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Open Question: First Pregnancy Help?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:33:52 GMT)
Okay I know I'm pregnant. I seen a womens health center and they did a free pregnancy test on me and confirmed that I am 7 weeks pregnant. I don't know what to do and I'm currently panicked that I might miscarry. Im still experiencing discharge, only its not picked up a slight oder. Can someone please tell me what to do. Im waiting to speak with a specialist to start me on all my immediate paperwork such as medicaid, food stamps, and WIC.... Please help
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Open Question: Brown discharge 18 days late?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 02:28:22 GMT)
I hate to sound ignorant but I do have a question here. I am officially 19 days late for my period. Now, dont get me wrong. I know this is odd and the first assumption would be that I am pregnant BUT I have to say that for the past 4 months it is not unusual for me to be 15+ days late. I knwo this not right and I am working on getting my insurance coverage at work to see the doctor but until then I need some help. just 4 days ago i started experiencing brown discharge when I wipe. I am beginning to think that I am pregnant because of this but then again... iw orry its something terrible and that something is wrong with me. I did take a pregnancy test about 7 days ago and it was negative so I told myself I was not going to test till another week. I will be buying a test before work tomorrow. I just would like some kind of opinions if anyone has had this happen. for 4 days this light brown discharge happened and today it is DARK brown discharge but only when I wipe never on my pantiliner or undies. Its quite strange and the only time I have ever had this happen is after my period is done...
Any advice/opinons would be greatly appreciated!
please help
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Open Question: 7 week pregnant had sex and had some blood?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 01:43:37 GMT)
my friend is 7 weeks and her and her hubby has sex and she saw blood. this is her first what should she do. need help please
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Open Question: relationship need your opinion?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 01:18:41 GMT)
ok well i am 21 and currently 8 months pregnant i am due april 28. my baby's father and i have known each other for 4 years now and we got togther right before i got pregnant. we were allmutual friends. and he has had a child before. the thing is his first baby's mom i was like best friends with. and i was there through her whole pregnancy and even at the hospital the whole time with her. she gave her child up for adoption. they both recieve pictures of the baby from time to time. now me and him got 2gether a yr n half after she gave up the baby and for the 3months b4 me n him got 2gether he kept trying to get back with her and she kept sayin she didn't want him and he had gotten thrown out of his house so i had let him move in with me and he always told me how he wanted to get with me even when we first met b4 he was with her. so once he moved in and we talked i had realized i did like him and we got 2gether . well once we got 2gether it was a big circle of cluster f*ck. becuz then his x who was also my friend was pissed at me sayin she still wanted him and then after she was done with that she was tellin me how she wanted to b with me. which i am bi and me n her have had sexual relations b4. and my man kept telling me to stop talkin to her all she wanted was to break us up and start trouble. but i felt bad seeing she was my friend .... but again she was rediculous with her sh*t .... she would never give us time alone and would b at my house 24/7 i didn't have the heart to tell her to go.... so me n him were together for two months and thats wen i found out i was pregnant and once she found out cuz she was there wen i took the pregnancy test she had the nerve to ask me wat i was going to do... abort it or adopt it out... i flat out told her wether he was there or not i am taking care of my child! .... so about a week after we found out i was pregnant he had told me he was goin to get his little brother so he can get a hair cut and then he just never came back. so afterwards i found out him n her got back together and then she stopped talking to me and then about a little over a month ago i had talked to him just to ask him wats goin on with him and wat does he want to do with the baby situation and if he wants to be in the babies life. and me and him wound up hanging out together and i told him i am not here to break u n her up.. we r just hanging out as friends and all i wanted to do was just ask him about the baby and then he would up telling me how he missed me and did i ever think about us getting back together and i had said to him i had becuz i would rather our son have both parents in his life ... so we got the talking and we got back together. so we have been back together for over a month n a half now but yet his x has his wallet with his id n social in it and she wont give it back to him unless he speaks to her and he doesnt want anything to do with her and me and him are fine we never argue and things are going great but i still think about how he just left me and ran back to her am i wrong for thinking about this?? do you think he will do it again??
also children n family services and been involved with the 1st baby and from wat the x n him r tellin me they told him that if he has another child they will b involved right away. i am not scared of them i have nothing to hide and i have a clean house for them to check for my child. but i had them in my life wen i was younger and just hate their b.s. so do u think if this doesnt work... should i put him on the birth certificate and get child support????
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Open Question: Has anyone had these symptoms and found out they are pregnant? 4 days left before I find out. Sorry very long.?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 00:56:01 GMT)
1) sudden period-like cramps after eating or walking (with bloating only after eating)
2) sore breasts- but like the usual sore, and the nipples are not
3) dark around the nipples (but I think I have had this before... so it doesn't seem unusual)
4) sudden exhaustion in the afternoons, with full vertigo (only when laying, just dizzy when standing), and mildly sick to the stomach from it
5) clear/white discharge the past 2 days- like I had during ovul. but this smells like garlic. It doesn't smell bad, just very different from normal. There are no other symptoms with it but i've been home-treating it as a yeast infection and it hasn't gone away yet (never had one before, had a pap done 2 months ago with normal results)
6) pee very often and urgently (at night too) but probably from my uti for the past week (had 1 before in my life)
7) very hungry before bed and waking up in the morning, which is unusual for me - this is the first thing that started happening, it is an extreme hunger where I feel like throwing up and actually start heaving if I don't eat something fast (bread has worked best)
8) very emotional, like pms but more extreme and the strange thing is i have been extremely happy feeling in general, with no crankiness at all, but i can cry very easy at almost anything (usually with pms i get very cranky, stay cranky, and cry much more)
9) I have been very restless when I sleep for the past 5 days- my right shoulder will ache, or my legs seem uncomfortable, I keep waking up during the night and having trouble falling asleep - this could be why I am getting tired in the afternoon...
