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Open Question: mild right renal pyelectasis in female babies?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:42:45 GMT)
I am 20 weeks pregnant and my ultrasound shows that my little one has mild right renal pyelectasis.
From what i've been told this occurs a lot more in male babies than female but I have not seen any percentages showing how common in males it is compared to female.
Has anyone seen anything on this?
Wanting to know if anyone has had this with their child, what gender their child is and if they've seen studies showing percentages on how common it is in each gender.
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Open Question: BABY NAME GAME!!! 20 characters?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:16:12 GMT)
1. Your 17 and you have a baby with your boyfriend. Your baby comes in april, it's a beutiful baby boy. With brown hair, fair skin, and hazel eyes. You wanted his name to have something to do with your boyfriend <James Christopher> but not exactly.
2. You continue to the same college in Boston as your boyfriend. Post graduating you get married and shortly after realize your pregnant. On a buisness trip in paris, your children are born. 2 twin girl and boy, one with honey blonde hair, medium skin and indigo eyes, the other identical.
3. Your husband graduates med school and gets a job as a doctor, you now have a house <your kids are 11, 5, and 5) You decide to have another child, you get fertillity and have quadruplets. You want them all to have the same initials. 3 boys and 1 girl. The first 2 boys have blonde hair and blue eyes, the second has curly brown hair and brown eyes. The girl has black hair and topaz eyes.
4. Your husband gets promoted, so you quit work to stay home with your growing family. then your 14 year-old daughter comes to you with news that she's PREGNANT. Coincidentlly, your pregnant at the same time. After, talking it through with your daughter, the baby daddy, and his parents, you decide, that you will keep the baby because both families are doctors and financially able, under the impression that the two will raise the kids together. <btw, your daughters boyfriend is your neighbor>. Your daughter has a boy with blonde hair and blue eyes. You have a girl with beautiful purple eyes, fair skin, and jet black hair. Names?
5. Your children are now 16, 10, 10 and 2. Your grandson dies, with extreme sadness your daughter says she wants to marry the baby daddy, you agree, if the wedding is when they are both 17 or 18 and they promise to both go to college. Overjoyed with that information, your daughter gets pregnant again but with a girl. The two get married and you and your husband adopt twin girls from Australia. Your daughter wants the name of her son to have the same initials as her first. Your twins mother wanted the babies to be named after your family.
6. Now your children are 21<the 21 year old is happily married and just graduated from and going to lawschool>, 15, 15, 4, 2 and 2. Your son tells you he is going to be a father <15 year old son> upset <like the 1st 2 times> and the girl was kicked out, you feel obligated to let her in to the house. After meeting her more thoroughly she feels more like family. The baby is born when they are 16, you keep it. After they live together for 2 years they get married. They both go to a 4 year college near by and live in the house.
7. now that your children are 30, 24, 24, 13, 11, and 11, your youngest dies of cancer. and your oldest has a child and names it a similar name. The baby is born on the day of your child's funeral, so it was an uneasy day. Your 24 year-olds are both married with children.
8. After stressing to your daughter not to have sex, at the age of 19, while in an ivy-league college she gets pregnant, the baby is born 7 weeks premature and okay. It was a girl on march 3, at 6:17 AM. She wanted a hawaiian name. You and your husband retired very rich, shortly after which he died, so you move near your daughter and her new-arrival. She did not get married to the baby daddy <or possible baby daddies> she finished her degee and got a good paying jobs, and later writes a book called "the house of youth" a fictinal book based on her and her siblings teen parenting experiences, the book was a huge hit, and turned in to a TV show.
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Open Question: i am 16 and think i am pregnant..do you?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 00:45:38 GMT)
my boyfriend and i have had sex 25 times...24 1/2 times unprotected...the 1/2 is we started with a condom but decided it didnt feel as good with one..and about 1 week after our 1st time i started having a major pain in my ovarie area and now i am discharging a yellowish whiteish fluid and i know that it is not a yeat infection..am i pregnant??or is it just pre period...my period is due around the 20-24...
and i feel weird all the sudden not hungry kinda sorta nausiated and the fluid is really warm..and i can feel it come out..
yes he has pulled out and it has been a good 3 weeks since our first time..25 times in 2 weeks and 2 days..
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Open Question: i been having the pregnancy symptoms i missed my period for a week now i got my period and is really light?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 00:36:10 GMT)
i had sex with my bf on November29 and i got my period on the 5th of December we had sex on Dec.13,20,23 and it was unprotected now i been having early pregnancy symptoms i been vomiting,dizzy,craving food more than ever and my stomach got blooded a bit from my lower stomach and i missed my period for a week now but i got my period is lighter then ever i regularly get it really heavy can you help me do you think i'm pregnant i'm scared cause i'm 16 and i'm scared 2 tell my parents wat should i do can u respond ASAP!!!!! TANK U
i just want 2 let u guys knw dat u guys been a really big help i talk about it with my mom she said she would help me and my bf ot and she is a big person now if I'm i dnt want 2 lose it cuss my mom was not able 2 have baby's when she was young but she got some treatment so I'm scared i want a baby i wanted 2 wait but i never want 2 lose it if i'm so tank u guys so much i really appreciate it i hope i dnt lose it if i'm well keep leaving your answers i really tank u guys
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Open Question: could i be pregnant?? ?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:56:18 GMT)
my boyfriend and i have had sex 25 times...24 1/2 times unprotected...and about 1 week after our 1st time i started having a major pain in my ovarie area and now i aam discharging a yellowish whiteish fluid and i know that it is not a yeat infection..am i or is it just pre period...my period is due around the 20-24...
