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Open Question: pregnancy problems HELP!!?
(Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:59:54 GMT)
Hii everyone. So i know i have to be pregnant! I'm over five weeks late on my period. . . and there is no other answer im not stressed i just look at it as if it happens it happens god wanted me to have this. But im not sure because right around a week or two ago, i had this brownish pink when i wiped from using the bathroom i don't know if this was implantation bleeding or not, it lasted for about three days and never was heavy and didn't have a smell but definitely it was not one of my regular periods? So if anyone knows what it was could you tell me? Also in my family we usually don't have a positive on are test for awhile but i don't know if i really am. I know you guys can't tell me if i am or not i just wanna know what you women have experienced and tell me whats happing to my body??
bbt im ttc
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Open Question: sore breasts and discharge still am i gana start my period or am I pregnant?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:58:10 GMT)
My perids are always 1 to 3 weeks late. My period is excactly 3 weeks late today. My breasts are sore and I still have some discharge an I going to start my period or could I be pregnant? I thought that discharge stopped five days before your period. I would take a pregnancy test but I don't want to be disapointed with a negative respnse. I've been tryin to concieve for almost a year and still no luck
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Open Question: pregnant and miscarring?.....give me hope?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:00:13 GMT)
I have been trying to get pregnant for about two months now. Five days ago I took a home pregnancy test and it was positive, in shook and dibelief I went back to the pharmacy and took another it was also positive. yesterday i went to my obgyn and had blood work done, my results were positive and my progesterone levels were 26. last night my husband and i had sex and i had very light barely noticeable spotting so i called my doc. he asked me to come in. i should be almost six weeks pregnant and when he did the vaginal ultrasound the results were shocking. he said that the sac was oblong shaped and that he doubted that the pregnancy was viable. tomorrow i have to have more blood word done to see if my hCG levels are doubling, but the doc said that he thought that i am miscarring. please tell me that he could be wrong. i have looked up ultrasound pics and mine dont look much different then the ones on the net that i have seen. someone give me some hope!
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Open Question: I've been on Birth Control for five years...when can I expect? HELP PLEASE!?!?!?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 21:50:09 GMT)
I've been on birth control for about five years now. I'm only 19 and the reason i started b/c was because i had TERRIBLE periods. I'm now married, and I had been taking the depo provera shot. The first week of january, i was due for another shot, but I never got it. I've been cramping pretty bad the past week and spotting discolored blood a little, but i wont ever start my period. whenever i become pregnant, my husband and i wanted it to be a "surprise" and not really planned. the women in my family have a very fertile background on or off b/c. any ideas of when I could expect to become pregnant? I'm very anxious...
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Open Question: I need help choosing a birth control that works and is easy to use...?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 16:22:30 GMT)
Right now I am on implanon and it sucks. I have gained 45 ponds in one year and bleed for 6 weeks, every six weeks. I talked to a obgyn about this and she said it was normal that this was my rythm. But when I went on the implanon website they said it wasnt normal.
Also i fall into that .01% of people that most birth controls do not work for. I have five children. the crazy part is that after an accident when I was a child they had to surgically remove half of my uterus and I was told that It there was only a 20% chance that I would ever concieve and only 2% that I would ever carry a child to term. Imagine my shock when I did become pregnant and carried a healthy baby girl for 36 weeks.
After that I went on depo one year later exactly I was pregnant again.
After that I went on the pill and just to be safe my husband and I used condoms and spermicide. I became pregnant again exactly one year later.
With my fourth we decided to use the family planning method. It worked for 3 years until we got a little intoxicated and we blew off the timing.
With my fifth I had the Minerna IUD. Despite what they tell you apparently the real statistics are that 1 in 10 get pregnant with this. I went another 3 years before I did get pregnant.
Before you say I should get my tubes tied, or do something permanent, this is absolutley out of the question, one because it is a miracle that I became pregnant in the first place and 2 becasue I plan on being a surrogate for my sister in law who cannot have children. Also my mom is like me she had 7 children and my little brother was the result of my mom having her tubes tied and my dad had a vesectomy. 12 years after her 6 my bro was born and I am 22 years older than him.
In the meantime I need something with out all the side effects. all the other birth controls I was on, I never got a period at all and didnt gain any wait. I was a size 6 after my 4th child and now I am pushing size 18.
Any suggettions would be great or even websites where I can compare different methods.
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Open Question: COULD SHE BE PREGNANT?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 10:18:09 GMT)
Is she pregnant? Was inside for like five seconds, threw her off cuz i knew I didnt have a condom. She was about 5 days before her period, she is on Yaz birth control, and has never missed one pill. She took a plan B pill the same day. and her normal period happened a week after the encounter at its normal time.
When should we take a pregnancy test.. It has been one month since it happened. Would a test show if she was or was not already?
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Open Question: Miscarriage at five weeks. D and C?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 07:18:30 GMT)
I found out I was pregnant when I was four weeks and five days. A day before that I was bleeding a little, then two days later the bleeding got extremely heavy. I took three HPT and they have all been completely negative (no line on the positive side at all). I bleed for about a week heavy. My doctor wants to see me on Wed and said there is a good chance they want to do a d and c. This was my first pregnancy so I don't know a lot, but I really don't think its necessary at all I feel fine and I wouldn't have even known I was pregnant had I waited another day before testing because I started bleeding, I would've thought it just was my period. I have no HCG hormones. Should I decide no on the d and c in this situation?
