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Open Question: 6 weeks pregnant woundering about midwife?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 03:35:04 GMT)
Hi i have just found out im 6 weeks pregnant was just woundering how far along do i have to be before i get a midwife????
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Open Question: Could i be pregnant????????
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 03:02:16 GMT)
I usually get my period the last week of the month(usually before or on the 1st of the month) last month i got my period on the 1st it was noraml. i had sex around christmas time like a day or two after. i used the withdraw method. well i havent gotten my period as of today (the 6) and i took a pregnancy test on the 4th and it was negative. i have been crampy and sore down there but im just not sure. could a be pregnant?
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Open Question: Does every woman experience tender breasts in early pregnancy?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 03:00:27 GMT)
ttc...not sure if I am pregnant or not, kind of a long story to get into, but I have been having some symtoms of pregnancy like frequent urination, headaches, very tired, light cramping, lower back ache, and a feeling of fullness in my lower stomach, but I haven't been having any breasts soreness, could I still be pregnant???
I haven't been having any morning sickness either.
OH yeah if I am pregnant I am probably about 6 or 7 weeks. to scare of a negative result to do a HPT.
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Open Question: i am 6 weeks pregnant. i will go for ultrasound after 3 days. as doctor suggested.?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 02:34:25 GMT)
i am 6 weeks pregnant. i will go for ultrasound after 3 days. as doctor suggested.everything was ok. but in the morning i saw a small clout of blood . and same in my urine also. after that no bleeding, nothing wrong with me. is everything ok. i m very tensed. suggess me what to do?
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Open Question: I stopped taking Yaz, could I be pregnant?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 02:14:35 GMT)
I stopped taking Yaz after almost two years in October then i got my period right away. I got my period again in November but it's now been 6 weeks since then. I know it could take a while for my body to get used to being off the pill but since I already got my period after the pill I thought I returned to normal. I had unproteceted sex once but we were very careful, could i be pregnent or most likley is my body still adjusting? Thank you
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Open Question: Pregnant or not advice is great thanks?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:59:14 GMT)
Last month (December 3rd-7th) i got my period on time everything was fine this month i had spotting it started the 2nd of january and ended the 3rd so i took a hpt (home pregnancy test) on the 4th i had no bleeding and this isn't normal for me not to bleed i didn't even need to use a pad it came up positive then i took another two came up positive again mind you i took this the 4th right around the time i was soposed to have my period so i asked a friend she told me to call my doctor i did right away on the next day which was yesterday i went in and got a blood test done my doctor had called me back and said my HCG level is at a 3 and she wants me to be at a 6..she said that it was positive but it could be a false positive pregnancy it makes absolutely no sense to me..she sad if it doesn't go up she will consider it negitive i think i ovulated the 21st and i think i may be one or two weeks pregnant is this normal being so early to be at a 3? I hope it goes up now i think something is wrong with me i have normal periods EVERY month and now this spotting it's just crazy exspecially with the positive urine tests i just need awnsers thank you for any advice it is very much appreciated. :(
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Open Question: How do I help a 6 year old boy with anger problems including violent outbursts?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:57:57 GMT)
I babysit my friend's 6 year old boy and 9 year old girl. They are generally very well behaved children but the little boy has a tendency to throw fits. These range from extremely annoying whining over the littlest thing to violent outbursts which include throwing things, kicking people, and screeching/crying.
I know his parents both raise them right and there is no kind of abuse in the home. I never yell at them or hit them but I know past baby sitters have done this.
So far the only thing that will work with this little boy is to put him alone in the play room with the door closed and wait until the storm is passed. Once he's done with the fit, he can come back out and join others. The thing is, when he really gets going he'll kick, scream, and break things in the room.
I am currently 24 weeks pregnant. I want to get this problem under control before my baby comes because I don't want him to hurt the baby during one of these rampages. (He has already kicked my cat once out of anger)
His mother wants to find a new way to handle this as well because nothing so far has worked. Please give me any ideas or advice I can use as well as pass on to her. Thank you!
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Open Question: pregnant on last day of mestrual period is that possible?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:50:23 GMT)
4 weeks ago i went to the doctor and made me an ultrasound and said i was 6 weeks pregnant, i told him the last day of my menstrual period and he said i must had gotten pregnant that same last day or the day after my period is that possible?
and now iam ovulating is that normal?
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Open Question: Is there a possibility that I might be Pregnant?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:24:15 GMT)
Okay I know I have asked this question already but...
Okay me and my Bf starting baby planning In Mid November.
My period Came on Dec 8, which means I start Ov 14 days after. So I started Ov around Dec 19. Well I started freaking out and I decided to get on BC on Dec 18. Well my BF didn't know I was having doubts. He believed it was still a go on the baby (which means no protection no pulling out). So I started the BC and guess what, I started messing up after pill #3. Never took one the day it was meant to be taken and they were never on time, so I called i quits on Friday 1/2 when there were 6 pills left to be taken. So my period came Monday 1/5. The thing is I have been feeling nausea, tired, LOTZ of headaches well according to some research I have done I may begin to feel nausea as early as week 3!!! YES I know I thought it was too soon, BUT here I am with freaking nausea and headaches.
My cousin said this bleeding is not my period and that there is a possibility that I might be prego. That this bleeding is the cause of me F*N UP my BC. It is quite heavy, dark, but not smelly, and NOOOO cramps!
