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Open Question: I have a question about ultrasounds?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 02:20:43 GMT)
Ok so I am now 27 weeks pregnant. I just started the third trimester. I have only had 1 ultrasound which was at 7 weeks. From my impression you are suppose to get an ultrasound each trimester to check development. My doctor told me I would get my next one around 25 weeks and when I went in for my December appt he never scheduled me one. So yesterday when I went in for this months check up I had to ask him about it and he said that they normally don't do ultrasounds. Does that sound a little off? From everything I've read and friends that went through this they had one each trimester accept for one she had more since she was more high risk. I mean aren't they suppose to be checking to make sure the baby is developing properly? I am thinking he forgot about it and made an excuse to why he hasn't scheduled one because when I mentioned it he said they don't do them, but I can have one if I want it.
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Open Question: Pregnant and baby has down syndrome and hydrocephalus should she abort or keep the baby?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 02:09:21 GMT)
The person i know is 27 years old and 19 weeks pregnant she recently had amniotic fluid test and a ultrasound the doctor told her that baby has down syndrome and hydrocephalus. Now I've talked to her and she thinking about having an abortion. I know it's her choice. She told me members of her family say just leave it to god and let it be what it has to be....But does anyone one here have similar experiences or maybe words of encouragement that i can provide her with would help a lot. Thank you all in advance
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Open Question: Down Syndrom ?!?!?!??!?!??!?!?!?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:43:06 GMT)
Ok so my sister in law is prego 27 weeks , she didnt find out she was pregnant until she was 15 weeks or atleast that is what she says.... Anyways I know she drank during the time she was pregnant because i was with her but she denies she ever drank anything, she is 23 so I dunno why she would deny it and we all know she didnt know she was pregnant at the time. Anyway she got assistance to cover her but because of hurricane ike she had to wait for another month before being able to see a doctor THEN after that happened she had problems with the Insurance Company so now she is 27 weeks and FINALLY seeing a doctor , she was smart enough to start prenatal when she found out . Anyway she had her blood drawn when she was 17 weeks and the test came back positive that the baby could have down syndrom or spinal bifida but she is in denial , she keeps telling me NO the baby doesnt have that , the doctor started seeing her every 2 weeks , I went to the same doctor and he didnt start seeing me every 2 weeks until I was like 31 or 32 weeks so I found this odd. Anyone have any info about this test and what it could mean ?
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Open Question: someone help please me!!!!!!!!!?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:49:58 GMT)
okay i made a mistake i had sex with 2 boys and i am 28 weeks pregnant and dont know who the daddy...... i had sex with the first boy on june 11 12 13 and i had sex wit the second boy on june28 29 and july 4.. i had a regular period on june 21 it stop on june 27.. .i am due on march 28 till april 10...i took an pregnancy test on junes 18 and it was negative can anyone tell me which boy is my baby daddy the first or second boy..... PLEASE HELP ME OUT
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Open Question: Mommies and soon to be mommies, I could use some advice here..?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:47:37 GMT)
Ok so my last period was Nov 27, (I am actually kind of hoping to be pregnant but at the same time, hoping that I am not since its not really planned)..My period is usually 30-40 days apart, I had brown spotting 2 weeks ago for 3 days (implantation?)..I had cramps the other day and yesterday, but they werent as bad as period cramps but still no period?
Should I test today or wait until the end of the week?
And what are the chances of miscarrying again? I miscarried in June @ 10 weeks..
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Open Question: About Braxton Hicks contractions.?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 19:50:29 GMT)
I'm 27 weeks pregnant with baby number 2. With my first, I never experienced Braxton Hicks contractions at all, but with this one I get them ALL the time, several times a day. Is this ok? Can these false contractions actually bring on the real ones earlier? Is it more common to give birth earlier if you have a ton of Braxton Hicks?
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Open Question: My boyfriend cheating me. I know. What should I do...?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 19:50:28 GMT)
Hy. My name is Christie and I am 27 years old. I need really help so badly. So please if anybody have similar things happened or wants to give me advice then please write me hear back. Hear is my story.
I am originally from Germany and I left my county about 4 years ago and moved to America. After couple of months I met one cuy, who seemed so nice, kind, loving. I fell in love with him and our relationship started. He is moslem and born in Afganistan. He took me out, he spend money on me. Then I get pregnant. I did not want to have a baby so I made abortion. He said it is up to me but still let me do that.
Anyway time flyed, we had problems a little but we always solved everything untill last spring.
One day I called and called to him and he never picked up the phone. After 1 week I found out that he was arrested. I was shocked. Anyway he was in jail 3 months and then he was deported to his country. I still do not know what he was there but I have my thoughts that he was not legally in America. Anyway during this 3 months I found out about him things that broke my heart 100 different pieces and there was days when I thought I do not want to live anymore. Whay happened was that I talked one of his former best friend and he told me stuff about him. Horrible stuff. The fact he is been cheating me few times different girls, the fact he had 7 different online dating sites, the fact he told me he is american citizen and he was not, and many many more things.
I get to prove to that when I found out his email password and checked everything. And I do not need to tell you cuys what I found there...
When I told him about that all he started to deny everything and by now he do not still know I know his password, that is why I know everything.
He is telling me he loves me, he misses me, he wants to see me and live in germany with me.
