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Open Question: i might be pregnant and miscarried?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 05:50:57 GMT)
i had unprotected sex feb. 27[he cumed inside me a lot and stayed in for a few minutes to finish], 2 days later started feeling nausea, fatigue, and ccramp's a week later came the same symptoms along with dizziness, increased appetite, a bit moody, then came headaches[every now and then all the things happened nausea sometimes all day and fatigue all day]. im on depo provera, i haven't taken a pregnancy test yet and im pretty sure i might be[depo provera has never made me feel pregnant or this hungry and it wouldn't start now]. here is were the miscarriage part comes in, lately my boyfriend has been srstressinge out and its really got me going i stopped feeling less of the symptoms but have not bleed at all. i also got a cold this week and have taken 2 benodril today, two tylenol, 30ml of nyquil cold and flu, and chloraseptic(all day), the rest different times of the day can any of those lead to miscarriage
also i have gas
also i have gas not to
also i have gas not to be
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Open Question: this question includes (pregnancy, sex, marriage) men and women can answer. Mature answers please. thanks ; )?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 03:57:56 GMT)
I am 27 weeks pregnant and I have never been a very sexual person. I mean I don't deny it when he wants it.. but, I have one condition.. HE has to be super clean..He loves to kiss kiss kiss... and I kinda pull myself away from that.. I feel so bad.. because I do that.. but, I have already told him that he has to be super super clean.. flossed teeth, tongue scraped, teeth washed, mouthwash ... everything! I mean would you get mad if wife would do this to you? and women do you do that too? I feel so bad for my honey.. he is like an animal in bed and I am like not that into it... is this a bad thing?? I mean when I am I can be a freak and HE LOVES that.. but, is it me only that does that?? and what do your men think?
Mine doesn't mind he never says anything but he has always been very reserved even w/ me.. not in bed though lol
but, he really doesn't care what I say or anything of that sort.. he doesn't take things personal at all..
the thing that I don't like is all those little pieces of food that people carry in there mouths.... it is so gross... because even after we wash we still have germs... but yea, some of these comments are helpful I will take into consideration
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Open Question: 27 weeks pregnant with crippling pain at times?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 17:24:11 GMT)
I have this horrible pain exspecially in my left inner thigh and vaginal area. It hurts so bad that i can barely walk or get out of bed, and then some days it is not there. Doctor seems unconcerned, but to me this is not normal. This is my second pregnancy and i know every one is different but damn this shit hurts lol. Its worst when i walk a lot and baths help only sometimes...and idea whats going on. I can't even put my pants on without ouching!!!
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Resolved Question: More...Mommy-to-Be VS Mother-in-law....not pretty...long sorry?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 15:17:23 GMT)
Hey ladies!
So more has happened since my last post.
We were told that we had to move out ASAP...so we have been house hunting and trying to get all the loan information in order to send in. Well....
Last night my MIL comes over yelling and screaming at me about this and that and tells me that I keep the house a pig sty and that I always tell people how horrible it is and all this. Well I asked her what I had "said" and she couldn't come up with anything and she said that I have been telling my husband lies about what she's said...and yet again she couldn't come up with ONE thing that I had said that was a lie.....she used the excuse that she was too mad to think of something, well if she's that mad then she would remember at least ONE of the things I was to have done or said.
She told me last night that I was no longer welcome to live in the house that she owns and we were to be moved out before the baby is born because the only person allowed and welcome in HER house is my husband. She is pretty much just throwing me and the baby out with no where to go at the moment.
She was just making stuff up as she went along and got mad when I wouldn't reply but half the stuff she said wasn't true and anytime I'd try to say something she'd cut me off. Plus some of the stuff was just stupid and needed no reply.
She accused me of being jealous of her relationship with my husband which is stupid because I'm not. She accused me of trying to force a wedge in their relationship, which I haven't done....my husband has even told me that the only reason she said that was because SHE is the jealous one and he knows I haven't tried to shove this "wedge" in their relationship....
Its so much stress and drama that I dont need.
I hope to have the loan paper work turned in by Friday and to hear something back by next week. If we get approved for the amount we need to buy the house we want then we plan to buy it ASAP and if we can't get approved for a decent amount or get denied then we plan to rent a house or apartment within 2 weeks of the notice...I am sick of how she's been treating me and she turns me into the bad guy when I haven't do anything wrong.
All she did was yell at me and degrade me last night like I have no feelings. She also said I had an attitude and I asked her what attitude and she said, "that one right there." I didn't have one at all but I had asked her a dozen times what attitude and it was irriatating....then she said, "oh here come the water works so he wont see your attitude that you show me every day and it will be come 'oh poor little me' and make him feel bad for you." She yelled at me for even mentioning my pregnancy and said that I use that excuse for everything, when really I hardly ever mention it. She said that no matter what time it is I should stay up until the entire house is clean before going to bed.
I am 27 1/2 weeks pregnant...its very hard for me to stay up to do much...plus I just cleaned that house from top to bottom not 2 weeks ago, and the only thing "messy" in my house was the kitchen and that's just because I hadn't done the dishes yet.
I am just fed up with her....and now that she told me that me and my baby weren't welcome to live in HER house anymore, I am glad I made the decision that she would NEVER watch my baby.
There is a lot more to the story....but this is long enough for now....thanks for taking the time to read this!
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Open Question: what does this mean? pregnant or what?
(Wed, 17 Mar 2010 14:05:46 GMT)
the 27th of Feb. me & my boyfriend started having sex when i moved in with him. & that whole week & after that we had sex constantly & that week of the 27th was the week i ovulated & was the best time to get pregnant. & he got off in me quit a few times & i had an orgasm quit a few times too each time we had sex everyday. & then just a week ago i started bleeding. at first it was like brownish light with some pinkish red in it. then it turned more into redish pink. & that lasted about 3 days or so. & i haven't been feeling to well. my stomach has been hurting a lot. like pain not cramps really. & my period should be starting around the 20th of this month. but I'm hoping i don't start it because we're hoping I'm pregnant. & last week when i was bleeding it wasn't normal like a period it didn't seem. so i don't know if my bleeding from last week was my early period or if it was implantation bleeding. because people tell me implantation starts about a week before your suppose to get your expected period. so i hope that bleeding was implantation & that I'm pregnant. we're really hoping I'm pregnant. so can everyone please help me out here & let me know what everyone thinks. if they think I'm pregnant & if my bleeding was implantation. i did the pregnancy calculator for when i ovulated & i typed in my first day of my last period which was Feb. 19th & it showed i was pregnant, that that's the time i conceived.
