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Open Question: women question...need help and answers fast...thanks!?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 07:50:08 GMT)
my boobs have been hurting me for like 2 and a half weeks now along with my back...and it usually only does this before i get my period but its happening after i got it like weeks ago...should i just wait it out and see if i get my period or should i just take a test to see if im pregnant?? help...
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Open Question: Ovulation signs 5 weeks PP. Anyone else so soon?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 07:11:02 GMT)
I am an exclusive pumper and have noticed an EWCM for about 2 days. Before I got pregnant I NEVER had ovulation signs and I had long cycles, sometimes 45-50 days. But I heard that after giving birth it can completely regulate/change your body.
Did anyone else have ovulation signs so soon, even while pumping/bfing? I know that you cannot depend on that for birth control but I am just wondering if it was most likely ovulation signs so soon or maybe just a little leftover discharge from delivery. (I stopped bleeding about 2 weeks ago)
Also, I know this isn't a newborn/etc question but figured you all were at the same stage as me - or have been.
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Open Question: IS this Normal!!!?? please help me, major points. am i bleeding and pregnant!?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 07:10:05 GMT)
ok, so ive heard, some women get their periods while pregnant, and im so confused, is it hereditary or does it happen when your irregular? is it normal? or very rare? so heres my problem
my previous period before this one was on 11/11, it last 5 days, at this point i was 1 week off the pill, i had been on it for 4 1/2 months. I had unprotected pull out sex for 60 minutes on 11/21, i dont know if there was precum, he was nervous and couldnt stay hard very long. he never went in me. on 11/26 i had unprotected sex again, for 1 minute or two again, literally a minute or two, he didnt go in me, i know for sure he never did both times. before the sexond time we had sex, he had previously had 3 orgasms, not by sex. well the first time we had sex i went home and took 2 birthcontrol pills 12 hrs later. the second time i immediately went home and took 4 pills. i know...stupid. well in dec. i got my period on 12/7 and the first two days it was light then it was normal/moderate. nice and red (tmi) not heavy. the first two days i had bad cramps. my question is...can i be pregnant...i got my period this month on the second and it ended today, it was very normal, bloody and clotty. today in the afternoon i took a first response brand ept. it came out negative after a minute and after 3 minutes i saw nooo faint line at all, it was a BFP at 4 minutes.is it possible im pregnant? im worried about the light/moderate bleeding since i just got off BC and took some later. but...im so scared i could be pregnant since you hear all these stories about pregnant women having normal painful bloody periods....and what about the sex....could i be pregnant, or just freaking out? and my mom says that bleeding while pregnant hasnt happened in her family from what she knows.
also like an idiot i trusted the same guy and we had sex again on december 26th. it was dark in his room and he said he was using a condom. well he lied and two hours later i took plan b. and then i got my period on time this month on the second and today is my last day. im so confused could my period be normal now since i took plan b? or did it just make it heavier. and wouldnt first response tell me im pregnant by now if i was....its been 5 weeks since i had unprotected sex. almost 6. wouldnt the ept show by now?
I asked my school instructor about it, since im going to school to be an M.A. my instructor said, bleeding while pregnant, isnt very common, and most women who do usually have a gynecological issue. I have no health issues. my uterus is normal. she also said i was pregnant. i would have killed whatever was alive, with the 2 BC, followed by the 4 BC 5 days later, followed by plan B a month later. i dont really believe her.
so can i be pregnant?
the first response ept was negative, and it has been almost six weeks since the sex. idk what to trust
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Open Question: 37 weeks pregnant and feeling sharp pains in my vagina and butt ?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 06:59:20 GMT)
ok so I am 37 wks and 2 days pregnant and since about 2 this afternoon I have been feeling sharp pains in my vagina and butt area it actually makes me jump. it is comming and going through out the day but extreamly uncomfortable. could this be the start of labor? does anyone know what this can be?
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Open Question: How long after missing birth control pills do you ovulate?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 06:50:25 GMT)
I missed 2 pills at the beginning of the second week and began bleeding pretty heavily at the end of the second missed day. The day after, I took 2 pills and then 2 pills the fourth day to get back on track. I bled for 2 days like a normal period then stopped. How long after missing two pills would an egg form and drop?
In other words, if my body thought I was on my period after the two missed pills, how long after the initial bleeding could I become pregnant?
It says on the instructions that if you miss 2 pills at any point you can become pregnant. But that's not what i'm asking. I'm asking if anyone knows how long it takes the body to produce an egg after missing pills. It's a long shot, but i might as well ask because someone may know.
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Open Question: Sudden ache in lower right groin area?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 06:30:49 GMT)
I am 34 weeks pregnant and while I was sitting down I got a sudden awful ache in my lower right groin area. Its kind of where I imagine my right ovary is. It was not sharp and was not ligament pain at all. It also didn't feel like a contraction or menstrual pain. Is this normal? It stopped for now, it came on 2 times about 15 seconds apart.