I want to forgive him because I still love him but I am scared he is not changed. In fact I am sure he wants to sleep again with someone in his country. I think he is a having a sex addicsion. But he never admit that. I wanted to revenge him back every single thing he is been hurting me but I cannot. I love him.
Please what should I do...help me someone please...
Also my family never accept him because of he is a moslem. And I quess his family also wants him someone from afganistan.
thank you.
Christie
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Open Question: I am too impatient? advice/tips?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 19:05:57 GMT)
Ok so my last period was Nov 27, (I am actually kind of hoping to be pregnant but at the same time, hoping that I am not since its not really planned)..My period is usually 30-40 days apart, I had brown spotting 2 weeks ago (implantation?)..I also had cramps yesterday, but they werent as bad as period cramps..
Should I test today? or wait a little bit longer?
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Open Question: Late period, could i be pregnant? A bit confused, need some opinions..?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 18:43:45 GMT)
period has been coming every 22,23 days apart for the past couple months. before that it usually arrives 27 days apart. last i got pd was dec. 8, me and my boyfriend have been and were sexually active, unprotected, during my highest fertile days. i thought i would get my period 23 days apart again but nothing. so then i figured i would get it normally 27 days apart and still nothing. i took a hpt yesterday afternoon and it was negative. did i test too soon? i have most if not all preg symptoms(mostly, tired, hungry, cramping on and off for more than a week) To me, if my period is supposed to come it will come no matter how much i think about it, but nothing yet. has this ever happened to anyone? when do you think i should re test?
*also, i had sex last night for the first time in a couple days and it was a bit uncomfortable.(never experienced that) when i woke up and went to the bathroom i wiped faint pink(lasted for about an hour on and off), nothing on underwear though(if tmi, sorryy..) and it has gone away completely.
**Thanks in advance!!
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Open Question: Stomach muscle separation, did you have to quit your job?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 16:35:13 GMT)
my muscles have separated about 2in. and are continuing to separate. i was very small before, and i had nice abs. im 27 weeks pregnant now and they are completely apart!
i am a nanny for my job, and i lift a 5 mo old baby all day. it can be pain full sometimes. should i quit my job and do something easier like barista? i have a DR appt on wednesday about it, what should i expect?
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Open Question: Partner walked out 4 days before christmas, long story cut short and I need some opinions to help me x?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 16:07:25 GMT)
I got with my partner whan I was 18 and am now 27, throughout them 9 years lots happended like they do in relationships until I started training to become a counsellor and came to the realisation that my relationship was built upon control, mental abuse and constant upset.
Lots happend throughout, we have two beautiful children together and I have an older daughter that he took on as his own, she is my world, more so because I felt so guilty her Father was not around her and choose not to have contact with her.
Time passing, he had a number of affairs, treated me badly, made sure I had no friends and after losing our baby when I was pregnant he never let it go, he held that against me although I believed it was his way of grieving for or baby.
Last year through my counselling studies, it changed me so much, I was confident atthis stage and started to not allow him to remain I contol that obviously knocked his confidence of loss of control, his behaviour became worse but only towards me, whilst this was happening I put hings in place (getting ready for the ending of the realtionship) because I had lost any love I once had for him and had already left him in my own mind but remained in the relationship with a sense that the could be a possibility we could work together and get through all the hurt but it was more clear during this that he seen no problem and choose to get more angry.
It came to near christmas and he totally lost the plot to my oldest daughter, screaming he hated her (she had recently had contact with the man who was her bialogical father, although she was very excited she was also deeply upset because the truth was he was not intereted, yet I had to let her make her own mind up over him because she was often arguing with me over him).....I remained calm and asked him to think before he carried on screaming because my daughter was becoming very distressed by the way he was carrying on, very agressive!, I asked him to get his stuff and leave the house. The mental abuse throughout the years I was able to cope with but the past few weeks he had started on the children and I would not accept that at all.
He went mental and smashed thehouse up, turned the gas cooker on and screamed the children where not eduacated to respect him (he's muslim and has firm beliefs)....I was able to get him out of the house and I packed and went to stay with my Mother with the children over Christmas.
No way am I taking him back, my children come first thank you and plus the past few weeks have been so much better for me and the children, am working with the children now doing play therapy to help them talk about things becausethey witnessed his outburst and I fear that will have left an impact with them yt its very important they are able to express their emotions.
Today I recieved a call from him, he demanded he see's his son but I had came to the conclusion that it would be best if he did see the children it should be done under supervision because I am fully aware of what he can do and will do (half the part why I never left him) but he has again gone mad and has threatend me. Am I right to do this?, I believe I am because he will not admit he needs help with his anger.
Any opinions or help...feel free x
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Open Question: was AF visiting again, or something ells?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 14:40:56 GMT)
Okay here is the details here. I had a regular period December 2-7th then on the 27th I started with some brown spotting then 2 days of regular flow and then brown spotting again. WTF??? What is up with that (2) day period? I think it's weird. I've never had a period do that before. I dont want to test yet but if I got prego before this 2 day spree then I would be about 5 weeks along.
Someone please tell me what's up. I'm normally a 27-28 cycle girl and I've been TTC for almost a year now.
