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Open Question: FUN SURVEY FOR PREGNANT LADIES ONLY:)?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 15:24:24 GMT)
I just wanted to see how all u pregnant ladies are doing in ur pregnancies...
I hope you enjoy:)
1.) How old are you?
2.) When did you find out u were expecting?
3.) What HPT did you use?
4.) Who was the first to know u were expecting?
5.) How did you and the baby's father feel about being parents?
6.) How many weeks were you when you first went to the doctor?
7.) How many weeks are you now?
8.) When is your due date?
9.) What is the gender of your baby, if you know yet?
10.) Is this the gender you wanted, if you know yet? If not are you still happy?
11.) Do you have any names picked out yet? First? Middle?
12.) Are you naming your baby after someone? If so, who? and why?
13.) Do you like your doctor?
14.) Is your doctor a male or female?
15.) Do you feel your baby move yet?
16.) What's your wierdest cravings so far?
17.) Are you doing a theme for the baby's nursery? If so what theme?
18.) What method of birth do you plan for?
19.) Who is going to be present for the delivery?
20.) First thing you bought for your baby?
21.) Is this your first baby? If not, including this one how many do you have?
22.) Do you and the baby's father feel you were ready for this baby?
23.) Are you excited or scared about delivery?
24.) Have you had any complications with your pregnancy so far?
25.) EXTRA: Did you think this survey was a waste of time? Fun? Or boring? Please state how you felt while taking this survey! Thanks for taking ur time to take this survey.
Here's my answers:
1.) How old are you? I am 19 years old
2.) When did you find out you were expecting? I found out on November 23rd, 2009
3.) What HPT did you use? I used the Clear Blue digital test, I took 5!
4.) Who was the first to know you were expecting? My fiance's parents
5.) How did you and the baby's father feel about being parents? I was very shocked, and HAPPY and he was happy and excited!
6.) How many weeks were you when you first went to the doctor? I was 5 1/2 weeks, I went to ER for bleeding
7.) How many weeks are you now? I am 21 weeks and 1 day:)
8.) When is your due date? July 29th, 2010
9.) What is the gender of your baby, if you know yet? We are having a little boy!
10.) Is this the gender that you wanted, if you know yet, If not, are you still happy? I knew I was having a little boy, he thought we were having a girl. We were both happy either way!
11.) Do you have any names picked out yet? First? Middle? We are naming our little boy Kaeden Allan Lawrence
12.) Are you naming your baby after someone? If so, Who? and Why? Yes, we are naming him after my fiance and his dad and also his uncle that passed recently that he will never meet.
13.) Do you like your doctor? Yes:)
14.) Is your doctor a male or female? Female
15.) Do you feel your baby move yet? Yes, he's active!
16.) What's your wierdest cravings so far? I crave nothing but sweets, nothing too out of the ordinary
17.) Are you doing a theme for your baby's nursery? If so, what theme? Yes, we are doing the Winnie The Pooh days of honey theme
18.) What method of birth do you plan for? I plan for an epideral and to deliver vaginally
19.) Who is going to be present for the delivery? Just my fiance
20.) First thing you bought for your baby? We bought the crib first, I think lol
21.) Is this your first baby? If not, including this one how many will you have? This is our first baby:)
22.) Do you and the baby's father feel you were ready for this baby? Yes, this was a planned baby.
23.) Are you excited or scared about delivery? I am terrified:(
24.) Have you had any complications with your pregnancy so far? Yes, lots of them:(
25.) I THINK THIS SURVEY WAS FUN:)
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Open Question: Could I be pregnant or is this hormones in play?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 13:51:53 GMT)
I am worried. A week before I got my period I started hurting in my right side. The pain started right at my hip and went down in a line to my groin area. My breasts also began to be very sore. At first I thought the pain in my side and sore breasts were due to my period. But the pain got really bad so I went to the doctor and he said I had a kidney infection (there was blood in my urine and my white cell count was high) They didnt do a pregnancy test because I had a tubal (cut and burned) when I delivered my daugter via c-section in 2002. Well the pain really never has went away in my side, it comes and goes. I got my period right on time, it lasted 4 days as it normally does but my breasts are still sore. Although they normally get sore right before my period, the soreness usually goes away once I start. This time it didnt. They are still sore and feel full espcially after I take off my bra. Now I am getting nausea at night, and this morning I woke up feeling great. I got my kids off to school and came home and began cleaning up the house. Felt fine, no nausea or anything. Then just out of the blue a wave of nausea hit me and I barely made it to the bathroom before I threw up several times. Now I feel great again. It all sounds funny. I think there is something hormonal going on here. Not sure. But I would appreciate hearing your advice. I mean I know the logical thing to do would be to buy a pregnancy test and just make sure. But I hate to spend money on something like that if I am not pregnant. The thing that really scares me is that last year my best friend became pregnant after she had her tubes tied (the exact same way I did by the same doctors) and it was in her tubes. I am scared and dont know what to think.
