I am in Navy DEP and I leave August 2011. I think that I might be pregnant. If I am, I should give birth in the month of April. That's about 3 to 4 months before I leave. If I give up legal custody of my child or up for adoption, can I still leave in August for my training? Or should I marry the father? What would be better for me to do so that I can still leave on schedule? Please do not tell me to ask my recruiter. I will talk to him when I know for sure if I am or not. Until then I would li

i know people will be like "your horrible for having one" but i had to due to how i got pregnant....... i had the abortion about a month ago, and as they put the thing (i dont know its technical name sorryy) the pain was SO bad and i was moving around quite abit, they said i wouldnt feel it... as soon as i left i was sick really bad, and bled for 2weeks, now ive been getting like goo come from me and bits of blood........ im still having signs of pregnancy though and they said it should have

i did a test for pregnancy about 3 months ago when i was missing my period and the doctors never told me i was pregnant. I came in to ask the doctor for my results and the doctor i saw isn't working there anymore? So i ask to talk to another doctor. He tells me that I am about 3 months pregnant with a baby! i don't look pregnant, im not throwing up, i have NO symptoms whatsoever of being pregnant. Today i went to get an ultrasound. And the lady tells me I am almost 5 months pregnant!!!!! C

My BF and I had been together for 4 months (I am 26, he is 24 and just graduated from college), fell in love, and when we found out we were preggo, he said he would support me, and that we would work things out as a couple. He was more scared and not excited at all about the pregnancy. But said he loved me and was in it for the long run. So we moved in together a month ago. 3 days ago, he breaks up with me saying that he is not "in love" with me, even though a month earlier, and all through

Alright... So I met this girl at the club like about 4 months ago. It's weird how everything happened but anyways. We started to talk on Facebook, or whatever.. Then out of no where we end up going on a vacation to my home state. We devise a plan to make it seem like we have been dating for a while, when in reality, it's only been about a week. Lol. So, she meets my family, I have like a billion brothers and sisters. They all love her. My friends liked here (Besides my Ex's back at home:D ). W

Okay so its a long one but please bare with me. It has been a few months now since i broke up with a man who i thought i would marry. We'd been through many ups and downs, i was raped, became pregnant, this man wanted to father this child with me after i decided i could not go through with an abortion. I made it totally clear that i did not expect a thing from him, if he needed to leave there were no hard feelings and that this was just something i had to do. I hoped he would understand. Anyw

Okay so its a long one but please bare with me. It has been a few months now since i broke up with a man who i thought i would marry. We'd been through many ups and downs, i was raped, became pregnant, this man wanted to father this child with me after i decided i could not go through with an abortion. I made it totally clear that i did not expect a thing from him, if he needed to leave there were no hard feelings and that this was just something i had to do. I hoped he would understand. Anyw

I will be 16 in a couple months and i just found out im pregnant. i made a huge mistake at a party,even tho im on birth control, i am now 3 weeks pregnant. i do have a job and about 400 hundred dollars saved up from it and my parents said theyd help out with everything but i just dont know if i can do it, especially knowing the father wouldnt be in my childs life but i dont wanna kill it. i know its my responsibility, i just dont know what to do. please advice?

A little background. My brother and I have been very close up until recently. The feud started when he decided to drag me into his love life business and asked me for my opinion and advice about his then boyfriend. I told him I really did not want to get involved but he insisted so I shot straight from the hip and he did not like what I told him. That was the first rift in our relationship. The straw that really broke the camel's back was when I told him I was not going to put up with his

I will try and make a long story short. I moved to another state to be with my boyfriend. We have been together for 7 years. Some good times some bad but we always had lots of love for each other and hated being apart. Well in June I had a miscarriage and a few days later had a DNC done. We lived with his parents...step dad a drunk and mother bi-polar. She threatened if I ever got pregnant again and anything happen between me and her son she would sew me for custody! She is telling me this ab

I know this a little long & I truly appreciate anyone who can take the time to give me some advice/feedback, thanks in advance :) The 1st time I got my period I was 9. I got it once that year. From age 11 to 15 I got my period probably around 3 to 4 times per year (sometimes less) It wasn't until i turned 16 that I went on a diet b/c I've always had 12-15 lbs of excess weight. I'm a petite female & should weight between 95-100 lbs. Anyways i lost 10 lbs in a week & was at a healthy 100lbs,

Hi guys im 21 years old im with my partner for the last three and half years im 3 months pregnant and my family is trying to make me get an abortion i dont want to get one cause i know it will brake my heart and it makes me sick even to think of it but my family said if i dont get rid they will never speak to me again so i dont know what to do