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Open Question: Is it possible to be pregnant and not show on a HPT 7 weeks later?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 06:29:12 GMT)
Unprotected Sex with OH – November 12th
Period - 3rd-7th December
Period due on - 31st December – 6days later and nothing and I'm regular every 29 days
Bloated tummy and mild cramping but nothing that noticable over last 2 days but not asif I was comming on.
White/Creamy dischard that feel like im coming on/on my period
2 negative pregnancy tests
Not stressed or haven't been stressed out about this, just curious.
Is it possible to be pregnant?
If I was I would be 6/7 weeks wouldnt this show on a HPT?
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Open Question: I'm pregnant WITH NO DAD?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 06:28:56 GMT)
I recently found out im 3 weeks pregnant. I feel bad thoough because my boyfriend and I broke up and he went back to his ex who've he dated for 2 years. Now she moved far far away to a different state but they still love each other and talk on phone. I told him im preganat and he really cares and wants to be a MAN and step up and care for the child and get involved. Do you think being pregnat would bring us close together? I feel very jealous and I still love him, i just want to be with him. But its his ex i want him to forget but maybe he will later after i become very pregnant. Any ideas how to make my future family work out? Do I need to take things slowly and spend time with him so he can forget about his ex? All I want is My child to have a mother and father who love each other.. Im sure his relationship with his ex wont work out. She interfered and RUINED ME AND MY CHILD'S LIFE. HOW TO TELL HIM IM MORE IMPOTANT TO HER DUE TO THE FACT I'M HAVING HIS BABY??????
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Open Question: Do other pregnant mommies feel this?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 06:09:03 GMT)
I am currently 30 weeks and 2 days pregnant with our 2nd child. He moves around a lot and I'm loving every second of it =) Anyway sometimes when he moves he gets in a certain position and as he's rolling around it feels like I can feel a little body part. Also sometimes it looks like one side of my tummy is higher than the other. I think it's weird but also cute. How bout you?
-Mommy to an 11 month old and 30w2d pregnant with #2-
Also have you started to wash baby clothes or get into the nesting phase yet? Have you packed your hospital bag yet? I didn't do all this until maybe 35 or 36 wks with my first.
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Open Question: I would just like to say?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 06:04:11 GMT)
I would just like to let everyone that "thinks" they're pregnant with all these symptoms and they haven't even missed a period are scaring me. I don't care who you are you don't have pregnancy symptoms till you're at least 2 or 3 weeks pregnant. If they were saying oh im so sick in the morning or something that would be different but my nipples are sore and stomach hurts come on get a clue!!!!
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Open Question: Can you get pregnant by doing anal?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 06:03:14 GMT)
its been 6 guys in the past 2 weeks, and does the sperm combine and make a super human?
no theyre not. i know im 18, and mightve went to a girls private school..but i know my stuboys tell me i get orgasms by mouth? they wouldnt lie to me
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Open Question: brown bleeding I had an abortion 2 weeks ago and bleed untill the next day. ?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 05:57:05 GMT)
i had un safe sex 2days after my abortion and for half a day i have been bleeding brown blood and now it has stoped.can any one tell me what could be wrong,and is there a chance that i can be pregnant again.
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Open Question: PLEASE READ!!...........?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 05:56:43 GMT)
okay me and my bf have been trying to have a baby for 2 years i was only getting my period 4 times a year so that was happening i went to the doctor. last week i got something called an HSG its where they shoot "dye" in to my folopion tubes to see if there blocked thats why the egg was not getting fertilized..but the xray tech said they were open and fiine but my uterus on the other hand is slanted he said i shouldnt have a problem getting pregnant. my boss at work told me his wife had the same problem and thats why there not able to get pregnant im going back to the doctor the 22nd to find out forsure..if i cant get pregnant me and my boyfriend are done he wants kids i just wanted to know if anyone went threw this sorry for wastin your time
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Open Question: its been months my sleeping habit is really bad i almost forgot how to sleep and when to sleep plz help....?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 05:53:24 GMT)
hi all
i m 32 weeks rite now and have v bad sleep even i dont sleep at all may be just 2 03 hours at night what d i do?it seems to me i forgot how to sleep and when to sleep i m afraid of taking any medicine as i m pregnant + other fears like i have in my mind that medicine makes me so anxious specially drowsy medicines its been a whole year i could not sleep properly b4 i got pregnant i use to make myself tired and then i fall a sleep since i got pregnant its became hardest for me to concentrate on my sleep plz anyone?can u give me any advice.i,ll appriciate ur answers.