Do I want a baby not yet but if Im pregnant HELL YEA!! I'll be more than happy to be a mommy.
SO CONFUSED!!!
I bought HPT I will take one first thing in the morning!! But I need help for now lol! Im so curious!
I get dizzy very easily now.
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Open Question: BABY NAME GAME!!! 20 characters?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:16:12 GMT)
1. Your 17 and you have a baby with your boyfriend. Your baby comes in april, it's a beutiful baby boy. With brown hair, fair skin, and hazel eyes. You wanted his name to have something to do with your boyfriend <James Christopher> but not exactly.
2. You continue to the same college in Boston as your boyfriend. Post graduating you get married and shortly after realize your pregnant. On a buisness trip in paris, your children are born. 2 twin girl and boy, one with honey blonde hair, medium skin and indigo eyes, the other identical.
3. Your husband graduates med school and gets a job as a doctor, you now have a house <your kids are 11, 5, and 5) You decide to have another child, you get fertillity and have quadruplets. You want them all to have the same initials. 3 boys and 1 girl. The first 2 boys have blonde hair and blue eyes, the second has curly brown hair and brown eyes. The girl has black hair and topaz eyes.
4. Your husband gets promoted, so you quit work to stay home with your growing family. then your 14 year-old daughter comes to you with news that she's PREGNANT. Coincidentlly, your pregnant at the same time. After, talking it through with your daughter, the baby daddy, and his parents, you decide, that you will keep the baby because both families are doctors and financially able, under the impression that the two will raise the kids together. <btw, your daughters boyfriend is your neighbor>. Your daughter has a boy with blonde hair and blue eyes. You have a girl with beautiful purple eyes, fair skin, and jet black hair. Names?
5. Your children are now 16, 10, 10 and 2. Your grandson dies, with extreme sadness your daughter says she wants to marry the baby daddy, you agree, if the wedding is when they are both 17 or 18 and they promise to both go to college. Overjoyed with that information, your daughter gets pregnant again but with a girl. The two get married and you and your husband adopt twin girls from Australia. Your daughter wants the name of her son to have the same initials as her first. Your twins mother wanted the babies to be named after your family.
6. Now your children are 21<the 21 year old is happily married and just graduated from and going to lawschool>, 15, 15, 4, 2 and 2. Your son tells you he is going to be a father <15 year old son> upset <like the 1st 2 times> and the girl was kicked out, you feel obligated to let her in to the house. After meeting her more thoroughly she feels more like family. The baby is born when they are 16, you keep it. After they live together for 2 years they get married. They both go to a 4 year college near by and live in the house.
7. now that your children are 30, 24, 24, 13, 11, and 11, your youngest dies of cancer. and your oldest has a child and names it a similar name. The baby is born on the day of your child's funeral, so it was an uneasy day. Your 24 year-olds are both married with children.
8. After stressing to your daughter not to have sex, at the age of 19, while in an ivy-league college she gets pregnant, the baby is born 7 weeks premature and okay. It was a girl on march 3, at 6:17 AM. She wanted a hawaiian name. You and your husband retired very rich, shortly after which he died, so you move near your daughter and her new-arrival. She did not get married to the baby daddy <or possible baby daddies> she finished her degee and got a good paying jobs, and later writes a book called "the house of youth" a fictinal book based on her and her siblings teen parenting experiences, the book was a huge hit, and turned in to a TV show.
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Open Question: How soon can you tell?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:10:38 GMT)
How soon can you tell if your pregnant or not? Cuz my boyfriend and I had sex Saturday night and he came in me and ever since then I've been having cramps almost like I was gonna get my period..except I just got done with it almost a week ago..and I'm on birth control so I shouldn't be getting cramps and I've heard that you can start getting cramps as early as 6 hours later so is it possible that I'm pregnant and can you tell that soon?
..just got done with my period 5 days ago and also have been experiencing the feeling like im going to throw up. possibly nerves though..
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Open Question: did i have a miscarriage?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:07:27 GMT)
i don't even know if i was pregnant. if i was pregnant, i would've been about 5 or 6 weeks along. i didn't show at all, but i think that's normal for the first month. i had all of the symptoms except overeating/craving food. i missed my period, but i had 2 short days of on and off bleeding [which may have been first trimester bleeding?]
yesterday i fell and hit my stomach and head, and now i'm bleeding a good 10 days before my should be period. and earlier, something came out of my vagina and it had arm-like things protruding from it...and eye like things. but it may just be me assuming things.
it may just be because i'm stressed lately...but i don't know.
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Open Question: I don't know if i am pregnant. any sugestions besides getting a test?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 00:58:10 GMT)
I had a few questions to ask.... reguarding pregnancy. My boy friend was teasing me without a condom... just rubing his penis against my vagina but on quite intercourse yet( we use condoms when we have intercourse) anyow. i dont know if the pre-cum actually slipped in side by accident but i miss my period by 6-10 days. my breast are swolled and i have some what cramps, minor head aches and feeling like i have the flu??? my boy friend is a nurse.. and he told me that it could just be me getting ready to start my period or i have a week immune system and need more vitamins because of the weather. i have to wait till Jan. 10 when i get paid to buy a test. is there any sugestions besides the fact that i told hin that we aren't doing anymore teasing. Thank you.