10) this might not apply at all, but my husband told me yesterday my hair is shining and it's the prettiest he ever saw it, what did i do with it? then his father came later and basically said the same thing but I haven't changed shampoo, or done anything different with it for it to shine
I think that is everything. Has anyone had these symptoms together, or some, and find out they are pregnant? I can't wait to find out but until then I can only guess... Thank you for your answers!
Thank you everyone! I am so happy, I feel like I got the BFP! Wow Barbara, so much variation. Thank you for the detailed answer! Preggers Again- funny about the graham cracker haha. I am hoping for a boy... this hunger has got to be a boy...haha. My husband wants his girl. I dreamed I will have a girl, and a coworker of my husband's brought in her baby girl and he held her... so it looks like I have to wait until next time... :) Thanks again everyone and good luck with your babies!
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Open Question: Pregnancy and post part.?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 00:28:54 GMT)
I have a few different questions.
before I ask, here's WHY I'm asking..
I'm 7 weeks PP, from my first child.
I had sex 5 weeks from being PP.
I haven't had a first period yet, and I'm not sure when I will have one.
But now I'm worked up that I could be pregnant.. I'm not able to start BC yet, because I haven't had a first period..
When can I test to see if I'm pregnant?
I know usually, after your missed period, but again.. I haven't had one since I've had my son.. and I'm not sure when I'll start.
Also, when do you usually have a first period after baby?
No, I'm not breast feeding.
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Open Question: i have a question...?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 00:13:11 GMT)
it is supposed to be hard towards your pelvic area but your actually belly is not when your pregnant cuz im 7 weeks pregnant and thats what i feel. even when i try to button up my pants it hurt?
does anyone know '')
sorry the question was when your all pregnanted is yourit suppose to be hard towards your pelvic area but your your belly still kinduh soft feeling?
well my belly is soft yet when i push on it its somewhat hard. but my pelvic area is hard and hurts when i button my pants up or bump it into something.
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Open Question: Have I gained weight?? I'm 7 1/2 weeks pregnant?
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 00:09:01 GMT)
Have I gained weight? I think I have. I'm 7 1/2 weeks pregnant. Do you think there is a chance I'm having twins? When will I really begin to show?
Here is me before I got pregnant:
http://s990.photobucket.com/albums/af24/madysonrouille/?action=view¤t=l_e63ed53ab8a547fb813af32a74d7229f.jpg
Here is me today at 7 1/2 weeks:
http://s990.photobucket.com/albums/af24/madysonrouille/?action=view¤t=meeeeeee.jpg
All the weight I have gained is in my lower stomach
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Open Question: What do you think???
(Mon, 15 Mar 2010 00:04:05 GMT)
Have I gained weight? I think I have. Oh I'm pregnant by the way (7 1/2 weeks). Do you think there is a chance I'm having twins?
Here is me before I got pregnant:
http://s990.photobucket.com/albums/af24/madysonrouille/?action=view¤t=l_e63ed53ab8a547fb813af32a74d7229f.jpg
Here is me today at 7 1/2 weeks:
http://s990.photobucket.com/albums/af24/madysonrouille/?action=view¤t=meeeeeee.jpg
All the weight I have gained is in my lower stomach.
When do you think I will really start to show?
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Open Question: Is me being pregnant have to do with this?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 22:51:41 GMT)
I'm 7 1/2 weeks pregnant. For the past few weeks dogs have been all over me. I went to my cousin's house for his party, and their boxers wouldn't leave me alone. And when I went to my mom's house her chihuahua followed me every where and was always sitting in my lap. That dog didn't pay any attention to anyone else other than me, same with my cousin's boxers. The chihuahua was acting weird, usually she would play fight with me and nip at my hands but this time she was really gentle. She isn't sick or anything. Also my cocker spaniel has been doing the same thing, usually she follows my grandma around but for the past 2 weeks she won't leave me alone. Can dogs since that I'm pregnant?
The boxers were acting weird, they have a boy and a girl. The boy was trying to tackle me to the ground and whenever he was trying to do that the girl would start growling and pulling his leg.
My cat has been sleeping on my stomach too
My mom's dog usually follows her everywhere not me. But since I was there she stayed by my side (even when I went to the bathroom). Her dog like my mom more than me.
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Open Question: please tell me if this has ever happened to you, i am scared and confused!?!?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 22:27:43 GMT)
Ok so my story....
At the beginning of January (the 4th) me and my bf had sex, unprotected.. now I get my period every two months around the same time so that's pretty confusing, but my last period was December
6th-11th, so after that sex incident i broke it off with him, i didn't think pregnancy was a possibility at all.. i just wanted to start out with a clean slate so about two weeks later i took a pregnancy test.. set it down, walked away and 2 minutes later came back to find a faint blue line on a cheap test... i was shocked and convinced that it was a screwed up test so i did another one about an hour later when i had to pee, same thing! so i went back to the store and got a better brand of test (first responce)... same thing, faint pink line this time, went back and got a clear blue.. little blue +, but very faint in all the tests, i really thought i was seeing things so i even had my friends and sister look at them and they saw the same thing! so i went to a clinic and got a blood test ordered by my primary care taker and.... i waited for the results and that same day took two EPT tests which came back positive, so 7 positive pregnancy tests in all!! when i got the results back it was negative to my surpirse.. i was shocked! so.. i am so confused as to what that was? am i pregnant? whats going on? my Doctor never set an appoinment with me even after all those positive pregnancy tests!! im pretty sure, if i am at all pregnant i would be about 11 weeks along.. so what do you think?? whats going on?? has this ever happened to you??
thanks so much!!
i also had some bleeding in early February, no clots, not heavy.. not sure if that was a period or not??
