I'm 18 weeks pregnant with my fourth child and am starting to get nervous. I've maybe felt the baby move? For sure nothing consistent! With my last two I felt kicks at 16-17 weeks and I was sure to feel them around the same time if not sooner. I'm starting to worry myself now. Has anyone had this happen?? Tell me your story if so! I'm hoping it's the way baby is laying or the placenta? I've heard HB at 15/16 weeks. I've also taken a picture of my growing belly weekly (as with my others) and I am smaller this time around than last two! Really curious if this happens a lot?

The situation is sticky. I have to first give some background to the situation for anyone to get a perspective. In 2001 I was convicted of a non-violent sex offense. (procession of child pornography) The situation was that during a investigation not related to that by police they found one disk with a picture of a Minor having sex. I plead guilty to it since it was in my house and I had seen the picture before but didn't do anything about it. It was a young girl not a baby of any sort. I really didn't think of it at the time as child thing but ignored it which i do feel guilty about. What made matters worse I fell in love with the same wife when she was 17. I know it was wrong but we had a good relationship non the less. She as well had her issues. Later after I went to prison she got involved with Alcohol and drugs and that eventually led to institutionalization for 6 months. She also was very promiscuous during this time. When she was released from care she didn't follow up her treatment and moved out of state and continued her behavior. after nearly 5 years we got back together she was still doing drugs. She moved in with me and we got married. The marriage only lasted 3 months. A number of reasons behind this. One I was still on probation for the offense and she was still doing drugs. I begged for her to get help but to no avail. Then she got pregnant. But before this was Knowing she was cultivating a relationship with another man she vaguely knew from her past only two doors down. This guy had a drug and alcohol problem as well. Eventually she sprang it on me that the baby may not be mine and I didn't handel this well. I kicked her out basically and she moved in with that guy. About 4 days went by throwing this in my face I lost it and hit her. I was charged with DV and went back to Prison to finish my probation for 1.5 years. The baby was born during this time. It is true I didn't haveany contact with her cas I wasnt sure the baby was mine to begin with, I wasnt going to be responsable for her irresponability. Eventually I was contacted by her when she needed benefits for the baby. She moved to another state and expected me to sign a paternity. I wouldnt. I asked for testing first. This pissed her off. Now we are at the present. She wants sole custody and I want joint. I been a father to 3 other kids from a previous marriage and do know how to take cae of children. I have established work and a home. And I see my child only two days a week till the custody reveiw is complete. Mainly she wont go with Joint cas she feels that since she taken care of the child and that I hit her while pregnanut and have a sex offence that I dont deserve joint custody. she married me knowing everything about me. Previsiouly she was sleeping with a guy who had a sex offence as well. She moved in with a man who beat his wife and has had issues with drugs as well. She continues to throw it in my face about me was over 3 years ago, I live in the same house that we lived in which is only 2 doors down and I have not done one thing to provoke any fear. Its huge!! This problem. Basically I know the law pretty well and I'm asking with all this what "could" prevent me from getting joint custody??

Hey Everyone Im 17 Weeks Pregnant I Went To The Doctors Today And Saw My Baby On A Sonogram. It Was Magical We Wanted A Picture Of The Babys Face But Couldnt Get It Because The Baby Was Positioned Downward And The Only Thing We Could See Was The Shape Of Its Body And Its Back.It Wouldnt Move So We Could Get A Good Shot.But I Heard The Heartbeat And My Doctor Said Everything Was Fine. Is The Reason My Baby Wouldnt Move Because It Was Sleep???PLEASE PLEASE ANSWER

I am 10 weeks pregnant as of today. I am a very tiny girl. I am 17 and yes this was planned, no mistake. And these are our engagement pictures. I am only 5'4" and weigh about 107 well did I am about 117 now. But I am curious to when the pregnant belly is really going to show? And also, at what week do you find out the sex of the baby? I've heard anywhere from 8-16 weeks depending on the ultrasound pictures. These are all before I was pregnant: http://i179.photobucket.com/albums/w303/xoiloveandresxo/2010/l_fcb75faab4174867ab6c60b6bdc8b090.jpg http://i179.photobucket.com/albums/w303/xoiloveandresxo/2010/l_7b0a15b49c0b47cfa1ba457c653d411e.jpg -- Just me messing around :p http://i179.photobucket.com/albums/w303/xoiloveandresxo/2010/l_0a80a9a4e6b445eaa9aea9a1a2b8a8c0.jpg at how many weeks do i know the sex of the baby? because months according to pregnancy are weird and difficult. i don't even know the month i'm in just how many weeks i am. aha. at how many weeks do i know the sex of the baby? because months according to pregnancy are weird and difficult. i don't even know the month i'm in just how many weeks i am. aha. I graduate High School in 2 months. And since it is so hard to finish because I have really bad morning sickness, I am being sent home bound to do all my work at home so I can graduate with good grades. I will have the whole summer to go to college because my baby's due in november. It takes me 6 months to become a certified massage therapist (: and my fiance is going into the army. so we're good. it should'nt matter my age, in the old day's if you were'nt 13 and pregnant, you were doing something wrong. GET OVER IT! at least i'm engaged and doing it the right way!

Hey Everyone Im 17 Weeks Pregnant I Went To The Doctors Today And Saw My Baby On A Sonogram. It Was Magical We Wanted A Picture Of The Babys Face But Couldnt Get It Because The Baby Was Positioned Downward And The Only Thing We Could See Was The Shape Of Its Body And Its Back.It Wouldnt Move So We Could Get A Good Shot.But I Heard The Heartbeat And My Doctor Said Everything Was Fine. Is The Reason My Baby Wouldnt Move Because It Was Sleep???PLEASE PLEASE ANSWER

i know this is quite a sensitive subject for some people so im sorry if this question seems abit unecessary but i really could do with some explaining about this. my 18 year old friend said she had an abortion a few months ago (she was 17 at the time) and that she was 16 weeks pregnant when she had it. however, everything shes said doesnt seem to add up to me and she's always been a very commited attention seeker, but i can hardly accuse her of lying as there is a small chance its true. *she showed me a picture of an ultrasound from the day of the abortion on her phone and said that it was a girl, but do they even show you scans when you have an abortion ? or do they even tell you the sex? * im pretty sure she said it was an injection, but to my knowledge, i thought after 12weeks they didnt do them with injections? * there was no name or date on the ultrasound phone picture she showed me, and i was told all ultrasounds had names and dates? I'd be really greatful if anyone could help me with this, as me and several friends think if she is lying, its a disgusting thing to make up. btw, i'm no way agreeing or disagreeing with abortions and have no intention to upset anyone, i just would like someone to share any knowledge they have on the subject, as i have no idea what to think i also live in the UK, i don't know if the rules are any different in different countries i completely agree with answers 3 and 4, if i had solid proof she was lying, i would ditch her for good. as its such a horribly thing to lie about, as people actually geniunly struggle through abortions every day. i really don't believe her, but without solid proof i can't accuse her, as that makes me a horrible person :/

