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Open Question: I asked this question earlier and got no answers, hopefully can get some now?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 06:00:44 GMT)
Im 35 weeks and 3 days pregnant and A few times starting about 2 in a half weeks ago i have had this pain in the corners (about 2 in a half ta 3 inches up from where my butt begins and about 2 inches out from where my spine is) of both sides of my back and it just gets so intense and massaging it either does not help or makes it hurt worse. It lasts for a while then goes away on its own and it hurt so bad today that i was dreaming i had it then i woke up with it. The corners is where the pain originates but then it kinda feels like it makes my hole lower back hurt and when i move, depending which position im in is how bad it hurts. Sometimes ill get a braxton hick contraction at the same time as im having the back pain, i dunno if that has anything to do with it and i dont get the contractions all the time when im having back pain, sometimes i dont get them at all with it. Im wondering if anyone has had anything like this before? Is it a normal part of being this far along or is it something you think i should have looked at? I go to the doctor on friday so ill talk to her then, but i was just wondering if anyone had the same thing and maybe things i can try to do it help with the pain when i get it. Thanks for all answers
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Open Question: i might be pregnant and miscarried?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 05:50:57 GMT)
i had unprotected sex feb. 27[he cumed inside me a lot and stayed in for a few minutes to finish], 2 days later started feeling nausea, fatigue, and ccramp's a week later came the same symptoms along with dizziness, increased appetite, a bit moody, then came headaches[every now and then all the things happened nausea sometimes all day and fatigue all day]. im on depo provera, i haven't taken a pregnancy test yet and im pretty sure i might be[depo provera has never made me feel pregnant or this hungry and it wouldn't start now]. here is were the miscarriage part comes in, lately my boyfriend has been srstressinge out and its really got me going i stopped feeling less of the symptoms but have not bleed at all. i also got a cold this week and have taken 2 benodril today, two tylenol, 30ml of nyquil cold and flu, and chloraseptic(all day), the rest different times of the day can any of those lead to miscarriage
also i have gas
also i have gas not to
also i have gas not to be
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Open Question: omg please help...stuck between rock and hard place here?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 05:39:52 GMT)
I always thought that you shouldnt buy baby stuff until you hit 3 months pregnant (12 weeks) because of the high miscarriage rate until then. My mom is telling me not to buy anything until after 5 months. I am very anxious to buy baby stuff once i hit the 3 month mark (3 weeks to go) but also want to make my mom happy and wait till i hit the 5 month mark (not sure if i could wait that long)..asked this b4 and only responses i got were to buy the stuff and not let her know for 2 more months but that isnt possible since i live in her home. im 24 1/2 btw
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Open Question: please help....9 weeks pregnant?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 05:35:27 GMT)
so i am 9 weeks 2 days pregnant and am being told the miscarriage rate is high until 3 months pregnant...i have also been told that the miscarriage rate is high until 5 months (called stillborn then)...at which month along does the miscarriage rate drop extremely low? P.S. This is to say in a normal pregnancy with no complications
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Open Question: Pregnant?,Just got off the Pill? (TTC)?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 05:32:00 GMT)
Hi, just wondering what are my chance's of being pregnant or whats going on with my body.
I was put on 2 months of Tri-Sprintec birth control pills back in Dec. 2009 because i had not recieved a period since Aug 2009. (the First month we started TTC in Aug 09), I guess the doctor i went to said something on the lines of it was "stuck" period. he didn't really explain it well to me.
when i first started Tri-Sprintec , the first month i recieved my "period" and also the 2nd month.
Last month on Feb 13. i recieved my last "period or withdraw bleeding" ( i wasn't even explained what the different is) and i stoped the pills, two weeks later i get another period on Feb 27. for 4 days and extremely heavy...which i believe maybe that happen because i stoped the pill???
So right now i have no idea when to expect my period because i had gotten two bleedings in Feb.
We are TTC and i only have feelings of sore breast for the past 3 days and been feeling really sleepy and tierd so far.
Thanks for ur Answers!! :)
I also forgot to mention, we been sexually active since i got off the pill
:)
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Open Question: what does it mean 2 skip your period for 2 weeks?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 05:31:21 GMT)
I'm two weeks late. I've been getting the bloating and headaches but no other symptoms. I'm still a virgin so i know I'm not pregnant. should i be worried?
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Open Question: Come one guys i need some advice!?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 05:19:21 GMT)
i was on the pill and missed a few days and didn't think anything of it but me and my boyfriend were having unprotected sex before/during/after that starting like a month ago and ive been feeling sick in the stomach for the past 2 weeks i was supposed too get my period last week and i kind of did but it was like really weird light and kinda short, then yesterday i just had one like some blood like just when i wiped after i went pee..and after that was nothing but that little bit was like kinda pinkish i took a test last week and it said negative but i don't know if it was too early too tell or not, plus after i took the test and after my weird little period we had unprotected sex again and i haven't started taking my pills again yet cause im not supposed too till my next period and some one told me after you have unprotected sex and are pregnant you can get like spotting like 5-6 days later or so and we did last saturday.. and you guys help me get a better idea of if i am or not!
Also there is like a sharp pain behind my rib kinda if that means anything or not i have no idea..
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Open Question: pregnant on your period?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 05:18:59 GMT)
i know you can get get pregnant on your period. but i was wondering if your more likely to get pregnant when you have your period than when you dont?? Me and my fiance have been trying to conceive for about 5 months now and nothing yet. this week i got my period and we had sex 2 times. We never did it when i was on my period so im wondering if might get pregnant?? what do you think
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Open Question: Not sure how to handle this.. What would you do?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 05:16:37 GMT)
I was engaged and got pregnant after being on the pill for 7 months (taken regularly). My fiance panicked and called off the wedding and disappeared. Around 5 months of me being pregnant he decided he wanted to be part of his son's life. Around 7 months he decided he wanted a DNA test, I didn't have a problem with this at all (I was actually a little offended). Now I'm 9 months (due the 25th) and have heard from him maybe 3 times in a week and haven't actually seen him in almost 2 weeks. Not sure what I should do about him. I don't want to waste money on a DNA test if he's not going to be around either way but if he's going to be around I don't mind doing one so that he won't second guess his son for the rest of his life. I think the main reason he said he wanted to be involved was because his family gave him a hard time about the way he was acting and so my guess is he just wanted them to stop harassing him about it. I'm just very confused about how I should handle the situation - should I just push him away so he doesn't feel obligated to be around just because of his family or keep trying? I just keep getting my hopes up everytime he comes around just to be let down again when he disappears.
