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Open Question: Has anyone gotten negative results beyond 6 weeks and found out later they were pregnant?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:35:13 GMT)
I am 2 weeks late for my period and I am not on birth control and I have regular periods. My last lmp was Jan 23 and I am 14 days late. I have sore breasts and light cramping. I took 4 pregnancy test, from digital to first response to ept and they have been negative. My question is.....Has anyone took up to 6 weeks or beyond to get a positive result? Not on b/c or obsessing over having a baby. I am 32 so lets keep it adult ladies. No trolls please.....
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Open Question: just wondering if anyone else has heard of these new pregnancy weight gain standards?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:00:21 GMT)
im 32 weeks pregnant and about 120 lbs. im 5 feet tall and my pre pregnancy weight was 100 lbs which by the time i give birth will put me waayyy over this new limit lol. just want opnions on if this new chart is healthy or not. thanks :)
http://www.fitpregnancy.com/yourpregnancy/food_nutrition/too-much-mama-40722647.html?page=2
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Open Question: 3rd Trimester questions about weight gain & other "fun" stuff :)?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 18:40:47 GMT)
HI ladies! I am 32 weeks pregnant with my 1st baby! Due May 2nd! This pregnancy has been really good to me meaning no sickness or pains really! Our son is measuring 3 weeks big but they are keeping my due date b/c it was confirmed at a 7 week ultrasound. At 28 weeks he was already 3lbs 11oz. I have another 1 this Friday to see how much he weighs!
So Lately I have been feeling really tired! I work 8-5 & about 2 everday I hit a wall & get so tired! I guess thats normal though! I have minor swelling in my ankles but nothing a stranger would really even notice. I feel fat & had a question about weight.....how much did you gain by month 8th? Im up to almost 35lbs already! I know I dont eat as healthy as I should but I do try to do cardio at least 3 days a week (usually only for 30 mins) just walking or the elyptical. I started at 135 & was just under 170 at my last appt. I keep reading post where women only gained like 20 by now and I am wondering if I am the only one who put on 35!!
Also I have been getting these sharp pains in my breasts....not all the time maybe a few times a day...is this normal? They already went up 2 sizes!
1 last thing.....I feel like I have to go to the bathroom all the time! I do drink alot of water (I crave it!!) & i was checked for a UTI & dont have 1. Dr. said its b/c the baby is squishing the bladder so only a little bit can make it feel full! Any1 else have this??
Just wondering if these things I'm going though are normal & if anything 1 else has them!! Hope ur pregnancy is going well :)
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Open Question: Wife won't accept son comes before her??
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 18:26:32 GMT)
We've been married since October, she has an 18yr old son and I ahve a 19yr old. We discovered she was pregnant jsut before the wedding and I was happy as my ex wife wouldn't have more kids with me.
Her son went to live with her parents as he used to hit her (he was later diagnosed with depression due to his father trying to kill him and my wife). My son was going to live with me until he finishes his course this May then move to his mums (we have a tiny 2bed house).
Because my son goes to college part time and its not a degree or higher education I get tax credits & child benefit for him. As he's only just turned 19 I found I can keep getting them if he decides to do an extra year. So for financial reasons I want him to stay with me, also the fact that he is my only family & I adore him. My wife suggested we get a bigger house but I said no to start with - because theres not enough room I thought it best she move out and we live together when my son decides to leave home. My wife was unhappy so I said I may consider a 3bed - but now she says no as it means I will claim the tax credit and child benefit for the baby. Due to the fact that I willl get more for my son (he's the first child) I told her she'd have to make up the difference to match how much I get for my son out of her money.
My wife wants us to be a family but I can't as my first responsibility is to my son - he could go to his mums but he is my only family and I don't want to upset him.
I'm going on holiday on my own when my wife will be 32 weeks pregnant (I need to go and lie on a beach and get away from everything as I'm depressed). My wife said it'd be over if I went but I think she was angry.
Obviously my son is looking forward to having the house to himself when I'm away and having friends around. I hope my wifes house is ready then, or she can stay with family. She feels that this is teaching my son to disrespect her. She thinks that if I'm going on holiday alone, and turf her out then he will know that she isn't a permanent fixture and has no rights. I don't see it this way. I'm prepared now to look for a 3bed house but my wife has now said that she won't live with my son if she is turfed out while I go on holiday and because she doesn't want our child to grow up with our child seeing that she comes below my son. This is ridiculous - my son is my life and I've only been with her for a short time - I can't put her first.
How do I get her to see that he is my priority?????
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Open Question: My son comes first and she won't see it?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 18:21:51 GMT)
We've been married since October, she has an 18yr old son and I ahve a 19yr old. We discovered she was pregnant jsut before the wedding and I was happy as my ex wife wouldn't have more kids with me.
Her son went to live with her parents as he used to hit her (he was later diagnosed with depression due to his father trying to kill him and my wife). My son was going to live with me until he finishes his course this May then move to his mums (we have a tiny 2bed house).
Because my son goes to college part time and its not a degree or higher education I get tax credits & child benefit for him. As he's only just turned 19 I found I can keep getting them if he decides to do an extra year. So for financial reasons I want him to stay with me, also the fact that he is my only family & I adore him. My wife suggested we get a bigger house but I said no to start with - because theres not enough room I thought it best she move out and we live together when my son decides to leave home. My wife was unhappy so I said I may consider a 3bed - but now she says no as it means I will claim the tax credit and child benefit for the baby. Due to the fact that I willl get more for my son (he's the first child) I told her she'd have to make up the difference to match how much I get for my son out of her money.
My wife wants us to be a family but I can't as my first responsibility is to my son - he could go to his mums but he is my only family and I don't want to upset him.