Basically...I'll try and make this short. My best mate started going out with this girl and after a month she announced that she needed to find a place to live because the room she was renting from her landlady was needed as her landlady was 8 months pregnant. Now my mate is a good guy and he said that she could move in with him until she found a place of her own...that was about 15 months ago. She still lives with him...? But after only 3 months being with him; we were all out drinking and walking to a bus stop. My mate was pretty drunk and I was reassuring his girlfriend that I would get him home safely and that she could trust me. She turned around and said, "Well I don't trust you. I don't even like you". Now that came as a bit of a shock. I said, "Erm...sorry? But you don't even know me?" She retorted back, "I know enough. You disrespect Pedro (Not my mates real name), his family and me! You think you can do and say what you like..." Now she's not saying all this stuff in a nice calm manner. No she's spitting it out through her teeth with real venom. She's saying all this stuff and considering she had only been in his life for 3 months and I had known my best mate and his family for 17 years...I didn't think she had any right to say anything to me about such things so I told her, "You better shut your mouth before you say anymore stupid things to me. You know nothing about me and my friendship with Pedro (Again not real name) and my relationship with his family. How dare you say that to me? I've known him and his family for 17 years and you've been in the picture for 3 months? I've seen women like you before. You will come and go and we won't even talk about you after a few months". Needless to say she hated me even more after that. She stormed off into the night and stayed at her friends. After that 'incident' she told my mate that she never wanted to be in the same room as me and couldn't stand the site of me. So I wasn't allowed over at his for a while. But I played it cool. I knew I had done nothing wrong and told my side of the story and told my friend that all I cared about was his happiness and that for his sake I would put up with her. I would never be rude and that it was her that was causing all the strife. He told her afterwards that I was his mate and if he wanted me over then I would come over and she would have to deal with it. Needless to say it's been awkward on occasion but we have all got on these last few months in peace and quiet. But I won't lie I still dislike her and she still dislikes me. But this is where it gets interesting...?! My mate told me that he has slept with someone we both know twice even though he claims that he loves his girlfriend but I believe that he is questioning his relationship with her if he's slept with someone else twice! Plus I've noticed that when she goes out to her parents and he has the house to himself he's more willing to go out and drink even if he's got work the next day and it's because he doesn't have him nagging at him in the morning or down the telephone etc. And my God she nags him...I've pointed it out and told him that its quite pathetic how he puts up with her mood swings (Which she does when there is company over which is in bad taste really) and nagging about almost everything and how he jumps up to clean the house a little when she is nearly home after her job. I've also pointed out to him that he never smoked until she came into his life and I also suspect that she is encouraging him to dabble in drugs more and more as I found weed in his house the other week in a cig carton?! She's made him pick up these terrible habits and put on a ton of weight. All of our friends don't particularly like her nor trust her and have felt that she has taken advantage of his good nature. I'm worried for the guy because he's my best mate and honestly feel that she is just a bad influence in his life in more ways than one! So my question is this...should I encourage him to break up with her? Pointing out little things like I have and generally just push for him to break up with her?

Hi everyone, About a couple of days ago, I made my first ever Baby Name Game and it was fun looking at all the answers, and now this is my second baby name game!!! It is quite long, but I hope you'll enjoy it, and if you want to get best answer then you can put up pictures, but you don't have to, it's really up to you.... Before I start I just wanna give a list of all the other people in my first baby name game who weren't chosen best answer, but their answers were still VERY good, so I want to thank them....They may or may not read this, but if they do, i just want to let them know how grateful I am for them to answer my Baby Name Game....=D Cindy : mum to 3 monkeys Teamboby <3 <3Cassandra<3 TTC#2 (and i don't mind u didn't post any pics...) ✪ β−βαιιεr 4ενεr ~~ηατ ✪ ツ Kaydee <3Elizabeth<3 Whatever. Charley! Finally here<3 Rhan :) and ѕαяу So thnx guyz, 4 ur answers!!!! =DDDDD Anyway........ You are out of college. You have a long term boyfriend who is very supportive of everything you do. You are anticipating him to pop the question. One romantic evening; dinner, a movie, slow dancing in his living room, and other things. You soon fall asleep in his bed. The next morning you wake up to breakfast in bed. There is a lumpy envelope on your pankakes. You open the card that is inside, it reads: will you marry me? The rest of the envelope contains a beautiful diamond engagement ring. You run into his kitchen, jump onto him and whisper yes in his ear. 1. His name: ______ ______ (first and last, doesn’t have to be real) 2. The college you went to: ______ 3. Restaurant: ______ 4. Movie: ______ 5. Song you danced to: ______ You two schedule the wedding for a year from the proposal date. The wedding will be in the USA and the honey moon will be anywhere BUT the United States. 6. Wedding date: ______ __ (month and day) 7. Wedding place: ______ 8. Honey moon location and length: ______ (place) for ______ (days, weeks, etc) When you get back from your exhilarating honey moon, you find out that you are pregnant with twins. You want the gender to be a surprise so you come up with names for each possible combo. You have the first letters of their names be the same and their middle names be of family significance (for example your mom’s middle name, your cousins name, etc) 9. B/B combo: ______ ______ and ______ ______ 10. G/G combo: ______ ______ and ______ ______ 11. B/G combo: ______ ______ and ______ ______ 9 months later you give birth to the twins. They are a girl and a girl! When they are 2, you decide that the family is not complete. You Get pregnant and find out the gender right away, unlike last time. You find that it is a boy! You use your favorite boy’s name with your dad or brothers name as the middle name. 12. Boy’s name: ______ ______ When your twins are 3 and your boy is 1, you decide to have another kid. When you go to your first ultrasound, you find that you have triplets! Two boy’s and a girl! You decide to honor each child after your late grandparents (all but one of your grandparents have passed). 13. Triplet Girl: ______ ______ 14. Triplet Boy: ______ ______ 15. Triplet Boy: ______ ______ When your twins are 6, your boy is 4, and your triplets are 3, you think to yourself I miss having a baby around. Your husband feels the same way so you try for another baby. This time fails and time again so you decide to adopt. You want to adopt to kids the same age but they are not twins. You find a teen mother who needs to put her baby up for adoption. You meet her and find that she is a sweet, and spunky person so you decide to adopt from her. She doesn’t want to know the gender . You also adopt a girl from China. When the babies are born one day apart, you find out that you have two beautiful girls! 16. Teen mothers name: ______ ______ (first and last) 17. Both babies’ birthdays: ______ __ and ______ __ (months and days) 18. Girl from teen mother’s name: ______ ______ 19. Chinese girl’s name: ______ ______ When your twins are 8, your boy is 6, your triplets are 5, and your two girls are 2, you decide to try for one more kid. When you find out the gender, you also find out that you are having more twins! When the two BOYS are born on a winter day, you decide to name them different first initials but the same middle initials. 20. Twin boy: ______ ______ 21. Twin boy: ______ ______ When your 1st twins are 11, your boy is 9, your triplets are 8, your two girls are 5, and your 2nd twins are 3, you decide to finally settle down in an eastern state. A year later, everyone wants something; they each want a pet. You grant them their wishes and buy them each a pet. 22. Twin Girl’s pet: ______ (color) ______ (species) named ______ 23. Twin Girl’s pet: ______ ______ named ______ 24. Boy’s pet: ______ ______ named ______ 25. Triplet girl’s pet: ______ ______ named ______ 26. Triplet boy’s pet: ______ ______ named ___

okay im now 4 months and 3 days pregnant and of course my dr is going to do an ultrasound at 20 weeks, but we are so impatient and want to find out asap so i made an appointmentent where they do a 2d ultrasound and you get a dvd and pictures and they say they can tell the gender from 16 weeks forward, and i was just wondering if it ever happened with any of you that they were wrong about the sex of the baby? thank you :)

I am 20weeks and 1 day and hopefully will find out the sex nxt Tuesday (2nd Mar) but just for fun, i wanted to see what people thought :o) This is my second baby but i have had a loss too so i guess it counts as my 3rd pregnancy. I was only a petite girl before i fell pregnant (8st 4lb) and have gained 16lbs now (now 9st 6lbs) I started feeling baby move at nearly 17 weeks (proper movements) and am, as before, loving being pregnant. xxxxx 2010 pictures 011.jpg Ok, sorry. I am unable to load a pic as planned. Can someone tell me how to this this? xx

I know I just asked this but someone said they cant tell because my shirts not far enough up so ill post another. sorry if this annoys people and do you think its anything I should worry about. http://s1008.photobucket.com/albums/af208/anonymous24_photos/baby/?action=view&current=20637_455006630606_768375606_108856.jpg picture of my little baby at 14 weeks and 1 day picture of my belly at 17 weeks and 6 days. ignore my red bra and dirty dishes lol http://s1008.photobucket.com/albums/af208/anonymous24_photos/baby/?action=view&current=IMG_5623.jpg thanks in advance