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Open Question: Does my height make a diffrence?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 00:57:14 GMT)
Hit there
I am now 13 weeks and 6 days pregnant and since week 11 i have had a bump and i could feel the top of my womb just under my belly button, i was not slim before getting pregnant and for my height was slightly over my recommended weight, i am only 5 ft so was wondering if my height had anything to do with the fact i showed earlier?
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Open Question: 5-6 weeks pregnant, and I don't feel pregnant!?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 00:57:03 GMT)
I am quite frustrated at the moment. The only signs/symptoms I have are slightly tender breasts, wanting to eat everything in sight, peeing frequently, being tired during the day, heightened sense of smell, and three very positive pregnancy tests. I know I should likely feel grateful that I don't feel sick right now, but I can't wrap my head around being pregnant when I feel great! Has anyone else felt similar to me?
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Open Question: flintstone vitamins plus extra folic acid supplement ?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 00:40:57 GMT)
i am 6 weeks pregnant and i have trouble keeping my prenatals down so i have been taking 2 flintstone vitamins a day. ive also been taking another 400 mcg folic acid supplement. is this too much folic acid? will it hurt me or the baby?
i do plan on asking my doctor when i see her.
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Open Question: About 6 weeks pregnant. Is this normal?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 00:22:37 GMT)
I feel really achy. It's like, slight cramping in my uterus, kind of like menstrual pain but different (if that makes sense). :) Anyway, yeah, I'm feeling achy, tired and slightly nauseated. Is this normal?
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Open Question: Metal Mouth During Pregnancy??? ?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:51:14 GMT)
i might be 5 weeks -6 weeks pregnant on thursday
tested at 4 weeks and then 5 weeks
..got 2 negatives(probably low HCG or not enought hormones in pee..?)
today i noticed around 12 that i been getting a weird taste in my mouth
like metal and ever since then i been having that taste, right now its not as strong as it was earlier on in the day.. Could this be a symptom of pregnancy? I read that it could be. But i'm not for sure.
please give your opinions (nicely)
thank you
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Open Question: HCG levels??????????????
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:49:15 GMT)
When i went to the doctors at 6 weeks pregnant my HCG levels were at 31,000. Is that good? He said the babys heart beat was detected on the ultra sound at 179. However i couldnt hear it since it was too early he said. So now im 7 weeks pregnant. Do i have to worry bout my HCG levels anymore?
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Open Question: PLEASE ANSWER =( CLINIC TOMMAROW?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:48:02 GMT)
ok, so last month i though i had what was a period, but it was way early and very little, well ive been having to pee alot, been getting heartburn alot been really tierd, and very hungry all the time, anyways i took a test and it was positive but very very light.
and i took more after that and they were negitive??!? soo if i got pregnant the last time i would be 8 weeks..
if i am not 8 weeks, i might have gotten pregnant last month on the 27th....i was very fertial on the 27th and i had sex that day to the 29th
so it would be 11 days, yesterday night i had a cramping like feeling, that lasted 10 minutes and went away havent had it since, so im all confused i dont know if i am pregnant, if last month, or this month, you know, so tommarow i am going to the doctors to get a urin test done..
my questions are..
1.are there test better then the ones in the store, why??
2.will i get a correct answer if i concieved 11 days ago..the 27th???
3.do you think the cramping pain last night could possibly have been implantation??
4.what are there test like???
5.is the clinic test free???
ANY ANYTHING ELSE I SHOULD KNOW.?
gosh i wanna cry, gosh its been 6 months of trying after our first loss
=(
thank you so much,,
10 poniys best answer..k.
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IF I DO GET MY PERIOD THIS MONTH IT WOULD BE ON TUESDAY OF NEXT WEEK...IF I GO TOMMAROW AND GET A NEGATIVE SHOULD I GO BACK NEXT WEEK???
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Open Question: I am only 6 weeks prego and my belly is huge!?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:45:42 GMT)
This is my second pregnancy. My daughter is now 9 and I had her at 15. I also had an ectopic 5 months ago and am going in for an ultrasound on friday to meke sure this is in the right place. I am sure it is because my stomach is way too big for 6 weeks and i had no stomach with my ectopic! Also when I was pregnant with my daughter I didnt start showing until about 5-6 months and that is about how big my stomach is now. Is there something wrong? And I know its not gas.
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Open Question: Going tommarow to the clinic to take a test????? answer asap! PLEASE...?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:28:52 GMT)
ok, so last month i though i had what was a period, but it was way early and very little, well ive been having to pee alot, been getting heartburn alot been really tierd, and very hungry all the time, anyways i took a test and it was positive but very very light.
and i took more after that and they were negitive??!? soo if i got pregnant the last time i would be 8 weeks..
if i am not 8 weeks, i might have gotten pregnant last month on the 27th....i was very fertial on the 27th and i had sex that day to the 29th
so it would be 11 days, yesterday night i had a cramping like feeling, that lasted 10 minutes and went away havent had it since, so im all confused i dont know if i am pregnant, if last month, or this month, you know, so tommarow i am going to the doctors to get a urin test done..
my questions are..
1.are there test better then the ones in the store, why??
2.will i get a correct answer if i concieved 11 days ago..the 27th???
3.do you think the cramping pain last night could possibly have been implantation??
4.what are there test like???
5.is the clinic test free???
ANY ANYTHING ELSE I SHOULD KNOW.?
gosh i wanna cry, gosh its been 6 months of trying after our first loss
=(
thank you so much,,
10 poniys best answer..k.