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Open Question: Why are my breast achy and full even after my menstrual cycle? Why the mild abdominal pain and cramping?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 19:54:42 GMT)
My boyfriend came home for a short break from Afghanistan and we had sex on the night of Friday Feb 26 and a little bit into the early morning of the 27th. I knew my period was due soon because my breast were tender and it was getting close to that time. Two nights later on the 28th I was out with a friend (getting ready to drink alcohol) and suddenly I felt like I was floating. I just felt so relaxed and strange, but it was a peaceful/calm feeling.I wasn't expecting to feel anything like that anytime soon and was going to wait longer for any signs of pregnancy. Two days after that feeling, I started to spot with a lil bit of cramping. It was on and off with a lil bit of light colored blood. It eventually stopped. The next day it became heavier and I thought to myself that it was my period. It was alot more runny/watery-like than usual, but a deep red color. It was off/on alot and shorter. When I tried to put in a tampon, it was more tender/painful than usual. When it was all over, I still noticed that I had waves of breast aches(Days to weeks after). Almost like the blood flow increased to my breast. They are also alot fuller and more firm. Yesterday they ached even worse and the nipples(along with the top and sides) ached as well. They are still aching to this day and during all of this I've been having abdominal cramps. Today would be the day I would supposed to be possibly ovulating (according to the text books and many sites) and it's still going on. I would usually just think that it was connected with ovulation around this time, but its been going on since and after my last cycle. I also have had less of an appetite and feeling nauseous many times when I eat. I also wake up in the middle of the night with really bad hunger pains. My temperature seems alot higher and I'm more agitated. I have taken two pregnancy test. One today and one last Thursday. Both neg, but I know something is up. Anyone have any experience with this, any ideas, or any knowledge of what this could be?
I already have a 4yr. old son and that pregnancy was pretty much by the book. I feel some similar symptoms to what I had with him (what I could remember). Anyone have an experience like this and end up being pregnant?
Wow. Congratulations to you! I felt like I had the flu myself. I could not get up and stay up before, during, and after my period up until now. Felt alot better today though. The night after I took the first pregnancy test, I had pinching pains/cramps in my uterus area and I don't get that because my period was over and I'm usually pretty regular.
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Open Question: extreme depression during pregnancy....please help?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 16:14:15 GMT)
i am almost 19 and i have a 11 month old. i am 27 weeks pregnant with my second son. i have been feeling very depressed lately. i don't know what i should do. i try to keep myself busy so i don't think about it but then i usually just get overwhelmed and start crying. i always fell so exhausted and can't sleep well at night. i don't have any one to talk to because i live with my boyfriend and our first son but my boyfriend doesn't understand. he also doesn't like talking about feelings. it makes it really difficult for me because i don't have any one to talk to. i don't really have many friends and i can't talk to my family about any of it. i need to know what i should do about the depression and is there something wrong with me? please help
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Open Question: so excited ! could this be it! (kinda long but i need opinions!) =]?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 15:09:47 GMT)
warning- a little tmi <3
okay :
i had a period on january 19th i was lighter than normal and lasted about 4 days. i hadnt started checking my BBT so i just went online to an ovulation calculator (my cycle is regular, 27-29 days) it gave me an estimated ovulation day of saturday january 30th. i noticed on thursday january 28th that i had ALOT of watery cervical mucus (i assume its ovulation time because i never get ewcm). os what the hay -- we BD'd =]. then i got what i thought was a period on february 13th. this time i only had flow after i went to the bathroom, there was hardly any on my lineers everytime i checked. that only lasted 3 days.on the third day i passed to small clots. naturally i thought it was a chemical pregnancy or just a wierd period. (i didnt take a pregnancy test because i hadnt missed a period). about a week after that i got tons and tons (and tons) of ewcm -- which i NEVER get! it came a week before my ovulation should've occured and lasted about three weeks (i've still been getting some, just not as much) on saturday march 6th it was a freakin puddle of it in my underware! 9tmi sorry) i read up on it and learned that the light bleeding/clots could've been from a 'blightend ovum' but i could still be pregnant as it doesn't affect the other developing egg. and the excess of CM could be my mucus plug forming. i was due to get my period between last thursday and saturday ... AF hasnt shown up! i plan on taking a pregnancy test first thing tomorrow morning. i think im scared of seeing a BFN =[ i would just like some opinions on whether or not i have a bun! sorry it was so long ... thanks in advance!
p.s. - i will choose a best answer =]
ooh qosh -- thank all of you guys who took the time out to read it and wish mee luck. i wish i could choose all of you as best answer =(
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Open Question: How long after miscarriage will i get my period?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 09:46:04 GMT)
Hi, I had a miscarriage with my 1st pregnancy at the end of february and bled from 24 - 27. Before falling pregnant i was getting my period regulary on the 17th of each month. I'm just wondering when i will get my next period. I am hoping to get pregnant again and for the last 5 days i have been feeling on and off nausious and also on and off of feeling hot. Also yesterday i started getting lower abdominal cramps which are quite faint now. I ovulated about 1 week ago and noticed that i had a tiny egg white string which had a tiny bit of blood in it which only lasted one wipe and went away.
Any ideas?
i would like to add that when i miscarried i was only 4-6wks
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Open Question: IAM 27 WEEKS PREGNANT... IS THIS NORMAL?
