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Open Question: compensation payout for accident?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:24:28 GMT)
I was in a car accident (passenger), we got hit head on by another driver which wrote off both our cars. I was 38 weeks pregnant and started leaking amniotic fluid for a week before my waters broke, after a failed induction due to the premature rupture I had an emergency c section. Further births will now also end this way. I also suffered whiplash, eye infection from the dust of the airbag, post traumatic stress disorder and anxiety which has lead to back and neck problems. I've never been in this position before and am awaiting legal advice. What sort of compensation level can we hope for. I'd rather of had a normal birth and be healthy but if you have to look at the positives then this is all I can hope for at the moment. Thanks
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Open Question: Whats going on ?? Confused, sick and tired?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:10:08 GMT)
I am nausea's beond reason every little smell makes it worse, have this horrible headache,i am tired, cramping , have sharp little pain in my vaginal area, my back hurts and my bowl movements are lose.Is it early stages of labor or just a bug?? It started monday night and wont go away and i have tried everything.I am 38 weeks pregnant.
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Open Question: 38 weeks preg will my midwife examine me?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 18:09:29 GMT)
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38 weeks pregnant twinges an strong braxton hicks not regular though?
38 wks preg with 2nd baby, got the midwife 2mro so if i asked to be examined to see if there was any changes in my cervix would my midwife do it now?? bbys heads engaged an i keep getting twinges and strong braxton hicks if im active and walk...all sighns that labours not far but i would love to know if my cervix is doing anything!!! xx
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Open Question: Is my due date correct?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 16:17:23 GMT)
Supposedly I'm 33 weeks and 4 days pregnant... Due April 24th..I kept track of my periods so I know that the first day of my last period was July 2nd. Which based on a 28 day cycle I can't remember exactly but I though was April 8th... When I told the nurse my last period she said I must have had a light period after July 2nd. I didn't argue with her but know I didn't have a light period...at a different dr appt I asked the doctor if my due date was way off because my period is about 7 days long ... And around 38-40 day cycle. I ovulate on the 16th or 17th day of my cycle... She just said yes.. I'm just wondering if with that information would my due date really be pushed back to April 24th instead of atleast the middle of April? The baby has measured about a week or 2 ahead lately.. My very first appointment where I was supposedly around 8 weeks the baby only measured 5 wks and 5 days.. I'm just wondering if anbody can help me out with the math...
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Open Question: 38 weeks pregnant 2 cm dilated...?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 14:49:37 GMT)
so until this morning i thought my due date was march 19th, i asked my doctor just out of curiosity and she tells me its not its the 22nd..no big deal only 3 days more, but yet again its 3 days mmorreee! anywho when i was checked this morning i was told im 2 cms dilated, they didnt say anything about being effaced...which i shouldve asked but i just didnt think about it at the time. i lost my mucus plug over 3 weeks ago and there was the bloody show. i was in labor and delivery for 3 hours that night with some pain & the doctor gave me a shot to stop contractions. i feel so discouraged like being 2 cms is great but it seems like everything was happening so fast and now hes just never going to come. i guess my question is if this has happened to anyone and if so what did you do, and how can i help the progress. i was thinking about taking a nice long walk since its actually gorgeous out for once..but im just not too sure if it will actually help
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Open Question: 38 weeks pregnant twinges an strong braxton hicks not regular though?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 14:46:33 GMT)
38 wks preg with 2nd baby, got the midwife 2mro so if i asked to be examined to see if there was any changes in my cervix would my midwife do it now?? bbys heads engaged an i keep getting twinges and strong braxton hicks if im active and walk...all sighns that labours not far but i would love to know if my cervix is doing anything!!! xx
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Open Question: 38 weeks pregnant could this be early labor?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 11:36:38 GMT)
this is my second pregnancy i was induced with my first so i am not really sure on early labor signs.
for the last couple hours i have had to go to the toliet (sorry tmi) my stomach is tightening constantly which is making me hard to breathe and making me feel alittle sick. The baby dropped around a week ago i have Alot of pelvic pressure ,
are these signs of labor?