IF I DO GET MY PERIOD THIS MONTH IT WOULD BE ON TUESDAY OF NEXT WEEK...IF I GO TOMMAROW AND GET A NEGATIVE SHOULD I GO BACK NEXT WEEK???
IF I DO GET MY PERIOD THIS MONTH IT WOULD BE ON TUESDAY OF NEXT WEEK...IF I GO TOMMAROW AND GET A NEGATIVE SHOULD I GO BACK NEXT WEEK???
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Open Question: Pregnant or not? please help?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:23:56 GMT)
Last month (December 3rd-7th) i got my period on time everything was fine this month i had spotting it started the 2nd of january and ended the 3rd so i took a hpt (home pregnancy test) on the 4th i had no bleeding and this isn't normal for me not to bleed i didn't even need to use a pad it came up positive then i took another two came up positive again mind you i took this the 4th right around the time i was soposed to have my period so i asked a friend she told me to call my doctor i did right away on the next day which was yesterday i went in and got a blood test done my doctor had called me back and said my HCG level is at a 3 and she wants me to be at a 6..she said that it was positive but it could be a false positive pregnancy it makes absolutely no sense to me..she sad if it doesn't go up she will consider it negitive i think i ovulated the 21st and i think i may be one or two weeks pregnant is this normal being so early to be at a 3? I hope it goes up now i think something is wrong with me i have normal periods EVERY month and now this spotting it's just crazy exspecially with the positive urine tests i just need awnsers thank you for any advice it is very much appreciated. :(
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Open Question: my period was about 2 wks late, when i thought i got it nothing but a brown discharge for days. am i pregnant?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:15:56 GMT)
im rather scared because i was two weeks late, when i finally thought i got my period it was nothing but a brown discharge for about 6 days. am i pregnant ? what is wrong with me ?
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Open Question: For those of you who have children?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:14:25 GMT)
Did you ever feel like while TTC that you couldn't have children? I feel like through all of my cycles, when I see AF or a negative test I get so bummed like maybe I can't have kids..
I've been actively trying for about 6 months now, but really 5 because one cycle I didn't get to baby dance enough.
Anyways, I went to my reproductive endocrinologist and ALL is fine. I did get pregnant once, almost 4 years ago.. but miscarried at 8 weeks.
I just feel so frustrated that maybe I can't have them!! Did anyone else feel this way but then went on to be a happy mommy?
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Open Question: WHY DOESNT ANYONE UNDERSTAND ME!!!?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:53:00 GMT)
IM 10 WEEKS PREGNANT AND IM DYING TO GET AN ULTRASOUND. EVERYONE IS AGAINST ME FOR IT. I HAVE WHAT YOU CALL A BICORNUATE UTERUS. A HEART SHAPED UTERUS AND I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT IF THE BABY ATTACHES TO THE HUMP IN MY UTERUS I WILL MISCARRY BECAUSE THERE IS VERY LIMITED BLOOD FLOW TO THAT PART OF MY UTERUS. THAT IS WHAT I BELIEVE HAPPENED LAST TIME. I WAS 7.1 WEEKS WHEN I STARTED TO BLEED AND THE BABY STOPPED GROWING AT 6.1 WEEKS AND WAS TOLD THERE WAS NO HEART BEAT AT 8.3 WEEKS. THE LAST TIME I THIS BABY ON ULTRASOUND WAS AT 7 WEEKS. I AM NOW 10 WEEKS ON THE DOT BUT HAVING SOME CRAMPING. NOW I KNOW THIS IS NORMAL BUT THIS CRAMPING IS DIFFERENT FROM WHAT IVE BEEN EXPERIENCING. ALSO I BLED FORM 5.2 WEEKS TILL AROUND THE 7TH OR 8TH WEEK. MY SYMPTOMS ARE LESSENING AND IM REALLY GETTING WORRIED. ESPECIALLY BECAUSE LAST NIGHT AFTER HAVING SEX I WENT TO THE BATHROOM AND WHEN I WIPED THERE WAS A BLOOD CLOT. NO BLOOD AT ALL JUST THE BLOOD CLOT.EVERYONE IN MY HOUSE IS GETTING MAD AT ME FOR WANTING TO GET AN ULTRASOUND. MY DOCTOR WONT GIVE ME ONE SO I WANT TO GO TO THE ER BUT NO ONE WANTS TO TAKE ME. THEY ALL SAY EVEN IF I AM GOING TO MISCARRY AN ULTRASOUND WONT PREVENT IT OR THAT IM OVER ANALYZING EVERYTHING. I JUST WANT MY MIND PUT AT EASE!! WHY CANT THEY UNDERSTAND HOW PETRIFIED I AM OF HAVING THIS KIND OF MISCARRIAGE HAPPENING AGAIN. SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME THERE INPUT...IM GOING NUTS!!
sorry its so long
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Open Question: is adoption the right thing?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:39:12 GMT)
I am young, and i live in a house of 6 people (all family). its a kind of small house. the first time i had sex, he was wearing a condom, and i got pregnant. (my luck.) im about 20 weeks, and i was wondering what your opinion is. i am in love with my child already, but i cant give it a family it needs. im still in school, and i dont want him to suffer from neglect. some people say i should abort, and some people say i should keep the baby and raise it. i decided to give him to a family that will love him.
do you think that was the right thing?