See...:D Brianna Natalie Grace, it makes BNG...which means......................:D :D :D :D :D :D 1) You are 20 and just moved into your new apartment. You are pretty happy when you find out this really cute guy lives across the hall. You see more and more of him and eventually - finally - he proposes. You get married on June 21st (the first day of summer.) Where is your honeymoon? You buy a small house in...? 2) (Your age: almost 22) You have been trying to start a family for almost six months, and are pleased to announce on your anniversary that you are pregnant. Then, on March 17th, you deliver a girl. What is her name? http://www.inmagine.com/paa512/paa512000031-photo 3) (Your age: 24) Your daughter is almost 3, and for her birthday she asks you for a baby brother or sister. So on her birthday you tell her you are pregnant and on December 2nd you deliver a boy. What is his name? http://www.inmagine.com/culs067/culs067153-photo 4) (Your age: 26) You have just announced that you are pregnant again, and you decide that with three kids, your house will seem smaller than it had before. So you move into a bigger house. Do you stay in the same state? (Yes/No. If no, where do you move to?) 5) (Your age: 26) You deliver your next baby a few weeks after you finish unpacking into your new house. It's another boy. He is born on September 21st. What is his name? http://www.inmagine.com/moodboard-004/ptg00171840-photo 6) (Your age: 30) You announce that you are pregnant again. You have a girl on July 8th. What is her name? http://www.inmagine.com/glowimagesrm-003/ptg00177071-photo 7) (Your age: 33) Your kids are 11, 9, 7, and 3. You decide you want another kid and you deliver a girl on January 16th. What is her name? http://www.inmagine.com/pdrb135/pdrb135005-photo 8) (Your age: 37) You adopt a pet. What is it? Boy or girl? What is its name? (Posting a picture of it will increase chances of best answer) (If you would like to adopt more than one pet, feel free to.) 9) You decide you are done. What are all their names or nicknames again? MY ANSWERS 1. Honeymoon in Italy - Buy a house in Utah -- near family 2. Bianca 3. Connor 4. We stay in the same state. 5. Seth 6. Gwen 7. Joanna nickname Jo 8. We adopt two dogs - one boy and one girl. BOY (Pepsi) - http://static.gotpetsonline.com/pictures-gallery/dog-pictures-breeders-puppies-rescue/border-collie-pictures-breeders-puppies-rescue/pictures/border-collie-0018.jpg GIRL (Maggie) - http://www.sonomapets.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/border-collie.jpg 9. Me & my husband, Bianca, Connor, Seth, Gwen, Jo, Pepsi and Maggie. Thanks for playing! :D

Dont judge me. I know being a mom at 15 (almost 16) years old is not good,but i love my daughter and I dont regret bringging her into my life, i just wish it was later on that she came in the picture. I have been spending 1 year raising my daughter, I love her so much nobody understands. She is my little angel she's so beautiful, me and her daddy and her are ALWAYS together. My mom- She judges me constantly when she see's me with my boyfriend. She embarrases me and curses him out everytime she see's him, she looks at him disgustively it obviously upsets me because thats my boyfriend and my daughters dad. Me and him have been together for 3 years I was 13 when we first started dating..Oh so young! haha, well things didnt really get serious until I turned 14, I got pregnant around the 4rth week of me being 14! It was horrible !! But me and him have made it this long and I'm hoping we get married someday. He's 17 about to be 18 in a week, he's a freshman in college, and his family is very wealthy, we dont use his family to pay for our baby's bills but when we need a hand they are always there. Back to my mom, my boyfriend has his apartment that his parents will pay for until he graduates college So me and my daughter basically live there when my controlling mother lets me go. I think its HIDEOUS and RETARTED that I have to ASK my mom to spend the night at my baby's fathers apartment. I think its stupid! Im in his apartment right now and im planning on staying for as long as I want to until my mom comes and hunts me down. Do you think she has the right to take me away from my boyfriend? She calls me a bad mom because of this. She says im going to end up dropping out of high school because of my daughter. I'm a junior right now but im taking classes online so I can graduate of high school on September.+ when i stay at my boyfriends ap. he drives me to school,so whoever says anything about transpertation ...HE DRIVES ME TO SCHOOL, he goes to school after I get out of school so I can watch the baby. I dont think im being a bad mom, Im trying to keep MY family together, i dont want my baby to feel like her parents are separated, i want BOTH of us to see her grow. So be honest.. do i sound like a horrible mom? or is it just my mom?!!

Dont judge me. I know being a mom at 15 (almost 16) years old is not good,but i love my daughter and I dont regret bringging her into my life, i just wish it was later on that she came in the picture. I have been spending 1 year raising my daughter, I love her so much nobody understands. She is my little angel she's so beautiful, me and her daddy and her are ALWAYS together. My mom- She judges me constantly when she see's me with my boyfriend. She embarrases me and curses him out everytime she see's him, she looks at him disgustively it obviously upsets me because thats my boyfriend and my daughters dad. Me and him have been together for 3 years I was 13 when we first started dating..Oh so young! haha, well things didnt really get serious until I turned 14, I got pregnant around the 4rth week of me being 14! It was horrible !! But me and him have made it this long and I'm hoping we get married someday. He's 17 about to be 18 in a week, he's a freshman in college, and his family is very wealthy, we dont use his family to pay for our baby's bills but when we need a hand they are always there. Back to my mom, my boyfriend has his apartment that his parents will pay for until he graduates college So me and my daughter basically live there when my controlling mother lets me go. I think its HIDEOUS and RETARTED that I have to ASK my mom to spend the night at my baby's fathers apartment. I think its stupid! Im in his apartment right now and im planning on staying for as long as I want to until my mom comes and hunts me down. Do you think she has the right to take me away from my boyfriend? She calls me a bad mom because of this. She says im going to end up dropping out of high school because of my daughter. I'm a junior right now but im taking classes online so I can graduate of high school on September. I dont think im being a bad mom, Im trying to keep MY family together, i dont want my baby to feel like her parents are separated, i want BOTH of us to see her grow. So be honest.. do i sound like a horrible mom? or is it just my mom?!!

I had one with my daughter at 17 weeks because I was really anxious to know the sex right away. she was skeletal since it was so early but i still very much enjoyed it!. Also All through my pregnancy I had several Ultrasounds and had a ton of pictures. Im now pregnant with number 2 and I only had the 20 wk scan and got like 3 photos and I more than likely will not have anymore since everything has been very normal. I am starting to want a 3d/4d ultrasound because i feel like i will regret not having one when im not pregnant anymore.. Did you have one? and how many weeks were you? Would you do it again? Im 30 weeks this week am i too far along for it to turn out good? I heard that 28 wks is the best time frame... Thanks for any input! well they have a special for 99$ so thats whats really making me want one even more!

I found out about a month ago I was pregnant, had to wait until a scan to find out how far along so my boyfriend and I made the decision to not tell many people until the dates were figured out and I was in the 2ns trimester. One of the early people I told was my sister because she is also pregnant. I told her to not tell anyone because of the situation with the dates, and she was cool with it at first. About a week later she started pressuring to make me tell the rest of the family. I refused at first but yesterday I caved and told my other sister thinking it would satisfy her. Now she's pressuring me to tell my parents. I told her I cnnot tell her until after the 22nd because I'm working 17 hours a day, 7 days a week until then. Also yesterday she accidentally texted me with a text meant for another person claiming she couldn't picture 'her' with a baby because she was 'not that mature yet' I informed her of the wrong text, and said thank you for the support. She apologized and said the text was about someone else, that she knows '6' people in the 1st trimester. I'm not sure what I should do about her to quit pressuring me? Also, for those who want my reasons as to why I am not immature. I am in the military and have served in combat zones, I already have civilian action plans implemented to care for my child, 3 of rhem if one should fail. - also would like to apologize if the first paragraph appears as a giant block of text, I am posting this from my blackberry and formating is harder to do with a limited screen view. Thank you for your time.

I live with my parents and siblings and they all walk around in the house naked in public. This includes my mom and siblings only. They are all females but I am a guy. When we sit at the table for breakfast, lunch, dinner or what ever they are always naked. I am always dressed. When I ask them why this is happening, they always say it's normal and is a good thing. So I touched my mom and all my sisters like fully felt them and stick things up their *** and vagina. I am 17 years old. So every morning, I bath my mom and sisters in the same bath tub. Now, we all do a lot of nasty things including licking each others private areas.It has been 3 weeks where I have been having sex with all of them. And I mean all of them including my mom. My Dad is divorced with my mom. I have been having sex with all of them for 3 weeks. Now I get turned on when I come home from school. I have had sex with them from the back and have done everything with them but sex in the front private area. So I am ready today to make them pregnant because if they all get kids I think that would be very neat. I would have 5 wives. Now my sisters are , 15,17,19,22 and my mom is 45. Can I possibly marry them all? What papers will I need? Is this normal or weird? Am I doing the right thing? They said it makes them happy when we have sex. Please, serious answers only.

Im 17 weeks pregnant and our ultrasound didn go as well as i thought it would. i have some pictures so what do i do??