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Open Question: Urinary Tract infection while pregnant - Please help!!?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 10:29:11 GMT)
Hi all. Recently found out that I am positive for Group B Streptococcus, which means that I suffer alot more UTI then the average pregnant woman.
Anyways, I have had quite a few during pregnancy, but nothing to bad, and only lasting a day.
I have one now, but am stressing because of the Strep.
I have read the real concern of getting a UTI in pregnancy is it will go to the kidneys and may cause preterm labor. I am 38.5 weeks, so I wouldnt be preterm at all.
Is that the only concern? is bubs 100% safe from getting sick, or it leading to any side affects in her?
I will be going to the docs tomorrow, but like all the other uti Ive had, I see me being better in the morning
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Open Question: 37-38 weeks pregnant and?
(Wed, 10 Mar 2010 05:47:11 GMT)
and im not sure if the pain im feeling in between my tighs could be a sign of early labor...no cramps yet water is intact, but for 2 days now i have been walking with mild discomfort/pain..could this be a sign that i may go into labor soon? i dont think the baby has dropped yet...what else should i be on the lookout for? first time mom. thanks
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Open Question: Should I be worried about my baby?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 22:58:17 GMT)
I am due on March 18th- Right now 38 1/2 weeks pregnant with my first child. I am so excited about having a little girl but I am beginning to get nervous. The doctor told me yesterday that she felt as if she were around 7.5 or 8.0 pounds. I am worried that she is going to be a big baby since she is not due for another week and 1/2. I am quiet petite myself- 5'2" and I am right at 200lbs right now with this baby. I am scared that her newborn clothes won't fit her :-(. I haven't had any signs of labor- just a few cramps and braxton hicks, 1 cm dilated and 30% effaced. Should I be worried/nervous? Will her newborn clothes fit? Any suggestions or advice would be appreciated! Thanks!
I do have some 0-3 month clothes which are bigger.
I guess I am just nervous about everything because this is my first and I have no idea what to expect. I was adopted so my mom can't tell me anything about giving birth or having a baby.
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Open Question: What can cause swollen breasts?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 21:20:58 GMT)
So, over about a two week period my breast cup size went from a 36 C to a 38 D. I have been having some other symptoms such as nausea, abdominal cramps, hemorrhoids, and headaches. I am not pregnant. I went to see a doctor about it and they checked my thyroid--it was normal. What might be wrong with me?
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Open Question: Has anyone gotten trigger finger during pregnancy?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 19:15:31 GMT)
I am currently 38 weeks pregnant and have had trigger finger for the past 10 weeks or so. I am just wondering if anyone else has experienced this because of pregnancy and if it went away after delivery.
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Open Question: Being injuced..will they do it?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 19:06:03 GMT)
im 38. weeks pregnant 39 thursday and am constantly stressed been dignosed with depression and step b low iron and loads of other medical reasons do you think if i tell them all this and that im getting more and more depressed as the pregnancy goes on will they consider injucing me?
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Open Question: My baby isnt moving.what shall i do.?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 18:35:54 GMT)
im 38/9 weeks pregnant and normally feel my baby move quite regular.. but today she hasn't moved at all and ive been feeling sick and had belly ache all day ive tried drinking cold stuff and massaging my belly but still no movement is this normal?
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Open Question: 38 weeks pregnant...stabbing pain in my lower abdomen / groin area?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 17:59:02 GMT)
I'm 38 weeks along- I keep getting this horrible stabbing pain in my lower abdomen / groin area, towards my left side. Feels like my baby is stabbing me! It's the worse when I'm in bed (of course I am on bed rest already for high blood pressure so I can't get any relief). It sort of feels like round ligament pain x 100 (but down lower). Any ideas? I'm sure it's just my body getting ready to have this baby but it sure does hurt! I've had Braxton Hicks / "false labor" pains before this. It's not a cramping or contraction feeling. It's a sharp pain and not regular at all- just happens randomly, mostly when I'm laying in bed
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Resolved Question: Just found out im anaemic and induction?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 17:11:59 GMT)
Hiya all =)
I'm 35 weeks and 3 days pregnant and have just found out a lot of news in one day!
