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Open Question: we had sex on march 6th...without a condom..just for a little bit. then we used a condom after. is she pregnan?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 03:06:04 GMT)
She used plan b on march 7th. We had sex on march 6th. We didn't use a condom at first just for a few minutes. Then used condom after. A week later after taking the pill
.which is today...she started spotting. Can she be pregnant. ?!
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Open Question: Why's my stomach swollen?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:52:35 GMT)
This's kinda long, sorry, wanted to make it as thorough as possible.
My stomach has always been relatively flat and I’ve never had any problems with it –till now. In January I was getting some stomach pains and I looked at my stomach and also noticed swelling. The next day, it hadn’t gone down and till today, it’s still the same. I went to a clinic last month and the doc told me to do a GI test, a blood test and a pelvic test. With the pelvic test I found out I had a cyst on one ovary. With the blood test I found out I had h. pylori in my blood (and was put on a hp pac: prevacid, amoxicillin and clarythromycin; and nexium and I’ve finished taken these about two weeks ago). With the GI test, I haven’t gone back for the results. With the cyst, I was supposed to do another test last month to see if it has dissolved on its own –as the doc told me they usually do that, but sometimes they don’t, but I haven’t. I had no idea I had a cyst before. Besides the stomach pain, I did feel uncomfortable on my right pelvic area at times, especially when I would pee, like I would be peeing and then have to stop for a few seconds, then continue again, and I still do this till now; I can’t really pee once and for all, I have to stop in between. And I pee a lot too, like let’s say 15 mins after I pee I’ve to go again, even if I didn’t drink water in between. But I do drink lots of water, so I know that’s why I pee often in the first place, but I don’t know why I can never pee straightforwardly and why I have to go so often. Could my stomach swelling have to do with the cyst or could something else be causing it?...Could the cyst still be there; could it have gotten bigger? Also, since it was in my ovary, could it have gotten bigger and extended to my stomach?...Don’t know if that makes sense. Usually after I eat, it swells a bit more and I’m guessing that’s because of the food, but the size has relatively been the same. I don’t think it’s weight gain as I haven’t gained any; I’m still about the same size I’ve been for a while, nor fat, and I’m not pregnant a I’ve never been sexually active. I eat healthy, don’t drink pop or eat junk food. I eat chips and a chocolate bar once in a blue moon. There’s a line running across my stomach, something I’ve never noticed before as well. Does anyone have any idea of what could be going on? I feel something’s definitely wrong, just like when I was getting the stomach pain and my stomach was also making funny noises (forgot to mention that) and tuned out I had h. pylori. As for the stomach pain, it has stopped since I finished the meds, but lately I’ve been having a little bit of it, but not like before and the noises have stopped coming. I read and heard h. pylori can come back. Is this true? What can I do to make sure it doesn’t come back again? I’ll be seeing my real Doctor next week, but I just wanted to hear people’s thoughts, especially about the swollen stomach…what could be going on?
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Open Question: what is wrong with me?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:52:33 GMT)
i have been throwing up at leased once a week of the past month and i don't know why. i am not pregnant, im not eating anything new, i don't have fevers and im not stressed. i usually feel fine and then out of no where in a matter of seconds i feel like a really have to throw up
what is wrong with me??!!!!?!?!?!
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Open Question: pregnancy?? HELP Me!!!!?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:52:27 GMT)
Okaii here's the thing....I have been experiencing a lot of so called Pregnancy symptoms...Like i have been spotting a brownish red to a pink color blood for about 2 weeks its not a lot i can wear one tampon and the very tip will have blood on it i have had a lot of gas lol ... one day the whole day i was really gassy (every 10 min's) lol and also nausea sometimes i will feel soo sick that when i burp it will come up but it's not like vomit it is like really watery and it burns my throat sometimes. The part around my nipples are darker than they are they are usually pink and now they are like a bruised look. I have been really moody lately i feel like i have a black cloud above my head , weighing me down. lol. i don't really have to pee a lot that i have noticed. And the one thing that tripped me out the most is that one day i was sitting in the living room and i could smell herbs like someone was cooking something. So i followed the smell into the kitchen and it was my spice/herb rack all the way across the room, i didn't think much of it so i went to go lay down and i could smell it again so i thought maybe it was on me so i smelt my hair and clothes but it wasn't me so i thought maybe it was the garbage lol and it wasn't that!!!! it was the spice/herb rack!! but the my boyfriend's brother's girlfriend is prego and she could smell it when she walked it and asked me if i was cooking pizza or something and her boyfriend couldn't smell it!?! So yeah i dont know if i am....I know that if you really think you are your body starts giving you symptoms of it but i'm not too sure if i am or not. i took a pregnancy test one or two weeks ago and it said negative and my period is all fuc*ed up so im not too sure when it is really supposed to come...What do you think?? Please dont tell me to go take a test because i already know that part.I want girls who are going through the same thing and Girls who are or were pregnant tell me their symptoms. I know every pregnancy is Different but symptoms don't change .... well most of them. Anywho thank you for all your help in advance!! XO
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Open Question: Hcg levels and miscarriage?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:51:55 GMT)
Three weeks ago i had a miscarriage and had both a vag. u/s and a abd. u/s. and they said they did not see anything. I was only 6 1/2 weeks. I have only spotted a little blood and some small clots the day of the m/c and have NO bleeding what so ever sense... Is there a chance i can still be pregnant. or if i did m/c should i have started bleeding by now... any insight would be good... im lost and don't know what to think or do.