Okay so around 6-8 weeks ago i got an abortion, however the abortion failed and all it did was kill the baby. I was around 2-3 months pregnant when i got the abortion and the baby is now still inside of me. Okay so i've been bleeding from my vagina for quite some time now, like a constant period. So today when i took my tampon out a lot of clear liquid came out, i'm talking around 1 litreish and i have no idea what it is :S Help please (I've already been to the doctors, they gave me a pill whi

OK, i understand A lott of people wont agree with this but ill ask anyway. I have an amazing little girl she's 4. I love her morethana anyone could imagine. Even as soon as i found out i was pregnant i knew i loved her. But this time around is a total different case. myself and my boyfriend broke up last year for nearlly a year. he used to take my daughter at the weekends but only cause shed ask for him so i ring. (Mostly he wouldn ans and i would have to call his brother). ANyway alot went on

i have been dating my boyfriend for 9 months now. my ex. and i have been talkin on and off ever since we broke up but just as friends which we broke up 4 years ago we always run into each other. i promised myself i would be faithful to my boyfriend. but i went to my ex's house about month in half ago and cheated without protection. the day after i had confessed to my boyfriend and he told me that he cheated also.a long time ago with this one girl that i have been had suspicions about. well we

Well, We are both 18 years old. We were together for 3 years now it is very much over! I'm currently 5 months pregnant. We rarely speak, We did have a long talk not to long ago. He said to me every day he wakes up & Thinks he made the biggest mistake of his life, He said he has thought of every way of getting out of this including killing me & He made it clear he'd want to torture me to death. He says he torture himself daily thinking why didn't i get an abortion; Me and the baby are his worst

Well, We are both 18 years old. We were together for 3 years now it is very much over! I'm currently 5 months pregnant. We rarely speak, We did have a long talk not to long ago. He said to me every day he wakes up & Thinks he made the biggest mistake of his life, He said he has thought of every way of getting out of this including killing me & He made it clear he'd want to torture me to death. He says he torture himself daily thinking why didn't i get an abortion; Me and the baby are his worst

ive been having sex with my boyfriend with a condom but then one night (thursday 2nd september) it got a bit out of control and we decided not to use a condom. however a couple of days before we had sex i started taking a contraceptive pill called 'Microgynon 30'. Was i protected enough after taking it for only two days? Also i cant do a pregnancy test yet can i ? as i have to finish my pill before i can have a break (in 3 weeks time) to see if i get my period or not. would it be a bit late to

I'm 19 years old and pregnant, I don't know how to tell the father of the child. He is my boyfriend, he's 20 years old, and we are in a good relationship. Though we have always talked about how we want to wait to have children for a few more years, we're going through some tough family issues right now, and are relocating 1000 miles away in less than 3 weeks to stay with my brother and his girlfriend until we can save enough money to get out on our own because my mother is now homeless and I'v

Vaccines from Abortion: The Hidden Truth For over thirty years pharmaceutical companies have been quietly producing vaccines using the remains of aborted babies, a fact that was deliberately hidden from the general public for decades. But as the grisly details emerged through several pro-life publications, a growing number of parents and physicians were both shocked and deeply disturbed to discover the truth surrounding these vaccines — and rightfully so! What follows is just the tip of the

there is a chance i could be pregnant and will be finding out later tonight... i am 17 and have been with my partner for over 3 years and we are still together dont start saying im stupid for getting pregnant (if i am) because it's not my fault as i took my pill correctly even though i changed my pill this month my doctor said wait a week and i waited longer than a week... all thats running threw my head is what i should do: have an abortion or keep my child i wouldnt consider giving my child

hi i am seena, i am 23 yr old. i was married a few months ago. we had plans to have a baby after 2 o 3 years as we have not been settled yet. we are in a foreign country and we keep moving according to his job .i just found out that i am pregnant we can not have a baby o i cannot deliver a baby it would be very difficult for us. is there any Natural way of abortion.

Okay, so i was raped two days ago. & im hoping that im not pregnant but for some reason i just have this feeling i might be, but im probably just freaking out. Anyways, before this happened i been taking birth control for only 17 days and it hasn't been a month for it to start actually working. but i was wondering if i do end up pregnant and i keep taking the pill will it affect my pregnancy . cause i know after 2 or 3 weeks you can find out if your pregnant, but until then i don know if i s