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Open Question: Best food to feed pregnant siberian husky?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:43:42 GMT)
This is my first litter with her, and I've done all the research possible on whelping, preparing and everything. I am currently feeding her Barking at the Moon by Solid Gold, and I'm concerned about whether this is the appropriate food to feed her. I am concerned because I'm not sure if the calcium in the food is already at too high a level, and if I should switch her to something else. She is currently only three weeks along. I want some legitimate answers to my question. I do not want to hear about spaying her, she will be spayed after this litter, and we have a waiting list of takers for the puppies so I am prepared for the litter. A whelping box large enough in our office has been prepared for her. I am only concerned about her food, and genuinely worried I am not providing good nutrition for her at this time. It's 41% protein and 20% fat.
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Open Question: is adoption the right thing?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:39:12 GMT)
I am young, and i live in a house of 6 people (all family). its a kind of small house. the first time i had sex, he was wearing a condom, and i got pregnant. (my luck.) im about 20 weeks, and i was wondering what your opinion is. i am in love with my child already, but i cant give it a family it needs. im still in school, and i dont want him to suffer from neglect. some people say i should abort, and some people say i should keep the baby and raise it. i decided to give him to a family that will love him.
do you think that was the right thing?
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Open Question: im nearly 18 weeks pregnant and im not ?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:38:57 GMT)
showing and im getting worried every ones like you should be showing by now? i thought it was normal not till show till 20 - 24 weeks as its my first pregnancy but with every saying things like that im getting worried?
and is true that the healthy you eat and the more you sleep you get your baby grows more?
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Open Question: How to deal with people taking advantage of your family?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:19:22 GMT)
Ok, so its a long story but the short version is that my moms side of the family are all users and abusers. we only EVER hear from them when they want something thou wen my mom desperately needed help years ago, she was pregnant and really sick and couldn't work etc all her family had mysteriously disappeared. Now they think we have it made or whatever and only call when they want money or clothes or a hook up to a job...At one time My aunt and uncle who i hate actually treated my mom like a slave. Cooking and cleaning most of the day while they sat on their asses. The recently lost their business and were asking my mom for help and sucking up to us lol...Last week my aunt who has 3 children over the age of 20 and 1 teen and a working husband asked for $500, no given reason just that she is "short" blah blah. She works also and she is constantly bailing out her eldest daughter because her and her husband are spendaholics and her son who is over 25 still acts like he's 17 and needs money for everything. Right at this moment my mom's cousin is staying with us on our couch because shes looking for a job, my mom had found her one but she got fired and its probably because she is on the phone 20hrs a day (Shes 42years old with 5 kids and a hubby) Its just her here. Something happened YEARS ago and now i think my mom is trying to prove herself to everyone. She doesn't ask the family for help rarely. And she gives money to her parent who are on retirement every week. Shes the only one out of 8 children to give them $$. That doesnt matter because my grandparents are there and they're the g-parents. Me, my sis and brother are all in college at the moment and parent pay my interest off so that when i finish and start working it won't b overwhelming or watever only because my bro and sis don't hav to pay till they finish their course and its interest free loans. So my moms WHOLE family close and extended only vist or call because the need this and that. my moms cousin a couple of months ago who she has never talked to or met in her life called up and asked her to buy all this stuff for her daughters wedding...a wedding my mom wasn't even invited to...How rude is that?!!! I can't stand my family seriously they are all annoying and we would be better off without them. There are so much other stuff like how just recently my other aunt asked my mom to pay her daughters $17000 school tuition even though mom has three college kids of her own to look out for and a little one who needs to start a college fund. So much stuff that is soooo stupid..What would you do? As daughter to a mother who is a push over and a family that are users and my mom is the youngest 4th youngest out of my grandparents children on moms side by the way. Youngest daughter. than 3 sons after her. Sorry really confusing lol buuuttt seriously What would you do? by the way im 20 my sis 19 and bro 17 and youngest is 3
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Open Question: should I tell my supervisor I'm pregnant or wait till I become permanent?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:00:09 GMT)
I am 20 weeks pregnant. I have been working on my job since August as temp to hire after 6 months. I've been hiding it from my boss and co-workers because I don't want them to find some excuse to fire me, because I'm pregnant. It's getting harder to hide and I feel so guilty, should I just go ahead and tell them?
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Open Question: I'm 20 weeks pregnant and...?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:18:05 GMT)
I've not gained ANY weight! I'm still the same as what i used to be, if not a couple of pounds lighter!
I eat SO much. I just don't know why i'm not putting any on.
I'm 21 weeks on friday.
Is everything ok?