I'm going on holiday on my own when my wife will be 32 weeks pregnant (I need to go and lie on a beach and get away from everything as I'm depressed). My wife said it'd be over if I went but I think she was angry.
Obviously my son is looking forward to having the house to himself when I'm away and having friends around. I hope my wifes house is ready then, or she can stay with family. She feels that this is teaching my son to disrespect her. She thinks that if I'm going on holiday alone, and turf her out then he will know that she isn't a permanent fixture and has no rights. I don't see it this way. I'm prepared now to look for a 3bed house but my wife has now said that she won't live with my son if she is turfed out while I go on holiday and because she doesn't want our child to grow up with our child seeing that she comes below my son. This is ridiculous - my son is my life and I've only been with her for a short time - I can't put her first.
How do I get her to see that he is my priority?????
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Open Question: My son is my life???????
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 18:19:52 GMT)
We've been married since October, she has an 18yr old son and I ahve a 19yr old. We discovered she was pregnant jsut before the wedding and I was happy as my ex wife wouldn't have more kids with me.
Her son went to live with her parents as he used to hit her (he was later diagnosed with depression due to his father trying to kill him and my wife). My son was going to live with me until he finishes his course this May then move to his mums (we have a tiny 2bed house).
Because my son goes to college part time and its not a degree or higher education I get tax credits & child benefit for him. As he's only just turned 19 I found I can keep getting them if he decides to do an extra year. So for financial reasons I want him to stay with me, also the fact that he is my only family & I adore him. My wife suggested we get a bigger house but I said no to start with - because theres not enough room I thought it best she move out and we live together when my son decides to leave home. My wife was unhappy so I said I may consider a 3bed - but now she says no as it means I will claim the tax credit and child benefit for the baby. Due to the fact that I willl get more for my son (he's the first child) I told her she'd have to make up the difference to match how much I get for my son out of her money.
My wife wants us to be a family but I can't as my first responsibility is to my son - he could go to his mums but he is my only family and I don't want to upset him.
I'm going on holiday on my own when my wife will be 32 weeks pregnant (I need to go and lie on a beach and get away from everything as I'm depressed). My wife said it'd be over if I went but I think she was angry.
Obviously my son is looking forward to having the house to himself when I'm away and having friends around. I hope my wifes house is ready then, or she can stay with family. She feels that this is teaching my son to disrespect her. She thinks that if I'm going on holiday alone, and turf her out then he will know that she isn't a permanent fixture and has no rights. I don't see it this way. I'm prepared now to look for a 3bed house but my wife has now said that she won't live with my son if she is turfed out while I go on holiday and because she doesn't want our child to grow up with our child seeing that she comes below my son. This is ridiculous - my son is my life and I've only been with her for a short time - I can't put her first.
How do I get her to see that he is my priority?????
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Open Question: 32 weeks pregnant.. normal to be afraid if something wrong with baby when born?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 18:15:56 GMT)
I will be a first time mom. I'm 32 weeks pregnant. Is it normal to be nervous or afraid if my baby will turn out funny or werid looking? I know ultrasounds can only do soo much. But is it normal to think "what if my baby will turn out funny looking or born with one eye or born deaf or born with the werid lip or nose or born with something on his face?" . I guess i've been TV.. but I have that fear and i just want a normal healthy baby., I'm afraid he will be born unhealthy or with 6 fingers. is this normal thinking at all?
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Open Question: ALERT.!! can I be pregnant.!!!!!?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 16:19:54 GMT)
my last period was january 29,2010 now it is march 10 i normally come on every 32-35 days i have never missed a period. usaully about a week or two before i come on i feel my symptoms which includes sore breast. i have not felt any symptoms thus far. i took a home pt on the 7th which came out negative. this is really weird and different so idk what to think.can i be pregnant? i really dont have much to stress about and my eating habits are the same so i doubted if that caused my missed period.!! i need advice. thanks
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Open Question: Did my water break or did I pee myself?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 16:11:15 GMT)
I am 32 weeks pregnant. I have been having braxton hicks a lot the last couple of weeks and at my 31 week check up the doctor told me that her head was in the birth canal. About 15 minutes ago, I walked up the stairs and all of a sudden my pants were wet. It didnt feel like I was peeing, there was no color or smell to it really and it just happened out of nowhere. I am waiting for my doctors office to open as they only work half days on Wednesdays and Fridays, so they are not open for another hour. In the meantime, what do you guys think, did I just pee myself or should I be concerned? I dont think I am leaking now but I am laying down and going to get up after a half an hour, my doctor once told me upon doing so I would probably feel another gush if it is my fluids. I am just getting nervous. Since that happened I have been getting severe hot flashes and tightening, like braxton hicks.
Thanks for any advice, hope I was clear enough I am just nervous!! Would it definately keep flowing if it was my waters? OR would it just soak my pants once and be over? WIth my daughter the doctor broke my water once I was already in labor...
Thanks everyone for your advice... I did have to pee just a few minutes (5) after it happened so I think it was my water. I am going to go get checked!
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Open Question: Repost: Gestational Diabetes?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 14:24:48 GMT)
I was diagnosed with Gestational Diabetes at 32 weeks 2 days pregnant. I am not to worried about it, I instantly adjusted my diet according to diabetic guidelines, started to walk a lot more and got a glucose monitor to keep an eye on my blood sugar levels. I also started to take my blood pressure everyday and monitor my sodium intake because of the increased risk for preeclampsia.
I am wondering if there are any other Mommy's on here who have had Gestational Diabetes and could answer a couple things for me?
What did you do to keep it in check? Did the doctor schedule your for a c-section/induction and at how many weeks? How big was your little one? Is there any other information/tips you can give me for keeping my son healthy for the next few weeks?