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Open Question: chances of being pregnant?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 22:21:25 GMT)
this first part is a repost but i needed all of this information plus what started today so you would have a better idea on whether its likely i'm pregnant or not..... haven't had a period since december. in january me and my ex had sex, we both kinda had a buzz(big mistake i know) after i missed my period in january i told my ex he went off on me and told me to keep my mouth shut because he wore a condom and that i was probably "knocked up" from one of my "other guys" i took a test and it was negative. so i didn't worry then in feb. i started gettin cramps and thought my period was coming, my boobs got really sore n stuff too. after feb 12th went by and still no period i finally took another test and it too was negative. i started to get constipated (srry tmi lol) n getting really worried so i asked my ex again if he was sure the condmo didn't break he got pissed off again and told me to leave him and his girl alone, (he cheated on her with me in jan. so i think he just might not wanna tell me if the condom broke, thinking it would break him and her up if i were pregnant) if i am pregnant i'd be about 8 weeks.. i started getting alot more hungry a couple weeks ago and these past few days i've been soo tired.i go to bed at 10 and sleep till like 10 30 the next day. i still haven't started my period. i was thinking about going to the doctor, but i would have to tell my mom then because i'm only 17. (please don't judge me or leave any rude comments because of my age, if i am pregnant, i will not abort the baby and i will raise it with the help of my parents to get through school) i haven't been on bc, and all my periods are usualy reg. this morning i woke up at 7 and i felt like i was gonna throw up. my stomachs felt empty all day i ate like an hour ago and i feel like i'm starving but nothing sounds good and some things taste weird. i was eating a cheeseburger and i like hiccupped and felt like i was gonna puke.. please give me advice! could it be morning sickness?
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Open Question: Baby name game!!! (long but hope you like it!)?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 22:20:39 GMT)
Hey everyone this is another baby name game! Beware its long!!
On your 18th birthday you find you are pregnant! For almost 3 and a half months you hide this fact from your parents but your boyfriend,Carter John Matthews, already knows! One day you and Carter sit both of your parents down and tell them. Carters dad is horrified and your mom almost passes out. Later that evening you all have dinner together. Ya'll decide to keep the baby and Carter is moving in with you and your parents. 6 months later a beautiful red-headed baby girl is welcomed by her loving family and friends!!!!! You name her something that means gift! Her middle name is what ever you like! (this is you and carter) http://www.istockphoto.com/stock-photo-6552847-teenage-couple-embracing-one-another-at-a-park.php
1.Whats your name?
2.Whats her name? http://www.istockphoto.com/stock-photo-1917404-happy-redhead-on-tile-floor.php
When your little girl is 3. You and Carter get married! On your honeymoon you get pregnant again. When you get the ultrasound it says TWINS!!!!! But 9 months later you must have a c-section and there is not 2 but 3 babies!!!!! All boys!!!!!! the first boy is named after his daddy, the seconds first name starts with k and the middle name must be related to fire or wind, the third is anything you wish!
3.What is triplet 1's name?
4.What is triplet 2's name?
5.What is triplet 3's name?
When your first is 6 and the triplets are 3 you suprise everyone, including you, your pregnant again!!!!! This time its identical twin girls! You have them a couple weeks early but they are fine and dandy! Twin1 is named after a flower her middle name is a boy-ish name and Twin2 must have a 2 syllable first name her middle name is your moms!
6.What is twin 1s name?
7.How about twin 2?
Your first baby is now 10, the triplets are 7 and the twins are 4! Everyone is now in school or preschool and you miss having a baby! One morning your walking down the street and see a new orphan house! A light bulb goes on over your head and 1 year later the paper work is done and you adopt a new little girl! She is 2 years old and a little bundle of energy!!! You name her something SUPER unique! Her middle name is whatever you want!
8.What her name????
Your kids are now 16, 13, 10, and 8! You and your husband send all the children to a 8 week summer camp and you two set off on a Second honeymoon!!! 3 weeks later-badabing badaboom- your pregnant again! At first you decide not to find the sex then you notice you are abnormally large!!! You go to the hospital and find your not having twins not even tripelts but SEXTUPLETS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! In your stomach you are housing 3boys and 3girls!!!!! They are born almost a month early but all pull through okay!!! Name them all with super cute and classy names!!!!! with middle names that are NOT the same letter!!!!!
9.Sextuplet 1? (girl)
10." "2? (girl)
11." "3?(girl)
12." "4?(boy)
13." "5?(boy)
14." "6?(boy)
Finally your done! You move to tennesse and finsh raising your family!!!! One morning your 19 year old daughter(the first one/oldest) is in the bath! You realize that there is no towels and walk into bathroom with a slight knock. What you see almost make you want to cry and pass-out! There is just a little bump on your daughters skinny little stomach! Later she and her 3 year boyfriend,Anthony-John Walker, tell you that she is almost 2 months pregnant! You let her keep the baby! And in return she gives her little blonde haired ice blue eyed baby girl your name as her middle name!!! (your daughter and Anthony)
15.What does she name her?
(your grandbaby) http://www.istockphoto.com/stock-photo-9438509-portrait-of-little-baby-girl-wearing-pink-on-white-background.php
Now name your children and your grand daughter!!!!!
The End!!!!
Was it funn? Do i need to make more???? Star??
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Open Question: 7 weeks pregnant questions?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 22:14:09 GMT)
Hi,
I am now seven weeks pregant...
I had an ultra sound done at 6 weeks 3 days.
Is the due date on there usually correct?
111 beats per min (is this high or low for the age?)
and there are two little blobs like a snowman !! lol is this the baby, or is one part a sac
and one part a baby, how do I make out what is what?
it looks like a snowman with a little head and body !! is this the head and body?
Thanks !!
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Open Question: This is bugging me.........................?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 22:11:11 GMT)
So this week I will be coming up for 7 weeks without a period. I normally have a 28 day cycle and have never missed a period before - ever. My period was due on the 24th of Feb and on the 6th March I took a test which was negative.