I"m about to give up all home to getting pregnant.
he he he I mean give up all hope* not home lol!
oh and I should mention that I do have a cyst on my left ovary that is about 3 1/2 centimeters long. I found this out about 2 months ago.
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Open Question: i'm a week late for my period,i took a pregnancy test it came out negative could i be pregnant?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 06:58:42 GMT)
ok i'm gonna start from my period from nov. it was a day late and it came on the 28th it finished on dec 2 it was very light and very short, which by the way is not my normal flow.prior to that i had unprotected sex on nov 27.now fast forward to dec.18 i had unprotected sex yet again(yes i know i shouldn't but i did)my period should have come on dec31 it never came its now a week late.i took a pregnancy test but that came out negative.my thing is i've been having pregnancy symptoms for the past two weeks such as tiredness peeing alot soreness of the breasts and mood swings.what i wanna know is am i making this all up in my head or did i test to early?or is my period changing?
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Open Question: Pregnancy Complications.?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 05:08:20 GMT)
My cousin is 27 weeks pregnant. She is due April 5th. She has been feeling a lot of fatigue and she is never hungry. She can eat at 8pm then not feel hungry again until 2pm the next day. When she went to her doctor he just told her she probably just had a bug and that it would get better. She has been feeling like this for the past month and a half or so. She doesn't get out of bed even when she is awake. She just lays there. It's normal for a pregnant woman to feel a little bit of fatigue but she has been acting like she has the flu. My aunt doesn't know what to do with her. They have been in and out of the emergency room, and the doctor just tells her it will get better. Any ideas of what it could be. Maybe if she had an idea of what it could be the doctor could run specific tests. It's not just her being lazy. There is something wrong.
My aunt told her it sounded like depression but she said she wasn't depressed. She said she just feels tired all of the time. My aunt also told her that she needed to eat more and my cousin said she couldn't force herself to eat. She can't even finish a bowl of noodles before feeling completely full. She has hardly been eating and the scale said that she has gained ten pounds in the last week. She is really irritable right now.
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Open Question: Do you think my due date could be wrong?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 01:09:47 GMT)
Ok, so i am supposed to be 27 weeks and 5 days pregnant, but when i went in for my doctors appointment today i was measuring at 31 weeks. I have had two ultra sounds, one at 8 weeks, and one at 20 weeks, and both went with the same due date. But, when i was only 25 weeks, i was having contractions and had to go to the hospital to stop them with a shot and a pill. Also, i recently started gaining weight very fast! Not anywhere but the stomach though. Before i got pregnant i only weighed 115, and now i have gained 35 lbs, 20 of it within the last month and a half. I have been tested for gestational diabetes and i dont have it. Also my only weight is in my stomach, everywhere else im still the same size except for my boobs. Now, the doctor wants me to get an ultra sound because i am measuring out to be 31 weeks. Does anyone think i could be having my baby earlier than expected. Also i have a family history of having preemies. My dad was born at 33 weeks, and I was born at 34. Even my sister was born at 35 weeks. So what do you think my chances are for having my baby early? And when should i expect her? Oh and also, my last period was in early May.
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Open Question: 27 weeks pregnant and bleeding lightly after sex.?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 23:58:02 GMT)
im 27 weeks pregnant and noticed pinkish blood after intercourse. it wasnt red red but more like pink. no cramping at all.my next doc appointment is on weds so ima wait it off. but has anyone experienced this?ive had a miscarriage before and i dont want to loose my baby girl.
thanx baby on board thats what i was thinking also cus i blead when i got the pelvic exam and it looks similar just that its a little bit more but same color.and only when i wipe
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Open Question: what do I do, about this killing upper back pain?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 19:53:45 GMT)
I'm 27 weeks pregnant, my back on the upper right side in this one spot is killing me, only when I sit up or stand I know your prob going to say is lay down but I have to work, I can't, what should I do?
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Open Question: normal weight gain to this point?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 18:52:52 GMT)
i know that health weight gain varies from woman to woman for each pregnancy, but im concerned with my gain.
Probably because I just gained 15 pounds with my entire first pregnancy, I was hoping for the same.
im currently 32 1/2 weeks pregnant. Prepregnancy weight was normal. Ive gained a total of about 27 pounds to this point. It feels like too much. I feel like a whale and that it will never come off. Being scheduled for a c section at 39 weeks, i have a little over 6 weeks to go.
Granted the last two weeks of holidays didnt help when it comes to packing on an extra 4 pounds this time.
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Open Question: i will be 27 weeks pregnant wednesday and i'm having these weird cramps that wake me up.?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 13:18:59 GMT)
it feels like its in my lower back kinda and its like gas cramps but it sends my body into shock and its hard to catch my breath. it does it mostly when i lay down. i've had bad gas cramps before, but i've never felt this. when it hits me, i can't move or it will hurt even worse. it kind of reminds me of a colic, like my intestines are contracting. what is this and should i be concerned?
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Open Question: 6 weeks since last period. 3 days ago, I started to lightly spot?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 09:02:13 GMT)
over 6 weeks since normal period and 3 days ago I started to lightly spot. At first, it was very light watery pink in color and I only saw it WHEN I WIPED. The second day it turned more tan colored and the texture was a bit thicker. Keep in mind, it was NOT any heavier. Today, it stopped, and the last of it this morning seemed more gooey more elastic and still tan in color. The discoloration stopped earlier today. Now its back to normal discharge. So three days total.