(Tue, 16 Mar 2010 02:11:00 GMT)
So, I just turned 27 weeks.. whoooa.. almost there..I am so so tired and my nausea is coming back. I know that is very common but, I have also been very very GASY and it's embarassing. I am always burping and farting. Does this sound right? Should I worry that I suffer of something else.. like gastritis or colitis? Is this normal in pregnancy? How do you 27 week pregnancy moms feel??? explain in detail thanks : )
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Open Question: 27 weeks pregnant, anyone else have this?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 17:35:37 GMT)
Hey all, I am 27 wks pregnant and I am just extremely tired lately and I feel like I have a head cold coming on??? Or lots of pressure in my head. I don't really know how else to describe it. I have also noticed that the blood is really starting to collect in my calves after just a few hours of walking or standing OR sitting (I am at my university most days and the stand for work on the weekends). I am not complaining, just want to make sure/see if you girls have also experienced this. I want to make sure that this is all just me being pregnant! :) I have my glucose test this Friday at my next appointment, can you share your experience of that with me as well? This is my first pregnancy, due in June. Thanks ladies!!! :)
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Resolved Question: How long after your period did you get your BFP?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 16:56:33 GMT)
My last period started on Feb. 11 with a little spotting for 2 days, slightly heavier on Feb. 13 and full force on Feb. 14. We had plenty of unprotected sex during the month, especially around the time when ovulation should occur (although ovulation tests from earlypregnancytest.com did not show a dark positive for ovulation).
My cycle history is:
June 2009... ended birth control (nuvaring)
July 13 CD1 (24 days)
Aug 5 CD1 (27 days)
Aug 31 (28 days)
Oct 22 (26 days)
Nov 19 (29 days)
December - extreme high stress month where I spotted/had period for about 2 weeks straight, but truly started period on Dec 22. (34 days (but spotting had started Dec 12)
Jan 18 (28 days)
Feb 11 (25 days)
March (33 days & counting)
Now, it is March 15 (33 days). On Friday (day 30) I had lots of cramping in the abdominal area. There was a bit more cramping Sat, and less today and yesterday. Queeziness, yes, but just a little. Sore breasts? no. Pregnancy tests... all have been negative (I have taken 5). I have also had to pee quite a bit. Headaches? yes, but I have also been attempting to cut down on the caffeine. I think I saw a slight spotting last night (like 1 drop) but have not had any more since.
Do I still have a chance of being pregnant, even with all these negative tests (including this morning)? I go to my general doctor in one more week, and if I haven't had my period will get a blood test.
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Resolved Question: 5WEEKS, 6 DAYS PREGNANT WITH NO SYMPTOMS OF PREGNANCY?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 15:36:12 GMT)
According to my last menstrual period which was on 1/27/2010-I would be about 5 weeks, 6 days pregnant. I have had no morning sickness or any pregnancy symptoms. I heard morning sickness and symptoms equals a healthy pregnancy. I am 24 years old, been eatting healthy, feel pretty good, no spotting, and I am not asking for any sickness or symptoms but I am just wondering how common is it to be almost 6 weeks pregnant with no morning sickness or pregnancy symptoms?
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Open Question: What are my chances of my being pregnant?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 04:31:44 GMT)
My last period started on Feb. 11 with a little spotting for 2 days, slightly heavier on Feb. 13 and full force on Feb. 14. We had plenty of unprotected sex during the month, especially around the time when ovulation should occur (although ovulation tests from earlypregnancytest.com did not show a positive for ovulation).
My cycle history is:
June 2009... ended birth control (nuvaring)
July 13 CD1 (24 days)
Aug 5 CD1 (27 days)
Aug 31 (28 days)
Oct 22 (26 days)
Nov 19 (29 days)
December - extreme high stress month where I spotted/had period for about 2 weeks straight, but truly started period on Dec 22. (34 days (but spotting had started Dec 12)
Jan 18 (28 days)
Feb 11 (25 days)
Now, it is March 14 (32 days). On Friday (day 30) I had lots of cramping in the abdominal area. There was a bit more cramping yesterday, and less today. Queeziness, yes, but just a little. Sore breasts? not really. Pregnancy tests... all have been negative (I have taken 4). I have also had to pee quite a bit. Headaches? yes, but I have also been attempting to cut down on the caffeine.
Do I still have a chance of being pregnant, even with all these negative tests? I go to my general doctor in one more week, and if I haven't had my period will get a blood test. I guess I am really wanting any baby dust and hope and prayers you can give me :)
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Open Question: scared of miscarriaging again... cant seem to sink in that im really preg again, some advice really needed plz?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 21:57:09 GMT)
in jan 3 days after a 3 day period which was abnormal for me since they are normally 6 and heavy i found out i was pregnant even tho i had no symptoms. i started spotting and was left 4 days b4 i could have a scan which turned out my womb was empty n lining was thin. abt 10days later i had a period. i havent had a period since however i took ovulation tests on 27-28th of feb n they were positive. 9 days later i took a test and it was positive and doctors have confirmed it and that im 7 weeks. now being 7+4 since thats the date of my last period.
i have had no bleeding and am very tired n not feelin myself which is reason y i took a test.
i am worried that i am really not pregnant and that when i have my scan in 4 weeks ish that theres nothing goin to be there or that i am going to start bleeding again.
we have been tryin for a baby since oct and this means the world to us.
i have already got a son but i cant remember much from the begining of the pregnancy.
am i really pregnant still if i have had no bleeding a had a positive preg test for 5 days now. my period is roughly due anytime now if i hadnt of miscarried.
i knw this sounds really stupid but im jst so concerned after what happened.
is it a good sign i got a positive preg 5 days b4 my period would of been due?