Thanks!
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Open Question: My wife doesn't want to live with my son??
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 13:22:06 GMT)
We've been married since October, she has an 18yr old son and I ahve a 19yr old. We discovered she was pregnant jsut before the wedding and I was happy as my ex wife wouldn't have more kids with me.
Her son went to live with her parents as he used to hit her (he was later diagnosed with depression due to his father trying to kill him and my wife). My son was going to live with me until he finishes his course this May then move to his mums (we have a tiny 2bed house).
Because my son goes to college part time and its not a degree or higher education I get tax credits & child benefit for him. As he's only just turned 19 I found I can keep getting them if he decides to do an extra year. So for financial reasons I want him to stay with me, also the fact that he is my only family & I adore him. My wife suggested we get a bigger house but I said no to start with - because theres not enough room I thought it best she move out and we live together when my son decides to leave home. My wife was unhappy so I said I may consider a 3bed - but now she says no as it means I will claim the tax credit and child benefit for the baby. Due to the fact that I willl get more for my son (he's the first child) I told her she'd have to make up the difference to match how much I get for my son out of her money.
My wife wants us to be a family but I can't as my first responsibility is to my son - he could go to his mums but he is my only family and I don't want to upset him.
I'm going on holiday on my own when my wife will be 32 weeks pregnant (I need to go and lie on a beach and get away from everything as I'm depressed). My wife said it'd be over if I went but I think she was angry.
Obviously my son is looking forward to having the house to himself when I'm away and having friends around. I hope my wifes house is ready then, or she can stay with family. She feels that this is teaching my son to disrespect her. She thinks that if I'm going on holiday alone, and turf her out then he will know that she isn't a permanent fixture and has no rights. I don't see it this way. I'm prepared now to look for a 3bed house but my wife has now said that she won't live with my son if she is turfed out while I go on holiday and because she doesn't want our child to grow up with our child seeing that she comes below my son. This is ridiculous - my son is my life and I've only been with her for a short time - I can't put her first.
How do I get her to see that he is my priority?????
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Open Question: Short of breath weird feeling 32 weeks pregnant ?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 09:50:33 GMT)
hi for the last few days I have been getting this weird feeling just under my breast and feel short of breath does anyone else have this or know what it is and know what i can do to help it ??????? p.s baby has droped so i dont think its where she sitting
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Open Question: Pregnant or not ???? Please help!?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 02:28:21 GMT)
My cycles are always 31-32 day. My fiancee and I have been ttc but not stressing about it for the past three months.My last period was January23. I had very light, I mean pale pink spotting when I wiped on february 21. I only saw it when I wiped then nothing else for that day. On the 23 of Feb. one barely there brown spot......and that has been it. I am a very heavy bleeder so this is very not like me. My breasts are sore as if my period is coming for the past week and a half, and when me and fiancee were doing the do when I reached climax I had cramps as though I was about to start my period........but.......nothing. I have taken several hpt's and they have been negative. I am two weeks late. I also have been urinating more frequently too. could I be pregnant?? Or is it signs of something else? Fyi I am not on birth control or obsessing over having a baby.
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Open Question: Gestational Diabetes?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 02:09:10 GMT)
I was diagnosed with Gestational Diabetes at 32 weeks 2 days pregnant. I am not to worried about it, I instantly adjusted my diet according to diabetic guidelines, started to walk a lot more and got a glucose monitor to keep an eye on my blood sugar levels. I also started to take my blood pressure everyday and monitor my sodium intake because of the increased risk for preeclampsia.
I am wondering if there are any other Mommy's on here who have had Gestational Diabetes and could answer a couple things for me?
What did you do to keep it in check? Did the doctor schedule your for a c-section/induction and at how many weeks? How big was your little one? Is there any other information/tips you can give me for keeping my son healthy for the next few weeks?
Thanks!
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Open Question: what's the best product to use for stretchmarks?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 01:32:06 GMT)
i'm 32 weeks pregnant and have a lot of stretch marks on my hips and thighs, what is the best product to use to minimize stretch marks?
(please don't respond with cocoa butter, recent studies have shown that cocoa butter is not effect to reduce scaring.) thanks.
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Open Question: Do you think I am pregnant?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 01:28:35 GMT)
My cycles are always 31-32 day. My fiancee and I have been ttc but not stressing about it for the past three months.My last period was January23. I had very light, I mean pale pink spotting when I wiped on february 21. I only saw it when I wiped then nothing else for that day. On the 23 of Feb. one barely there brown spot......and that has been it. I am a very heavy bleeder so this is very not like me. My breasts are sore as if my period is coming for the past week and a half, and when me and fiancee were doing the do when I reached climax I had cramps as though I was about to start my period........but.......nothing. I have taken several hpt's and they have been negative. I am two weeks late. I also have been urinating more frequently too. could I be pregnant?? Or is it signs of something else? Fyi I am not on birth control or obsessing over having a baby.
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Open Question: Don't know what it is :(?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 01:04:40 GMT)
I'm 32 weeks pregnant but my legs just below my knees near my ankles really hurt. Is that normal? I don't know if they swollen but they feel it!! what you think it is? and what should i do?
The thing is i haven't gained much weight i still am the size everywhere but i just look fat on my belly :(
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Open Question: I am 32 weeks pregnant and brought my employer FMLA papers...?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 23:55:17 GMT)
The dr had written i cannot lift more than 50lbs while pregnant. My employer then told me i would have to start my FMLA leave the following day...can they do that? I wanted to work for another 2 weeks, i dont lift 50 lbs regularly and if i needed to i could get help? pls help should u get a lawyer?