I realise this means I'm not pregnant but whats going on? Apart from the odd light cramp here and there I do feel fine. I am really tired these days but that could be anything! Does everyone get morning sickness or can u be pregnant and have no symptoms?
I'm trying to forget about it butI have this voice at the back of my mind annoying me about the situation lol has annyone got any words of wisdom or stories they can share?
I don't want to take time off work, and go to the docs if its nothing and would be a waste of time!
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Open Question: scared of miscarriaging again... cant seem to sink in that im really preg again, some advice really needed plz?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 21:57:09 GMT)
in jan 3 days after a 3 day period which was abnormal for me since they are normally 6 and heavy i found out i was pregnant even tho i had no symptoms. i started spotting and was left 4 days b4 i could have a scan which turned out my womb was empty n lining was thin. abt 10days later i had a period. i havent had a period since however i took ovulation tests on 27-28th of feb n they were positive. 9 days later i took a test and it was positive and doctors have confirmed it and that im 7 weeks. now being 7+4 since thats the date of my last period.
i have had no bleeding and am very tired n not feelin myself which is reason y i took a test.
i am worried that i am really not pregnant and that when i have my scan in 4 weeks ish that theres nothing goin to be there or that i am going to start bleeding again.
we have been tryin for a baby since oct and this means the world to us.
i have already got a son but i cant remember much from the begining of the pregnancy.
am i really pregnant still if i have had no bleeding a had a positive preg test for 5 days now. my period is roughly due anytime now if i hadnt of miscarried.
i knw this sounds really stupid but im jst so concerned after what happened.
is it a good sign i got a positive preg 5 days b4 my period would of been due?
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Open Question: Loss of pregnancy symptoms at 9 weeks?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 21:55:58 GMT)
So just a little background about me. I have had 1 still birth at 24 weeks and 3 miscarriages (at 4 weeks, 8 weeks and 9 weeks), all in the last 2 year and a half years. I have no living children.
With this pregnancy I have been sick 24/7. I have not been able to keep anything down. I have 2 prescriptions for nausea that I am to take at the same time and they don't really give me any relief. The only thing they seem to be really good at is making me constipated. I was in the hospital a little over a week ago to get 2 units of fluid via IV and then again last night for another unit of fluid and they gave me an enema to clean me out.
Ok, so I woke up this morning feeling great. I was able to eat a real breakfast and drink a glass of milk AND it all stayed down. I didn't even have any nausea. I still needed to take my 2 hour nap, but other then that I don't have any pregnancy symptoms. As much as I hated being sick for the last 6 weeks, at least I know I was still pregnant. I had an ultra sound 4 days ago at my first OB appointment and the baby was right on growth, moving around and the heart rate was really good.
Should I just enjoy the symptom free time, of should I be worried that my symptoms have vanished over night.
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Open Question: Help im gaining weight too fast second pregnancy?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 21:23:52 GMT)
Im a size 8 (uk) weighed 9 stone 8lbs pre pregnancy. AND 5FT 7 INCHS tall.
Im in my 16th week and have gained 10 lbs so far.
First pregnancy i gained 1 stone and 8 pounds (22lbs) and went straight back to my pre pregnancy weight in 3 weeks after giving birth without trying at all.
Im scared this time its going to get out of hand if i dont curb my eating now. Ive always eaten what i like and ive always been lucky enough not to have to worry but things seem to be changing.
Please tell me what u pregnant people are eating. i know pregnancy is not a good time to diet but i just want to eat healthily x x
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Open Question: Is this just my hormones...?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 20:56:21 GMT)
I have 2 amazing son's aged 7 & 2 & a beautiful little daughter aged 3 & I'm currently 14 weeks 3 days pregnant with number 4. I live in the uk, don't work, my partner works full time & the bills are paid but yes, money is a struggle as it is for most of us. I love my babies so much I just worry that having a fourth is too much. My daughter has her own little pink box room & my boys have the middle room with bunk beds... everything is perfect.
The thing is one minute I'm so happy to be having my last baby that I ignore the worries I have about space, time, coping, money & my other 3 missing out then the next minute I really start to panic about it, it makes me feel guilty & selfish.
I feel so horrible & alone at the minute I really don't know what to do or think, it's so hard, I don't really have anyone to talk to about this & my partner isn't very supportive.
Is this just my hormones playing up or something much worse?? No rude comments please x
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Open Question: Does this sound like pregnancy to you?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 20:53:44 GMT)
Does this sound like pregnancy or am I just imagining things? I'm sorry I know this is one of those oh-so-common am I pregnant questions, but I could really use some help!
I use the natural family planning method, which has worked for me for years. My period have been consistent for about 6 months since getting off of the pill in July 2009. I got off of the pill because every time I take birth control, I get always get most of the bad side effects.
So since October my period have been going on about a 33-34 day cycle. I've been able to chart when I ovulate,which is about 12 days after my period. I can feel it as well, so I know. Its been like this:
Periods:
October 31
December 3
January 6
February 9
I always figure it will come within that 3 days gap. They usually are a very heavy flow and last about 5 to 7 days. However, in February, it didn't come until about halfway through the day on the 9th and flowed for about a day or two and then became so light for a couple days that it only showed when I wiped. The day after this "period" stopped, I went to the doctor for a follow up appointment after being diagnosed with PCOS and took a urine pregnancy test, which was negative.
But this month, it was supposed to come on the 12th and it hasn't! And I've only felt bloating. I usually get PMS symptoms pretty bad about a week before my period, but this month I haven't experience a thing. But I been experiencing breast pain for about 3.5 to 4 weeks now.