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Open Question: Can Plan B One Step make me late?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 21:05:03 GMT)
I'm not on birth control and had unprotected sex on Day 27 (Feb 6). I started my period on schedule on Day 28/Day 1 (Feb 7), but took a Plan B One Step on Day 2 (Feb 8) to be sure. This period was very heavy and lasted 7 days instead of the normal 5. Its now day 36 (March 14) and still no period. I'm not always regular, but usually don't vary by more than a week. I haven't had any symptoms of PMS or pregnancy and am wondering if Plan B messed up my cycle. Is it normal for this to cause changes in my cycle or possibly to skip a whole month altogether? I've never taken it before and don't know what to expect and if I should be worried. Thanks
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Open Question: Can I still be pregnant?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 19:41:09 GMT)
Ok, me and my fiance' had unprotected sex in Jan, almost the whole month, I got my regular period Jan 27, it lasted around 4 days i didnt get it at all in Feb, I am now 3 weeks late, at first I had pregnancy symptoms now I dont have any. I have been doing alot of googling and I get all types of answers. First I had the mucus plug, discharge or whatever its called that happened for like a day or two, the pinkish discharge then dark brown discharge, then back to a pinkish discharge, but i did sit ups and ran, and later i spotted a little, like a burgandy color, but when i wiped nothing was there, after my sit-ups i had a sharp pain on my right side around my pelvic area, and now my lower back is hurting, i dont feel pregnant at all, I was extremely tired like a week and a half ago, I took 4 home pregnancy tests...Could I still be pregnant? Someone help me please..........
All 4 HPT's were negative
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Resolved Question: I think my sister is going into labour at 35 weeks!?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 17:44:47 GMT)
My sister is 35 weeks pregnant, she has been experiencing braxtons hicks from 27 weeks onwards. Her and her boyfriend are here for mother day with my family and she isn't near the hospital she was planning to give birth in. This morning she thought she was having normal braxton hicks but now they are getting worse and her boyfriend is timing them and they seem to be 25-30 minutes apart each time and sometimes only 18-20 minutes apart. My boyfriend is increasingly worried and her midwife has said go to the nearest general hospital but my sister isn't having none of it. She keeps telling the whole family its too soon and the baby isn't ready yet. We think shes just worried because her baby will be premature but everyone says the pregnant mother knows best. Shall we believe her and leave it or do we need to literally force her to the hospital? Thanks.
P.s you may have seen some of her questions, Evalynn P in the pregnancy and name department :). I'm so proud of her!
They havent gotten closer but she thinks she may have just passed her mucus plug. My to be brother inlaw is taking her to hospital whether she likes it or not, she isnt as reluctant now she has passed her mucus plug so quickly.
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Voting Question: could i be pregnant. Please help?
(Sat, 13 Mar 2010 16:29:07 GMT)
okay. so me and my boyfriend broke up a few days ago. and this is just a precaution. i have a normal period usually. my cycle is about 32 days long. i had sex with my boyfriend on Feb. 9, 13, and 27. and yes this was all unprotected. I got my period on Feb. 28. and it lasted like two or three days when it usually lasts 4 or 5. i didn't think anything of it. but then my friend kinda scared me saying i was being over emotional for the last week(before we broke up) and she thinks i am pregnant. like i said i didn't think anything of it until Mar. 10, i had some brownish sticky cr*p coming out of me and it was not a lot just enough on the toilet paper. i took a pregnancy test an hour after it happened and it came out neagtive. it also happened the 11th and 12th. all those times its not a lot. i plan to take another test in like a week. i really would just like to hear your opinions on this. i really do not want to be because we broke up and that would just be all wrong but if i am i will keep it because im 20. and it was my decision to have sex without a condom. thanks for your answers in advance and please no rude comments.
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Resolved Question: is there ANY way i can find out if i miscarried any sooner?!? PLEASE HELP?
(Sat, 13 Mar 2010 16:01:04 GMT)
here's my story.
had a period Feb 8th, and ttc all month. took hpts feb 26, 27, 28 all negative.
then got an early "period" on March 1st which was normal bleeding no cramping
Mar 11 i saw a little bit of pink blood when i wiped and decided to take hpt.
I took four that were positive, and was confirmed i conceived at the doctor.
i have been having a little bit of pink blood on and off for the past 2 days. not much at all.
doc said i might have miscarried but the only way to find out is to compare hcg levels in blood from this week to next week.
well they won't get my lab work for 3-5 days, then i have to wait a week and get more blood work done and wait 3-5 days again to find out if my pregnancy is viable or not. so thats almost THREE WEEKS.
is there ANY way i can find out any sooner?! not knowing is killing me!!!
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Open Question: period during pregnancy ?
(Sat, 13 Mar 2010 03:20:51 GMT)
Okay so im about 27 weeks pregnant. Getting really big doctor said my baby boy is looking fine feel him kicking from time to time and now i can actually feel him in my belly when i like look for him.. It's all so just amazing.. Well i have gotten my period or something that seems like my period every month so far and always in the begining somewhere ( before i got pregnant i was irregualr) so seems kinda strange. It's like bright red blood not dark and stuff. My doctor said everything looks fine. But idontknow? Has anyone ever had this.? Am i the only one? im kind of getting scared.
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Voting Question: If i had sex with 2 guys & im pregnant now one before the other first who is the possible dad as a guess?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 21:02:28 GMT)
ok soo i had sex with my bf on the 27th of dec, & hes never gotten me pregnant before but ive heard after a year you can got pregnant with the guy. & anyways my bf said he hella came inside me & we were outside doing this hahah, bad i know. but im sure its guy # 1 bcuz i wouldnt be this far into my pregnancy. & guy # 2 was wearing a condom, but still possible chance cuz it said dec 31 was around my fertile days & hopefully before that too. & ok this sounds bad but there was a guy # 3, we had sex on jan 6 & this guy said he came inside me alot too & hes gotten 3 other girls pregnant before but they all had an abortion..soo idk though. i need your guys help on a good guess? i mean i love my bf & i dont want him to know. i hate this bcuz now if he finds out ive ruined everything. :( so but anyways doesnt it take 2 weeeks a test to come out positive? & i took the test 6 days after me & guy #3 had sex it said positive so i was hoping i had already been pregnant with my bf. maybe he had a good load? haha OHH & I FORGOT TO ADD THAT MY LAST MENSTRUAL PERIOD WAS DEC 17, 2009 & HAVENT HAD ONE SINCE, & I TOOK FIRST RESPONSE DIGITAL PREGNANCY TEST. I THINK IM ABOUT 11 OR 12 WEEKS FAR INTO MY PREGNANCY. SO ABOUT 3 MONTHS IM GUESSING ITS GUY 1 MY BF. ?