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Open Question: Okay! I know it's the same old question, but please answer!!!!?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 05:50:32 GMT)
I know it's the old question "Do you think I'm pregnant"! Which isn't exactly what I'm going to ask, but it's close! I miscarried my second baby November 11th, 2008 and had to have a D&C that day. I'm supposed to start my second period (from the time of the D&C) and today I checked my CM and it was real thick like lotion (white) my cervix was high and really closed tight! I know I ovulated sometime between Dec 26-Dec 29. My belly has been kind of crampy on both sides for probably close to a week, I've been gassy (sorry), my boobs feels like they're five times bigger than usual and really sore (with sharp shooting pains), and I have to pee more often than usual. I think my period is supposed to start Jan 12, has anyone else done this before a period? I have been pretty tired too (although I have a 2 year old)=) Anyway, I just wondered if anyone else had these symptoms and I really want to be pregnant again, but I sure don't want to go through what I went through last time. What's more I just feel like I'm pregnant! GO FIGURE! Can anyone help??
I haven't done an hpt because I didn't figure it would show up until I missed my period. And I haven't had any light spotting (I did with my 2 Yr old).
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Open Question: Is a swollen vagina, discharge, sore boobs, and sickness a sign of pregnancy?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 05:41:54 GMT)
If I was pregnant, I would be almost 2-3 weeks pregnant. I missed my period yesterday. My va jay jay is swollen a little but no itching. I've been getting sick a lot this week and smoking a cig makes me sick now. I'm taking a test tomorrow morning. I'm hoping that its positive. Is there a high or low chance that I'm pregnant?
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Open Question: If You've Ever Had An Ectopic Pregnancy Or Early Miscarriage I Need Some Advice?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 05:32:44 GMT)
My younger sister went through 3 miscarriages at 5 months and I was there for everyone of them from the time they started til the moment the baby came out.
I know from her that the pain is so unbearable you can't walk, talk, and even crying out makes it worse. I know that bleeding isn't always immediate, but it starts when the baby is about to exit.
Right now I've had 2 positives and 4 negatives. The positives came before the negatives. I'm having period like pains without any blood or spotting. My period is 10 days late and I would only be 5 weeks along with #1 if I'm even pregnant. What should I do? I have no insurance and the soonest I can see a doctor is next tuesday. Thanks.
Today my sister has a healthy 3 month old daughter so her story does have a happy ending.
All those miscarriages just break a mother's heart.
Anyone who's had one has my condolensces. Thanks to all the answerers!
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Open Question: How do I tell my parents I'm pregnant and about to get married?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 05:32:08 GMT)
I'm 18 years old and I just found out that i am 5 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend and I have been together for the last 9 months in a long distance relationship. He is 19 years old, and is in the Army and is stationed in Georgia while I live with my parents in California. My boyfriend and I have been talking and we have decided to keep the baby. He has already told his family, who are a lot more accepting than my family, but I am scared to death to tell my family. My family does not like my boyfriend and my parents know that I have big plans to finish college and become an elementary teacher, but having a baby will slow my goal down and I am most afraid that my parents will be disappointed and may think I am throwing my life away. My parents had my older sister at 19 years old and got married 2 years later, my older sister is a single mother, and my older brother has 4 kids but is not married. I'm also afraid that my parents think that I will not be able to finish college and move back home like my brother and sister both did.
I do not want an abortion either. My boyfriend and I are engaged and we would like to get married before the baby is born, and I'm also afraid they might be disappointed that I'm getting married. How can I break all of this sudden news to my parents?
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Open Question: Pain below my pubic bone ..what could it be?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 05:28:08 GMT)
I've been getting pain below my pubic bone lately, more like sharp spasms the area seems to be the spot in between the anus and vagina.
I've googled "pain below my pubic bone" and all it seems to pop up with is pregnancy pain.
What I've read The pregnancy pain comes from the baby's weight on the pelvic bone and bone softening to accompany the size of the baby.
But the pain comes when your at least 2 months along.
But I'm nowhere near pregnant.I even took a pregnancy test last week and it turned up negative and I'm due for my period in a couple days.
The pain comes when I'm sitting and standing so it's not the position.
And it's not my tail bone.
So I was wondering if anybody had any answers...
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Open Question: gf is having pains? could she be pregnant?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 05:14:51 GMT)
like a week and half ago me and my gf had unprotected sex for like 2 seconds lol i know stupid...but i was in for 2 seconds i pulled out (scarred) and i spermed outside of her, but i know precum can get someone pregnant... i think i might have gotten than in, but she is saying she has pains in her belly below her belly botton, she starts her period monday, but she says they dont feel like perid cramps.. so could those be a baby forming? i have no idea, and we did it like 2 weeks ago almost. what could the pains be
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Open Question: PMS pains 3 1/2 weeks before period...?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 05:00:56 GMT)
Well, my husband and I had unprotected sex two days after my period because it was a 'safe' day...my period isn't for another 3 1/2 weeks but I'm having PMS pains, bloating, breast tenderness, etc. I've now found that some women have gotten pregnant the day after their period, could that be happening to me? Could I realistically be feeling those signs this early? Advice please!!!
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Open Question: TMI: Serious Nipple question... :(( {{long}}?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:54:12 GMT)
ok.. well for the past 2 weeks I have had large nipples...