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Open Question: Where is my period? Could I be pregnant?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 23:49:48 GMT)
My cycles are always 31-32 day. My fiancee and I have been ttc but not stressing about it for the past three months.My last period was January23. I had very light, I mean pale pink spotting when I wiped on february 21. I only saw it when I wiped then nothing else for that day. On the 23 of Feb. one barely there brown spot......and that has been it. I am a very heavy bleeder so this is very not like me. My breasts are sore as if my period is coming for the past week and a half, and when me and fiancee were doing the do when I reached climax I had cramps as though I was about to start my period........but.......nothing. I have taken several hpt's and they have been negative. I am two weeks late. I also have been urinating more frequently too. could I be pregnant?? Or is it signs of something else? Fyi I am not on birth control or obsessing over having a baby.
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Open Question: Could I be pregnant or is it something else?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 21:49:33 GMT)
Ok so tell me what you think.....My cycles are always 31-32 day. My fiancee and I have been ttc for the past three months.My last period was January23. I had very light, I mean pale pink spotting when I wiped on february 21. I only saw it when I wiped then nothing else for that day. On the 23 of Feb. one barely there brown spot......and that has been it. I am a very heavy bleeder so this is very not like me. My breasts are sore as if my period is coming for the past week and a half, and when me and fiancee were doing the do when I reached climax I had cramps as though I was about to start my period........but.......nothing. I have taken several hpt's and they have been negative. I am two weeks late.Could I be pregnant? Or is it signs of something else? Fyi I am not on birth control or obsessing over having a baby.
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Open Question: Which of these names goes best with Alyssa and Hayden?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 20:04:48 GMT)
I am 32 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child, but I don’t know the gender of it. I have 2 kids’ named Alyssa Violet and Hayden Lucas. We have decided that if the baby is a boy his middle name will be James, and if it’s a girl her middle name will be a flower name (tradition on hubby’s side), but it will depend on what first name we choose.
My husband and I have made a list of the boys and girls names that we like. So what ones do you like the best?
Brody James
Riley James
Dylan James
Mason James
Zachary “Zack” James
Rowan James
Owen James
Taylor James
Jacob James
Samuel James
Charlotte Rose
Sophia Lily
Natalie Rose
Sabrina Lily
Abigail Rose
Michaela Rose
Imogen Lily
Georgia Lily
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Open Question: How long does it take to get positive pregnancy test? Any advice?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 18:48:57 GMT)
Ok so tell me what you think.....My cycles are always 31-32 day. My fiancee and I have been ttc for the past three months.My last period was January23. I had very light, I mean pale pink spotting when I wiped on february 21. I only saw it when I wiped then nothing else for that day. On the 23 of Feb. one barely there brown spot......and that has been it. I am a very heavy bleeder so this is very not like me. My breasts are sore as if my period is coming for the past week and a half, and when me and fiancee were doing the do when I reached climax I had cramps as though I was about to start my period........but.......nothing. I have taken several hpt's and they have been negative. I am two weeks late.Could I be pregnant? Or is it signs of something else?
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Open Question: unlucky to have pushchair at home when pregnant ?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 18:30:28 GMT)
i am 32 weeks pregnant and have my pushchair already. who believes this is bad luck ?
selina dont post spam on my question! and jenny what are you going on about !!!!!
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Open Question: Two weeks no period? Can I be pregnant?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 16:54:44 GMT)
Ok so tell me what you think.....My cycles are always 31-32 day. My fiancee and I have been ttc forthe past three months.My last period was January 23.I had very light,I mean pale pink spotting whenI wiped on february 21.I only saw it when I wiped then nothing else for that day. Onthe 23 of Feb. one barely there brown spot......and that has been it.I am a very heavy bleeder so this is very not like me. My breasts are sore as if my periodis coming forthe past week and a half, and when me and fiancee were doing the do when I reached climax I had cramps as though I was about to start my period........but.......nothing.I have taken severa l hpt's andthey have been negative.I am two weeks late.Could I bepregnant? Orisit signs of something else?
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Open Question: What is going on??? Am I pregnant?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 12:42:50 GMT)
Ok so tell me what you think.....My cycles are always 31-32 day. My fiancee and I have been ttc for the past three months.My last period was January23. I had very light, I mean pale pink spotting when I wiped on february 21. I only saw it when I wiped then nothing else for that day. On the 23 of Feb. one barely there brown spot......and that has been it. I am a very heavy bleeder so this is very not like me. My breasts are sore as if my period is coming for the past week and a half, and when me and fiancee were doing the do when I reached climax I had cramps as though I was about to start my period........but.......nothing. I have taken several hpt's and they have been negative. I am two weeks late.Could I be pregnant? Or is it signs of something else?
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Open Question: How often should I have sex with my 32-year old wife to get her pregnant?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 12:20:48 GMT)
I'm 25 and she's 32, so there's a little bit of an age difference (should it matter?!). She came off the pill in July just before we got married and we've been trying for a baby ever since. We have sex three times a week in the morning--usually in the missionary position. Are we doing that right? Any other tips would be much appreciated.
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Open Question: Sixth nerve palsy & pregnant?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 01:47:17 GMT)
I started having double vision about 2 weeks ago. My OB immediately hospitalized me because my blood pressure was sky high & he feared pre-eclampsia. Labs came back normal & he referred me to an opthomalogist who diagnosed sixth nerve palsy. I have had bloodwork, an MRI & they have ruled out diabetes. All is normal. I am now working with a Maternal fetal physician who called me her "project" & I am seeing a neurologist tommorrow. I am seeing 4 doctors now & not one knows when or if my vision will come back or if the 2 issues are even related. They have me on blood pressure meds & are monitoring me twice a week. I am 32 weeks & MFP says she probably won't let me go past 37.