I'm currently 17 weeks pregnant with our 5th child. With our others, we always found out the gender of the baby but with this one, we think it would be fun to wait. My only concern is, I think it's going to get extremely annoying having people asking "Is it a boy or a girl?" and me having to reply "We decided not to find out" and then having them standing back looking at me trying to make their little guesses of what it is. I can just picture that happening with every person who asks what the gender is. For those of you who waited, is this what happened? How easy was it to wait? Thanks!

My SIL(who is also a DIL of MIL like me)wants everyone else it seems to take care of her child. She drops our nephew off at her parents(her dad does stained glass panes in the house, on carpet, so there is exposure to lead that worries both me and my husband b/c our nephew is so little)before he even wakes up, and doesn't go and get him until late into the evening(like 8 pm or later, and she gets off work well before this, and so does BIL). Our nephew then goes to bed at 9pm, and she makes BIL get up w/ him if he wakes up in the night(BIL also has to get up MUCH earlier than her to go to work). She has also more than once since he was less than a month old just left him w/ someone and ran off several hours away to drink and hang out. On weekends, she either drops him off the same as during the week w/ her parents or she drops him off w/ MIL and FIL for the day, then goes and does what ever she wants(just for some perspective here, I have not gone anywhere in months b/c MIL & FIL refuse to watch our son who is a bit older, anytime there is anything both my husband and I want to go to, only my husband is allowed to go, and I have to stay home. If she and FIL do watch him on a whim, my husband and I are only allowed to go to the shopping center up the street->1 mile away- no further). If our nephew cries more than a little bit, and she cannot fix it by shoving a bottle in his face or his pacifier in his face, she says that he is being a "bad baby" and starts talking about popping his butt(he is only barely 4 mos old- he lacks the ability at this point to do things on purpose). She also was feeding him baby food at 2 mos old, and getting mad at him b/c he wasn't eating it "the right way". Both my husband and I are very concerned about our nephew. However, anytime we try to voice this concern to MIL, she just responds w/ " Then baby-sit". Both her and SIL have been on a mission since GMIL(whom my husband was taking care of for the last 10 yrs.due to MIL's not wanting to take responsiblity) died late last year to make my husband and I become SIL and BIL's 24/7 on demand childcare providers(and did I mention they expect us to do this for FREE?). Like no notice, they can just show up on our doorstep 24/7 and drop our nephew off for however long they feel like, and not pick him up until they feel like it. Given the situation w/ GMIL, I put my foot down and said no way b/c my husband has not been able to work a job for the last 10 years b/c he was having to do essentially this same thing, only for MIL, not to mention SIL is one of those ppl who you do something once for them, and they expect you to do it for them every time thereafter, then pitch a holy fit if you don't(SIL is also the favorite DIL by more than one persons observation, & MIL lets her do whatever she wants to our nephew, even if it is harmful to him, whereas w/ my son if I so much as breathed wrong around him, she was all over me like a rash; she even shows preference to SIL's son). There is no way my husband and I can afford to do this for free for them. They also never will watch our son, they all but refuse to(MIL and FIL are the only ppl we have to watch our son, as my parents have been out of the picture for some time). I am also 17 weeks pregnant, and in school, and my husband is doing school online and watching our son during the times I am in class 3 days a week. What should we do?

i have been with my boyfriend for tha past year and a half and were madly in love with each other. i started seeing him when i was about 17 years old and he just turned 19. I never told anyone in my family about him except fo my lil sister and my cousin's. My parents wants me to focus on ma education and i know they wouldn't accept him because he doesnt have much. he got kick out of HS when he was 17 and never got his diploma , dat still didnt keep me from loving him because he was the only person who actually listen to me he gave me strength to do what i want to do my parents are very protective so i couldnt do anything. I lost my virginity to him on da day of his birthday i nver planned it or anything it just happened.( it hurt like hell he wanted to stop but i told him keep going). about 3 weeks later we broke up he got back with his ex and i was pissed off but i neveer stopped loving him. 3 months later we got back together he told me he made a mistake and i met his mom pretty much everyone close to him .His family loves me because im not like his ex. I love his family they are honest and close. he always wanted to meet my parents but i told him no not yet im not ready. He ask me if i was ashamed of him i was shocked and told him no and im not even though he's not what my parents pictured. i'm crazy fo him. him and i weve always had unprotected sex because it felt better well around 2 weeks before thanksgiving i found out that im pregnant im shocked and freaking out thinking wat da hell im gonna do. he's happy about it he wants to marry me but im going to wake forest university. im happy to but more scared b/c my parents are gonna kill me im gonna graduate , we have no money he doesnt have a job and cant find one. He told his family they are very exicted. 5 weeks into my pregnancy i told him i wanna get an abortion because we cant afford it what da hell are we gonna do. hes pissed off and he wants to keep it i freaked out and decide to get an abortion anyway he is pissed of out his mind when he finds out. i was gonna tell him but i didn't want to right now b/c he's going through a tough time . he tells me doesn't wanna be wit me anymore he cant trust me. im scared of loosing him so that night we talked it out and i he told he me he cant live without me but he cnt forgive me it will take some time. Im ok wit dat so a month later i let him meet my older brother and his family and they got along pretty well. Im thinking dats great. 2 weeks later after meeting my brother he tells me dat he wants to go on vacation to go visit he's cousin im thinking dats a bad idea b/c he has an interview da same week he told me he will be back on time. Me feeling horrible for getting da abortion i decide i wanna give him a baby even though were not ready were gonna have one. well he decide to go visit his (fake) cousin i think. he never came back when he was suppose to and its been a week since he got there he never calls me im freaking out thinking something bad happened to him because dis guy is always on time. well i finally got his FAKE cousin phone # i think and i call a girl pick up thinking its his cousin im polite and ask to speak to him. Im pissed off and out of nowhere he tells me dat he doesn't wanna be together no more dats he's girl im shocked thinking dis is a joke. he hung up and i decide to call him again dis time she picks up again and start cussing at me and she let me talk to him. i told him im pregnant and dat i hate him im gonna get an abortion ( which i would never do because i love him and our child). he got pissed off and hang up. well i text him and i ask him how da hell could he do dis to us, why he try to get me pregnant , he an ass i wish that he wasnt da father i said some horrible things because i was pissed off at him. well he finally talk to me all he said is dat he wants be there for da baby. i told him of course. im still in love wit him and i dnt know if he still love me he gets mad everytime i say dat im moving on and i bring up my ex who still talk to me and whos basically everything my parents would love. He even called me a whoe and told me he doesn't wanna talk to me. i ask him why da hell is he upset were not together anymore. he doesnt answer. I ask him if he still love me he doesnt answer. i ask him wat about her he doesnt answer. i told him that if he really wants me to leave him alone just tell me dat u dnt love me anymore. he won't say it. i dnt know what da hell his problem is. we are madly in love wit each other i dnt true love doesn't die in a month. I wanna be wit him but wat he did hurt me really badly. i dont know what to do. i wanna know should i move on . if dis guy still love me.

I'm 17 with a 1 1/2 year old son Ryan. Me and his Dad dated but aren't since I had Ryan. His family is great, and I talk to his sister on msn. Hes a year younger then me. We have joint custody, so one week his house one week mine. He likes to party on the weekends. I don't, I haven't since I got pregnant, and I babysit almost every weekend to get money. Me and his twin sister were talking on msn about how he was out ALL weekend, and he had Ryan this weekend, and his Mom watched after him. I'm pretty upset because he wasn't with his son when he had the chance. I seen pictures on face book of this weekend and he looked drunk obviously. Do I have the right to be mad, maybe talk to him at school? (we hardly talk, only when I pick ryan up etc..) thank you!

i have booked a private scan for saturday and i will be 17 weeks and 3 days pregnant but i was just wondering if they will be able to tell me the sex of my baby!! i only booked the scan as i wanted to do a few extra scans than what you get on the NHS so i can see my baby's progress & get more pictures (memories) but i am really really excited to find out the sex!! what does everyone think... you think they will be able to tell me? thanks xxxx

