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Open Question: Do you think I handled this issue appropriately?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:30:31 GMT)
I'm 38 weeks pregnant with a little boy, my boyfriend of 2 in a half years asks me to marry him. I decline because I know he's only asking me because I'm pregnant with his child. We both love each other but we're still pretty young, 22. Now he won't talk to me this happened at 20 weeks after we found out we were having a boy. I told him that night that I loved him and would love to get married to him in the future, but I felt like we owed it to each other to make sure we were in it for the long halt. I don't know what to do, I've been trying to talk to him for the longest time and his parents have even got involved and he still won't budge.
Help?
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Open Question: I dont know what to do next...?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 19:46:40 GMT)
So I was due to come on on the 3rd of this month but haven't. On the 22nd Feb I had very light bleeding/spotting for 3 to 4 days. I took a test and it was negative, I took another test and it was negative although it took about 2 to 3 hours for something to actually show up, so I ignored that test as it said to disregard it if nothing showed after 15 minutes. These days I am constantly tired for no reason, I feel a bit nautious during the day, not neccessarily the same time everyday but still, everyday.
I did have a 24 hour bug last week so I dont know whether it's just my body still recovering from that or whether i'm pregnant or what?!
Any ideas?
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Resolved Question: Are these some Plan B side effects?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 17:47:10 GMT)
Had sex a two weeks ago, but the condom broke. He did not ejaculate inside me, but I know pre-cum can have sperm in it. He pulled out, never ejaculated (well atleast with me there) and I took Plan-B the day after. 7 days after that, I began bleeding, but it was darker and the flow was lighter than my period. I also began breaking out. Is this normal? My regular period should be coming around the 22nd and I'm worried that I may be pregnant.
Also, I know that insurance covers for birth control, but my parents already said no to allowing me to get on it. How can I get it without them knowing?
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Open Question: Serious tooth issues, almost 22 weeks pregnant?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 17:45:45 GMT)
I know pregnancy can mess with your teeth really bad, but I don't know what to do. I'm having the worst tooth pain. The entire right side of my face hurts. It goes all the way from under my right eye down to my gland area in my neck. My jaw hurts like I was punched in the face by a boxer. It feels like it's coming from one of my bottom teeth on my right side and the pain is radiating all over that entire area. I've never had any teeth problems, so I don't know what a cavity or anything else feels like. Does it sound like a cavity or does it sound like something worse? It's been doing this for the last two days and I've been waking up with terrible pain at night. Tylenol and Orajel does nothing, neither does ice.
I will be going to the dentist tomorrow for an emergency appointment, but I need some input from you guys on what it might be. I am scared to death of oral surgery. Please, do you guys know what it could be?
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Open Question: Guys, I'm having serious problems with my teeth and I'm almost 22 weeks pregnant?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 17:40:27 GMT)
I know pregnancy can mess with your teeth really bad, but I don't know what to do. I'm having the worst tooth pain. The entire right side of my face hurts. It goes all the way from under my right eye down to my gland area in my neck. My jaw hurts like I was punched in the face by a boxer. It feels like it's coming from one of my bottom teeth on my right side and the pain is radiating all over that entire area. I've never had any teeth problems, so I don't know what a cavity or anything else feels like. Does it sound like a cavity or does it sound like something worse? It's been doing this for the last two days and I've been waking up with terrible pain at night. Tylenol and Orajel does nothing, neither does ice.
I will be going to the dentist tomorrow for an emergency appointment, but I need some input from you guys on what it might be. I am scared to death of oral surgery. Please, do you guys know what it could be?
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Open Question: why wont my husband work or have any drive to do anything?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 11:31:54 GMT)
Hi guys i have a real problem at the moment, My husband of 18 months came to england december 2008 to be with me as we had out first child and wanted to be together permanently. Since then he has not found work or should i say not even tried, he cant claim benefit's because he is not a british national so i don't know why he wont work as we are really struggling and just surviving on the money we do have. Its like he has lost all his ambition and desire to be successful and does nothing but drink,smoke and play online games. I am also pregnant again and he made his promises to do something and get a job but nothing has changed i am due in june and so scared about bills and paying for the new baby. At the moment i am living on a one person benefit and claiming jsa Witch i feel humiliated about walking into the job Centre ever 2 weeks, i hate it but what can i i do? I do not trust my husband to look after my toddler and newborn while i work its not fair and i do not see why i should miss out on mother hood while he slops around all day. Even getting him to pass his driving test has Been task, we cant even get around or go out as a family should because cant be bothered. I just feel like hes giving me such a bum life and its effecting the way i look at him in every way. I am not even sure i see him as a man or respect him anymore because hes not. All the weight of the family is on my shoulders. Because my mum was his sponsor to come to england she helps us out with money Alot but its not good why should my mother help us when i am married i should be helping her. I do all the work around the house and he does nothing at all i even wrote his cv and got him his theory test books,college application.... lots of things anything to get him motivated and nothing.... What should i do? I am seriously considering divorcing him and becoming a single mum of 2 at least i can pick my own life up when there both at school. :(. He also drinks everyday just beer but still 4 pints on average and i just don't have a life i cant afford to because leeches all the money i try and save and if i don't give him any there are arguments i just cant be bothered with. I need some words of wisdom from people who might have good advise, im only 22 am i wasting my life with him?