I was just wondering if anyone has heard of this & when the vision problem resolved. Most think when my BP is under control it will come back but no one has that much experience with it.
Also, unfortunately they won't release me to go back to work & I don't have disability through them. Are there any other financial compensation options anyone is aware of?
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Resolved Question: 32 weeks, retaining water in face?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 19:09:26 GMT)
I'm 32 weeks pregnant and I've only gained 20lbs so far... but my face looks so fat! Is this normal to retain water in your face? I'm sure I am in other areas as well but I deff. see it in my face, I hate getting pictures taken because of it. I am also getting married in 4 weeks and I'm scared I am going to hate all my wedding pictures because how fat my face looks!! Ugh... is anyone else retaining water in their face?
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Open Question: is labor close? what do you think?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 16:30:44 GMT)
Hey!
I'm 36wks pregnant, 2cm dilated & 75% effaced ( as of last wk ).
I'm at high risk for preterm labor, have been since I was 32 wks, so I can go anytime now. However I would like the baby to stay and bake as long as possible. So please NO LECTURES on that. I know what is good & safe for my baby.
My question is though however. I know no one can tell me when i'm going to acturally have this baby. But for the last few days i've been having different symtoms I never had in my pregnancy. Example: My white thick discharge has turned into complete water like discharge, ( I already told my doctor, she said I was fine ), I'm not regular at all in bowel movements ( sry tmi ) I normally only go about once or twice a week. But for the past few days I go 1 or 2 times a day ( but not diarhea ). Over the last few days, I've been loosing my mucus plug. But this morning I think I finally lost all of it, it was a big chunk with a little blood in it. My stomache has been cramping, but not contractions. And I have a dull lower back ache. Not really painful at all, just more tensed I guess to say. For the last few weeks ive been feeling drained, but I was up this morning at 6 cleaning. Does this sound like labor is really close?
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Resolved Question: 32 weeks pregnant and had enough HELP?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 13:49:53 GMT)
okay so im on baby number 3 and am in pain constantly i have had clear discharge for weeks and weeks now have had it tested and it all come back fine but it has a werid odor sorry and has me worried I get pains in my belly and in my back on and off daily and if i sit on the ground i get a major shooting pain in my back that brings me to tears :( i have pressure in my genital region that is really bad feels like she gonna push out why i am walking and when i go shopping get a severe stich pain also my stomach is that big it is hard as a rock and feels like its gonna split open what can i do I want her out already please help
I am not saying I am gonna get her out or whatever you may be thinking I know its not good for her I am just saying what can I do to try and ease the pain as its not good for me to be in discomfort etc and stress as i am not really getting any sleep as that is not good for her either so if you are gonna be rude dont answer
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Open Question: If I have another section?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 08:41:51 GMT)
I had a section 2 years ago with my darling daughter now i'm 28 weeks pregnant again. I hated every bit of the section (it was emergency section) and for about the past 5 weeks all i've been thinking (and worrying) about is having to have another. I really want a vaginal delivery.i have been walking and am gona try raspberry leaf tea from 32 weeks. Any more tips? I know already if i have to have section i will feel like a failure and that i cant even deliver a baby. :(
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Open Question: 1st pregnancy test came out neg. When to take the next test?
(Sun, 07 Mar 2010 17:02:01 GMT)
Okay. My last period was January 27 and it finished around the 31st. I haven't had my period as of yet (March 7). My cycle is usually 30-32 days long. I feel as if I may be a week late. I took a pregnancy test on March 5th. It came out negative. I was wondering when I should retest? Or if I should? I would love to be pregnant but I'm scared that I'm missing my period for another reason. Do you think I should retest? and how soon should I take another test? Thanks.
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Open Question: Boy or a Girl? 16 weeks pregnant.?
(Sun, 07 Mar 2010 16:52:40 GMT)
Hi there,
I'm 16 weeks pregnant now - and have my next scan in 32 days to find out the sex.. i know its an old wives tale about knowing the heartbeat rate and determining what it is from that but i just wondered what people think and the results they got from theirs?
I brought a fetal heart doppler so i can hear it whenever i want to - and it ALWAYS comes in at 146/147/148 .. without fail its one of those EVERY time!
Just wondered if anyone has any ideas as i'm desperate to know :). I've a feeling its a boy but the babys father is determined its a girl lol.
Sianee xx
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Open Question: 32 and a half weeks pregnant - constant urge to pee...?
(Sun, 07 Mar 2010 14:18:50 GMT)
I am 32 and half weeks and for the past 12 hours I've had a constant urge to pee. By constant I mean, I feel like I'm holding it the entire time. There is no relaxing that muscle for fear of leaking. I've been to the bathroom 5-6 times and sometimes I void a lot, and other times it's just a few drops.
I don't have any other symptoms of a UTI so i don't think that's it - could the baby just be finding comfort in putting this much pressure on my bladder?
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Resolved Question: How can I put up with staying here, whenI spend every day crying?
(Sun, 07 Mar 2010 10:31:45 GMT)
I've asked about my husband before; but have decided to leave him... at the moment I cannot as mhy house is not fit to live in, and my parents (who I planned to stay with) have nowhere at the moment.
Basically we have been married for four months. I am pregnant (we didn't know when we planned the wedding, but he was overjoyed as he wanted another child). My husband's 19yr old son lives with us, mine with my parents.
He recently announced that he wanted to go to Spain - alone - to buy tobacco, when I'll be 32 weeks pregnant; I objected. Then he told me that instead he is going to Gran Canaria for a longer amount of time, because he likes it (having been there with exes). I asked (begged/pleaded in tears) for him not to go - to wait till the baby is born and old enough & for us to go together. He said he cannot wait that long as he is depressed, he said he likes it there and when he comes back he will be happy. He is going alone - I told him that I have no idea who or what he'll be doing - he told me he wouldn't be looking to do that as he loves me... but why should I trust him when he insists on going somewhere *alledgedly* alone - and as a single man (what girl he meets would believe he is married & holidaying alone?). I haven't go my passport yet, & he wanted to go in February (my b/day) for a holiday & says its my fault that he's going as i was too selfish not to have got a passport.