I'm not planning on getting child support from him so I won't need a DNA test for that - the only reason I would be getting it would be for him.
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Open Question: could i be pregnant after my abortion?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 05:12:13 GMT)
I had an abortion on February 10th 2009. I had unprotected sex on march 14th. is it possible that i could be pregnant again? When we had had sex i had some small cramps in my abdomen. is it possible that i could be ovulating? the past few days since then ive had cramps. My doctor said to take a test in 2 weeks ( i went to the follow-up appointment on the 15th) and the test will be accurate. i just would like others opinions! thanks!
*** any bashing about my decision will be reported.***
Also: We did use a condom, it broke; hence, (involuntary) unprotected sex. I know plenty about birth control. And the bashing was not about my decision to have sex, i was refering to my decision to get an abortion.
To everyone who thinks abortion is wrong or that i made the wrong decision:
Mind your own business. no one told you you had to read my post. unless your somehow related to my personal life (which none of you are) do not tell me i made the wrong decision. i made a decision that was right for me, my baby, and my finacee. Get over yourselves holy rollers
I know abortion is not birth control. IF YOU READ MY ADDED DETAILS YOU WOULD KNOW THAT THE CONDOM BROKE. WE WERE BEING CAREFUL.
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Open Question: My insurance only allows 1 ultrasound without an authorization of another first?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 05:02:06 GMT)
Does anyone else have this problem? What would they see as suitable "excuse" for having an ultrasound earlier than 20 weeks? When I was pregnant with my first I was on a different insurance that allowed 2 routines and I had one at 7 weeks and one at 20... My sister in law has Spina Bifida and it runs on my husband's side of the family and I really want an ultrasound early so we will know if the baby has it and therefore I would have to take extra precautions throughout the whole pregnancy... Do you think my insurance will see this as a good enough "excuse" to be able to receive 2 routines?
I just found out I'm pregnant so I haven't even had my 1st appointment yet with the OB just trying to plan ahead
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Open Question: My insurance only allows 1 ultrasound without authorization for another?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 05:00:15 GMT)
Does anyone else have this problem? What would they see as suitable "excuse" for having an ultrasound earlier than 20 weeks? When I was pregnant with my first I was on a different insurance that allowed 2 routines and I had one at 7 weeks and one at 20... My sister in law has Spina Bifida and it runs on my husband's side of the family and I really want an ultrasound early so we will know if the baby has it and therefore I would have to take extra precautions throughout the whole pregnancy... Do you think my insurance will see this as a good enough "excuse" to be able to receive 2 routines?
I just found out I'm pregnant so I haven't even had my 1st appointment yet with the OB just trying to plan ahead
Well at my 7 week ultrasound they did check for Spina bifida last time and I am on special pre-natals that I started taking as soon as I stopped my birth contol in Jan... but that was with a family doctor not my OB
was curious to see how much folic acid was in my prenatals and theres 4000 micrograms
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Open Question: I didnt want my son when he was born. Now hes my world but i still feel bad?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 04:50:57 GMT)
When i was pregnant, i didn't want Tyson. When i had him nothing changed until he was 6 weeks old & then he got really sick & ended up in the hospital and after that idk, i was scared and didnt want anything to happen 2 him and now hes my world. Hes 15 months old now.
I look at him or pictures of him and feel like the worst mom ever because i didnt want my baby & it took him being in the hospital for me to actually want him. My familys no help, they still throw it in my face that i didnt want him and dont deserve him & are always making comments about how hes such a daddies boy cause his dad was the only one that wanted him.
I thought by now, since its been a year i would have got over it but i still feel bad...How do i get over feeling bad about it and just like enjoy him now? I like him at the stage hes in. Everything he does is cute and hes not in the terrible twos yet...not looking forward to that. But anyways how can i get over it?
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Open Question: PCOS and pregnancy testing please help!!!!?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 04:47:12 GMT)
I have always had irregular cycles. I would have it for 2 or 3 months on time then it would disappear for months. My periods are always heavy and filled with clots. In August of 2008 I be gain a period that lasted for five months ending in Dec.2008(dx PCOS). I was put on the pill to stop the bleeding. I was on BC pills for about 7months I stopped them in June 09 at the end of my last pack. Before BCP I never had regular cycles .I had 5 normal periods 30-35 day cycles.
My last AF was Nov. 24.2009 I had sex Dec.7th (no sex since then, the sex was protected(condom) and he did not ejaculate in me). I had 3 negative urine test. One ept digital and two urine test done by Planned Parenthood. But have not received my period due to the fact that I have irregular cycles I decided to have a blood test done. I don't have insurance so I just went to Lab corp. and had the test done... from what I understand I am not pregnant these are the results.
1 <miu/ml
the results said that a non pregnant female can have 0-5 hcg ml in the blood stream.
*This test was taking Feb. 24 about 14 weeks after last sexual activity (Dec.7. ) Can PCOS or anything else effect the results of a blood test at that point?
*Should I be concerned about this I had a heavy petting( no ejecualtion that either of us could tell) incident in July27 2009(day 7 of a 30 day cycle) had four AFs after that
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Open Question: another question... i know.. pregnant ?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 04:41:30 GMT)
I asked another question before about this but ya so.
I still haven't gotten my period, its been like 2 months.. last time was january.but its always irregular& im like 5'5 and weigh 100 pounds. my boobs are sore, i had discharge a week ago, i think its pretty much gone. Idk, im just a little paranoid.
is this just pre period, or pregnancy?
I also don't have morning sickness.