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Open Question: Unexplained Grand Mal Seizure *Serious answers only!*?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 06:29:12 GMT)
My partner is 22 years old and had never had a seizure in his life. Then 5 months ago we were travelling on the train and he was asleep and woke up confused and not long after went into a grand mal seizure. He was taken to the hospital in an ambulance and had an MRI done then went and seen a neurologist for an EEG and all results from both tests were fine. The doctors could'nt come up with any reason so put the seizure down to a one off thing with no explanation. He was fine up until 3 days ago when i woke up at 4am to him having another grand mal seizure, we think he was asleep when he went into it. Once again he was taken to hospital and has to see a neurologist monday for another EEG and hopefully an explanation. He is 6'2 (pretty tall) and weighs 130kg (he is overweight) and doesnt suffer from any other known health problems. I am 27 weeks pregnant and would like an explanation as i am very worried about the situation. Does anybody have any ideas about any of this? Causes? (The drs dont think its epilepsy as EEG and MRI came back fine)?
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Open Question: Contested Divorce in NC?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 03:56:40 GMT)
Hi. My ex and I have been separated for almost a year now (March 23 will be 1 year) We have 2 children, ages 4 (boy) and 1 (girl). He wants nothing to do with our daughter but will not do a uncontested divorce because i will not let him have custody of our son. My ex lives almost 22 hours away in Missouri so I would not be willing to miss so much time away from our son. Im wondering how I go about getting the divorce since he is not willing to sign any papers. I just found out 2 weeks ago, I am now pregnant with my fiance so I am really hoping to get this over with soon. My ex was abusive while I was pregnant and I have doctors documentation of that, he literally left us when he decided he wanted a divorce with no money ( I was a SAHM) and moved a few states away. Is there any way to file the paperwork myself or do I have to get a lawyer? I already have temporary custody of both children and he has no visitation rights, but I was told this would have to be covered in the divorce papers also. Thanks in advance.
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Open Question: When Could I Get Pregnant?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 03:18:03 GMT)
Well Right after me And My first Boyfriend Broke Up at the End of June2009...Me and My 1st bf Had unprotected Sex More then 8 Times.We had been Together For 5-6 Months(feb.22,2009-End Of june 2009)...My LMP Was@the End Of July dont know the Exact Date.Could i Be Pregnant From Him?
Then On August 9,2009 around 4AM I had a New Boyfriend And we did it without protection too...but we only did it twice(REALLY FAST)....Could i be pregnant from him?
-HELP ME OUT...IM 32 WEEKS 1 DAY AND MY DUE DATE IS MAY 7,2010
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Open Question: Bleeding at 22 weeks pregnant.?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 02:44:25 GMT)
Last night i was laying on the couch and when i went to move positions i thought i pee'd myself a little bit so went to the bathroom. When i went to the bathroom i notcied my underwear had some blood on them and as i wiped there was blood. Like a period. I called the nurse but she said that there was nothing they would do to just relax and if it continues than to go in. I ended up going to bed shortly after and when i woke up (( i put a pad on )) the pad had spots of blood but nothing heavy. I went pee and the toilet had blood in it again. But as the day wore on the blood seemed to turn dark brown as if i was ending my period. Has this happened to anyone before?? I am worried.. baby still moving.. so that is a good sign.. but i would like real answers please!!
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Open Question: I'm currently 22 weeks pregnant and in much pain with cracked tooth...?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 02:22:11 GMT)
Needless to say yes I understand I should of had this tooth fixed long before I became pregnant, However I couldn't offord it and than the state of michigan took dental insurance from us. So now I found out I pregnant and I'm in VERY horriable pain and unable to get any advice besides go to a urgrent care for some pain meds. I've tried everything under the sun, oral gel, tylenol the strongest I can get at cvs, And it doesnt take any of the ease off, Problem number 2 being Its saturday night my ob isnt open on the weekends and the doctor on call will not call in tylenol 3s because he doesnt know me personal. So now I have no idea how I'm going to make it through the night and sunday tommorow and hopefully get some help on monday with a denist in my area or some sort of advice to help me get through this... So if anyone out there knows any way of help I'm all ears!!!
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Open Question: could this mean im pregnant? im confused?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 01:48:17 GMT)
I had a baby 5 months ago. And I started back with my periods in Nov. and on the 22nd or 23rd, and have been that way even in Jan it was more of a light flow spotting etc, but not pregnant. In feb my hubby and I had sex 3 days before my period was due so on the 20th and again on the 23rd. I have not recieved my period. Im 2w5d late. I havent tested because I know it wont show yet. pregnancies on me dont show until 5 weeks or so. I dont know what to think , I do cramp off and on light to mild but nothing. slightly irritable I mean nothing really out of the ordinary except for not having a period for Feb. Any input would be great.
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Resolved Question: Should I ask my Ex-G/F to try again?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 01:39:02 GMT)
My ex and I broke up almost 4 years ago. I broke up with her and through this time we have remained good friends. However she has had quite a few boyfriends and they have all ended badly since we broke up and she recently got pregnant and I was one of the first to be told about this. About a week later (9 weeks in) she lost the baby and broke up with her boyfriend. She is now single again and I have always been the friend to go to to be tough and comforting.