Today is January 4th 2009, my last period was November 22nd. I had unprotected sex Dec 3rd. He did not ejaculate inside of me. I have been off birthcontrol for 10 months now.
Last note I will say, I went to see a gynecologist over a week ago,(AROUND 1 week late for my period) and was examined and there were no abnormalities such as cysts or anything. I never took a pregnancy test because during the exam, the doctor told me, i physically, didn't look pregnant at the time. And was told, I would get my period within the week. Instead i got VERRRy light spotting.
I have never spotted in my life, i am 27 years old. This is why it worries me. I have no other symptoms of pregnancy other than sensitive and slightly sore nipples, which is a bit unusual. No stress, no diet change, nothing new.
What do you guys think? I couldnt find much online about 6 weeks without period and light brown/pink spotting.
Implantation bleeding normally takes place between the 2nd and 4th week after conception?... So it be too late for this spotting to be that right???
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Resolved Question: Hmm very confused pls help?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 08:16:18 GMT)
Ok ladies never thought I would ask this one but here goes.On October 23rd I had a extremely heavy and painful period.Then November 20 I had spotting for 3 days and only used maybe 6 tampons just so I would not mess myself.Then in December my period came on the 24th but it was more spotting and lasted 3 day same thing used 6 tampons.I normally have heavy flows.I took a pregnancy test on the 24th it first said positive then second line evaporated in a matter of mins and went negative.What is going on??I had this happen with my first born and did not realize I was pregnant until I was 14 weeks along.But with my 2nd I missed my period been trying for a 3rd and now this weird thing happens for 3 months.My friend said menopause but I am only 27 another said miscarriage but I have had 2 before and it was not like this.My boobs are sore on and off my tummy is growing larger and I am hungry and tired all the time.
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Voting Question: over 6 weeks since normal period and just received 3 days of very light spotting.?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 07:09:48 GMT)
over 6 weeks since normal period and 3 days ago I started to lightly spot. At first, it was very light watery pink in color and I only saw it when I whiped. The second day it turned more tan colored and the texture was a bit thicker. Keep in mind, it was not any heavier. Today, it stopped and the last of it this morning seemed more gooey, more elastic and tan in color.
Today is January 4th 2009, my last period was November 22nd. I had unprotected sex Dec 3rd. He did not ejaculate inside of me. I have been off birthcontrol for 10 months now.
Last note I will say, I went to see a gynecologist over a week ago,(AROUND 1 week late for my period) and was examined and there were no abnormalities such as cysts or anything. I never took a pregnancy test because during the exam, the doctor told me, i physically, didn't look pregnant at the time. And was told, I would get my period within the week. Instead i got VERRRy light spotting.
I have never spotted in my life, i am 27 years old. This is why it worries me. I have no other symptoms of pregnancy other than sensitive and slightly sore nipples, which is a bit unusual.
What do you guys think? I couldnt find much online about 6 weeks without period and light brown/pink spotting.
this couldn't be implantation bleeding right on account of the time frame i received the spotting? What do you think this sounds like?
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Resolved Question: stomach muscles messed up? 26 weeks?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 05:23:42 GMT)
my abdominal muscles have separated recently, i am almost 27 weeks pregnant and they began separating around 19 weeks, its just getting worse and worse.
what are some things i can do about this?
if i lie on my back then slowly sit up you can see about a 2 inch gap between my muscles where my guts poke through!
i am a nanny and i have to pick up small children daily. its hard to put my shoes on and bend over
i heard that 1 in 5 pregnant woman get this?
well from what i have read if your abdominal muscles have separated more then normal like mine have, they dont just return magically to normal.. can this cause a hernia?
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Open Question: was wondering about plan b?
(Sun, 04 Jan 2009 22:19:24 GMT)
i already had my period during the week of christmas holidays and the last day of my period... me and my boyfriend had sex and the condom broke..i took plan b on dec 27 2008 and got a period on Jan 4 2009... is that normal? i already had a period on Dec 23rd til dec 27 and had sex on the 27th...
was wondering if this means i am pregnant?
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Open Question: trying to conceive and unsure of ovulation?
(Sun, 04 Jan 2009 21:57:47 GMT)
I had sent a question in last week wondering if i could be pregnant. My husband and i had unprotected sex on 12/18. that eve i started my period (lighter than usual and it was already late) . We tried again on 12/22 and 12/24. On 12/27 i had cramping in my left ovary. On the 28th I started to spot and this lasted for about 5 days on and off. Only two days there was actual dark red blood. I took a test today and it is neg., but is it too early to tell since my last cycle was irregular? How do you tell when you are ovulating if your cycles tend to be irregular half the time?? Sorry a lot of info, but I'm getting fed up. Just want a baby...
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Open Question: Need to know what you would do?
(Sun, 04 Jan 2009 15:22:10 GMT)
I am 27 weeks pregnant with my second baby. I have a 1 year old and my husband is in the military. He is in a different state right now and won't get back until the end of March and I am due April 5th. I live 4 hours from family and friends and I am scared that I may have the baby before he gets back. I dont know anyone where I live. I am just wonder what you guys would do in this situation. I am debating on staying with family until he returns. Any advice would help. Thanks.