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Open Question: Could this mean I'm Pregnant?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:37:59 GMT)
I need more feedback, Please.
After My fiance' and I got done having sex, I had really thick white discharge. I don't have anything I've been checked, and all the above. Soo could this mean I'm Pregnant?
Here are some other symptoms:
1)For the past 4 nights I haven't been sleeping very well
2)Food cravings such as alot of mayonaise on my sandwiches (which I don't like that much until now) pickles and Chocolate milke
3)lower back pain
4)slight cramps
5)I haven't been peeing alot, but I did the other day, and last night before I got to the toilet I dripped a lil bit.
6)Pressure in lower abdominal area
7)My Fiance' has been turning his nose down to foods he likes because he says they make him sick, he don't vomit though.
8) I had bad headaches for almost a week, It has subsided for the past 3 days or so.
9) I was VERY emotional today.
10) eating alot.
headaches are really unusal for me.
No, I'm not asking for answers, I'm just asking for opinions, and experiences
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Open Question: abnormal ultra sound at 6-9 weeks? so scared!?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:35:33 GMT)
So everything was going normal. I had my period on october 29th than on december 3rd i took a test and found out i was pregnant! my periods are very abnormal so i was unsure of when i concieved. they said i should be about 9 weeks but i think its more like 8.
so i had an ultra sound and the sac was an abnormal shape they said it was oval instead of round. than there was an embryo but no heart beat. Also they saw what they thought was a start of a baby. and they said my sac was the size of about 6 weeks. They said their is a very good chance i will miscary and i am so scared. they drew blood so that they can watch my hormone levels to see if they go up or down. but my sister had this happen to her (but not seeing the baby at all) around the same time and now the baby is born, and 5 months old!
So what im asking is has this happened to anyone and it turned out fine? is there hope?
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Open Question: Growth scan at 37.5 weeks?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:30:08 GMT)
I had a growth scan today at 37 weeks 3 days pregnant and the baby is measuring at 6 lbs 4 oz. The doctor said this is fine but I can't help but think it's a bit on the small side.
For those of you who have had growth scans, what did your baby weigh and do you think 6lbs 4oz is small for 37.5 weeks?
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Open Question: i have a couple of pregnancy questions?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:16:24 GMT)
1. can i eat pizza? i no its stupid but i know its a hard cheese that goes on top of the pizza but it goes soft obviously when its been cooked and was wondering if its ok? (the whole no soft cheese thing!)
2. im worrying a lot about my 12 weeks scan, ive had very very light spotting when i wipe about 4-5 times since 5 weeks i had a scan at 6 weeks and the baby was fine and had a strong heartbeat but i cant help but worry. i had no pains with these bleeds and my midwife thinks everythings ok but how ca i get over this?
3. when does the baby move out of the pelvis?
4. how far below my belly button will my baby be? im 10 weeks and 2 days pregnant!
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Open Question: Period 6 days late, brown spotting when i wipe.?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:10:27 GMT)
Me and my fiancee have decided to start ttc. My last period was on Dec. 4th and I was due for my next period on Dec. 31st. We had unprotected sex on Dec. 25th and Dec. 26th(thinking we missed the time considering it was only a week before my period was due). I took a hpt on Sat.(Jan. 2nd) and it came back negative, however it could've been too early to test. I started having cramps about 2 days ago and i've been really tired. This morning I woke up and when I went to the bathroom, i had brown blood but only when I wiped. Everytime I went to the bathroom today, there was alittle brown spotting on the toilet paper so I put a tampon in and when I took it out, there was alittle brown and light pink on it but nothing heavy. Do you think I'm pregnant?
Anyone ever experience this? When can I test?
Anyone ever get pregnant a week before their period was due?
Thank you!
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Open Question: is this normal........?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:08:52 GMT)
im 6 weeks pregnant and getting weird pains well there not so much pains more like wind or something weird just on my left side.. any help thank you
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Open Question: should I tell my supervisor I'm pregnant or wait till I become permanent?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:00:09 GMT)
I am 20 weeks pregnant. I have been working on my job since August as temp to hire after 6 months. I've been hiding it from my boss and co-workers because I don't want them to find some excuse to fire me, because I'm pregnant. It's getting harder to hide and I feel so guilty, should I just go ahead and tell them?
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Open Question: What do I do? I'm scared?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 21:46:31 GMT)
Hi guys, I posted a question on here yesterday and I've learned more today and need more help. My original situation was that I was with ex bf for 6 months on and off. I found out about 5 months in he was living with his fiance and we split. After a couple of weeks she also found out he'd been with me and kicked him out. Stupidly i let him stay with me for a month until he found his own place. He left a week before xmas and is now back with her.