We have known each other for almost 10 years and I am just wondering if I should ask her if she would like to give it another shot. I am still madly in love with her and I don't see being able to be with anyone else; nonetheless start a family or get married to someone else. We live in different states however she will be coming out to visit me in the next few months and I just want to know if it is smart to do this and ask her to start over again or what? I have had one relationship since her and it just didn't do it. I didn't feel the same about the other girl.
My ex and I are still great friends but is this going somewhere or not? I miss her and love her and really want to be with her. Also her Mom and Dad love me and told her that she should've been with me and not cheated and that I was the best guy for her.
Please let me know your answers as I am stuck.
Also we are both 22 yrs old
Also we were together for 6 years as b/f and g/f
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Open Question: Is my pregnancy weight gain correct?
(Sat, 13 Mar 2010 22:04:03 GMT)
im at almost 28 weeks and i started off at 140lbs before pregnancy i only gained 21-22 pounds and 7 months pregnant on a site it said i should weigh 175 by now am i not eating enough?
according to that im off by 12lbs.
oh my last check up i was 161.3lbs
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Open Question: good songs that will make my boyfriend know it's not the end of the world because i got pregnant?
(Sat, 13 Mar 2010 21:35:48 GMT)
I just found out i'm pregnant I'll be 21 in a week and my boyfriend is going to be 22 in two months..weve been dating for 2 years and yes i know its not the best thing to have a baby right now we're still young but it happened and theres nothing we can do about it, it's not the worst thing in the world i just lost my uncle to cancer so obviously the situation could be worse..my boyfriend is taking it very well and being there for me but i feel like he is very stressed and scared and he wont show me because he feels he has to be the strong one all the time..i want to make him a cd of songs that are simliar to rob thomas' "someday" that is a very inspirational song and i need more of those..any ideas?
some of the lyrics...
And maybe someday we’ll figure all this out
Try to put an end to all our doubt
Try to find a way to make things better now that
Maybe someday we’ll live our lives out loud
We’ll be better off somehow, someday
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Open Question: 2w5d late confusing?
(Sat, 13 Mar 2010 17:01:18 GMT)
I had a baby 5 months ago. And I started back with my periods in Nov. and on the 22nd or 23rd, and have been that way even in Jan it was more of a light flow spotting etc, but not pregnant. In feb my hubby and I had sex 3 days before my period was due so on the 20th and again on the 23rd. I have not recieved my period. Im 2w5d late. I havent tested because I know it wont show yet. pregnancies on me dont show until 5 weeks or so. I dont know what to think , I do cramp off and on light to mild but nothing. slightly irritable I mean nothing really out of the ordinary except for not having a period for Feb. Any input would be great.
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Open Question: How could I be 2 weeks pregnant on March 29,2009 if i had sex on March 20,21and 22?
(Sat, 13 Mar 2010 03:48:22 GMT)
This doesn't make any sense to me! Does that mean I was 1 week pregnant the week before and 0 weeks the week before that?
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Open Question: trying to figure something out?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 23:19:23 GMT)
i had sex with a guy september 18th from september 19 and almost 3 times a week every week after that i only had sex with my boyfriend on november 22 2009 i got an ultrasound and measured exactly 7 weeks pregnant so would it more likey be my boyfriends baby all the research i've done points to my boyfriend being the father but i still would like more advice
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Open Question: when did i conceive my baby?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 22:55:17 GMT)
if i measured 7 weeks pregnant on nov 22 2009 does that mean i conceived between the 4th of oct and the 28th of sept
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Resolved Question: Did this happen to you?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 22:24:51 GMT)
My Husband has been telling me for the last week or so that he thinks I am pregnant. When I asked him why? his response is "I don't really know, I just do" I was talking to a friend about it who JUST had a baby February 22, and she told me her husband told her the same thing before she found out for certain. Did your partner tell you or make comments about you being pregnant, then found out you really were?
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Resolved Question: [REPOST] Will this end in a Happy Marriage, or Crash and Burn Train Wreck?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 21:14:38 GMT)
This is a repost since my first question was misinterpreted and left out details. So here goes.
This question came up during an after work talk during dinner with my wife about a coworker. PERSONALLY I DO NOT CARE, but I figure this would be a good question for this forum.
These are my wife's coworkers I meet on a monthly basis for a company "party night".
Here's a little about them:
She is 22. Works on commission, and works part time each night at a bar to make ends meet. She is a Party girl. Very fun and free spirited. Looks wise she is a 9. She likes to binge drink and smoke pot when they party. She parties a couple times a week.
The guy is 25 and working minimum wage. Always joking around, and funny (to the point of being annoying). Nice guy but a little idealistic and mildly pushy. He is about 3 on the looks department according to the women. Also a bit of a partier.
I only mention looks since OTHER PEOPLE mentioned it, and some suggested that is why he is moving so fast "to seal the deal".
The situation is, they have only known each other for 4 months. He was renting, but decided to buy a condo together. He bought the studio condo by maxing out 4 credit cards to get the down payment. He is co signing with a family member to secure the mortgage.