And when do you think I should start trying to get pregnant again?
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Open Question: Boss won't give paperwork so we can apply for heating assistance?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 03:45:25 GMT)
We live in Iowa. The only holdup is that my boyfriend's boss can't be bothered to give him the required paperwork (even though he's asked almost once a week for over a month) in order to turn in the application. In normal situations we could just look through his paystubs for the necessary information, but OH YEAH she can't be bothered to hand out pay stubs either...just a check every week with a post-it note (undated of course) that states what amount of taxes might have been taken out but even that she doesn't give every week. What can we do about this? I am five months pregnant and unemployed and we really really REALLY need the help this program could provide.
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Open Question: at five weeks pregnant?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 03:36:30 GMT)
I just had another episode of light cramping and now they are gone as fast as they came in. Im worried. I have no other symptoms just the minor cramps and sore boobs. 5wks 4 days
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Open Question: 32 weeks pregnant, nervous about tomorrow, can you help me?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 03:30:05 GMT)
I am 32 weeks pregnant (8 months) and my unborn daughter's father (whom planned this pregnancy with me) left me at 8 weeks pregnant (2 months.) I haven't seen him since 12 weeks pregnant (3 months) and rarely talk to him. He has decided to come to my appointment and ultrasound tomorrow. I haven't seen him and barely have heard from him in FIVE months! I am so nervous, part of me doesn't even want him to come. I have had serious pregnancy complications since 22 weeks. I have no idea why he left, we weren't fighting, it was just one day 180. Any advice? I'm freaking out.
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Open Question: Can HCG levels double every 48 hours then change to every72 hours?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 03:18:54 GMT)
My levels five days ago was 4000 today The fifth day I tested it came out 13500. It has been doubling every 48 hours for about two weeks now is it possible it is changing or is it a miscarriage. Please help... Anyone have had the same situation? I am almost 7 weeks pregnant
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Open Question: Help!!! miscarriage after 14 weeks and now i may be prego help me?
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 01:38:17 GMT)
ok i had a miscarriage at 14 weeks on dec 9, i am usually 28 day cycle btw i am new to this so i dont know all the lingo yet lol.. ihave had a little cramping and over the last 3 days very little brownish spotting but today again i had a little more spotting with some ( i dont know if i would call it discharge, pieces that fell out while going pee, i know were all here for some answers and its t much tmi but have to five details sometimes hehe) and now at the end of the day nothing at all.. my breasts hurt a little and i have taken 3 tests and all positive but also could i have hcg still in my urine from being pregnant last month? i wipe nothing now but still crampy so any one have any answers ???
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Open Question: Could I be Pregnant??
(Tue, 06 Jan 2009 00:16:36 GMT)
ok i had a miscarriage at 14 weeks on dec 9, i am usually 28 day cycle btw i am new to this so i dont know all the lingo yet lol.. ihave had a little cramping and over the last 3 days very little brownish spotting but today again i had a little more spotting with some ( i dont know if i would call it discharge, pieces that fell out while going pee, i know were all here for some answers and its t much tmi but have to five details sometimes hehe) and now at the end of the day nothing at all.. my breasts hurt a little and i have taken 3 tests and all positive but also could i have hcg still in my urine from being pregnant last month? i wipe nothing now but still crampy so any one have any answers ???
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Open Question: Five weeks pregnant. Should I eat when I feel hunger pangs no matter what time it is?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 11:12:42 GMT)
I don't want to deprive the little embryo of anything it needs.
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Resolved Question: Sound pregnant to you?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 08:03:14 GMT)
My period is 3 weeks late exactly, even though this same thing happened at this time last year and I ended up being really late... Uhm anyways, I wake up feeling sick to my stomach, until I eat then I feel better, (this has been going on for the last five days) but it occurs at different times each day so I don't just get it in the morning, my appetite's been increased alot, I'm hungry every couple hours or so, tonight I was going to make some food, I started getting really hot, then I started sweating a ton, and got a ringing in my ears and got dizzy like I was gonna pass out.
So what do you think? Don't tell me to go out and get a test, I have no money right now, but I'll go get one as soon as I can get some money, but as of right now, I'm just looking for opinions.
I eat plenty, I eat every 4 hours cuz I'm always feeling hungry.
Oh and I've been way more tired than I usually am.
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Open Question: Am i pregnant? I've taken five pregnancy test and they've all resulted in positive-but im bleeding a litle.?
(Mon, 05 Jan 2009 02:16:54 GMT)
I was two weeks late but then i bled for one whole day, from then ive been spotting every other day for the past week and a half or so. i took pregnancy tests but i have doubts because i bleed a little.
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Open Question: my first Baby name game ?