I've been experiencing more and more symptoms as the days go by:
-Headaches
-Fatigue (its getting to the point where my partner can't even wake me up and if he succeeds, I become unusually angry while I'm still half asleep)
-Nausea (slightly and in the morning and evenings. Not everyday. No vomiting)
-TERRIBLE lower back aches (sometimes they don't stop until it is throbbing)
-Perky Nipples
-Sensitive breasts (a lot of times they will hurt with no movement being made at all)
-lightheaded and have only experience two dizzy spells
-Certain smells do make me queasy and I haven't been able to eat some foods that I normally do.
-I have that sticky, clear, discharge that has no odor (I know for a fact I'm not ovulating because I charted it, but I did hear this could be an early pregnancy thing)
-Oh and lets not forget, no period.
So let me know what you guys think. Am I crazy or just pregnant?
The reason I haven't tested yet is because it could be my body just going nuts. So I thought I'd give it a week before jumping to conclusions...
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Open Question: Can i get married at 15 to my 18 year old boyfreind without my parents consent?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 20:47:01 GMT)
i am 14 going to turn 15 on June 11, my boyfreind is 17 and turns 18 on june 10. We found out i was pregnant a month ago. A week after we found out i was pregnant my parents wouldnt let me go to school and told me that i wasnt allowed to talk to my boyfreind. Then after that week, they unenrolled me out of my school and sent me to another town where my dad lives. They said that me and my boyfriend are not allowed to see each other and if we talk or have any communication they will press charges on him and put a restraining order on him. My boyfreind and I both want to keep the baby and raise it TOGETHER, but my parents are standing in the way of that...i havent talked to him in a month and its been really hard because we have been together for 7 months. He is the best guy i know. He wants to be with me forever and he wants to raise this baby with me. My parents think we are too young to be parents and that is why they dont want us to contact each other? It doesnt make any sense? i dont want to have to go through all the court and laywers so we can fight for custody. My boyfreind and I do not want to have to deal with custody and who pays child support and etc. We want to be together, raise the baby together and give it the life it deserves. My boyfreinds parents and family approve of us getting married and think it would be best for Me the baby and my boyfreind. My boyfreind will be graduating and has a job, he and his parents can support me and the baby, but my parents wont let us be together, is there any way that I can get married to him? I want to marry him and i know this isnt some irrational choice because im young, i know that he is always going to be here for me and im always going to be here for him. Me and my boyfreind know what its like to have divorced parents and we do not want our child to have to go through that, we want the child to have its birth parents together, raising it together and be a happy family. My parents and the law are the only thing that is stopping us from getting married. Is there anyway that the court can order me and him to get married without my parents consent? Please give me a very educated answer this is really hard for me and him and im going through a great deal of depression.
how are we supposed to raise the baby together if we cannot be together or see each other?
I dont need any smart remarks about my situation. All i need is a yes or no answer. My boyfreind isnt a bad guy we just happen to be a young age in this situation. We are trying to find a way to be together and raise the baby together.
what do you mean i can move out?
We do not want to have an abortion neither my boyfreind or I beilive in abortion. We do not want adoption because we want to raise OUR child.
we know the situation with the age. My parents do not wish that charges of rape are pressed on him because they know that the approved of this relationship and they know that he didnt force me to have sex with him. The know that we both love each other and our feelings just got the best of us.
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Open Question: Pregnant and lonely. Am I being unreasonable?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 20:39:22 GMT)
Ok, this might be a bit long winded but please bear with me!
I have a 7 year old son, I work part-time Mon-Sat during the day. I'm also 18 weeks pregnant now.
My OH works as a full time manager in the bar trade and works pretty unsociable hours, lots of long shifts, weekends and late nights. Not the problem so much as I knew this when I met him.
Most days he starts work in the late morning or afternoon and works through to bar closing time or later, sometimes until 4 or 5 am. On the rare occasion he does an early shift and finishes late evening, 8, 9, 10pm. On these evenings he chooses to go to the pub to have a few drinks to unwind.
Not a problem in itself as such, I don't expect him not to have any social life of his own. But herein lies the problem...
He feels it's perfectly acceptable to do this at EVERY given opportunity. He will never finish work early and come home to spend time with me. Or invite me to meet him in the bar. Or suggest that WE go do something together, cinema, dinner, whatever. Or even suggest that he come straight home from work so that I can go meet up with friends to get out of the house and have some adult company.
Due to his working hours, I very rarely see him during the day as he is sleeping when I get up for work due to his previous late night, or when I'm off he's only up an hour or so before going back into work again.
His days off are my days to work 9-6 so I only see him in the evening for a couple of hours. He'll usually take the opportunity to go out that night as he is off.
I feel like a single parent, I never see him or get time to catch up with him to have a chat about my day or his. We never do anything together as a couple. I VERY rarely get the opportunity to meet up with friends because I'm at home every night alone with my son, so pretty much have no social outlet myself. I've talked to him about this so many times in the past but it has never changed for long, he always reverts in a matter of weeks.
Is it so unreasonable of me to ask that I have some kind of adult company or social life, or even a proper relationship with him??
I'm only 25, we've been together 5 years and I just feel SO god damn old, lonely and sad.
Babeheart- what changes do you suggest making?
Aside from plain out saying to him "you can't go out after work tonight, get your ass home asap" what can I actually do by myself to change this??
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Open Question: i ejaculated inside my girlfriend more than 7 times last week while she was on period. is she pregnant?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 20:32:00 GMT)
I dont know when or if she ovulated already but she was on her period and from the 26th of february to the 29th i ejaculated inside of her more than 7 times. what are the chances she is pregnant? I really need some advice and help
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Open Question: what is a good hcg level @ 7 weeks pregnant?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 20:31:04 GMT)
my level was 24,309 @ 7 weeks is that high or is it normal?