I guess if I don't get my period within a week or 2 i'llgo buy a test. but for now i just want what you guys think.
if you want more info, you can go to my profile and read previous question asked.
your help is very much appreciated :)
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Open Question: Would it be offensive to ask my doctor how he came up with my due date?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 04:41:25 GMT)
I have asked a few times on here about it and it seems to confuse everyone.
I've heard to come up with an approximate conception date you count back 38 weeks from your due date which is July 2nd for me but my LMP was May 25th so it doesn't add up at all - this would mean that I got pregnant after my missed period but I am due March 25th and according to due date calculators I should've had my baby by now going by LMP and still have not. Has anyone asked their doctor this question? Was he/she willing to explain it to you or did it irritate them?
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Open Question: Im just wondering I take my nuvaring out during intercourse could i be pregnant?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 04:25:27 GMT)
On March 5th, I took my nuvaring out to have sex and the next day i had forgotten to put it back in since it had been 2 weeks or sooner I put it back in. He had came inside of me. Could I be pregnant, My period was from feb 24th-28th, and the week after the 5th we had unprotected sex
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Open Question: Wife wants another child but I am physically unable, what do?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 04:17:23 GMT)
My wife wants another child but I am physically unable to comply with her demands.
At the moment we have a 2 year old daughter. I had always assumed she was my biological daughter however recently (3 months ago) I was simultaneously diagnosed with Aspergers syndrome and Klinefelter's syndrome. I had been thinking there was something wrong with me for a long time but I hate doctors so didn't get it checked out. My wife believed there was something wrong with me (mentally) cause I didn't seem like a normal person. Anyway, this diagnosis got me thinking about the approximate time my daughter was supposed to have been conceived.
Around the time of my daughters conception my wife was raped. She wasn't given a morning after pill nor did she purchase one herself. The doctors didn't believe that she had been raped because apparently there was a massive amount of alcohol in her system. She never stated she had been raped but she didn't remember having sex but she was missing her panties and had dirt/grass in and around that area. We only brought her to the hospital because she was vomiting violently.
At the time she wasn't my wife. I had only been dating her for 3 months. Which now that I think about may mean she was actually out for some fun did something she regretted and lied about doing it. Our relationship wasn't that serious back then. So naturally I was using condoms so as far as I know (and I would know as my penis is attached to me) I never actually ejaculated inside of her.
2 weeks later she discovers she's pregnant. 3 weeks after that we move in together. 8 months later my baby girl is born. One year after her birth we get married. That's the beginning in a nutshell.
Anyway, the problem isn't that I fear my daughter isn't my own. Regardless of whether or not we are blood related I love her more than anything and for all intents and purposes she is my daughter (and my wife will never know otherwise). I just wanted to explain how I could have one child but not be physically capable of producing another.
So my current problem is no matter how much I want it I can't have another child. I can't tell my wife I'm physically unable and have been physically unable since birth because I'm afraid she'll take my baby girl away from me as she'll legally have the right to do so. I told my wife I wanted to wait a couple years before having another child and the reasoning I gave her is that it would be irresponsible because we're not financially capable of sustaining 4 lives let alone 3. But because we managed to make it work when we had our first she believes we would be fine to have another immediately.
To make a long story short my wife is an emotionally passionate person who doesn't often listen to logic or reason. She believes my reasons for not wanting another child immediately are flimsy at best and as a result she's extremely angry and threatening to leave me. I've slept on the couch the past two nights so now I'm exhausted. I'm almost thinking I'll have to bite the bullet and leave my wife while keeping her in the dark about my infertility just so I can have the possibility of joint custody.
I don't know what to do in this situation or where to go for help. What do I do? If there's a more appropriate place to ask for help where is it?
I forgot to mention:
1. I am capable of fulfilling her sexual desires. I just can't get her pregnant.
2. If I agree to trying to have a baby immediately (ie lying to her even more) I'm afraid that after some months she'll notice she's not getting pregnant no matter how hard we try and she'll start asking questions. Which of course means I would have to fess up about the infertility.
Also, I love my wife very very much so a possible solution that includes me staying with my wife is preferred.
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Open Question: Could I possibly be pregnant?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 04:10:40 GMT)
I've been on the pill (Loestrin) for almost 2 years now. Every month i get my period. i start taking the sugar pills on a thursday, get my period friday or saturday, start a new month sunday, and my period is usually gone by tuesday. This month though I didn't really get my period. Starting friday i got it for a little bit and it was gone and saturday and sunday too (spotting?) idk i mean lately i've been getting lighter flows, could it just be the pills? or stress? im planning on taking a test this week sometime. I just would like to know if anyone could maybe reassure me that i may not be pregnant.
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Open Question: 4 months pregnant, I've gained 4-6 lbs...is this a lot or a little?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 04:01:20 GMT)
I started off overweight by about 15 lbs, so 173 lbs (I'm 5'8"). Right now I'm tipping the scales at 177-179 depending on when I weigh myself, and I'm 4 months along.
I keep reading that I should gain between 15-25 lbs, but nobody is telling me if this should be a consistent 1/2 lb every week or if there is some specified time when I should be gaining more or less. I'd like to weigh no more than 190 when I have my baby so that I can shed the pounds more easily. How much had you gained by 4 months? Is this too much or too little?
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Open Question: how far along? please help?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 03:54:29 GMT)
so i am 9 weeks 2 days pregnant and am being told the miscarriage rate is high until 3 months pregnant...i have also been told that the miscarriage rate is high until 5 months...at which month along does the miscarriage rate drop extremely low? P.S. This is to say in a normal pregnancy with no complications.
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Open Question: I Reallyyy neeed help, Can I be pregnant?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 03:25:04 GMT)
Its been already going to be 2 months late, my last period was on jan. and still no period. Ive been having back pains for the past 2 weeks and now my abdomen hurts sometimes like cramps and the left side of it too, it kind of has this throbbing shooting up to my boob idk its weird. But now Ive been sneezing alot and burping once in a while and I dont drink anything gassy and as well as a running nose. It sounds like the flu but I havent had my period since jan. and I keep getting negative hpt. I dont know whats wrong with me, any opinions, did anybody experienced this and found out they were pregnant??? Oh and I feel my abdomen and if I press it down it kind of hurts and sometimes I get bloated when I eat and then it calms down but then I get bloated again and I just dont know what to think. Sometimes I feel my period is coming but nothing but I do get this clear discharge but still no period.