(Sun, 04 Jan 2009 20:58:20 GMT)
sorry, this is my first one so it may not be very good
rule:
use middle names
You are already a mother of 6. (what are their names)
All of your friends love your kids names. They came over for tea and asked why you named them what you named them (why did you name them those names)
Later, Jessica came over to your house telling you news that she was pregnant. Your excited for her, but worried about the dad since she is not married. Five days later, she came over and asked for your opinion on names. (she wants 2 boy names and 2 girl names)
She loves the names, and months later gives birth to a baby girl (which name did she pick).
The man she was with left her, and she came to stay with you. After that, all of your friends started coming to you. Your other friend Allison got married, and at her wedding you found out she to was pregnant. She wanted a boys name, even though she didn't know the gender (what is the name)
Allison has a baby girl and she has two weeks to come up with a name. She loved the boys name, so she wants you to keep either the first or the midddle name (what name do you give her)
Your friend Jessica is still living with you, but is beggining to have a bad influence on the kids coming home drunk. You finally gave her $200 dollars and told her to go get a job when she talked to one of your kids inapropriatly who is now 17. She spends the money on drugs and comes home. You couldn't bear to see her leave so you let her stay. She than the next morning when she was sober said that she was raped. She was going to have triplets and wants you to help name them again. She wants the first namees to begin with H and middle to begin with J (list 3 boys names and 3 girls names).
Jessica gives birth to 2 boys and 3 girls (what names did she pick)
You go upstairs to check on your kids, and your 17 year old ran away with their "true love". The police is involved. No one could find them and they closed the case. They come back nine months later with a baby girl and want you to name her an earthy name (what do you name her?)
You house is full now with all your kids, yourself, Allison (who divorced her husband), Jessica, and their kids. (do you want to have more kids? if so, what are their names and how many are there)
sorry it's really long and confusing
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Resolved Question: At five weeks pregnant, is sleeping all day normal?
(Sun, 04 Jan 2009 13:10:46 GMT)
Also is it normal to have symptoms at three weeks, lose them completely at four weeks and have them return at five weeks? Thanks.
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Open Question: 36 weeks with tons of cramps when walking and a lot of discharge. Could this mean labor is near?
(Sun, 04 Jan 2009 02:06:46 GMT)
I'm currently 36 weeks 4 days pregnant and at my last check up my doctor told me that I was dilated one centimeter and that my cervix was still thick. Today I went grocery shopping with my husband and after just a few minutes of walking around the store my entire stomach started tightening up but there was no pain. This lasted for a couple of minutes and then came back less than five minutes later. This continued the entire time I was shopping. I also had to take a trip to the bathroom because I could feel wetness in my underwear (sorry if tmi). When I got to the bathroom I found that my underwear had quite a bit of mucus in it. I went home and laid down and haven't experienced any mucus since but my stomach has still been tightening on and off but a lot less than it was at the grocery store. Again, I haven't experienced any pain, just tightening of my entire stomach, increase of discharge and an increase in vaginal pressure. Any ideas of what this could mean?
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Open Question: Care to play a baby name game!?
(Sun, 04 Jan 2009 01:24:44 GMT)
1) After being married since you were 21 you and your spouse decide to adopt a baby (you're 25). The adoption is successful and you have a beautiful new 6 moth old daughter from Korea.
2) A year later you adopt a six month old son from Korea. He takes to his older sister quickly and is definitely a mommy's boy.
3) Two years later you decide to try for a biological baby. After a year of trying with some difficulty you go to a fertility specialist and get pregnant with the assistance of fertility drugs. You have an adorable baby boy with light brown hair and blue eyes.
4) Still not feeling like your family is complete two years later you go back to the fertility specialist. You get pregnant, but unfortunately miscarry at 21 weeks. The baby would have been a girl. You name her with her middle name being Angel.
5) A year later you finally feel you are ready to try once more for another baby. This time it is much more difficult to get pregnant. It takes two years to conceive, but it was worth the wait. You give birth to quintuplets! Three girls and two boys, and one of the girl's middle name is your miscarried daughter's first name.
So you have an eight year old daughter, a seven year old son, a five year old son, an "angel baby" who would have been one, and newborn quintuplets.
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Resolved Question: how to handle an out-of-control mother in law?
(Sat, 03 Jan 2009 21:37:27 GMT)
I want to apologize upfront for this being so long.please read it all and give me advice.