Neither have been married or had a relationship longer than 9 months,
The big bombshell came, when recently she found out she was one month pregnant. Its was unplanned. She has stopped drinking and doing drugs. but that was one week ago.
So the plan has changed from moving into together, to getting their first home, kids, and POSSIBLY (he is on the fence) getting married all in the same year.
Based on this info, what do you think? Do you think this will end well or crash and burn?
Please give reasons for your stance.
Place your bets!
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Open Question: im pregnant and my vains dont show .. helpp!!?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 04:53:41 GMT)
soo im 22 weeks pregnant and iver been to the doctors once and the first time they got my blood with no problem what so ever. how ever this next time that i had to go in to give blood they cant seem to find my vain.. ive been back twice and they still cant find it .. im getting poked for no reason and it sucks because i faint and get really light headed every time. ive already drank lots of water and still nothing happens is there anything else i can do .. is there a way to them to pop out some how. so they can get it this time.. ?? thanks for your help!!
ohh and also i wanted to know if me feeling light headed and feeling like im gonna fain can harm my baby ? thanks soo much!!
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Resolved Question: i bought him a ring, he bought me a DS?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 03:38:34 GMT)
Ok, so my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 8 months.. he is completely the love of my life, and i am 9 weeks pregnant with our first child. We plan to eventually get married, I am 22 and he is 25. He is the most amazing person i have ever met in my life, and treats me sooo well. So here is my question. For our first valentines day i made a huge card, doing somewhat of a madlibs theme, using his favorite candy (example You are my LIFESAVER) anywho, at the end of the poem, it said "i promise you forever" and i bought him a promise ring, the inside was engraved saying "i promise you forever" he absolutely loved it, he even cried. But he got me a nentendo DS... I hate to be ungrateful, because i LOVE my DS, i just kinda feel like maybe mine wasnt worth the time and effort i put into it. He loved it, and tells me he loves me everyday, i just feel like like a DS really isnt personal at all.. not even close to as personal as the ring i got him... Am i being selfish? i need advice.
Apparently everyone one here just wants to BAG on me because i asked as simple question, if you dont have something useful to add to this question, then dont bother giving your 2 cents..
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Resolved Question: sister 22 weeks pregnant not feeling baby?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 20:47:25 GMT)
my sister just called she is 22 week pregnant and she normally feels the baby mostly morning and afternoon but she has not felt nothing is there any advice or anything she can do, i did say she will not feel the baby all the time but think she is still worried
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Open Question: Feeling movements at 21 weeks?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 19:03:26 GMT)
I am 21 weeks and 6 days pregnant today, 22 weeks tomorrow obviously. Anyways this is my first pregnancy and expected to not feel strong movements until about now but haven't felt anything from outside my stomach. She only moves during the day and its little kicks here and there nothing strong and I have to be very still to feel them. Is this normal? My fiance and Mom cannot wait to feel her and everytime she moves and someone puts their hand on my stomach she stops. I always feel this kinda painful movement under my left breast, like in my ribs, at night mostly-- is this her? If it is her it feels like she is moving up there as far as possible, makes me not be able to sleep at all.
Anyways thanks for any input, and babydust to all of you!
Good luck!
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Open Question: Can it take a year or more to conceive after Mirena removal?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 18:10:34 GMT)
I had my Mirena inserted 6 weeks after I had my son and that was 3 1/2 years ago. While on the Mirena, I loved it (I didn't have a period or have to worry about it). I had it removed in March 2009 and wanted to try to conceive. My periods returned to normal usually in between 27 days and 31 days. For the past couple of months my periods have been irregular. One cycle it was 48 days, then 41 days, and now 38 days. I am just really worried that I have not become pregnant after 1 year of trying. I want to hear of anyone elses experiences with the Mirena and could this possibly cause infertility. My husband and I are both healthy and young (21 and 22).
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Resolved Question: Did my doctor do the right thing or should I change doctors NOW!!?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 17:13:59 GMT)
Hey guys,
I just lost my baby boy at 23 weeks On January 22nd. Let me make long story short:
I had a blighted ovum at 12 weeks followed by a d&c on Feb 24, 2009, I got pregnant 7 months later with my baby boy whom I just lost. Since I found out I was pregnant I bled and each time I went to the Doctor he said my baby was fine, the uterus was closed and nothing to worry about but my doctor did tell me to rest. I would rush to the ER every 2 weeks because of bleeding and again my baby was fine (The doctor would say) and never told me the reason why I was bleeding until I called him and asked : Why Im I bleeding??? He said: your placenta is a little low....So I rested and then at week 20 I had this gush of blood and I rushed again to the ER and doctor told me I had a little hematoma next to the placenta and to rest for 3 days. The bleeding got worse! I bled from week 20 to the 22nd, at 22w5d I started having pains so I called my doctor and he just told me to rest ! He didndt even tell me : Come in or anything...At 22w7d I couldnt handle it anymore the pains got worse and worse(the contractions) soo I didnt listen to the Dr and rushed to the ER..Well I forgot to add that he did tell me to Come in if I was having contractions (but I was a first time mom so I never knew=( ..Then my water broke the next day at 23 weeks and they tried all night to stop labor from happening but it didnt work:( I delivered my baby boy(died during delivery) that same day. Should I change doctors? Did he do the right thing? Does only bedrest prevent this from happening? Was it my fault?