At first.. I noticed that my nipples were swollen and wouldn't go flat like they normally do... They are pretty much erect all the time... especially in the morning... they also have gotten wider and when they are hard, forget about it! MY nipples have never done anything like this before!! Now in the past couple of days I noticed that the areola has gotten bigger and there are these little bumps that are popping out... :(
The first couple of days they were really sensitive but now they are only sensitive at times.. and when you touch them they automatically pop out!
I thought that once I got my period they would go back to normal but they still haven't.. I got my period on Friday and Saturday... even though It only lasted about two days and was very light... I did pass a clot.. so I know I'm not pregnant... initially I thought that I might be pregnant because My period was late and I had light pink spotting the week before.. but the test came back negative.. plus the period and clot pretty much confirms that!!
Will my nipples ever go back to normal...? What could cause this?!
I seriously doubt pregnancy... I had a blood clot come out with my period... I'm just trying to see if there is any other reason why they would be doing this... It's just odd... ??
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Open Question: is my Pregnant fiance ok??? Please help. ?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:43:55 GMT)
we are in our 19th week and she has only gained 2 pounds. She is barely showing....She had a lot of morning sickness during the 1st trimester. The doctor said that she was fine, and I trust the doctors and everything, but I have talked with other people who have had babies and thought it do be quite odd that she has only gained 2 pounds. What is a normal weight gain??? What is too little and what is too much. Am I overacting about all this?? Thanks
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Open Question: diarrhea in late pregnancy?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:40:03 GMT)
I'm 35 weeks pregnant and every week i get one of those like what to expect things sent to my e-mail and it said that goin the bathroom would be harder and constipation was veryy common well the opposite seems to be happening to me. I have been having really bad diarrhea i feel like the last 2-3 days i have gone to the bathroom more than i have this whole pregnancy. I'm just curious if this happened to anyone else?? did you get really bad diarrhea late in pregnancy and are there any ways i can make it stop and/or not be as bad. Thanks in advance for the whoever answers
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Open Question: Not sure what's wrong...? Women help me! (or a doctor)?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:33:50 GMT)
Okay...I missed by period...I'm like 2 weeks late now. I already took a pregnancy test, and I'm NOT pregnant. I haven't had any pregnancy signs, no sickness, tiredness, nothing. I am having cramps worse than ever though at the time being. I don't usually get cramps or cramps this bad before or during my period. One of my friends said it could be a miscarriage and my period will hurt really bad once it comes. I'm preeetttty scared about that! But i don't get how it could be a miscarriage if it said i wasn't pregnant on the test.
What are other reasons why women miss their periods?
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Open Question: My sister went into labor 6 weeks early baby in distress emergency C section, anyone have experience?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:33:05 GMT)
Okay, so my sister is pregnant with a baby boy, and she was not due until the end of Febuary but her water broke this morning so they started to induce labor, but she wasnt progressing her water broke at 6 am this monring and now at 1130 pm she is still only 2 cm dialated, and the babies heart rate and hers just started to drop, they said the baby was in distress, when previously they told us she would be able to deliver vaginally and it wouldne be until late tomorrow. I am extremely worried, is she going to be okay and will the baby be okay. Is there anyone that had experience with this, or any doctors or nurses that know anything about it. Thank you I would appreciate it soooo much I am scared to death.
Thank you all so much, I had just gotten home from the hospital to get some sleep, because I have a 17 month old and I got the phone call the second I got in the door, so I am very scared, but you all are making me feel so much better. Thank you for the pictures she is adorable. And its nice to know she was only there 3 weeks. Thank you all, I am just sitting here waiting for the call that shes okay and im praying.
Nwengine, thank you for sharing your experience, Like I said i had just left the hospital to tend to my baby, but my mother and my siteres husband and my other sister are there at her bedside we were taking shifts, and her doctors actually seem to care. I do appreciate what you shared though and I am so sorry to hear about your baby, its sad that there are some doctors out there who really dont care.
Thank you all for your help, my sister just had a beautiful baby boy, and he was 5 pounds. She is still a little out of it, but they say shes doing good. They are not letting anyone see the baby yet, but my sisters husband said he looks good and hes doing great, so again thank you all. Im so excited!!!
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Open Question: I had been waiting for my period for 3-almost 4 weeks then it came, but it was light and spotty...?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:10:25 GMT)
after 3weeks or so of on\off light bleeding, one day just all of a sudden i had massive, heavy bleeding (large blood clots, cramping,) it almost was like a down pour. I don't know if i was pregnant and miscarried or if its just a abnormal period that i shouldn't worry about. But 2 days before the heavy bleeding i was nauseous all day with a bad headache. Please help stop my worries if you can. Thanks for that help. Any answer of ever a story of what happened to you would be helpful. Thanks, concerned woman.