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Voting Question: Help! My Dad is taking me for granted!?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 20:34:44 GMT)
OK ... I am almost 27 years old with a husband and child - with another on the way. I work 12 + hours per day and cook/clean. I call my parents everyday, and visit them at least once a week. I also have made dinners,deserts, etc for them.
My Dad recently asked me to send some pictures of my daughter to him via email. I forgot and did not send them until a few weeks later. I apologized but also explained I had a lot on my plate and was nervous about my pregnancy (I have had rough pregnancies).
He was extremely angry with me and said I was taking him for granted and that I should have sent the pictures ASAP. He said I was using the pregnancy as an excuse.
I feel like he is being out of line! I don't want to be stressed out during this time and I feel like his neediness needs to STOP!
What do you think? And what would you do?
I am not claiming that pregnancy is a disability, but I have lost children and my pregnancies were very difficult. You tend to be more careful when this happens to you.
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Voting Question: What to do? My Dad is unappreciative!?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 20:27:42 GMT)
OK ... I am almost 27 years old with a husband and child - with another on the way. I work 12 + hours per day and cook/clean. I call my parents everyday, and visit them at least once a week. I also have made dinners,deserts, etc for them.
My Dad recently asked me to send some pictures of my daughter to him via email. I forgot and did not send them until a few weeks later. I apologized but also explained I had a lot on my plate and was nervous about my pregnancy (I have had rough pregnancies).
He was extremely angry with me and said I was taking him for granted and that I should have sent the pictures ASAP. He said I was using the pregnancy as an excuse.
I feel like he is being out of line! I don't want to be stressed out during this time and I feel like his neediness needs to STOP!
What do you think? And what would you do?
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Voting Question: any success stories of giving birth at 28 weeks?
(Fri, 12 Mar 2010 15:08:03 GMT)
sadly 12 months ago my pregnancy ended in stillbirth at 23 weeks and 6 days.im pregnant again but they found out my cervix has been shortening.15 mm at 24 weeks 11 mm at 27 weeks.im on progesterone pessaries as it was considered too late and risky for a cervical stitch.been given steroids and expect to give birth any time.very worried about baby not making it or having disabilities.i have another 3 kids and i went full term with all of them.im 32 .
when we had post mortem results & check up,i was told i may need a stitch,but nothing showed up on scans.they didnt do an internal scan til i was 24 weeks,and only then cause i was so anxious of history repeating its self.they said too risky due to how far along iwas to put stitch in,also cos id had bleeding on and off till 20 weeks
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Voting Question: not sure how to ask this.. 27 weeks with #2 pls read on second time mums?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 23:43:15 GMT)
with my first pregnancy, i had my little boy a week early, and im currently 27 weeks with my second and i was wondering if because i had my boy a week early, could that mean that this baby boy more likely come earlier than later? has it happened to any of u second time mums
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Voting Question: What are the symptoms of pregnancy?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 22:03:12 GMT)
Hey my name is Kandi and I'm 18 years old. My period is two weeks late, My period has never been late before it comes every 27 days to be exact. I thought I had a stomach virus because I would get very nauseous, dizzy, tired, and light headed. I can not eat breakfast in the morning because I will throw up. My breast are really sore and tender and I get like a stinging pain in my nipples. I'm peeing a lot and it burns when I pee and my vagina is sore and hurts sometimes. I thought it was from rough sex. I took a pregnancy test one week ago and it was negative. Today I took another test and it was positive. What does this mean could it be a mistake?
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Resolved Question: Period 3 weeks late, negative pregnancy tests, help?
(Thu, 11 Mar 2010 01:41:42 GMT)
I was on birth control for about a month or two but stopped taking it in January, since then i have had unprotected sex about once or twice a week. My period was due on the 16th of February, but i never got it. The last time i had unprotected sex was on the 27th of February. Ive taken 5 at home pregnancy tests (4 negative and 1 inconclusive) and taken two tests at planned parenthood, which were both negative. I have been having back pain (mostly in my lower back), nausea, dizziness, and dark aureoles. Today, i got my most recent symptom, which is a light brown-reddish colored discharge. I am also a little constipated. I am in no way trying to get pregnant at all, and im worried i could be pregnant but im not sure if it is all in my head. I have a gynecologist appointment in April but im not sure if there is anything else i should do. Any help?
Also, i have been off and on the same kind of birth control for about a year now, and never experienced any symptoms like this after ending it.
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Resolved Question: (long, sorry) How do I keep from going CRAZY?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 23:54:26 GMT)
I know that TTC makes us ALL crazy.. but really. This cycle we weren't *trying* but then again we weren't exactly *not* trying.. we had it in our minds that I should finish school before we try again. (I graduate with my bachelor's degree this May... WHOOO!)
Anyhow... since we were not exactly trying, there has been no temping or charting of any kind whatsoever this month, and I'm usually irregular to begin with. My LMP started somewhere around the ballpark of Jan 27 (give or take a day) -- Fast forward to about a week ago and strange symptoms arrive, like ones I have never had before. My breasts are swollen, and they HURT. Moreso around the nipple area, but the whole breast itself is tender. I don't usually get this pre-AF. I don't know how to describe it pre-AF.. other than to say I am "aware" of my breasts, if that makes any sense to yall. My sense of smell is becoming more sensitive, my abdomen just feels.. weird (I can't describe it... stretchy? pully?) and I (read: vegan!) am wanting cheeseburgers. I am a firm believer in listening to my body, and perhaps some of these symptoms could be explained away by anemia or something similar.. but it finally dawned on me. OMG I could be pregnant! Since then I have had four negative pregnancy tests. Since I haven't charted I have NO idea how many DPO I am, maybe I am testing too early? Maybe my body doesn't metabolize HcG? I don't know how common it is but I do know that some women either a) never get a positive pregnancy test or b) take much longer to throw a positive test. I have an appointment with my doc on Friday for bloodwork. How on EARTH am I supposed to not go completely crazy between now and then? Sigh...