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Open Question: What could be causing my swollen stomach?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:50:17 GMT)
This's kinda long, sorry, wanted to make it as thorough as possible.
My stomach has always been relatively flat and I’ve never had any problems with it –till now. In January I was getting some stomach pains and I looked at my stomach and also noticed swelling. The next day, it hadn’t gone down and till today, it’s still the same. I went to a clinic last month and the doc told me to do a GI test, a blood test and a pelvic test. With the pelvic test I found out I had a cyst on one ovary. With the blood test I found out I had h. pylori in my blood (and was put on a hp pac: prevacid, amoxicillin and clarythromycin; and nexium and I’ve finished taken these about two weeks ago). With the GI test, I haven’t gone back for the results. With the cyst, I was supposed to do another test last month to see if it has dissolved on its own –as the doc told me they usually do that, but sometimes they don’t, but I haven’t. I had no idea I had a cyst before. Besides the stomach pain, I did feel uncomfortable on my right pelvic area at times, especially when I would pee, like I would be peeing and then have to stop for a few seconds, then continue again, and I still do this till now; I can’t really pee once and for all, I have to stop in between. And I pee a lot too, like let’s say 15 mins after I pee I’ve to go again, even if I didn’t drink water in between. But I do drink lots of water, so I know that’s why I pee often in the first place, but I don’t know why I can never pee straightforwardly and why I have to go so often. Could my stomach swelling have to do with the cyst or could something else be causing it?...Could the cyst still be there; could it have gotten bigger? Also, since it was in my ovary, could it have gotten bigger and extended to my stomach?...Don’t know if that makes sense. Usually after I eat, it swells a bit more and I’m guessing that’s because of the food, but the size has relatively been the same. I don’t think it’s weight gain as I haven’t gained any; I’m still about the same size I’ve been for a while, nor fat, and I’m not pregnant a I’ve never been sexually active. I eat healthy, don’t drink pop or eat junk food. I eat chips and a chocolate bar once in a blue moon. There’s a line running across my stomach, something I’ve never noticed before as well. Does anyone have any idea of what could be going on? I feel something’s definitely wrong, just like when I was getting the stomach pain and my stomach was also making funny noises (forgot to mention that) and tuned out I had h. pylori. As for the stomach pain, it has stopped since I finished the meds, but lately I’ve been having a little bit of it, but not like before and the noises have stopped coming. I read and heard h. pylori can come back. Is this true? What can I do to make sure it doesn’t come back again? I’ll be seeing my real Doctor next week, but I just wanted to hear people’s thoughts, especially about the swollen stomach…what could be going on?
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Open Question: I am bipolar and I'm worried I'm pregnant?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:46:56 GMT)
March 5th was the date I had sex and the condom broke and I need to know if I'm pregnant so the dr. took a blood test last week and I haven't gotten results yet. But lately because of stress I think I have been having horrible mood swings and I'm tired all the time and hurting. My boyfriend has dealt with me having lots of crying spells. I keep trying to tell myself that it's just me and I'm not pregnant. My period isn't due until the 18th or longer. Maybe it's PMS from being bipolar it seems to get worse. My nipples are itchy and I don't think that's a sign of pregnancy though. We started rolling cigarettes and the smell and taste made me feel nauseous.
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Open Question: 38 weeks and ready to go into labor, please help?!?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:42:38 GMT)
I'm 38 weeks pregnant and my sister will be here tomorrow. She lives 6 1/2 hours away! I need to try and have this baby while she is here, any suggestions on how I can do that? I already know the sex, walking, spicy food, nipple stimulation, squats and orgasms. Is there something else I can try? I will NOT do the Castor Oil!!! NO BASHING PLEASE!
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Open Question: First Pregnancy Help?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:33:52 GMT)
Okay I know I'm pregnant. I seen a womens health center and they did a free pregnancy test on me and confirmed that I am 7 weeks pregnant. I don't know what to do and I'm currently panicked that I might miscarry. Im still experiencing discharge, only its not picked up a slight oder. Can someone please tell me what to do. Im waiting to speak with a specialist to start me on all my immediate paperwork such as medicaid, food stamps, and WIC.... Please help
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Open Question: Question about pregnancy symptoms (6 weeks pregnant)...?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:31:58 GMT)
Hey all - I just found out I'm pregnant! This is my husband and I's first child and we are thrilled!!! I just had a couple of questions in regards to some of the earlier pregnancy symptoms. I am 6 weeks 3 days today... and the "familiar" symptoms really didn't start until 2 days ago. My breasts started hurting. It was not a painful to the touch type pain though. Its more so of a throb, or a shooting pain, down the sides of my breasts. It started in my left one, and each shot of pain would last about 5 - 10 seconds, then go away. Today its been a lot of pain (not excruciating though) in my right one (again, the shooting pain). The pain has been subsiding and increasing at different times throughout the day. It doesn't really hurt to touch them unless I put a little push into it, its more of an internal pain (if that makes sense), the only feeling I get touching them (and its not really on the nipple area) is it feels in some spots like i have sunburn (or when you touch a spot where there is sunburn). Is it normal for the breast pain and tenderness to come and go throughout the day and night? Other than that the only other symptom I have is I could sleep for hours lol. The past week or so I have no problems staying in bed (and I HATE sleeping in - this was one of the things that clued me in to test). I also have broken out horribly on my chin, and forehead, which is unusual for me - normally I only have one or two that pop up when AF shows up but this was just crazy. Last week I had quite a bit of heartburn and indigestion, as well as dizziness and just feeling spacey and stuffy in the head - whether or not that has anything to do with the pregnancy i have no idea. I guess basically I just want to hear from other moms/moms to be and what your experiences were with breast tenderness and if it was really bad, or mild, and even your other symptoms :) Thanks!