Thanks for helping me:(
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Open Question: UPDATE to previously asked question...?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 16:40:55 GMT)
The first day of my LMP was February 14, 2010 (i also take YAZ) Around February 20th, I started taking antibiotics for a UTI (sulfamethoxazole). According to the ovulation calendar, i was most fertile the 24-28th. I had unprotected sex those days using the "withdraw" method. I have read that sulfamethozazole will cause yaz to not work properly. The past couple days i've had cramps and just a little bit of brown spotting. Now, here I am about 5 days before i'm supposed to start my period with a high, closed, firm feeling cervix. This stuff confuses me. :) I guess i'm just looking for a little help on trying to figure it out. I've taken a pregnancy test but it was negative. If i am pregnant, it's probably too early to tell. My breasts haven't been sore but, today i've been getting dizzy and the past 2 mornings when i've woken up, i've felt nauseous. Let me know what you think!
22 hours ago - 1 week left to answer.
Additional Details
I should also add that during my first pregnancy, i did not have swollen or tender breasts.
UPDATE: Last night I had a very large amount of yellowish (snot-like) discharge. I am supposed to start in about 4 days. Anybody knows what this means?
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Open Question: Could I be pregnant or anticipating my menstrual? I have been spotting for 4 days now,. No heavy bleeding...?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 14:39:33 GMT)
what so ever. I've never done this before. My last cycle was on 2/15/2010 and I had unprotected sex on 2/22/2010. Now according to my own calculations my cycle is not due to around the 17th or so this month. But I've taken 3 urine pregnancy test and 1 blood test. They all where negative. But my breast are tender, sometimes they are real tender, and about a week ago I felt this weird feeling in my uterus. So did I take the test to early or what? Please help me out, I'm so confused right now.
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Open Question: Should i keep on working?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 12:58:54 GMT)
I am 22 weeks pregnant. I work in a factory. I stand for the better part of 8 hours a day 5 days a week, on concrete, with a mat, that looks like it is older then i am.( 22 by the way) I can sit when i have nothing to do and my supervisor is fine with this. But it is not often. There are chemicals around me. Lacquer, alcohol, and other things. I am not allowed to touch them because i am pregnant. but the people that use them are within two feet of me anyways, so it doesn't make much of a difference. The noise in this place is horrible and it has a smell to match. My Male co-worker are horrible to me, with comments, and gestures. Most of the female are fine cause most have kids of there own and knows what its like. I may want to keep my job after i give birth to my little girl, Don't really want to, but may have too. So do you think i should keep working? why or why not? Thank you.
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Open Question: nausea, dizziness and tingling/numbness in arms and legs please help!?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 11:40:00 GMT)
fo the past 2 weeks i have been nausea, dizziness and tingling/numbness in my arms and legs that comes and goes through the day.
I don't feel stressed, nor anxious. I AM NOT PREGNANT!
I eat a pretty balanced diet and go walking everyday.I'm 22 yr old woman Can anyone help me? Should i bother the doc with this?
Thanks
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Open Question: 22 weeks pregnant and haven't felt the baby move.....?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 10:29:17 GMT)
Just a little worried-I am a plus-size woman who is 22 weeks pregnant (I was plus-sized before I conceived) and I have yet to feel the baby move. My boyfriend and I have gone for all of our ultrasounds (last one at 20 weeks) and the heartbeat was fine and baby was moving around. I have felt side and underbelly pain, but I figure that is due to the uterus stretching to accommodate the baby. I still experience morning sickness too sometimes, but just haven't felt any movement from the baby as of yet.....any advice to alleviate my worries?
P.S. I do have a good OB-GYN who is high-risk pregnancy just due to my weight and they've been monitoring my blood pressure, urine, and weight gain closely but I still only see him every 4 weeks :)
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Open Question: Interracial Relationship Why is he denying his baby?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 04:35:41 GMT)
My name is Kimberly and I'm 22 years old. I just gave birth to a beautiful baby boy Shaki three weeks ago. He is mixed black and Indian Blindian :-) Everything was going well till RishiKapoor started denying the baby. Rishi said that Shaki looks white and is too light skinned to be his baby. He is accusing me of sleeping with a white or light hispanic guy. He went through my cell phone records and cursed out all of my male friends he has always been very jealous. I am so sad and angry I have only dated black men in the past Rishi is the first and last non African American man that I have dated. He is the one that wanted to get me pregnant.I am a light skinned black person and Rishi is a little lighter than me so of course the baby will look really light. Shaki looks just like him but lighter his own mother even told me they look just alike. I believe he is racist we all know how Indian people treat black people. I regret talking to him I just want to do what is best for me and my baby and move on.