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Open Question: ok i need help lol.... 3 weeks 2 days late!! lol.... PLEASE answer?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:03:57 GMT)
ok my last period was november 16, 2008.
my expected period was december 14, 2008.... its now january 6 and im now 3 weeks late.
i usually get it every 30 days give or take 2 days late or early.
coul i be pregnant??
i took a few hpts and they were negative, i took one at a week and 4 days late and the other and a doctors urine test at 2 weeks late.
the doctor told me to go back when my next period was sopposed to come (2 weeks after i saw her) if i still didnt have a period.
i dont have stds and all that stuff lol.
me and my boyfriend arent planning or preventing lol
symptoms ive had and still have:
-3 week late period.. i usually get sore boobs before it comes, they never got sore lol
-lower back pain in the middle closer to the right side
-a pinching kind of dull cramping behind my pubic bone in the middle but more on the right side
-i had random headaches for the first week late
-more sleepy since a few days after period was late
-i get car sick alot easier now
-tiny tiny bit naseous occasionally
-boobs look a little fuller
-boobs a little sore on the top if i push on them
-im bloated
-below my bellybutton is round lol
-greenish-blue veins in my boobs?
-darker nipples
-last night there was alot of white looking bumps on my areolas
-pretty emotional more
-if my belt is to tight its a bit umcomfy now, had to move up a hole lol
im NOT stressed im always happy lol
no exercise im very lasy lol
i eat alot, always have
no diets
i weight like 134, im 5'3"
im 18
boyfriends 20
what do you guys think??anybody had all these symptoms, tested negative on urine tests and ended up pregnant?????!
please be NICE lol
thanks!! =]]
~if i am i have the cutest way to tell my boyfriend.. get baby booties a pair of blue and a pair of pink and put a blue and a pink bootie in a little box and wrap it and give it to him, he will be happy lol~ good idea???
sorry so long!! lol
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Open Question: Weight gain by 20 weeks...?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 19:28:16 GMT)
Is a weight gain of 15 lbs normal at 20 weeks pregnant (with one baby)? This is my first baby, so I don't have anything to compare to. I know books say if your BMI is normal (which mine was) then you should gain 25-35 lbs your whole pregnancy. So have I gained too much by this point, or am I ok?
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Open Question: Is it safe to continue working as a musician teaching loud instruments whilst I am pregnant?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 18:53:05 GMT)
I work as a freelance steel pans and drums tutor 5 days a week for approximately 8 hours per day. I love my job but it is quite noisy. I work with kids playing the pans from groups of 5 to 20 and I accompany them on the drum kit so it's music music music all day long.
I am 12 weeks pregnant and continuing to work However one of the teachers told me today I should cut down my hours as the music and vibrations is bad for the baby!
Is this true??
I can't cut my hours as i'm self-employed and counting on evey penny I make as I have to save up as i don't get much maternity pay (well the government rate of £117 isn't going to get me through the week). Also my boyfriend is out of work so no joy there either. However I don't want to do anything that will harm the baby.
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Open Question: is there any adoption poems?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 18:51:44 GMT)
i am very young, and found out i was pregnant. i am about 20 weeks pregnant, and i have decided to give the baby a life and give him to a family that would love it. my church wanted me to read an adoption poem, and give it to my child, and let him read it when hes a little older. is there any website or author that has touching adoption poems?
please and thank you.
and please, no rude comments.
i love my child, and i can be a good mother. i just want my child to have a mother and a father. i still have to go to school. i was adopted myself, and i am very thankful. so shut your mouth about how adoption is a wrong choice.
please people. i love my child. and thats why im going through with this. i dont want my kid to suffer neglect while im away at school. millions of couples would love to have a kid of their own, but sometimes it doesnt work out. so i want to bring this blessing in their home.
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Open Question: Could I be pregnant already?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 18:32:55 GMT)
Ok a little background. My husband and I just started ttc'ing. I had my Mirena taken out on Dec. 17. I started my period on Dec. 20. My OB told me I may start early due to the Mirena removal. I wasn't due to start until Dec. 24 so I started a little early. I believe I O'd on CD13. It is now CD18. My husband and I (TMI ALERT) have noticed the past couple days that my areola's are bigger. And when in the shower, the water hitting my breasts and nipples hurts. This has never happened unless I've been pregnant. I have two other children. I've never planned a pregnancy before and so since both my previous children were oops blessings, I'm not sure how early I can tell this stuff. Is it possible for me to be pregnant already and already having tender breasts and nipples? And the areola's enlarging? I am anxious to test but I know I need to wait a week or so before I do. I'm also really tired lately but that could be from stress. I should point out that my period has NEVER made me have tender breast or breast enlargement. (Much to my chagrin) I'm just about dying to know if it's possible yet. I've heard that tender breasts can start as little as two to three days after conception. Is this true? Thanks in advance for all your help.
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Open Question: I need help......who might be the dad?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 18:29:14 GMT)
Ok i had unprotected sex with man A twice on Nov. 20 late on Nov. 21 I started my normal period. normal amount of days and heavy as usual. I had unprotected sex with man B the week after my period numerous of times like every other day until i was due for my next period Dec 23rd. and nothing....no period. So now im pregnant and man A is getting morning sickness real bad. Who is more likely to be the dad?