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Open Question: Mild cramping and bleeding @ 4 1/2 weeks pregnant?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:10:17 GMT)
I am 4 1/2 weeks pregnant, I took 3 hpt's which were all positive. I have been mildly cramping for a few days and have asked around and everyone has said that is normal, well today I started bleeding, it started out a little brownish and is now a dark pink. It is heavier than spotting but not as heavy as a normal period...
My cycles are usually 23-25 days long, My LMP was 12/06/08 and I ovulated sometime through the week of the 15th, I had sex on the 13th and the 15th so I had to have got pregnant on one of them days..
Why am I bleeding? I am waiting on my blood work to come back but I am wreck worrying about this...
Thanks everyone for your answers... I did go to the Dr. 2day they did some blood work I have to go back in 2 more days to see if my HCG levels went up at all..
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Open Question: Do I believe it and ask her, or just wait and worry for the next few months?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:04:00 GMT)
I don't go to school with my girlfriend so I don't see her that often. Just when we have dates or something. And it's been a while since we have gone out, because of the holiday's and then just getting back to school. But I talk to her every night.
But my friend told me that he heard that she's pregnant. he said she's telling almost everyone at her school, and he heard because his cousin goes there. And told him because he knew I was dating her.
So now I am questioning a lot.
I'm not sure what signs of pregnancy are or not,
and I don't want to buy into something that was heard and it not be true.
And I question her and she get mad because I think she's pregnant or something.
Now that I'm thinking about it.
1.She's always eating a lot more than she use to.
2.She's tired when she's with me, all the time.
3.She told me she didn't feel good about two months ago for about a week or so. And than after she just stopped.
I wasn't looking for any signs of that or anything.
But now I'm remembering all of this and getting scared.
Does she sound pregnant?
How do I talk to her about it, if she is?
Since she hasn't told me anything yet, but supposedly told her entire school.
I am a little confused by that also.
I don't know why she didn't tell me.
And we've been together for 2 years.
And if she is I will stay with her,
I'm just wondering if she sounds like she is.
or am I just thinking it because of what I heard.
And what am I supposed to do now?
Do I ask her about it?
I'm 17 and she's 16.
I already have a job, so if she is I can support it a little.
But I don't even know what to do right now.
Sorry if I just kept repeating myself.
I am so nervous and just typing really fast.
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Open Question: Having sex and getting pregnant!!! Please i am so worried?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:01:48 GMT)
Ok so my boyfriend and i had sex about 2 and a half weeks ago and we used a condom and actually since it was our first time and it was painful i made him stop after just a few min. so he wasent in long and he didn't ejaculate. But I am a week late on my period and i am soooooo scared. i am 17 and he is 19 but we are not ready to have a kid.
My stomach feels like i am going to start but so far nothing.
does this mean that i am pregnant!
please no lectures just advice!!
thanks raegan
and if i am ok then why am i late!
OMG i am so NEVER having sex again i want so much out of life and now i screwed that up! I ams so scared
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Open Question: period like cramping, 13 weeks pregnant?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:01:23 GMT)
I'm 13 weeks pregnant and i'm having period like pains (cramping) theres no pain in my lower back, just in my lower abdomen, they come and go and they slowly intensify (just like contractions) this is my 3rd pregnancy. My first was carried to full term and my 2nd was a miscarriage at 4 weeks (in August 2008).
I haven't had any cramping until now.
I'm curious to know if uterine stretching pain is similar to period pain?
Also, my fundal height is measuring at 17 weeks. I had an ultrasound at 5 weeks to confirm dates etc but i have another ultrasound (for down symdrome and neural tube defects) in 2 days time and they are also going to check my dates again because my uterus is so large for 13 weeks.
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Open Question: is it possible to get pregnant on birth control and still get your period?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 03:57:26 GMT)
ive had my period for the past two mths and i am on birth control however my period left last week now i am spotting pinkish and brownish stains so it def is not my period. before this week the last time me and my partner were together before this was about a mth and half ago we never use protection but i am on the pill and i never take them at the same time. is it possible to be pregnant while still taking your pills and having 2 regular periods? help im scared
oh i forgot to mention i have never spotted like this before and its getting worse its been almost a week
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Open Question: How can you tell that your hubby is remorseful for cheating?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 03:55:16 GMT)
I have been with my fiance for 3 years now. He cheated on me 2 years ago. I was wondering, how do you tell if he is remorseful? When he did tell me what happend, it was just a few hours after the incident.
I still have difficulty trusting him, we argue I guess you could say once a week. He tells me he loves me, he will still hug and kiss me after we argue, even though I am not in the mood to be touched. (he says to remind us that even though we disagreed, we still love each other). No matter how much I tell him that I am done with this relationship and that I don't want to be with him anymore, he still is there. We aren't rich, but he will take me shopping for clothes. (He will either come in with me, or sit in the car for however long I am there, and he never gets upset, if he does get annoyed for me taking too long in the store, he always apologizes.) He never complains about me and he tells me once and a while that I look beautiful and look nice if I took the time to get ready.