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Open Question: my HCG levels didnt double plz help me?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 03:23:27 GMT)
im 33 two kids PCOS and irregular periods i actually had a period with no help on 2-23-10 normal i stopped on march 2nd spotted for 3 days i had sex 3-4-10 i kept spotting untill saturday 3-6-10 it became a little heavier reddish brown i kept spotting which i still am i spoke with my dr. she told me maybe i should take a preg test maybe i was having a misscaraige which ive had 4 so i decied to take 1 on 3-13-10 which showed up immediatley,i then had a blood test done this monday 3-15-10 positive blood test,i had a quant drawn it was 1406 she told me i was around 3 weeks pregnant so today i had it drwan and it was only 1616 so it didnt double is this ok or what does this sound like my dr hasnt called me yet so im not sure what she is gonna suggest so any help is appreciated,i have low progesterone and was just put on prometruim on monday so im hopeful it will start raising with that anyways any advice or info will help God Bless you all and thank you so much.
also he spotting was very light brown to pink sometimes a little reddish brown but mostly pink today is day 2 on prometruim and i have very very light brown discharge now so next to no spotting already which is good i was advised to do nothing untill it stopped
the spotting (SRRY)
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Open Question: 25 1/2 weeks, symptoms worring me? please read?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 03:22:13 GMT)
ok so im 25 and a half weeks pregnant.
And today iv been feeling pretty bad.
and being the worrier i am, im getting all freeked out and prob over reacting.
these are my symptoms-
tired
head ache
slightly puffy feet and hands
kinda week
nausious
achy
its prob just pregnancy stuff right?
like iv been readin up on preaclampsia
and im kinda a hypocondriact so im wondering if i might be starting to get that.
does anone else have thease symptoms ? its also been really hot today..bleh
if i still feel bad tomorrow im going to call my doctor,
but for right now, im looking for a little reasurence.
anything helps, thanks!
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Open Question: Can somebody please help me!?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 03:08:44 GMT)
i was on the pill and missed a few days and didn't think anything of it but me and my boyfriend were having unprotected sex before/during/after that starting like a month ago and ive been feeling sick in the stomach for the past 2 weeks i was supposed too get my period last week and i kind of did but it was like really weird light and kinda short, then yesterday i just had one like some blood like just when i wiped after i went pee..and after that was nothing but that little bit was like kinda pinkish i took a test last week and it said negative but i don't know if it was too early too tell or not, plus after i took the test and after my weird little period we had unprotected sex again and i haven't started taking my pills again yet cause im not supposed too till my next period and some one told me after you have unprotected sex and are pregnant you can get like spotting like 5-6 days later or so and we did last saturday.. and you guys help me get a better idea of if i am or not!
Also there is like a sharp pain behind my rib kinda if that means anything or not i have no idea..
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Open Question: is he being insensitive or am i being unreasonable for being upset?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 02:58:58 GMT)
ok lets see if i can give you guys the short version.. i am 33 weeks pregnant, and a week ago this past Sat. my 29 yr old baby brother passed away suddenly in his sleep. the night before his death he had been out and had drank way too much, so we are thinking that contributed to his death although until the reports come in we won't know 100% for sure... alright, well today was my husbands twin sister and brothers 21st birthday and so the family threw them a huge cookout/birthday party. i have already resolved to the fact that they would all be drinking, but i asked my husband not too drink too much because, well obviously because of what just happened to my brother, and so that i wouldn't stress or worry. well, about 9:00 pm i decided to come home because i had to get our 2 yr old to bed, so i left him in the safety of his parents house. well, he just called me about 10 minutes ago and said the parents made them all leave because they have to work early in the am, so everyone went to the sisters house to party. when he called i could tell he had already had alot to drink and so i begged him to please once again, not drink too much. and his response was, calm down and stop being so dramatic i'll be home later on tonight, i love you, bye???and he hung up.. do you think that it is unreasonable of me to ask him not to drink too much given the stress i have been under lately with my brothers death and the sketchiness of it maybe being cause by alcohol? or do i have a right to be upset because he is being totally insensitive to me right now. my heart is broken over my brother, i don't want to have to worry about losing a husband to the same damn thing... what do you guys think? thanks..
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Open Question: Cancer man broke up with me, im a scorpio woman, I NEED ADVICE PLEASE!! wat can i do?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 02:40:38 GMT)
ok i know this is alot but please read this...i need advise PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!