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Open Question: lower abdominal aches and pain?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 18:16:14 GMT)
is it normal in early pregnancy?
if i am pregnant i am right at around 3 1/2 weeks
i had what i think to be implantation bleeding. roughly 2 weeks after my period i began spotting brown which then turned to pink all in about 20 hours and then stopped, but last night and the night before my lwer abdominal region has been sore and achy? is that normal? did it happen to you?
thanks =)
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Open Question: Can you expedite Medicaid for high risk pregnancy? How?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 17:09:19 GMT)
I am approx 10 weeks pregnant and just found out yesterday. I IMMEDIATELY went to medicaid and applied for benefits and was told it will be 20 business days. I lost my son at 22 1/2 weeks due to an incompetant cervix. I was told that I would have to get a cerclage immediately on my next pregnancy. No dr will even SEE me, let alone do a cerclage, until I get my medicaid paperwork. What do I do? Advice please???
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Resolved Question: should i keep my job or quit it? 7 months pregnant and don't have my own car, please read!?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 17:08:30 GMT)
im 7 mo pregnant, and i work as a nanny. im not 18 yet, i will be next month. i have been a nanny for about 4 mo.
my stomach muscles have separated and it hurts to lift things over 15-20 lbs
i baby sit 3 kids,
a 4 year old a 6 year old and a 5 month old. i only get paid 400$ a month.. that's 2 $ an hour, 50 hours a week, mon-fri 200 hrs a mo.
the let me drive their extra car but i don't get to keep it if i quit.
the thing is that my boyfriend and i live about 25 miles away from where we both work, he works down the street from where i work and we drive together every morning. he doesn't have his own car either. the only reason i have stayed working here so long is for the car. i know they are taking advantage of me but i would feel guilty for quitting because my boyfriend would have to quit his job too. we live at my parents house and he could find a job down there but not one as good as the one he has now.
do you think i should quit my job and make my boyfriend find a new one by where we live? i want to try and find like a barista job, or a job at babys-r-us near my parents house.
ALSO: my parents bought me a car last year but took it back because my step dad needed it, and then my mom promised me 1000$ for a car and then backedout because she needed the money for bills, so thats why i havent saved for a car or got a better paying job so far, because i was counting on what they promised me.
please help any good advice helps!
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Resolved Question: should i quit my job? 7 mo pregnant and some issues... please read!?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 17:07:43 GMT)
im 7 mo pregnant, and i work as a nanny. im not 18 yet, i will be next month. i have been a nanny for about 4 mo.
my stomach muscles have separated and it hurts to lift things over 15-20 lbs
i baby sit 3 kids,
a 4 year old a 6 year old and a 5 month old. i only get paid 400$ a month.. that's 2 $ an hour, 50 hours a week, mon-fri 200 hrs a mo.
the let me drive their extra car but i don't get to keep it if i quit.
the thing is that my boyfriend and i live about 25 miles away from where we both work, he works down the street from where i work and we drive together every morning. he doesn't have his own car either. the only reason i have stayed working here so long is for the car. i know they are taking advantage of me but i would feel guilty for quitting because my boyfriend would have to quit his job too. we live at my parents house and he could find a job down there but not one as good as the one he has now.
do you think i should quit my job and make my boyfriend find a new one by where we live? i want to try and find like a barista job, or a job at babys-r-us near my parents house.
ALSO: my parents bought me a car last year but took it back because my step dad needed it, and then my mom promised me 1000$ for a car and then backedout because she needed the money for bills, so thats why i havent saved for a car or got a better paying job so far, because i was counting on what they promised me.
please help any good advice helps!
if i wasit for my boyfriend to get another job he wont take me seriously and will just screw off till i quit mine.
Paste in your text...okay well obviously i haven't graduated yet i had to quit my senior year because im pregnant and i needed to have a job.
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Open Question: Don't you think my partners niece is an idiot? read below>?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 16:59:19 GMT)
She is 20 years old and pregnant, i have just given birth to my baby 4 weeks ago, and my partners niece keeps calling me fat. my partner says its only a bit of banter, but surely calling somebody who's just given birth fat is very immature and rude. You just don't say things like that. Both her and her mother always call me fat, like they are messing about, but i have had enough. I am only a size 12 for gods sake, they get me so mad. I updated my facebook page saying that my newborn had put weight on and was happy, and my partners bitchy niece made a comment saying " fat like his mummy" ??? well i wasn't happy and messaged back telling her to F off. I know i shouldn't have but it got me so mad. How would you deal with this idiotic family member?. Cos i have to tread carefully with it being my partners young niece. I am 28 years old myself, and i know shes young but when i was 20 i wouldn't have dared called somebody fat. soz for moaning on but i have nobody to tell and its p*****g me off. sorry for the language. I have just had a baby so can't help my moods. oh and to add to that, my partners niece is 6 months pregnant herself so i think its strange she going on calling me fat when shes getting big being pregnant herself????? thanks everyone.