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Open Question: could i be pregnant?whats wrong? is this ok?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 13:47:23 GMT)
I just got off my period a week ago! it was normal..heavy with alot of cramps. but now that i am off my period im feeling like im going to throw up and im having cramps like im about to start my period!! i just took a pregnancy test to see if maybe i am even though i just had my period a week ago and it was negative.
my boyfriend,mom and sister were just recently sick so maybe im just sick? is it normal to have cramps if your sick?
oh and i have been on birthcontrol for 4 months now
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Open Question: what does the first 2-4 weeks of being pregnant feel like?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 13:44:04 GMT)
i havent took a test, but i got my period this month on the 14. before i started.. like a week before, i started feeling sick. this morning i woke up and threw up and my stomache is in major pain, and not from cramping. alot of my family has had periods while pregnant, or spotting. i just really need to know what all of you girls felt like the first few weeks of pregnancy... by the way.. i have beeb trying to get pregnant with my fiance for a month. thank you for any advice. :)
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Open Question: PREGNANT! WHEN DID THIS HAPPEN??/?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 13:38:32 GMT)
First could I please have real advice not just people being nasty!
I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years I was not on the pill as i took myself of it! but about 7 weeks ago me and him split up, I got very very drunk and slept with another man! By then I had put myself back on the pill and had come on, Due to starting the pill again and I also took the morning after pill just incase I was not protected properly ... me and my boyfriend then got back together on the 10th February and we had a long chat and we managed to sort things out, I did feel really awful for sleeping with someone but it was a mistake and they are there to be made! So I dont want u thinking im a slag!
I then took myself of the pill end of feb and Now I am pregnant! I took the clear blue diugital test which said I conceived about 1-2 weeks ago! i then went to the midwife who then told me I had conceived around 20 february and I was 5 weeks pregnant ( :-))
All I want to no is, is there any chance that I could of conceived before this and this baby isnt my boyfriends. I asked my midwife and she said there is not a slight chance,
I no I can wait for my scan but im worried! Im sure if I had conceived the beginiing of feb I wouldnt of come on and plus I had a morning after pill?
Please only reply to give advice! x Thanks
I have thought about this 100 times over and there is no way my boyfriend is NOT the dad!!! as I took the morning after pill, I was also on the pill and I came on my period!
I think i am worrying so much AS its happened so soon after my stupid mistake!!! x
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Open Question: No Xplode with possible pregnancy?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 13:18:25 GMT)
I am a big fan of No Xplode, but there's a chance I might be pregnant, but I don't know yet. It says to not use it while pregnant or nursing, but I've been using it before I realized. Can anyone tell me what kind of affect No Xplode would have on an early pregnancy? When I say early, I mean really early, like 4 weeks. I usually have about 2 scoops three days a week. If it turns out I am pregnant, could the No Xplode that I have already had, cause a miscarriage or other complication?
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Open Question: I took plan B - I got my period right AGAIN?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 11:48:56 GMT)
4 days ago i took plan B..... i took it the last day on my period.. so my 7th day. Yesterday I got my period.. and now this morning I have it even stronger. Why did i get my period again? Is this normal after taking plan B? Does this mean I am not pregnant if i got my period right after? I'm just worried because i JUST GOT OFF my period, and then i got it again the SAME WEEK...
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Open Question: 25 weeks pregnant an other tooth ache question about oral gel please help!?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 07:46:27 GMT)
Ok so tylenol & vicodin is not really working I take it and its goes down a little but after an hour it starts to come back and I'm to take 2 tablets every 6 hours so while I wait in pain thoes other 4 hours would it be ok to use oral gel for adults the extra strenght for tooth aches?
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Open Question: My new kittens are Nursing my NON- Lactating Dog!!?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 07:06:13 GMT)
ok SO i brought home two kittens!!! they were said to be 10 weeks old BUT they look to be more like 4-6 weeks old I know that's WAY to young to be weaned from there mom but they Kinda just handed us the kittens and ran...
Now they are Nursing my Female NON pregnant and NON lactating Jack russel Mix!!!
Should i allow this OR make them stop!? Im not sure if it is Bothering her or not when there nursing she Just lays there and lets them!
But sometimes she Runs away!
We have the Kittens on wet food! and a Tiny Bit of kitten milk!!!
She is a few weeks shy of 1 year old!!
What should i do??
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Open Question: What would yPlease help me~ pretty curious about possible pregnancy!?ou like to ask?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 05:55:35 GMT)
ok so i am a week late. my last period was feb 14, 2010. i feel pregnant, but i have taken 2 pregnancy tests and both have come back negative...took one online and it said that if i did conceive then i would be about 4 weeks pregnant, so i think i am testing too soon! not sure though! anyhow, when my boyfriend and i make love we start without using a condom and then he pulls out before he cums and puts a condom on, yes i know i can get pregnant just from precum!!! dont be judging me either....he also tells me that i am tighter than i have ever been before....plus i have nausea, pee more, have a clear-white watery discharge, no period yet....what do yall think??? also we're not intentionally trying to get pregnant...but if it happens oh well...
normally a urine test is 6 weeks, but that never works for me i guess! and blood is as early as 2 weeks! luckily my dr does ultrasound also! lucky me!