I guess typing this out has made me realize that he does do a lot for me. (there is a lot more that I didn't list.) But I still can't trust him, I am scared it is going to happen again. It's tearing me up inside... I haven't been able to forgive him. How do I move on? I am now pregnant with our second child, our baby is due in March. (We are both very happy for. :-)) Some days I feel like I should just be on my own with the kids and not worry about a relationship right now, other days I am so happy to have him in my life as my other half, and as my children's father.
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Open Question: what is going on? Am or Pregnant? Is it too early for the ultrasound to pick up?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 03:48:41 GMT)
Okay, here's the deal. I have taken 5 home pregnancy test....the ones that test up to 5 days before your missed period...and they all came back positive. The reason why I am baffled is because last week I had a 5 day period and started spotting 2 days after I got off of my regular period....that's why I took the test. I called the doctor and he told me to go to the ER and get an ultra sound....they took a urine sample and it came back negative and done a ultrasound and they saw no baby....I looked like a complete idiot I guess....I was upset, so I came home and took another test as soon as I got here and It came out positive!!! What the heck could be going on? I calculated it up and if I am pregnant I am probley about 3 weeks, maybe 3 and 1/2 at the most. Does anyone have any answers as to why this is happening? Im getting positive results with the early pregnancy test kits at the house but negative results at the hospital and also they didn't see a baby while doing the ultrasound. I am so confused!
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Open Question: Is it normal to get acne when pregnant?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 03:45:55 GMT)
Im 7 weeks pregnant and the past 2 days i got some acne on my back and my face, i have always had my skin very clear and i have never had cold blisters until today. I woke up with hurtful and itchy blister on my lip! Is this normal for pregnant women or is something wrong with me?
Thanx guys for sharing your answers, it helps me to know that its nothing else and also, i was wondering if its ok to use any oitment/ creme on my lip for the cold sore?
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Open Question: can i possibly be pregnant even with tubal ligation?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 03:38:38 GMT)
my period is one week late and i feel like throwing/nausea lately..i have had sex with my husband.
i had a tubal ligation surgery last 2 years ago, it ties the tubes so i don't get pregnant.. i have had an abortion due to my sickness to the baby and i don't want to kill another one.
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Open Question: Guinea Pig emergency! need help now!!!!!?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 03:25:54 GMT)
okay
I have already asked most of this question so some of you may recognize it but there is something I just noticed...
I am getting worried about my guinea pig. Some of you may have read my earlier question about this but now its a little different. For about a week my guinea pig wasn't moving much and wasn't really eating. I changed her cage even though it wasn't really that dirty and looked up guinea pig nutrition. I made changes to her diet today and it doesn't seem to be helping much. I gave her strawberries and carrots and kale. but I noticed something else also,,, first let me say that my dad will not take her to a vet right now. but I notice the past few days she has gotten kinda a plug like thing in her butt. I have been kinda whipping it out but could this be a reason for how she is acting? and could she have a disease or infection?
oh and here is what I noticed,,,
I just recently tried to check the sex to make sure it was a girl and when I had it flipped over she kinda made those noises (not squeaks but if you have a guinea pig then you know the regular noises)
and when I even gently pressed her lower stomach she started sqeaking and making regular noises but I kept slightly pushing...not a lot but just enough to tell her sex...
I am fairly confident that it is a girl however...when I posted everything but the sex check thing people said she was pregnant but she is my only one and I have had her for ALMOST 2 months now...if she was pregnant wouldn't she have shown signs of it before this?
and wouldn't she have had labor already?
any help on this is appreciated.
and I don't have a vet so can I just call any vet in my city and get them to recomend one or is there a place I can specificlly call?
I live in Metairie Louisiana...
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Open Question: PREGNANT?! chances?! help please!?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 03:16:10 GMT)
My boyfriend and I had sex a few times last week and i just switched my pills about a week before that so i know those probably werent protecting me well. Also its the mini pill so it says you will have break through bleeding the first couple of months. Anyways, he used a condom and also pulled out with a condom. abotu 2 days after this I got what seemed to be my peroid and i have had it and still have it for about 4 days now which feels like a period maybe a very very less heavy but i think thats from chaning b/c pills (since the 31) i get worried about things and was like lets just make sure the condoms had no holes.. well seems like only one and the tinyest whole in it. What are my chances of acutally being pregnant even though i had what seemed to be my period. Please no rude answeers i am old enough to know and to be having sex. Thanks everyone! Also lately as gross as this is i have been sorta gassy and going number 2 alot. Probably from all the nerves but just figured i would add it in THANKS!
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Open Question: Loss of Appetite? Normal?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 03:08:55 GMT)
I believe I had a period, abnormal at best. First 1.5 days was painful & strange colored menses. It was watery, heavy and a light brownish-red(sorry TMI). It's been slightly crampy for the last 3 days with little to no discharge, except when pushed out.