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Resolved Question: Haven't had my period in 2 months. Not PG. pls help!?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 04:13:53 GMT)
So I haven't had my period in two months. I have never ever skipped. I have never had a problem. Normal pap last year. Normal ultra sounds last year and rays . I've had 2 babies, my son is 5 years old and my daughter just turned 3 last week. I went to the doctors office today and he had SO much trouble looking in my vaginal area My uterus was extremely tilted. the nurse had to push on my belly because he couldn't see the opening. He changed to a smaller scope and said that he could see it. He said I had a lot of discharge and the stings on my IUD we tucked under weird and he had to fi them. He couldn't even see my IUD with the first scope. (med size had to switch to small one). Anyway I got some test done. He was able to tell me that I'm not pregnant and I have BV Bacterial Vagi and gave me some meds to clear it up. But he said that didn't explain the missing period. I recently lost 22 lbs. I lost 20 in 1 month (jan-feb) and 2 (feb-mar). I lost the weight with diet and taking a diet pill. He said that could be it, however I feel like my hormones are going crazy sometimes and my boobs are tender. He is testing my levels and will let me know in 2 days and I have to follow up in 3 weeks. I dont know what to think or what it can be. I'm only 27 and I'm really scared. Please help.
***I have never had a problem with my IUD
***Doc said I was a little inflamed
***I've been tested for STD's -all good! btw very married and faithful!
***Not TTC. Just trying to be healthy!
***LMP was Jan 12th
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Voting Question: Ive missed my period twice (7ish weeks w/out my period), could i be pregnant after 4 negative pregnancy tests?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 00:28:18 GMT)
I had my period january 8th to the 15th. then i had unprotected sex (bad choice) on januray 22nd which is the exact day of ovulation (14 days after first day of period). Its now March 10 and i havent had my period since january 8th. Ive taken 4 pregnancy tests all together, the last one i took was this morning, and they were all negative. Does anybody know what this means or if i could still be pregnant even though the test were (-) ?? I havent been on any type of bbirth control for over a year, i have no current stressors, and my weight hasnt been fluctuating...i just need some answers! please help if you know anything.
Thank you!!!
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Open Question: sound like pregnancy?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 23:26:44 GMT)
So My Husband and i Were not planning on having kids until we were closer to our 30's
[ he is 23 i am 22] But for some strange reason we both have decided to try now.. I never really kept track of my period and my cycle and all that good stuff since we used protection but now im thinking it may be possible that i am pregnant. MY last period was sometime in the last week of January.I started having Unprotected sex mid febuary.. he did finish inside of me a couple of times. I was expecting a period the last week of feb/first couple of days of March, However i have yet to recieve one. On the 28th while i was shopping i did feel some wetness in my panties so that i thought was my period. I went to check and it was a reddish/brownish discharge kind of like the one you get when you first start your period. So i went to go buy some pads but by the time i got home it was gone.. it only lasted about 3 hours. its the 10th already and no period. I havent felt any different except for having some stomach pain recently accompanied by diarrhea[sorry for the TMI] I did take a couple of test but they were negative.. which i think might of been too soon to test. I do not want to get my hopes up and get disappointed. i am waiting till the end of the month and going to the dr. DID this happen to any other expecting mommies out there? or am i just over thinking? do you think i might be pregnant? thanks!
still no period!!!!!
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Voting Question: Does this sound like pregnancy to you?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 22:19:05 GMT)
Ok here goes. First day of last period was feb 16th, and it ended feb 22. I had sex feb 26,27,28 unprotected and NO pull out method. (we are trying to conceive) Well that wed (march 3) i started feeling really nauseated (motion sicknessy), super tired, and weird mild achy cramps, sneezing, one runny nostril, tossing and turning at night, hot flashes at night, etc. I have been pregnant before but lost the baby at 13wks so i am familiar with the symptoms. Well we have proceeded to have sex on various days since. well next period isnt due until about march 18 ish. Today i started getting more achy feelings in my uterus, and my nipples feel somewhat on tingly or like a burning feeling. However...the motion sickness is very speratic if at all. Is it possible for me to be pregnant according to the dates? and are the symptoms in alignment with conception? also, i took a hpt lastnight at 8pm...neg. is it too soon to be getting a positive? im still a week out or so from my period. thanks!
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Voting Question: Should I change Doctors? My doctor doesnt seem to know about pregnancies?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 18:49:00 GMT)
My first pregnancy was a blighted ovum at 12 weeks/ followed by d&c.
I got pregnant 7 months after that with my baby boy Noah whom I just lost at 23 weeks on Jan. 22nd/2010 due to PPROM(premature rupture of membranes). I had bleeding the whole pregnancy with Noah but everytime I went to the doctor he would be moving and doctor said he was fine and that my uterus was closed but my placenta was a little low and I had a small hematoma. He told me to go rest at home. Then at 20 weeks I had a huge gush of blood I went to the ER urgently and again my baby had a great hb and was fine..so again doctor told me to just rest and take it easy each day. At 22 weeks I started this pains in my lower abdomen(I thought it was round ligament pain, I even called my dr. and he said maybe its round ligament pain and to rest) so you know everyone trusts their doctor so I did and rested. The pain got worse by the next day so I rushed to the ER and I was actually having contractions!!!! My doctor told me to stay in the hospital so they could monitor my contractions and try to stop them , well they couldnt stop them and the next day my water broke and delivered my sweet angel. Im really devastated and think it was negligence or maybe they just couldnt stop labor from happening. My baby died during delivery. I went to the same doctor and he said I could TTC after 3 cycles..Isnt that too soon? What should I do?