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Open Question: Possible Ovarian Cysts...Could This Cause False Positives?
(Sun, 04 Jan 2009 10:03:11 GMT)
Would ovarian cysts give me positives on two clearblue +/- tests one week and then the next week give me a negative on an early Answer test the next week.
Cuz like my period is 8 days late and before I go into the clinic I need to know what could be wrong first so I know what questions to ask. I'm not cramping or bleeding or anything. My sister had 3 miscarriages and she always had severe cramping (she was in tears) as a sign that something was wrong. The bleeding wouldn't start until days after the cramps.
My last period was 11/27/08 and I'm on 28-30 day cycle. I had unprotected sex December 7 so I think there's a chance I might be pregnant, but I'm not sure now.
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Open Question: breast feed versus bottle (formula feed)... help..?
(Sun, 04 Jan 2009 08:46:56 GMT)
hello, another question for the ladies..
i am 27 weeks pregnant and confused if i should breast feed or bottle feed. i have 3 ppl close to me, 2 of which formula feed, and my cousin who breast feeds..
now my cousin who breast feeds is wlways complaining about sore breasts, cracked nipples and even bleeding nipples, the constant embarrassment of milk leaking and staining her clothing etc.. so she switched to formula after just 3 weeks. i know they say breast is best but for the first few weeks of all the babies borths, the mothers who formula fed seemed to enjoy it more..
just asking some opinions here, should i breast feed? or should i formula feed? keeping in mind that my husband and i are planning to travel to thailand when the baby is 10 months old or so..
thanks
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Open Question: first time mommy worries..?
(Sun, 04 Jan 2009 05:40:19 GMT)
I just found out I am pregnant on the 22nd of Dec. I had a blood test done on the 23rd and my HCG was only 15. I also had an ultrasound but there was no evidence of gestation. My doctor said HCG was too low and Im probably not pregnant. Had more tests done:
Dec 26- 73
Dec 27- 132
Dec 29- 351
I cant recall when my last period was in Nov. was but I know its somewhere between the 17th-21st. My last recorded sure menstrual period was Oct 21. Because I dont know when my last period was they cant tell me how far along I am in the pregnancy.
I just had an ultrasound done yesterday Jan.2.. which showed an empty gestational sac. Im worried that its empty. Is it too soon? They told me to come back in 2 weeks.
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Resolved Question: (LADIES PLZ HELP)What do I do?
(Sun, 04 Jan 2009 03:28:29 GMT)
I met this girl at work back in 2004. We were both coming off long term relationships, her 8 yrs 2 kids me 6 yrs one kid. Her dude was abusive and hit her, he's on probation and everything for that. Me my ex is just a slut, we had our daughter, not planned tried to make it work, separated then during the separation she says she's pregnant and mine, I'm like WTF I was nowhere around we split, even though I was supporting all of them she did the child support thing and only the daughter was mine, now the courts ordered me to give her less then what I was giving her to begin with. I didn't like the fact she lied trying to salvage our relationship saying the other kid was mine, I couldn't trust her made the hardest decision ever to move leave my daughter and just pay Child support which I do.
That brings me to meeting this chick, getting over my trust issues I ask her out for some drinks and pool, 1st date we clicked and got steady. I've made tons of sacrifices for this girl, supported her kids and her myself and my child back home, put her through pharmacy tech school, books, gas etc. did her kid's X-mas all the time, But working 60hrs a week I guess I couldn't be there quite as much, and she cheated moved out, and then this new dude pushed her or something who does she come back to. Me b/c I treat her right. I was crushed when she left the first time,she was my world everything I did or thought I included her. She acted like she felt the same way the love you shit blah blah blah, May of this year she moves out again now it seems she calls when she wants shit and I always run to her beckonning call, but now I'm getting sick of it. I'm losing if not lost feelings for her, I never thought that would be possible, is it for the best? The question relates to this: She just called me having car problems, and instead of me going babe, where are you, I'll be right there I'm like, what do you want me to do? Push your car with my truck, (I work on cars on the side) I didn't offer to fix her car. You know I'm thinking to myself why she's out running around sl utt ing it up, why don't her new men take care of her, why she running to me with financial issues etc. When it's cold at her mom's where does she want to bring herself and kids. HERE! should I cut that shit out! I know she's sleeping around she's admitted it, but I once viewed her kids as my own, which seemed to bother her.? By the way I'm white she's hispanic, and I don't think she appreciates anything I do for her.
Where are the good woman with values. She's 27. Like I said she just called am I wrong for not running to her aid?
She has a cell phone, And Triple AAA<<
Both of these answers are very good, and good advice, I can't decide a best answer b/c they both are really good. I think it'd be uncool to say ones better than the other, so i'm putting this question to vote.
Thank YOU Both for answering!!!!!!
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Open Question: Whats going on with my body?