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Open Question: How do I know if I am still pregnant?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 16:36:13 GMT)
I am supposed to be 20 weeks now but i have not seen a doctor sense i was 11 weeks everything was o.k then. However I do not feel pregnant any more. My stomach doesnt seem to be growing my breast aren't tender. I feel pain in my stomach every now and then and sometimes there's like a tight feeling in my abdomen it doesnt it hurt but it's very annoying because it feels like a ball sitting in one spot. When i touch my stomach i cant feel anything and it doesnt feel hard at all. It looks like i just have a pudge. Can my lack of pregnancy feeling mean im having a miscarriage Plz help?
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Open Question: I need help choosing a birth control that works and is easy to use...?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 16:22:30 GMT)
Right now I am on implanon and it sucks. I have gained 45 ponds in one year and bleed for 6 weeks, every six weeks. I talked to a obgyn about this and she said it was normal that this was my rythm. But when I went on the implanon website they said it wasnt normal.
Also i fall into that .01% of people that most birth controls do not work for. I have five children. the crazy part is that after an accident when I was a child they had to surgically remove half of my uterus and I was told that It there was only a 20% chance that I would ever concieve and only 2% that I would ever carry a child to term. Imagine my shock when I did become pregnant and carried a healthy baby girl for 36 weeks.
After that I went on depo one year later exactly I was pregnant again.
After that I went on the pill and just to be safe my husband and I used condoms and spermicide. I became pregnant again exactly one year later.
With my fourth we decided to use the family planning method. It worked for 3 years until we got a little intoxicated and we blew off the timing.
With my fifth I had the Minerna IUD. Despite what they tell you apparently the real statistics are that 1 in 10 get pregnant with this. I went another 3 years before I did get pregnant.
Before you say I should get my tubes tied, or do something permanent, this is absolutley out of the question, one because it is a miracle that I became pregnant in the first place and 2 becasue I plan on being a surrogate for my sister in law who cannot have children. Also my mom is like me she had 7 children and my little brother was the result of my mom having her tubes tied and my dad had a vesectomy. 12 years after her 6 my bro was born and I am 22 years older than him.
In the meantime I need something with out all the side effects. all the other birth controls I was on, I never got a period at all and didnt gain any wait. I was a size 6 after my 4th child and now I am pushing size 18.
Any suggettions would be great or even websites where I can compare different methods.
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Open Question: Should I ask the doctor?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 15:42:58 GMT)
I am pregnant and when I go to my next doctors visit I will be 17 weeks and like a coupe days???My doctors office normally does not tell you what your having until 20 weeks,,on a website I visit several women already know what there having at 15 weeks....so should I ask ahead of time???
I already have two boys so I have seen ultrasound pics b4 and the ones I have seen have been clear...I just wanted to know if I should really buckle down and ask or just wait..
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Open Question: WHEN SHOULD I TELL MY PARENTS IM PREGNANT?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 14:50:08 GMT)
im soooo scared !!im 6 weeks pregnant,thats what the pregnancy calculator says . my last period started nov.20. 2008 and i ovulated dec. 6th. when should i tell them? am i already very far along?
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Open Question: 20 weeks pregnant...2 questions please! :D?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 14:36:57 GMT)
Hey guys! Just wanted to get answers and experiences on two things.
1. Baby Movement
When I was 16 weeks pregnant until 18 weeks I was getting really strong flutters maybe 2-3 times a week.. For the past 2 weeks I have been feeling little pinchs /twinges in my stomach.... Also sometimes i feel a really hard thud like something is kicking me... from 18 weeks i was getting them mainly at night once or twice but for the last 3 days i have been getting them day and night...Is that the baby? Please share your first baby movements with me plz as i am a first time mum!
2. In the mornings my stomach is really soft , well the part below my belly button and in the afternoon/evenings it is hard..any reasons to why this is?
Thanks in advance
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Open Question: Pregnant and working out...?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 14:20:07 GMT)
I'm sitting here contemplating going and working out and just don't want to....I need some encouragement. I've been pretty regular with my workouts...but I'm getting tired of it now. How do you keep going throughout the whole pregnancy? I'm at 20 weeks and feeling it...but I know I need to keep my flexibility and strength up....Ugh.!!!!!!
Okay..I'm going...lol.