I want to know what you would do if this was you: You have a fiancee, you love her and she loves you. You have a fight over something that in hindsight, was your fault because of an insecurity you had. Now you talk after 3 months, and you still love her more than anything and she still loves you. Only problem is when you broke up, she was angry and gave in to an ex, they did it once and now she's pregnant. She's planning to be a single mom, because she doesn't love him, she loves you. Abortion

hi all here is my story.. ill keep it short, im the proud mom of a georgous 7 month old boy and i think i may be pregnant again. after my son was born i bled for 7 weeks , so i got the precription for the marina coil for when my propper period came. so about 3 months later i got a period , went to my doctor and he told me to wait until i get a seconed period that thr 1st one wasnt a propper period. so then i got a precription for the pill incase i got my period on a sat or sunday and he

ok about 1yr ago i found out i was pregnant! I told my employer EVERYONE, so they wouldn't make me do anything hard @ my ex job. One day some people from corporate were going to be in town so they had us re arrange furniture to make the place look nice. I told them i wasn't going to do it but they said i had to at least vacuum. key words *had to at least* When i was in the middle of vacuuming i felt a gush of water from down there. When i put my hand down there and looked at my hand it had bl

My best friend and I have been close for over 5 years. We have never dated but I've always loved her and wanted to be with her, she never took up the offer though. Now she's 16 and I'm 18, going to college and heading for the Marine Corp in a year or two. She's pregnant and engaged to another guy, but she's all I have ever wanted in a female. She tells me she made the biggest mistake of her life, but I find it hard to believe because to me you don't get pregnant by another guy if you love some

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So I found out I was pregnant last month. Ive been dating the guy for 18 months. Before I could tell him I was pregnant he was asking me for space. He kind of ignored me, my calls and text for the next couple weeks not really talking about the baby when i would talk to him. Now last week he tells me he wants to be with me but he didn't want the fact that Im pregnant be the reason why he chooses to be with me. He wants it to be cause he loves me and he says he does. Well the problem is the

So I'm 14 and I just recently discovered I'm pregnant. Not too thrilled about it. I would like to have the baby and keep it because I know I would be a fantastic mother and my boyfriend would be a fantastic father and we are madly in love. The part about that is being pregnant for 9 months and going to school. I don't have time for a baby so I've been thinking about abortion because there's no way I could have a baby and set it up for adoption. Looking through all the websites with info on abo

My older sister is 3 months pregnant or about 12 weeks and she wants to know if shes available to get an abortion in Maryland. she has two boys already and cant support the new baby. so please no religious views or if you think its wrong or not cause i'm not asking that. i just need to know if your able to get an abortion at 3 months in Maryland.

Ok. I know my body and am definately preg. I knew I was preg at 3 weeks along with all 3 of my kids. Had 3rd child after essure procedure which is a type of tubal ligation. Had hysterectomy over 17 months ago. Am pregnant for sure. Do not believe in abortion. Want stats on having a child after hysterectomy. Also already have some breast fluid. Can it come early in pregnancy before 3 months. Pretty sure I had breast fluid when I was 3 and half weeks with the third child. But haven't found

Hello, My boy friend was visit me from us and i got pregnant and i really don't feel i am ready to have any baby i just find out 3 month after that he not love me and now it's kind of too late i want to know if anybody can give me advice how to do abortion without too much risk as i am in the 3rd month of my pregnancy and he is really not support me anymore because he really don't want this child as well i really stuck without much solutions and i want to know what to do because we honestly u

I know its a lot to ask but im 38 and have just found out im pregnant. he is 31 and doesnt want a child because a ) he doesnt live in this country and will be going home to his country in a few months, b) he already has a child and is paying for the childs maintainance. c) i would need to claim benefits whilst not able to work and he sees this as not good enough that i should be better off when having a child and hes right. at the same time having had 2 previous misscarriages im just glad to b

My ex and I have been talking and fixing our relationship. Things were going great until last night, a girl he was involved with a few months ago called him and told him "I know you might think I'm lying, and feel free to hang up on me after I tell you this, but I think I'm pregnant." I'm not going to let this affect my relationship between him and I, but he is a train wreck. He said it was a mistake sleeping with her in the first place, definitely doesn't want a kid with her, all of that. H

My friend just had an abortion and lost at least 5 to 10 pounds (she was about 3 months pregnant I believe). Anyway, because I can honestly lose a few pounds myself, a few months ago I also became pregnant. I am aborting tomorrow. How much weight do you think I'll lose?

I am fourteen, yes I know I am very young. About 1 month ago I had sex for the first time. I told my boyfriend I wanted to take a pregnancy test (just incase). He freaked out, telling me to 'promise' I would get an abortion if I was. I did not believe in abortion, i was totally against it. I was 3 weeks pregnant, until I finally.. got an abortion. Im still so upset about it. I know that I wouldnt of been able to take care of the baby, but there could have been other ways. I feel guilty, dissap

i am 15 years old, well basically like 14 cause i just turned 15 like 3 days ago, and i found out im pregnant 3 weeks ago..... AGAIN ! This is not the first time, i have a son names Bentley Andrew that i just had 10 months ago, and he is such a joy to have, when i told my parents about him when i was only 3 months along, they flipped, and we got into a huge arguement and then i moved into my boyfriends house and he is 19 and me and bentley have been here ever since, and we sleep together and h