I gave him the ultimatum that if he went we would be over - he said he doesn't want us to be over, yet he needs to go - therefore its me who is ending the relationship - & I should understand his point.
He also wants us to live apart once the baby is born - his house is too small, and he wants to be here half the week to cook and clean for his son so he doesn't feel abandoned (this kid is old enough to be at uni for crying out loud)! I did suggest a 3bed house my hubby refused - now he wants one, and I'm no longer prepared to live with his son after it was dismissed when I suggested it - besides he told his dad he's fed up with me being here which is why my hubby wants me to live elsewhere.
He's horrible to me in other ways.. my back is bad, & I have trouble sleeping with the pain. My husband comes to bed after 2am & wakes me up. Then he shouts at me if I try to get comfy again, which results in me going downstairs & not sleeping - yet he gets up after 1pm (he doesn't work). I've also got loose pelvic joints which makes walking agony (back & pelvis related to pregnancy), yet he tells me that I'm putting it on & should walk everywhere. I'm 40 & worried about him leaving me. But he says nothing will go wrong & he's fed up with me being negative.
I have to stay till I've somewhere else to go. He keeps cuddling me & telling me how much he loves me (since he booked his holiday). He keeps making plans for us, and wants to be there when the baby is born... he doesn't seem to realise I feel betrayed by him.. he promised he'd never go after he went abroad alone before the wedding...
How can I make staying here bearable? And is it my hormones that are making me blow this out of proportion (as he says)?
I'm specifically answering how I can make life here bearable until I can leave?
Oops asking even!
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Open Question: Negative test. Is it accurate?
(Sun, 07 Mar 2010 07:48:41 GMT)
My periods tend to be a little irregular. My last three periods were 37, 36, and 32 days so they seemed to be getting back on track.
My last period was January 28th. I have had cramps like I am about to start my period any second for a week now. I usually have horrible pms and I haven't had any. My boobs aren't even sore at all and they usually hurt really bad.
I should have started either March 1st or March 4th. I know you should use first morning urine but I couldn't wait so I took a pregnancy test a few minutes ago. I got a BFN.
Should I assume the test was accurate? I am late by at least a few days. I have been under some stress though, and I started a new diet in which I'm trying to gain weight and take in more calories.
I held my pee for about 4-5 hours but it looked a little diluted. It was more of a pale yellow. I haven't had too many liquids....I had half of a Dr. Pepper and that's all I've had for the last several hours.
The last time I was pregnant I had a positive test a few days after my missed period and I took it in the afternoon. It was a really dark line, too. So am I probably not pregnant?
I'm on CD 39 as of right now. I'm beginning to feel really discouraged.
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Open Question: Okay so I need Help!!!!!!!!?
(Sun, 07 Mar 2010 00:24:37 GMT)
Okay i already had one baby on the 9th of October of 2009 and im recently 15 weeks and 2 days pregnant again.What im wondering is,Is it normal to wonder if its really okay to be having another baby when your new born baby is only 4months almost 5 months old and never had the chance to really know what it feels like to have mommy and daddy too them self.Or if its okay to be a centimeter dialated already and only being this far along the only reason im wondering is because with my first baby i didnt dialate intil i was 32 weeks and on my last appointment which was the 4th of this month the doctor checked me for some reason and said that i was 1cm dialated and they couldnt come up with an answer why or if that is okay or not...So please someone HELP ME!!!Just very worried...
My first child was a boy and his dad is in the picture lol...just figured id put that in there so that no one was scared to put the dad in it lol...
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Open Question: 32 weeks pregnant cant stop being sick?
(Sat, 06 Mar 2010 22:31:30 GMT)
i am 33 weeks tommorrow and for the last few days i just cant stop feeling sick and being sick everytime i eat is this normal?
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Resolved Question: Would any men do this?
(Sat, 06 Mar 2010 20:43:00 GMT)
How many of you men would be happy to leave your wife of less than a year to go on a beach holiday, alone, while she is 32 weeks pregnant? This does not include essential trips for business, but when a husband decides to vacation alone.
How many men would do this? And does it make a difference if he says he needs to go as he is low and only a beach holiday will cure it, and he'll be happy and loving when he returns?
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Resolved Question: Would you let your husband do this?
(Sat, 06 Mar 2010 19:50:53 GMT)
How many of you women would be happy for your husband of less than a year to go on a beach holiday, alone, while you are 32 weeks pregnant? This does not include essential trips for business, but when a husband decides to vacation alone.
How many men would do this?
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Voting Question: Momma guppy pregnant or not?
(Sat, 06 Mar 2010 14:48:17 GMT)
About 3 weeks ago i bought 1 fancy male guppy and 2 female guppies. after 1 day some how one of the female guppies jumped out of my tank. now i have 32 gallon tropical community tank with a lid there is only 2 very smal holes mabey the size of a quarter and the water is at least 5 inces down so it was almost impossible but she didi it and now shes gone. after a few days the male died aswell but this time i have no idea how. first i noticed he was not even swimming and then i noticed his face looked sort of burned as if i poured some kind of chemical or something. so yea now hes gone. 2 weeks later i bought another male to join my remaining female . now i have no idea if shes pregnant or not i think shes a bit bigger then before. her gravid spot is visable but she is half black so its incredable hard to see it. also she is very active swmming top and middle shes eating normaly. but im pretty sure her and the first male guppy mated so i think she is already pregnant. what are the signs i should look out for ? how will i know when to put her in to the breeder trap? also how long to guppies live for ? thanks
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Voting Question: Should I lose my virginity to the craigslist girl?