i have been dating this cancer male for about 3 months now, his name is brad. things have been good! we never had a fight. except , i did break up with him a month ago, i was scared because i found out i was pregnant with my now 2nd child! but i ended up telling him a couple days after i had broke up with him, well we had got back together. even tho he was freaking out about having a baby out of wedlock. a week later i got in a fight with someone and she made me loose the baby i bled all over the place but didn't tell him about this. the day after the fight he met me for lunch and requested i take a pregnancy test. i told him no for a couple days. he kinda got mad over it. and begged me to take one for a week so he can see for his self, i didn't want to cuz i was afraid of telling him i miscarriaged. my mom found out i was pregnant along with us fighting and tried kicking me out so i he offered i move in with him. he told me to meet him yesterday so he picked me up and brought me to his house. first thing he asked me to do was take the pregnancy test but i told him to wait. he was getting mad because he couldn't understand why wouldn't take the test if i was pregnant, that i should proove it! i told him wait till i have to pee. he agreed with it. well later that day we ended up having mind blowing sex for a couple hours then eating dinner and watching tv. our conversation was great! then i started to tell him wat was really going on. we had a heart to heart about the mistakes we made in the relationship. i ended up crying my eyes out while telling him about wat happened and how i feel i lost the baby and that is the reason i wasn't wanting to take the test so he reassured me we wouldn't breakup. i ended up taking the test as soon as we finished talking and it said negative. i cried. he was upset but not super sad cuz he wasn't ready for a baby anyway. he told me we aren't breaking up! and that this whole thing will make our relationship better so we can focus on each other. we drove home together and i asked him about whether or not he was gonna take me in because i have no where to go! he knows the only place i have to go is my baby's father because he still wants me back. but he knows i dont want him. he told me to try and work things out with my mother the best i can. and that hes not ready for me moving in yet! but my mom is not going for it! she wants me out! he knows that! well on the drive home we held hands and he was kissing all over me at my doorstep. he told me he had a great night! he had to go to work so he went to bed early lastnight. he lives an hour away and didn't text me on his way home which was odd. he usually does! he wakes up to go to work at 5 am so i texted him at 6am. i said "hi" he only said "hey" back in return. i said "wow ok" because he didn't seem eager to talk to me! he didn't even text me back after i sent that so 30minutes later i said "i guess il erase ur number" an hour later and still no response so i kept texting him asking why hes not responding and wats goin on. he ignored me for 5 hours then finally texted back and said "im done, its over, goodbye!" i asked him "why, wats going on, and where is he coming from with this?" he said " im just done, too much too fast. im going to be single for awhile. i need space" then i kept begging him and he says "its over, that's life. move on because i have". that really hurt me wen he said that! if he felt that way then why didn't he tell me that last night? why did he all of a sudden feel that way? can i get him back!?? i want him so bad! i feel like i cant live without him! he was very good to me and my daughter! he treated us like we were his own family! that's wat really made me happy, that he actually accepted my daughter! im not moving on and i told him that! i want him and that's all i want. or im staying single if i cant have him! should i keep texting and call him or should i ignore him? wat should i do!?!? i dont want to loose him!! please help me with this!! im so sad=[ i cant stop crying
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Open Question: what is wrong with me?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 02:39:26 GMT)
I'm almost 20. My last period was Feb. 5. At the end of Feb, beginning of March I was having stomach problems. I started getting really hungry and therefore started eating more. In the past 3-4 weeks I have gained 10 lbs. I am ALWAYS tired. My average sleep is 6-8 hours per night. Then I take 3-4 hour naps during the day. I usually fall asleep in my college classes. I pee all the time this has happened the past few weeks (2-3 weeks). I wont even drink anything and have to pee. I took pregnancy test 3 days ago and it said negative so I know I'm not pregnant (even though everyone including my parents have asked me that) so what on earth could it be?
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Open Question: Will it be just as easy this time around?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 02:38:39 GMT)
I had a miscarriage about 2 1/2 weeks ago the doctor told me to wait a month before trying again (which i am following) When i got pregnant me and my husband only tried a month before i fell pregnant, could i fall pregnant easy this time around also?
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Open Question: When should I take a pregnancy test?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 02:38:15 GMT)
I'm on Seasonique for birth control, I've been on birth control for almost 4 years straight and to this day have never missed a pill. I had sex for the first time a week ago and I know that being on birth control that I shouldn't be too worried about being pregnant...but I'm still worried. It was both my boyfriend's first time and my first time to have sex and we both know we don't have any STDs or anything of that sort so we didn't use a condom seeing that I am on birth control. But now I'm worried because he came in me and there is always that chance of pregnancy even with birth control. And I've never forgotten to take a birth control pill in 4 years so don't worry about me taking my pills irresponsibly.
So my problem is since I'm on Seasonique that means I only have a pill "period" every 3 months...so I never have a real period and therefore I never have a "missed period". So when am I suppose to take a pregnancy test?
I was thinking taking one 2 weeks after the sex and then wait another 2 weeks to take another. Would this be a good way or what should I do?
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Open Question: When do you get stretchmarks in your pregnancy...is it the 2nd or third trimester?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 02:29:01 GMT)
I'm 23 weeks pregnant and haven't gotten any so far...BUT, my mom has them all over her stomach and have them on my hips and butt from weight gain in the past. Do you think I will get some on my stretch in the 3rd trimester?
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Open Question: cancer man broke up with me, im a scorpio woman, I NEED ADVICE PLEASE!! wat can i do?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 02:20:49 GMT)