For some reason today, I have ate very little. Morning Latte and evening Hot Chocolate went down ok. But I've had very little to eat. I just don't feel like eating. I've forced myself to eat some homemade Guacamole (which I normally eat & love). But I felt sick both times that I had some. And both times probably only had about 2 tbsp of it. My stomach seems to be doing little flips now & then too.
So a few things come to mind... Pregnant? Getting a Cold/Virus? Thyroid (which isn't a problem yet, checked regularly by doctor)? or just something all in my head?
I'm confused about it. I usually have a healthy appetite, actually I'm a Weight Watcher, so healthy is an understatement. And yes, my bf & I have regular sex, and which a few times around ovulation, and then some... Not exactly TTC, but if it happens, we'd be happy.
I also don't want to waste money on an hpt since I think I had my period, also waiting out the Doc appt. Nothing is available until I'm away (2 week vacation at end of January), so I'd have to wait until Feb anyways.
Any opinions?
Unfortunately, the dollar stores don't sell hpt's in my area. Wish they did. I don't know how many I've bought in my lifetime!
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Open Question: what do i do as far as rent a center can they take me to court ?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 03:02:41 GMT)
i have three item rented from rent a center i missed 2 payments but tryed to make it up the following week they told me they dont want my money just the items i couldnt make arrangements that day i had 2 go to work i been getting harrassed at work and at home they are harrassing my pregnant wife stressing her out and now the mgr. of the store is threating me telling me he's gonna beat the shit outta me and choke me so now i fear for my life just today he came to my house and put sorry i missed you cards all over my yard, cars and doors which was childish also told all my bussiness to my landlord which invades my privacy.
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Open Question: Could I be pregnant or am i just having an unnormal period?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 03:02:26 GMT)
I got my period last month on the 3rd..about 2 weeks later I had unprotected sex twice...the 3rd of this month i didnt get my period...but my boobs hurt for 2 days then today (the 6th) I had sex and I got cramps afterwards and about an hour i had light bleeding...normally my period isnt light so could that bleeding mean im pregnant or am i just having a light period that is a few days late????????
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Open Question: Odd spot on my left ovary???????
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 02:56:21 GMT)
I just had miscarriage last week at 7 1/2 weeks pregnant. The DR kinda knew that I would probably miscarry because my gest. sac was measuring two weeks behind and I recently miscarried in Sept. also at 4 weeks. Both miscarriages were natural no D&C was needed.
My question is when the DR was doing one ultrasound checking the progress of the miscarriage last Tuesday she said that I had a "odd" spot on my left ovary. I went back Friday to make sure the miscarriage was complete and when I asked the DR that was doing this ultrasound what it could be she looked but could only bearly find my left ovary?? I was so confused and she said that it was probably just a cyst or something. I was at a new DR because My husband and I were staying with his mom. For about the past two years I have had problems with my left side hurting mostly around the time of my period so since we are back home I called my normal DR and had the records faxed to him, he is reviewing them and is going to give me a call when he gets done. In the mean time this is driving me crazy because I have carried three healthy baby's pretty much to term (36 weeks was the earliest) now I have had two miscarriages in 4 months.
Could this spot on my left ovary effect that?? and what could it be??
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Open Question: sort of long but i was just curious.....?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 02:50:12 GMT)
So, i was thinking lately that i quit taking my birth control pill in september and ever since then my periods have been screwed up, my times have been all off because i have recently been in and out of the hospital with a collapsed lung and so on and so forth. So i figure that that is why my period has been screwed up for the past 3 months. I didn't even get my period in December. So i figure since my pregnancy tests were neg ( blood tests) that i was alright and I would get my period soon. I stil haven't gotten it. I do not know now when I am supposed to get it because they are all screwed up. SO my question to you is , since my periods are all messed up, do you think i am still ovulating? and do you think it would be harder for me to get pregnant? the reason i am wondering is because my boyfriend came home from basic for 2 weeks for christmas, and decided he is no longer going to use any sort of protection ( which is fine with me. i want to start a family) but i do not know if it would be harder for me to get pregnant without my period coming regularly? and we have been having unprotected sex since December18th until January2nd. and he came in me a lot throughout that time. so when do you think i should test and do you think i could get pregnant with my period being so irregular and trying to regulate itself?
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Open Question: help. pregnant?? advice!?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 02:37:42 GMT)
i took a pregnancy test today and it came back positive.
i haven't had sex in 2 weeks
and im still late on my period going on 3 days.
should i call the doctor?
or take another test?