I have a daughter who is 14 months old. Back when her mom and I dated, when she was pregnant with my daughter she was abusive towards me. She used to hit and bite me and I started taking pictures of it. She cheated on me while she was pregnant so we broke up. A few weeks after we broke up she started dating someone who she told everyone was the babys father. He started calling me saying he's going to sign the birth certificate and get out of their life. They started messaging me on myspace telling me to "follow in my uncles footsteps and shoot myself" and a lot of other mean things. I saved them all and printed them. One day I was walking with some friends and the mother seen us and followed us. She called 2 kids from another city to come jump us and they surrounded us. They had bats with them and I called the police. The police came and confiscated the bats and told everyone to go home. Her and her boyfriend broke up and the mother and I got back together for the childs sake. I lived with her for 2 1/2 months up till the time my daughter was born because when she was 2 days old her mother was sleeping with her in the bed with their 3 boxers (dogs about 50-70 lbs). I said something to her about how its unsafe and they kicked me out and I called children services. The mother told me if her and I broke up she wouldn't let me see my daughter anymore. I broke up with her and started saving up for court. I haven't really seen her much in the past year because I hired a good attorney and i'm now starting to go to court. The mother has dated 2 other guys since then that have both lived with her and is still dating the second one. Both of them have tried to get me to fight them and told me they are the father. The mother has been talking to other people and have said she "wishes she could find someone to kill me" and "she just wants me dead". I took screenshots of it all and printed them. So since she has been pregnant she has been sexually active with 5 different guys and 4 of them have lived with her and right now she is only 17. So she still lives with her parents and her father has an attempt to possess drug pharaphernalia charge, an attempt to possess marijuana charge, a domestic violence charge, a dui charge, a drug pharaphernalia charge and possession of marijuana charge. He is on probation and when I lived with them for 2 1/2 months he was still smoking marijuana and drinking every weekend. None of them go to church or are religious and the mother and boyfriend have no job nor do they have health insurance for my daughter. I live with my parents still, none of us have a police record. My mother and I go to church every weekend. There's 5 of us that have a job in the house. And whenever I get visitation i'm getting my daughter insurance. Over that past 2 years I have kept a folder of pictures when the mother abused me, I kept record of everything she's said like getting mad at her mom and saying "I wish you would put a gun in your mouth and pull the trigger" and I have printed off anything I could find on the internet where she is talking about wanted me dead. I also went to the police station and got the police incident printed out when she had those kids come to jump me. I gave it all to my attorney and in a few weeks we are taking her to court to get sole custody of my daughter. Given the situation, what are my chances of getting sole custody?

i ask this because about a month ago me and my girl friend believed she was pregnant. at first i was scared and worried...then later into it and after seeing the sonogram picture of it i started to look forward to it...thought it would be nice being a father.....later in to the relationship wat she was saying made no sense...soo i questioned it and about 2-3 week of her saying she was pregnant i finally cornered her with questions into telling the truth which was that she wasn't pregnant...sense then i have broken up with her...yet i am still depressed and very angry at times....it got to the point were i would punched wholes in wall and did drugs i didn't know wat to do...and i don't want to continue with wat im doing....i just want to be happy and with out issues like drugs in my life...im 17 years old and don't want nor need this in my life please help.

It was an unplanned pregnancy and everyone was against it and now that times are a little hard, like getting around and getting prepared, I feel like I don't deserve the help and feel ashamed to ask for any from my family. I had my first daughter when I was 17 and I couldn't picture my life without her, but everyone was much more supportive back then....11 years ago....and her father stood by me at the time. Now he's long gone and this baby's father is in prison, I'm half way through my degree which I put off for 10 YEARS. Now I feel guilty for feeling this way, what will get me back in the swing of things??

I'm 17. Last year, my dad married this woman and she is a crazy alcoholic. -I was purposely excluded out of their wedding and wasn't invited to the reception either but everyone else was. I cried when I saw the pictures. -I've been accused of abusing her dog when I was NOT! I wasn't abusing it, I was playing with him. She started yelling and screaming at me when she was drunk because of it. She refused to believe me. I've been accused of stealing her rolling pins. Like WTF? -Her 25 year old son moved in a few weeks ago into the bedroom next to me and I have to share my bathroom with him. He's only living with us because he's a spoiled rotten brat who doesn't want to pay bills even though he has a full time job and can afford an apartment. He's not poor, he has an expensive motorcycle and truck. My stepmom goes through my bathroom and bitches about how much "shit" I have when I barely even have anything. She throws a bunch of my stuff away without my permission such as my facial scrubs & masks & hair products. I feel like I have been pretty much kicked out of my bathroom. His girlfriend pratically moved in with us also and she uses my bathroom and showers in my shower. They act like the hallway that my bedroom & bathroom is in is their mini apartment. She is trying to get pregnant and I wouldn't be surprised if I get kicked out of my bedroom so they can use it as a nursery. I always get yelled at to clean up my step brother's messes. On Christmas, my step brother starts yelling & screaming at everyone and I am not an emotional person but he made me cry my eyes out when I didn't even do anything to him. My step mom gets drunk and starts cursing at my dad and yells at him to get out of his house and probably physically hurts him. Living in this house is nothing more than yelling and screaming constantly and I am getting depressed. I have red eyes, I sleep 12+ hours a day, I have bags under my eyes. I can't take this anymore. Also, I swear on my life that I have NOT done ANYTHING to ANYONE!!!!! What should I do?

Okay here's the deal: -He's 17. -Married -His wife is a friend of mine actually -Told him I had a crush on him -Wife is a few weeks pregnant -I've known him for 7 years and we've always been close.. -He wrote poems talking about how he loved me and he even drew pictures of us together with him kissing my forehead and my name on his arm... - He didn't tell me about the pictures and stuff...his little sister did...the last thing he wrote was Christmas morning and how he wanted to spend it with me -I wrote things about him and he doesn't know yet.. -He never did anything like this for his ife..even when they were dating.. -He gave me a promise ring in the 5th grade and I still have it.. -We promised we wouldn't have a relationship a while back..I was wondering if he ever wanted to date and I missed my chance to ask himt\...but the thing is..I'm single and.. I still like him v_v I don't know what to do....I want to be with him but the wife and the baby....is stopping it....he even told me he didn't really love her but he doesn't want to break her heart...what should I do? But he told me he doesn't love her..so I'm wrong for still liking him?

I am 17 weeks and 3 days along. I see all these other women's pictures and they are huge by now and all the websites talking about how much weight you should have gained by now.. I'm not very big showing wise, you can't even tell im pregnant unless I have a really tight shirt on and stick it out a bit. Should I be worried I'm not growing very quick? This is my first child and i've heard the heartbeat twice and first sono will be jan 18th. http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=18559986&albumID=3051669&imageID=70159136 this is my even sticking it out a little bit! Cause I wanted to look bigger than I am.. lol

this is an unplanned pregnancy. my boyfriend at the time aged 21, decided to completely stop all communication when i let him know i was pregnant (i found out when I was 3.5 weeks pregnant). he wouldn't discuss anything at all, just ignored my calls etc. He is at uni and in second year studying law I emailed inviting him to scans (no response), sent scan pictures, he basically pretended i didn't exist. when i was 17 weeks pregnant, after managing to find out his mum's address I wrote her a long letter telling her anything. The day she received it, she must have called my ex, because he finally made contact. He wrote a brief email, telling me he didn't want to hear from me, and that he had his whole life ahead of him and he didn't want me ruining it... he also suggested that I should get an abortion ( 17 weeks pregnant), he said not to involve his parents. He said he would give financial aid .... bascially said he would appreciate it if he didn't contact him again and not to expect a message from him. do you think it is likely when his baby is born he will want to see her, or do you think thats it he will basically never ever see her? Any thoughts? Thanks in advance x

this is an unplanned pregnancy. my boyfriend at the time aged 21, decided to completely stop all communication when i let him know i was pregnant (i found out when I was 3.5 weeks pregnant). he wouldn't discuss anything at all, just ignored my calls etc. He is at uni and in second year studying law I emailed inviting him to scans (no response), sent scan pictures, he basically pretended i didn't exist. when i was 17 weeks pregnant, after managing to find out his mum's address I wrote her a long letter telling her anything. The day she received it, she must have called my ex, because he finally made contact. He wrote a brief email, telling me he didn't want to hear from me, and that he had his whole life ahead of him and he didn't want me ruining it... he also suggested that I should get an abortion ( 17 weeks pregnant), he said not to involve his parents. He said he would give financial aid .... bascially said he would appreciate it if he didn't contact him again and not to expect a message from him. do you think it is likely when his baby is born he will want to see her, or do you think thats it he will basically never ever see her? Any thoughts? Thanks in advance x

I am more of a tomboy. Plus I weigh 209 and am 5'6 i used to be 140lbs and attractive. I cut my hair a lil above my shoulders, and i wear it up alot. I hardly ever wear makeup. I am 26 weeks pregnant with my 2nd child. I have been with my husband for 3 yrs and he has seen my pregnant 4 times.(2miscarriages) I was pregnant even when we got together. I wonder if he thinks I always look liked this? He has seen pictures of me when i looked "good" but i was 17 and b4 i was pregnant ( i am 21 now) i dont buy real expensive clothing i shop at walmart alot of times. I try not to blow alot of money on me i have bills, a 3 yr old, and a baby on the way.I have alot of stretch marks on my stomach all the way up to my boobs. Also where Ive been pregnant so many times my boobs arent up that high and are alot bigger than they was(40d)I dont wear dresses or high heels !!! I need some tips on how to be more attractive.I know my husband cant be attracted to me. (his last girlfriend was 150-180lbs i would say. he said he wasnt attracted to her that she wasnt that pretty he might have told me that because i dont like her. (out of 12 girls he has been with in his lifetime over half of them were skinny) what should i do?