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Resolved Question: Does this sound like pregnancy to you?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 22:19:05 GMT)
Ok here goes. First day of last period was feb 16th, and it ended feb 22. I had sex feb 26,27,28 unprotected and NO pull out method. (we are trying to conceive) Well that wed (march 3) i started feeling really nauseated (motion sicknessy), super tired, and weird mild achy cramps, sneezing, one runny nostril, tossing and turning at night, hot flashes at night, etc. I have been pregnant before but lost the baby at 13wks so i am familiar with the symptoms. Well we have proceeded to have sex on various days since. well next period isnt due until about march 18 ish. Today i started getting more achy feelings in my uterus, and my nipples feel somewhat on tingly or like a burning feeling. However...the motion sickness is very speratic if at all. Is it possible for me to be pregnant according to the dates? and are the symptoms in alignment with conception? also, i took a hpt lastnight at 8pm...neg. is it too soon to be getting a positive? im still a week out or so from my period. thanks!
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Resolved Question: Are my pregnancy dates correct?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:34:37 GMT)
i am pregnant. would a doctor be able to tell if i got pregnant june 27th, 2009? i had my lmp on july 9th, 2009 and has a transvaginal ultrasound at 9 weeks sayin my last lmp was july 7th. Only 2 days off and a due date of april 14th, 2010 so would a doctor be able to clearly tell the difference?
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Voting Question: When should she take a pregnancy test?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 18:35:36 GMT)
my friend says she had sex about the 17th or 18th of february, and her period started settling after stopping seasonique about the 27th, she'd been on her period about 2 weeks and it stopped, today is the 10th, when can she take a test? But here's the thing they had sex for an couple minutes and then stopped but he didn't ejaculate whatsoever and they wore a condom. what does she do?
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Voting Question: does this mean i won't have anymore periods with mirena?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 18:21:49 GMT)
ok i was on the shot for 3 months.after it was time for my next one i wanted the mirena because the shot was horrible.i got it inserted jan.27th of this year.my period came feb.5th and lasted 3 weeks and 4 days.it was supposed to start march 4th but i did'nt even get a single spot.anyone else have any expeirence with that.i have been cramping here and there like im going to start my period but i have'nt got anything and i'm almost a week late.i don't think i can possibly be prego.i was on the depo shot and a day b4 it was time for my next shot i got the mirena inserted.i had a pregnancy test before the mirena was put in.so is my body just adjusting to the new birth control or am i done with periods?
i know you guys are'nt my body though.lol.i'm just asking for expierinces and input.i'l take a pregnancy test somewhere between friday and tuesday.
i just checked and i wasovulating according to the ovulation calendar i used.and yes we were having unprotected sex.that was the point of me getting on bc.thanx for the answers ahead of time
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Resolved Question: Period is 6 weeks late, Whats wrong!? I had symptoms, but now they went away.?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 17:36:46 GMT)
This wednesday i will be 6 weeks late. I was suppose to start Jan 27th and never did. I had the cramps and everything but my period never came. Then i started getting brown spotting for a few days with about one day of liiiiiiight bleeding. While i had the brown discharge i was getting random waves of nausea and heartburn almost every time i ate. When the brown stopped i immedietly started getting a lot of white discharge. About a week after the white started, i started getting random cramps and dull aches in my lower ab and back area. Before the brown i took a test (-) and during the white i took another test (-). I have also taken 2 other tests which were negative (4 tests). Thats a lot of negatives. So i got over the idea of being pregnant. Then i started getting headaches, and when i would lay down i could feel my heart beating really fast like i just got done running. All i was doing was laying down. I am the kind of person who can stay up all night but then sleep allllllll day. I have slept over 16 hours in a day before. I love my sleep. Lately i HAVE to be in bed at 9 or 10 and i wake up at 7 or 8am. THAT NEVER HAPPENS!!! i usually sleep in until noon. I still have had no period. Completely missed februarys period. Nothing, no cramps or anything. And i still have no cramps. The other weekend (1 week ago) i had some pains in my lower ab (sharp but dull?) very weird feelings. It kinda felt like i was running, but out of shape. That kind of feeling but lower. I have no idea whats going on with my body. Does this sound like pregnancy :) or something bad? Im pretty nervous about whats going on with my body. Now all of the symptoms have gone away except the whole sleep thing. If i were pregnant i would be 10.5 weeks. Im just going crazy.
Please help!!!
No sarcastic answers please...
Anyone ever take a test when it was negative and still been pregnant?
What does this sound like?
Oh ya and my face is breaking out and my hair looks better than ever!!! except it gets oily faster.
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Resolved Question: Losing your job whilst pregnant? (for people in the UK!!)?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 17:35:22 GMT)
Got told today that my 6 month contract will NOT be renewed when it ends on 30 March. This was not a surprise to me as I am 13 weeks pregnant and another employee who was on a temp contract was told she would not be renewed last year. I've also been off sick with pregnancy sickness (have doctor's notes) which no doubt has annoyed my manager greatly (despite pregnancy related ilnessc being protected under anti-discrimination laws in the UK).
I've been with the company snice January 2008 and a little p*d off at this, but it was no less than I expected, they do NOT treat their staff well and there is way too much favouritism.
Anyway, what to do? I have five days to appeal but tbh I can't see myself being well enough to go back in just yet and even if I did and they gave me another 6 months contract, my baby is due mid-September and so I would not be able to work the full 6 months out. I don't think I'd get SMP if my contract ended two weeks after giving birth. I can't see much point in "appealing" . . .
I should be able to claim Maternity Allowance from 27 weeks but not sure what to do in the interim. I have a three year old son at home so I'm not so worried about the "being bored" thing as the "lack of money" thing! Especially with baby bits and pieces to buy! I only worked part time and probably haven't paid enough NI stamps to get JSA, and my hubby works so I can't get Income Support. hubby doesn't really earn enough to support us both. We get tax credits already.