(Sun, 04 Jan 2009 02:54:35 GMT)
I'm 33 and have no idea whats going on...I had sex on 11/13 (a condom was used) and through my online reasearch found out I was ovulating on that day as well. 2 weeks later (11/27) I got my period. This period was different. The flow was different than my normal periods also my normal periods last 6 days with the 6th day being very light or spotting but this period lasted 7 days. Well through out my period and after it ended I kept having pregnancy like symptoms. I would get slight nausea and sometimes in the middle of eating or I would smell my food I would feel sick and have to stop eating. My breast would hurt, my back and sides would hurt (sometimes my sides felt like they were pulling) and my hips would hurt. I kept feeling like I was getting my period but it had already ended. Also my gums bleed when I brush my teeth and I have blue veins across the top of my breast as well as down my sides, My nipples looked bigger. At work in the middle of the day I'm falling asleep at my desk. Also I'm not a veggie eater at all but I for whatever reason wanted to taste this pineapple glazed sweet potato and liked it. I took a HPT and it said neg. Well during this time I went to the doctors for my yearly check up (12/11) and told the Dr about my symptoms. She did a pregnancy test there and again neg. Next day did blood test also neg. but found out that test measures the same levels as the urine so of course it would match since they were only a day apart. Pap test and STD test all came back fine. An ultrasound was scheduled cause during my exam my pelvic area was tender to touch. The night before the U/S appt (12/30 around 10pm) I got my period. It was suppose to come on 12/28. Had the U/S and with a quick glance said she didn't see baby. If I was pregnant I would of been 6 weeks and 6 days from the conception date so I'm sure they would of seen something if I was. After the quick glance for the baby she went back looking at my ovaries and stuff. She said everything looked good but would get the final results next week. Now back to this period that I just got the night before the U/S. This period is lighter than normal. Right now (1/3) its so light it looks like its about to end and it usually last for 6 days and I just got it on 12/30. Any idea on whats going on with me???
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Open Question: 27 weeks and menstrual like cramps?
(Sun, 04 Jan 2009 00:38:19 GMT)
I am 27 weeks pregnant with my 2nd, I am having Menstrual Like cramps and have been for the past 2 or so hrs, is this normal? I feel as if my period were on the way. I am also pretty wet (sorry tmi), and my back hurts. Today I have been lightheaded and iI also have indegestion. is this normal or should I call my doc?
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Resolved Question: My period was supposed to come 1-2 days ago but it didn't and I'm getting worried.am i pregnant ?!?
(Sat, 03 Jan 2009 19:42:38 GMT)
my period ended on December 4.and normally i have a 27-28 day cycle,so its regular pretty much.my period was supposed to come around December 31 but it didn't !i had protected sex about 2-3 weeks ago.my boyfriend and i used a condom,and there were no holes or splits and we checked over and over.I'm worrying so much as if I'm pregnant or not and I'm stressing over this.i need answers as to why my period isn't coming ! :(
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Open Question: I'm 27 weeks pregnant with our 2nd child, I love to wear eyeshadows and ever since I got pregnant I can't wear?
(Sat, 03 Jan 2009 17:52:24 GMT)
it. My eyes get all red, swollen and itchy. It really bothers that I can't even wear it on special occassions. Does anyone know if this will clear up after the baby is born?
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Resolved Question: Baby Name Game, Copied from others, but still fun!?
(Sat, 03 Jan 2009 17:26:57 GMT)
Here's my version; please don't critique, I am bored and this took me like an hour to make. :)
1. You are just turned 20 years old, still in college, when you find out you are pregnant with your companion, Ian, of 2 years. Do you (1)keep the baby and try to continue college, or (2)have an abortion and for sure complete college? If answered 1, go to #2, if 2, go to #3.
2. You want to get married before you give birth, and Ian asks your hand in marriage. You accept, and get married on September 5th. You continue taking your college courses, but your belly is getting bigger, and you give birth to a pale, dark-haired, fragile little boy on the 20th of December. What do you name him? (go to #4)
3. You have the abortion, and Ian stays by your side. He wanted to have the baby, but understood your dreams of finishing college. He asks to be engaged, and you accept. (go to #5)
4. Now that you are married and have a son, life is getting hectic. Ian is now looking for a job. You want to move out of Ian's apartment, and he agrees, saying a cute little home would be nice for a small family. Everything is running smoothly, and you gladly finish college and have a bachelors degree at the age of 21.
5. Ian finishes college, but you know you are on the right track. He lands a job working at an insurance company, which promises good life insurance. You are still engaged, and you turn 21. It has been months since the abortion, when you find out you are pregnant again. Ian wants a baby desperately, and you agree to continue with the pregnancy as long as you could finish college. (#7)
6. Ian gets a job at an insurance company, and you are very proud of him. He gets a loan from the bank and you buy a new house, a bigger house, and you start decorating it. Your baby boy is now 2 years old, you being 22, and you find out that you are pregnant. Throughout the hard pregnancy, Ian stays by your side, and on August 30, you give birth to a boy and girl set of twins. The girl has brown hair and blue eyes, but the boy has brown hair and golden eyes. What do you name them? (#8)
7. You give birth to triplets, two boys and a girl. Ian is overjoyed, and you can see it in his eyes. What do you name them? (#9)
8. Your house is full of noise and racket, and Ian seems to be gone longer than usual. Your anniversary comes around, and he surprises you with a three-day getaway to Cancun. You are excited and leave on September 15, with your mother and father staying home to take care of the children. It was only for three days, but you enjoyed it more than ever and come back home to your healthy, happy children. (#10)
9. You finish college, and you are extremely excited that you can now stay home. a year goes by, and you realize that you are pregnant once again. You give birth to quadruplets, three boys and a girl. The girl has brown hair and green eyes, and the boys have blonde hair and green eyes. You want them all to have 'royal' middle names. What do you name them? (#11)
10. You are 24 now, with three children- two boys and a girl. You want more children, and Ian agrees, but you decide to wait. You once baby boy is now finishing pre-school, and your twins are bouncing toddlers, climbing everywhere. You wait until your oldest son is in first grade, and your twins in kindergarten, and you give birth to two more children, a boy when you are 27, and a girl when you are 28. Ian is happy and content, and you think that you are through with having children. Go to #12 if you are done, or #13 if you want to continue.