I Had unprotected sex 3 weeks ago, which was right after my period was over. My period is usually on the dot and every 28 days. I know for a fact there was an "accident" which has raised my concerns. My boobs usually hurt around 5 days before my period. Instead my nipples hurt real bad about 10 days earlier then expected, but my boobs didnt. Today 12/17 i started what i think might be my period. at first it was brown, and gradually turned red...although not too dark I dont have a very heavy flow as i normally should, because every single period i have a heavy flow. I dont have a heavy flow...its light so which is making me think that it is implantation bleeding since its a week before my expected period. But i have no idea. i did go to the doctor 2 days ago and was told i have a urinary tract infection so im wondering if a UTI can possibly lighten my period. I am still having cramps. casual headaches. So please help me out in letting me know. I would also need to know when a pregnancy test should come into the picture.

Here is a little background story: Before I started going out with my boyfriend, he was living with his former girlfriend (we will call her Beth but that's not her real name). She lives by St. Louis so he moved in with her for about 7 months to "make things work." After awhile, Beth just dumped him out of the blue while he was back in Chicago visiting his family and wanting to move back home. After he fully moved back to his house in Chicago, she started texting him saying good night and that she loves him. After about 2 months of that, my boyfriend and I got together in December 2008. All of a sudden in Feb/March, she starts to contact him again. She started threatening me and saying really rude things that I am not going to repeat. I was 17, which she was 18 so if she hit me then it would be a problem. At that time, I was pregnant so it was making me extremely nervous that he could possibly leave me for her. Out of no where, she files an order of protection against him for no reason considering we live 6 hours away from her. After his mom passed away, she dropped it saying that it was because his mom died. She even came to Chicago to "visit friends" and she stopped by his parents house where his brother told her off because my boyfriend was working. Fast forward to recently: Beth started contacting my boyfriend again. Now she is going too far by saying that she is going to have sex with him, do other dirty things with him, and that she is going to visit him next week. She even mentions that she wants to have phone sex with him. Beth even went as far as sending a picture of her bare butt with a sex toy. We can't take it anymore. He told her to leave him alone and if she stops by his house again then he will call the cops because its getting ridiculous. Nothing that he says to her is working. We're scared that if he stops replying to her then she will show up when she visits unannounced. She still calls him all the time. What should we do or say? We thought that we could handle it but obviously, we can't. Sorry its long but I wanted to give a little background so you could understand what we've been going through. Please help. When he replied to Beth, he said really mean things to her like she is fat and stuff just to keep her away. She sent the naked picture through myspace so we reported it and all myspace did was delete the picture from the album. Then my boyfriend took pictures of her, ripped them up, put them in our cats litter box, and sent them to her via myspace. Can he still go and try to get an order of protection against her? Also, I lost my baby due to a miscarriage. During that month that she was bothering us, my favorite uncle died, my dog died, and my boyfriends mom died. I was really stressed out and depressed...I had to have a D&C to remove my baby...

My husband was not ready to have our baby when I conceived it. This is the second marriage for both of us and each of us has 2 kids from our previous marriages. All the kids are with us on the weekends only. So we have a lot of time together at home..After 3 years of marriage, I badly wanted another one with him but he was not too keen on the idea. Adamant to have one before I reach 35 (I’m now 34), I removed the IUD without his knowledge and shortly after that, I got pregnant. He was not too happy about it but changed his mind after his closest buddy talked some sense into him. Since then, he has been quite supportive and receptive of the baby I am carrying. My only problem is that, he is losing interest in the intimacy department. We used to be very passionate. I was sexy prior to the pregnancy, fit and toned. But eversince getting PG, I wasn’t as fit and toned and of course gaining some pounds. He once told me that he doesn’t find a pregnant woman sexy at all. And by his actions (or inaction) confirms it. A few days ago, I came across a picture and a short video of a close friend and colleague of his in a very sexy pose on his mobile. Of course I confronted him about it and he naturally denied there’s anything going on between them. He assured me that he loves me and our family and that I am the only one for him. I know this other woman and have talked to her before. She assured me that there’s nothing going on between the two of them and she treats him only like a brother. I am quite certain there’s nothing going on between them but her flirtatious nature and their closeness make me very uncomfortable. She shares all her problems and goes out lunch with him very often (just the two of them). I know my husband can be easily drawn towards that kinda woman. What can I do to draw him back home? He is good father and I have never rejected to his sexual advances… I don’t know what more I could do considering the condition that I am in now… please help. I don’t want to lose him or a failed marriage again.. First of all, let me just tell Holeemel that you are just so mean. I cannot accept your response. Maybe I should also add that we still have sex like 3 times a week and sometimes like twice on a weekend vs to having it like every other day prior to me getting PG. So that's why I feel something is missing there. We did talk about having a baby and he knows that I wish to have another one so he wasn't at all that surpised when I conceived. Yes, he was was not financially ready for it but trusting that I can help out on he becomes very accepting of the baby now. Talks to my tummy and accompanies me to Dr appointment. He proudly shares the news to his family and friends..So Holeemel, you are so wrong..

She plans on keeping the baby and moving in with the 17 year old and his parents. This 17 year old is a total loser. He used to sell drugs, but now he works at an ice cream shop. He burned a house down when he was 9, and served 4 years in juvi for it. He's such a pervert that it should be illegal. The first time I met him, he hit on me-right in front of my own daughter! He said that he would love to "stick his dick in my mouth and poke a hole in the back of my head" I was so horrified and embarrassed and angry that I kicked both him and my daughter out. I don't know why I let her date him in the first place. I really should have put my foot down, but oh well. She's only two weeks pregnant (apparently, my daughter takes a pregnancy test every week "just to be safe."), so she could abort it, if she wanted to. This guy wants to be a part of the picture and help her raise the baby, but he also got another girl pregnant and bailed out on her. (last year, he got a 15 year old girl pregnant.) He also only works part time and lives in his parent's garage. His father ( who just got out of jail for possession of drugs and 3rd degree rape) is unemployed and beats his wife. I don't want my daughter in that kind of environment, but I also don't have the extra room to accommodate a man and a baby. I'm at my wits end here. What should I do? btw, I'm on my brother's account. I don't have a husband

Ok, well its a little more than that, when I was 6 years old my father died. That in and of its self is hard. I still cry to this day and in less than a week I will be 20. So 14 years now. When I was 17 starting my senior year of high school I got pregnant. I had my beautiful daughter, her name is Alaina. I love her to death but I gave her up for adoption. It's an open adoption which helps a lot but I'm NOT "mommy" which is so hard. I still get to see pictures of her, they upload them online. I just wish I could raise her, everyone says I did whats best, I'm sure I did. I just sit here and watch as all these girls around me, friends, family, acquaintances, are getting pregnant and keeping their babies. It's not fair, first I lose my father, now my daughter. She will be a year and 8 months on Christmas. I know I would of been a good mom. Or at least I think I would've been. It's just tough cause I have done so much with out my dad, I went to school, got good grades, graduated early and still walked with my class, had my daughter, gave her up, enlisted in the military, I'm becoming an EMT-B, I also might deploy. All of this without him. I just am hoping someone could give me advice on how to deal with not having my baby, or my father.