Any ideas? I don't feel well enough to go job hunting yet - am still praying my pregnancy sickness will ease off soon. I'm already showing so I can't think that applying for a job and keeping the pregnancy secret would work. I doubt anyone would want to take a pregnant woman on anyway, knowing she'll be off on maternity leave by August at the latest.
Anyone else lost their job whilst pregnant? What did you do?
NB: am in the UK so don't need advice relevant to the USA thanks!
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Resolved Question: what do you think about this pregnancy thing?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 22:47:49 GMT)
i ovulated around between feb 25th and march 4th... today is march 9th, now the reason i out the dates so widly apart is because i have an irregular period and my docter gives me these dates.
so on sat the 27th i know is when i was most likely ovulating we had sex and normaly his *** comes right out of me it never stays in(ever) and then i can feel it when ever he does *** and it was a whole lot more then usual sorry TMI then i went to the bathromm to pee for it to come out and nothing, i think it was caused from my cervix being open but hey im not docter. then about three hours later about a penny size came back out on tissue.? im am suppose to start my period in about three or four days, and normaly have sign about a week before i start its never later then day 33 and im on day 27, i know you are probaly going to say wait till your missed period but it is difficult with a irregular period ,, i just want to know your opinion on this, and what do you think about this?
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Voting Question: Stomach hurting after I eat vegatables?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 20:06:08 GMT)
Has anyone experienced stomach pain & cramps after eating fresh vegetables? It's not horrible pain, just mildly uncomfortable, like indigestion. I am 27 weeks pregnant and this has been a problem since the beginning of my pregnancy. The thought of fresh vegetables in my Frost trimester was enough to make me wanna barf! I know I need to eat them for the baby so I'm wondering what could be causing this or what I could do about it. Thanks!
Frost trimester should be "first" triemester...spell check was being a little too helpful :)
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Voting Question: 72 Days since last period!! Neg HPT...could i be pregnant?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 19:11:19 GMT)
ok so i had my last normal period 27/12/09, went of BC 8/1/10 (which was about 10 days into new pack), had a light breakthrough bleed 2 days later lasting only a day and a half, haven't used any other form of contraception since coming of BC, and its now 9/3/10 and still not period! Have taken 4 HPT's over the last few mths and a urine test at sexual health clinic, got neg results on all STD tests and no abnormalities like PCOS etc. I have also been having sporadic pregnancy symptoms, nauseous/dizzy one day and then off for a few days and then cramps and sore breasts another, throwing up in my mouth and so on for about a 6 weeks, today im really tired...was falling asleep at 330pm! Should i get a blood test? Could i be pregnant despite the neg HPT's?
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Voting Question: Late period for 1 week Plus...?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 04:54:52 GMT)
i heard this dark brown discharge is an old blood. i got this when the day my period is but is not a period.it comes for 2 days and it stop. my previous period was 27th january, when i got the discharge i also got those period signs such as breast pain , moodswing and white discharge heavier than be4 until today BUT my period still haven come yet. can i know what is going on?? either Period delayed, Chance of Pregnancy, Period problem or other problems which u guys can let me know? i reli worry about my period. thanks!!
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Voting Question: can this be an issue? Please respond.?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 03:34:33 GMT)
Last period was Jan. 31st. I am most always regular..27-29 day cycle. Today is day 37. I woke up this morning wh a really bad head cold. Can pregnancy cause colds like that? My friend said it can. But here's the thing, I took a First Response tonight and it was negative. However, after I took it, I was told that liquids can dilute the HCG levels and would make them not register on a urine test. Is this true? Because I consume alot of caffeine throughout the day. When should I retest? In the morning I gather, but a week from now or when? Thanks. P.S. I have never skipped a period before.
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Voting Question: Is something Wrong? Help!!!!?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 02:03:27 GMT)
I am 27 weeks pregnant.
For the past week I've been having period-like cramps and along with the cramps also nausea, dizziness, backaches and sorry for the TMI: diarrhea.
I just wanted to know if any of you mommies are or have experienced this in your pregnancy.
If so what was it?
I would very much appreciate the advice.
BTW I have a doctors appt tomorrow to check for the low lying placenta. See if its moved up or not.
I will ask my doctor about this tomorrow.
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Resolved Question: pregnancy dates correct?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 01:43:04 GMT)
i am pregnant. would a doctor be able to tell if i got pregnant june 27th, 2009? i had my lmp on july 9th, 2009 and has a transvaginal ultrasound at 9 weeks sayin my last lmp was july 7th. Only 2 days off and a due date of april 14th, 2010 so would a doctor be able to clearly tell the difference?
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Resolved Question: What is this? More pregnancy symptoms?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 01:28:30 GMT)
Okay so I've been on the depo shot for about 9 months. The end of March is when I need a new shot. In Feb I think the 13th or 14th my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex and he was really deep in me when he "you know". That was over three weeks ago and, the past week and a half I've been having these signs: Frequent urination, Cramps, Gas, Headache, Dizziness,Cold/Flu-like Symptoms [Runny nose, coughing, Sneezing],Fatigue,Increased Cervical Fluid, Backache,Tummy aches, and side aches, [Tummy and side is around my hips].
Could I be pregnant? I do not get my period so I can't check for that. When I was having one it was from 20th-27th of every month. Please do not tell me to just wait and take a test I already know to do that.
I'm asking for some stories from you ladies, Some of your signs
Do you think I'm pregnant? What are my chances of being pregnant?
I've been reading up on the depo shot and it says that it gives you false negs, So how will I know.
Did it give anyone false negs too? How did you guys know you were pregnant while on it?
Oh and about prenatal vitamins are one daily safe to take or do I need to stick with prenatal vitamins?
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Resolved Question: I haven't got my period in 2 months. Not pregnant. Never skipped. What's going on?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 01:20:11 GMT)
I'm 27 years old and have never missed a period. I recently lost 22 pounds (I went from 148 to 126 in a few weeks). I began to diet in January of this year. I had a pap last year and everything was normal. My last period was January 12th and have not got it since. I have only missed when I got pregnant with my kids and have always been regular. I have the copper IUD and have had it since 2007. I have never had a problem with it. I feel like I'm going to get my period and like I have PMS symptoms. I just want to know if this is normal, or if anyone has ever gone through this. I took a pregnancy test and it came out negative. I have a doctors appointment Wed. but I just want my period believe it or not! Someone answer Please. I cant take the PMS symptoms they are driving me crazy...