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Open Question: Question about a very sick cat?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 05:48:34 GMT)
I have made a vet appointment for tomorrow, but I wanted to ask everyone, if they knew what could be going on with my female cat. She is not quit a year old yet, and she is kept indoors. She escaped when one of my kids opened the door about 4 weeks ago, and when we recovered her, I suspected that she was pregnant, ( and yes I am going to get her sprayed, before anybody say's anything) anyway, I was right and I seen that her stomach started to grow, and then she developed a cold. with colored ( brownish) discharge from her eyes nose, and it was a very bad smell coming from the disharge, and when she breathed out, you could smell it, ( horrible smell) the doctor said I would have to do a "at home visit" because it might be contagoius, to other animals, and that night she miscarried all 5 of her kittens, the doctor came, but never really could tell me what was the problem, except something about a minor infection, and gave me some antibiotic's. She has had trouble eating and drinking, because I belive her nose is so stuffed up, and I ran a humidifier for her at night in the bathroom ( with access to litter, food and water) she has been urinateing ok, but I also noticed ( this morning) that she is still bleeding ( vaginaly) I am guessing from the misscarriages that she had, but that has been 5 days ago, is that normal? ( the bleeding part after a misscarriage or birth) and does anyone have any idea what the cold like symptoms could be? And like I said she will be going to the vet tomorrow, but also, I am haveing trouble getting the antibiotic down her throat, because of the stopped up nose deal, and her not wanting to take it, any suggestion?
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Open Question: 19 wks pregnant and SO tired .....?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 05:18:03 GMT)
I am 19 wks pregnant with my 4th and I don't ever remember being this TIRED. Of course I was tired in the first weeks of my pregnancy but it hasn't been that way again until about 4 or 5 days ago. I thought my iron was maybe low but had it checked at a health clinic today and the nurse told me it was perfect.
I take naps and wake up refreshed for about 10 min but then I feel I haven't slept in days! I also feel physically tired! I am only 28, and I don't remember feeling this way with my other pregnancies, in fact I remember feeling so alive and energetic around this time on my past pregnancies.
I am going in for my prenatal tomorrow but I thought I would ask, any suggestions on what might be going on?
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Open Question: Please can someone answer... Im worried?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 05:17:51 GMT)
Well this sunday is going to be 2 weeks already since i got what i have now. I was in this kids party with some friends when some guy started trouble with one of my friends. (They're guys). We were sitting in the table when this guy came to hit my friend. My friend moved so the guy ended punching me in the the face. (Exactly in my upper lip). The guy and his friends got kicked out of the party, but i was really hurt. When i got hit i felt my lip go numb. I didn't know at the time if he hit my nose or my lip but i was bleeding. When i went to the restroom i saw that it was my lip. It was bleeding ugly and it got swollen really fast; i left the party. That week i didn't go to school because it looked really bad. After like 4 days, it just started peeling off and new skin started coming out. It looked alot better and i thought everything was okay, though i still felt something in there i couldn't see but i thought it was going to disappear aswell( like a bone). 3 days ago i notice like this little white bone inside my lip, right where i got hit. Ive notice its been like getting big. Right now, not that big but when i smile you could see like a little white bone or something inside; Im not sure what it really is. Im really worried because i don't know what it is. Im 15 weeks pregnant right now and im scared. Ive read that we don't have bones in our lips but then what is it? Can someone please help me??
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Open Question: hello everyone, I am 11 weeks pregnant and have a terrible toothache, can I get my tooth pulled?...?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 04:56:50 GMT)
I am 11 weeks pregnant and have a terrible toothache, can I get my tooth pulled?...I am hurting. This has been going on for about three days. I am still feeling a little cramping in my lower abdomen. For the toothache I am taking amoxcillin and tylenol 4. I can't even sleep. anyone have any suggestions?
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Open Question: I have some questions on custody?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 04:37:08 GMT)
First off id like some opinions from people of what i should do. Since me and my ex seperated we have shared our daughter even though he wasnt much part of her life when we werent seperated. He takes her every second weekend and 2 nights a week but during the weeks lately ive had her all week and he always tries to change the schedule and make all the rules and he keeps her extra days WHEN he takes her. Shes starting to really act out. She is 3 years old and loves to be at home with her mama. I have a hard time getting her to go with him sometimes. We are both only 21 years old. Hes a good father but i really believe he is not a good influence on her. He parties alot and lives with 2 other guy roomates who both do the same. I dont want my daughter to be thrown around anymore and i know that should be my decision. I know my daughter and im trying my hardest to raise her decent. I live on my own just in a 2 bedroom apartment right now. No roomates just me and my daughter. I dont party ever. I never really drank much at all after my daughter was born. I dont do drugs. Im also 5 months pregnant but my boyfriend works six hours away seasonal so he does not live with us. The one thing that is really getting to me is my daughter's grandma on her dads side also. Since the day i can remember she has always tried to make alot of the decisions for her. She seemed manipulative into trying to make our daughter hers. Always trying to tell me how to raise her whats not okay and okay. Some of her theories are so wack too. When my daughter was 1 and a half i took her out of daycare and she freaked out and said that she would have no social skills when she is older if she isnt in daycare. Everytime she talks about my daughter she says she talked to some child spychologist about it or this person or that person said this. She said someone told her that my daughter would feel more loved if she was thrown around like this. I also remember her telling me one time that our daughter is the family child and that everyone should raise her. My views arent the same as her. Shes almost always a good lady but not a good influence and not one to be telling me the right way to raise my kids when ALL of her 4 kids are drunks and do drugs and they all live in poverty and all act stuck up and rich like they own the world and are all VERY materialistic. I do not want my daughter to be raised like that at all. We are soon moving 20 mins out of the city into a small town where my parents live i think it would be good for us in a nice 3 bedroom house with a backyard. Its a real home for us. I love my daughter so much i just want her to have a normal life. Everytime i try and talk to my ex about he freaks and literally calls me a dumb bitch and thinks because i am on welfare right now because i am pregnant and in school that i would never win. Should i go for full custody or joint custody? What would my chances be do u think for winning full custody from what i have said. Need some answers freaking out inside
what kinds of things should i document
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Open Question: 11 DPO? Symptoms? Signs?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 04:00:11 GMT)
ALSO POSTED IN PREGNANCY-- VERY LITTLE RESPONSES SO I THOUGHT I WOULD POST HERE WITH Y'ALL TOO:)
THANKS!!!