i have been dating this cancer male for about 3 months now, his name is brad. things have been good! we never had a fight. except , i did break up with him a month ago, i was scared because i found out i was pregnant with my now 2nd child! but i ended up telling him a couple days after i had broke up with him, well we had got back together. even tho he was freaking out about having a baby out of wedlock. a week later i got in a fight with someone and she made me loose the baby i bled all over the place but didn't tell him about this. the day after the fight he met me for lunch and requested i take a pregnancy test. i told him no for a couple days. he kinda got mad over it. and begged me to take one for a week so he can see for his self, i didn't want to cuz i was afraid of telling him i miscarriaged. my mom found out i was pregnant along with us fighting and tried kicking me out so i he offered i move in with him. he told me to meet him yesterday so he picked me up and brought me to his house. first thing he asked me to do was take the pregnancy test but i told him to wait. he was getting mad because he couldn't understand why wouldn't take the test if i was pregnant, that i should proove it! i told him wait till i have to pee. he agreed with it. well later that day we ended up having mind blowing sex for a couple hours then eating dinner and watching tv. our conversation was great! then i started to tell him wat was really going on. we had a heart to heart about the mistakes we made in the relationship. i ended up crying my eyes out while telling him about wat happened and how i feel i lost the baby and that is the reason i wasn't wanting to take the test so he reassured me we wouldn't breakup. i ended up taking the test as soon as we finished talking and it said negative. i cried. he was upset but not super sad cuz he wasn't ready for a baby anyway. he told me we aren't breaking up! and that this whole thing will make our relationship better so we can focus on each other. we drove home together and i asked him about whether or not he was gonna take me in because i have no where to go! he knows the only place i have to go is my baby's father because he still wants me back. but he knows i dont want him. he told me to try and work things out with my mother the best i can. and that hes not ready for me moving in yet! but my mom is not going for it! she wants me out! he knows that! well on the drive home we held hands and he was kissing all over me at my doorstep. he told me he had a great night! he had to go to work so he went to bed early lastnight. he lives an hour away and didn't text me on his way home which was odd. he usually does! he wakes up to go to work at 5 am so i texted him at 6am. i said "hi" he only said "hey" back in return. i said "wow ok" because he didn't seem eager to talk to me! he didn't even text me back after i sent that so 30minutes later i said "i guess il erase ur number" an hour later and still no response so i kept texting him asking why hes not responding and wats goin on. he ignored me for 5 hours then finally texted back and said "im done, its over, goodbye!" i asked him "why, wats going on, and where is he coming from with this?" he said " im just done, too much too fast. im going to be single for awhile. i need space" then i kept begging him and he says "its over, that's life. move on because i have". that really hurt me wen he said that! if he felt that way then why didn't he tell me that last night? why did he all of a sudden feel that way? can i get him back!?? i want him so bad! i feel like i cant live without him! he was very good to me and my daughter! he treated us like we were his own family! that's wat really made me happy, that he actually accepted my daughter! im not moving on and i told him that! i want him and that's all i want. or im staying single if i cant have him! should i keep texting and call him or should i ignore him? wat should i do!?!? i dont want to loose him!! please help me with this!! im so sad=[ i cant stop crying
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Open Question: I need your opinion......?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 02:20:44 GMT)
Well, on Feb. 17th I started my period, and a week later I took the Plan B pill because the condom broke. About 4-5 days later I started bleeding again, It was my period again. It's the 17th of march now and I've sex maybe 7 times in between . I used protection and checked the condom for holes, and there were none. Tank goodness. Anyway, I took 2 pregnancy tests today to see If I was pregnant and they both came out negative. I haven't gotten my period yet, and I think it's going to be off because of the Plan B pills. That's what the chick at planned parenthood said. ANyway I need some comments and opinions on what you think or personal expernses to help me out.
The only symptom i'm having is that sometimes my stomach feels upset and I kinda wanna throwup, not really but still it makes me wonder. Help?
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Open Question: Cramps, yet no Blood, Is this normal?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 02:12:27 GMT)
My Last Period Started the Day before Valentines and Ended 5 Days later. Now, 2 Weeks Ago, I had Sex with my Boyfriend and we where Protected, but there is a Small Chance there was a Leak, if you catch my Drift. Anyway, I'm about a Week Late in my Period and at the moment I've got uncomfortable cramps like I would Normally have during my period, but I'm not Bleeding. My Breasts are Tender and Swollen, like normal and I'm Bloating a little, like normal. But the Fact I'm not Bleeding isn't normal. Not for me. Could I be Pregnant? I ask my Boyfriend and He kinda laughed at me say "Do you know how Hard it is to get Pregnant?" Is he right when he says I shouldn't worry, or am I Just Freaking out too much? Should I get Tested?
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Open Question: Buying neice things for her baby: Do think this is okay?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 02:05:00 GMT)
If you say my previous answer my neice is pregnant and will be living with us for a while. Although she is not due until October 2nd I would like to buy everything before I have to go on bedrest myself. She can only contribute five hundred dollars which is fine with me becuase she will be working as long as she can before the baby comes. I'm not buying everything "top of the line" but, still want things to be safe and sturdy. Here is what we are getting in the next couple weeks (purchasing online). Any information on the products or products we should and shouldn't buy would be helpful!
Travel System and Playard: http://www.toysrus.ca/product/index.jsp?productId=3994369&cp=2567323.2567323&parentPage=family
Three of these: http://www.toysrus.ca/product/index.jsp?productId=3039638&cp=2582964.2582964&parentPage=family
Swing: http://www.toysrus.ca/product/index.jsp?productId=3822318&cp=3556373.3556373&parentPage=family
Crib:http://www.toysrus.ca/product/index.jsp?productId=3820204&cp=2583004.3598746.2583014.2583014&parentPage=family
Bedding:
http://www.toysrus.ca/product/index.jsp?productId=3822213&cp=2583003.2583007.3952164.3952164&parentPage=family
Mobile: http://www.toysrus.ca/product/index.jsp?productId=3268835&cp=2583005.2583026.2583026&parentPage=family
I for some reason feel bad that it's not the same quality of my babies stuff. Thanks in advance!
Also what else do I need for her furniture and gear wise?
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Open Question: Tell me what you think . . .. ...?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 02:04:28 GMT)
Well Ive had sex mostly everyday unprotected since Feb-14 he did c** in me too. I'm trying to conceive my last period was Feb 16 still havnt got another one but i took two test today but not in the morning and they said negative i've been having symptoms , nausea without vomiting , in the first 2 weeks bad headaches , an very sore breast looks like my nipples are getting bigger & little dots are around my areolaes. So I have one more test but im going to take it in the morning do you think the test was wrong because i took it like 2 hours ago one after the other. . or im just not pregnant?
Thank you
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Open Question: sore breasts only lasted a week, confused pls answer?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 02:03:06 GMT)
so i was supposed to get my period on the 3rd of every month, i have a normal cycle, since feb was only 28 days, i figured id get my period by the 6th of march and as of today march 17th still no period and no signs of getting it either. last week my breasts were hurting, really bad! around the nipple area only and it would hurt worse if i touched it but that only lasted abt a week, other then that I've been having these weird headaches that make my head feel really heavy, off and on for a couple of days, I've also felt like throwing up a lot lately like Monday night i went to the movies with my husband and i couldn't sit through the whole movie because i felt like i was literally going to throw up every where! i have been sleeping a little more then usual but that could be due to the time change and i pee abt 2 times an hour. so my question is: Is there a possibility i could be pregnant? i haven't taken a HPT yet because i took 7 of them last month and all neg! i was 8 days late last month and this month I'm now 11 days late... when should i take a test? or should i wate another week to see if i get my period?