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Resolved Question: Could I Be Pregnant and Tested Too Early???? HELP!?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 00:56:42 GMT)
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Am I really experiencing Pregnancy Symptoms?
So, my last period was Feb. 11th and I have about a 29 day cycle. I am usually pretty regular with my periods, as well.
The past week almost, I have not been feeling well at all. I have not had "morning sickness" to the point where I throw up, but I am queasy in the morning.
I have light cramping in the lower part of my abdomen, and I've noticed that the pain alternates sides. This pain also comes and goes, but I have such an uncomfortable feeling.
It hurts when I lay flat on my stomach (and I am a tummy sleeper!) and if I lay on my side, it hurts a bit.
And overall I am one crabby woman! I find myself snapping at people for the tiniest thing!
Of course I took a pregnancy test, but it was negative.
Do you think maybe I have tested too early?
Has this happened to anyone else?
Oh! Also one more thing to add..that I never had with my past two pregnancies.
I feel like my heart is fluttering. It skips a beat and feels like it is going to come out of my chest! It isn't often, but still something very strange.
I am a little out of breath too :(
So could I be pregnant and tested too early or just falling apart at the tender age of 27?
Guys, thanks so much. All very helpful answers. I did a First Response late this morning. Negative :( :(
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Voting Question: What should I do???? Week Calculation-how far along am I?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 17:43:56 GMT)
I had sex with this guy the 26th 27th 28th of february I took a home pregnancy text yesterday morning and it was positive. I was supposed to start my period around that weekend or a little after. So i've missed my period. How far along am I in my pregnancy, I've tried every kind of baby calculator and it always gives me a different answer or something I completely don't understand please help!!!!!I had un pretected sex like the weekend i was supposed to start my period. so the 26th of february. but i wasnt having sex with anyone after i had my period. which was around the beginning of februay i had sex with the same guy on the 18th of february unprotected
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Voting Question: Could these be pregnancy symptoms or something else?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 16:13:36 GMT)
These past couple of weeks my hormones have been going crazy and I am so confused as to whether or not I might be pregnant or if something else might be going on...
First of all, I had a Pap smear and exam last month and all is well so I know I don't have "female problems".
I have very regular, 29 day cycles and am pretty certain I ovulated on the 27th of February. For the past couple of weeks, I have been VERY emotional, tired, my breasts have been more sensitive off/on, have had headaches, tummy problems, and yesterday I had light brown spotting and more CM as well as light cramping (like I was about to start any minute) a full week before my period is due. As I have never spotted before prior to a period, I am much more curious. Now, please, serious answers only. Could this be pregnancy?
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Resolved Question: Now 12 days Late and still neg?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 12:28:31 GMT)
Ok so sent a question over when i was 7 days late asking for advice, now i am 12 days late with still negatives.
I went to the doctors which they told me that i am most likely pregnant and to do another test which i did. here is what has happened.
Me and my other half are trying to conceive but have the attitude it will happen when my body wants it to happen so we are not trying to get pregnant desperately. We had sex during my most fertile week which was the 11th feb until the 16th and we had sex every day during that week. I was supposed to be due on my period on the 27th 28th of feb 2010 (my cycles are 29 days and my last period started on the 31st of dec 2009) nothing happened. So i waited until i was 6 days late to do a pregnancy test and it was a bfn and it was the same at 10 days and again the same at 11 days. I went to the doctors when i was 9 days late and i told him of the symptoms i had which is: extreme tiredness waves of nausea mild cramps now and sorry guys but a lot of clear discharge. My boobs are not sore maybe a little swollen but they have quiet visible veins around them which they are normally not that visible. So he told me to do another test and at 10 days (which was the next morning) which i did and that came up negative. He also told me that some woman's HCG levels don't always show up but i thought he would at least say go and have a blood test done or do a urine test for me, I do have an thyroid problem which i am thyroxine for this has never messed with my periods but i am wondering whether any body has had a neg and then later on a had a positive because there hcg levels are low.
I am not stressted at all just want my body to have a period so i can get my cycles back on tack so i can be heallthy for when i do get pregnant.
I dont want any stupid answers just would like any advice from people who have been through this.
Thank you
Holly xxxx
thanks guys, its just annoying me now doctors dont seem to want to help may go to a family planning clinic instead to see what they have to say and see if i can get a blood test done.
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Resolved Question: what are my chances of being pregnant?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 11:40:20 GMT)
Ok so I'm 20 in case anyone is wondering if I'm too young to have a baby. anyways last month i started my period like February 20th i think. me and my boyfriend are trying to have a baby, we had unprotected sex starting from Feb. 27th through march 8th all straight days through except for one. and my time to ovulate was last week. and every time we had sex he cum in me and i had an orgasm every time, sometimes even 3 times during one day of sex and the other days its like 1 or 2 times. so does anyone think i could most likely be pregnant? we're hoping i am. but my period to start is around march 19th through the 23rd is when it most likely around the time i should start. so also another question could i take a pregnancy test this week even though its only been all last week that we had sex? please if anyone can answer my question and let me know I'd really appreciate it. thanks
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Resolved Question: Two days late and negative test...?
(Mon, 01 Mar 2010 23:47:32 GMT)
Is it possible to get a negative pregnancy test after being two days late? I've heard of some woman not getting a positive till a week or two after their missed period. I'm just wondering.
I'm never late. i have a 27 day cycle, every now and again a 28 day cycle, and today would be cycle day 28 and still no period. Should I just wait and see what happens and if still no period take a test?
This isn't a planned pregnancy or anything and yes, I do use protection. However, there was an incident that leads me to believe in the possibility of pregnancy.
Also I have had NO pms symptoms at all, except for two short instances of cramping on day 26 and 27 but today nothing.
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