Hi All!
I am playing the 2WW game again- Im getting so tired of being let down when AF arrives every month...
Anyways I thought I would ask around to see what YOUR symptoms were at 11 days past ovulation..
I am SO tired I can't keep my eyes open past 10PM... My boobs have gotten very large and tender in the last 4 days, very noticeable since the day before yesterday...but nothing else really. I felt some cramping about 5-7 days ago.
I am going to test tomorrow, the last time I got pregnant, 2 YEARS ago I got a positive at 12 DPO... unfortunately lost the baby at 9 weeks :(
All I remember from back then was being so tired... not much else.
So what were your symptoms towards the end of your 2WW before you got that BFP?!
I really feel like this might be the month- but I have learned to not get my hopes up after TTC for so long. :(
Thanks so much ladies!
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Open Question: Could I be pregnant?!?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 03:46:48 GMT)
Keeping it as short & simple as I can:
I came on my period Feb. 15, 2010 and it lasted for about 5 days. (pretty normal)
Had unprotected sex March 1st, 2nd, 5th & 6th
My menstrual cycle has pretty much always been irregular, coming every 3 weeks or so instead of 4 ( For ex: Since my last period was 2/15/10 the next one would be expected to come around 3/10 or so)
Well, my period came on March 14, but it ended yesterday on the 17th. My periods are normally pretty heavy but this one was not that bad, although it was NOT spotting. I was bleeding and I had to use pads, not pantyliners, but it was different from all of my other periods.
I'll also throw in here that I had a miscarriage on Aug.11, 09 when I was 12wks (Just in case this piece of info helps come up with a better answer)
I just want to know if there is a chance that I could be pregnant again..
Thanks for all of the help you guys can provide!
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Open Question: please help me- what were your symptoms 11 DPO??
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 03:40:02 GMT)
Hi All!
I am playing the 2WW game again- Im getting so tired of being let down when AF arrives every month...
Anyways I thought I would ask around to see what YOUR symptoms were at 11 days past ovulation..
I am SO tired I can't keep my eyes open past 10PM... My boobs have gotten very large and tender in the last 4 days, very noticeable since the day before yesterday...but nothing else really. I felt some cramping about 5-7 days ago.
I am going to test tomorrow, the last time I got pregnant, 2 YEARS ago I got a positive at 12 DPO... unfortunately lost the baby at 9 weeks :(
All I remember from back then was being so tired... not much else.
So what were your symptoms towards the end of your 2WW before you got that BFP?!
I really feel like this might be the month- but I have learned to not get my hopes up after TTC for so long. :(
Thanks so much ladies!
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Open Question: Questions about guppies.. Really easy 10 points?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 03:20:40 GMT)
1.Ok so when can guppies mate? like how old do they have to be?
2.How do i clean a 5 gallon tank full of baby fry (18) No filter or siphon.....
3.Can i keep 1 week old fry with 1 day old fry?
4.oh and i saw a male guppy at a pet store and it was 2 inches!!! all of them!!! i only have 1 inch males and they are 5 months old!! how come those are so big???
5. What can i feed my fry except powdered fish flakes..... eggs? dont they pollute the water?
6. How do i make my guppy fry bigger,stronger,better, and more color?
7. why isnt one of my female guppies giving birth? she has been pregnant for about 6 weeks.. Very fat, gravid spot, NOT OBESE OR HAS A TUMOR ETC, I have seen ure belly get bigger! its pregnancy.....
8.How long does it take for a male to mate with a female? 6 minutes? 3 seconds?
9. How many guppies can live in a 5 gallon tank??
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Open Question: Am I okay? 25 weeks pregnant and really scared!?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 03:10:30 GMT)
About 2 weeks ago, I had an attack that started in my upper abdomen radiating into my chest, It happened at 4:00 inthe morning and I thought I was going into labor, it hurt so bad, it took my bretah away and I started throwing up. I was rushed to the hospital where they said I had sludge in my gallbladder but the baby was okay. They told me to start a lowfat diet and drink plenty of water which I have been doing. i have not had anymore pain in my upper abdomen, but for the last week I have been having severe pain in my lower right back. It hurts so bad i can barely stand up and have to stop whatever I am doing and lay down and that rarely helps. It usually last about an hour. My nurse said that it was normal pain and that it was probbaly my uterus stretching or where the baby was laying, but another nurse that I work with said it sounded like gallbladder problems to her. Now I am very scared that it could be my gallbladder getting worse. I have not been running a fever or anything and my urine or bowels have no changed but the pain is unbelievable. Has this happened to anyone else and is this normal for 25 weeks or does it sound like gallbladder problems again?
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Open Question: Waiting to try to conceive again after miscarriage... is waiting a few years too long?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 02:27:42 GMT)
I am 24 years old and my husband is 25, and we finally got pregnant after trying for about 19 months. I miscarried at 8.5 weeks. We know we want to have a family still but I was considering putting off trying again so I can return to college. Is putting off TTC for 2-4 years a bad idea? It will take another 2 years for my associates degree and 2 more years thereafter to get my bachelors degree. What would you do in this situation? Would TTC at age 30 or so be that bad, or would it be even better then? Has anyone every been in the situation or has anyone had kids in their 30's??? what are you experiences?