Thankss!!Experiences:(
I forgot to add that since week 20 till the day I gave birth at 23 weeks I bled a lot.. I really dont know if it was due to the hematoma.
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Voting Question: Can you ovulate and not have a period?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 18:20:15 GMT)
I am currently 22 weeks pregnant with triplets girl-girl-boy. But my sister in law is trying to have kids and she is on clomid like I was when I conceived. She said they saw two eggs release and 14 days after ovulation she did not get her period but the blood hcg was negative. The doctor did say it could be to early too. I told her it could be too early because you always get your period 14-16 days after ovulation. the doctor told her she did ovulate because her progesterone went up. I don't know what to tell her. and how is eevery onespregnancies? I am so tired all the time....
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Voting Question: 38 weeks pregnant 2 cm dilated...?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 14:49:37 GMT)
so until this morning i thought my due date was march 19th, i asked my doctor just out of curiosity and she tells me its not its the 22nd..no big deal only 3 days more, but yet again its 3 days mmorreee! anywho when i was checked this morning i was told im 2 cms dilated, they didnt say anything about being effaced...which i shouldve asked but i just didnt think about it at the time. i lost my mucus plug over 3 weeks ago and there was the bloody show. i was in labor and delivery for 3 hours that night with some pain & the doctor gave me a shot to stop contractions. i feel so discouraged like being 2 cms is great but it seems like everything was happening so fast and now hes just never going to come. i guess my question is if this has happened to anyone and if so what did you do, and how can i help the progress. i was thinking about taking a nice long walk since its actually gorgeous out for once..but im just not too sure if it will actually help
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Voting Question: Just found out I'm pregnant?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 13:53:28 GMT)
I went to the emergency room last night because I had a painful UTI, and it turns out I'm 22 weeks pregnant. I scheduled an app. for next week.
Should I be worried that something is wrong with my unborn child, I havent drank alcohol or smoked, I took benedryl in Dec. due to high cedar and tylenol pm's.
Has this happened to anyone before? Im worried.
No I'm not fat to the douche bag who state that.
I'm 5'9 and weigh 145. I only gained 6 lbs.
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Voting Question: I got off the pill 1 month ago now no period!?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 12:33:41 GMT)
I hope I get resoonces who have experiance what I'm having . Ok I'll Try to make This short. So I've been on the pill for 3 years . 1 month ago when I was suppose to start a new lack I couldn't because I no longer had health insurance. 1 1/2 weeks ago I was suppose to geT my period Nd I didn't get it . I'm late but I've been dischrging for 2 weeks. I mean we all dishcarge but it's been a little more so I thought I was gettin my period but it didn't come.. When i didn't start my pack that first week I had mild spotting 1 day and then another day. I'm freaking out bcuz I've never missed a period. Last time I had sex was September 5 2009. And I was on the pill and used protection. I haven't missed a period since until now. I also did freak out bcuz my period came 1 day late in early November and I took a urine and blood test and they cAme back negative. So I dont think I'm pregnant or other wise I would be showing. I'd be like 22 or 24 weeks. But I'm freaking out. Could I still be preg or is this normal not to get my period after not starting my pack???
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Resolved Question: could you get pregnant 2 weeks afta a misscarriage....?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 11:19:51 GMT)
i was wondering i lost my 7 week old baby on the 22nd febuary the doc did tell us that we should wait one cycle... but it kinda happened as in makin love to weeks later i was wondering if you could actually get pregnant, and wud the baby be ok or wud another misscarriage happen ive heard your most fertile afta a misscarriage x
hope to hear some answers
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Voting Question: Am I over reacting or do I have a right to be sad/mad/confused?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 06:11:11 GMT)
So I'm 22 weeks pregnant with my first baby,well me and the babys daddy are not together we broke up about a week after we found out now he says he didn't break up with me because of the baby he really hasn't given a reason to why he did it but see he wants to be in mine and our babys life he tells me he loves me all the time and he is excited about the baby and we hang out alot but he does not want to go out with me and when I say well I think we should just stop talking for awhile so I can have time to think and stop crying my eyes out everynight because I want him back but when I bring that up he gets mad and says I'm mean and that he doesn't wanna loose me and the baby he says maybe one day we will get back together just not now.I'm so in love with him and all I think about is him and our baby girl he is so amazing and deserves better then me but I don't wanna loose him forever,so pretty much I'm asking how do I deal with this situation...
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Voting Question: I've been feeling nauseous for about 2 weeks now please help!?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 00:03:59 GMT)
I have been feeling nauseous for about 2 weeks now. The first week that I was feeling like this I had no appetite i would just look or think about food and i would feel sick. Even with the foods i normally enjoy. Now I do have a more normal appetite back but i am still nauseous practically all the time. I get waves of nausea so bad i really think i am about to throw up finally but never do. I am getting a little dizzy after some of these spells.
I'm getting really annoyed with this, its affecting my life. I can be in a lecture and get a really bad wave of it and have to fight to control it.