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Open Question: Quick Question Bout Pregnancy ..?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 01:59:44 GMT)
Well Ive had sex mostly everyday unprotected since Feb-14 he did c** in me too. I'm trying to conceive my last period was Feb 16 still havnt got another one but i took two test today but not in the morning and they said negative i've been having symptoms , nausea without vomiting , in the first 2 weeks bad headaches , an very sore breast looks like my nipples are getting bigger & little dots are around my areolaes. So I have one more test but im going to take it in the morning do you think the test was wrong because i took it like 2 hours ago one after the other. . or im just not pregnant?
Thank you
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Open Question: vicodin every 6 hours im in pain its ben 4 hours can i take one now?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 01:56:13 GMT)
Ok I'm 25 weeks pregnant and I have a really bad tooth ache I was givin vikodin and was told to take 2 every 6 hours but its so bad it don't take the pain away just calms a little down only for an hour and it starts up again fast. I took 2 vicodins and 2:30 its 6:50 would it be ok if I took one now? I have ben in bad pain since 4:00 I can't wait untill 8:30 :(
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Open Question: ANYONE IN THE MILITARY!!?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 01:40:33 GMT)
Ok so I have heard of recruiters telling you what you wanna hear but never being heartless. My husband signed a contract to be a diver for the ARMY. We were being told that after his basic in Missouri we would be moved (me and our 11 month old) to base with him while he went to A school. Well once the papers were signed we are now being told that NO he will reamain in the barracks for 29 weeks and we cannot live on base with him and he cannot leave. To make it worse im pregnant with our secons child so our daughter will be 2 and he will have a 6 month old he has never met when he gets out. And the recruiter was so heartless telling us this. My husband asked why he lied and he said "Het man, that's just how it goes" . So does anyone know a loop hole around this? Can he change his job? Anything would help
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Open Question: 39 weeks pregnant and frustrated!?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 01:39:22 GMT)
im starting my 39th week this weekend and nothing is happening..no pain no cramps nothing! im getting frustrated cause it seems that i get bigger and bigger every day and my baby is not comming out. Hes still riding pretty high in my belly and well i dunno whats going on! im due the 27th of this month. Its my first baby. Is it possible to have absoliutely no signs of labor until a few hours before it starts? i dont want to be induced if i go over my due date..im already traumatized from having had a cerclage which was taken out 2 weeks ago. Im stressing! i cant sleep! me feet and hands are swollen, i wanna cry! ugh...yeah i need to let it out.
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Open Question: Weight Watchers feels too easy, will it actually work?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 01:38:24 GMT)
Ever since I was old enough to be body conscious I have tried all kinds of diets, and I have never really stuck to any of them. When I was in high school I always maintained a healthy weight regardless, never was skinny, but always stayed within my bmi, just from light exercise and staying too busy to snack, so back then it really didn't matter that I couldn't stick to a diet. When I went to college, like many other young women, I gained a bit of weight... then I got married and pregnant, which is when the real problem started. I gained quite a bit of weight during pregnancy, and I was never able to lose all of it, so it just seems to have crept up little by little, and now I am completely unhappy with my weight and image. My husband likes good tasty food, and he can get away with it because he is a marine, and stays incredibly fit, I however am a stay at home mother. I have almost no time to myself, so the exercise I get is usually from chasing after my 2 year old. Over the last year or so I have struggled with my weight, but temptation always seems to be there, and it seems that I have a bit of a problem with self control :) So with every diet I tried I have gotten more and more frustrated.
This time I decided that instead of trying to get my husband to help restrict me, or go along with the diet with me. I would try a well known program that would cause me to have to be accountable to myself for my eating actions without my husband having to suffer by not being able to ever go out to eat, or have snack foods in the house, etc.
Well my aunt tried weight watchers, and had tremendous success with it, she not only lost the weight, but also kept the weight off. So I decided to try weight watchers free trial. Its only been a few days, but it seems so easy! Almost too easy. I'm able to eat out as long as I'm careful about what I eat, and plan accordingly. I'm not hungry all of the time. I can eat real meals, and then still am able to have some snacks. So, I'm wondering if maybe I'm misunderstanding how it works. For all other diets I've tried, there have always been food restrictions, and I always felt hungry. I like junk food, sugar all of those things, so those diets never worked, because not being able to cheat made me want to cheat worse. On Weight Watchers they start out giving you 35 weekly cheating points in addition to your daily allotment that you can use however you want. Thats a lot of points enough to do something like eat half a pizza, or have a king sized candy bar twice a week.
Anyways, the bottom line is that I feel like I really need to lose this weight, and this is so easy I'm not sure if it will give me the help I need. I'm not expecting instantaneous results, I just want to know that if I stick to the Weight Watchers plan for a year, these little adjustments will gradually increase a little at a time, and I will lose the weight.
I'm also going to start taking classes at night at the gym, nothing too hard, but just to have some cardio once or twice a week.
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Open Question: what color is amniotic fluid?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 01:37:12 GMT)
Hello!
Well first off I'm 37 weeks pregnant. I'm currently 4cm dilated and almost completely thinned. For the past few days I've noticed my panties have been getting pretty wet, not crazy wet, but noticeable. It just happens anytime, mostly when I'm walking. It doesn't leave any stains in my panties at all after it dries. At first I thought it was a clear color .. but about an hour ago when I was taking a bath with my two year old, about 2 minutes after I pee'd I walked towards the tub to cut the water off, and something started running down my leg, just a little bit. I thought for sure it was just urine, but it was like a cloudy/clear very watery discharge. I know for sure it wasn't urine. Maybe just a normal discharge or possibly amniotic fluid? I have a doctors appointment tomorrow, and I'm going to ask him to do a strip test on me to be sure. But does this sound like I may be leaking fluid? If it is, I'm slowlllllllly leaking, if that is possible, because I've always'd been told, if you think your leaking, put on a pad, lay down for about 30minutes, then walk around about 30 minutes, and if you fill a pad up then your leaking, but it's no where near that amount.