My fiance and i are both 19 and have a baby boy almost 4 months old. We live with his mother and step father and 15 year old sister. My fiance's mom-we'll call her sue- is very pushy. While i was pregnant my sister in law (in the place of my late mother), my best friend and sue all asked to be in the delivery room along with my fiance. I did not know who i was going to choose but when i was in labor at the hospital i had complications, and only my fiance was allowed to be in there. I had maybe ten or 15 visitors there and when it was time to push, the dr told every1 except my fiance to wait in the waiting room. Sue said wait i thought i was going to be in here for the delivery and my fiance pulled her aside and said no she is having problems its going to be only me. it apparently was a hard pill for sue to swallow because then she went sulking to restroom instead and then on her way back she hid outside my room listening to me labor and push "to hear his first cry" a security officer removed her for loitering. This caused a huge fight between our families (my side and sue's side) when we came home from the hospital for the first few weeks sue snatched him out of our room in the mornings and woke him up. i breastfed at the time so whatever time she woke him up i had to get up to feed him. then she would also move his diaper things and keep formula in her room (i was supplementing) and i couldn't ever find anything when later he cried again. She also takes him out of his swing and picks him up from lying down and wakes him up when she feels like seeing him. Shortley after his umbillical stump fell off i was getting ready to breastfeed him. he was crying and i layed him down to get my breast out and she just picked him up and left the room. SHE WAS GIVING HIM A BATH.i heard his crys turn to screams and sue hollered to me and said get your shirt on and hurry up come here. i thought something happened to him so i rushed in to the kitchen and she was giving him a bath. she said watch this is how you do it. and i said i know ive done that five times before. and she got mad and my fiance heard it later for me mouthing off when she was trying to help. sue practically shoved his 6 week portraits on me and said she would pay and everything. so we went and the photographer suggested we do a pose with my son naked laying on a chair. call me old fashioned but i immediatly said no. i said do it w/ his diaper on. then i turned my back and sue pulled off his diaper and they took a nude pic! i was soo pissed but i cannot just say fuck u sue b/c she has given me a home and our little family will have no place to go if she kicks us out. sue constantly does things like this. at christmas, my son was sleeping in my arms and she asked to hold him and i said no he's asleep. sue said thats ok and i said no he will wake up. and sue said thats fine i want him awake and i just said no i want him asleep and turned my back to her and talked to some1 else. then when we did presents i sat on the couch between my fiance and sue w/ my baby on my lap. he was awake then. i had 1 of my own presents in my hand when my son's first present came his way. sue started taking my sons hand and pretending to open the gift with him. he obviously didn't understand the process so she started to open it. i took it out of her hands and turned my back on her and opened it with my fiance. Sue got mad and pouty for the rest of the day and wouldn't hold him or hand me or my fiance anything that was the babys ect. we later asked if she could keep him while we went to walmart because it was so cold and she said no you don't want me to be part of his 1st xmas then you don't need me to watch him. i don't know how many of you are the same way as i am, but i hate unnecessary help from other people when it comes to my baby, even if it is convenient to me. Sue is constantly wanting to drive the baby in her car when we all go someplace and she wants to be the one in charge of him at say thanksgiving and birthday parties and such. The way i think is "he is my kid and he can just go with me, sit with me, i can dress him, feed him, bathe him, ect." my fiance tells me all the time that i should just take advantage of his mothers offers and give us a break since we get up w/ the baby at night let her have him during the day. i was like um he is our child and we have the responsibility of him 24 hours a day. i hate having other people watch him for no reason, and do things b/c it makes me feel like i'm not being the best mother i can be by letting others do my job. in my opinion if any1 besides my fiance or me wants to hold, pick up, move my son from place to plce, get him down/ out of his swing or bouncer ect they need to ask one of us first not just do it. my friend has a 1 year old daughter ad we respect these bounderies with each other. she is my good friend and i probley wouldn
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Open Question: PLEASE HELP!!! WITH ADVICE?
(Sat, 03 Jan 2009 18:16:10 GMT)
Hi AF was due on the 18 of dec and i've taken two HPT's and both have been a BFN my cycles are a lil irregular but since the summer my period was right on time with one or two days of a difference. I have had horrible headaches, cramps for the last week or so, been very moody, and been very wet all the time, hotflashes out of nowhere, and lately i feel everything needs a lot of salt could i be pregnant? My husband and i have used the pull out method for the past five years and been fine so far...please no stupid comments
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Open Question: My life as a baby name game?
(Sat, 03 Jan 2009 15:32:22 GMT)
Want to play a baby name game? The twist is that it's modeled on my own life.
1) You are twenty years old and desperately trying for a child. You conceive fairly easily and are delighted to find out that you are expecting a baby girl. She is born in February in a local hospital and has light brown hair and mesmerizing blue eyes. You name her something a bit old fashioned.
2) Your little princess is three and you are not trying for another baby yet but you find out that you are pregnant on the 3rd of January. You have a difficult pregnancy and there are serious complications from some wine you had on New Year's Eve. You are confined to a hospital room at 20 weeks and go into labour at 28 weeks and your baby girl is incredibly tiny at 2lbs 3oz. She has to stay in the intensive care unit for another 20 weeks and it breaks your heart. She has blonde, puffy hair and blue eyes like her sister, you choose a popular girly name for her.
3) It is two years since your last child was born and you have gotten used to life with two children, you have a good flexible job as a reporter and have never been happier. You decide the time is right to try for another baby. You conceive easily and at 12 weeks are shocked to find out that it's triplets! At 32 weeks you give birth to three healthy babies, two girls and a boy. The first girl has straight blonde hair and brown eyes, the second has light brown hair and deep blue eyes and the boy has curly, dirty blonde hair and hazel eyes. You give them traditional first names and one-syllable middles.