I would be happy to just be a mom, that's what the original plan was, but with losing the baby thoughts rolled in my mind about college. I just don't want to put it off then not be able to have kids later on.
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Open Question: I am 4 1/2 months pregnant and slightly crampy is this normal?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 01:55:40 GMT)
I am 18 weeks pregnant and have little cramps under my belly button region. They arnt severe but they are cramps and they come and go. Is this normal?
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Open Question: How many weeks am I>?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 01:37:11 GMT)
My period started Feb the 24th and finished in between 27th and the 28th of Feb so 4-5 days long my bf came in me on the 4th of March I think I'm pregnant so how many weeks pregnant would I be
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Open Question: I got fillings while pregnant help?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 01:12:54 GMT)
Ok well I went to the dentist 2 days ago.
I had two fillings put in x rays taking and
a cleaning.
Today My period was due.
I didn't get it.
So I test And It was postive.
I did a walk in at the doctors office
and it was positive.
I was so excited I forgot to mention
I had fillings and x rays.
What are the risk.
Oh by the way im only about 2-4 weeks pregnant
so what are the risk?
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Open Question: Is soft serve ice cream okay while pregnant?
(Fri, 19 Mar 2010 00:16:36 GMT)
I've been getting a chocolate dipped cone from dairy queen about 4 times a week probably. But someone just told me I can't eat soft serve ice cream cause of listeria!! I'm kinda freaking out and hoping my baby is okay. Should I be worried?? Thanks!
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Resolved Question: holy crap am i pregnant?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 23:59:47 GMT)
I know this is weird okay. But please don't judge me i already feel like crap and im down.
Okay so here's my story.
Im 14 years old and 4 months ago i met my wonderful bf bob and he and i fell in love right away.
Not some young wanna be love.
True love.
Like i call him every single day and talk to him fo hours untill he can come over.
Hes sees me almost everyday.
He tells me he loves me all the time and he would do anything for me anytime.
Well yade yade yade yah.
WE ARE IN LOVE.
And kinda since hes 16 we both decided to have sex.
And i was ready.
I liked it of course and we'vee been doing it alot lately. Well...i was suppose to get my period like 2 weeks ago and i didn't. And ive been feeling tired and lazy often. And the first week it felt like i was having bad cramps but no period.
And we were both scared of course but now its come to where were going to buy a pregnancy test tomorrowrow and find out.
I just wanted to let you all know and give me some advice.
I cant tel my mom a single thing about us having sex.
I just cant.
So if i am...
can i go get an abortion without her ever knowing?
And for free?
I know it might be wrong.
But im mature enough to know that i can't ever take care of a baby at my age and my maturity level. I also don't wanna ruin my chance at education.
And i dont wanna be a bad person in my moms eyes.
So please answer my questions. Im scared to death. And advice please.
Dont judge me please.
Thanks.
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Open Question: I need some suggestions please?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 23:56:06 GMT)
I'm 3 months pregnant with my boyfriend's child. Keep in mind, he is 31 years old, so we're not necessarily young people here. Well, my boyfriend has known about my pregnancy ever since I was 4 weeks pregnant (which is when I found out). I have already let family, friends, and co workers know that I'm due in late September. My boyfriend, on the other hand, won't tell anyone. He hasn't told his parents or anyone. It's almost as if he's ashamed or embarrassed that I'm pregnant. I told him that I'm going to go ahead and start looking into purchasing essential items for the baby like a crib, changing table, dresser, etc. and he says that we could get help with that "As soon as he tells his family". My whole issue is when is he going to and why hasn't he done it yet? I went ahead and bought the baby's crib because I don't have time to wait for him to make a decision on when he wants to tell his family. I found it highly insulting that he's putting it off so long. I make enough to where if I had to go it alone, I could, but am I being out of line here? Thanks.
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Open Question: can going to the dentist and getting many teeth fixed be dangerous when pregnant?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 23:49:16 GMT)
To day I went to the dentist and got 2 of my teeth fixed when they numed or tried to numb one of my teeth after they pulled the kneedle out I all of a sudden felt really dizzy and my heart started to pund really fast I got so scared. The dude said I was just nervous and I wasn't at all and that, that's why I got dizzy but I was like no I wasn't at all!. Why could that have happened?
Ok so that really wasn't my first question lol sorry!
Any ways I didn't even get numed so he did it again only with something else and I still could feel pain when he was working on my tooth any ways he had to numb me 6 TIMES! After the 3rd time I told him no more! But he told me not to worrie that nothing would happen. I just felt so weird an not good I got 3 contracions while they where working on me. Could that stuff that they used to numb me harm my bab? And did it cause the contractions? I am 25 weeks 4 days.
They did it 6 times because I could still feel pain when they were working on both teeth 3 on left side and 3 times on the right side and still after the 6th time I still felt pain only I didn't say anything because I didn't want to get numbed for the 7th time
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Open Question: My wife and I just found out she is 4 weeks pregnant, but we are uninsured. What should I do?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 23:40:18 GMT)
I'm really happy about this baby but worried about not being able to afford it. Neither of us has health insurance. I have an ok job but she doesn't work at all, since she is going to college full time. What can I do?