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Open Question: Love Geometry Square? Triangle?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 10:49:35 GMT)
Ok here goes nothing... Im a mother of 2 teenagers I have been living with their father (call him H) since I was 16 years old, never married. After six years of “marriage” and a lot of physical and mental abuse, I met this guy (I’ll call him S) that was really sweet to me and treated me very well but until then we were just friends. I found out one day that the man I had given my youth to had another woman. I went to college the day I found out, and I was mopey all day. S was really comforting and spent the day with me we didn't go to any of our classes, we just sat in the students lounge talking all day. A few weeks went by and i started seeing him as more than a friend, he had been with me thru thick and thin before and I felt like I was falling for him and on top of that I felt attracted to him because he was a virgin and I always wanted to know how it felt to make love to a virgin man (he was 20 I was 22).One day while in an English literature class we were passing naughty notes to one another and i asked him how it felt to kiss his first girl. To my surprise he wrote back "Im a virgin, never been kissed" I wrote back "maybe I can help with that last part". The look on his face when he read that was incredibly hilarious, I couldnt help but laugh out loud and the proffesor gave me an angry look. When everyone left the room we were left alone in it. I walked up to him and sat on a desk. He stood before me being or trying to be very casual. I just looked into his eyes and I knew he wanted that kiss, but he wouldnt dare come one inch closer to me. He is taller than me by about 5-6 inches and I rarely wore heels so getting off the desk was out of the question, so I grabbed his shirt and pulled him toward me. He took 2 steps forward and I wrapped my arms around his neck. I looked into his eyes and he said “ I don’t know how to…” I put my finger on his lips and stopped him midsentence. I pulled him closer, closed my eyes and kissed him. I couldn’t believe the feeling I got from doing something “forbidden” . The adrenaline rush was something I had never felt before something that cant be put into words. He wrapped his arms around me and we kissed for what seemed like a lifetime. When we finally pulled away, we just started giggling and left the classroom. From then on the relationship escalated into a passionate love affair. I didn’t feel guilty at all because it was revenge (now I know it wasn’t right). We would take every possible moment we had alone to sneak out of college to make love in the nearest motel. We even at some point tried to get pregnant so I would run off with him (very irresponsible) but it never happened. Two years into the relationship with S he bought a ring and asked me to marry him. I freaked out and told him I couldn’t marry him because I was living with someone to what he replied: “yes, you do. someone who treats you like sh*t, who beats you, and has no worry whatsoever in pleasing you sexually” (H would get off and I had to take a “cold shower”). After that he begged me to keep the ring even if the answer was still no.
One day we had a fight and I told him I wasn’t gonna be with him anymore, and we broke up. That was tearing me apart but I was trying to make things work with H. S called me so many times for us to meet and work things out that after so much persistence I went to see him. We spoke and he finally convinced me to give him another try. Just when we got up and hugged, my mother in law pulled over where we were and hell broke loose. To make the story short “H” found out and made me humiliate myself by walking on my knees begging him for forgiveness, something I did because he threatened to take my children away. I was told that I could never see S again and if I did he would hire someone to kill him or harm him. I was really scared and never called or txted or anything to my loved S.
10 years have gone by and my situation hasn’t changed H is still abusive, now to me and my kids too. 2 years ago I met this guy who is younger than me. (well call him A) and is really sweet and everything I have been living in the same house with H but in separate rooms for almost 3 yrs. I met A on an online game, from there we moved to talking using Nintendo wifi and using a game that allows voice chat we have been talking for the past 2 yrs. we have exchanged pictures over icq and even sent each other packages over mail. But S has come back into my life and my old feelings for him threaten my new relationship. To top it all off H keeps telling me he loves me and has strong desire for my body and my love. I feel bad for H but theres no love there anymore, he killed all of it. When he touches me I feel disgusted. As for A and S…that is where my problem lies. I have fallen in love with the younger A and I love him to bits but he is about 4,000 miles away, although he loves me too and is willing to take my kids in and give me babies (which I have wanted for a loooong itme) and
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Open Question: was attacked and dont know who the dad is need help with dates ?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 10:27:52 GMT)
I was attacked at the end of July 2007 and the man ejaculated inside me. i was getting married 2 weeks later n didnt want to worry my husband, he knows i was attacked but didnt tell him the extent of it. The begininng of September i found out i was pregnant and just before xmas i had my 20 week scan and my due date was 10th may. My little girl was born on the 14th may and i love her to pieces. I have gone over the dates and sure that it must be my husbands as she must of been concieved in august. i just wanted to know if this is right i want to be 100 % sure that she is my husbands. please help !!!!
the thing is i cannot afford a dna test or i would, thanks for your answers
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Open Question: What Should I Do???? HELP PLEASE.....?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 06:27:22 GMT)
Well my cousin who is 16 is dating this 20 yr old and he lives like 10 hours away and he comes down often to see her. Well tonight she tells me that they are having sex. I don't want to break the trust between us but I am worried that something may happen to her. They have only been together for about 2 weeks and they are already telling each other they love each other. And so on. I am confused about what to do. Should I tell her parents whats going on or should I just sit back and do nothing. PLEASE help me we are very close but I am just worried about her. I don't want to see her hurt, or pregnant or anything in that matter.
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Open Question: Taking Soma (muscle relaxer) while 20 weeks pregnant? Please help?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 05:56:51 GMT)
I'm 20 weeks pregnant and for the past couple years I've suffered some chronic back pain and have been taking Soma since. Last week I took 2 Soma at one time because the pain in my back was keeping me awake at night. I also took 2 again yesterday. My Doctor couldn't give me a yes or no answer but I'm really scared it could of harmed my baby..
Any advice? Anyone whos taken Soma during pregnancy?