(Sat, 06 Mar 2010 05:00:33 GMT)
I have asked a lot of questions on here about my virginity but here is another one. I am a 30 year old male virgin. I turn 31 next month. Im not a virgin because I was looking for someone special I am a virgin because I failed every time I tried to talk to any girl.
In fact in Detroit in the area Im from people lose their virginity very young. In my 8th grade class 3 girls in my home room class were pregnant. I wanted to lose my virginity before then. I was a virgin for so long because of a number of reasons.
I didnt know how to read girls signs, I had no confidence, I always gave them a lot of compliments but said nothing but bad things about myself, I didnt know how I was supposed to talk to them, and I always thought I would fail before I even opened my mouth so I did fail when I opened my mouth.
I did a lot of other bad things too but I dont want to make this too long. I found out all of these things a few years ago. Sadly by the time I found out I had gained a bunch of weight. I started feeling like maybe it was too late to get in the game and maybe my life is over.
Lately I started working on losing my weight and building my confidence and I tried to practice talking to women I dont know but I feel extremely nervous because I feel like they can see I was a virgin like it is stamped on my head.
I decided to put an ad on craigslist to lose my virginity. At first I got nothing but fake replies wanting me to join websites but after 32 fake replies I got a real one asking if I still wanted to do it. I replied and sent my picture of me right now overweight and all.
I thought she would never respond but she did and said I was good looking. I saw her picture and she is cute, she said she gained weight since the pic but I cant be mad at that at all. She said she is going to drive an hour to get to me and she is willing to split the hotel room cost.
I was worried that she may be trying to rob me or something but after talking to her she knows I dont have much money and I cant spot any hustle in what she is saying. She says she want to talk and get to know me first and I said fine because I would like to get to know her too.
We of course would use a condom and she is 7 years older than me. It seems like we are on the same page with everything. She says traveling is no problem because she drives a lot in her job. I still cant believe any girl would even think about doing something with me but I guess this is real.
Im setting something up this upcoming week. Should I do this? Im so use to be a virgin and seeing it as the source of all my pain that I dont know how I will even see the world the same after this. The weird thing is she was the last response I got to my ad. No more fake replies since then.
Im real nervous because I have never even felt a breast before. The biggest thing I ever did was french kissed and the last time I did that was 12 years ago.
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Voting Question: Should I have sex with the craigslist girl? Please read it all before you answer?
(Sat, 06 Mar 2010 04:47:13 GMT)
I have asked a lot of questions on here about my virginity but here is another one. I am a 30 year old male virgin. I turn 31 next month. Im not a virgin because I was looking for someone special I am a virgin because I failed every time I tried to talk to any girl.
In fact in Detroit in the area Im from people lose their virginity very young. In my 8th grade class 3 girls in my home room class were pregnant. I wanted to lose my virginity before then. I was a virgin for so long because of a number of reasons.
I didnt know how to read girls signs, I had no confidence, I always gave them a lot of compliments but said nothing but bad things about myself, I didnt know how I was supposed to talk to them, and I always thought I would fail before I even opened my mouth so I did fail when I opened my mouth.
I did a lot of other bad things too but I dont want to make this too long. I found out all of these things a few years ago. Sadly by the time I found out I had gained a bunch of weight. I started feeling like maybe it was too late to get in the game and maybe my life is over.
Lately I started working on losing my weight and building my confidence and I tried to practice talking to women I dont know but I feel extremely nervous because I feel like they can see I was a virgin like it is stamped on my head.
I decided to put an ad on craigslist to lose my virginity. At first I got nothing but fake replies wanting me to join websites but after 32 fake replies I got a real one asking if I still wanted to do it. I replied and sent my picture of me right now overweight and all.
I thought she would never respond but she did and said I was good looking. I saw her picture and she is cute, she said she gained weight since the pic but I cant be mad at that at all. She said she is going to drive an hour to get to me and she is willing to split the hotel room cost.
I was worried that she may be trying to rob me or something but after talking to her she knows I dont have much money and I cant spot any hustle in what she is saying. She says she want to talk and get to know me first and I said fine because I would like to get to know her too.
We of course would use a condom and she is 7 years older than me. It seems like we are on the same page with everything. She says traveling is no problem because she drives a lot in her job. I still cant believe any girl would even think about doing something with me but I guess this is real.
Im setting something up this upcoming week. Should I do this? Im so use to be a virgin and seeing it as the source of all my pain that I dont know how I will even see the world the same after this. The weird thing is she was the last response I got to my ad. No more fake replies since then.
Im real nervous because I have never even felt a breast before. The biggest thing I ever did was french kissed and the last time I did that was 12 years ago.
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Resolved Question: i am 32 weeks pregnant?
(Sat, 06 Mar 2010 03:14:38 GMT)
i am 32 weeks pregnant and my left hip and lower back is killin me and my vagina is very sore. should i be concerned?
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Voting Question: important,,32 wks pregnant,how do you time contractions?
(Sat, 06 Mar 2010 02:29:11 GMT)
i am 32 weeks pregnant and have been having some pretty hard contractions this evening. i am trying to time them because my doctor told me that if they got to be about 10 min apart consecutively i needed to get to the hospital. how do i time them to see if that is how they are coming. is it from beginning of one to the beginning of the next, or is it from the end of one to the start of another? i'm not sure if they are close enough for me to be concerned?
lol,, this isn't my 1st one, it's my 3rd. but with my 1st one i was induced and never felt the 1st one before i got to the hospital and with my 2nd, my water broke but i never had the 1st contraction until several hours after i got to the hospital. and with neither did i ever have false contractions like i have been having with this lil fella.. i used that timer though, and they are very irregular, and none have been any less then 15 min apart so i think i'm alright for now.. thanks everyone though.