I have had a placenta abrubtion, there has been a loss of fluid around my baby, she is measuring over a week small and to top it all off i'm anaemic. I'm now getting check ups and scans twice a week and at around 38 weeks i will be induced. If not it will be before then.
I was just wondering which foods are good to top up my iron supply??
I have been given tablets to take to top it up but my doc has said if i can do it naturally its much better.
Also wondering what they do when the induce you? Sounds silly i know but they're not discussing it with me until my check up on thursday and i'm dying to know what is going to happen.
I'm in the north of Scotland, just in case they do things differently else where.
Thanks in advance. X
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Open Question: 38 weeks, 3cm dilated, 75% effaced, and +1 station. Any ideas?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 15:12:57 GMT)
I am 38 weeks pregnant and having regular contractions every 10 minutes apart. I am 3cm dilated, 75% effaced, and +1 station. Any ideas to help get this moving?? Tried sex and walking. The walking helps get them to about 4 minutes apart and pretty intense, but still not getting the show on the road.
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Open Question: 38 wks pregnant&sick. Could I be going into labor?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 15:09:41 GMT)
38 weeks pregnant and I've been going to the bathroom (bowel movements) several times a day for the last couple of days.(This is not normal for me) They have been very soft stools. I woke up this morning feeling very sick to my stomach, close to vomiting but have not. I have been having braxton hicks contractions, they seem to be getting stronger over this last week. I was just wondering if anyone else had these symptoms prior to labor? If so, how long til you actually went into labor?
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Open Question: I am 38 weeks pregnant and just had my cervix checked yesterday. My midwife said that my cervix is still hard.?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 14:03:22 GMT)
But then this ealry this morning I woke up to very hard contractions, that ended up going away. Now I am starting to have lower back pains, and some "menstrual like" feeling in the front. I do have an 8 and 4 year old,but don not remember ever feeling like this. But then again all pregnancies are different. Could my midwife checking my cervix yesterday start up some labor symptoms? I am not dilated or anything, or wasn't yesterday when she checked.
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Open Question: 38 weeks pregnant with bad menstrual like cramping for about an hr now?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 11:23:14 GMT)
So im gonna be 38 weeks tomorrow (wednesday) and since about 2:30 ive been having bad cramping in hip area and lower abdominal area and in my lower back.been having to pee like crazy since then to and it hurts to push when i go pee i get even more cramping.
could this be a sign of beginning labor?
im just in alot of discomfort rite now.
Ha dont be a D!ck dumbfukk
i dont want smart a$$ answers from ignorant biches
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Resolved Question: Advice on Mother in Law?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 09:58:07 GMT)
I just need some advice on what to think really- my mother in law is a great mum and grandma. I really do love her alot like my own mum but in the last few weeks she has completely stressed me out.
I'm 39.3 weeks pregnant and when i told her last year we were going to have another baby and i wanted her in the ward with me she promised she would be there. She is a foster carer and looks after other peoples children who r on drugs etc.
She got a drug withdrawal baby 4 months ago and already had a 3 year old. She promised that the baby would be gone by the time our daughter arrived. Since the baby came, the 3 year old has become wild, violent and constantly encouraging my 2 year old daughter to say no to us, hit and throw tantrums.
I'm stressed as it is being 39 weeks pregnant but now she is telling me that she doesnt have anyone to watch the baby anymore so she cant be there for the delivery.
I feel guilty for being so mad at her when i know she is doing a good deed, but putting other peoples kids first when I need her and her grand daughters need her seems just unreasonable to me.. She now says that she is going to keep the 3 year old till they find him a permanent home but with court being continuously delayed because his mother never turns up means she will have him for another 6-12 months. What do you think i should do? She knows we dont want her to keep him because of the influence he has over our daughter but yet i dont want her to miss out on seeing her grandkids by not allowing her to bring him over.