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Open Question: A few pregnancy questions? 20 weeks, 5 days? (10 pts. to somebody who will answer these good)?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 04:17:54 GMT)
alright so i have a few questions if you could just please help me answer them. i am 20 weeks, 5 days pregnant with a baby girl, just so you know. :)
question one:
last night, i woke up in the middle of the night with really bad cramps, and i passed a bowel movement... well, 2 of them. then, i felt better. but here lately, its been hurting to even pass a bowel movement. like in my lower, lower tummy (just about where your hairline starts down there and a little upwards)... is this ok?
question 2:
sometimes i get some sharp pains in my stomach... but they go away... could it be braxton hicks already? or what?
question 3:
when i get up off the couch or bed or move a lot, my lower, lower stomach gets a sharp pain... is that normal? maybe im getting up too fast or too rough?
question 4:
my baby hasnt been moving a lot today? she normally moves a lot. is this something to be concerned about? i mean, i have felt her kick today, just not a lot and not for a long period of time. after i get offline, im gonna go lay in bed and rub this lotion stuff on my tummy. that usually makes her move. :) but yeah... should i be concerned?
question 5:
does the baby change posistions a lot? like... one day i feel her kick on the left side, then i feel a kick on the right side a few days later? does she "punch" with her hands too? and can her head be on the left side, then be on the right side the next day? i just wanted to know if she moves around a lot...
question 6:
i know this is weird... but sometimes i get these like "sensations!" in my vaginal area... around my clitrous. not so much a wonderful one... just one that makes it feel like im peeing myself so i quickly grab down there... is this normal? whats that all about?
question 7:
my belly isnt always completely hard... sometimes its still a little mushy. is that normal for how far along i am? and i feel like im not big enough... does it seem like your belly is smaller when you lay down? it does to me. and just sometimes i feel super super huge and other times i just dont. like today... i just dont feel that big. :( is that ok?
question 8:
i have gained 9 lbs. so far... is that ok?
thanks. if you can just please answer these. please.
this is also my first pregnancy. :)
also, i get sharp pains in my lower back too... is that ok? usually when i have a cramp around front. but sometimes not.
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Open Question: Just found out I'm pregnant and I'm having weird pains?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 02:44:45 GMT)
I had the Mirena IUD for 3 years. It expelled Nov 20. I had 2 bouts of bleeding, one looked more like a period and the second one was very heavy with large clots. The week of clotting was the first week of December. I went forward 28 days from the first day of second bleeding spell to try to get an idea of when I may start, which was Dec 31. Of course I didn't start by then. On Jan 1 I was cramping (felt like menstrual cramping) Still didn't start. Took a test and it was positive. Worried about possible ectopic pregnancy. My ovary feels like its hurting on the left side. I have had cysts before but don't know if this is what it is. I am not bleeding or spotting. Anyone had one before? Is the pain similar to a ovarian cyst? Worried that maybe since I became pregnant so quickly after expulsion that implantation may have not occurred in the right place
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Open Question: Help!!! PREGNANT AT 14?!?! Any other teenage parents??? ?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 02:39:52 GMT)
So im 14 and i am 3 weeks pregnant with my 17 year old bf. We've been dating for almost 2 months and has had sex over 20 time ; ). The thing is...im not supposed to be dating until im 16 and i dont know how im gonna tell my parents any advise or anything? Also im sure my bf is going to stay with me so no need to comment on that. If ur a teenage parent BOY OR GIRL it would help if u also told me what u did
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Open Question: Do you think my due date could be wrong?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 01:09:47 GMT)
Ok, so i am supposed to be 27 weeks and 5 days pregnant, but when i went in for my doctors appointment today i was measuring at 31 weeks. I have had two ultra sounds, one at 8 weeks, and one at 20 weeks, and both went with the same due date. But, when i was only 25 weeks, i was having contractions and had to go to the hospital to stop them with a shot and a pill. Also, i recently started gaining weight very fast! Not anywhere but the stomach though. Before i got pregnant i only weighed 115, and now i have gained 35 lbs, 20 of it within the last month and a half. I have been tested for gestational diabetes and i dont have it. Also my only weight is in my stomach, everywhere else im still the same size except for my boobs. Now, the doctor wants me to get an ultra sound because i am measuring out to be 31 weeks. Does anyone think i could be having my baby earlier than expected. Also i have a family history of having preemies. My dad was born at 33 weeks, and I was born at 34. Even my sister was born at 35 weeks. So what do you think my chances are for having my baby early? And when should i expect her? Oh and also, my last period was in early May.
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Open Question: 20 weeks pregnant and baby in 61st percentile?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 00:46:08 GMT)
I am 20 weeks pregnant and just had my first and only ultrasound. The doctor told me the baby was in the 61st percentile. Does this mean a bigger or a small baby?
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Open Question: Doctor thinks im pregnant but i dont..?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 00:08:43 GMT)
I stopped taking the pill end of october 2008.
I bled for 3 weeks [roughly 20-25th nov].
I have had unprotected sex and tests have come back neg. I went the doctors today and she took a blood sample to get sent off as she thinks i could still be pregnant because i havnt had my period yet.
Out of the blue when i got home i come on my period.. Somebody said it could be implantation bleeding but im not sure?? I have to go back thursday to find out test results.
Was just thinking about it thought because i have been feeling sick of a morning and have been feeling very hormonal and always needing to wee aswell.
Any views appreciated thanks. xx
Regarding unprotected sex bit being careless, im in a serious relationship and engaged and trying for a baby so...
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Open Question: How to spend time with family and boyfriend during college vacations? ?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 22:21:04 GMT)
Let me break it down so you can understand my story..:)
I've known my family (Mon, little brother, and little sister) all my life, I've been with my boyfriend for four years now.
