 weeks or/either 3 months to be shot in a photo. Also! She has history, of lying.. i've been told. But i dint understand why? Why does she have to make up a lie!? It gets crazier, so the guy she had the baby with.. is now in jail because he apparently drugged her but she still wants to have him apart of the baby life.. i don't understand. Also he's 19 and she 16. LIKE!? what do i do? Let her play out her study, tell her i think she's lying? or not be her friend? cause when people lie to me, it's a deal breaker for me! i hate when people do that! SO HELP!
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Open Question: Evif im 19 weeks pregnant today why does?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 01:10:09 GMT)
Everytime that I go get an ultrasound they say according to the ultrasound your 19 week but according to you last menstrual period your 20 so when and what did I relly conceive I kinda remember my last period being 27 of. Oct help
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Open Question: I was suppose to be about 10 Weeks pregnant but now I'm 6 almost 7. This is very confusing. What is wrong?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 00:32:32 GMT)
So my last period was January 6th, 2010. I was suppose to ovulate around January 19th-20th, 2010. Keep in mind that my periods were perfectly regular. I was on a 27 day cycle. So my doctor estimated my due date around October 12th, 2010. I got a positive pregnancy test on February 11th, 2010. I was about a week or so late on my period and I took a test everyday and finally came up positive. I also had a blood test done on the same day and it was positive and the hcg levels were 36.6. About 2 weeks ago I had an ultrasound that they said that my baby estimated 5 weeks and one day not 8 weeks like I thought. How is this possible to be three weeks late on ovulation? They estimated my conception day to be around February 15th but I found out I was pregnant on the 11th. My doctor isnt giving me any advice so I need help. Is my baby growing at a super slow rate? Can someone tell me all the possible scenarios ?Thank you so much. I'm so confused!
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