4) You have your hands full with five children but your husband is desperate for another boy to play with so you decide to try for one more child. You have a bit of trouble conceiving but eventually you find out the exciting news. At the twelve week scan your doctor reveals that you are expecting twins! It is an uneventful pregnancy and you carry your twins to 39 weeks, in August you give birth to gorgeous boy/girl twins. The boy has little golden tufts of hair and greyish blue eyes and the girl has midnight black hair and green eyes. You name them something modern sounding.
So, did you like it?
Oh yeah, sure. My kids names are;
1) Georgina Alexandra
2) Emily Paige
3) Sofianna Lynn, Cassandra Belle and Owen Lloyd
4) Harvey Nicholas and Isabella Lucy
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Open Question: How old does male dog have to get a dog pregnant?
(Sat, 03 Jan 2009 07:04:05 GMT)
I've searched the internet, and I really haven't found answer that will really solve my dilemma.
So I have a male fox terrier, chihuahua mix and he's a little bit over five months years old. I've got an appointment top get him neuter in three weeks. However I have a female dog, 2 years old and I caught them having intercourse. I am worried that she will get pregnant (she's in heat.) I warned my parents about it, but they said the vet told them that he's too young to actually make puppies (although I sort of don't believe the vet's judgment on account of the lack of attention this vet's office has.) I've searched the web and people have been saying their dogs did their businesses at 7 months and resulted in puppies. Can anyone tell me if my female dog will be pregnant?
Thanks!
Sorry, my dog is five months (the "years" was a typo)
Oh I forgot to mention that my dad successfully separated the two. It didn't take long for them to detached because the younger male dog was afraid. But I think they might have been at it for ten to twenty or so minutes.
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Voting Question: getting off birth control mess up your cycle or am i pregnant?
(Sat, 03 Jan 2009 02:28:05 GMT)
i was on birth control for about five years. i stopped randomly in the middle of a pack for the month, had my last period the 26th of last month, around thanksgiving, and still have not had my period. my boyfriend and i have had unprotected sex, but i did four pregnancy tests within the last week spread out, and they have all come back negative. could i be pregnant or is my cycle just really screwed up because i stopped birth conrtol and didnt even finish the pack for the month??
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Resolved Question: Should I be worried about pregnancy? BC pill times ....?
(Fri, 02 Jan 2009 22:11:59 GMT)
I know this is silly and I'm probably being overly paranoid, but here's my situation.
I'm on Seasonique, and I'm in week three of my pack. I usually take my pill at 9pm, and I am pretty much religious about it - it's a rarity that I take it later then five or ten minutes afterwards. On Dec. 29, however, I fell asleep and didn't take it. I realized this when I woke up the next morning, around 9-9:30, and took it then (therefore on Dec. 30). I then took my pill for the 30th at the usual time, as well as taking it at the usual time on the 31st.
NOW - on the 31st, the boyfriend came to spend New Year's with me. We had sex twice - both times, we used condoms but (I KNOW this is going to sound weird, and gross, I'm sorry please bear with me) I thought the second time that when I was cleaning myself up afterwards that I smelled semen, and I usually don't, and now it's MESSING WITH MY HEAD.
Should I be worried about pregnancy? I know I'm paranoid, but we had a long conversation about what we'd do if I got pregnant during the few days he was here (not stemming from anything, just randomly) so that conversation is now making me nervous.
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Voting Question: Hey people tell me what you think..and keep in mind its a first draft ( :?
(Fri, 02 Jan 2009 17:17:10 GMT)
I was deafened by the silence in the room. As the short stubby woman came through the swinging door, I swallowed a lump in my throat the size of a lemon. “Ms. Seige” the stubby woman began. I looked at her round face; she was very pretty caramel skin with a few chocolate colored freckles sprinkled on top of her short pointy nose. She cleared her throat grabbing back my attention, smiling and said “congratulations”, and the expression in her eyes gave away that my life would never be the same again. “Ms. Seige” she repeated, “You’re pregnant, seven weeks to be exact”. She was grinning at me, she seemed genuinely happy for me. As if she didn’t say this at least ten times a day. I tried my best to return her smile. I felt tears building up in my eyes but I refused to let them fall.
That moment a new expression took over her face she could I didn’t share the same joy she did. She smoothed a wrinkle that wasn’t there out of her skirt. “I’ll leave you to get dressed now” she added before leaving the room her voice more solemn than before. “When you’re finished you can make an appointment with Sydney at the front desk she’ll set you up for your next check-up. She opened her mouth as if she was going to say something than closed it, just settling for a sheepish smile instead. I watched her as she walked out and thought about what just had happened. I was pregnant.
I touched my stomach over the robe, the tears were building up again I could feel the burning in my throat but I wouldn’t give them the satisfaction of falling. I dressed quickly; fastening the last button on my shirt I caught a glimpse of myself in the mirror on the back of the door. “How did I let this happen”- I stopped not giving the tears a chance. I made the appointment before I left forcing another smile. Walking outside the snow had taken me by surprise. I walked for a while, my legs were suddenly numb, I sat on a bench nearby not caring that it was covered in snow, I tried to think but my mind still came up vacant. I felt my phone vibrating in my jacket pocket I ignored it, even if I wanted to talk to someone I don’t think I would have remembered how to. I sat there for a good while in the snow still not thinking of anything to do or say but “damn”.