I had an abortion 3 months ago and started the birthcontrol patch. It had fallen off without my knowing and i had sex. I noticed and got more patches 2 days later and started again. then i went swimming and it fell off AGAIN! i had sex again without it and used a condom and took a emergency cont. just in case cause i didnt have an abortion for no reason! then i started birthcontrol pills that sun. im guessing i got pregnant the first time it fell off and the e.c pill wont work if your already

This is a very long story, but I will try to keep it short. I have been married for a little over 3 years. I was separated from my husband for about 10 months, during which time we were both dating other people. About 2 months ago we decided to try and work things out and we are together again. A few days ago, the woman he had been seeing told him she was 10 weeks pregnant. He said it might not be his, but i'm sure it probably is. I know if it is his child, he will want to take care of i

this was not planned and i have my full life ahead of me, i promised everyone if i had gotten pregnant i would keep the baby. and never in my life did i want to have an abortion so i have decided to keep the baby, for everyone that has had a baby can you tell me how much it really hurts when you actually have it because i keep having dreams that it hurts alot. btw im 11 weeks pregnant and soon to be putting photos of my little bump, any advice please? and please no bad comments because i ha

Their answers are always the same; unrelated scripture, insults such as "you don't understand" or they simply avoid answering the question and say how "ignorant" we are for even asking. Or of course there are just the kids on here repeating illogical statements from their parents. I'm trying to find out if there are in fact some intelligent Christians out there that can answer for their beliefs. Can you answer any of these questions without using: insults, unrelated scripture, scripture that

Hey, I have been going out with my girlfriend for 6 months now, and it has been the most incredible time of my life. not your normal meet a girl and fall in love stuff, we met in an incredible way, with incredible co-incidences and it just felt like fate. We found out last thursday that she is pregnant and after 20 minutes of tears and fears we started toying with the idea of keeping the baby and we could then think of nothing else for the next 4 days, it was incredible, we were so close to e

I'm a few weeks along now. At the time of the sex I was on birth control (nuva ring) and I was using it properly. I've been on it for a year and a half now. I'll be 17 in November but i'm still WAY too young for this. I know 100% sure i'm not having an abortion. I'm pro-life so don't even mention that. I know i'll be keeping my baby and my mind cannot and will not be changed. I'm SO afraid to tell my mom...I know I HAVE to very soon because i'll need to go to the doctor for my baby. but I sure

So I lived with my boyfriend for 5 years total. The last year we broke up because he cheated however we started seeing eachother again the past few months and he got me pregnant. During the time we were not together I went on a trip to Mexico with a guy friend from my job yes I know he likes me but he is not the type to push me to have sex which is whyi was comfortable going with him although I was single and could do what ever I wanted reguardless. But I just was not into the guy that way. A

Im not an idiot, i know that heavy drinking causes FAS, but should moderate drinking really be forbidden? There was a time when water was not even safe to drink. So before sanitized water, in every western country the people could only drink wine and beer and that includes pregnant women and children. It says that the average American settler drank up to two gallons of beer per day.Same goes for countries like England (the UK or whatever) because I read a lot of British history, and back then

I'm 18 and I just found out that I am 3 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend and I have decided on an abortion. Now I'm aware that most of you will probably disagree with my decision but we have weighed the options and we cannot afford to keep the baby nor do we have the funds to go through a 9 month pregnancy. I am not asking for a judgement on my choice, I'm asking for advice on the actual abortion process as I'm terrified. Please if you have any advice id really appreciate it. Also for those of you

I am a guy named Gage and I am 16. My girlfriend Katie is 14. We have known each other a year but have been going out only for 2 months. We love each other and will be together for a long time if not forever (yea, i know people say that but this is true love). I need some opinions about somethings. #1. Katie lives 1 hour and 30 minutes away in a town near my cabin. I can only see her on weekends during school time when I drive down there to see her and during the summer when I stay at m

There is like 5 currently: 2 Freshman . 2 Sophomores . 1 Junior Im not counting abortions . There is this girl that had 2 or 3 abortions . Im pretty sure there is more . One of the girls is like 8 months pregnant . There is two girls that I already know have kids that are 1 years old . It is sad I knew one of the girls from middle school . I swear some girls can't keep their legs closed or don't know how to use a condom properly . All of these girls give me a reason why Im staying a virgin

Ok so here is the story: First off I am 17 and my gf is 18 I will be 17 in two months though and my gf just turned 18 a few months ago. We have been going out for 1 year and 7 months and a few days to today and we started having sex after going out for 8 months. Not constant sex but sex every now and then. We have both controlled ourselves with the sexual desire and stuff and have only had sex 4-5 times since then. Each time, of course, we get nervous if she is pregnant or not and pray to go