Im a 20yr old junior in college and I've been trying to spend quality time with my boyfrend and family during college vacations. So I usually split my breaks up by spending time with my family on the weekdays and spending time with my boyfrind on the weekends. I've been doing this for a while now, but it seems like my mom is beganing to get sick of it. When I'm with him she's like "When are you coming home?" or "What time are you going to be home?" Then I'll answer saying "I'll b home soon" and she always responds saying "Mhhmmmm". Im beganing to get sick of it. It's not like I'm out trying to get pregnant or doing drugs. Im mature and a baby and doing drugs is not what i want out of life.I figured she'd know that. I'm just tryna spend time with my boyfriend, who I see like every 8 weeks because of being away for college. I feel like she's treating me like a child not realizing that I am 20 years old and I shouldn't have to tell her my where abouts. I try to respect her by telling her where I'm headed and when I'll be home in a possitive manner because I don't like being disrespectful. But no matter what, I feel like she has an attitiude when she realizes that I'm spending time with him and not the family. Lately, she's been acting like I don't spend time with my brother and sister and that they are growing up without me.
From my understanding, I thought I do spend time with them and that she needs to understand that I am not going to be around everytime I come home from college.
Can anyone relate or see where I'm coming from? This is a tough situation. I was suppose to spend this break relaxing and recooperating from a tough semester and trying to prepare myself for the spring semester. Instead, I spent the break worrying about how and when I should spend time with my mom and boyfriend, hoping that I could make them happy.
I go back to school in like a week......and I wont be back for another 8 weeks...:(
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Open Question: when does morning sickness start?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 21:17:16 GMT)
Hello I found out I was pregnant on new years eve? the place I go is thinking around 6 to 7 weeks but I find out of the 20'th I haven't had full morning sickness, I sometimes feel a little Queasy but nothing more, is it normal not to get morning sickness or should I be getting it soon, When does it usually kick in
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Resolved Question: Fetal Movement at 20-21 weeks?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 19:47:06 GMT)
Hi i am between 20-21 weeks pregnant with a little girl. we had our scan last monday and all seemed to be okay. However I only sometimes feel the baby move. Its very random. I maybe feel her once or twice a day at most. I feel a little when I go to sleep and then here and there once in a while. Should I be worried?
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Open Question: I have a low lying placenta and I am scared?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 19:21:15 GMT)
I am 23 weeks pregnant and I was told I have a low lying placenta on my 20 week scan. My doctor said it is not a complete previa, but it is a migrating placenta previa. My docotr didn't say anything about sex, or heavy lifting, but I read it should be avoided. I am freaking out, I want to do everything I can to have a healthy baby! I have had sex and nothing happened yet, should I stop it? I have another scan schedulled at 28 weeks, and I really hope i moved up. I am very scared? Anyone has any suggestions for me?
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Open Question: Does the chinese lunar calender really work to predict the sex of your baby?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 16:23:38 GMT)
I just found out I was pregnant a few days ago they think around 6 weeks, I really want a girl, and I checked like 20 chinese lunar calenders all saying I was having a girl. has anyone done this and found out it really works, or is it just a scam to give your hopes up?
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Open Question: is the ept really affective? ?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 15:46:01 GMT)
im 21 yrs old and have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years. i ha ve a very irregular period. not sure when i got it last all i remember is that i got it before thanks giving and it came much earlier then it usually does. by maybe a week,. well for a whole month my boyfriend and i ( nov 20-dec 20th) we had no sexual interaction. as the month of december past by i noticed i did not get my period and just hoping that i would get it later i waited but i couldnt anymore. so last sunday i got a home pregnancy test. and clearly said positive. ive heard girls take that home test more then once to make sure. should i do that same? im overwhelmed by fear if i am pregnant. the earliest my docotor can get me in for an ultra sound would be this thursday but for me thats way to long. is (EPT) test a reliable test? should i consider taking more before i keep freaken out of the thought of me being pregnant? not sure what i should do. im in desperate help, please only answer if you know the answer.
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liz
ive realized also that i maybe 8 weeks along or less, but if i were pregnant shouldnt i be having symtoms of being pregnant??
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Resolved Question: How can I convince my dad?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 15:14:39 GMT)
That we need more flipping money alotted for food?? We do a budget, but the whole idea of the budget is to reevaluate it every so often, see what needs more and what needs less money. He won't add more into the food. Its been 120 (for 2 weeks) for like 2 years.... Its getting freaking impossible to get EVERYTHING we need (there's four of us, but averages more like six or 7 between him, my younger sister, and me for now, as I'm 32 weeks pregnant).
I do all the shopping and cooking, so he doesn't really know exactly how much food has gone up nor how much we use, and since I've been cutting every corner possible he assumes I can keep doing it, but really, I need the fresh fruit, not canned (and canned is in the budget, not fresh!).
So, how can I show my dad that just $20 would be a great help in the food budget??
I'm here because my mom and dad wanted me to move back when I told them I was pregnant. I work for my mom in her bookstore (30+ hours a week) in exchange for rent and food and stuff for me and the baby.
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