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Open Question: menstral cramps but NO blood!!!?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 02:34:07 GMT)
My periods have always been irregular, but everytime my periods coming I get cramps exactly 2 weeks before so I know when to expect it. I got those cramps 2 weeks ago so this weeks I should be on my period. I have all the symptons that my period usually brings minus the blood. Theres no possible way I could be pregnant so..?
someone help please :]
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Open Question: Could he possibly be the father,even if tests claim he can't have kids? could tests sometimes be wrong?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 02:26:14 GMT)
Ok this is my dilemma-My boyfriend has said that he doesn't think he can have kids-bc he wasn't able to have any in his first marriage or his last 7 year relationship,the women never got pregnant,he said he was tested in his first marriage and claims that he cannot have kids-but yet when we would have sex,he would say "Let's make a baby" and "I don't think I can get you pregnant",well,our first time of ever having sex was in Aug sometime,and I think I am pregnant bc I have the tiredness,nausea,frequent peeing,but have not missed my period,but in dec it was only 2 days,when it's always 5,but my stomach was getting big the past few months,with a change in my belly button(looks like a pregnant one)and last week I started to feel the "fluttering" feeling of baby moving..this is my 2nd pregnancy so i know what a moving baby feels like...I will find out for sure if i am pregnant on Wed,Jan 7th,and if i am then it would be my boyfriends bc he is the only person I have been intimate with-Is it possible the tests he took were wrong,or he may just think that he really can't have kids, bc he couldn't get his 2 relationships prego? someone plz help!!! i truly believe i am prego but he says it can't be his bc his "STUFF AIN"T NO GOOD'.. NEED ALOT OF ANSWERS PLEASE!
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Open Question: What do you think about ?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 02:16:23 GMT)
I am 18 weeks 2 days pregnant. The baby's heart beat has been 150-160. My LMP was Sep. 1 2008. What do you think I am having.. Just for fun.. A boy or a girl.
That's another thing, this pregnancy has been totally different! this baby is moving around a lot and I can feel the baby clear as day.
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Open Question: how do i get over something that hurt me so bad?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 02:04:30 GMT)
New Years eve 2008 i was rape by someone i thought was my best friend. i was at a house party at my friend cousin party.i was drunk everyone was drunk ( well at less not everyone but most were) i was so drunk that i couldn't walk straight i kept falling out. it was crazy and most of it couldn't remember. i told my friend that i needed to lay down and sleep it off. so he took me to his cousin room to lay down. my other friend which is a boy his name is jay ,came in there to talk on the phone, while my other friend Micheal took my shoes off and then tried to take my pants off . i kept on pulling them back up and he pull them back down then all of the sudden i just blacked out. i kept on telling him to stop but he didn't and my so called friend jay didn't do anything . i remember hearing him saying dont be long and walked out the room. like 10 min i woke up i was still drunk , i woke up with my pants halfway off and i was bleeding and i wasnt suppose to get my period until that following week .the boy micheal and jay was no where to be found, i was crying and i told my sister that i got rape and so took me outside to talk to me while she was going to call my brothers and everyone she knew to find them and jump him untill i stop her and told her not to tell because i was afraid . but she told anyway i didnt say anything. my mom and my big brothers was the madess of all they wanted to kill him. they went to the police ,they didnt do anything. i had to take tests and pills and things like that. they look him up and he was wanted for rape 2 other girls too. for like a whole month i didnt say anything to any one i stop talking to my friends and everything. and the worst thing about it i was a virgin. now when people touch me i dont feel real comfortable. i have a boyfriend and sometimes i get mad about how he touches me , he noes what happen he'll just say hes sorry or whatever. im 18 now then i was 17. i dont noe what happen to the boy micheal last i heard that someone beat him up so bad that he was in the hospital because he was in the wrong neighborhood. my family didnt beat him up they never did find him, it would of been worst if they did. i dont think theres a way to get over it. im just really mad that he was the one to take my virginity away but my mom said im still a virgin untill i let the one i love take it away. now i DO NOT TRUST ANYONE and i DONT DRINK ANYMORE. i just thank God that i didnt get pregnant and didnt have any kind of diseases or anything
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Open Question: I think I am pregnant, and Idk what to do can someone help me?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:49:33 GMT)
Ok I haven't had sex for a week and a half, but I think I am pregnant with the guy I did it with. I haven't felt good for 2 days some how I feel like I am going to puke, i've been tired alot. What should I do I have no clue what to do? I cant tell my mom at all, but I want to keep the baby, but the daddy wants to have a abortion I am really against that. Then he says, he wants to give it up for adoption, but I don't want to.
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Open Question: father of 2 week old not helping much..?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:46:49 GMT)
before my baby was born my fiancee was always on the computer or playing the playstation. we are 18 by the way. i was 9 months pregnant and still cleaning and getting him what he needed. i told him that when the baby was born i needed him to help me more and not be on the computer or playstation. he said ok. well he goes to school 8am-11am. im out of school. he still stays up till 2 or 3 am on computer. while im sleeping and baby wakes up, i still have to feed her. then when he gets home he will go to sleep till 4:30pm before he goes to work. so i get stuck feeding, burping and bathing and playing with baby all night and day. i get no sleep...and my mom will only babysit for 2-3 hours. thats not enough sleep for me. and advice?
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