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Open Question: Do you think I handled this issue appropriately?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:30:31 GMT)
I'm 38 weeks pregnant with a little boy, my boyfriend of 2 in a half years asks me to marry him. I decline because I know he's only asking me because I'm pregnant with his child. We both love each other but we're still pretty young, 22. Now he won't talk to me this happened at 20 weeks after we found out we were having a boy. I told him that night that I loved him and would love to get married to him in the future, but I felt like we owed it to each other to make sure we were in it for the long halt. I don't know what to do, I've been trying to talk to him for the longest time and his parents have even got involved and he still won't budge.
Help?
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Open Question: 40 Weeks Pregnant, Contractions & Swollen Fingers/Hand?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:27:21 GMT)
I'm 40 weeks pregnant today, and I woke up with fairly strong 5-minute contractions this morning at 2am. Besides the contractions, I also woke up with a very swollen left hand and fingers, which remained that way until I fell back asleep at about 6am.
The contractions eventually subdued and went (hence me falling asleep again by 6 - which has happened once before) - but I'm a little concerned about the left hand. During this pregnancy, I havent had any previous swelling in my hands (only a little in my feet and ankles). My hand and fingers were like a balloon this morning, and I couldnt get very much feeling from it (except a slight pins/needles effect).
I didnt have pre-eclampsia with my last pregnancy, nor have I been diagnosed with it this time around. Why did I have a swollen hand for 4 hours?? Any suggestions??
P.S. I did inform my midwife of this this morning, she said it was odd, and asked if she should drop by. As I said the swelling had already gone by the time Id spoken to her, I told her it wasnt necessary as Im seeing her again tmrw for a proper check-up anyway.
But isnt it unusual for just the LEFT hand to puff up as much as it did? Without this happening at any point during the past 40 weeks?
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Open Question: pregnant question, 27 weeks are these new symptoms normal???? plz lol?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:25:20 GMT)
so...
i have been more wet down there
i have been having tightening also
the baby hasn't been moving as much as im used to(I am also working more)
I also have been more fatigued all of a sudden and getting dizzier easier
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Open Question: Could my girlfriend possibly be pregnant?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:23:15 GMT)
My girlfriend just ended her period about a week ago.
before that period, she was VERY dry and there was "crusty discharge" on the inside of her private area (sorry to be graphic).
Then her period started, lasted 4 days of heavy bleeding. It stopped then went EXTREMELY lightly for 5 days, we're scared it was implantation bleeding, but that doesn't make any sense. Now, she is EXTREMELY dry and there has been a mucus discharge coming out. She has also had tender breasts for the past 2 weeks, but I suspect that that's because of her period.
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Open Question: I'm 9 weeks pregnant..Can someone give me somee advice?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:22:53 GMT)
I recently just found out that I'm expecting. I work for a doctor cleaning her office and house everyday as a full time job. I work 40 hrs and sometimes less than that. Here recently I've been sick..so some days I tend to slack on a few things on the list to do..But I always go back to finish them when I feel better later in the day. The other day she came to me..pulled me to the side and tole me that she didn't want me cleaning her office anymore..and that it was my decision to still clean her house. She said I would only get par-time hours and all this other stuff. I feel like she's trying to get rid of me for some reason. When she comes in the the office in the mo rings she speaks to everyone but me..the only time she really talks to me is when she finds something wrong. I feel like there is something wrong and it really bothers me..cause now that I'm pregnant there really isn't any more jobs that I can do..But not sure if I'm going to be able to make it par time just working at this one. She has been though like 4 housekeepers in the past year. I've managed to stay 3 months and i like my job..Just don't like whats going on now. What should I do?? Just quit and walk out..Or wait til something better comes along.??
by the way..My doctor now knows about this..He doesn't like it..Told me it isn't healthy to be stressed about all this..What to do??
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Open Question: Why is my period coming twice a month?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:21:38 GMT)
I started my period on March 2nd and it ended on March 8th, and now I've started a NEW period just a week after I ended my first period for March. What could this mean? Could it be stress? A lot has been going on and its really been stressful, I will admit, but I know I'm NOT pregnant, I'm sure of it. Why did I have my period twice this month?
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Open Question: Could i be pregnant? Or is it other symptoms?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:20:58 GMT)
Over a week ago my husband and i had Four Play and obviously rubbing boobs, nipples makes you more excited. They have been sooo incredibly sore ever since and it's been a week. My period isn't for a while. I just ended a few days before we had sex. Could i be pregnant? Or is it just my hormones?
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Open Question: what's the best position to have sex in while late in pregnancy?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:11:49 GMT)
i am 36 weeks pregnant and it hurts A Lot of time to have sex and i am getting no pleasure out of sex whats so ever, i haven't had an orgasm the in tier time i have been pregnant, there for i have no desire it have sex with my boyfriend and it's driving me insane.... it hurts vaginally to have sex with me on top and before my pregnancy that was my favorite position and would have a guaranteed orgasm that way every Time, and i get no pleasure at al from laying side by side (spooning) and my belly is to big to so him on top and me laying down.. this is taking a big strain on our relationship and i need to figure out what to do fast? please help!