11. You love Ian, and he wants more and more children- but you are happy. Your house is loud and noisy, but Ian keeps on mentioning it. You have an unexpected pregnancy and give birth to a baby girl, just a week before your birthday. You want her middle name to be a month name, and what do you name her? (#13)
12. You are finished having children, but Ian wants just one more. You somehow get pregnant one, final time, when you are 30, and give birth to a baby boy. Your boy is in third grade, your twins in first, your other boy in kindergarten, and your other girl in pre-school, and this new addition to the family is celebrated by all around. (#14)
13. You continue with Ian, and have two more children. What are their names?
They are one boy and a girl, and by the time you are 35, you have an 8th-grade boy, 6th-grade twins, a 5th-grade boy, a 4th-grade girl, a second-grade boy, and a first-grade girl. (#15)
13. When you are 45, all of your kids are in college. You and Ian are for sure done having kids, and settle down in a little house in Indiana where you have lots of time to spend outdoors. You get news that your boys in your set of triplets are asking for hand in marriage, your daughter had accepted already. Your daughter has a baby, and names it after you with the middle name of a season. What is the baby's name?
14. You turn 45, and your first son has graduated college. Your twins are graduating
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Open Question: Am i pregnant? please help x?
(Sat, 03 Jan 2009 15:53:19 GMT)
Last september i took the morning after pill twice in 1 week because i had been so stupid (i was having a bad week) and ive had periods since but its become really irregular i used to come on every 28 days now i come on every like 24,27 days ya know? i was last on the 8th december and its been 28days now and ive been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend. So should i do a test? il choose the best answers please help im really worried and my boyfriend wont like the idea of me being pregnant xxx
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Open Question: Chances of successful pregnancy after 1 miscarriage?
(Sat, 03 Jan 2009 13:28:12 GMT)
I recently had a missed miscarriage. Found out at my 12 week scan that my baby had died at 7 weeks 2 days. I'm just wondering, what are the chances of this happening to me again? I'm 27. When me and my husband were trying to conceive, I was still smoking and drinking which I gave up as soon as i found out I was pregnant. Know I should have stopped before but that's in the past. This time, as soon as my bleeding stops from my ERPC, we are going to try again, this time with no drinking or smoking while trying.
Please no negative comments. I know I should look after myself while trying to conceive and I've learned from this.
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Open Question: Is this normal in a second pregnancy?
(Sat, 03 Jan 2009 06:12:59 GMT)
I'm 27 weeks pregnant with my second child, and all day today I have been having these really sharp pains in my pelvic bones. Like when I walk and sit down. I can't remember ever having this with my daughter. Is this normal or something that I should call my doctor about on Monday?
Thanks for reading!
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Voting Question: I messed up BIG time.....please help!!!!?
(Fri, 02 Jan 2009 23:49:23 GMT)
My boyfriend of a little over a year just broke up with me and it is completely my fault. He actually proposed to me on Christmas and I said yes. However, for the last couple weeks I have been having what feels like pregnancy symptoms. When I told him he laughed at me because I am on birth control and take it faithfully for the most part (I may not take it until late evening but I've never skipped a day). I decided to take a pregnancy test anyway and it came up negative. The symptoms dropped off for the most part but my body still feels like something is wrong. I just recently got my health insurance through my employer which prevented me from going to the doctor, but have every intention of going now, especially if I don't get my period next week. Every time I bring up these feelings he gets angry and tells me I'm fine and nothing is wrong with me. Well the final straw was three days ago when I told him I had a surprise for him but I wanted to wait until New Year's Eve at midnight. He told me to go ahead and tell him, and I told him I thought I was pregnant. Naturally he got outraged and demanded that I take another test in front of him as soon as I got home from work. For some reason I told him that the test I had taken a few weeks ago was positive, which it wasn't. The new test turned up negative, which prompted him to fly off the handle and tell me that he was sick of my lies and that we were over. The thing is I have never lied to him (with the exception of little white lies of course) in the entire time we've been together and I've been nothing but caring and faithful to him. I don't even know why I told him such a weird lie (maybe my biological clock is ticking--I am 27 after all!!) but I told him that I would do whatever it took to regain his trust. What makes this matter even worse is that we live together, so he has pretty much been ignoring me and treating me bad since it happened. I guess my question is IS there anything I can do to try to save our relationship? My boyfriend is very stubborn and pig-headed, but we have broken up for a few days here in there in our time together and he's always the one who comes running back to me first. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks for reading......:)
He actually does have a one year-old daughter from a previous relationship (LOOOOONG story) who he doesn't get to see very often, so he does love kids and would like to have a family someday.