The third time my phone rang , I finally reached in my pocket to answering not caring enough to check to see who it was. The moment I went to flip it open it slipped right out of my hand that’s just great I thought. “Friggin fabulous” I screamed out. Then I noticed a man sitting on the bench besides mine laughing, I saw red all my sorrow and uncertainty turned into anger. Forgetting about my phone all together I walked over to where he was sitting reminding myself to breathe. I got three feet from him and my feet wouldn’t bring me any closer. He was absolutely gorgeous.
Still laughing at me he showed off his perfect teeth framed with full heart shaped lips. He finally stopped laughing, just staring at me with a grin that’s when I saw the deepest dimples that decorated his face making him even more beautiful than before. I lost all self-assurance that I had and walked back to my bench realizing how stupid I must look. I didn’t even grasp the fact that he had followed me over. He picked up my phone and handed it to me. “Bad day, huh” he chuckled. Then I remembered I was mad.
I did my best of getting up and storming away but surprising enough he followed. “Aww com’on” he pleaded, “It was funny”. I looked at him as if he were crazy. “I’m Vincent” he stated forwardly. I started walking again-He followed “That’s very rude you know walking away from someone when there talking to you”. “Not if the persons crazy it ain’t” He laughed again. “Could a person this breathtaking really be this crazy, I thought to myself.
“Just tell me your name” he said, with his smile never leaving his face. I was kind of relieved when my phone rang this time. I flipped it open careful not to drop it, “Hello” I answered loudly enough for him to hear. “Hey” the other voice answered with hesitation it was my best friend Landon. “I called you like 5 times, what happened-did you get the results back?” I kept walking noticing he stopped, “I’ll be there in like five-minutes.” I spoke into the phone before closing it. Leave it up to me to meet the most gorgeous man on the planet the day I find out I’m pregnant-shit I thought; I’m pregnant.
I reached Landon’s house fast she was already waiting for me outside when I got there. Landon and I have been best friends for eight years, ever since I moved here when we were nine, and it been like that ever since. “So” she said eagerly “You making me an aunty” she said grinning. Why did it seem like everybody was happy about this except for me. I managed a nod. It was warm inside her apartment. The moment she closed the door I allowed the tears to fall. And this is why she’s my best friend, asking no questions she just hugged me and let me cry for a while. “So what do you wanna do” she
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Resolved Question: Big family baby name game?
(Fri, 02 Jan 2009 15:29:36 GMT)
Okay, here goes...
1) You are twenty-two and have just married your high-school sweetheart and are desperate for a big family. You start trying for a baby and conceive easily. Nine months later you give birth to a gorgeous baby girl, she has blonde hair and the most adorable blue eyes, what do you call her?
2) When your little princess is five you and your husband decide that the time is right to try for another child. He is born two weeks late and is incredibly big at 10lbs 5oz. He has curly brown hair and emerald eyes, what do you name him?
3) Two years later you have your third child, a little girl. She is like a little doll and was so tiny at birth that you were afraid she'd break if you held her. She has blonde hair and blue eyes just like her sister, you pick a really girly name for her.
4) You soon realize that your tiny city flat won't accommodate any more children so you and your husband decide to move house. This involves giving up your job as a reporter and your husband being repositioned somewhere else as a sports coach. You both decide that this is worth it and one month after the move you discover you are pregnant again. When he is born he has the chubbiest cheeks and curly golden brown hair. Pick a traditional name for this little cherub.
5) A year after your second son was born you conceive again, you opt to find out the sex and are delighted to find out that it will be another girl. Your husband picks the first name Sarah, what would her middle name be?
6) A year after you've had Sarah you feel your broodiness kicking in again and are desperate to try again. This time it is a boy and you want to name him something classic that has a trendy nickname.
7) Your youngest son is two and once again you get that need for more children so you try again but it takes a long time for you to conceive and you have a complicated pregnancy. He is born six weeks early and has to stay in the intensive care unit for ages. He has ginger hair and the cutest little stubby nose, you decide to name him after a family member.
8) When your cute little son is one year old you decide to try just once more, you conceive easily and are shocked to find out it's twins! They are fraternal twin girls, one has mousey blonde hair and blue eyes and the other long ginger hair but with the exact same colour eyes. You decide that their middle names will be Charlotte and Lynn.
9) You went to a party and well... things got out of hand, nine months later you have an adorable little boy. He has curly brown hair and puppy-dog brown eyes, what do you name him?
10) You have your hands full with ten children and were certainly not planning on having any more, but one night your protection fails and you find out you are pregnant with twin boys. They are identical and both have short brown hair and dark brown eyes, you want there to be some realation between their middle names.
Did you like it? Sorry it was a bit long!
Yeah, ok, it was based on cheaper by the dozen :)
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Resolved Question: What do I do????? I need advice!! What should I do HELP!!!?
(Fri, 02 Jan 2009 14:27:13 GMT)
well i am 25 and I found out about 2 weeks ago that i was five munats pregnant!!! Well now I am growing and I just found out that I am having a baby girl!! What should I Do!! ANY ADVICE FOR A GROWING GIRL!!!!!!