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Open Question: When to Test? Still breastfeeding once a day?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:10:19 GMT)
Hi mamas! I gave birth on February 26, 2009. I exclusively breastfed until my daughter started solids (cereal at 5 months, fruits and veggies at 6 months, etc etc). She now nurses once a day in the morning, sometimes again at night, but that's it. I got my first postpartum period on Oct 24, but not before I took a pregnancy test because I was convinced that I was pregnant again. I tested again in mid-December, once again convinced that I was pregnant, but I got my period on December 21. I got my period again on Feb 3 (and yes, I tested again a few days before, convinced I was pregnant.) Are you sensing a pattern here? Well, it's been 5.5 weeks since my last period and I'm once again convinced that I'm pregnant, but for different symptoms this time. We were using condoms and I think we were pretty careful this month, but you all know how that goes. I'm tired of wasting tests, but if I am pregnant, I want to know. What do you think, should I try my best to wait a few more days before I test?
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Open Question: Cramping and nausea at 25 weeks pregnant?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:10:02 GMT)
Hi
I am currently 25+5 weeks pregnant with baby number 2. Lately I have just not felt right, feely really really drained and tired. It is a lot of effort just to stand up and walk somewhere. I have been getting cramping sensations in my belly which then go towards my lower back. Like mild contractions. They kind of feel like bad poo pains. You know when you're constipated and have to go but just can't, and then you get this awful stomach pain. I was just in hospital with high blood pressure, and don't want to sound like I am overreacting, but this pregnancy feels so much differently to my first. Baby is kicking/moving just as much as normal, I just feel like crap, when I eat I gag..
What are your suggestions? I will be going doctors as soon as I'm off work...
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Open Question: I am 15 weeks pregnant and feel like I'm 92 weeks pregnant!?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:09:25 GMT)
I have had back, hip, leg, calf, foot, and everywhere else pain already. I am huge, I've only gained 6 pounds but it's ALL in my stomach and I'm totally showing. it's hard too! I exercised regularly before I was pregnant and now when I just go on 2 mile walks it feels like I climbed a mountain. Is this normal? Does this mean Im going to have a rough pregnancy? I am in relatively really good shape and I a pretty healthy person. Am I just on the road for a long and hard pregnancy?
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Open Question: How can I get pregnant ladies?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:07:28 GMT)
I stop taking my birth control pills on Saturday because I want my cycle to regulate on it's own, but my cycle will be irregular and stay on longer; Like days to weeks; Maybe even a month. How will I know when I'm ovulating to even get pregnant?
Did I make a mistake by getting off my pills?
Last week, I was vomiting one day last week and every time I look up, I have to pee, pee, and pee. My boobs have gotten bigger and my stomach has too. Um...My granny is telling me that I'm pregnant, but I don't think so. I tooka pregnancy test two weeks ago, but it came up negative for both tests.
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Open Question: I know I'm only 3 weeks pregnant but the doctor says 4 1/2?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:07:03 GMT)
I had my first appointment to confirm my pregnancy and the doctor says I'm 4 1/2 weeks along according to my LMP. I KNOW when I conceived for sure and I used an online calculator and used my conception date to have it figured out and it still came up with Nov 13th as the due date. I'm really confused!!? I thought using my conception date would come up with a different due date?
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Open Question: I have a pregnancy question...?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:03:45 GMT)
so my period is about a week late. I've had a few pregnancy symptoms like
-missed period
-sore breasts
-lower back aches
-bleeding gums
-cravings
-Nausea
-Frequent Urination
i took a pregnancy test a few days ago and it said negative. It was the kind with 2 lines for pregnant and 1 line for not pregnant. I took 1 today and there was 1 line and the second line was visible but faded. so pregnant or not?
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Open Question: I'm sixteen, and may be pregnant?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:03:22 GMT)
I am sixteen years old, I have been on birthcontrol for a year and a half and recently got off of it for like a month and a half because my period got all messed up and I restarted it like a week ago not even, and me and my boyfriend (of two years) decided we would have sex like the other night, after that we realized that the condom had broke. And I know this is akward but I am freaking out. I do not have the money for a Plan B pill or those things. How can I find out if I am pregnant ? Will I be able to find out now or later? I don't know if abortion would be an option with my mother, she is highly against that. What should I do? I posted a question like this but there wasn't enough info. So could someone please help
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Open Question: Birth Control Pill Question?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 01:58:33 GMT)
I stopped taking my pill in aug or sept of 09... My live in bf at the time and I were in a rough spot financially and it was just an added expense and since we weren't doing it, there was no reason for it...
So after a huge messy break up the end of Feb, lots of stress, and a new man in my life... I need to start my pills again... last month I had my period on schedule... This month i should have started on the 2nd of the month... I still am periodless... There is no way I'm pregnant...
I cramped some like I was going to start last week, but that was only for a few days and now I'm back to normal...
Do i absolutely have to wait till my period starts to start my pack?
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Open Question: pregnant at 14? need help please.?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 01:55:48 GMT)
My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex about 2 months ago, and i hadn't gotten my period so i went to the doctor about 4 weeks after the sex and im pregnantt.. I need young parenting advice, and im so afraid that hes not gonna pull through this.. hes 15 .. and i dont want him to give up school , and have to work, ill work as long as i can, im just not giving up this baby. please help.