I am now pregnant. His original reaction, yesterday was that he never wanted me to contact him again because he couldn't riisk he finding out. Then he contacted me today saying he was thinking about me. He called this eve and was being nice to start with, but then told me he wants me to have an abortion. He threatened me that if i ever let his fiance find out, he'd harm my family. I don't want an abortion - granted this situation sucks but i could never do that. I am scared he's going to hurt me if i don't agree to what he wants, i don't want to bring a child up in fear that he's going to do something awful to keep us a secret. What should i do? I'm horrified by what he said to me, i don't recognise him at all. Please help xx
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Open Question: why didn't my mom tell me?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 21:34:54 GMT)
I found out that my mom is pregnant with another kid. My step dad and her got married 10 years ago. I don't trust him at all. he was ok when i was little but now hes abusive. not physically but verbally and mentally although he's threatened to hit me. ive been kicked out once. at first my mom defended me but after a while she gave up. we barley talk now. I asked her to tell me about but she said no. She finds ways to avoid me. Like ill ask her to talk and she'll have to call someone because she "forgot". I found out she was 6 months pregnant 2 weeks before christmas. She wore really baggy cloths and her stomach didn't get big until like last week. Now that i ask her about it she wont tell me anything. she'll say she doesn't know anything but ten minutes later i'll hear her on the phone talking to someone about how the dr told her stuff that she shouldn't be doing. and that's not normal for 6 months. But i find it strange that she wont tell me ANYTHING.
She says when the baby comes i have to move down to the basement. It's not redone but apparently my step dad and his dad r going to redo it. I asked her when he's gonna start it and she said probably never. So i'm stuck without a room when the thing pops out.
I plan on moving out when i turn 18 but i don't want the baby to grow up like my other 2 half-siblings. (my brother is 9 and my sister is 7) they ALWAYS get what they want when they want. and if their mommy and daddy get them something they call their grandparents. My brother got a dirt bike when he was 6, a tv, and has 2 electric guitars even though he has no clue how to play them. my sister has a tv, a crap load of dolls, too many cloths, and a ping pong table. I have nothing that good. the only thing i have is a tv but that's from my neighbor. my real dad gets me everything i need/want. (phone and ipod)
I don't understand why my mom wont tell me anything anymore and i want to know why. She avoids me and ignores me. My step dads abusive and my real dad lives 380 miles away.
I don't know why the thought of the baby bugs me either. when ever someone brings it up im almost in tears every time.
I am 16 and my mom is 41.
i have grown up...too fast. my mom stopped doing almost everything for me when i was 11 except shopping and cooking dinner but thats only because she cooks for the 3 other people living in my house. i clean and watch her kids for her when her husband "can't" or is "working"
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Open Question: What do you think of these baby names?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 21:28:06 GMT)
34 weeks and 4 days pregnant now :D
Were on Team Yellow! (sex of bubs is a surprise)
What do you think of these names?
Rate them from 1-10 aswell, 10 being best one being worst :)
After rating them you can give your own suggestions or move them around abit or add new middle names...
Girls:
1. Ava Marilyn Smith
2. Maya Nicole Smith
3. Willow Elise Smith
4. Isa (eyes-a) Kaityln Smith
5. Kaelyn Parker Smith
6. Alexis Mae Smith
7. Elaina Rae Smith
Boys:
1. Lennon Shaye Smith
2. Mason Daniel Smith
3. Aaron Sean Smith
4. Zack Huntley Smith (huntley is a family name)
5. Finnely Cole Smith
6. Kaiden Jake Smith
7. Ryan Presley Smith
Thanks in advance
xx
Also have an 11 month old named Hallie Marchelle so if your adding your own names to the ever expanding list you could make them sound good with hers if you want? Thankyou soo much :D
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Open Question: I'm so stressed out. Baby daddy drama...Can anyone help?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 21:25:29 GMT)
I have had a rocky relationship with this guy since the start. In July him and I split up and I screwed around with this other guy (mostly out of hurt). All I did was party to keep myself from seeing the bigger picture. Me and the other guy hooked up twice and wore a condom both times. Then me and my bf got back together and he busted in me many times. No condom. Now I'm pregnant. I'm 98% sure that this baby is my bf's but he isn't. He keeps bringing it up and making me feel like s**t. I'm 6 months along so I can feel her inside me but it's not a happy thing. I have a hard enough time keeping this pregnancy a posative thing because I gave a baby girl up for adoption in '06. Now I'm back to wanting to cry every time I see a baby. I never wanted to be a mother. I wasn't ready then and I'm not ready now. He always wanted a child. I can't go through another adoption I'd kill myself. Plus he want's the kid so if it is his, great. But what if it's not? The more unsure he is the more unsure I am. How can I go through labor and bonding if I'm not sure? Even with a DNA test it takes at least a week for the results to come back. So what am I supposed to do untill then? I am now starting school and I don't know if I can cope with the stress. I have one more class left before I graduate high school. The only thing that has kept me back this whole time and I've struggled with my whole life. F***ing Math. I feel like my whole world is collapsing in on me. I hate this. I just want to crawl in a hole and hide, or die... I don't feel like I'm ready for life. I just don't want to feel this way anymore. Can someone please give me some advice? Or even your opinion on this mess?
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Open Question: Very Big for 6 weeks pregnant..why?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 21:20:41 GMT)
Im super happy that Im pregnant but I look like Im about 6 months pregnant instead of six weeks loll.Im scheduled for my scan in 10 days to check baby size and if there are multiples.Anyone experience this?and also forgot to mention this is my second pregnancy.Oh and also (sorry if TMI) I have so much trapped wind lol...maybe that's the reason?
First son is 8 years old..
Thanks Ladies for all the answers
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Open Question: Pregnancy right after miscarriage?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:23:09 GMT)
Hi everyone! I found out yesterday that I'm pregnant again. I'm not positive how far along I am, as I have irregular cycles but I'm guessing about 6 weeks. Anyway, I had a miscarriage in the beginning of October. Is this too soon to be pregnant again? Should I worry?