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Open Question: No bleeding after micarriage-Is this normal?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 20:19:36 GMT)
I was told that I had a miscarriage at arnd 5-6 weeks at the end of feb after beeding and passing some tissue. after passing the tissue I cont bleeding not heavy at all, and by the next day in the afternoon it completely stopped. Is this normal? Bc ive read that after you miscarry you bleed for some time, and if u need a D&C u will cont to bleed heavily bc everything hasnt passed. Neither one of these situations happened for me. Its been 7 weeks since the miscarriage now and still not even my period has come yet. The miscarriage was never confirmed with a scan or anything, all I know is what the drs have told me. The breast tenderness has returned, along with tiredness, nausea, queasy, slight cramping etc. So I thought maybe my period was coming..but nothing. Could I still be pregnant? I havent had any sexual activity since so theres no way this could be a new pregnancy. Ill be seein the dr soon jus need sum advice. Thanx. God bless!
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Open Question: My husband is not at all being supportive?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 19:54:01 GMT)
My husband and I recently found out that we are expecting our 2nd child. I'm almost 12 weeks along. Our 7.5 year old son was recently diagnosed with Autism and we really need all of our attention to be focused on his therapy and treatment. Now really was not a good time for me to get pregnant and I completetly understand that but, I didn't get pregnant on my own. My husband however seems to be throughly convinced that this is my fault. I just don't know why he feels the need to blame this on me.
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Open Question: Brown watery discharge - miscarriage!!??
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 19:46:59 GMT)
I woke up at 4:30 this morning to put in my progesterone pessary, and when I went to the toilet there was a spot of blood on my panty liner, and when I wiped there was a bit of blood. The colour of the blood was kinda browny-pink (sort of like a dirty orange colour). I panicked and went to tell my husband, and he told me dont worry about it just sleep. So I put in my progesterone pessary and went back to bed. I had kinda period type cramps if i slept on my side, but sleeping on my back made them go away.
Anyways, I woke up at 6, and wiped and it was like water brown. I made my husband's and brother's lunches for work. Cooked breakfast and then went back to the toilet. No change, still watery brown.
I have to wait until 9am (its almost 7am here in Australia) for my doctor to open, and then I can't guarantee that I will be seen straight away.
Other Info: 7 weeks pregnant; 2 previous miscarriages, no other children; baby's heartbeat seen last week on ultrasound (129 bpm).
Please help, I can't lose another one :(
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Open Question: What are the chances of a place hiring you when your 18 weeks pregnant and showing?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 19:33:47 GMT)
I have a interview for Blockbuster next Saturday its not really a interview its a pre-interview where a few applicants go sit at this round table with a couple managers and they ask you questions to make sure thats the right job for you, I LOVE movies and ive always wanted to work at a Blockbuster since I was like 7 lol, but im scared they are going to overlook me because of me being pregnant, and should I tell the managers when I go to the pre-interview that im pregnant? I cant hide my stomach anymore so im really worried about this. And have any of you gotten a job while your pregnant? Let me know what you think about this, Thanks...
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Open Question: i have a yeast infection, but im pregnant, i tried using the monistat applicators afterwars there was blood?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 19:23:47 GMT)
its my first tim eever having ayeast infection adn i tried using the applicators but when i pulled it back out after inserting it there was a little blood on the end of it, could it jsut be from teh applicator, im also 7 weeks pregnant, and my first appointment isnt until april 6th .. has anyone else had this?
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Open Question: Is this the stomach flu or something worse?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 18:39:43 GMT)
I started to get sick around March 2nd and have been sick since then so it's been about 12 days now that I've been sick. I thought for sure that I have the stomach flu but I have some weird symptoms. The first 4 or 5 days were bad but not terrible. The first day I almost got sick but didn't. After those first few days, I thought I started to feel better but then about 3 days ago, I started to get nausea pretty bad again to the point that there were 2 days were I almost vomited again. For some reason, the first week, I would wake up at 2 am feeling sick to my stomach. Then during the day, up until about 7pm, I'm fine but as soon as 7 rolls around, I get pretty sick to my stomach but it usually only lasts about an hour and a half.
These past few days, I haven't had any other symptoms but nausea and sometimes chills and a loss of appetite. I've stopped having diarrhea after the first 5 days. I've called the doctor twice and even went in but they just told me that it's just a virus that's going around and that it'll last from 2-6 weeks and won't tell me what virus I have. They've also asked me if I was pregnant but I'm not. Anyone know what's wrong with me? I just want to know what I can do and when it'll wear off.
P.S. If it's the stomach flu and it's contagious, how come no one around has gotten sick? My boyfriend hasn't gotten it yet. He also thinks I'm crazy but I'm not. Thank you for the help.
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Open Question: 7Months, Vasectomy, Relationship? i need advice!?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 18:26:40 GMT)
okay, ive posted occassionally. Heres the Run down, i met this man(40y/o + 9kids) July 11,2009...we quickly got into a relationship i loved his character regardless of the "bad things" im not judgemental, and I LOVED & LOVE his personality. we had unprotected sex about a week after after a "wild night" and after being assured that neither one of us had any stds blah blah and me being on BC we continued to do so basically were living together. well, we got serious fast! but on aug 7th, i did have a fling with an ex. totally protected, no breakage nothing!. and that was it, never happened again..WELL ooops, sept comes. i say i think IM PREGNANT, my bf says u cantbe i have a vasectomy. so i was relieved. continued on with life together, and he talkks about how he wants a kid, and didnt have a vasectomy, and how pretty our children would be like on going, telling me hes ready for another child, so if i dont want one i need to take my BC because he was trying to get me pregnant. (WTF, right?) well, i officially found out i was preggo, what does he Say...ITS NOT MINE! i move back home, and begin living my life, assuming my child was concieved from the condom fling i had.NOW he is still calling my family and i, talking about he loves me misses me, and if theres still hope for us being together...and telling my mom, if its mine, she better be ready to get married...asking if he can come see me, talkin about us having sex.. PLEASE SOMEONE TELL ME WHAT I SHOULD DO, AND HOW I SHOULD HANDLE THIS!. im still in love, but i really belive he knows its his child and is now tryn to patch up things..ADVICE anyone?!