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Open Question: How long after conception does it take before the woman can become nauseated?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 01:53:53 GMT)
I'm feeling pretty nauseated.
I have two children but I don't THINK I'm pregnant right now. It's been about two weeks since I last had unprotected. So it's possible. I'm breastfeeding & it was the day after my period.
And how soon can I take a test... thank you lovelies.
hmmm. Sounds like I need to go pick up a test, it's worth a shot. :-D
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Open Question: I'm so annoyed that i let myself get fooled this easily.?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 01:46:03 GMT)
Hey Ladies,
So i'm 11 days late on my period.I have taken 2 pregnancy tests, but both negative.All my symptoms like sore breasts (at least not as much), tiredness, food cravings & gassyness (sorry, i know that's not even a word but you know) have all gone. EXCEPT cramps.. earlier during dinner i had cramps, so i went to the toilet, but no period. This has been happening on & off through out the week, but recently got worse today. So i get the great witch AF is coming tomorrow, i just have that feeling.
I just feel so upset that i actually thought this month, after 1 year of trying.. that we actually got somewhere this month. It's just not how i imagined things to be? i thought TTC would be easy but it's far from it.
I have never been pregnant before, so i don't have a clue what it feels like to be pregnant.
I think it's driving my insane. It's just the fact that i could be on a new cycle by now and i'm still waiting for AF, i'm at CD42 and just want AF to arrive.
I'm so down right now and can't sleep. Does anyone ever get like this or is it just me?
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Open Question: Maybe 2 weeks pregnant and paint fumes, etc?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 01:36:03 GMT)
So, Fiance and I are trying for a kid. I was fertile from the 28th of Feb. to the 3rd or 4th of March. We had sex mostly all those days. So, I have a pretty good chance of being pregnant. If I did get pregnant, I would be 1-2 weeks pregnant. Im currently at my moms house for the weekend, and she's painting the house. She's also cleaning all of the windows with water and bleach, and other cleaning fumes. I was wondering ( If I even am pregnant) could it harm the baby, or anything to that matter? I'm trying to hold my breath and cover my mouth, but I was just wondering if anything could go wrong?
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Open Question: Trouble with a friend, and feeling extremely guilty.?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 01:26:18 GMT)
Hello. I am a highschool junior. In the fall my close friend dropped out of highschool (her boyfriend has also dropped out) . She has had an extremely difficult life, had been adopted multiple times, and is absolutely convinced that this guy is the one. She moved in with him, and I haven't spoken to her since.
Honestly, I moved on. I am an extremely determined, motivated, and upbeat person. I have tons of great new and old friends, I have so many extracurricular activities I love, and am extremely exited about applying to and attending collage.
Part of the reason I haven't contacted her is that I am honestly so so so busy. Another reason is that I realy don't understand what she is doing. I'm not an uptight superficial person or anything, but I can't even imagine dropping out of high school. I want to go to go to movies, go to collage, do AIDS relief in Botswana, go live in the woods or whatnot, and peruse an active, exiting, and fulfilling career. Before she dropped my friend was talking about getting pregnant, and also got a full body tat. I can't relate to that.
Over the last couple weeks my friend has messaged me a couple times asking me to contact her, and wondering why a haven't. The thing is, I honestly feel no desire to. I don't know how evil that sounds. It's just that I enjoyed being her friend, and I was always completely there for me, but she made her choice and now it's over. Like, she made her choice. The thing is I feel so guilty about all of this, and I was one of her only friends. Even though I can't relate to what she is doing I feel like I should still relate to her as a friend?
So I don't know if I should contact her. Have I been acting irrationally? And if I did decide to message back, what I would say? I am sorry this is long, but can anybody offer advice or opinions on weather I am acting cruelly?
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Open Question: pregnant and unaware of it?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 01:23:48 GMT)
i did have unprotected sex for awhile and had many pregnancy scares. my period would always be late by a week or more. now i am on the depo birth control shot so i do not get periods. i pee all the time also. i will feel like i haven't peed all day then when i go to the bathroom only a little comes out, and i had only peed a hour or so before. i feel like every time i drink i pee. also i always wake up in the middle of the night and use the bathroom, if i don't i can't fall asleep. i feel as if i might have been pregnant and the baby passed away or i am currently pregnant. i know i could get an unltra sound but those can be expensive. i always feel like i have indigestion. can anyone help me out with this? it could just be i watch alot of shows and gotten in my head, but who knows.