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Open Question: Emotional and feel i have no help...?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:15:15 GMT)
Hi there
I am 13 weeks and 5 days pregnant and very emotional, my husband went to Canada on tour for 3-4 months yesterday we have only been married for just over a month, my job is very physical and as i only work 6 hours a day i am only allowed a 15 min break, i went to the Dr this morning to see if i could get some help or even someone to help me along, but i feel that what was said was completely the opposite, she may as well told me to pull myself together and stop being so emotional (i cried my eyes out) she also stated least he is not in Afghan or something but to me at the moment that is irrelevant its not where he is its the fact my rock has gone,, i spoke to my manager over the phone (have had 4 days off to re-coupe and relax hasn't worked) i told her i was worried about my job and losing it and she said there was nothing she can do about that fact, she commented on how there is another pregnant lady in my workplace who is having a hard time with her pregnancy and she still manages to go into work fair enough but that lady doesn't do anything physical she just sits around talking to the managers etc all day, whereas from the min i get in i am non stop i feel its very unfair for her to compare me to another lady am i wrong to feel low about that? i know my pregnancy does not help, my blood pressure is high i get very dizzy quickly and very exhausted, and as i am only allowed 15min break that does not even give me time to eat a sandwhich and have a warm drink. i feel i have no support from work or the Dr and i am struggling with my emotions and the pregnancy i feel a failure that i cannot even enjoy my baby at this stage because i am so low. I just don't know what to do, My mum says that i should just go back to work and throw myself into it but my state of mind is not letting me do that and to be fair with the way i am feeling i don't want to i want to relax (find that very hard to do) and nobody seems to understand that.
Can anyone help me? Give me some advice what to do
I have already spoken to my manager about needing longer for my breaks but she said as we get paid for it and the hours i do thats all i am entitled to, if i need a 5 min sit down i am allowed but not anymore time than that.
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Open Question: Am I being too sensitive?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:08:42 GMT)
These people that I work with are getting on my nerves. I am 6 months pregnant (24 weeks in a few days). People that I have already told when I am due keep asking me the same question and when I tell them, they say oh, you still have a long way to go.
That is the same thing they said when I was 4 months and I did have a long way to go.
I dont think that I have a LONG way to go. Am I being sensitive, or do I really have a LONG way to go?
Excuse me for being sensitive, I cry at the least thing and I know that a lot of things are bothering me that shouldnt. I was just asking a question!
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Open Question: ok i need help lol.... 3 weeks 2 days late!! lol.... PLEASE answer?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:03:57 GMT)
ok my last period was november 16, 2008.
my expected period was december 14, 2008.... its now january 6 and im now 3 weeks late.
i usually get it every 30 days give or take 2 days late or early.
coul i be pregnant??
i took a few hpts and they were negative, i took one at a week and 4 days late and the other and a doctors urine test at 2 weeks late.
the doctor told me to go back when my next period was sopposed to come (2 weeks after i saw her) if i still didnt have a period.
i dont have stds and all that stuff lol.
me and my boyfriend arent planning or preventing lol
symptoms ive had and still have:
-3 week late period.. i usually get sore boobs before it comes, they never got sore lol
-lower back pain in the middle closer to the right side
-a pinching kind of dull cramping behind my pubic bone in the middle but more on the right side
-i had random headaches for the first week late
-more sleepy since a few days after period was late
-i get car sick alot easier now
-tiny tiny bit naseous occasionally
-boobs look a little fuller
-boobs a little sore on the top if i push on them
-im bloated
-below my bellybutton is round lol
-greenish-blue veins in my boobs?
-darker nipples
-last night there was alot of white looking bumps on my areolas
-pretty emotional more
-if my belt is to tight its a bit umcomfy now, had to move up a hole lol
im NOT stressed im always happy lol
no exercise im very lasy lol
i eat alot, always have
no diets
i weight like 134, im 5'3"
im 18
boyfriends 20
what do you guys think??anybody had all these symptoms, tested negative on urine tests and ended up pregnant?????!
please be NICE lol
thanks!! =]]
~if i am i have the cutest way to tell my boyfriend.. get baby booties a pair of blue and a pair of pink and put a blue and a pink bootie in a little box and wrap it and give it to him, he will be happy lol~ good idea???
sorry so long!! lol
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Open Question: I am 7 weeks pregnant, is it uncommon to have no symptoms at all other than missed period?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 19:59:02 GMT)
I have had 6 losses and only one healthy pregnancy so I forget what it feels like to be pregnant and Im incredibly nervous about having another loss.
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Resolved Question: what kind of help can i get from the state while i am pregnant? i have to quit my job =/?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 19:48:52 GMT)
im 7 mo pregnant and my job is "under the table" i only make 400$ a mo, for working 50 hr weeks being a nanny. i cant handle the stress anymore and i need to quit, its bad on my health.
the thing is i don't own a car, and i have no credit because i JUST turned 18. my boyfriend and i are still together and living with my parents. he has a full time job and works 6 days a week so he is saving for a car.
what kind of help can i get from the state right now? can i get assistance with rent or buying a car? i am planning on quitting my job and TRYING to find another one but not many people will hire a pregnant woman right now.
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Open Question: How did your husband react when you were pregnant?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 19:48:30 GMT)
I am 17 weeks pregnant and my husband and I have known sense I was about 6 weeks along. He seems to keep distancing himself from me.