i remember we had sex last (last week) of sept 2008 and few months after we broke up, then she told me that she is pregnant, i have to leave the country coz of my work, then this may 2009 she gave birth to a baby girl. she said its mine, but i am not sure coz am not the only one who is sleeping with her.. i asked her many times but she said its really mine but i doubt about it. i pray that its not really mine coz i am already tired of supporting her financially and i dont want my present gf to know about it. i only send her money every month for the milk and for my guilt as am scared that she might go to my family and destroy my reputation. i never saw the baby girl until today 04DEC09..she delivered the baby girl last mid-may 2009. when i saw the picture today, baby girl is in standing position in the pic. as if she's already walking or at least trying to learn her first step.. my question is, how will i know if she's not only lying to me and that she's only after my financial support (coz the original father might have already left her) and for the record, i met this girl in a bar and the next day, she was already in my haus, drinking and things happened very fast.. i never really had a chance to know her better.. and my one problem also is she was only 17 and i am already at legal age.. i was afraid that her family might sue me for corrupting minors.. i am so stupid. now, am trying to understand if this baby girl is really mine coz when i saw the her 6 and a half month old pic today.. i didnt feel any blood connection or instict that she's my daughter. i need your help please.. what and how will i know if she is my daughter or not. please, please help.. thank you so much for your time reading this. godbless. thanks.. i was hoping that paternity is the last thing to do.. thanks anyway..

I am 17, my ex is 21. I am 32 weeks pregnant with him and he really didn't take the news to well. We have been on and of for 2 years and had a really good relationship, however things went wrong when i found out i was pregnant in may, he was really not happy but he came around to see me one day, was half and half ok with me and wanted to feel my belly after that and he went home i could not get him to talk to me at all A few days later i went to tell his parents and they where great about it at the start, really supportive, they kept ringing to see how i was and how things were going and wanted scan pictures and everything. Then in late june my ex decided to tell them that the baby was nothing to do with him. Me and my ex didnt talk for a while then i August he got in contact, asking if i had anyone else and i had slept with anyone else and what i was going to call the baby. Then of his own back he said he wanted the names Miles or Grace, i thought things were going good then a few days later he stopped talking to me completly.. I was so confused. Ever since then i have heard nothing, he has done everything to make me look the bad person, he told his parents that he had, had no contact with me what so ever in august and told them i was slagging them of, which i wsnt :( His parents told him to change his number ( think this was to stop us rowing and he has :( His parents want to be involved but i think they would like a DNA test which i have already said i am more than willing to do. i really did think with everything he has said he would be comeing back, but today i found out he has been seeing someone new for a couple of months, but the thing i dont understand is she is 16 years old and he is TWENTY ONE!!!, he hardly sees her and has hardly wrote on her facebook, so i dont really think its anything, its really killing me, i feel so lost. i don't know what to do, I saw her facebook page and its nothing like me and him used to be he just simply writes ' i miss you.x ' every now and again.. i cant understand how he could do this? after being with me for two years and being so close and his talking about baby names and everything... I know this is not the point before anyone else says i should just be concentrating on the baby, i aleady know that! but i really need some advice on this! Do you think he has just moved on to try and forget!? Surely he cant of just forgotten about me already?! please i need your take on the situaiton,im ablsoutly heartbroken, i cant sleep at night :( please help

I am 17, my ex is 21. I am 32 weeks pregnant with him and he really didn't take the news to well. We have been on and of for 2 years and had a really good relationship, however things went wrong when i found out i was pregnant in may, he was really not happy but he came around to see me one day, was half and half ok with me and wanted to feel my belly after that and he went home i could not get him to talk to me at all A few days later i went to tell his parents and they where great about it at the start, really supportive, they kept ringing to see how i was and how things were going and wanted scan pictures and everything. Then in late june my ex decided to tell them that the baby was nothing to do with him. Me and my ex didnt talk for a while then i August he got in contact, asking if i had anyone else and i had slept with anyone else and what i was going to call the baby. Then of his own back he said he wanted the names Miles or Grace, i thought things were going good then a few days later he stopped talking to me completly.. I was so confused. Ever since then i have heard nothing, he has done everything to make me look the bad person, he told his parents that he had, had no contact with me what so ever in august and told them i was slagging them of, which i wsnt :( His parents told him to change his number ( think this was to stop us rowing and he has :( His parents want to be involved but i think they would like a DNA test which i have already said i am more than willing to do. i really did think with everything he has said he would be comeing back, but today i found out he has been seeing someone new for a couple of months, but the thing i dont understand is she is 16 years old and he is TWENTY ONE!!!, he hardly sees her and has hardly wrote on her facebook, so i dont really think its anything, its really killing me, i feel so lost. i don't know what to do, I saw her facebook page and its nothing like me and him used to be he just simply writes ' i miss you.x ' every now and again.. i cant understand how he could do this? after being with me for two years and being so close and his talking about baby names and everything... I know this is not the point before anyone else says i should just be concentrating on the baby, i aleady know that! but i really need some advice on this! Do you think he has just moved on to try and forget!? Surely he cant of just forgotten about me already?! please i need your take on the situaiton,im ablsoutly heartbroken, i cant sleep at night :( please help

my friend is 14 and is claiming she is pregnant her boyfriend is 17 she has showed her friend her scan pictures and says she went to it with her boyfriend people have been telling me they wouldn't of allowed her to have one without her parents. is she making it up the midwife (or whatever they are called) at the scan told her the baby is about 12 weeks old

I'm 17 weeks pregnant and I don't find I really look all that pregnant.. I have a tummy anyways and my pants are tighter and I can't wear belts & such but I don't find I grew any... Is this normal? I take pictures every 2 weeks laying downa and I see a difference then but not when I stand. I also am not sure what my uterus feels like, I push on my belly 2 inches under my belly button like they say and I'm not so sure I can feel it, anywheres in my stomach! It just feels the same everywheres. I can feel the baby though like the heavyness from him/her but I can't feel the hardness of the uterus.. When my doctor listened for the heartbeat at my last appointment she was feeling really low and said it was still down low, that was 2 weeks ago, What should I really be feeling for, a hard roundness orrr?

I'm 17 (yes, young, I know) and 29 weeks pregnant with a baby girl. I love her to death, I really do. I'm enrolled in night school to get my diploma since she's due in February,so I couldn't stay in regular school. I'm working by babysitting since the economy is so hard lately that I couldn't find a job. I had applied to 1-5 places a week, many of them multiple times over a couple months. I feel as if I'm trying and doing well, but my parents keep making me feel like I'm pathetic. I need to clean my room up and move my bed (queen size) out and replace it with a new one (twin size), get rid of multiple pieces of furniture.. My mom is always putting me down when I spend even a dollar for a drink since she can't be bothered to buy anything besides powdered drinks (and almost all citrus, which I can't drink due to the taste) and milk, which I can't drink due to a slight lactose intolerance (I have plenty of calcium through other foods) She puts me down when I sleep in later than normal (I've been spending the past 2 weeks trying to get on a schedule, but I've been so tired lately that it's almost impossible) My stepfather came home today and because I left my bowl on the table, he said I don't care about my mother. Of course, when I try to tell him I do and he knows it, he puts me down more, asking how i'm going to take care of a baby if I can't clean up after myself. If I can't even get everything ready. With both my parents doing these things, half the time I feel like I'm going to be a terrible mother. I want to keep my child. I know I can..but sometimes I feel like I'm just going to end up screwing up my daughter's life. Her father isn't in the picture and will never be in the picture. I've been diagnosed with depression and anxiety,so for all I know, I've passed these on to her. I want the best for her. I want to give her everything. What can I do to make the feeling that I can't do it and that I'll ruin her life stop? I know that stressing in itself is hurting her...