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Open Question: relationship need your opinion?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 01:18:41 GMT)
ok well i am 21 and currently 8 months pregnant i am due april 28. my baby's father and i have known each other for 4 years now and we got togther right before i got pregnant. we were allmutual friends. and he has had a child before. the thing is his first baby's mom i was like best friends with. and i was there through her whole pregnancy and even at the hospital the whole time with her. she gave her child up for adoption. they both recieve pictures of the baby from time to time. now me and him got 2gether a yr n half after she gave up the baby and for the 3months b4 me n him got 2gether he kept trying to get back with her and she kept sayin she didn't want him and he had gotten thrown out of his house so i had let him move in with me and he always told me how he wanted to get with me even when we first met b4 he was with her. so once he moved in and we talked i had realized i did like him and we got 2gether . well once we got 2gether it was a big circle of cluster f*ck. becuz then his x who was also my friend was pissed at me sayin she still wanted him and then after she was done with that she was tellin me how she wanted to b with me. which i am bi and me n her have had sexual relations b4. and my man kept telling me to stop talkin to her all she wanted was to break us up and start trouble. but i felt bad seeing she was my friend .... but again she was rediculous with her sh*t .... she would never give us time alone and would b at my house 24/7 i didn't have the heart to tell her to go.... so me n him were together for two months and thats wen i found out i was pregnant and once she found out cuz she was there wen i took the pregnancy test she had the nerve to ask me wat i was going to do... abort it or adopt it out... i flat out told her wether he was there or not i am taking care of my child! .... so about a week after we found out i was pregnant he had told me he was goin to get his little brother so he can get a hair cut and then he just never came back. so afterwards i found out him n her got back together and then she stopped talking to me and then about a little over a month ago i had talked to him just to ask him wats goin on with him and wat does he want to do with the baby situation and if he wants to be in the babies life. and me and him wound up hanging out together and i told him i am not here to break u n her up.. we r just hanging out as friends and all i wanted to do was just ask him about the baby and then he would up telling me how he missed me and did i ever think about us getting back together and i had said to him i had becuz i would rather our son have both parents in his life ... so we got the talking and we got back together. so we have been back together for over a month n a half now but yet his x has his wallet with his id n social in it and she wont give it back to him unless he speaks to her and he doesnt want anything to do with her and me and him are fine we never argue and things are going great but i still think about how he just left me and ran back to her am i wrong for thinking about this?? do you think he will do it again??
also children n family services and been involved with the 1st baby and from wat the x n him r tellin me they told him that if he has another child they will b involved right away. i am not scared of them i have nothing to hide and i have a clean house for them to check for my child. but i had them in my life wen i was younger and just hate their b.s. so do u think if this doesnt work... should i put him on the birth certificate and get child support????
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Open Question: someone please help 30 weeks pregnant and bleeding?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 01:15:44 GMT)
Last night my husband and I had sex and soon after i started cramping mildly. I just figured it was braxton hicks or something like that and went to sleep. Well in the middle of the night my son was crying so i got up put him back to bed and noticed i was cramping really really bad. I went to go to the restroom (pee) and get a glass of water but when i went pee a ton of blood came out and i was hurting really bad. I layed back down and for like half an hour had serious cramping and it hurt to even touch my stomach that felt like a rock! I went to sleep hoping it would go away and when i got up i felt a lot better and no more bright red bleeding just brownish red. I have felt my daughter moving so my nerves are calmed down.
What I am asking since there is no more bleeding or cramping and she is moving do you think I am fine. I have a doctors appointment Tuesday but just curious whether anyone has ever bleed a lot after having sex at 30 weeks pregnant or anything like that.
I was told to be on pelvic rest (due to some mild cramping) a few weeks ago but i had felt fine for a week and no cramping so thats why we had sex last night now definitly not going to go by just how im feeling i will definitly not be having sex again until this baby is out way to scary!
Sorry this may sound gross but just a few hours ago I took a shower and when i was about to get out i noticed a pretty big blob of brownish red mucus. I'm not sure if it was possibly my mucus plug or just blood from last night. I don't ever remember anything from when i had my first son so im not sure what do you think???
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Open Question: I am having some slight bleeding. It's very very dark brown and not accompanied by any cramping. Am I pregnant?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 01:11:54 GMT)
I know there is a chance I am pregnant as I stopped my birth control almost a week ago. I ovulated on the 9th and my period is not due until the 26th. What is this bleeding???
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Open Question: Experienced about 5-10 seconds of a black out followed by an urge to throw up...?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 01:09:58 GMT)
I'm a little worried as I haven't experience a black out or vertigo in a while, but followed an urge to throw up? It was strange. I woke up to go the the bathroom and I had to hold on to the sink or I would've fallen or something, but after about 20 seconds or so... the black out/vertigo and the urge to throw up was gone. Can anyone explain this? I don't think I can be pregnant as I just had my period about 2-2.5 weeks ago.
Perhaps I have low iron or something, not quiet sure.
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Open Question: Could I Still Be Pregnant?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 01:02:07 GMT)
I'm 2 weeks late for my period and have taken several pregnancy tests which all appeared negative. I have had very brown and light pink spotting throughout the last week and mild cramping on and off. Last night I started experiencing sharp pains on the left side of my stomach and again this morning. I decided to go to the ER because they were becoming quite painful. Of course, they assumed I was pregnant and gave me a urine pregnancy test. They then said that they found blood in my urine but I was not pregnant and they said that I will be starting my period today. They sent me home. Well, its been about 8 hours since then and I still havn't started my period and have no indication of starting. Could I still be pregnant if I had sex 17 days ago but the tests are negative? Why do I have blood in my urine? I'm completely clueless. Any help would be lovely. Thanks.
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Open Question: Could i be preggerssss?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 00:58:51 GMT)
I had sex about a week ago. we used a condom, and he didn't cub inside of me, but i'm paranoid about getting pregnant. i'm not sick or anything, the only symptom i'm having are my boobs getting big. Am i pregnant?