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Open Question: 4 weeks pregnant and cramping?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 23:10:30 GMT)
I believe I am just now 4 weeks pregnant. I haven't been feeling good the last week and have a lot of nausea at night time. My most annoying symptom though is when I've been sitting down or laying down for more than 15 minutes I get a slight but constant cramp in my very lower stomach. Sometimes it feels like it's going through to my back. Is this implantation cramps still? Or my uterus stretching or what???
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Open Question: please help me~ pretty curious about possible pregnancy!?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 23:06:22 GMT)
ok so i am a week late. my last period was feb 14, 2010. i feel pregnant, but i have taken 2 pregnancy tests and both have come back negative...took one online and it said that if i did conceive then i would be about 4 weeks pregnant, so i think i am testing too soon! not sure though! anyhow, when my boyfriend and i make love we start without using a condom and then he pulls out before he cums and puts a condom on, yes i know i can get pregnant just from precum!!! dont be judging me either....he also tells me that i am tighter than i have ever been before....plus i have nausea, pee more, have a clear-white watery discharge, no period yet....what do yall think??? also we're not intentionally trying to get pregnant...but if it happens oh well...
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Open Question: Am I pregnant? Just an opinion.....?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 22:57:22 GMT)
Don't comment on this if you're going to be mean or nasty or irrational. I'm being serious just taking opinions.
Anyway, ok think of this because I don't usually gain weight like this. I haven't had time to work out so it's not muscle or anything. Since tuesday I've gained 3 almost 4 pounds in 2 days! My stomach has poked out a lot more lately and I'm fairly thin so it's easy to tell, and it's firmer. I also have been burping up stuff and feeling a little nauseous the past several nights. Think it's possible? I'm not supposed to start for another week or so, I'm always on time, if I'm not I'll probably worry more then but I dunno what do ya'll think?
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Open Question: 15 weeks pregnant...already have stretch marks?!?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 22:50:51 GMT)
I am a bit overweight and am 15 weeks pregnant with my first child....I already have 3 or 4 stretch marks on each side of my belly button that are purple and look like they're gonna be deep. I am mortified!!!!!!!!!!!! What can I do to try to prevent them from getting worse? Anyone else had this happen?
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Open Question: Birth control failure...Could I be pregnant?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 22:11:45 GMT)
I've been on birth control for 4 months or so but about a month and a half ago I took an antibiotic for a uti infection for a week. I still took my birth control faithfully. I've had unprotected sex since then but my fiancee' never ejaculated in me. I'm just worried about pre-cum but my fiancee' says he's 110% sure I'm not pregnant. I've had a dark period for a couple of days at the beginning of the month but it's normal for me since I also seem to bleed early on my birth control and it's usually dark. I'm on my second placebo pill and still haven't started my period. I usually get my period on the placebo pills too. Any help please??
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Open Question: I feel pregnant and have for a while. Should I trust my body?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 22:07:31 GMT)
Ok... I feel pregnant. I haven't had my period but thats no surprise cause my period isn't regular. I'm 17 but I'm not sure if my age matters. I had sex 5 weeks ago tomorrow and have taken 4 pregnancy test so far. one at 3 weeks and 2 at 4 weeks and they all were negative. I haven't went to the doctor yet and that will probably be my next move... I'm just wondering if I should trust my body even though so many of my pregnancy tests were negative. Its so confusing.
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Open Question: Fun thing ta do if your bored! =)?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 21:47:52 GMT)
Just some questions for you to fill out if your bored =)
How far along are you? 35 weeks and 4 days
Symptoms you have experienced throughout pregnancy? For the first 4 months i had horrible morning sickness, i peed alot, had alot of heartburn and more frequent headaches, alot of fatigue, i hiccuped more than normal and sneezed more then normal, i had constipation about 4 months that lasted a month or so and now i get really bad back pain, still have heartburn, fatigued again and pee alot again.
How have your emotions been lately? I cry at things i would not normally cry, and sometimes the stupidest things make me angry, i would have to say im more irrational than i used to be lol and sometimes even unreasonable
Know if its a boy or girl? Baby boy!
Names picked out? We have a few, but are gonna wait to see what he looks like =)
Your first? Yes
Belly button in still or out? Mine is wanting to come out but its still in lol
Wedding ring still on? Well im not married but neither my fingers nor my feet have swollen yet at all so if i had one it would still be on
Complications so far? Well when i was 11 weeks i had some bleeding and they said it was a threatened miscarriage. Then last week my blood pressure was really high so they sent me to get monitored and it went down as i was resting, they also took my blood and the lab work came back normal, so we will see tomorrow when i go to the doctor what she says
Best thing about being pregnant? Before when he moved and it didnt hurt i would like to put things on my stomach and watch him move it around lol
Worst thing about being pregnant? I have had it kinda rough, so there have been alot of worst things about being pregnant for me.
How are you feeling today? A little nauseous, hungry, tired and having Braxton hicks contractions which i dont really like.
C-section or vaginal delivery? So far im planning a vaginal unless i need to have a c-section.
Any fears about giving birth? Bleeding too much and tearing. Also im scared of pushing for some reason and scared of any complications that could put our lives in danger.