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Resolved Question: Is it safe for me to play paintball? Or too dangerous?
(Fri, 02 Jan 2009 22:17:30 GMT)
I want to know if I would be okay, or is it a bad idea to play paintball, If I am pregnant I would only be a few weeks along, my last period was Nov 27, My period is 30-40 days apart so I am due for my period in a couple days but, theres a chance that I am pregnant, I had spotted last week for 3 days...
Would running around in 28 degree weather and getting shot at with a paintball gun be dangerous if I am, like if I were to get shot in the stomach?
My friends know something is up, I didnt drink on New Years and I havent been smoking..Should I just say that I am sick and cannot play?
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Voting Question: I am 27 weeks pregnant and i constantly have a cold or a viral infection? ?
(Fri, 02 Jan 2009 18:16:54 GMT)
Do i need to see a g.p as i am always so drained and in need of a lot of sleep.
Thank you so much
Joanna x
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Voting Question: Ovulating late, does it mean you wont get pregnant?
(Fri, 02 Jan 2009 18:06:45 GMT)
My first son was conceived by clomid last year, and he turns 1 years old January 8th! Yay! As crazy as it is, we've been TTC again ever SINCE he was born. We probably didn't really get serious about it till he was about 6 months old. My periods were I guess pretty regular, between 27-29 days. I've been so stressed out about it lately, since we've had no positive pregnancy tests these past 6 months. My cycles started to get longer, and I never got a positive OPK test. My last 2 cycles were 31, then 35 days. I purchased the Clear blue Easy Fertility Monitor and received my first high status on CD 12, then received a POSITIVE OPK test on CD 18 (Baby Danced) , and 2 days of PEAK Fertility Status on the monitor starting on CD 19 (Bany Danced) and CD 20 (Baby Danced). Today is CD 21 , I am back to high fertility status with the fertility monitor. I had lots of CM this past week, and slight cramping on my left side on the day I got the first positive OPK.
After baby dancing, I elevate my hips for at least an hour, before even moving or getting up, just to make sure all those swimmers get where they need to. I've even fallen ASLEEP all night like that!
Because you ovulate late, does that mean the egg quality isn't good, and probably won't concieve?
Stress doesn't help I'm sure, but its so HARD not to. When everyone you know, seems to get pregnant with no problem.
Any insight would be greatly appreciated.
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Open Question: 27 weeks pregnant with a heart condition called Bicuspid Aortic Valve...?
(Fri, 02 Jan 2009 17:53:37 GMT)
im 27 weeks pregnant and when i do something that seems strenuous such as walking up the stairs, my heart seems to skip a beat. It doesn't always happen. but it seems to happen more frequently. Now, I do have a heart condition called a Bicuspid Aortic Valve, which The normal aortic valve has 3 equal-sized leaflets or cusps with 3 lines of coarctation. A congenitally bicuspid aortic valve has 2 functional leaflets. Is all this normal? and with this condition and being pregnant, is it ok?
i planned on seeing a doctor at my next appoinment in a couple days, i was just wondering if someone knows anything about this kind of stuff or if someone has experience, thank you for you opinions and concerns though
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Voting Question: What?! I'm 6 days late on my period and this has never happened before! (I'll gladly give 10 pts~ HELP?
(Fri, 02 Jan 2009 08:03:07 GMT)
I'm 26 and happily married but I am scared on why I haven't started my period this month. This happened one time when I was in high school and I skipped a month when I was 14 and that was the only time it happened. I have taken 2 pregnancy tests after my missed period and all came up negative. And yes, I do keep close track on my periods. Me and my husband did have unprotected sex on Christmas eve thinking we would be ok since I was supposed to start on the 26th. (I ALWAYS get my periods every 26-27 days.)
I have an ovarian cyst on my left ovary but it is small and rarely causes me any discomfort. I found that out at the doctors and she said there is nothing to be worried about with my cyst.
I did, however, start a new medicine a couple of weeks ago. Its called Symbyax and its a mood stabilizer and the pharmacist said it shouldn't cause my period to be late.
So could I be pregnant even though my pregnancy test is negative and I took it after my missed period? I'm wondering if it was a long cycle for whatever reason and we had sex when I could have gotten pregnant. It shouldn't be the medicine and I hear ovarian cysts don't alter your periods, expecially in my case having a small functional cyst. My friend scared me last night when she said it could be endometriosis since she had it but my mother is an RN and said I would be in a lot of pain if I had that and to stop worrying.
I guess I will call the doc tomorrow since I never skip my period. But I'm really wondering if I can be pregnant.. I missed my period 6 days already, I'm hungry, tired and I pee a lot! I'm not under any stress, just the usual work and live life.
If we are pregnant, then it would be a blessing. I'm just scared on the fact that I haven't started--I took a test after my missed period---and it's negative. I'm wondering if it is something serious because I really want to have kids!
PLEASE help me with any experiences and outcomes and I will gladly give 10 pts to the most helpful answer. I'll call the doc tomorrow but I'm curious what you have to say until I can call in the morning.
Thank you and happy new year!
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Voting Question: 27 weeks pregnant and feeling pressure..?
(Fri, 02 Jan 2009 04:53:16 GMT)
So like when im walking and stuff and laying down and move my legs up i feel a slight pres |