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Open Question: Has anyone had these symptoms and found out they are pregnant? 4 days left before I find out. Sorry very long.?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 00:56:01 GMT)
1) sudden period-like cramps after eating or walking (with bloating only after eating)
2) sore breasts- but like the usual sore, and the nipples are not
3) dark around the nipples (but I think I have had this before... so it doesn't seem unusual)
4) sudden exhaustion in the afternoons, with full vertigo (only when laying, just dizzy when standing), and mildly sick to the stomach from it
5) clear/white discharge the past 2 days- like I had during ovul. but this smells like garlic. It doesn't smell bad, just very different from normal. There are no other symptoms with it but i've been home-treating it as a yeast infection and it hasn't gone away yet (never had one before, had a pap done 2 months ago with normal results)
6) pee very often and urgently (at night too) but probably from my uti for the past week (had 1 before in my life)
7) very hungry before bed and waking up in the morning, which is unusual for me - this is the first thing that started happening, it is an extreme hunger where I feel like throwing up and actually start heaving if I don't eat something fast (bread has worked best)
8) very emotional, like pms but more extreme and the strange thing is i have been extremely happy feeling in general, with no crankiness at all, but i can cry very easy at almost anything (usually with pms i get very cranky, stay cranky, and cry much more)
9) I have been very restless when I sleep for the past 5 days- my right shoulder will ache, or my legs seem uncomfortable, I keep waking up during the night and having trouble falling asleep - this could be why I am getting tired in the afternoon...
10) this might not apply at all, but my husband told me yesterday my hair is shining and it's the prettiest he ever saw it, what did i do with it? then his father came later and basically said the same thing but I haven't changed shampoo, or done anything different with it for it to shine
I think that is everything. Has anyone had these symptoms together, or some, and find out they are pregnant? I can't wait to find out but until then I can only guess... Thank you for your answers!
Thank you everyone! I am so happy, I feel like I got the BFP! Wow Barbara, so much variation. Thank you for the detailed answer! Preggers Again- funny about the graham cracker haha. I am hoping for a boy... this hunger has got to be a boy...haha. My husband wants his girl. I dreamed I will have a girl, and a coworker of my husband's brought in her baby girl and he held her... so it looks like I have to wait until next time... :) Thanks again everyone and good luck with your babies!
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Open Question: Is my body lying to me or what? I don't even know anymore. HELP!!!?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 00:54:31 GMT)
Ok. My body is confusing me, I've been having a lot of pregnancy symptoms. Throwing up, peeing more, breast hurt so bad, bright blue veins in my breast that weren't so noticeable before, headaches, a bit of a backache, and sticky white discharge that doesn't smell or anything. I don't have a regular period so I won't know when I miss it. Its been 4 weeks and 1 day since I had sex of any kind and well, it was completely unprotected and he didn't pull out. I've taken one clear blue easy digital test 3 weeks after I had sex and it was negative. Today I took a 1st response 4 weeks and 1 day after I had sex. I have another pregnancy test in my room but I'm going to wait a while to take it. I'm so confused right now, is my body lying to me or what? Has it taken anyone else longer than 4 weeks to get a positive? Does anyone have any advice on what I should do cause if I'm not pregnant then there is something wrong with me...
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Open Question: at what week in pregnancy does the midwife check dilation?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 00:53:25 GMT)
and see if the baby has dropped? I'm 36w4d pregnant and i'm seeing my midwife this wednesday.
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Open Question: i am feeling so different lately. can i be pregnant?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 00:50:26 GMT)
okay so i've been ttc for 2 months now. we did the baby dance a 1 week and a half after af. about 2 weeks after af i got a yeast infection. it only lasted for like 3 days and it went away. now i have a lot of acne when i had an absolutely clear face. i'm also having heart burn which i never ever get and i have been really moody lately. when i eat i sometimes get hit with unexpected nausea. my fiance also has been getting morning sickness lol ( heard guys can get the symptoms also). now i'm a week away from my period and i have some cramping. could all these be pregnancy symptoms?
i also have been so tired. i would usually wait for my fiance to get home at 1 am from work but now I'm sound asleep at 10. also i take naps during the day which i have never been able too. the other day i layed down not even tired and i fell asleep within 5 minutes
i also have gas haha i know tmi but its true(:
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Open Question: Help, please? I'm 5 months pregnant, and my husband is acting very shy about intimacy...?!?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 00:42:00 GMT)
Ok, well, I'm 25, and I'm 5 months pregnant. My husband, Patrick, is 26, and very supportive of me. He gets me whatever I need, lets me take naps when I get home from work because I'm exhausted, and makes dinner for me and willingly does whatever else needs to be done around the house. Well, since I got pregnant, my sex drive has been extremely high (Patrick's has always been high, too,) but I have a question... Sometimes Patrick acts funny about having sex with me... Usually he comes to my doctor's appointments with me to see how the baby is doing, but then for a few days after, he'll seem sort of scared to have sex. I think he's scared he'll hurt me or the baby. I told him he won't, but he still seems afraid. He's sort of shy about it; for those few days after my appointment, he'll be really shy every time I'm turned on, and if I ask him how come, he just sort of mumbles something and turns sort of red. After about a week, he'll have sex with me without much hesitation, but for those few days, he's sort of shy about intimacy. I don't understand... What's going on? How come he's like this? And what should I do to make him feel better...?
He'd never cheat on me. I trust him 110%. And he's still attracted... I worried about that, too, but I can feel and see him get hard, but he still acts shy about it and sort of pulls away a bit during those few days...
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Open Question: pregnancy symptoms just stopping... I haven't had bloating or anything. getting nervous.?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 00:38:16 GMT)
Hi everyone :)
I am 9 weeks pregnant and I have had severe morning sickness, which yesterday it just stopped and I have woken up this morning and felt fine! Which is weird because when I say severe morning sickness I mean vomiting everything I eat and drinkI I have lost weight (yes spoken to my doctor) I don't know know I find it weird I have woken up and not even gagged. I also haven't needed to wake up to go to the toilet for the last few days either which was something I was doing every night.