Pain meds? I am planning on getting the epidural
Good luck and congratulations to everyone! =)
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Open Question: Am i pregnant please help?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 21:27:37 GMT)
Me and my boyfriend was chillin at his house and my boyfriend had a little pre-cum you know the little clear stuff but it was not much so he wiped it off and then he fingered me a couple minutes later.but when he fingered me it was the 5th day of my period so my period was going off with a little light bleeding. i have not had any symptoms but its like i feel as though my stomach is getting harder but my friend said that im just nervous so my mind is going crazy and making me believe that its getting hard.this happened about 3 or 4 weeks ago
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Open Question: Forming and apology to my mother?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 21:23:23 GMT)
Yesterday night my mother got very angry with me because I asked her about making my appointment to get a pap smear done (recommended by my Doctor) because I may have a Cyst on my ovary or Endometriosis.(No Im not pregnant because Ive had the test done at the hospital) Whichever it is it is painful ALL the time but worse around the time of my cycle. It feels like a sharp pull sometimes (getting more frequent) but usually it is a ache. Its caused my period to be late and I get very painful cramps during that time that keep me awake at night. This has progressed along a few months. Now you see how important it is to be because im tired of being in pain. After I asked my mother if she made the appointment,(3 days after we came home from the hospital) I asked her if she could do soon because i would possibly be on my period within 3-4 Days, she said no she hadn't yet, but she was going to town in the morning and shed do it then. I told her I'd possibly be on my period tomorrow or the next day and to go ahead and make it for next week. Now i was NOT nasty sounding when i said this. I didn't even try to sound a bit attitude like. I realize its not just a stress on me but also her carting me around to appointments on my spring break. At this point she got very angry and told me shes tired of my crap and i need to find someone else to take me to my appointments. I asked her who would do it and she said I dont know but sure as hell not me.
Even though I dont believe im at fault, I still want to apologize because she has not talked to me ever since yesterday evening. Im not really sure what to say to her now, and i dont just want to leave it alone because we need to get my problem taken care of because its starting to hurt a bit more
This may sound funny and it may sound stupid to you but shes literally on Farmville (The Facebook game) All day. Even my Aunts have noticed shes on quite a lot... To stress where im coming from One time i had to be driven to work and she wanted me to call in sick (She said she didnt feel well) Then she said The weather was too bad and it was supossed to snow... (which was at 8 p.m It was 2 p.m. at the time) I had to get my father to take me.... When we came back home she was on the computer for the rest of the night playing farmville. Now do you see where im coming from?
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Open Question: is travelling by air safe during 6-7 weeks pregnant?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 21:21:45 GMT)
hi,
I have to travel when im in the beggining of my 7th-week pregnancy..jus wanna know if its safe to do that..my travel would be for 20 hrs with 4 hrs break up inbtn , as im leaving country...Pl suggest...thank you..
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Open Question: please help me, really confused!!!?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 21:13:16 GMT)
so i am almost a week late! i checked my cervix 2 days ago, it was low, hard, and closed...i checked it today and it high, soft, and either open all the way or slightly open...i really dont know the difference....what does this mean? cuz i dont know what a pregnant womans cervix feels like or anything?! i have had 2 neg test, last period was valentines day! with my son i tested positive at 9 weeks, with my 2nd pregnancy 4 months... also having a clear discharge, and sometimes its a white, creamy (like egg) discharge...
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Open Question: pregnant or miscarriage?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 20:57:58 GMT)
Ok, so my history is that i have a 2 yr old & been ttc for over a year now, since then i've had 1 miscarriage at less than 6 weeks & 3 chemical pregnancies. Finally missed period this month, took about 20 pregnancy tests, all positive! The last test i took though was digital & although period was nearly 10 days late, said i was 1-2 wks pregnant, i then started bleeding & have bled for about 4/5 days, really light but with clots so assumed another miscarriage. Whats confused me now is that i've done another digital test, just to confirm but it's come out saying pregnant 2-3 wks, how can my hormone levels be going up if i'm miscarrying, really confused, please help!! Thank you xx
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Open Question: 5 days late, negative pregnancy test.. white discharge... HELP! TTC?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 20:42:24 GMT)
Well I'm 19 years old .. And I don't know if I'm pregnant or if its too early too tell about 2 and a half weeks ago I was with my boyfriend and we had unprotected sex.... And he came inside of me 3 times and this was on saturday (2/27/2010 estimated ovulation day) and on wednesday(3/3/2010) I used the bathroom and I saw like a light blood spot or clot w.e its call on my napkin after I wiped myself its only been about 4 days is dat too early of a sign and I had sex exactly 15 days after my Last menstral period ( you count by the first day of LMP right? If so it was 2/13/2010) if dat helps ...Then On Friday (3/12/10) I was having light cramps i was thinkin maybe ill be gettin my period being that im due for it!... Then on Saturday (3/13/10) i thought i caught my period because i was wet down there... so i looked and it was white discharge no odor... But then i was having painful cramping since so Tuesday (3/16/10) i took a Pregnancy test and the first one didnt give an asnwer i assumed i dropped too much urine on the test overflow so i waitied and took another one and it came out NEGATIVE...But for some reason that afternoon i got really light headed and dizzy idk why...im still having cramping and i been havin it ever since and its been 5 days today (3/18/10) and i felt a little nausuas this morning but didnt vomit so idk and i had white discharge again today again...HELP TTC WHAT DOES THIS MEAN ..AM I PREGNANT??..or is it to early too tell??