We recently took in a baby goat from my grandma. It needs to be bottle fed. At first my husband really liked the idea, he said it would give us good practice for when the baby comes. Well now he can't take it when that baby goat cries or wakes us up at night. He has gotten very angry and told me that if the goat wasn't gone when he got back from work that he was going to kill it. I know it is just a goat and not the same as a baby but it worries me that he can't take the crying. I mean if he can't take a baby goat crying how is he going to be able to handle a baby?
I know he is under a lot of stress.
Just thought I would see if anyone else has a husband that acted distant or angry when you were pregnant. I know yalls storied probably don't have anything to do with a goat lol but this is just one thing I could think of where he acted like this.
He wanted kids. I think he is just scared.
He doesn't really talk about it.
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Open Question: Are there any other moms who grew up without a mother, raised by dad ?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 19:25:09 GMT)
I would love to hear from other mothers who grew up without a mother in their lives for all or most of their childhood. I won't get into my long life story but here is the basics. My parents split when I was a baby. My mother was in a a very physically abusive relationship and she didn't take good care of me when I was 3. My dad got custody of me and my mother moved from Ontario to Alberta and basically walked out of my life. I saw her for 6 weeks each summer for a few years then I basically stopped visiting. She moved back to Ontario when I became pregnant with my first child. We tried to establish a relationship but she became super religious and IMO, a little unbalanced in the head. We talk on the phone or by email maybe twice a year. There is a lot more to the story and there is so much pain when I even think about her and how she messed my life up. My dad did the best he could but I feel like a part of my life is missing. As a mother, I can't imagine being without my children for one day, I just don't understand how someone can leave their child.
I came here with this story because I want to reach out to other mothers who suffered growing up without their mom. I wonder if others struggle with motherhood because they didn't have a female role model in their life. I have a loving husband who is really supportive and two awesome kids, a boy 6 and a girl 8. I love my kids more than life itself yet sometimes I find myself wondering what to do because I have a hard time relating to them. I wonder what normal families do, what moms do with their kids and the things they talk about. I also suffer form chronic pain, I can't work and it limits me in what activities we can do as a family so I feel guilty about that too. I do feel I am a good mother yet I second guess myself all the time.
Please feel free to share your story and your struggles. You can PM me if you don't want to share publicly. It would mean more to me than anyone can understand just to know I am not alone.
Thank you everyone for your stories. They are all so similar to mine. I also had a step mother as a teen. She was jelous of me so we never got along. It was an emotionally abusive situation so I moved out when I was 17. I do have a better relationship with my step mom now but she doesn't take my children for visits or anything. It helps knowing I am not alone. I think all of us could benefit from councelling. I would like to go but I am a little scared. I also suffer from panic attacks but I am going to push myself to talk to someone.
I can't pick a best answer because they are all great. Thanks everyone.
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Open Question: When should I take a pregnancy test?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 19:16:21 GMT)
Its only been 6 days since we had sex, but I'm axious to take a pregnancy test. I know I'm pregnant because we had sex the day before I was due to start my period, and my period did not start the next day. My menstrual cycle is like clockwork and my nickname is 'Fertile Mertyl' so will the pregnancy test show positive this soon? I know the zygote / blastocyst doesn't even implant itself into the uterus until a week after fertilization, but what changes the pregancy hormones in the urine to show a positive on the test?
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Open Question: Vaginal bleeding while pregnant?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 18:19:27 GMT)
Hi, I'm 22 years old and have a 10 month old son.
My last REAL period was on October 22nd and my husband and I have been trying for another baby. I was 100% certain I was pregnant again. I remember the symptoms, but here is the kicker.
I started having light spotting 2 weeks past my missed period and thought it may have been cervical erosion. (The spotting would start when we'd have sex.) That spotting went on for a few days and then went away. The spotting then started again a week later and that went for a week and then it stopped again and then started bleeding a few days later and it was light bleeding (which is not normal for me if I'm getting my period.) I'd wipe and the blood was watered down.
Then the bleeding stopped for a couple of weeks and then my husband and I had sex again and then I immediately started bleeding again and it still hasn't stopped. I'm having heavy bleeding with small little clots with NO cramps only a bloated feeling which makes me nervous. I normally have severe cramps with heavy bleeding to the point where I cannot walk it hurts so bad. So, this is definitely not normal for me. My basal body temperature is still high and hasn't come down. It's been going between 97.6-98.3 and my normal temperature while bleeding is between 95.6-96.2. So, this is another reason why I think I may be pregnant. My temperature stayed high with my son.
Here is the kicker. I can take any pregnancy test and it will come back negative. Took me till I was 10 weeks to get a positive with my son. I think I'm running into the same problem and we don't have insurance at the moment. So, until I know for sure I don't want to see a doctor. Does this sound like subchorionic bleeding to you? Anybody that's been through this that can help me? PLEASE!
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Open Question: how to avoid huge appetite during pregnancy?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 18:02:44 GMT)
I am 16 weeks and my appetite is really starting to kick into overdrive. I lost 6 pounds in 1st trimester due to morning sickness but i have just about gained that back now. I havent gained anything on top of that yet though but before I got pregnant I had a miscarriage and put on 18 pounds due to stress. that makes me overweight and i dont want to get too big. this is 2nd pregnancy (3rd if you include miscarriage). I just need some ideas on how to avoid eating everything in the house.
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