And yes I am merried and do not drink,do drugs,or smoke!
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Voting Question: is my boyfriend emotionally abusive?
(Fri, 02 Jan 2009 10:15:51 GMT)
He knows that i've struggled with my weight for years and i just recently had our first child and he calls me jiggles, and is always grabbing at my fat and making fat jokes. He also calls me a bad mother... well not in so many words...
for instance the whole time i was pregnant we wanted to breast feed the baby and when i had her, i saw five or six lactation consultants and they said that because of the shape and size of my nipple, i cant breast feed her. so i tried to pump and no matter what i did nothing worked. so we ended up bottle feeding her. A few times he'll say something like, you wont feed our baby because you re 'lazy' or yells at me because he has to feed her because in his mind he shouldn't have to.
another thing is that we're looking for apartments, but because of certain stipulations we had to stay at his moms house for a week or two until we can find a place and i think its rude to just randomly go through someones fridge or food and just help myself. So i'll ask him to get me something since it is his moms house. Then he'll randomly yell at me saying that it's like i'm a nursing home patient because of this. because he doesn't want to go upstairs and get me something to eat. i've seriously gone days without eating or drinking just so he doesn't yell at me.
with all that being said, he'll randomly just start fights for the hell of it... like saying things that he knows will upset me and when i cry he yells at me for being upset, he'll be like why are you crying you whine little b*tch. but then no matter what he does not even five minutes later he'll come up and apologies and say i'm crying and upset over nothing. I love him to death and i just want to know if i'm just overly sensitive or is he emotionally abusive.
the thing about it is, i'm not entirely sure he realizes what he's doing until after its all said and done, which is why he apologizes right afterwards.
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Resolved Question: another baby name game =]?
(Fri, 02 Jan 2009 05:44:54 GMT)
1. You find out you are pregnant at sixteen with your boyfriend of three months. You are scared, and so is he, but you decide to go through with it. Luckily he is there to support you. The baby boy is born in January. He has dark black hair and brown eyes. What do you name him?
2. Three years later, you and your boyfriend are engaged. Your son is in pre-school, and you are totally happy with your life. You find out you are pregnant again and you are thrilled. When the baby girl is born in November she has some problems with her breathing. The doctors told you it didn't look good, but after six weeks of worry she is well enough to come home. She has curly brown hair and dark eyes. What is her name?
3. You and your fiancee finally got married. You have 2 kids, now 6 and 3, and you decide to have one more baby with your husband. The baby is born in July, but unfortunately it is a hermaphrodite. You have to make the decision to make it a boy or a girl - which do you choose and what do you name it?
4. Its is five years later. Your husband works a lot, and you get lonely. You are having an affair with your Spanish pool cleaner. You are worried when you discover you are pregnant as it will be obvious the baby is not your husbands when you give birth. You decide to go through with it anyway. Unlike two of your other children, this March-born girl is in perfect health. The only difference you can notice is the skin being darker. Thankfully your husband doesn't notice. She has thick black hair to go with her olive skin. What do you name her?
Thanks! Enjoy :)
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Resolved Question: Pregnant or just a messed up cycle, tmi?
(Fri, 02 Jan 2009 01:01:55 GMT)
Last month I switched from yaz to ortho lo. The end of the second week of pills(went away for holidays, forgot pills) missed the next five pills. When I got home threw out pack and waiting for a real period to show up to start a new pack. Hubby knew I forgot them. We had unprotected sex dec 24-28. (wednesday to sunday) started spotting on tuesday evening very light just needed junior tampon. Never filled one up or anything. No cramping at all, just a dull ache in pelvic area and lower back, Usually have pretty bad cramping for the first day. Bleeding was dark brown to pink. It just stopped this afternoon. Anyone have similar situation? When could I test? Thanks for any advice or information.
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Resolved Question: Pregnant or just messed up cycle, please help TMI?
(Fri, 02 Jan 2009 01:00:47 GMT)
Last month I switched from yaz to ortho lo. The end of the second week of pills(went away for holidays, forgot pills) missed the next five pills. When I got home threw out pack and waiting for a real period to show up to start a new pack. Hubby knew I forgot them. We had unprotected sex dec 24-28. (wednesday to sunday) started spotting on tuesday evening very light just needed junior tampon. Never filled one up or anything. No cramping at all, just a dull ache in pelvic area and lower back, Usually have pretty bad cramping for the first day. Bleeding was dark brown to pink. It just stopped this afternoon. Anyone have similar situation? When could I test? Thanks for any advice or information.
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Voting Question: im about five weeks pregnant now...?
(Thu, 01 Jan 2009 19:55:42 GMT)
I'm about 5 weeks pregnant or so, my question is, is it normal to already be having bad cramping? Or is it too soon?
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Resolved Question: This is extraordinarily long, only read it if you have time. Not looking for advice – I just want to vent!?