The reason why I suppose I am nervous is because I just haven't felt pregnant (besides the vomiting and tiredness) I don't have any cramps or bloating, which I remember when I was pregnant with my daughter. Since the get go I have only had one day when I felt bloated, shouldn't I feel that way a little more? Shouldn't I feel some form of stretching or something?
Anyway anything you can tell me I would love to hear. I was never scared of anything pregnant with my daughter, but this time I am just so nervous and scared and I am hoping it is unjustified. I don't have a midwives appointment for another week :) Obviously if I did have bleeding or severe cramping I would contact my doctor. I do not have it so I am scared something has happened without me knowing.
Thanks for reading
Hmm yes my morning sickness has been varied but it has been more like vomiting everyday 15 times a day (bad day) and then only 5 times a day... Since 5 weeks & I have woken up and been sick every morning. Today I am absolutely fine.
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Open Question: What exactly is going on...39 weeks pregnant?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 00:37:23 GMT)
Didnt want to give TMI in the title lol sorry so anyway yesterday and today when I went to the bathroom I wiped and has some slimy stringy discharge with streaks of blood in it. Yes it kinda looked like mucus but it wasnt a blob like I hear people talking about. I feel kinda dumb asking this considering this is my 3rd child but ive never had my water break and I've never knowingly lost my mucus plug...is it a sign of labor? At this point i guess id take anything as a sign of labor im 39 weeks and 2 days
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Open Question: when will i fell my baby move?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 00:37:02 GMT)
im 14 weeks 2 days, im really small, im 4'10 and weight 85 pounds now that im pregnant i used to be 80 pounds, so i don't think i will go past 16 weeks without felling him, i hope not. When did you start felling your baby?
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Open Question: Early pregnancy scan?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 00:36:25 GMT)
My girlfriend is 6 weeks pregnant today.But for some reason i am really worried that she going to have another m/c again.She's had two previous m/c's.I cant go through the heartache again.Is it possible to have an early scan done to put my mind at rest?If so how can i go about arranging one through the NHS.thanks i am in the united kingdom
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Open Question: 24 weeks pregnant, always hungry, but can't eat:(?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 00:36:09 GMT)
I have been diagnosed with Gastroesophageal Reflux Disorder, and the doctor said I have alot of sludge in my gallbladder that could hurt the baby and me. Since I found out I have only been drinking water and eating plenty fruits and veggies and lean meat. I completly cut out fast food, greasy food, sodas, etc. But that's so tough to do while pregnant. I am definilty doing this for my baby and my health, but I am constantly hungry. None of this feels me up. I am supposed to eat 5 small meals aday, but I am never full and I fell like my baby is not full, I know that's sounds crazy, I am not supposed to eat and lay down either because I usually throe it up:( But I wake up in the middle of the night starving but I am scared to eat anything. What are some ideas that will help me but also keep me healthy and has anybody else suffered from this?
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Open Question: Am I pregnant? I have been having unprotected sex for a little over a month now.?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 00:32:03 GMT)
My bf and i have been having unprotected sex since February. The last time i got my period was on Feb 13. I always get my period every 28 days, its never late. It's been 30 days now. I was suppose to start my period somewhere around march 12 or 13. Is it too early to take a pregnancy test? I'm hoping that i am pregnant, i've been trying to get pregnant for a while and failed. I've also been having weird dreams, 1 week ago i had a dream that i was surrounded by rabbits, and according to the dream book "rabbits can represent luck, quickness, fertility, pregnancy". Then 3 days ago i had a dream i took a pregnancy test and it came out positive. I also looked that up in the dream book and it reads "At times, women learn about their pregnancy in their dreams. Your mind knows about everything that is going on in your body even if you are not consciously aware of it ".
I hope i am pregnant! That would make me oh soo very happy!! :D
i'm also a smoker, i smoke maybe about 3-4 cigarretes a day.
Even though i know that there could be a chance that I AM pregnant i still continue to smoke. .
but there's also a chance that i might NOT be pregnant and that is my excuse why im
still smoking now hah is that confusing? lol
but today i decided to quit smoking. . just in case i am preg, don't want to hurt the embryo.
okay enough of that! Sooo
the symptoms that i have been having are:
been getting cramps but no period. (this morning i woke up with cramps again, but no period)
i am feeling extremely sleepy all the time.
kinda moody.
when i eat, i don't feel full, so i've been eating more than i usually do.
So am i pregnant!? :D
or is it too soon to tell?
when should i take a home pregnancy test? i'm thinking of trying ClearBlue pregnancy test.
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Open Question: Pregnancy and post part.?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 00:28:54 GMT)
I have a few different questions.
before I ask, here's WHY I'm asking..
I'm 7 weeks PP, from my first child.
I had sex 5 weeks from being PP.
I haven't had a first period yet, and I'm not sure when I will have one.
But now I'm worked up that I could be pregnant.. I'm not able to start BC yet, because I haven't had a first period..
When can I test to see if I'm pregnant?
I know usually, after your missed period, but again.. I haven't had one since I've had my son.. and I'm not sure when I'll start.
Also, when do you usually have a first period after baby?
No, I'm not breast feeding.
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