Please no stupid replies from people with too much time on their hands, ive gotten one before about having an abortion at 38 weeks to sell for chinese food and i was not impressed so please dont be mean, I'm really stressed about this and just need abit of advice on whether im being reasonable or whether there is a different way of seeing things.
Thanks everyone xxx
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Open Question: Am i prego? HELP PLEASE?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 04:57:55 GMT)
My periods are about 38-39 days apart... My last period was on Feb 2nd I'm expecting my next period around friday... My boobs have been hruting on and off for the last couple weeks and I've had A LOT of cervical mucas... today it was clear and had a couple chunks in it not big chunks but about the size of a large booger lol. They were clear and it doesn't stink at all, and my area doesn't itch or anything.... I'm married and this would be my second child if I am pregnant... What do you think? and obviously I'm NOT ovulating.... it's three days before my period
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Open Question: Am I pregnant? HELP!!!?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 04:38:32 GMT)
My periods are about 38-39 days apart... My last period was on Feb 2nd I'm expecting my next period around friday... My boobs have been hruting on and off for the last couple weeks and I've had A LOT of cervical mucas... today it was clear and had a couple chunks in it not big chunks but about the size of a large booger lol. They were clear and it doesn't stink at all, and my area doesn't itch or anything.... I'm married and this would be my second child if I am pregnant... What do you think?
I'M NOT OVULATING DUH IT'S THREE DAYS BEFORE MY PERIOD...
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Open Question: I am 38 weeks and 5 days pregnant tomorrow, and I am going to the Dr. tomorrow and I was wondering....?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 04:30:04 GMT)
what the chances of him inducing labor are if I were to ask? Starting on Friday I have been getting contractions for about 2 hours a day and they increase in pain every day. After about 2 hours though, they stop entirely, and I proceed to only have mild menstrual cramps on and off throughout the night.
Also since Friday my discharge has increased, and the my baby's head is pressing down so hard on me that it is making it hard for me to sit down and it is also causing me to get sharp pains with every movement of his head.
I went for a long walk today in hopes that it might bring on labor, but it has not. Although it did make the baby drop even lower than he already had, making me even more uncomfortable.
I know most doctors won't induce labor just because of maternal discomfort, but I have been in tears every day since Friday when the contractions start til the time they stop. I can barely sit down because of the position of his head, which is making my swelling worse than it already is.
I guess my question is what are the chances that he might help induce labor? Please I am not looking for criticism or for people to tell me that my baby will come when the time is right. I just want opinions on what my Dr. might tell me based on what I have said.
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Open Question: I'm 38 weeks with shooting pains..?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 04:02:37 GMT)
I'm thirty eight weeks pregnant and I'm having horrible shooting pains in my vaginal area that aren't going away. What could this be? It only lasts a few seconds and takes my breath away and then I can go on, but this is reoccurring more frequently now. My last doctor's visit he said I was not dilated and still had dropping to do but that was a week ago.
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Open Question: 38 weeks pregnant...STABBING pain in my groin area?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 04:02:34 GMT)
I'm 38 weeks along, I keep getting this horrible stabbing pain in my lower abdomen / groin area, towards my left side. Feels like my baby is stabbing me! It's the worse when I'm in bed (of course I am on bed rest already for high blood pressure so I can't get any relief). It sort of feels like round ligament pain x 100 (but down lower). Any ideas? I'm sure it's just my body getting ready to have this baby but it sure does hurt!
I've had Braxton Hicks / "false labor" pains before this. it's not a cramping or contraction feeling. it's a sharp pain and not regular at all- just happens randomly, mostly when i'm laying in bed
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Open Question: What to do to pass the time while in long early labor?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 03:44:06 GMT)
I am 38 weeks Pregnant. I am Dilated to 2cm and 90% effaced, and just today lost my mucus plug. They said I am in Early labor, with contractions coming every 3-10 min. I'm not dilating at a fast enough rate for them to keep me. they said it could be a few days to a week. So what do i do now? Anyone else in this situation? All my son's clothes are washed, the bags are packed, I walk for hours every day and My husband and I have sex at least once a day. How do i make the time pass?? Anything else I should be doing to help this along?