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Open Question: Eh, newbie needs sex help!!!!! Help me!!!!!?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 01:35:31 GMT)
Okay, I'm a virgin and a sophomore in highschool! I have never even kissed a girl! But, There is this really hot senior at my school who likes me, and i like her allot! She is pretty experienced and she want's to have sex with me! I told her i am really unexpirienced and explained the virgin and never kissed thingy.... it only made her want me more! But the problum is she was pregnant and had a miscarriage like 2 weeks ago! She still has a baby inside her! what do i do? I like her a lot and i still want to have sex with her! But, what do i do? is it wrong? She told me she has had sex a few times! Should I worry about diseases? What precautions should i take????
Also, i will not have sex with her unless I have a condom, Is that safe from diseases?
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Open Question: i really need help with sitiuation and im paranoid?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 01:14:39 GMT)
was masturbating and I ***ed on my shirt that was on the ground right before I stepped in the shower. ,15-20 minutes later my mom walks In with her socks and Might've step on it. I think 20 minutes later she took off her sock and could've touched it. idk if she masturbated because about 20 minutes later the door was locked . Can she get pregnant even though her tubes are tied. I know it sounds silly but I keep stressing over it.i cant talk to anybody so you guys are my only hope. So please help me i really am getting stressed. ( this happened 2 weeks ago and i think my aunt told me she was on her period) and my sis told me she had a hemroid, i heard people get hemroids when there pregnant, so please help me :(
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Open Question: cramps, bloating... negative test, need advice asap?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 00:53:27 GMT)
I last had my period on 19th feb, due again 19th march as my cycle is regular.
my partner and I are trying to conceive.
For around 1-2 weeks I have been always tired, had nausea( not always vomitting) but feeling queasy and certain smells making me sick.
My breasts aren't extremely tender but are a little sore
I've been having awful headaches that last hours sometimes everyday
and increased back pain ( already have bad back)
I haven't found that I have a large amount of vaginal discharge, it seems about normal.
For approx 7-8 days I've had abdominal cramping, not really bad but it's on and off again, like small twinges or slight pulling.
I never usually have abdominal cramps before my period???
I don't want to get my hopes up or take a test to early only to be dissapointed.
What do you think are the chances of me being pregnant?
And what do you think of my symptoms?
Any stories or advice welcome
thanks :)
also I'm feeling extremely bloated!!!!
Ok so I took an early response test and it was negative
what are your thoughts
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Open Question: will i be able to get pregnant?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 00:52:15 GMT)
Ive suffered from bulimia and anoxeria for 9 years. Im currently in recovery. Im properly sick about 5 times a week (before i was sick 18x plus a week so have improved a lot) but im still getting help for my ED. Ive had a baby before. He is now 2 years old and is the world to me. I couldn't ever be with out him. When i found out i was pregnant with him i stopped my ED completely.
In December 09 i found out i was pregnant, and thou my ED improved i was still sick about 6 times but miscarried ( don't know if it was my ED or not but i blame myself a lot)
After the miscarriage i had a d&c and after i stopped bleeding me and my partner started trying again. I heard that after a miscarriage you can get pregnant quite quickly. But im yet to get pregnant again. Im quite scared as i really want another baby. I know that ive had my son but scared that my ED may have ruined any chance i have of conceving again. Has anyone else managed to get pregnant with bulimia? That sound silly i know but as i said im currently getting a lot of help for my ED. I just want another baby so badly. Its been a year that me and my partner have been trying. Im only 21. Everyone has said that because ive had my son (hes 2) that i shouldnt have a problem conceving again. If i find out im pregnant again. i will do anything not to miscarriage again and am no way going to be carring on with my builima i will give up completly.
I would really appreciateate any advice.
Thanks for listening.
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Open Question: Mums and preggos, curious... how much weight did you gain by 15 weeks pregnant?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 00:36:37 GMT)
Just want to hear other womens experiences. I am in my 2nd pregnancy and it is so different to my first.
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Open Question: Looking for experience stories from people who took Zofran during their pregnancies?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 00:23:03 GMT)
I am 7 weeks pregnant with #2 and was prescribed Zofran today. I am constantly nauseated and vomiting from morning 'til night (at least 5 times a day). I took my first Zofran pill today and I am SO pleased to say that it really took the edge off. I still feel nauseated, but not as bad, and I haven't thrown up. The doctor told me I can take two a day, so I was thinking one right when I wake up and one around 4pm or so, a bit before dinner (so I can keep that down). I am wondering... How well did Zofran work for you? I haven't really eaten anything too "risky" yet because I'm nervous to start puking again. And, how often did you take it and what times? And, for fun, how old are your precious little angels today and what are they up to?!
Thank you in advance!
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Open Question: What can I say to make things change for the better?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 00:15:06 GMT)
So me and this guy were seeing each other, friends with benefits kinda deal, that went on for about a year and a half off and on. Well I ended up getting pregnant after one of our little flings. So when I first found out I told him and his first response was "its not mine" and then "what are you going to do"...well long story shortened we had a big ol argument. He didn't talk to me again till I was about 9 weeks along. He invited me over to stay the night so we could "hang out and talk"...very little talking was done it was more sitting in the same room with that silence around us. Well after that night I didn't hear from him till I was about 13 week and again he invited me over to stay the night...I wanted to make things work so again I went. Then I didn't hear from him for 3 weeks and me being the head strong, I can do anything by myself kinda girl, I quit answering his calls because I wised up and saw what he was doing. Well he tried calling after those 3 weeks and I didn't answer, then it was 2 weeks, then it got to a point he called once a week for a month...I never answered. I was mad and honestly didn't have anything nice to say so I wasn't going to say anything at all. Well like all guys would do he finally stopped calling.
I am getting closer to my due date now and the hormones are going crazy, I am scared lonely and really don't want to do this alone. I just don't know what to do. If trying to talk to him is even a good idea and if so what do I say? How do I start a conversation with a person that, right this minute, I am so angry with? I want to do whats right for my baby but I don't want to put him through any thing that's just going to hurt him in the long run. Any suggestion would be greatly appreciated
So I am not "perfect" like blondie that answered first. Who didnt actually help me at all. I dont need sympathy, you want to do anything for me? dont be sad say a prayer for me, they help me more than you feeling sad for me!
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