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Voting Question: just a few things ill be 35 weeks when they have to do the exam. thanks for ur advice n help?
(Fri, 05 Mar 2010 23:35:32 GMT)
Hello, I am 32 weeks pregnant. I will be 33 weeks pregnant on Tuesday. My doctor told me today at my doctor appointment that my next appointment will be my last 2 week appointment and that starting from March 19th she will begin to see me every week. She also told me that when i go in to see her which ill be 35 weeks they need to do a vaginal exam or something like that. What are they checking for. I am 17 years old and petite. Will it hurt i mean i have gotten an exam before because i was having pre-term labor that they had to stop twice now. At 35 weeks can you begin to dilate.
ALSO I HAVE BEGIN TO WADDLE A LITTLE AND IT LOOKS LIKE HE HAS DROPPED. could it be. ALSO last thursday i was having a lot of pressssure above my vagina but no contractions so did he drop.
please answer and no rude comments thanks
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Voting Question: Am i over reacting...?
(Fri, 05 Mar 2010 22:49:57 GMT)
i am currently 1 day shy of 32 weeks pregnant.this is our 3rd baby.My husband was very excited the first two times even though they werent planned and was very caring and loving.he always wanted a 3rd baby even though i didnt but i finally gave-in to his wishes and we started trying. i got pregnant within 10 days of trying last yr in feb but it sadly ended in a miscarriage/D&C which was devastating for both of us...well luckily 3 months after that,i got pregnant again...but this entire pregnancy,he has been very indifferent and when i brought it up with him,he completely denied it and well...i guess kinda tries to show his interest although it looks kind of fake...but whats bothering me are his "jokes". like a couple of weeks back,i mentioned to him how i was so scared of dying during childbirth,he just laughed and didnt say anything...then we were invited to this party and i told him to r.s.v.p. because i was just not feeling well and he goes "you're pregnant!! its not like your dying!!" i was SO mad at him and he kept apologizing saying that he was joking!!!! then yesterday i was having some chest pains because my heart was beating so fast,so i sat down and was checking my pulse and he walks-in and says " has your pulse stopped?" and then laughs!! i was again very upset and he simply says that he was joking and that i am so crazy to over react like this!!! AM i over reacting??? i just feel so hurt to see that it doesnt matter to him if i live or die??
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Voting Question: i have a ghost in my apt?
(Fri, 05 Mar 2010 22:13:37 GMT)
I just moved into this nice apt.. and ive been here for a week now.. by the 3rd night here i saw a org med hair cat walk past me in the living room. my hubby didnt see it at all. one night i was sleeping and i kept hearing something walking the living room nothing was there but i could tell it only had two feet. i was taken a shower and i put my soap where the water wont hit it and it cant fall at all, i turned around to get the soap off of me and the soap hit me. i looked back and nothing was there. i know its a person it has to be but i havnt seen him or her ive only seen the cat!.. what is going on. why cant any1 else see them but me. i belivie in god. ive been seeing ghost since i couldnt even talk. i see the cat at least 2 or 3 times a day.. doesnt matter if its dark or light outside ill see it. and for some reason are room is the coldest room in the apt. im also 32 weeks pregnant. i donno what it wants but i really dont want to find out.. i dont feel scared when it near i just feel like im being watched. but i dont like being lefted here by myself too..
some people say ghost arent real.. or they r all evil. i know for a fact they r real. and not every one of them is evil. ive seen the evil one face to face and i never want to see them again.. i just dont trust this ghost cuz it wont show me its self yet but i feel and hear it everywhere.. and i see its org cat everywhere.. no1 else see them or hears them but me who comes here!.. some1 please help me that understand and belivies where im coming from
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Resolved Question: Nervous about hospital's care for my son?
(Fri, 05 Mar 2010 21:17:23 GMT)
I'm 32 weeks pregnant with a boy. This is my first so I guess I'm just worrying about everything right now. I've chosen to not circumcise my son. Everyone's telling me how nasty it is and how hard it is to keep clean. My mom and aunts keep telling me that I'll have to constantly pull his foreskin back to clean it. I know that that's not the case and you you're just supposed to leave it alone.
BUT all the people telling me the wrong way to care for his intact penis got me wondering if the nurses at the hospital will know how to care for it properly. What if they think you have to pull it back too? If everything goes well and he's healthy how long will he be back there with them? Will he be allowed to stay with me in my room the nights that we're up there so I can change him etc. I don't really want anyone else changing him...
Not worried about my mom and aunts. I'll be a SAHM so I'll be the one changing him. My mom and aunts will have to travel 3 hours to come see us and I'll be right there so I'll be able to change him. I'm just worried about what all will going on at the hospital when he's not in my sight.
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Voting Question: 32 weeks pregnant,do you think i can get the doctor to check me?
(Fri, 05 Mar 2010 20:08:39 GMT)
this is my 3rd baby and so i know that they usually don't start checking you to see if you have dilated until you are further along, like when they start the week to week visits. and i know it's because they are too afraid of infection setting up or something. but, i have been having a lot of really strong false contractions for weeks now, i mean they are really intense and since i know that they can also start to dilate you, when i go for my 2 week checkup on this coming Monday i would like for my doctor to check me if for no other reason then to just put my mind at ease that i am not starting to dilate before i am suppose to. do you think that he will check me if i ask him to? i don't want to sound stupid to him, but i really need to know if these things are starting to do something.thanks.
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