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Open Question: Itchy breasts and stomach... PMS, Pregnancy or something else?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 18:13:47 GMT)
My girl friend and I are a bit concerned that she may be pregnant. We're thinking she isn't, however, we still need some help. She started on Lavora birth control pills back August. When she started birth control, the side of her breasts down to her stomach was real itchy for about three months straight. Eventually the itching went away. Now it's starting up again after about 7 months of being on the pill. There isn't really a rash, just some white/skin colored bumps.. The itching started about 1-2 weeks ago. We looked through a paper that was given to her with her birth control and rash was a side effect. The reason we're thinking she's NOT pregnant is for one, she takes her pill every day, never missed a day, however, she's been like an hour late a couple times and sometimes she's like 15-30 minutes late She doesn't take any medicine that would mess with the effectiveness of the pill. I use a condom every time for extra protection. We have had a couple scares with Pre-Ejaculation but after researching that, I'm pretty sure we're in the clear. Another reason we think it ISN'T pregnancy is because she's suppose to start her period in a few days and her breast are feeling sore (just like every time she's gotten her period since she started getting it at age 14). Could the itching be a sign of PMS? One of her friends at work told her she had the same itchy problem last month before she started her period.. She doesn't have any other pregnancy symptoms.. She's small (about 90ibs) so her periods are always different (symptoms and length). I'm trying to help by giving any other helpful info... Like I said, same itching as when she first started birth control, she just doesn't know what's causing it and it's making us a bit worried. Thanks!
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Open Question: 31 weeks pregnant with a real bad uti.help?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 17:48:50 GMT)
i have had a urniary tract infection for about a month and the doctor prescrbed me a 7 day antibiotic but it doesnt seem to be working.my pains and everything seem to be getting worse by the day..is a uti bad for the baby or will everything be ok and this will jus go away on its own
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Resolved Question: Are these some Plan B side effects?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 17:47:10 GMT)
Had sex a two weeks ago, but the condom broke. He did not ejaculate inside me, but I know pre-cum can have sperm in it. He pulled out, never ejaculated (well atleast with me there) and I took Plan-B the day after. 7 days after that, I began bleeding, but it was darker and the flow was lighter than my period. I also began breaking out. Is this normal? My regular period should be coming around the 22nd and I'm worried that I may be pregnant.
Also, I know that insurance covers for birth control, but my parents already said no to allowing me to get on it. How can I get it without them knowing?
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Open Question: have i had a miscarriage?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 17:15:24 GMT)
can someone please give some advise. from date of last period i worked out i should be 6-7 weeks pregnant. i started spotted brown blood last thursday night. I was really worried and decided to go to A and E to have it checked out. They arranged for me to have a scan the next day just to check. When i went for the scan they said there was only a sac so i was only about 4 weeks pregnant and the bleeding may just be implantation bleeding but decided the case was inconclusive as they could not rule out miscarriage and have arranged for another scan in 10 days time. The next day on the saturday i had abdominal pain like a normal period and bleed with clots that day. although there was a fair bit of blood it was still light for me. then saturday night the bleeding slowed down now i am just spotting again. im really worried and need to know have i had a miscarriage. i am going to go doctors tomorrow but if anyone has any past experiances of this could they please share the story and help put my mind at rest.
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Open Question: Could I be pregnant? I think I am getting some early symtoms?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 16:54:52 GMT)
I had unprotected sex on the first day of my period on Feb 24th... one week later my breast became very sensitive and tender...The last 5-7 days I have been getting horrible head aches and have felt extremely nausea the last 2 days...My period isn't due for another 2 weeks... I have taken a HPT but it was negative.Could I be pregnant?
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Open Question: Question about early pregnancy. . .?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 16:51:17 GMT)
Ok so i got my BFP this weekend and it said i am 2-3 weeks pregnant, but on the paper inside the box it says 2-3 weeks means your really 4 to 5 weeks. . but my last period was Feb 11 so theres no way i am 4-5 weeks??? and also , everytime i feel cramps like i am going to get my period i get scared because i think i am losing the baby! when should i start taken materna the vitamin pills, the doc don't see me til i am about 7 weeks.
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Open Question: Just found out i'm pregnant.. have a few questions...?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 16:07:16 GMT)
lets see... My last period was Jan 28,2010 and so I took a test and got a positive HPT on March 7th. went to the doc and they did blood work and but the blood work shows i'm only 3 weeks pregnant... everything else i read says i should be about 6 weeks... how am i only 3 weeks? Hope this makes since
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Open Question: A few different questions , please answer.?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 15:18:27 GMT)
I have a few different questions.
before I ask, here's WHY I'm asking..
I'm 7 weeks PP, from my first child.
I had sex 5 weeks from being PP.
I haven't had a first period yet, and I'm not sure when I will have one.
But now I'm worked up that I could be pregnant.. I'm not able to start BC yet, because I haven't had a first period..
When can I test to see if I'm pregnant?
I know usually, after your missed period, but again.. I haven't had one since I've had my son.. and I'm not sure when I'll start.
Also, when do you usually have a first period after baby?
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Open Question: Any opinions/experiences would be much appreciated?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 13:51:46 GMT)
So this week I will be coming up for 7 weeks without a period. I normally have a 28 day cycle and have never missed a period before - ever. My period was due on the 24th of Feb and on the 6th March I took a test which was negative.
I realise this means I'm not pregnant but whats going on? Apart from the odd light cramp here and there I do feel fine but I have this voice at the back of my mind annoying me about the situation lol has annyone got any words of wisdom or stories they can share?