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Open Question: Induced around 38-39 weeks?
(Tue, 09 Mar 2010 00:33:37 GMT)
I am due April 7th. My husband is deployed in Afghanistan right now,and they are trying to get him here for the birth. I just found out that he will actually be home around the 25th which would make me 38 weeks. Then right around my due date they are sending him back. So there's a really good chance he won't be here for the birth unless she decides she wants to come out soon. I really want him to be here for the birth,and to meet our little girl before he goes back. He won't be home for good until February of next year. I was wondering if i should talk to my doctor about inducing me sometime while he is home which makes me around 38-39 weeks pregnant. Has anyones doctor induced them before their due date without medical reasons, and if so was the baby healthy? Thanks for any answers :)
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Open Question: 40 weeks pregnant and not dilating?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 21:48:33 GMT)
Im 40 weeks and 2 days pregnant, Im 50% effaced and maybe half of a cm dialated. I have been this way since week 38...My doctor said he is going to induce me on friday but if im still not dialated i may end up needing a c-section. My question is has anyone experienced this? Going in to be induced and not dialated, was it a long process? or did it end in a c-section? I would love to hear what happened to you, it will make me feel better!
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Open Question: i'm pregnant and broken up with a virgo- will he leave me forever or will he come back to me?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 20:49:20 GMT)
i left him now for the 2nd time while being pregnant. I am 27 and he is 38. We have been together for 3 yrs and since i got pregnant he has been acting like a jerk, I know we weren't ready financially and quite frank i dont think he wanted more chldren. he has a 16 yr old that he raised on his own. i really love him but he doesn't trust me and ever since he read my diaries that i wrote yrs ago he has been accusing me of so many things. He is ver insecure. he said he never felt like this with anyone else. He invaded my privacy and i stood bk and forgave him for it while he has made conclusions of my life on his own. He asked me once about things and this was at the very beginning and i didnt think that i needed to confess my past to him- i didnt even know him well. We did move in together too quickly at the beginning and even after all we lasted 3 yrs. I have been fighting for this relationship so much while he has done nothing but stand back and accused me of all these things i dont even want to repeat. He once told me that i made the mistake in not admitting to all the accusations bc he claims he is very intuitive and that he knows that everything is true. I have never done anything to hurt him during our realtionship- i have been nothing but loyal to him. i made mistakes in the past which have nothing to do with our future and he has done a lot more things and i never question him for it nor do i care. I am now pregnant and i left him the 2nd time bc i could not deal with all the stress of his drinking and coming and going as he pleased not spending any time with me. I am almost due and he decided that he could not be the person that he has to be with me and that he will never trust me. I haven't done anything to him but love him. What does it take for him to see that? I am devastated and moved in with parents in a city that i hate 2hrs away from him. I left him with the idea that he would change and smarten up and realize things instead he has decided we won't work bc of his own insecurities. We spoke a few weeks ago and we got back together 2x and each time he called bk to tell me that he was doing alot of thinking and that maybe it wasnt a good idea. He finally decided to end things as i mentioned and said it was for the best that he wasn't confused anymore. Help is he going to change his mind? His 2nd child is on her way and i have no idea how to prove him wrong of all the accusations.
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Open Question: 38 weeks pregnant and feel very crampy but not coming and going.....anyone else going through this too?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 20:01:45 GMT)
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Open Question: 38 weeks pregnant help any one?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 19:07:24 GMT)
hello
right so im 1cm dilated
no waters broken, no show no NOTHING
AHHHH im going crazy iv been eating pineapple and drinking raspberry tea leaf but nope nothing OH and sex and walking.
any ideas???
please help 10+ points for most helpful answer
iv just eaten a whole pineapple =/
now have pains in the upper of my bump and the left hand side in the lower of my bump.