I am 17 and 32 weeks pregnant, my ex is 21. We have been on and of for 2 years and had a really good relationship, however things went wrong when i found out i was pregnant in may, he was really not happy but he came around to see me one day, was half and half ok with me and wanted to feel my belly after that and he went home i ***** get him to talk to me at all A few days later i went to tell his parents and they where great about it at the start, really supportive, they kept ringing to see how i was and how things were going and wanted scan pictures and everything. Then in late june my ex decided to tell them that the baby was nothing to do with him. Me and my ex didnt talk for a while then i August he got in contact, asking if i had anyone else and i had slept with anyone else and what i was going to call the baby. Then of his own back he said he wanted the names Miles or Grace, i thought things were going good then a few days later he stopped talking to me completly.. I was so confused. Ever since then i have heard nothing, he has done everything to make me look the bad person, he told his parents that he had, had no contact with me what so ever in august and told them i was slagging them of, which i wsnt :( His parents told him to change his number ( think this was to stop us rowing and he has :( His parents want to be involved but i think they would like a DNA test which i have already said i am more than willing to do. i really did think with everything he has said he would be comeing back, but today i found out he has been seeing someone new for a couple of months, but the thing i dont understand is she is 16 years old and he is TWENTY ONE!!!, he hardly sees her and has hardly wrote on her facebook, so i dont really think its anything, its really killing me, i feel so lost. i don't know what to do, I saw her facebook page and its nothing like me and him used to be he just simply writes ' i miss you.x ' every now and again.. i cant understand how he could do this? after being with me for two years and being so close and his talking about baby names and everything... Do you think he has just moved on to try and forget!? Surely he cant of just forgotten about me already?! please i need your take on the situaiton

I am 17 and 32 weeks pregnant, my ex is 21. We have been on and of for 2 years and had a really good relationship, however things went wrong when i found out i was pregnant in may, he was really not happy but he came around to see me one day, was half and half ok with me and wanted to feel my belly after that and he went home i ***** get him to talk to me at all A few days later i went to tell his parents and they where great about it at the start, really supportive, they kept ringing to see how i was and how things were going and wanted scan pictures and everything. Then in late june my ex decided to tell them that the baby was nothing to do with him. Me and my ex didnt talk for a while then i August he got in contact, asking if i had anyone else and i had slept with anyone else and what i was going to call the baby. Then of his own back he said he wanted the names Miles or Grace, i thought things were going good then a few days later he stopped talking to me completly.. I was so confused. Ever since then i have heard nothing, he has done everything to make me look the bad person, he told his parents that he had, had no contact with me what so ever in august and told them i was slagging them of, which i wsnt :( His parents told him to change his number ( think this was to stop us rowing and he has :( His parents want to be involved but i think they would like a DNA test which i have already said i am more than willing to do. i really did think with everything he has said he would be comeing back, but today i found out he has been seeing someone new for a couple of months, but the thing i dont understand is she is 16 years old and he is TWENTY ONE!!!, he hardly sees her and has hardly wrote on her facebook, so i dont really think its anything, its really killing me, i feel so lost. i don't know what to do, I saw her facebook page and its nothing like me and him used to be he just simply writes ' i miss you.x ' every now and again.. i cant understand how he could do this? after being with me for two years and being so close and his talking about baby names and everything... Do you think he has just moved on to try and forget!? Surely he cant of just forgotten about me already?! please i need your take on the situaiton

I am 17 and 32 weeks pregnant, my ex is 21. We have been on and of for 2 years and had a really good relationship, however things went wrong when i found out i was pregnant in may, he was really not happy but he came around to see me one day, was half and half ok with me and wanted to feel my belly after that and he went home i ***** get him to talk to me at all A few days later i went to tell his parents and they where great about it at the start, really supportive, they kept ringing to see how i was and how things were going and wanted scan pictures and everything. Then in late june my ex decided to tell them that the baby was nothing to do with him. Me and my ex didnt talk for a while then i August he got in contact, asking if i had anyone else and i had slept with anyone else and what i was going to call the baby. Then of his own back he said he wanted the names Miles or Grace, i thought things were going good then a few days later he stopped talking to me completly.. I was so confused. Ever since then i have heard nothing, he has done everything to make me look the bad person, he told his parents that he had, had no contact with me what so ever in august and told them i was slagging them of, which i wsnt :( His parents told him to change his number ( think this was to stop us rowing and he has :( ) His parents want to be involved but i think they would like a DNA test which i have already said i am more than willing to do. i really did think with everything he has said he would be comeing back, but today i found out he has been seeing someone new for a couple of months :(, its really killing me, i feel so lost. i don't know what to do, I saw her facebook page and its nothing like me and him used to be he just simply writes ' i miss you.x ' every now and again.. i cant understand how he could do this? after being with me for two years and being so close and his talking about baby names and everything... I just don't know what to do :(

I am 17 and 32 weeks pregnant, my ex is 21. We have been on and of for 2 years and had a really good relationship, however things went wrong when i found out i was pregnant in may, he was really not happy but he came around to see me one day, was half and half ok with me and wanted to feel my belly after that and he went home i cudnt get him to talk to me at all A few days later i went to tell his parents and they where great about it at the start, really supportive, they kept ringing to see how i was and how things were going and wanted scan pictures and everything. Then in late june my ex decided to tell them that the baby was nothing to do with him. Me and my ex didnt talk for a while then i August he got in contact, asking if i had anyone else and i had slept with anyone else and what i was going to call the baby. Then of his own back he said he wanted the names Miles or Grace, i thought things were going good then a few days later he stopped talking to me completly.. I was so confused. Ever since then i have heard nothing, he has done everything to make me look the bad person, he told his parents that he had, had no contact with me what so ever in august and told them i was slagging them of, which i wsnt :( His parents told him to change his number ( think this was to stop us rowing and he has :( ) His parents want to be involved but i think they would like a DNA test which i have already said i am more than willing to do. i really did think with everything he has said he would be comeing back, but today i found out he has been seeing someone new for a couple of months :(, its really killing me, i feel so lost. i don't know what to do, I saw her facebook page and its nothing like me and him used to be he just simply writes ' i miss you.x ' every now and again.. i cant understand how he could do this? after being with me for two years and being so close and his talking about baby names and everything... I just don't know what to do :(

So I had my period Sept 29, no October period but I had a period on the 4th of November. On the 17th during the evening I started spotting dark brown and 48 hours later, it has tampered off. I took a pregnancy test yesterday, and only I could see a faint line. I took one today also, and a very very faint line appeared. I will post that picture. So I am wondering if there is any way I could be pregnant, have implantation bleeding and everything only 2 weeks after the last day of my period?? And is there anything else that would cause a faint positive line? When should I test again? I have been a little emotional...just went through a random happy sad cry that lasted 2 mins, snapped out of it and thought I was crazy. Severe evening headaches. Slight cramping. Any advice? http://i402.photobucket.com/albums/pp103/kwiamuffin/IMG00023-20091119-1804.jpg

Last Wednesday my husband and I went to our OB with the hopes we would find out if we were having a boy or girl. Unfortunately, the ultrasound machine was down and we would have to wait another month. My husband, being the most impatient man in the world, asked me to see if we could go to another place to get the u/s done. I found a 4d u/s location that does gender determination after 15 weeks and went in for our appointment Saturday. After 15 minutes of much pushing, the baby finally uncrossed it's legs to reveal nothing was poking out between them, and the technician showed us three areas of light underneath the butt which are markers of a baby girl. We are still having it re-confirmed by the dr in 3 weeks, but looking at the pictures it really looks like there's a little *girl part* down there! Anyone who is pregnant with a girl, does this sound about right? Also, I'm curious when other mommies to be found out the sex of their baby, and if the u/s was correct.

1.My oldest son Victor is 19 he has finished high school and is now going off to college. he is moving out in three weeks always been a straight A student captain of the football team and wrestling team. Today i was in his room putting some of his cloths away and i found 3 grams of weed in his drawer. how do i confront him about finding this? 2. I took my 17 year old son Ace to the doctor today because he thought he might have had an STD but he was very lucky and didn't have one but the doctor told me that he had been doing drugs ETC and weed. that was the first i was told of that i diddidn'tll my son that the doctor told me about it what should i say to him? He is going to be a father in february of twins. 3. My 17 year old daughter Amy broke her leg friday night at one of the football games she is a cheerleader and the doctor said it was so bad that she may never cheer again she has been cheering since she was 5 years old and that was what she wanted to do for a career. is their any thing that might be able to help her get back into cheerleading? 4. My twin 15 year olds have been a handful their whole life Shaylynn is 6 months pregnant with a little girl and last night Emberlynn told me she was 12 weeks pregnant. how do i deal with both my daughters being pregnant? 5. I think my 13 year old son Zane might be gay. i caught him masmasturbating a guys picture. how do i cop with that? thank you for the help even with and answer for one of my questions would be great thank you. i would appreciate it if people didnt call my situation a troll just because my family is a little different doesnt mean i am a troll. and my husband is not around he died three years ago.