I am 22 and in university. Don't personally think i am stressed since i've been making a real effort to do more fun things as to not get stressed. There is NO possible chance i am pregnant.
Please help and give me some advice what it could be and what i should do. I try to avoid going to the doctors.
Thanks
:)
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Voting Question: why is there no movement of my baby during 18-22 weeks of pregnency?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 22:45:02 GMT)
I am 18 weeks old pregnant, I used to feel few tiny movements until now and since a fortnight I have no indications whatsoever about the movements.
I am a bit concerned, is it something to be worried or is it normal?
i have booked in for my 22 week U/S scan on 19 march and please advise about my worry.
Cheers
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Resolved Question: preeclampsia I was told?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 22:36:54 GMT)
I was told that preeclampsia is swelling in the hands and face by a nurse.
Im 22 weeks pregnant with high bp. and the right side of my face (only so far no left side yet) has swelled up, eyes get puffy and everything. Even my nose gets stopped up but ONLY when my face swells. Which was weird to me. blurry vision too. But my question is can you be diagnosed with preeclampsia while only one side of your face swells up?
the nurse i talk to on the phone said no, it wasnt a sign...it was sinus infection probably. Mind you she didnt listen to me when I told her it started 2 weeks ago, when my bp started getting high.
she said my blood pressure wasnt high at all
my heart doctor said my bp with my heart conditon and being pregnant should be 140/75
and my bp is 166/57 p.94 ( the nurse i was on the phone with said, its not high at all)
Oh and I havent seen my OB/GYN yet, I was just talking to a nurse, Ive never met
She told me it was pretty normal, it wasnt really high bp, i thought wrong
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Voting Question: Is this implantation bleeding?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 22:10:39 GMT)
Ok so I had a D&C on Jan. 15th at 10.5 weeks pregnant. I got my blood levels check on Feb 19th and had 356 hcg and again on the 22nd and the nurse just said it was decreasing. I am pretty sure I ovulated on Feb 27th. On Friday, March 5th( 6dpo) I have had some brown sometime red spotting, well a lil more than spotting around 5 o'clock everyday since.... like yesterday I had one gush of blood and it quit.. it does not last very long. Do you think this could be implantation bleeding, or just my body being out of whack? I am expecting my period March 12th or 13th( 8 weeks after d&c) and 14 days after believed ovulation.
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Voting Question: Questions after Plan B One Step? Answers Please?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 21:49:21 GMT)
My girlfriend and I are very anxious waiting for her next period because of the following story.
On February 17th, I was having protected sex with my girlfriend and my condom broke during orgasm and I ejaculated inside her before I realized it broke. That happened at about 6:10 PM and we went to the drugstore and she took the Plan B One Step at about 6:45 PM.
On February 22nd, she started bleeding in a way that was similar to her period(as the information inside the box said may happen) and it subsided on the 27th.
Her last period started on February 8th, and ended on either the 15th or 16th of Feb. Her periods in January and February were early by a few days each time ( January was around 2-4 days early, February was almost a week early). She said through her best estimation, that she can expect her period anywhere from 3/9 - 3/11, based on how irregular she has been for the past two months. We have also both heard and read that it can make your period up to 10 days lat.
Based on everything stated, do you think Plan B successfully worked and she is NOT pregnant? And when can she expect her period?
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Resolved Question: i think i'm pregnant....?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 01:13:01 GMT)
well, in dec of 2009 i had my period on the 22nd(normal). in january my period didnt come. it finally came on feb 7th. and i cramped really bad, ihave never cramped this bad in my whole life. but my period was really light and nly had it for about 4 days. it was more like spotting. since then i have had horrible lower back pain and pelvic pain. i have scoliosis so usually my whole spine hurts and is stiff. but my lower back has been almost unbarrable. my stomach feels bloated but im always hungary. i have been a very pickey eater since i was a child. like eating at mcdonalds i only have ever eaten nuggete but for the last month or so i have been craving mcdonalds hamburgers and mcchickens, which i usually cant stand and have never even tasted. the foods i used to eat are prett much out the window. i used to love the red doritoes but now the smell of them makes me sick. for about two weeks my boobs have been really sore. sometimes i cant even wear a bra, i cnt touch them, they hurt when i walk, reach above my head, or bend over front words. and today i was helping my dad paint his kitchen and they started cramping all on their own and i had to go sit down and stop working for like 20 mins. they are tender all over. i have been cramping down where my ovaries are but its not a period cramp its more of a pain than a cramp. like for the last week i cant use the bathroom right. im usually regular with that.(sorry i know its gross but its a detail) first its comming and its comming fast and frequent, for like 4 days. then for 2 days i couldnt go at all. andi have been really really gassey, i cant stop burping and letting gas no matter where i go or what i do. and for the past two days my stomach back and chest are really warm, like i have a temp, but my head feels fine. i have been really tired and cant get enough energy to even clean the house like i usually do. and it seems all i do is eat and sleep anymore. im always hungary.. i cant get enough to eat or i cant get enogh sleep. .i havent had sickness or anything but i was supposed to start my period today and i havent yet which i usually start in the morning. i havent tested yet but i just wanted to know if these are really signs or if its just me.
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