Thanks
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Open Question: Why does my menstrual cycle cause pain?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 12:16:54 GMT)
I am 24 yrs old and every time its almost time for my menstrual cycle I have this burning stinging sensation. It happens about a week and a half before I begin my cycle. And the burning and stinging are intensified when i urinate. It has become very painful. It only lasts until the first 2 days into my cycle and then after my 5 to 7 days are up the burning and stinging are gone and don't show back up until the next month before its time! Does anyone else have this problem or might know with this could be? Yes I plan on going to the gynecologist, but I just thought I would see if anyone else might know whats going on? Thanks
Oh and no I'm not pregnant nor have I ever been pregnant! And I haven't been sexually active in over a year!
And at times there is even blood. Not alot just a little when I wipe! I'm one a diet right now and I'm sticking to whole grains, chicken, fish, fruits, and veggies, water, and juice. The only juice I drink is orange juice. Could that be whats causing it?
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Open Question: homework pls.. help!!!?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 10:42:41 GMT)
hi to all of you.. i have a homework about pregnancy and the question is is there any still possibility to become pregnant if she have a period that is normal and they have sex with her partner about 1 or 2 weeks be4 her period?? assuming now that the women is now in his 2nd week after her period.. like she finishes her period on march 7 and now is 14.. is there still any possibility? yes or no?? and cna u also explain ty!!! nid it asap!!!
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Open Question: guys i have a homework can you help me pls.... :D?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 10:31:38 GMT)
hi to all of you.. i have a homework about pregnancy and the question is is there any still possibility to become pregnant if she have a period that is normal and they have sex with her partner about 1 or 2 weeks be4 her period?? assuming now that the women is now in his 2nd week after her period.. like he finishes her period on march 7 and now is 14.. is there still any possibility?
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Open Question: Am i in real Labour or not?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 10:22:34 GMT)
Hi im 39 weeks pregnant and for the past eight hours i have been experincing mild contractions (or braxton hicks?). Now everytime im walking around they increase in pain and in frequency, and everytime i sit or lye down they get further apart. So ive timed them aswel and when im walking they are like every 3mins,5,mins or 7 minutes apart (not regular) and when ive lyed down they get to about 10 mins apart. Is this real labour? should i keep moving ? its just been so long since they started and they havnt advanced to the next level of intensity. Any help and advice on this please.
Oh and my waters havnt broken.
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Open Question: Irregular period or something else?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 09:07:07 GMT)
I had my daughter 7 months ago. I had 1 depo provera shot which was from oct to dec. The only Form of birth control I've been using was condoms. Anyways I don't know if my period is late or irregular? Is this normal? I'm over a week late. Today I had a discharge that looked like a mucus plug a streak of pink on it. I never thought I'd write something similar to " am I pregnant" I don't know when I should take a test. I spotted a couple of times yesterday and today. Thanks for reading. I need to ease my mind.
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Open Question: Irregular period or not?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 08:53:44 GMT)
I had my daughter 7 months ago. I had 1 depo provera shot which was from oct to dec. The only Form of birth control I've been using was condoms. Anyways I don't know if my period is late or irregular? Is this normal? I'm over a week late. Today I had a discharge that looked like a mucus plug a streak of pink on it. I never thought I'd write something similar to " am I pregnant" I don't know when I should take a test. I spotted a couple of times yesterday and today. Thanks for reading. I need to ease my mind.
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Open Question: 6-7 weeks, is this normal? Am i ok?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 08:24:07 GMT)
I have done 3 tests in 5 days and all said positive, it works out that i am 6-7 weeks pregnant. Here's my problem...
This is my 3rd pregnancy and both my others were trouble, morning sickness from day 1, cramping, spotting throughout, on & off bedrest etc etc.. This time, I have had no cramps, morning sickness, spotting or anything else, I haven't gone to the doctor yet but im worried something is wrong already?
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Open Question: Am i entitled to my short term disability?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 07:22:44 GMT)
I'm 30 weeks pregnant and I've worked at my company for 7 years. I pay for my health benefits thru work and have short term disability included in my benefit package. My job as a housekeeper has now become too difficult and dangerous as I lift more than my doctor said is safe and I've developed episodes of contractions after heavy lifting. I asked my employer to make accommodations for me on friday or to move me to another position and they said no position is available and told me to come back after I had the baby!!! I was told to fill out family medical leave act paperwork. They said I cannot use my short term disability even when i cannot preform my current job because i could preform a desk job but they do not have one to give me!
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Open Question: Fluttering in my lower Abdomen?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 05:30:20 GMT)
Ok so, I have asked the question a million times, and IM ganna ask it one more but be more specific.
This has gotten Worse over the past few weeks, its not painful just weird.
Its been going on for about 2months, I have this weird "FLUTTER" feeling in my lower abdomen and when I say lower i mean Down where I had my c-section lower (if your a woman you will know where this is) I can actually physically put my hand on my lower stomach and feel this happen, as well as see it!! If its Gas and been going on this long I am sure my GI doctor would have found it when he ordered the tests, and gave me the MRI and Xray. And my regular doctor says everything seems good. Its just kind of weird this keeps happening and it is puzzling me. Any ideas?
PS:: I dont eat fast foods, no grease, I dont eat alot of salads so no gas. I am a mother to One child so i do know what pregnancy feels like. Also the pregnancy test I have taken (2weeks ago) came up negitive. I had my Period On the March 7th but it was a short one (3days). I have been diagnosed with cervical dysplasia over 3yrs ago while i was pregnant. And was diagonosed a year ago with Fibrod tumors (non cancerous) on my right ovary. ::: Any one been through this know what Im talking about or Is it just somthin im ganna have to live with LOL!! Thanks a bunch!!
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Open Question: how big will my baby be at birth?
(Sun, 14 Mar 2010 05:20:49 GMT)
i am 34 weeks pregnant and was told i have gestational diabetes . when i was 32 weeks pregnant i had a ultra sound done and was told my babies weight was 5pounds 7 ounces how bill iwill she be at birth?
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