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Open Question: is it safe to use a jaccuzi bath when 38 weeks pregnant if not why not?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 10:57:32 GMT)
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Resolved Question: Will I go in to labor soon?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 05:54:22 GMT)
All day today I've felt dizzy and weird, I've also had pain and contractions. I'm 38 weeks pregnant. My water hasn't broken or anything but did anyone else feel odd like this before they went in to labor?
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Resolved Question: Im 38 weeks pregnant and having braxton hicks with mild pain?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 04:25:33 GMT)
Hi im 38 weeks pregnant and throughout the end of my pregnancy i have been having braxton hicks almost 10-20 times a day... Now last night while i was sitting i started having a BH but it was a little painful in my front and a little in my lower back..i then moved around and felt another one which felt the same as the first but i havnnt felt anymore painful BH throughout the night.. Now almost 24 hours later i felt pain in my lower abdomen and had another painful BH, when that was over the baby then moved around like crazy..anyone have any idea what or why this might be?? could i just be reading to much into it like hoping it would be labour pains???? anyone have a similar thing happen to them???
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Resolved Question: Due tomorrow (the 9th), just need to vent.?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 04:18:04 GMT)
Well, I'm due tomorrow (well, it will be tomorrow in 45 minutes), March 9th and I'm just really frustrated.
I was told all throughout the pregnancy this one was going to be premature, they hammered it into me that I needed to be looking out for labor signs as early as 25 weeks. My history: Had my first child at 27 weeks, but he died an hour later, and then I had 2 miscarriages over a span of about 4-5 months, and then got pregnant with this one 4 months after the last second miscarriage. So yeah. Anyway, I'm 'technically' only 38 weeks. But they changed my due date because of her size at both of my US, so really, 40 weeks (on the 9th).
I've been having BH contractions since I was like 20 weeks or something, and yesterday I started getting more and more within a short time frame. But they're only lasting like 3 or 4 seconds each, argh. I just needed some place to vent, because it feels like it's been dragging on and on. And everyone keeps asking me when I'm going to have her, because like I said, we all expected her to be preemie. And my husband is worried he'll be at work when I finally start getting lasting contractions, and my SIL is so scared she'll be the only one home. Which is a possibility, since it's just me and her from 3PM until 8PM or sometimes even later. And she's only 14, so of course she panics a bit.
Anywho..yep, that's about it.
Lol, I put that it would be tomorrow in 45 minutes.
Well, 38 now. As in, in 38 minutes, then I will be due tomorrow. xD
I'm staying up late, waiting for my hubby to get home from work...
Oh yeah, and I also want to add that I walked A LOT yesterday, more than I have probably in the last 4 months, since they put me on bedrest once I hit 20 weeks.
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Open Question: i know this may be a very stupid question but i am 38 weeks pregnant and I heard that Acurpressure helps to?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 03:37:34 GMT)
put yourself into labor well what is it and how do you attempt it?
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Open Question: Primrose to soften cervix? 38 weeks pregnant.?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 03:07:30 GMT)
I just bought some primrose 1000 mg, how do i take them? do i take one by mouth and stick them up there? or what lol. I need your help please.
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Open Question: pregnant and cant sleep at all?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 02:53:20 GMT)
I'm 33 weeks, and I've heard of not being able to sleep at like 38, but never as early as 33. i cant sleep at all, I cant lay still, and my back dosent stop hurting. What can i do to help me sleep? I'm getting on my husbands nerves because he cant sleep if i dont lay still. haha.
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Open Question: are tummy cramps ok to have 38 weeks pregnant?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 02:19:46 GMT)
im 38weeks an i have had a cramping for the last half hour im sure i read somewhere that tummy cramps are not ment to happen if so go to midwife.
its there in the lower side of my right side and the pain is spread around about a hand size..
what should i do?
it hurts more when i walk so im trying to keep still till it goes away
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Open Question: Primrose oil? have u used it ? how did it go for you?