(Thu, 01 Jan 2009 18:17:00 GMT)
If you read it ALL and would like to comment, so be it, but please do not comment if you aren't going to read and comprehend it all – you'll just be wasting your time and looking stupid to the people who have read it all. So, here goes…
My husband and I have been together 20 years and met kind of young (I was 17 when we met). We lived with his parents for about three years, had a baby while living there, but we both paid very good rent. There was his mother, father, brother, and an uncle – all in one big house.
We finally got out on our own and have been stable since. My husband's brother on the other hand always had to have mommy and daddy's help, as well as help from my husband and myself. He's always been a slacker and made bad choices. He met and married some biker chick and was even worse during those years.
My husband and I, ever since moving out on our own, have had to take in family, rent free. Since we were no longer living with my husband's parents, they were finding it hard to take care of themselves and pay their bills. So, first my husband's brother moved in with us (which is when he met the biker chick from hanging out at bars all night). I couldn't wait for him to move out, but then next thing you know, my husband's parents moved in with us, too! We were living in a two-bedroom townhouse, mind you. After a year or so, they all moved out and we bought our first home, a small home meant for my husband, myself, and our first son. My brother-in-law eventually married that biker chick and had a baby boy, but before I knew it, he was back living with us (he and the "wife" were fighting all the time – imagine that)! Another year goes by and he moves out, but my husband's father's health begins to decline, so he moved in with us (my mother-in-law left him because she's a selfish wench). He has severe diabetes and my husband and I were taking care of him (he didn't bother me, though, he was a wonderful man just like my hubby). Well, he ended up passing away in our home due to diabetes complications (and we miss him so much). I was pregnant with baby #2 at the time, the baby my father –in-law told my husband we should have (I was behind this, too, of course. hehe). He never even got to meet him and passed away when I was 7 months pregnant.
Once again, my brother-in-law was back living with us! He did have a job, so I told hubby to get him out faster, we were going to charge him 50 a week (it was typically our policy not to charge rent for various reasons – first, people start to think they own part of the house and secondly, we wanted them to save every penny to move out). He was only there a few months and moved out again.
Over the next few years, I have had my father live with us (he's an alcoholic), my mother, my sister, a few nieces, nephews, etc. We didn't mind my sister or the younger ones because they just needed a head start and were good about moving on quickly without causing any problems (and they were kind of like my own kids since my family is so close – I have two sisters and three brothers and I love all their kids like my own ;)
Well, my current situation is, my husband and I have three children now (6, 12, and 17 – all boys). About five years ago, we moved away (about and hour) from our family and within the first few months, my mother-in-law who was of course living with us and had been for about seven years, got mad at us and moved out (she was a chronic Fioricet pill popper and was like an alcoholic). Woohoo . Nobody was living with us, we were finally alone! We enjoyed our three years of freedom, but it wouldn't last. In the meantime, my brother-in-law met and married a much nicer, cleaner girl (so I thought) and got his crap together for once. They had a baby girl together (and he kind of just "left" his son in the dust). At any rate, they purchased a four bedroom home and were happily living their life, as were we for the first time since moving out on our own. That didn't last, though, oh no. Three years after moving away and being free of extra people, my brother-in-law calls and says, "dude, mommy is about to be homeless." My husband was like, umm, you have a four bedroom house, she lives down the road from you now, and all her doctors and stuff are there, why can't she live with you? Oh, well my wife and I decided a long time ago that we would never have family living with us!! WTF!!!!!?? Great, now we had no choice but to take her, but I was pissed, let me tell ya. So, the deal was, she could stay here long enough to find another place that she could afford (she only got disability). But of course, neither my husband nor his brother were looking for a place. My husband felt since she was on oxygen 24/7 (and still smoking!), she should stay with us. We also have a four bedroom house, but we also have three kids!!
A year later, my father had a heart attack. He was living with one of my brothers at the time and had settled
Trix
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Voting Question: Symptoms of being pregnant within less than two weeks?
(Thu, 01 Jan 2009 17:26:10 GMT)
Its been a week and four or five days since I had unprotected sex. Would I have any symptoms yet?
If so, what kind?
I already dont have an appetite but I think that is because I've been depressed these past few days.
My pissed period is the 13th and I'll see if I'm pregnant then.
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Voting Question: IM SEVEN WEEKS AND FIVE DAYS HOW MANY MONTHES AM I?
(Thu, 01 Jan 2009 06:35:31 GMT)
my last normal monthly period was nov 8th and i found out that i was pregnant dec 13th i now how far i am but i dont know how many mothes i am please write me back
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Voting Question: Am I pregnant? Negative test after one week of possible conception. Symptoms, though...?
(Wed, 31 Dec 2008 19:57:37 GMT)
Started my period on 12/12/08, bled for five days. I usually have about a 29-31 day cycle or so. My bf and I had sex on 12/23 and again on 12/30. He came inside of me both times, and we didn't use any type of birth control. Over the past week, I've been feeling very tired and nauseous and have lost my appetite. Could I be pregnant? What are some symptoms of very early pregnancy? I took a test yesterday, and it was negative, but that was only after a week.
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Resolved Question: When should I put my dwarf platy in a breeder net?
(Wed, 31 Dec 2008 19:45:13 GMT)
I have a dwarf platy and she was pregnant for about four |