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Open Question: How long does suboxone stay in your system?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 20:07:21 GMT)
I'm pregnant and taking suboxone. However, I am due in 4 weeks and I do not want my child to go through withdrawal and possibly be taken away from me because we both have it in our system. So i was wondering how long it takes suboxone to get completely out of your system and how long withdrawal lasts.
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Open Question: Stomach pains in pregnancy?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 20:07:13 GMT)
I am about 3/4 weeks pregnant and i woke up in the morning and after i woke up i had sharp stomach pains but they only lasted not even a minute but now i am having like a little aching pain in the left part of my stomach kind of by my pelvis...is this normal...i have not had any bleeding
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Open Question: please help...cervix question?!?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 19:59:46 GMT)
so i am almost a week late! i checked my cervix 2 days ago, it was low, hard, and closed...i checked it today and it high, soft, and either open all the way or slightly open...i really dont know the difference....what does this mean? cuz i dont know what a pregnant womans cervix feels like or anything?! i have had 2 neg test, last period was valentines day! with my son i tested positive at 9 weeks, with my 2nd pregnancy 4 months...
having clear discharge...
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Open Question: What names do you prefer for my twins?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 19:56:28 GMT)
I am 34 weeks pregnant with boy/girl twins and still haven't chosen their names!
I am down to 4 names for each gender. Our last name is Bailey if that helps.
Girls:
Adeline Kate
Amelia Kate
Evangeline (Eve) Kate
Scarlett Kate
Boys:
Elliot James
Ethan James
Harrison James (Harry)
Noah James
Can you please tell me your top twin-set (lol), and your bottom twin-set, and please explain why you don't like them.
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Open Question: WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME?! IT'S NOT POSSIBLE?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 19:32:59 GMT)
Ok, look. This will be my 2nd time asking this question. Because last time for some reason people looked over fact I had my PERIOD still? So I know I'm not pregnant, what else could be wrong? take a look at my story: my bf and i had unprotected sex just about three times in the past weekends we hung out. but i still got my period? it lasted about 4-5 days, normal everything. i had spotting and it eventually got heavy (just like all the others) and it was red blood. it was even a week early. but i took a pregnancy test after it was done just to be safe and it came out negative...now a week later i get a postive, and then another positive? all three tests are the same brand and everything?
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Open Question: Early pregnancy, loss of breast tenderness...?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 19:26:38 GMT)
I'm somewhere between 4 to 5 weeks pregnant. My breasts were never extremely sore, but they were obviously sore. Yesterday, the tenderness decreased significantly, and today, they are totally normal and not sore at all. They feel perfect. Also, I've experience getting up every night to go to the bathroom for the last week, but not the last two nights.
I'm sooo worried. The last time this happened to me, I had a miscarriage.
Did this happen to you but everything ended up being okay? Please tell me your story.
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Open Question: Pregnant and I don't know what is going on?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 19:18:15 GMT)
Okay The past 4 days or so I've had terrible diarrhea... I haven't had an actual medical ultrasound since I was 10 weeks pregnant and I am now 32 weeks and 3 days along now, according to the ultrasound at 10 weeks. I go in for a appointment in less then a week but I don't know what's going on with me. Like I said I've had bad diarrhea and Lately I've been getting terrible back pains... somethimes in my lower back, sometimes it's my upper back and part of my shoulders but it's awful and just started happeneing this week. Aside from the back pains and diarrhea I feel amazing. Everyone keeps telling me I may have the flu or something but I don't see how that is if I've felt better now since I have throughout my whole pregnancy. It just doesn't make sense to me. I understand that having diarrhea can dehydrate you and I've been drinking a lot of water and I'm staying hydrated and feel wonderful but has anyone else had this happen to them and if so what was it that caused it? Also I don't think it was something I've eaten because I haven't eaten anything out of the ordinary and plus like I said, if it were food poisoning or me being sick from eating something, wouldn't I FEEL bad too? Any advice would be appreciated. I called my dr to ask about it and I was only put on with a nurse who said simply if I feel fine then just stay hydrated...she didn't answer my question at all and told me to just wait till I came in for my scheduled appt. Why am I getting this terrible diarrhea and back pain?
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Open Question: Shouldn't I be getting a positive already??!!?
(Thu, 18 Mar 2010 19:08:07 GMT)
Tomorrow im DUE to start my period. I've been off birth control for about 27 days now. My last period started on the 19th and ended the 28th. LONGEST period I've ever had! Anyways. I tracked my ovulation on the internet ( not the most reliable thing,I know) But! it said i was ovulating on the 5th of March. And that my most fertile days were on the 2nd and 7th of march. I has unprotected sex on the 2nd,5th and 8th and 10th of This month. I also took a HPT on either the 15th or 16th ( not quite sure) but it came back negative :( (it was a first responce) and so today I also took a first responce with my SECOND pee of the day and it came back negative :( If I am pregnant I would be 4 weeks tomorrow. Shouldn't I already be getting positive? I have SOME symptoms like tender breast and REALLY tender nipples (but not ALL day but most) and I'm extremely tired, and my stomach is upset. not throwing up at all though. But other than that im fine! (: I'm well aware that i need to wait and see if my period comes tomorrow. But just incase It doesn't...What would you ladies recomend.? Has this ever happened to you? Thanks so much for alll your answers (And please no rude ones, this website is about helping people not hurting them) (:
AND sorry if TMI but I've been having this milky color discharge for about a week or so. I've never had this so its strange to me? anyone have any ideas?
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