(Mon, 08 Mar 2010 00:25:28 GMT)
i am 38 weeks pregnant and would like to know more about this primrose oil, if any of you ladies can tell me your experiences and what you know about it , that would be great! thank you ladies!
this is my second pregnancy
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Open Question: at what week in pregnancy does a women usually start to dilate?
(Sun, 07 Mar 2010 22:44:19 GMT)
I'm 38 and a half weeks pregnant and I started to dilate at 37 weeks and I'm still jus shy of a. Centimeter why does it seem like I'm taking forever to dilate.. Also how many centimeters should a women be in order to get admitted to hospital? Thanx
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Open Question: We were trying to get pregnant but he wanted me to get an abortion. Was this wrong and can I trust him?
(Sun, 07 Mar 2010 21:23:03 GMT)
I am 30 and he is 38. He's been married before and is gun shy about it and I have been married before too but I am not gun shy about it. He keeps putting the wedding off, and we don't even have a date set anymore. He says probably in the next year and a half but if I ask he says I am pressuring him by just asking so I don't ask. We were engaged and decided we wanted to get pregnant. Before I met him I didn't want kids but I changed my mind being with him. So we start trying in October, and I we agree to go off birth control. We are both happy about it at that point. He keeps saying a Christmas baby would be nice, to get pregnant around Christmas, and we track my ovulation, have sex during my fertile times, and he stops taking baths to help his sperm count. He is totally participatory in all this and wants it to happen too. We get pregnant after a couple months, I was delighted to find out I conceived around Christmas too. I get pregnant and all the happiness stops. We have some relationship problems but see a counselor and are working through them, the relationship is doing better but he doesn't seem happy about the baby. I talk to him about it, as the weeks progress and he goes with me to the prenatals and sees the ultrasounds and we see the baby progressing. Then at 12 weeks, he says he doesn't think he'll ever marry me and doesn't want the baby because the timing is all wrong and he is going to be starting school when the baby is due. Meanwhile, I am in school too and I will have my license and will be ready to work once the baby is due. I told him I am totally willing to do whatever it takes and work hard and under no circumstances do I want to give up the baby and that nothing is insurmountable. He says it's the timing he doesn't like. So he says he doesn't want to be with me and doesn't want the baby, in one day. The same day, he says he does want to be with me, he hadn't thought it through. But he still doesn't want the baby. I am devastated, for two reasons, just being dumped, and now forced to give up my baby. I feel pressured into it, he doesn't give me any other choices about the baby. In a daze, I set up the appointment, we go to multiple appointments for it, and I got the abortion. I am now very upset. He WANTED this baby, then changed his mind. He proposed to me, now won't set a date until he feels more sure. He was a totally willing participant in BOTH these events. He knew what was happening. I feel like I was forced to give up the baby, and feel like he'll never commit to anything. This guy is 38 and I am wondering at that age, will a man like that ever be sure about anything? My clock is ticking and I do want to find a man to love and marry and have a family with, but I don't want to keep letting my values get trampled. He plays video games all day on his days off and wants to do stuff with friends, is he just immature and can I ever trust him?
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Open Question: 38 1/2 weeks pregnant?
(Sun, 07 Mar 2010 19:37:17 GMT)
hi ladies, i'm 38 1/2 weeks pregnant and this weekend i haven't been feeling so great. yesterday started having some stomach cramping, menstrual like cramps. i still feel this way today. it's not a bad cramp, just a constant cramping. my lower back is achy too. i've felt naseous too, and got sick once yesterday. i feel the baby moving, so i know it's fine. just wondering if any of you have had this feeling too. i keep hoping it's because labor is coming, but who knows! thanks!
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Resolved Question: Pregnant? Is that what this means?
(Sun, 07 Mar 2010 16:15:47 GMT)
I had unprotected sex a few weeks before my period was supposed to be here. I got it on the 38th day of my cycle. It was normal but still a little on the light side, for 2-2.5 days the stopped and I only got light brown and light pink spots when I wiped. That went of for 2 days. I didn't really have many side effects after that but I took a test just to ease my mind, it was negAtive. Itsbeen exactly a week since I took the test, and a week in a half since i started the "period". I had unprotected sex a month ago. This week I got constipated 2.5 days in a row had sharp sttomach pains, really moody and emotional, a little hungrier and starting last night had to pee more and been really tired and gassy the past few days. I haven't really had sore breasts, but are the others signs of pregnancy? When should I test again? Last test I didn't really have to pee so not much came out. What's the best way to test? Thanks!
Also waking up on some schooldays makes me sick, somedays I throw up. Not everyday though. Usually just nausea but when I sleep in I feel fine when I wake up.
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Open Question: Is my baby moving or is it something else? Pregnant almost 24wks, 38 yo, 1st child?
(Sun, 07 Mar 2010 13:17:03 GMT)
Im almost 24 weeks pregnant and three days ago came home from work because i felt funny rolling feelings in my belly (kind alike when you see an alligator roll his prey on the bottom of the lake in one of those nature shows). It almost made me nauseous and really scared me. Since then Ive felt A LOT of bubbly feelings, especially when i sit down or get up quick. Is this the baby moving? Pregnant, 38, with first child.
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Open Question: 38 weeks pregnant and exhausted?
(Sun, 07 Mar 2010 06:23:18 GMT)
Im only able to stay awake at the most 6 or 7 hours a day, sometimes like four or five. Any suggestions, or does anyone know why im so tired? can i drink coffee, just enough to get the house clean and ready for baby ( I only have about 7 days left, my doctor is inducing me). This is my first baby and i am so nervous and excited, but i just cant seem to make myself stay awake and when i am awake i have no energy so its hard to do anything
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Open Question: Things have become really awkward?
(Sun, 07 Mar 2010 04:48:59 GMT)
During my early pregnancy my significant other and I "slept" together but as I got bigger things got awkward, our relationship also dwindled because he decided he didn't want to see me anymore. We were fine with this and were still close so for months our relationship had become less and less of a passionate relationship and more of a friendship.
I am now 38 weeks pregnant and these last 2 months things have gotten really great between us and it really seems like we have some sort of chance of reconciling but after not being with him for "so long" all our sexual and affectionate maneuvers are awkward. What should I do to make things easier and have more confidence? I think about things a lot and how I'm going to do things and usually I can't get the courage up to do anything or it just gets awkward enough that I quit. I'm talking about even just kissing.
BTW-this is someone I had a relationship with for 2 years.
Since my question isn't really being answered I guess I should rephrase it-
I feel enormous and haven't been affectionate or intimate in awhile, how do I get over my awkward feelings?
Jess.... I said we were probably going to reconcile and things had been great... I don't have any idea what you're ranting about, you obviously didn't read the entire thing and just took what you wanted from it. I'm not trying to "win" him back or trying to "deprive" him of sex. Thanks, though.
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Open Question: 38 weeks pregnant and just ready to be done?
(Sun, 07 Mar 2010 03:30:32 GMT)
I know the baby will come when shes ready but i guess the saying goes misery loves company...anyone feel like sharing how ready they are to be done with the pregnancy? Im fat , tired, cant sleep, throw up when i eat, hip cracks when i go up steps, roll over about 393 times per night becuase im in pain and most of all im just ready to meet my little one...whew ok now i feel better lol thanks for the stories
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Open Question: 38 weeks pregnant, labor?
(Sat, 06 Mar 2010 22:10:14 GMT)
the baby is already head down and she is1cm dilated, but her cervix is still thick(she went to the doctor jus the other day) she is having horrible back pain, has got worse through out the day and has alot of pressure down there. the baby hasnt moved much at all today, last time she felt him move was early this morning.
she is going to the hospital but i was wanting to know if it sounds like labor and if shes in that much pain and dilated will they induce her? has anyone ever went thru this? what did they do?
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